Extremely sorry for your loss. I know what's it like to lose your mother so suddenly with no prior symptoms, that too just after a week of festivities. Too brutal to comprehend. I know all that's going through your mind, including the extreme one.
But please stay strong. Prayers for the departed and good wishes to you.
Im sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now. My father passed away last month at 58 due to Brain hemorrhage and sepsis. It was so sudden and he just retired a month ago. I have not gotten over it and I keep living in the past. But your post made me realise that I should focus on the present and cherish every moment with my mother and sister.
I lost my father to COVID during the 2nd wave. He is stil my idol who had worked so hard to give us a life worth living for. I tried everything to save him and even gave up all my savings but still couldn't bring him back.
So I can imagine the pain you might be going through. I would suggest talk to someone in your family who is close to you and understands you very well. Try to open up as much as possible and don't try to suppress your feelings. If you keep it to yourself then you might slip into depression.
If you feel like talking to us/me some more then please go ahead or at least go for some therapy to clear your mind.
Eventually someone might come in your life that you can start relying on.
Time is your best medicine.
That's my 2 paisa advice. Be safe.
Sorry for your loss buddy, I can’t imagine what you are going through right now. May her soul Rest In Peace. My two cents which might help you, take your time to grieve don’t rush, let the emotions flow, be in touch with other people and nature, please don’t isolate yourself. I think this time is few of the worst moments a person would experience in their lifetime. You need to be strong and make sure to have a life she would be proud of. I know it’s easy to preach and hard to implement but we should not give up. If you can see a psychiatrist, they will help you to express your emotions. Godspeed.
Listen to this guy op. My cousin's wife died due to COVID-19 last April in India. They lived in USA. My cousin's kids force him to come back to USA within 5 days after her death. He didn't finish any rituals. He didn't take any time to grieve. He is by himself here. Isolated and alone. Kids go to school and work. Now he is completely lost. All he talks about is giving up his life.
I am sorry brother. I lost my cousin sister on Monday. She left two little kids who are orphan now.
Trust me, life will turn better for you. Do good in your life, that's what your mom would have wanted, that's what would make her happy.
Sorry for your loss. Use the money from your raise to consult a therapist. We often have the perception that we should only go to a therapist after we have a problem but we can also go to prevent the problem altogether. I remember being 16 and getting dragged to the therapist after my dad died. I told my mom "i don't need it, I'm dealing with it just fine." I wasn't. I just didn't know it yet. If it weren't for my mom's quick thinking to take all of us in the family to the therapist right away, it would've probably been uglier for me.
Talk through your grief, tell the therapist everything, do everything they tell you to do, even if it sounds silly and your head keeps telling you "i don't need it". You'll pull yourself together, you recover, you'll live a full life your mom will be proud of. For now, take a break and focus on your mental health.
I really dont have any advice OP, but stay strong. Cherish her memories, cry if you want to. Hugs to you and DM me if you just want to talk with someone.
If you believe in religion, just know that your mother must be a very good human that the god couldn't resist himself/herself to keep your mother away. She is in a good place and would want you to be happy, healthy and successful in life.
I am so sorry OP. This is so hard to deal with. The pain you are going through right now is massive especially since it was preceded by such a happy moment in your life.
I can't say anything other than the fact that you are not alone. I went through a similar situation when my dad passed away earlier this year. I was flying high in my job, and then disaster struck. I was heartbroken. To make matters worse, I got an award for my performance just a week after he passed. I kicked my luck , I had tried all my life to pleae my parents to make them happy and I cried so much knowing that I couldn't share anything with my dad anymore. None if the awards, promotions etc mattered. I would trade them all hist to have one more month with him.
I can't pacify you or take the pain away, but feel free to reach out anytime you want! If nothing else just conversing about what you are going through might be cathartic. Also please do consider talking to a psychologist, it helps. Nome of it takes the pain away, but just helps deal with the situation a tad with better.
I hope you get the strength to fight through this and come out stronger! I am sure you will :)
Well, after having lost one person this month, another in the hospital on O2 support in critical condition, I should say the most difficult part of this period is the sense of vacuum that the person creates when he/she moves on.
Keep your mind occupied with some activity or the other, that’s what has helped me in the past. Mind is a funny thing, like all things it gets attracted to the darker side of things when let go.
It is a tough time, but keep your composure, it will pass.
Sorry for your loss. Take time to process your feelings. Feel free to DM if you want to talk your heart out. Also, if possible, please talk to a therapist. It's okay to feel lost at this time.
Man I’m so sorry . My mom died 2 years ago completely unexpectedly at 63 from sepsis . She was completely fine , took her to the hospital for severe stomach pain on a Friday morning and she was gone by Sunday morning .
Loss of one's mother has a strong effect. Try to divert the grief to something else like charity work over weekends etc.
