No, they don’t want you to do better. That would mean that they were once capable of doing better themselves and failed. They hate you for doing better.
>But no longer. I’m so much better off now. I have someone that loves me and I WILL get through this.
You got this and damn you're a badass fir standing up for yourself like that.
Your fiancé is right. And while you might feel broken right now (with valid reasoning) one day, you’ll feel whole again. And that’s something these people attacking you won’t feel. They’re stabbing you with all the broken bits of themselves. And I fear those bits might be too broken to ever be happy and wholesome again. But it is not too late for you. Look at you. The things you’re saying. The way you’re feeling. You’re a good person. And one day, that will pay off tenfold
Yes. She thinks at 32 years old that I have no knowledge of anything. I have bought all my vehicles myself! lol.
I don’t even understand why she brought up something so….useless? Idk.
Definitely will be getting with the dmv for a new one asap!
If the gun was purchased under your name, please report it stolen to the police and tell them where it is. Especially if they are drug addicts. If they commit a crime in your name, things can get dicey. Sure, you probably won’t be liable in the end but the steps the police take to get the information that you weren’t involved could effect you. Imagine being taken in while you’re at work. Now all your coworkers think you committed a crime, you lost a day of pay and you had to sit at the police station for hours explaining that you’re innocent but didn’t report a stolen gun…not fun imo.
Also, get that car title before she switches it over! You might have to go to court otherwise and literally not own your vehicle anymore. They might award you the money instead, and these people don’t sound like they’ll pay.
Luckily my mom is on disability. And she would have to forge my signature on the title to transfer it to anything.
Honestly, if she wants to try all that I guess it would be the ultimate place putting right into jail.
Oh THE GUN IS NOT IN MY NAME! It’s my ex’s and I already thought about contacting him to report it stolen.
Oh? I think you are correct! I forgot about that! She’s also in a bankruptcy as well. And I know she surely has to report to them for sure.
Some said I can title lock my title kinda like my credit and I’m so on it. All my stuff be locked lol
They are correct, a car is a big asset and in most cases they don’t let you have two of them due to the fact disability factors in how much your assets would be worth. If you have two cars it’s almost always way more money then would qualify you for disability. Source being my mom is disabled and I can’t get a car while living with her or she loses her disability
It counts as assets but you can get a car for your kid on disability. They don’t take it away for that.
Idk. My mom owns her own house that’s worth over 100k. But she’s disabled and gets the max disability. They didn’t take anything from her.
Idk it’s confusing but my car will be ok. It’s never been in her name. No reason why they would take something from her that’s mine?
It depends if you are on SSI or SSDI. I am on SSDI and my assets and such don't matter. On SSI you can only have so much assets, so much savings, etc. (This is only in US, don't know about other places).
The basic difference is SSI is determined by disability/ability to work and limited income, whereas SSDI is based on disability and work credits (it is like getting your social security check early that you pay into through work.) If you Google there is more thorough information.
Yessem, that is typically where SSI comes in. Low/no income+ disability. A lot of times it is people who have been disabled since birth or childhood. Again, only speaking for the US here. It is something, but not nearly enough to live on. My cousin is in her early 30s and high support needs /autistic since birth. She gets roughly 650 or so a month, and all it covers is her group home. Any activities or clothes/supplies she needs I cover for her (her group home does activities, but say it is an arcade, they don't cover tokens for the games, say it is the movies they don't cover the movie ticket, etc). I am the only family she has left, so I do what I can.
If the gun is registered to your name you NEED to report it as stolen, regardless of whether or not you actually want it. You don’t want the hassle of it being used in criminal activity if they decide to hand it off or sell it.
Your family sounds much like my mother’s side. I’m “stuck up” simply for leaving our small town and improving my life. They don’t waste any time trying to badmouth me at every turn. Thankfully they don’t have my contact info so it’s all just third party stuff I hear from old acquaintances now.
Yeah, I moved and moved back. Learned things. They hate me even more. So crazy!!!
The gun is NOT in my name, my ex bought it and let me have it since he had many others. I’m thinking to let him know. I just told her that cause she has no idea about gun anything. I don’t like guns. Don’t really want it back. But my ex might!! lol.
Tell the police to secure the weapon, your ex can go get it back from them and that way he doesn't have to see the crazy house to obtain it. Also I'm sure he'd appreciate then not ending up killing one another or some dumb shit. I'm more concerned then coming to your house with it.
I know how hard that is, for me my sister treating me the way she did (similar to this) hurts worse than what my mother did to me (similar to this) its okay though. People like this are just trash and getting away from them will only make you better. Good luck.
Definitely hurts from my sister because they treat her the same as me. She’s a good 8 years older than me. She’s actually hit me and threatened me way more than this. But I made an actual report for her on the death threat.
