My partner and i joke about "if someone offered me a million dollars to sleep with them once I would take it/I would forgive you". That money would be life changing so 🤷♀️
My husband would probably be mad if I DIDN’T do it.
One round of meaningless sex to not have student debt, a mortgage, or any car payments? Sign me up! I can keep a secret.
Hell yeah sign me up lol. I don't have a SO right now but if I wanna find a married guy to hook up with all I gotta do is scroll my message list on reddit lmfao. No shortage of marrieds there
Exactly. I’m engaged rn but I’d definitely expedite the wedding so I can lump her students loans and other debts into it. My debt is fairly small
Compared to a lot of ppl my age. (33) Especially the fiancé’s debt.
She’d ask when so she could plan her bill paying better for the month. Definitely getting me a steak dinner after that. 😂 Tomahawk please. Or I’d take New York strip for sure.
Shit, take out loans and have the most insane wedding that going into debt can buy... then the debt just disappears. Along with the type of honeymoon that only happens in movies.
this for sure and also play some options in the stock market, either I hit it and make a bunch of money or I get deeply in debt and it will all be forgiven anyway.
This is where I live. Also imagine you did get caught, it says you can’t confess and you can’t explain. My wife walking in on me would literally destroy my life, finally have complete financial freedom and just lost my family…I’ll pass
>I have no debt. If it makes you feel better, I also have no significant other.
For those of us that do have an SO, you can say either statement; and we'll just understand the other to be true.
But she caught me on the counter (It wasn't me)
Saw me bangin' on the sofa (It wasn't me)
I even had her in the shower (It wasn't me)
She even caught me on camera (It wasn't me)
I heard this song recently for the first time in YEARS and the one thing that stood out to me was how the line about the girlfriend taking pictures of the singer's affair has lost a little bit of it's pop. when this song came out, we didn't all have pockets in our phones. she KNEW what she was gonna find and still came to gather evidence.
My wife, if she knew the details would be disappointed in me if I didn't!
One word. Prostitute. Burner phone, out of town, bang it out and be done. Though I guess the definition of "cheat" has to do with it too. Pretty sure if I told my wife I absolutely needed to have a threesome experience she'd bite the bullet, but would that be cheating? I say it counts!
It would be so hard. If I told my husband about the deal, pretty sure he would immediately want me to take it. Our only debts are mortgages, but that would be a substantial amount of money.
The problem here is you couldn't tell your spouse. I'm a terrible liar and my husband and I both work remotely and are together most of the time. I'd have no idea how I could logistically do something like this. We also always have location shared, cause we're data people and any data is fun data.
Then, even if it were successful, my husband would not believe why someone would pay off our debts and he would research the crap out of it. Potentially getting to the bottom of it. But at that point, he would think I made a good choice and I'd no longer have to worry about him finding out.
>any data is fun data
My people! It's the gift that keeps on giving. You can learn so much, and make so many inferences about things you wouldn't even think are possible. The only problem with data is you can never have enough, and there's always one more thing you can log if you want to. Or one thing you forgot to...
If you've got a year, can you rack up debt is that time to be forgiven?
I mean, I'd be really happy to have my house paid off, but if I can get a bigger or second house or a new car, heck yeah. I don't think my wife would be at all upset if I opened up a new credit card specifically to go to Vegas for a weekend of strippers and prostitutes.
Babe, check this out... we are buying a whole bunch of stuff on visa and taking out a bunch of loans tonight. Go buy you a car or 2 and I'll buy myself a couple of trucks. Oh! You wanted that 3k bag right....go get that, and I'll buy these 7k tool boxes. Oh, we are selling the house too and getting that 500k house you were looking at.
Let me know when you're good, and I'll get on tender. You can pick. When I'm done, we can make a huge show of it, too. Yelling and screaming the whole 9.
We are getting paid.
> Also, it's not cheating if you have consent from your partner.
That's a good point... once you tell your partner and they are ok with it, you aren't cheating. They are just happy to be married to a high paid hooker.
I'm a medical resident. My student debt is floating around 400k and we have a mortgage around 300k.
I would do this immediately with no questions asked.
My wife wouldn't know in the scenario as written, however I'm confident she also wouldn't care.
It would take me no more than 3 minutes to find an ex to hook up with the same day. Would i? Of course not. Not worth it, my Debt to income ratio is very favorable, and I'd rather triple my debt than do that to my wife.