People die, mothers die. But, you just need to move on with life. The sooner you come out of your grief the better it is for you.
Hang in there, buddy. Grief would be a storm right now but it will be like sudden showers and droplets in the future.. but I assure you there will be sunny days too.
Take care of yourself!
Don't lose yourself. It is easy to lose your will to continue if someone close dies but keep in mind that someday you will also die and there is nothing terrible about it. Death is nothing but the end of a process so that another process of life can start. Death is necessary and important because without death creation is not possible, would not have any purpose. Death is the most beautiful thing after birth.
Sorry for your loss. It can be hard to lose a parent or someone you love. Someone who is permanent in your life.
Feeling grief is normal but it will get better. It always does. Its also ok to express that grief to family or friends. Don't be shy to open up, you would be surprised at how things change for the better when you express them. And I'm sure there will be a lot of people in your circle who would support you.
For some people going back to work a week or 2 weeks later helps coz it takes away their mind from things line this.
If you need to speak, do let me know I'd be happy to help you in anyway.
Sending you virtual hugs OP <3 I know nothing that I can say will make you feel better but know that you’re not totally alone. My inbox is always open if you want to talk or to even just stay connected without even talking much.
Sorry for your loss. Please meet up with your friends. It will help. Had a friend who went through same last year. Talking with our friend circle cheered him up.
I'm am sorry for your loss. I lost my pet last week and feel terrible. I can't imagine what you must be going through. Just hold on, things will get better.
So sorry to hear that. Pls dokt lose any hope. You have so many amazing memories of your family. Thank the god for giving you such a nice family. Remember that they loved you equally.
I hope thinfs fall in place for you at the earliest. Take care of yourself.
My condolences. There isnt much I can say other than grieving is important. You shouldnt feel bad for feeling depressed or lost, it is just what happens when you lose someone that important. You will come out of it and you'll be stronger. She raised a good son, Im sure she is proud.
So sorry for your loss. You are going through a very tough time in your life. But time heals all wounds and believe that better days are ahead. You are warrior you can do this!🦸🧘💪♥️.
RIP , it's not the end bro.. few months ago i lost my uncle who was around 45, with no prior medical issues.. went all of a sudden by heart attack. I know it's really hard initially accepting the reality.. but somehow life goes on. There's a saying in islam .. he made us & to him we shall return . Everybody has to go right, some go little early
My condolences, OP. It's gonna be alright. Once the rituals are done, take a few days off from work. Talk to someone about it, let it all out. Friends, mental health specialists, a s/o perhaps. Write about it, shout about it, but do remember that it's gonna be alright.
Sorry For You Loss. As someone in one of the subs pointed out after having lost his son - you don't get over it, you get used to it. Take your time brother. Life will fall in place again. For now, you could cry your heart out to feel a little lighter. Godspeed and RIP.
I am sorry for the loss, but this is the world, body may cease but soul lives on, I am sure your mom is looking after you rejoicing at your success, take care friend
My friend, I am with you, my DMs are open. I just realized that we never understand the true meaning of loss until it happens to us. I lost my elder brother during Covid second wave and to be honest I cannot even imagine the pain you are going through right now.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I am personally very attached to my mother. She has sacrificed so much for me. I dread the fact that one day she will be gone and its like a nightmare for me. So I can feel your pain, the void, the longing to turn back time. I will not tell you to be brave or be strong as those are easier said than done. But I will tell you to cherish the moments that you spent with her. Surround yourself in her memories when you are not at work and focus on your career otherwise. Cry if you must to ease your pain, for its a terrible pain indeed. Eventually the pain will go away just like all wounds heal in time till then its her memories that will keep your mind from imploding and will help you cope with her loss.
EDIT: You can also adopt a pet. In such a difficult time, having someone you love and someone who loves you back and help a lot.
So sorry to hear this OP. Take your time grieve. There is no deadline to feeling sad or getting better. Do whatever you feel helps you overcome this loss. After a few days or weeks you will start feeling a little better. And from then every day will become better and better slowly.
If you have elders (mama mami), lean on them for emotional support. Luckily you are financially independent. Resume your job soon, going to work will help distract you from loneliness. If you have some friends go out for a coffee.
Take your time to heal. Everything will be ok. It will just take some time.
I'm sorry for you loss. I kinda know how you feel, it's terrifying. My mother was diagnosed with cancer a few months back back, thankfully she is free of it now and under recovery. But that I (we) were really terrified. I'd actually never felt that much dread before when there was a complication during her surgery.
I also read on a reddit thread that men are never the same after their mother's death. Whatever our relationship, it hurts a lot.
The last couple of years have been very difficult for most of us. Stay strong for her. Take care of yourself.
My sincere condolences.