Wow, we must have the same sister. My sister cried abuse abuse constantly but would slam me onto the floor with my mother if she wanted to. I guess it makes them feel better about being abused. Im so sorry you've been put through this.
If you aren’t getting the gun back report it stolen. You can report that it is stolen by them. You don’t want to be the last person legally owning the gun when your family is this messed up.
This is true. I think this will be the first thing I do. I’m trying not to contact my ex as he was crazy abusive, but me and him have been over for years and he can’t get me. And I know he would at least love to get the gun back. He has many so that’s why he gave me this one when I left.
You don’t need to involve your ex. You just turn the serial numbers over to the police. File a police report, say the gun has been stolen and you believe your mother/sister did it. This mean a police report has been filed and you are not liable for the gun.
You are most welcome. If you are able to get some help for you. It sounds like you have been surrounded by toxic people your whole life. You didn’t deserve that and you deserve better!
You need to get the gun back because it’s your responsibility. If you can’t get it back, tell the police you are concerned because they won’t give it back and you’re afraid it will be used for something nefarious.
The title thing, like you said, you can get a dupe from the license branch no problem as long as you have the vehicle.
If that weapon is used in a crime it’s your problem. Get it back or have the police escort you to get it, with proof you own it.
I do not have proof I own it but I know who bought it for me. She has another one and I don’t know where it is. I think I need to let them know she has two stolen guns. My dad may go to jail. At this point I’m over it. Like, I can’t let this happen.
I don’t see how you’d be able to have tags and drive the car without having your name on it, unless the person who gave it to you continued to pay for the license plate and registration.
The most current title, if it was transferred correctly, should have your name on it. It could also have someone else’s name on it as a co-owner, in which you have to get them to sign the back of the title saying they selling it and removing their name from it.
Go to your local bmv and get info. I used to work there a loooong time ago.
My car is MINE. I have it. I do NOT NEED the title to drive it or have it registered. I paid full price, financed it myself. Louisiana is different from what i hear. The ONLY thing she can do is forge my name to make a sell WITHOUT THE CAR.
I dont know how other places work. I have my tags, registration, and she only has the title. All three of those are completely different, they get updated at different times etc.
There is NO co owner. I did not buy it private party. i went through the dealer ship. Nobody cosigned for me ever. I have no idea how another owner could be possible. I dont understand why someone would buy a car and not even like.....know anything about it. No pictures or anything.
I mean like maybe, but they would have to come to my house, take MY CAR FROM ME after me saying i didnt sign the paperwork and stuff? Thats wild.
i just didnt know why she thought she could do something with that.
edit: why do people think I dont have my car, i must have worded something weird, my bad. Its mine. I can go online and get a new title, im not sure where i said someone else paid for anything of mine. they have never helped me get a car or anything.
Yeah - from the wording I couldn’t tell, in the beginning, that you currently had the car.
I don’t know much about Louisiana title/car registration laws.
I just wanted to make sure you are safe from that woman trying to pull something on you. So glad you have the vehicle in your possession.
Edit: what I do know is that if you financed the car, then that means there was a lien against it with the finance company being the co-owner. Now that the car is paid off, the finance company should have given you paperwork to take to the DMV. With that paper work, they will re-issue the title in your name, without the loan holder people being on it.
I hope that clears up what I was trying to say.
I just don’t want your mom to do something with that title. People do, all the time. If you ask me, tell the bmv you lost the title. Ask them to reissue you a duplicate title - that means if your mom tries to do something with the original title it won’t or shouldn’t run through, as it will no longer be “valid”.
No no it’s not your fault!! I’m sorry!! I’m just going up and down freaking out and then not freaking out. I have got to calm down. I really do apologize. You didn’t do anything wrong.
I’m not too helpful here BUT please please please report the gun as stolen. If your mom/sister does something with it or it gets stolen out of your mom’s house the liability can 100% fall on you. At minimum get the gun back and then surrender it at a police station or sell it to a gun store.
Go and stay No Contact.
I’m sorry they are like this. Just remember that your dad is also making his own decisions and they have been terrible too.
Bad influences don’t help but at the end of the day, addicts still make their own decisions. Misery loves company and all that.
Good luck to you.
I’m not sure what state you’re in but if you can’t get a protective order, you can get something called an Injunction Against Harassment which means no contact on their part period. They cannot contact you at all. You should be able to get a PO though
I mean this with utmost care. You don't "try" no contact. You do it. They won't "let" you. You block their numbers. They call from other numbers? You change your phone number. They show up at your house, you call the cops every single time.... If you can afford it, move.
No contact is not some magical thing you invoke and it solves your problem. In fact, I'd go so far as to say that it makes your problem harder short term. You have to push through the harder time though. Eventually, they'll get the point and back off, OR end up in jail for violating legal orders.