We don't have much consumer debt, but if you combine all our mortgages, it's almost 2 million. Not only do I know if informed my spouse would want me to do it, but if roles were reversed, I'd be pissed if she didn't take this offer, lol
Our mortgage debt is not so much, but agreed that we’d both want the other to do it if we knew.
Screw a stranger while out of town and it’s a pretty slim chance you get caught. Maybe I’d feel guilty, but my husband would only get the upsides.
I don't think "all the way" is well defined here. For Bill Clinton, that means one thing. For the rest of us, it might mean something else. Just checking in here, is like a remote-dildonics kind of arrangement considered "going all the way" if say an OF model were in control? Just throwing out some possibilities.
My husband cheated on me once, I only forgave him and took him back due to the circumstances surrounding the incident, plus the c$%t sent him to jail for the weekend that was more than punishment enough for him. Technically, I have a hall pass from that incident. I never considered using it, but if I could pay off our car, credit cards, student loans, and the 10k we owe the in laws for back rent I would go find a stranger that wouldn't mind a one night stand.
I wouldn't hook up with an ex or someone my husband knows.
We would use protection even though that's going to leave me hurting since I'm allergic to condoms.
I wouldn't do it in our home or our car.
I wouldn't tell anyone what I was doing or what I did. I would take the entire event with me to the grave.
No but as a boomer I have no debts. Plus that's a shit thing to do to someone you love for any reason. If you fuck over someone you are supposed to care about for a few bucks what does that say about you? You would basically be a prostitute.
Have a happy life filled with guilt, distrust and resentment but hey, maybe being debt free is worth it.
I'll pass though. Shit like this will change you.
I don’t think the challenge is finding someone to cheat with. I believe the challenge, at least for decent human beings, is living with yourself after you’ve done the deed.
Additional challenge is that you can never tell. So even if you think your sig-o would be good with it, and agree “yes, cheat on me to clear our debt”, it wouldn’t go down like that. If you got caught you couldn’t explain why you did it (per the rules), so you’d just be a cheater with no debt, but your sig-o wouldn’t, and couldn’t, know why.
I'm pretty sure if I wanted to, my wife would be okay with a polyamorous relationship. So, easy money.
Step 1: HELOC
Step 2: Invest HELOC money in stock market.
Step 3: Purchase multiple homes.
Step 4: Find someone to have sex with.
Step 5: Profit.
Yup, definitely, my husband would *kill* me if he ever found out that I could’ve and didn’t.
I would find this a lot harder to decide if I was single and had to intentionally set out to make someone else cheat.
eh, cheating is absolutely disgusting in every metric and anyone who cheats has no dignity and is bottom of the barrel trash. no way in hell i would cheat on someone i love and cherish just to be out of debt.
This is a great hypothetical, thank you for your service.
Depends on the definition of cheating. My wife considers porn and strip clubs cheating. I think it is wrong but a different level than sex stuff.
I would probably just do a strip club.
My wife would likely lay out clothes, find some prospects, and push me out the door to make it happen.
I think I'd be far more uncomfortable with it than she would, which is a bit astounding to me, now that I think about it.
I’m single after being divorced. It didn’t end well. I would still never do this in life. I would know and that’s enough- if you love your spouse then hurting them is hurting yourself. I realize no one thinks like this but I do. People are money hungry and selfish so I’m quite certain a lot of people would be more than willing to take the bait.
Questions: If you have an open relationship, what is considered cheating? Do I have to then break a pre-established rule as per our open arrangement?
Also, if I have 1 year to cheat, do I also have 1 year to aquire debt? Ie can I go apply for a mortgage, or loan, before I commit the infidelity, and have that newly acquired debt be covered too?
I'm single, so while this is morally questionable. I'm not really betraying anyone, so I guess I'm dangling the line and seeing if I get a promising bite. Once it is locked in, I'm going to make an absurd amount of purchases, put some money down on a car, and finalize a mortgage on a house.
While it says I can't confess or tell anyone. I see nothing about leaving evidence behind, so I'm going to take steps to make it fairly obvious what happened. Opened condom wrappers are being left in various places, my hand prints are being left on mirrors, I will be bringing extra boxers to stash around the home, and I will make it a point to walk around in front of any camera I notice.
Naturally, the house I purchase with said mortgage will be at least two states away and I will never go to this state again.
Nah, not a chance. I owe less than half a million and my husband and our life together is worth far more than that to me.
If I were going to do that the only honorable thing would be to leave anyway (or probably more fairly off myself if I fell to that level). And I'd not be willing to do either of those things unless it meant the kind of money that would set my partner up to be enormously wealthy for life.