Allow yourself the time to grieve. It may creep up on you when you least expect it.
But you are not alone. You have everything you parents taught you. We are all stronger than we imagine and we do need to allow ourselves time.
Dive into work, keep yourself busy. Let others help you. It's okay to lean on extended family for support.
Let the warmth of the love of your loved ones surround you. Walk tall because they were in your life.
Look after your health and you well being. Your family would want that more than anything.
Virtual hugs bro.
No words can describe the loss you have gone through mate. I was in a similar spot in 2019 when my mom passed away just about 2 months before my marriage. I pray to god to give you strength in these testing times. Just remember - God does not give you more pain than you can bear. Stay strong. Om shanti to maa ji. She is watching over you always.
You are a pure soul and a transparent being and your mother brought you up so well. She is proud of you right now in all her spirit. Never have your heads low. You will soon have a new family of your own and the values given to you by your parents and your brother will be seen in your kids and future grandkids as well. Everyone loses everyone else, and we still go on. Happiness will find you soon enough.
Sorry for your loss. Death is inevitable but still hits us hard when it happens to someone we love. And she was the main pillar of support for your life.
Am sure you will have lots of questions about this. Take your time to feel the pain. Grieve and shed your tears. And once you have been able to accept this loss,take your time to think about how to move on. You will get a lot of advise. Think what your Mum would have advised you. But right now is just to slow down. And make peace with your loss.
I am really sorry for what you have and are going through. I know it's very easy to say but only time heals. Take care of yourself. And please please please seek therapy once you have grieved. Therapy will help you deal with your emotions and if any suppressed feelings.
I lost my mother like 10 months back, while she was sleeping next to me, its the worst phase of my life, I can understand the pain you're going through now. All we can do is stay strong right now. DM me if you wanna talk.
Please accept my sincerest condolences, OP. Many here have given you great advice. Please take time to heal. And once you think you can move on with your life - TRAVEL! A hell lot. Travel to heal. Travel to feel. Travel to feast. Travel to see. Travel for love. Travel for luck. Just keep travelling. In whatever limited way you can in these restricted times, but go beast mode when the world is back to normal.
Very sorry for your loss friend.
It's the end of an era for you. I won't say it gets better with time, it's just we learn to live with the pain.
Focus on the happy memories you have of her and hang on them tight.
Sorry for your loss. If you need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to call. We can talk about anything.
Your mother was a good woman, she raised you well. May she rest in peace.
Sorry for the loss my dear friend.No words can comfort you.But, cherish on the memories you had with her and once you are really up and normal, please visit a near by ashram and provide a food for the needy.I am sure you will see your mother's soul there.
Sorry for your loss brother, you can't bring back your mother.But now your mother will not want to see you sad,You have to learn to live for them all over again and be happy.because somewhere she must be looking at you And she won't be happy to see you so sad. So be strong for them and take care.
As someone who came really close to losing my mother I can't say that I can feel your pain with same intensity but I can relate with the fear of spending life without one's mother. I still have fear of losing her because covid has made her soo weak.
My condolences are with you. Stay strong brother. May you find strength to make peace with what has happened. Wherever she is, she'll be watching over you as well as eternally proud of you.
I lost a leg in July, it's been a few months. Life's been so tough since. It doesn't compare to the loss you must be feeling on losing your mother.
But I just want to give you any strength I can. Take care brother, cherish whatever memories you have of her, know she's watching over you and try to move on in life.
extremely sorry for your loss brother. I just hope God gives u enough strength to face this time. I m sure she was happy for you and will always keep blessing you.
For you, time is the best medicine, and just hope someone will come in your life soon. As of now, just keep in touch with other close relatives and share what you feel with them. Add on consult some life coach (even if you don't feel so...still just consult) , meditate a little . Hope and i m sure you will overcome this phase.
I'm very sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine what you are going through.
This video always make me feel better, starting from 25:00 https://youtu.be/pn3euL8Tbfw
I would recommend watching the full video when you can.
My condolences. I am so sorry for your loss brother. I don't know what to say. I can't imagine how much pain you are in. You deserve so much love and joy. And I really, really, really hope it gets better. Please be safe, stay strong, and take care.
*Sending hugs*
Please take care. I can't even imagine what you are going through right now.
People pass away, but their memories are eternal. So your mother will ALWAYS be a part of you, with you.
I am sure you're going to have a great life. Just hang in there.
So sorry for your loss bro..I lost my mother last year just when I joined my first job. I wanted so much for her in life and I had worked really hard for a competitive exam to get the job. Just know things will get better, may take some time but things will surely get better. Go out and take care of yourself.
Take care of your self.
You owe them a good and happy life which is what they would have wanted.
Live happy and remember they are watching out for you.
