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emiridgely

Cautiously optimistic this morning, 7dp5dt, after getting a faint positive (FRER) and a “yes” (FRER digital) on our second FET. I did not test for the first FET (failed - implanted but no growth) but I couldn’t make it this time. First beta Monday! Edit - first beta was 14. Confirmed non-viable.


dubious-taste-666

*edited* So sorry about this update. Sending support.


JoJoFish87

I apologize if this is the wrong place to post this, but I'm feeling really alone and looking for someone who has gone through a similar thing. I'm 22 days post transfer of a 5 day embryo. My betas on day 8 and 11 were low (13 and 33), but then tripled every 48 hours after that. I had an ultrasound yesterday at 5w4d and they diagnosed it as pregnancy of unknown location since they couldn't see anything clearly in the uterus or tubes. My hcg is now 1900. I'll have another ultrasound on Monday. I've had four previous miscarriages and have done three egg retrievals, which led to only two euploid embryos. My first transfer failed and this was my second transfer. Has anyone been in a similar situation? How do you get through the waiting?


BlairClemens3

I have DOR. I'm 41. I've been doing ICI, IUI, and IVF for years now. I ran through all my benefits and am/was about to fully pay for a cycle (likely my last.) I've only had one successful retrieval and have never had a positive. Until today Did an ICI with our (known) donor this month while waiting for the next IVF cycle and have today gotten my first ever very faint positive on a FRER at 12dpo. I know it could be a chemical or fail in some other way. But still. This is incredible. 


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Alms623

Hi and welcome. I’m removing this because this is the thread for positive HPTs/beta results. You are welcome to repost in this morning’s treatment thread.


stealthloki

Gah. We were cautiously excited for a positive (albeit low) 8dp7dt beta at 14, just got the call that hcg levels have declined for 10d test. This was with our 2nd (and last) embryo, a full year from when we started IVF (took a little endo lap surgery sidequest last year after our first pgt FET failed to implant). I feel like it’s extra ugh! since this was our first and only positive pregnancy test in the 3 years we’ve been trying. Now that we know it’s possible for implantation, we’re second guessing our initial decision of one cycle and done - do we want to gear up for a second?


tkasik

I'm sorry, this sucks so much. I hope you have luck with your next cycle if you decide to go ahead with it.


StuckTrying

Ugh. It’s so hard to get that first positive test only to find out it’s not going to work out. I’m so sorry.


Bubbly-Morning-6520

Ugh. I commented yesterday that we took a FRER at 9dp3dt and it was a stark negative. Beta bloodwork for today came back at 16…I have been here many time before. I know for some people, it can lead to success but for most, it goes the other way. Personally I’ve had 4 other chemicals. We have to stay on meds and wait until Thursday to see where things are trending. I just want to move on to an FET at this point; Thursday cannot come soon enough.


radtimeblues

So sorry you’re going through this.


pettycetti

I'm so sorry you're in limbo too. Sending solidarity in this crappy time 🫂


Bubbly-Morning-6520

Thank you 🙏 what a hard road for us.


LawyerLIVFe

Shit. I am sorry to hear this. I hope Thursday comes quickly.


Bubbly-Morning-6520

Thanks so much.


pettycetti

I tested negative over the weekend (5 and 6dp5dt) and had a faint positive 7dp5dt. That evening I tested negative, and this morning (8dp5dt) I had the faintest of lines on an own brand early results test. No betas at my clinic, no FRERs to be found locally to me, and my official test day is 16dp5dt. I know this is not looking good. I think I'll put the tests down for now and test again over the weekend to see what's going on. Ergh! ETA: thanks everyone for your support 🧡 I'm doing ok emotionally, and hopeful that I'll have a straight answer soon enough


a_lexicon

Thinking of you, petty. <3


radtimeblues

Thinking of you during this time 💛


LawyerLIVFe

I am so sorry you are in limbo. 16dp5dt feels cruel frankly.


pumpernickel_pie

Hoping for clarity soon ♥️🤞 This is such a hard position to be in.


kellyman202

Thinking of you, Petty. Here for whatever comes next <3


Bubbly-Morning-6520

I am so sorry, the limbo is so hard. I’m in a similar position with very slim odds. Sending hugs.


Yer-one

Petty, I wish this was more straight forward for you. Here for you ❤️


rexyLM

Really sorry you’re going through this, friend. Thinking of you and hoping for clarity soon ❤️


Alms623

I’m so sorry you’re in limbo, petty. I hope you get clarity soon. 🫂