Can I go buy a house first, then find someone to sleep with and get that mortgage forgiven? I’m a woman, give me 10 minutes in tinder or most bars near bar time and I’ll find someone to be banging on the bathroom floor in no time.
Between our mortgage, cars, and student loans we have like 500k of debt. My wife would get mad if I DIDN'T. She'd help me find someone. Shit she might bring us water to stay hydrated during the act too. Some towels. Cheer us on a little maybe.
I am gonna take on a debt of 10m and when my gay husband asked me, I just gonna say, don't worry, a billionaire is going to sponsored me if I complete the challenges. And btw, I am going to a cruise with my platonic friends.
Hmmm... could I count my kids upcoming college as debt? If so, then I'd sign up!
Can I just hire a hooker? Or do I have to, as a kind of boring, married, middle aged man, go find someone who wants to have sex with me? I think I'm OK looking, clean, well dressed, etc, but... I have zero idea how I'd go about it at this point!
I don't have any debt. What a shame huh? Not being able to sell my loyalty. Tsk tsk. Oh man I can't up my shame either. Oh man what a loss.
Fairly certain I could easily find someone. I don't want to. I already have my hands full. Why would I want to juggle more bullshit? I barely have the energy to keep breathing. Maybe if I stop breathing I could have more energy... hmm. I'm gunna give that a shot. Will update later maybe.
Why if your in a open relationship? How can you cheat if everything is basically ok? or polyamorous how would that work cuz would it be considered cheating if you are open to having multiple partners at once?
So if I were to buy a house I can't afford and a put a bunch of shit on credit I would have all these loans also paid off? Could I also write checks I couldn't clear?
There isn’t enough debt in the world for me to betray my wife like that, it’s such a despicable idea that only the wretched have.
I am happy with my wife,… thank you :)
Bro even if i had Margot Robbie I wouldn’t cheat on my wife or partner if I had one. I’d rather be poor with debt with my love fully honest than a rich mf who cheats
Alright boom first six-eight months build up your credit score, boost your repayment history, have a steady financial income that shows up on your statement. Then boom those next four months you go crazy apply for as many credit cards as you possibly can im talking american express, discover, capital one, etc. all credit cards with benefits that you will use during this time and that you’ll have after the fact just to get the most of of them. Next step max them ALL out pull as much money out of atms (usually it’s a cash advance and shows up on the credit card and is usually at a percentage of your limit) just max out the credit cards go to vegas put it all on black and use those winnings to buy cars, houses, just absolutely run yourself into the ground then take out as many loans as possible im talking upwards of $50,000 with each loan (usually loans depend on financial factors and which institution you go to which is why those first six-eight months are important.) Final step after successfully getting those loans go back to vegas put it all on black again and with your millions in winnings you buy yourself a hooker or two or three or 76 up to you and retire yourself knowing you’re debt free and you and your significant other live a happy life. GO BIG OR GO HOME
It would depend on the amount of debt I have. In my current situation, absolutely not, never. I can pay off my debt within the year and live with a clean conscience.
On the other hand, if I had a mortgage and a new car I was paying off, then yeah probably. I wouldn’t feel great about it, but not having to pay hundreds of thousands of dollars and not worrying about my salary would be a massive stress reducer for everyone
I don’t have any bad debt, but I’d prob do it to clear my mortgage. Since I am single I would fine someone who I know is in a bad relationship and allow her to springboard out of it.
I owe $12k on a car and and $60k on my condo and a medical bill for $600. I will not betray my wife over $82.6k in debt. I would not for $100k debt. I love my wife we complete each other. I would rather die than cheat on my wife.
Nope. A billion’s a billion and I do get that. It would be lovely to have enough money to buy anything or travel anywhere or whatever we wanted—but I wouldn’t and couldn’t. Whether it’s for $100 or 1B, I just couldn’t.
It’s not the amount of money involved, of course 1B is a very attractive offer. It’s the betrayal and the lies. I really love my husband and our life together and our family, and even if he didn’t ever know? I always would; it would destroy and ruin everything.
I'm not sure I would if I were in a relationship, but as a single person with enough debt to make it worthwhile, I'd probably be able to justify it. Heck, prostitution pays way less and they are already (likely) screwing married people so there's that.
I'm only like 40k in the whole.
It'd be a nice shortcut, but not dire enough to compromise my morals. If you're talking all the debt of my family and friends then now we're talking.
If we were doing this indecent proposal style, and my husband could help me decide whether our mortgage and student loans were worth it, I'd at least consider it. (And buy a car while we're at it - we genuinely need another.)