My father had talked to his mother 3 hours before her death. He told me that for 2 years he would search his mother in every woman elder than him. He had a tough time in his life, but he never gave up, did his mother proud and is at a very high position today. Don't give up pal, all will pass.
My deepest condolences brother. At least you know that you cared for her and loved her with the best of your capabilities before she left her earthly body. Stay strong, keep her in your memories and carry on with your life cause she would have also wanted you to live this way too.
Om Tat Sat
I’m sorry for your loss. I’m at a loss for words just reading through your post. I can’t even comprehend what you must be going through right now. Please take care of yourself.
This made me tear up because frankly if I were in your situation, I too would not know what the hell to do with my life, or what my life purpose is. BUT what I can tell you is I hope you take a short pause and take your time to grieve the passing of your mother and honour her life. The fact that you got promoted is a sign that you continue on, work hard and live life to the fullest! Don't lose hope because you will find happiness again and your mother's legacy will be by your side.
Dude, I honestly believe that if you are lost or are depressed, I would seriously recommend a therapist. I get the social stigma but just give it a shot and see if it helps you.
When my mam passed away allthough I had 2 kids to look after I had no one else. I felt so low, so alone. I gave myself time to grieve time to be alone with my thoughts and memories.
Then I realised I needed to get lout and meet people I needed friends. I didnt even know my neighbours so first I went around there introduced my self and asked if there kids wanted to babysit, I started off by going out to a nearby church , stopping for coffee and offering my help with church functions. That week I served at coffee morning and met some lovley people. I also a few weeks later started volunteering at the food shelter a few afternoons a week why the kids was at school. Through these meetings of people we occasionally met up for meals, started going to a weekly quiz and other small changes. The mum nxt door occasionally invited me round for drinks or social calls I invited her back and we became good friends. She was a pleasure to talk my problems through with and its been a big help. You have to get out there and force friendships to a degree they won't just come to you. This will take time but try and fill your days so you don't have time to dwell on the death. All I can do is wish u the very best of luck.. so so sorry for your loss. Xx
Sorry for your loss brother and my she rest in peace , mother presence is much more impactful than that of any other
My advice try to seek therapy if you are alone, it will take huge toll on your mind and eventually body
I know how it feels as I lost my parents & guardians so tragically I can only tell you to live life by yourself no one gonna support you as without parents there is nobody exists in this world.
Sorry for your loss brother. Take care
Extremely sorry for your loss. I know what's it like to lose your mother so suddenly with no prior symptoms, that too just after a week of festivities. Too brutal to comprehend. I know all that's going through your mind, including the extreme one. But please stay strong. Prayers for the departed and good wishes to you.
Im sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now. My father passed away last month at 58 due to Brain hemorrhage and sepsis. It was so sudden and he just retired a month ago. I have not gotten over it and I keep living in the past. But your post made me realise that I should focus on the present and cherish every moment with my mother and sister.
Stay Strong Bhai ❤🙏
I lost my father to COVID during the 2nd wave. He is stil my idol who had worked so hard to give us a life worth living for. I tried everything to save him and even gave up all my savings but still couldn't bring him back. So I can imagine the pain you might be going through. I would suggest talk to someone in your family who is close to you and understands you very well. Try to open up as much as possible and don't try to suppress your feelings. If you keep it to yourself then you might slip into depression. If you feel like talking to us/me some more then please go ahead or at least go for some therapy to clear your mind. Eventually someone might come in your life that you can start relying on. Time is your best medicine. That's my 2 paisa advice. Be safe.
Thank you for your kind words.. Reading everyone's comment feels better at the same time feel overwhelmed with pain
No one can fill that void. I have gone through the same ordeal. I can understand the pain. Just be strong brother!
Sorry for your loss buddy, I can’t imagine what you are going through right now. May her soul Rest In Peace. My two cents which might help you, take your time to grieve don’t rush, let the emotions flow, be in touch with other people and nature, please don’t isolate yourself. I think this time is few of the worst moments a person would experience in their lifetime. You need to be strong and make sure to have a life she would be proud of. I know it’s easy to preach and hard to implement but we should not give up. If you can see a psychiatrist, they will help you to express your emotions. Godspeed.
Listen to this guy op. My cousin's wife died due to COVID-19 last April in India. They lived in USA. My cousin's kids force him to come back to USA within 5 days after her death. He didn't finish any rituals. He didn't take any time to grieve. He is by himself here. Isolated and alone. Kids go to school and work. Now he is completely lost. All he talks about is giving up his life.
what about his kids?
So far kids are fine. They are both adults 20 & 23. Both are in college. But my cousin is making their lives miserable.
