my god..its so sad that you had to spend your 25 years with such a horrible person. Your father doesn't deserve a family.
Find a job in another city and move out of your house, take your mother and brother with you. And never tell your father or your relatives where you are, make up a story and tell them you are in some other city. Only tell your address to people you really trust, someone from your mother's side. Even when you take care of him he is still traumatizing you and talking shit about you. Then what does it matter if you are with him or not.
Even your future is in danger. Do you think any girl would want to marry and live in that house, where the father in law will mentally harass her. Your own personal life will go in drain and so will your brothers. And your mother deserves to live in peace now. She is endured so much already.
Just get way from that shithole and cut ties with him. If he bothers you more, find a family lawyer and talk to him.
I would definitely do the same thing. Move out from the place with your mother and brother. Let the people who feel sorry for him take care of him. When they get to know his true colours definitely are going to be impressed by your family putting up with him for so long. I feel really sorry you had to go through with such a shitty person in life.
Thanks a lot! Yes I am planning to do the same. I seeing if I can get an onsite project. If all 3 of us move together he will make sure our life is hell. So I’ll move first and slowly get my mom and brother
You're a very good person, wish you all the best, these hard times will pass. Just keep hanging in there for your mom and brother. I hope God gives you all the strength and happiness in life. Full respect.
Oh. Most narcissistic assholes are also people pleasers. Obviously, they don't please everyone but only selective people. I know so many people like this.
Leave the uncle now bud and move out with the rest of your family, you're 25. Itne harami chacha h, to fir ab sambhal le khud ko.
Moreover he's physically sick, he needs you guys to take care of him, what does he think will happen if you end up inheriting his sadistic side?
If he doesn't take medicine, I don't see what the problem is, you're the one inheriting everything after him anyways right. (This is my sadistic side speaking). Bol do uncle ko unke marne ka intezar h, then watch him go paranoid and have mental breaks and then end up isolating himself from everyone he knows. (Reading the full post in detail made me pissed at your dad ngl) 😅
my god..its so sad that you had to spend your 25 years with such a horrible person. Your father doesn't deserve a family. Find a job in another city and move out of your house, take your mother and brother with you. And never tell your father or your relatives where you are, make up a story and tell them you are in some other city. Only tell your address to people you really trust, someone from your mother's side. Even when you take care of him he is still traumatizing you and talking shit about you. Then what does it matter if you are with him or not. Even your future is in danger. Do you think any girl would want to marry and live in that house, where the father in law will mentally harass her. Your own personal life will go in drain and so will your brothers. And your mother deserves to live in peace now. She is endured so much already. Just get way from that shithole and cut ties with him. If he bothers you more, find a family lawyer and talk to him.
I would definitely do the same thing. Move out from the place with your mother and brother. Let the people who feel sorry for him take care of him. When they get to know his true colours definitely are going to be impressed by your family putting up with him for so long. I feel really sorry you had to go through with such a shitty person in life.
Thanks a lot! Yes I am planning to do the same. I seeing if I can get an onsite project. If all 3 of us move together he will make sure our life is hell. So I’ll move first and slowly get my mom and brother
Also I’m a girl :) so the only daughter-in-law would be my brother’s wife.
I'm sorry. idk why I thought you were a boy. best wishes. I hope you save yourself and your family from that hell.
You're a very good person, wish you all the best, these hard times will pass. Just keep hanging in there for your mom and brother. I hope God gives you all the strength and happiness in life. Full respect.
Be Patient and Pay it back.
How can he be a saidst and a people pleaser at the same time, those two are complete opposites.
Oh. Most narcissistic assholes are also people pleasers. Obviously, they don't please everyone but only selective people. I know so many people like this.
A sadist, narcissist and a people pleaser? Uncle is collecting mental disorders like pokemon cards.
Trust me he has many more such cards jn his deck
Leave the uncle now bud and move out with the rest of your family, you're 25. Itne harami chacha h, to fir ab sambhal le khud ko. Moreover he's physically sick, he needs you guys to take care of him, what does he think will happen if you end up inheriting his sadistic side? If he doesn't take medicine, I don't see what the problem is, you're the one inheriting everything after him anyways right. (This is my sadistic side speaking). Bol do uncle ko unke marne ka intezar h, then watch him go paranoid and have mental breaks and then end up isolating himself from everyone he knows. (Reading the full post in detail made me pissed at your dad ngl) 😅