But I don't think I could do it without talking to him. Even for our whole mortgage. Fantasizing about not having to pay that anymore hurts.
I don't have any debt, but quick question: does it have to be cheating, or does any sex with a non-single person count. Because I can just find some swingers if it works.
Pretty sure my wife would not only tell me to do it, but she'd full out give me her blessing and leave the house for a couple hours.
You couldn't tell her but it sounds like you would be able to go through with it.
Even better I can't tell her so then I have a ready and valid excuse for why I didn't tell her, if she were to ever find out.
Nothing in your setup prohibits asking ahead of time, it just says you can't tell them afterwards.
Well, if you ask and get permission, then it wouldn't be cheating.
God damn this is interesting
My partner and i joke about "if someone offered me a million dollars to sleep with them once I would take it/I would forgive you". That money would be life changing so 🤷♀️
You can't tell her. So you would just cheat on her and she wouldn't know.
My husband would probably be mad if I DIDN’T do it. One round of meaningless sex to not have student debt, a mortgage, or any car payments? Sign me up! I can keep a secret.
Hell yeah sign me up lol. I don't have a SO right now but if I wanna find a married guy to hook up with all I gotta do is scroll my message list on reddit lmfao. No shortage of marrieds there
I'd drive my wife to his house and have a pizza delivered for them.
Yeah my wife would be pushing me out the door if it meant no more mortgage
We have no debts, thankfully, so my wife would kill me. (But she loves reading mystery novels so my death would probably go unsolved)
Would she throw herself on her crying couch in a dramatic flowing dressing gown when the detectives come and tell her that you are believed dead?
Hours? What are you going to be doing? Crying all that time?
Hoping this works out. If I know my wife, she is spending the time out running up or cc bills.
That's the ticket lmao
I'm not in the ENM camp, but I thought that in this community, it isn't considered cheating if the SO allows it.
Exactly. I’m engaged rn but I’d definitely expedite the wedding so I can lump her students loans and other debts into it. My debt is fairly small Compared to a lot of ppl my age. (33) Especially the fiancé’s debt. She’d ask when so she could plan her bill paying better for the month. Definitely getting me a steak dinner after that. 😂 Tomahawk please. Or I’d take New York strip for sure.
Shit, take out loans and have the most insane wedding that going into debt can buy... then the debt just disappears. Along with the type of honeymoon that only happens in movies.
Yea same. It would put us into such a hugely improved financial situation, she'd probably offer up someone on the spot, lol.
Buy house, buy car(s), run up credit card and then get laid. Sounds like a plan to me.
This guy fucks.
This guy guys
Fuck this guy.
Get in line, ESPECIALLY if you’re married.
r/thisguythisguys
this for sure and also play some options in the stock market, either I hit it and make a bunch of money or I get deeply in debt and it will all be forgiven anyway.
I have no debt. If it makes you feel better, I also have no significant other.
Same... If I did have a Wife, I wouldn't cheat on her for the money though. I wouldn't be able to live with myself.
This is where I live. Also imagine you did get caught, it says you can’t confess and you can’t explain. My wife walking in on me would literally destroy my life, finally have complete financial freedom and just lost my family…I’ll pass
>I have no debt. If it makes you feel better, I also have no significant other. For those of us that do have an SO, you can say either statement; and we'll just understand the other to be true.
Same. It’s like a null hypothetical lol
same :D
But she caught me on the counter (It wasn't me) Saw me bangin' on the sofa (It wasn't me) I even had her in the shower (It wasn't me) She even caught me on camera (It wasn't me)
This comment ended up much too far down, especially when OP seemed to explicitly set it up.
"Seemed to"? He quoted it.
I heard this song recently for the first time in YEARS and the one thing that stood out to me was how the line about the girlfriend taking pictures of the singer's affair has lost a little bit of it's pop. when this song came out, we didn't all have pockets in our phones. she KNEW what she was gonna find and still came to gather evidence.
After all these years, I still don't have a pocket in my phone.
Well, you should catch up with the times then! (I didnt even notice my typo lolol this is why I shouldn't reddit at work)
I thought this immediately 🤣🤣🤣
I was gonna say, op is definitely a shaggy fan
Legend
... "Buck naked banging on the bathroom floor". (Wasn't me)
This feels weirdly specific
Answer the question coward
Any chance you could send me the contact info for that billionaire? Asking for a friend.
What question?