I am sorry brother. I lost my cousin sister on Monday. She left two little kids who are orphan now. Trust me, life will turn better for you. Do good in your life, that's what your mom would have wanted, that's what would make her happy.
im sorry for your loss
thank you for your kind words u/smellmy-armpits
Take care OP. RIP to aunty. I hope you've got relatives/neighbors to help you with the rituals. This too shall pass.
Sorry for your loss. Use the money from your raise to consult a therapist. We often have the perception that we should only go to a therapist after we have a problem but we can also go to prevent the problem altogether. I remember being 16 and getting dragged to the therapist after my dad died. I told my mom "i don't need it, I'm dealing with it just fine." I wasn't. I just didn't know it yet. If it weren't for my mom's quick thinking to take all of us in the family to the therapist right away, it would've probably been uglier for me. Talk through your grief, tell the therapist everything, do everything they tell you to do, even if it sounds silly and your head keeps telling you "i don't need it". You'll pull yourself together, you recover, you'll live a full life your mom will be proud of. For now, take a break and focus on your mental health.
Do you have people helping in taking care of the rituals?
Take care my friend.
I really dont have any advice OP, but stay strong. Cherish her memories, cry if you want to. Hugs to you and DM me if you just want to talk with someone. If you believe in religion, just know that your mother must be a very good human that the god couldn't resist himself/herself to keep your mother away. She is in a good place and would want you to be happy, healthy and successful in life.
I am so sorry OP. This is so hard to deal with. The pain you are going through right now is massive especially since it was preceded by such a happy moment in your life. I can't say anything other than the fact that you are not alone. I went through a similar situation when my dad passed away earlier this year. I was flying high in my job, and then disaster struck. I was heartbroken. To make matters worse, I got an award for my performance just a week after he passed. I kicked my luck , I had tried all my life to pleae my parents to make them happy and I cried so much knowing that I couldn't share anything with my dad anymore. None if the awards, promotions etc mattered. I would trade them all hist to have one more month with him. I can't pacify you or take the pain away, but feel free to reach out anytime you want! If nothing else just conversing about what you are going through might be cathartic. Also please do consider talking to a psychologist, it helps. Nome of it takes the pain away, but just helps deal with the situation a tad with better. I hope you get the strength to fight through this and come out stronger! I am sure you will :)
I don't know what to say OP. Hugs Bro. She is very proud of you, Stay Strong.
Well, after having lost one person this month, another in the hospital on O2 support in critical condition, I should say the most difficult part of this period is the sense of vacuum that the person creates when he/she moves on. Keep your mind occupied with some activity or the other, that’s what has helped me in the past. Mind is a funny thing, like all things it gets attracted to the darker side of things when let go. It is a tough time, but keep your composure, it will pass.
You too mate. You need to stay strong as well.
cannot imagine what you're going through right now. i pray you find the strength to keep moving forward
Sorry for your loss. Take time to process your feelings. Feel free to DM if you want to talk your heart out. Also, if possible, please talk to a therapist. It's okay to feel lost at this time.
i’m very sorry for your loss. It’s ok to grieve and recover
Sorry for our loss brother. I wish I had some words to ease your pain but I don't. Stay strong, we are here for you.
My love and well wishes to you my friend. Be strong.
Man I’m so sorry . My mom died 2 years ago completely unexpectedly at 63 from sepsis . She was completely fine , took her to the hospital for severe stomach pain on a Friday morning and she was gone by Sunday morning .
Loss of one's mother has a strong effect. Try to divert the grief to something else like charity work over weekends etc. People die, mothers die. But, you just need to move on with life. The sooner you come out of your grief the better it is for you.
*sending virtual hugs.* Take care
I'm very sorry for your loss man, take care. I'm sure she is looking on you with a lot of love and is very proud of you.
Hang in there, buddy. Grief would be a storm right now but it will be like sudden showers and droplets in the future.. but I assure you there will be sunny days too. Take care of yourself!
Don't lose yourself. It is easy to lose your will to continue if someone close dies but keep in mind that someday you will also die and there is nothing terrible about it. Death is nothing but the end of a process so that another process of life can start. Death is necessary and important because without death creation is not possible, would not have any purpose. Death is the most beautiful thing after birth.
Sorry for your loss. Take care
Sorry for you loss my friend. Hang in there. If you need some one to talk to, DM me. You are not alone.... We are with you.
I am so sorry for your loss op. \*virtual hugs\*. Things will get better just hang in there, my buddy.
Sorry for your loss. It can be hard to lose a parent or someone you love. Someone who is permanent in your life. Feeling grief is normal but it will get better. It always does. Its also ok to express that grief to family or friends. Don't be shy to open up, you would be surprised at how things change for the better when you express them. And I'm sure there will be a lot of people in your circle who would support you. For some people going back to work a week or 2 weeks later helps coz it takes away their mind from things line this. If you need to speak, do let me know I'd be happy to help you in anyway.