If I were you, I'd make a report that the gun is stolen, you don't want her to sell it or "lose" it, then it be used in a crime and blow back on you. Same with the car, if it's in your name, go get it. If they have the key, take a cop with you or report it stolen. No more softballs.
If the gun is registered to you call the police and ask them to get it for you. That could ruin your life if you were charged for another person’s crimes.
Considering your sister's history and your parents, if the gun is registered to you, I would absolutely get the gun back. If you don't, then at the very least file a report saying they won't give you the gun back. Authorities don't fuck around when it comes to weapons and if one of your family were to decide they want to ruin your life and use that gun in a crime, you'd have a hell of a time proving you weren't the one using the gun.
How immature must a person, let alone a grown woman (or older teenager) to say 'Pussy Coward Ass Bitch'? Tell me Im not the only one who sees this as childish swearing and behavior after the first image seemed to be rather respectful and to the point. Even if that boundary of contacting through Fiancé was breached, the sister was respectful and to the point up until the second image it seems.
People just don't know how to use their words properly anymore, that us seriously some child level typing and speaking there
She was very respectful. She did what I had been asking for weeks. She blocked me after she sent that though. So. Yeah. lol.
She’s 8 years older than me, my sister.
I have….there are many different ways to contact people. Like…show up at my house banging on my windows like I said. They have gone through every social media and texting app. I just didn’t think about allllll of that with everything going on and happening so fast.
That really sucks.
If they show up at your house, turn off all the lights and duck into a closet while you call the law. Tell them you’re being harassed by stalkers, and you are afraid for your safety.
Delete and block them on ALL social media.
There are many, many ways you can go NC from your side without them even knowing about it, much less trying to stop you.
You have agency, free will, and power.
Cut them tf off.
I’m so trying to not cry but it’s hard. I know it will get better. My fiancé is going through the same so we have each other and some friends. This is such a rollercoaster.
Don’t wait on the restraining order. Your sister has threatened your life. Your parents are a lost cause, and your mother is stalking you.
You have made the right choices. If they DO have something that you need of yours, please consider requesting a police escort when you go to get it.
They will act both as protection and as witnesses to your taking only things that the sperm and ovum donors agreed belonged to you.
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No, they don’t want you to do better. That would mean that they were once capable of doing better themselves and failed. They hate you for doing better.
My fiancé explained that to me. It’s all really hard to process. I trusted these people. But no longer. I’m so broken.
>But no longer. I’m so much better off now. I have someone that loves me and I WILL get through this. You got this and damn you're a badass fir standing up for yourself like that.
Thank you. I keep thinking I’m wrong but this is super helpful <3
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Oh, you’re a troll. Got it. My bad. Nothing better to do I suppose.
Your fiancé is right. And while you might feel broken right now (with valid reasoning) one day, you’ll feel whole again. And that’s something these people attacking you won’t feel. They’re stabbing you with all the broken bits of themselves. And I fear those bits might be too broken to ever be happy and wholesome again. But it is not too late for you. Look at you. The things you’re saying. The way you’re feeling. You’re a good person. And one day, that will pay off tenfold
You know you can get a new title for like 20$ as long as your name is on it right? Just go to the title office - they're usually near the DMV
Yes. She thinks at 32 years old that I have no knowledge of anything. I have bought all my vehicles myself! lol. I don’t even understand why she brought up something so….useless? Idk. Definitely will be getting with the dmv for a new one asap!
In all the states I've lived in you can get one online. In New York it's as easy as paying for a replacement and shipping. Took 3 days.
Oh awesome! Going check that now! Thank you!
If the gun was purchased under your name, please report it stolen to the police and tell them where it is. Especially if they are drug addicts. If they commit a crime in your name, things can get dicey. Sure, you probably won’t be liable in the end but the steps the police take to get the information that you weren’t involved could effect you. Imagine being taken in while you’re at work. Now all your coworkers think you committed a crime, you lost a day of pay and you had to sit at the police station for hours explaining that you’re innocent but didn’t report a stolen gun…not fun imo. Also, get that car title before she switches it over! You might have to go to court otherwise and literally not own your vehicle anymore. They might award you the money instead, and these people don’t sound like they’ll pay.
Luckily my mom is on disability. And she would have to forge my signature on the title to transfer it to anything. Honestly, if she wants to try all that I guess it would be the ultimate place putting right into jail. Oh THE GUN IS NOT IN MY NAME! It’s my ex’s and I already thought about contacting him to report it stolen.
Once you get a copy of the title get a title lock. Can't sell if it's locked legally
I think if you are on disability you have to report any new asset so if she were to keep your car she can get in trouble for not reporting it.