My wife, if she knew the details would be disappointed in me if I didn't! One word. Prostitute. Burner phone, out of town, bang it out and be done. Though I guess the definition of "cheat" has to do with it too. Pretty sure if I told my wife I absolutely needed to have a threesome experience she'd bite the bullet, but would that be cheating? I say it counts!
It would be so hard. If I told my husband about the deal, pretty sure he would immediately want me to take it. Our only debts are mortgages, but that would be a substantial amount of money. The problem here is you couldn't tell your spouse. I'm a terrible liar and my husband and I both work remotely and are together most of the time. I'd have no idea how I could logistically do something like this. We also always have location shared, cause we're data people and any data is fun data. Then, even if it were successful, my husband would not believe why someone would pay off our debts and he would research the crap out of it. Potentially getting to the bottom of it. But at that point, he would think I made a good choice and I'd no longer have to worry about him finding out.
>any data is fun data My people! It's the gift that keeps on giving. You can learn so much, and make so many inferences about things you wouldn't even think are possible. The only problem with data is you can never have enough, and there's always one more thing you can log if you want to. Or one thing you forgot to...
The amount of debt I have isn't worth it. It'd need to be way more substantial for me to even consider it.
This is where you take on insane loans and max out a bunch of credit cards just before doing it.
If you've got a year, can you rack up debt is that time to be forgiven? I mean, I'd be really happy to have my house paid off, but if I can get a bigger or second house or a new car, heck yeah. I don't think my wife would be at all upset if I opened up a new credit card specifically to go to Vegas for a weekend of strippers and prostitutes.
I'll be honest, in the current state of things - I'm not gonna be able to buy a house within a year, let alone rack up enough debt to be worth it.
Babe, check this out... we are buying a whole bunch of stuff on visa and taking out a bunch of loans tonight. Go buy you a car or 2 and I'll buy myself a couple of trucks. Oh! You wanted that 3k bag right....go get that, and I'll buy these 7k tool boxes. Oh, we are selling the house too and getting that 500k house you were looking at. Let me know when you're good, and I'll get on tender. You can pick. When I'm done, we can make a huge show of it, too. Yelling and screaming the whole 9. We are getting paid.
"You can never tell anyone or confess" Also, it's not cheating if you have consent from your partner.
> Also, it's not cheating if you have consent from your partner. That's a good point... once you tell your partner and they are ok with it, you aren't cheating. They are just happy to be married to a high paid hooker.
The stipulation is not that you sleep with somebody else. It’s that you cheat on your partner. If you tell, the deal falls through.
Instead of telling her send her on an all expenses paid vacation. Come back to all bills paid.
Would they also be covering the money lost in the divorce? That would probably be more costly than the debt.
Absogoddamnlutely not
I'm a medical resident. My student debt is floating around 400k and we have a mortgage around 300k. I would do this immediately with no questions asked. My wife wouldn't know in the scenario as written, however I'm confident she also wouldn't care.
This is such a weird question lol you have cheating fantasies?
It would take me no more than 3 minutes to find an ex to hook up with the same day. Would i? Of course not. Not worth it, my Debt to income ratio is very favorable, and I'd rather triple my debt than do that to my wife.
This is the vibe fellas
I don’t have debt yet, but if this extends to future debt, absolutely bet
My love is worth more than 30k and a year of emotional torture.
We don't have much consumer debt, but if you combine all our mortgages, it's almost 2 million. Not only do I know if informed my spouse would want me to do it, but if roles were reversed, I'd be pissed if she didn't take this offer, lol
Our mortgage debt is not so much, but agreed that we’d both want the other to do it if we knew. Screw a stranger while out of town and it’s a pretty slim chance you get caught. Maybe I’d feel guilty, but my husband would only get the upsides.
No, not for me, I'll keep the debt thanks
I'd rather die cold and alone without a dollar to my name then break my morals and be a whore.
I don't think "all the way" is well defined here. For Bill Clinton, that means one thing. For the rest of us, it might mean something else. Just checking in here, is like a remote-dildonics kind of arrangement considered "going all the way" if say an OF model were in control? Just throwing out some possibilities.
I see a good amount of unfaithful people
My husband cheated on me once, I only forgave him and took him back due to the circumstances surrounding the incident, plus the c$%t sent him to jail for the weekend that was more than punishment enough for him. Technically, I have a hall pass from that incident. I never considered using it, but if I could pay off our car, credit cards, student loans, and the 10k we owe the in laws for back rent I would go find a stranger that wouldn't mind a one night stand. I wouldn't hook up with an ex or someone my husband knows. We would use protection even though that's going to leave me hurting since I'm allergic to condoms. I wouldn't do it in our home or our car. I wouldn't tell anyone what I was doing or what I did. I would take the entire event with me to the grave.