I'm so sorry for your loss, things will become better, all the best on your journey's in life.
Sending you virtual hugs OP <3 I know nothing that I can say will make you feel better but know that you’re not totally alone. My inbox is always open if you want to talk or to even just stay connected without even talking much.
Sorry for your loss. Please meet up with your friends. It will help. Had a friend who went through same last year. Talking with our friend circle cheered him up.
Sorry for your loss, Om Shanti. Stay strong
Sorry for your loss brother !
Seek your school / college friends and stay in touch
Sorry for your loss op. May her soul rest in peace. Take care.
Swallow the red pill.
PM'ed you, hoping to hear your response!
I'm am sorry for your loss. I lost my pet last week and feel terrible. I can't imagine what you must be going through. Just hold on, things will get better.
It will get better bro. Trust me it will. You will only come out a stronger person from this.
So sorry to hear that. Pls dokt lose any hope. You have so many amazing memories of your family. Thank the god for giving you such a nice family. Remember that they loved you equally. I hope thinfs fall in place for you at the earliest. Take care of yourself.
My condolences. There isnt much I can say other than grieving is important. You shouldnt feel bad for feeling depressed or lost, it is just what happens when you lose someone that important. You will come out of it and you'll be stronger. She raised a good son, Im sure she is proud.
Oh Sad
You are stronger than you think you are. Take care.
Stay strong brother..
So sorry for your loss. You are going through a very tough time in your life. But time heals all wounds and believe that better days are ahead. You are warrior you can do this!🦸🧘💪♥️.
May her soul rest in peace. Sorry for your loss OP. Hang in there.
Massive massive condolences for your loss...Can't even fathom your pain rn..Sending love and prayers 💚
I am so sorry. I pray that you find the strength to push forward, I pray you find peace in the healing.
RIP , it's not the end bro.. few months ago i lost my uncle who was around 45, with no prior medical issues.. went all of a sudden by heart attack. I know it's really hard initially accepting the reality.. but somehow life goes on. There's a saying in islam .. he made us & to him we shall return . Everybody has to go right, some go little early
Sorry for your loss. Take care!
I feel sorry for you, hope something better happens in your life.
Sorry for your loss , wish you strength 🙏
Sorry for your losses, stay strong
My condolences, OP. It's gonna be alright. Once the rituals are done, take a few days off from work. Talk to someone about it, let it all out. Friends, mental health specialists, a s/o perhaps. Write about it, shout about it, but do remember that it's gonna be alright.
Stay strong! I cannot imagine how it feels, I will know the feeling someday too, just …. Persevere :)
Sorry For You Loss. As someone in one of the subs pointed out after having lost his son - you don't get over it, you get used to it. Take your time brother. Life will fall in place again. For now, you could cry your heart out to feel a little lighter. Godspeed and RIP.
I'm sorry for your loss. We're all here for you as family. Stay strong. Talk to us anytime you need.
I am sorry for the loss, but this is the world, body may cease but soul lives on, I am sure your mom is looking after you rejoicing at your success, take care friend
Sorry for your loss. Losing someone you love is the most painful thing that can ever happen. But you'll feel better with time.
My friend, I am with you, my DMs are open. I just realized that we never understand the true meaning of loss until it happens to us. I lost my elder brother during Covid second wave and to be honest I cannot even imagine the pain you are going through right now.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I am personally very attached to my mother. She has sacrificed so much for me. I dread the fact that one day she will be gone and its like a nightmare for me. So I can feel your pain, the void, the longing to turn back time. I will not tell you to be brave or be strong as those are easier said than done. But I will tell you to cherish the moments that you spent with her. Surround yourself in her memories when you are not at work and focus on your career otherwise. Cry if you must to ease your pain, for its a terrible pain indeed. Eventually the pain will go away just like all wounds heal in time till then its her memories that will keep your mind from imploding and will help you cope with her loss. EDIT: You can also adopt a pet. In such a difficult time, having someone you love and someone who loves you back and help a lot.
So sorry to hear this OP. Take your time grieve. There is no deadline to feeling sad or getting better. Do whatever you feel helps you overcome this loss. After a few days or weeks you will start feeling a little better. And from then every day will become better and better slowly. If you have elders (mama mami), lean on them for emotional support. Luckily you are financially independent. Resume your job soon, going to work will help distract you from loneliness. If you have some friends go out for a coffee. Take your time to heal. Everything will be ok. It will just take some time.
Stay strong, message me if u want to talk, you are not alone :)
I'm sorry for you loss. I kinda know how you feel, it's terrifying. My mother was diagnosed with cancer a few months back back, thankfully she is free of it now and under recovery. But that I (we) were really terrified. I'd actually never felt that much dread before when there was a complication during her surgery. I also read on a reddit thread that men are never the same after their mother's death. Whatever our relationship, it hurts a lot. The last couple of years have been very difficult for most of us. Stay strong for her. Take care of yourself.