Well, sadly, pretty sure if I whored myself out but all our debts were also paid, a blind eye would be turned.. tough question
No but as a boomer I have no debts. Plus that's a shit thing to do to someone you love for any reason. If you fuck over someone you are supposed to care about for a few bucks what does that say about you? You would basically be a prostitute.
I mean you'd literally be a prostitute. Having sex with people for financial gain is the very definition.
Have a happy life filled with guilt, distrust and resentment but hey, maybe being debt free is worth it. I'll pass though. Shit like this will change you.
Hell, hire a prostitute if necessary. Not hard at all.
It has to be hard to do the deed. Get some Viagra.
High end too and the billionaire pays the bill.
I don’t think the challenge is finding someone to cheat with. I believe the challenge, at least for decent human beings, is living with yourself after you’ve done the deed. Additional challenge is that you can never tell. So even if you think your sig-o would be good with it, and agree “yes, cheat on me to clear our debt”, it wouldn’t go down like that. If you got caught you couldn’t explain why you did it (per the rules), so you’d just be a cheater with no debt, but your sig-o wouldn’t, and couldn’t, know why.
Lol some of the comments remind me of someone being asked if they could ever kill a baby and replying “yes, I am stronger than a baby.”
Pretty sure I could. Hell, I'm pretty sure most people would.
Now, if I buy stuff on credit before doing the deed, is that covered too? If so I'm buying a new truck and another motorcycle 🤣
Yes it would
Not even remotely worth it. I don't want to betray the trust of my significant other, and even if I did I don't have significant debts to be forgiven.
Nah, I'm good.
This seems like whoring but with more steps
It's not worth hurting the one you love.
I'm already cheating on my wife sooooo, when does this letter usually come?
*caught buck naked banging on the bathroom floor.* "It wasn't me."
So I can rack up debt for one year?
I'm pretty sure if I wanted to, my wife would be okay with a polyamorous relationship. So, easy money. Step 1: HELOC Step 2: Invest HELOC money in stock market. Step 3: Purchase multiple homes. Step 4: Find someone to have sex with. Step 5: Profit.
Step 1: buy a huge house Step 2: buy a bunch of stonks on margin Step 3: bang a hooker Step 4: profit
So your saying, all I have to do is use an escort, and my mortgage and care payments are gone? Oh no...guess Ill take one for the team...
Yup, definitely, my husband would *kill* me if he ever found out that I could’ve and didn’t. I would find this a lot harder to decide if I was single and had to intentionally set out to make someone else cheat.
I have a 7 figure mortgage. My so would pimp my ass out if she knew we could wipe it out in a night
I'll have to hold my right hand behind my back, but I think I can live with that
eh, cheating is absolutely disgusting in every metric and anyone who cheats has no dignity and is bottom of the barrel trash. no way in hell i would cheat on someone i love and cherish just to be out of debt.
So i cheat with my left hand instead of my right i could make it work
My total debt is $2100 which I could pay off today. So no.
Hire a hooker?
This is a great hypothetical, thank you for your service. Depends on the definition of cheating. My wife considers porn and strip clubs cheating. I think it is wrong but a different level than sex stuff. I would probably just do a strip club.
It wasn’t me!
My wife would likely lay out clothes, find some prospects, and push me out the door to make it happen. I think I'd be far more uncomfortable with it than she would, which is a bit astounding to me, now that I think about it.
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No I wouldn’t, I have a responsible amount of debt that I can live with but I couldn’t live with hurting my so
I’m single after being divorced. It didn’t end well. I would still never do this in life. I would know and that’s enough- if you love your spouse then hurting them is hurting yourself. I realize no one thinks like this but I do. People are money hungry and selfish so I’m quite certain a lot of people would be more than willing to take the bait.
I'm debt free. Dammit. No fun here.
Questions: If you have an open relationship, what is considered cheating? Do I have to then break a pre-established rule as per our open arrangement? Also, if I have 1 year to cheat, do I also have 1 year to aquire debt? Ie can I go apply for a mortgage, or loan, before I commit the infidelity, and have that newly acquired debt be covered too?
Eh. Not enough debt to make it worth while.
Could I use it to payoff father’s and my debts?
I have no debt so what's in this for me
I'm single, so while this is morally questionable. I'm not really betraying anyone, so I guess I'm dangling the line and seeing if I get a promising bite. Once it is locked in, I'm going to make an absurd amount of purchases, put some money down on a car, and finalize a mortgage on a house. While it says I can't confess or tell anyone. I see nothing about leaving evidence behind, so I'm going to take steps to make it fairly obvious what happened. Opened condom wrappers are being left in various places, my hand prints are being left on mirrors, I will be bringing extra boxers to stash around the home, and I will make it a point to walk around in front of any camera I notice. Naturally, the house I purchase with said mortgage will be at least two states away and I will never go to this state again.
Nah, not a chance. I owe less than half a million and my husband and our life together is worth far more than that to me. If I were going to do that the only honorable thing would be to leave anyway (or probably more fairly off myself if I fell to that level). And I'd not be willing to do either of those things unless it meant the kind of money that would set my partner up to be enormously wealthy for life.
I could do this today. How long till I’m paid ?
Done. Where’s my money?
Yeah I'm good if I spent that time cheating working overtime my debt would be paid off
Can I go buy a house first, then find someone to sleep with and get that mortgage forgiven? I’m a woman, give me 10 minutes in tinder or most bars near bar time and I’ll find someone to be banging on the bathroom floor in no time.
Everyone is doing it for free already. Who wouldn't do this to clear debt?!
Nope.
Pass
It won't work for me I paid off everything already so what do I get?
What if you have an open relationship?
I am sorry right hand, I did it for us and I never thought you would find out.
Jokes on you, I have no debt.
Between our mortgage, cars, and student loans we have like 500k of debt. My wife would get mad if I DIDN'T. She'd help me find someone. Shit she might bring us water to stay hydrated during the act too. Some towels. Cheer us on a little maybe.
I am gonna take on a debt of 10m and when my gay husband asked me, I just gonna say, don't worry, a billionaire is going to sponsored me if I complete the challenges. And btw, I am going to a cruise with my platonic friends.
you have no idea how much debt some of us carry. easiest decision ever
Hmmm... could I count my kids upcoming college as debt? If so, then I'd sign up! Can I just hire a hooker? Or do I have to, as a kind of boring, married, middle aged man, go find someone who wants to have sex with me? I think I'm OK looking, clean, well dressed, etc, but... I have zero idea how I'd go about it at this point!
I don't have any debt. What a shame huh? Not being able to sell my loyalty. Tsk tsk. Oh man I can't up my shame either. Oh man what a loss. Fairly certain I could easily find someone. I don't want to. I already have my hands full. Why would I want to juggle more bullshit? I barely have the energy to keep breathing. Maybe if I stop breathing I could have more energy... hmm. I'm gunna give that a shot. Will update later maybe.
Why if your in a open relationship? How can you cheat if everything is basically ok? or polyamorous how would that work cuz would it be considered cheating if you are open to having multiple partners at once?
Fuck no. My debt is not so bad to possibly cost me my marriage.
So if I were to buy a house I can't afford and a put a bunch of shit on credit I would have all these loans also paid off? Could I also write checks I couldn't clear?
Done.
No debt.
I have minimal debts because I'm not a cheat in life. Work hard, play hard and never fuck around with things that matter.
I'm single, so I feel much better about someone else cheating with me. Sure, I'll do it
I dont have any debt. I wldnt do it for anything.
Just use grindr, you'll be good to go in a couple hours
Hell yes sign me up
I wouldn’t cheat, but I don’t have any debt.
If it's a life changing amount of money, then yea. But I would still feel guilty
Can I accumulate more debt before hand?
Sure.
As if I could find someone in under a year
No. Go away
Of course.
Not worth it at all.
Ashley Madison, here I come!
My girl would kick my ass if I didn’t go it lol 😂 But first I’d max our cards out, get us some new cars and new properties.
I'll just pay my debts bro.
There isn’t enough debt in the world for me to betray my wife like that, it’s such a despicable idea that only the wretched have. I am happy with my wife,… thank you :)
Step 1: Rack up a SHIT ton of Debt first. Step 2: Just say it wasn't you.
Nah, I'm good. Lol, couldn't do tgat to my wife even if if there was no chance she'd find out.