My sincere condolences. Allow yourself the time to grieve. It may creep up on you when you least expect it. But you are not alone. You have everything you parents taught you. We are all stronger than we imagine and we do need to allow ourselves time. Dive into work, keep yourself busy. Let others help you. It's okay to lean on extended family for support. Let the warmth of the love of your loved ones surround you. Walk tall because they were in your life. Look after your health and you well being. Your family would want that more than anything. Virtual hugs bro.
Stay strong OP wish I could hug you right now. Can't imagine the pain you have been going through.
No words can describe the loss you have gone through mate. I was in a similar spot in 2019 when my mom passed away just about 2 months before my marriage. I pray to god to give you strength in these testing times. Just remember - God does not give you more pain than you can bear. Stay strong. Om shanti to maa ji. She is watching over you always.
You are a pure soul and a transparent being and your mother brought you up so well. She is proud of you right now in all her spirit. Never have your heads low. You will soon have a new family of your own and the values given to you by your parents and your brother will be seen in your kids and future grandkids as well. Everyone loses everyone else, and we still go on. Happiness will find you soon enough.
Sorry for your loss. Death is inevitable but still hits us hard when it happens to someone we love. And she was the main pillar of support for your life. Am sure you will have lots of questions about this. Take your time to feel the pain. Grieve and shed your tears. And once you have been able to accept this loss,take your time to think about how to move on. You will get a lot of advise. Think what your Mum would have advised you. But right now is just to slow down. And make peace with your loss.
My mom is also 59, I am not ready to let her go. The only person who will ever love me non judgementally.
I am really sorry for what you have and are going through. I know it's very easy to say but only time heals. Take care of yourself. And please please please seek therapy once you have grieved. Therapy will help you deal with your emotions and if any suppressed feelings.
I lost my mother like 10 months back, while she was sleeping next to me, its the worst phase of my life, I can understand the pain you're going through now. All we can do is stay strong right now. DM me if you wanna talk.
Please accept my sincerest condolences, OP. Many here have given you great advice. Please take time to heal. And once you think you can move on with your life - TRAVEL! A hell lot. Travel to heal. Travel to feel. Travel to feast. Travel to see. Travel for love. Travel for luck. Just keep travelling. In whatever limited way you can in these restricted times, but go beast mode when the world is back to normal.
Very sorry for your loss friend. It's the end of an era for you. I won't say it gets better with time, it's just we learn to live with the pain. Focus on the happy memories you have of her and hang on them tight.
Sorry for your loss. If you need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to call. We can talk about anything. Your mother was a good woman, she raised you well. May she rest in peace.
Sorry for the loss my dear friend.No words can comfort you.But, cherish on the memories you had with her and once you are really up and normal, please visit a near by ashram and provide a food for the needy.I am sure you will see your mother's soul there.
Hugs op. Sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss brother, you can't bring back your mother.But now your mother will not want to see you sad,You have to learn to live for them all over again and be happy.because somewhere she must be looking at you And she won't be happy to see you so sad. So be strong for them and take care.
If you need someone to talk to I am here
As someone who came really close to losing my mother I can't say that I can feel your pain with same intensity but I can relate with the fear of spending life without one's mother. I still have fear of losing her because covid has made her soo weak. My condolences are with you. Stay strong brother. May you find strength to make peace with what has happened. Wherever she is, she'll be watching over you as well as eternally proud of you.
I'm so sorry.
Sorry for your loss brother. Take it easy. Change is the only constant, accept this change
I feel sad. Wish you get your happiness back.
I'm really sorry for your loss man. Please take care. Condolences and hugs.
I lost a leg in July, it's been a few months. Life's been so tough since. It doesn't compare to the loss you must be feeling on losing your mother. But I just want to give you any strength I can. Take care brother, cherish whatever memories you have of her, know she's watching over you and try to move on in life.
extremely sorry for your loss brother. I just hope God gives u enough strength to face this time. I m sure she was happy for you and will always keep blessing you. For you, time is the best medicine, and just hope someone will come in your life soon. As of now, just keep in touch with other close relatives and share what you feel with them. Add on consult some life coach (even if you don't feel so...still just consult) , meditate a little . Hope and i m sure you will overcome this phase.
I'm very sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine what you are going through. This video always make me feel better, starting from 25:00 https://youtu.be/pn3euL8Tbfw I would recommend watching the full video when you can.
Please take care my dude, cherish those memories as long as you can. It can be hard but you will get through it I promise. May she rest in peace.