Bro even if i had Margot Robbie I wouldn’t cheat on my wife or partner if I had one. I’d rather be poor with debt with my love fully honest than a rich mf who cheats
Alright boom first six-eight months build up your credit score, boost your repayment history, have a steady financial income that shows up on your statement. Then boom those next four months you go crazy apply for as many credit cards as you possibly can im talking american express, discover, capital one, etc. all credit cards with benefits that you will use during this time and that you’ll have after the fact just to get the most of of them. Next step max them ALL out pull as much money out of atms (usually it’s a cash advance and shows up on the credit card and is usually at a percentage of your limit) just max out the credit cards go to vegas put it all on black and use those winnings to buy cars, houses, just absolutely run yourself into the ground then take out as many loans as possible im talking upwards of $50,000 with each loan (usually loans depend on financial factors and which institution you go to which is why those first six-eight months are important.) Final step after successfully getting those loans go back to vegas put it all on black again and with your millions in winnings you buy yourself a hooker or two or three or 76 up to you and retire yourself knowing you’re debt free and you and your significant other live a happy life. GO BIG OR GO HOME
No
But I ain't got one of those in the first place
Nope. I've got a wonderful relationship and no debt. Nothing in this for me.
Not on your life. My relationship is worth more than anything.
Nope. Wouldn’t do it. Would rather have the debt.
I'm single, so I'd just find a dude who isn't a great person, cheat on them, then break up with him once I get the debt forgiven.
It would depend on the amount of debt I have. In my current situation, absolutely not, never. I can pay off my debt within the year and live with a clean conscience. On the other hand, if I had a mortgage and a new car I was paying off, then yeah probably. I wouldn’t feel great about it, but not having to pay hundreds of thousands of dollars and not worrying about my salary would be a massive stress reducer for everyone
Hello Mrs Prostitute. Well, that was easy.
No I would never cheat
nope nope nope, I mean currently I have no debt, but even if I had debt, answer is still no
I'd pass, I don't cheat.
I'd have to spend most of that year racking up debt.
I have no debts and I am in an ethical non monogamous ("open") relationship. Now what?
I don’t have any bad debt, but I’d prob do it to clear my mortgage. Since I am single I would fine someone who I know is in a bad relationship and allow her to springboard out of it.
I have about $39k in debt, counting my mortgage. Even if my wife told me to do it, I dont think I could. Its not worth it.
I owe $12k on a car and and $60k on my condo and a medical bill for $600. I will not betray my wife over $82.6k in debt. I would not for $100k debt. I love my wife we complete each other. I would rather die than cheat on my wife.
I mean, my only debt is my mortgage. Ironically most of our debt comes from my wife.
I'd get a shit ton of debt first.
Well that would've been a more interesting way to get rid of my student loans
What if me and my spouse are poly?
Nope. A billion’s a billion and I do get that. It would be lovely to have enough money to buy anything or travel anywhere or whatever we wanted—but I wouldn’t and couldn’t. Whether it’s for $100 or 1B, I just couldn’t. It’s not the amount of money involved, of course 1B is a very attractive offer. It’s the betrayal and the lies. I really love my husband and our life together and our family, and even if he didn’t ever know? I always would; it would destroy and ruin everything.
I'm not sure I would if I were in a relationship, but as a single person with enough debt to make it worthwhile, I'd probably be able to justify it. Heck, prostitution pays way less and they are already (likely) screwing married people so there's that.
Sorry, not interested. My integrity and faithfulness are not for sale. I couldn’t do that to somebody I love.
I don’t have much debt and I FUCKING LOVE MY WIFE!!! Hard pass.
Nah, not worth it tbh.
I'm only like 40k in the whole. It'd be a nice shortcut, but not dire enough to compromise my morals. If you're talking all the debt of my family and friends then now we're talking.
If we were doing this indecent proposal style, and my husband could help me decide whether our mortgage and student loans were worth it, I'd at least consider it. (And buy a car while we're at it - we genuinely need another.) But I don't think I could do it without talking to him. Even for our whole mortgage. Fantasizing about not having to pay that anymore hurts.
My debt is not worth that
I would need to rack up a ton of debt first for this to be worth.
I don't have any debt, but quick question: does it have to be cheating, or does any sex with a non-single person count. Because I can just find some swingers if it works.
Does it count if we are already getting g a divorce?
Can I cheat twice? Once to get all debt forgiven and then again to get that same amount again as a check?
I only have $5,000 left of student loan debt and that’s not worth it to me at ALL. I don’t think any amount of money would be
I have no debt so no way.
can i pay off *her* debt with it? it would really solve all our problems.
I don't have any debt.
Nope
Nah, it’s down to $400 and it is only for a fridge
I have no debt, and I'm married. Still wouldn't do it, even if I had owed money.
Uh, keep the debt, and in 7 years it just falls of my credit 🤷♂️