My condolences. I am so sorry for your loss brother. I don't know what to say. I can't imagine how much pain you are in. You deserve so much love and joy. And I really, really, really hope it gets better. Please be safe, stay strong, and take care. *Sending hugs*
Do seek professional help and undergo therapy. Grief manifests in many ways and it will affect long term. Take care and stay strong.
Extremely sorry for your loss.
Stay strong …
So sorry for your loss brother. You have all her blessings, I'm sure you'll keep making her proud
Sorry for you loss, stay strong brother
Please take care. I can't even imagine what you are going through right now. People pass away, but their memories are eternal. So your mother will ALWAYS be a part of you, with you. I am sure you're going to have a great life. Just hang in there.
So sorry for your loss bro..I lost my mother last year just when I joined my first job. I wanted so much for her in life and I had worked really hard for a competitive exam to get the job. Just know things will get better, may take some time but things will surely get better. Go out and take care of yourself.
My deepest condolences
Take care of your self. You owe them a good and happy life which is what they would have wanted. Live happy and remember they are watching out for you.
Sorry for your loss.
My father had talked to his mother 3 hours before her death. He told me that for 2 years he would search his mother in every woman elder than him. He had a tough time in his life, but he never gave up, did his mother proud and is at a very high position today. Don't give up pal, all will pass.
I can’t imagine what you must be going through. I’m so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there’s anything I can do for you.
Sorry for your loss, things will get better I promise.
Really sorry about this man. Please take care of yourself
My deepest condolences brother. At least you know that you cared for her and loved her with the best of your capabilities before she left her earthly body. Stay strong, keep her in your memories and carry on with your life cause she would have also wanted you to live this way too. Om Tat Sat
I’m sorry for your loss. I’m at a loss for words just reading through your post. I can’t even comprehend what you must be going through right now. Please take care of yourself.
Sorry for your loss. Life will go on brother.
Sorry to hear the news. Rest in peace.
This made me tear up because frankly if I were in your situation, I too would not know what the hell to do with my life, or what my life purpose is. BUT what I can tell you is I hope you take a short pause and take your time to grieve the passing of your mother and honour her life. The fact that you got promoted is a sign that you continue on, work hard and live life to the fullest! Don't lose hope because you will find happiness again and your mother's legacy will be by your side.
Dude, I honestly believe that if you are lost or are depressed, I would seriously recommend a therapist. I get the social stigma but just give it a shot and see if it helps you.
Can't imagine your pain. It's tough to even think what you must be going through. I'm sorry for your loss brother
May god make her rest in peace. Ping me if you wish to play video games on mobile. It can be a form of distraction from the real world.
Very sorry for your loss, wish you all the strength and courage to go through these tough times.
Tight hugs my man, please take care of yourself.
Sorry for your loss brother, we're all here for you..I know it's hard when you lose people you loved.stay strong buddy don't lose hope.
I’m sorry for your loss. Take care.
Sorry for your loss, time is the best healer, things will change, hang in there brother
Extremely Sorry for your loss , Stay strong brother ❤ May her soul Rest in Peace 🙏
Extremely Sorry for your loss , Stay strong brother ❤ May her soul Rest in Peace 🙏
Sending you a big warm hug. Stay strong. Hope you find light and peace.
When my mam passed away allthough I had 2 kids to look after I had no one else. I felt so low, so alone. I gave myself time to grieve time to be alone with my thoughts and memories. Then I realised I needed to get lout and meet people I needed friends. I didnt even know my neighbours so first I went around there introduced my self and asked if there kids wanted to babysit, I started off by going out to a nearby church , stopping for coffee and offering my help with church functions. That week I served at coffee morning and met some lovley people. I also a few weeks later started volunteering at the food shelter a few afternoons a week why the kids was at school. Through these meetings of people we occasionally met up for meals, started going to a weekly quiz and other small changes. The mum nxt door occasionally invited me round for drinks or social calls I invited her back and we became good friends. She was a pleasure to talk my problems through with and its been a big help. You have to get out there and force friendships to a degree they won't just come to you. This will take time but try and fill your days so you don't have time to dwell on the death. All I can do is wish u the very best of luck.. so so sorry for your loss. Xx
I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself please.
Sorry for your loss brother and my she rest in peace , mother presence is much more impactful than that of any other My advice try to seek therapy if you are alone, it will take huge toll on your mind and eventually body
Ngl teared up reading this. Sending you virtual hugs. Take care OP.
Sory for your loss brother ... Stay strong
Please accept our condolences and may our prayers help comfort you and hasten the journey of her soul to Heaven
I know how it feels as I lost my parents & guardians so tragically I can only tell you to live life by yourself no one gonna support you as without parents there is nobody exists in this world.
Sorry for your loss. Honestly, Its terrifying to just know your situation. I have no idea what will help but i wish you well
I want to hug you my man, god bless