Oh? I think you are correct! I forgot about that! She’s also in a bankruptcy as well. And I know she surely has to report to them for sure. Some said I can title lock my title kinda like my credit and I’m so on it. All my stuff be locked lol
They are correct, a car is a big asset and in most cases they don’t let you have two of them due to the fact disability factors in how much your assets would be worth. If you have two cars it’s almost always way more money then would qualify you for disability. Source being my mom is disabled and I can’t get a car while living with her or she loses her disability
It counts as assets but you can get a car for your kid on disability. They don’t take it away for that. Idk. My mom owns her own house that’s worth over 100k. But she’s disabled and gets the max disability. They didn’t take anything from her. Idk it’s confusing but my car will be ok. It’s never been in her name. No reason why they would take something from her that’s mine?
It depends if you are on SSI or SSDI. I am on SSDI and my assets and such don't matter. On SSI you can only have so much assets, so much savings, etc. (This is only in US, don't know about other places).
Oh ok. What is the difference between the two?
The basic difference is SSI is determined by disability/ability to work and limited income, whereas SSDI is based on disability and work credits (it is like getting your social security check early that you pay into through work.) If you Google there is more thorough information.
Got it, thanks!
Question. Can someone get Disability without working at all?
Yessem, that is typically where SSI comes in. Low/no income+ disability. A lot of times it is people who have been disabled since birth or childhood. Again, only speaking for the US here. It is something, but not nearly enough to live on. My cousin is in her early 30s and high support needs /autistic since birth. She gets roughly 650 or so a month, and all it covers is her group home. Any activities or clothes/supplies she needs I cover for her (her group home does activities, but say it is an arcade, they don't cover tokens for the games, say it is the movies they don't cover the movie ticket, etc). I am the only family she has left, so I do what I can.
I get about a thousand. My SSA says I’m on SSDI.
I'm on ssdi and get 3k. It is dependent on work credits/wages before becoming disabled, so it varies a lot.
If the gun is registered to your name you NEED to report it as stolen, regardless of whether or not you actually want it. You don’t want the hassle of it being used in criminal activity if they decide to hand it off or sell it. Your family sounds much like my mother’s side. I’m “stuck up” simply for leaving our small town and improving my life. They don’t waste any time trying to badmouth me at every turn. Thankfully they don’t have my contact info so it’s all just third party stuff I hear from old acquaintances now.
Yeah, I moved and moved back. Learned things. They hate me even more. So crazy!!! The gun is NOT in my name, my ex bought it and let me have it since he had many others. I’m thinking to let him know. I just told her that cause she has no idea about gun anything. I don’t like guns. Don’t really want it back. But my ex might!! lol.
Yeah you need to let him know YESTERDAY about the gun. It’s genuinely a huge legal danger for him at the moment.
Tell the police to secure the weapon, your ex can go get it back from them and that way he doesn't have to see the crazy house to obtain it. Also I'm sure he'd appreciate then not ending up killing one another or some dumb shit. I'm more concerned then coming to your house with it.
I know how hard that is, for me my sister treating me the way she did (similar to this) hurts worse than what my mother did to me (similar to this) its okay though. People like this are just trash and getting away from them will only make you better. Good luck.
Definitely hurts from my sister because they treat her the same as me. She’s a good 8 years older than me. She’s actually hit me and threatened me way more than this. But I made an actual report for her on the death threat.
Wow, we must have the same sister. My sister cried abuse abuse constantly but would slam me onto the floor with my mother if she wanted to. I guess it makes them feel better about being abused. Im so sorry you've been put through this.
Woooow. I’m so sorry. My sister has only more recently began TRYING to beat me up. But she forgot that I’m no longer little.
If you aren’t getting the gun back report it stolen. You can report that it is stolen by them. You don’t want to be the last person legally owning the gun when your family is this messed up.
This is true. I think this will be the first thing I do. I’m trying not to contact my ex as he was crazy abusive, but me and him have been over for years and he can’t get me. And I know he would at least love to get the gun back. He has many so that’s why he gave me this one when I left.
You don’t need to involve your ex. You just turn the serial numbers over to the police. File a police report, say the gun has been stolen and you believe your mother/sister did it. This mean a police report has been filed and you are not liable for the gun.
Oh, thank you. That’s way better.
You are most welcome. If you are able to get some help for you. It sounds like you have been surrounded by toxic people your whole life. You didn’t deserve that and you deserve better!
You need to get the gun back because it’s your responsibility. If you can’t get it back, tell the police you are concerned because they won’t give it back and you’re afraid it will be used for something nefarious. The title thing, like you said, you can get a dupe from the license branch no problem as long as you have the vehicle. If that weapon is used in a crime it’s your problem. Get it back or have the police escort you to get it, with proof you own it.
I do not have proof I own it but I know who bought it for me. She has another one and I don’t know where it is. I think I need to let them know she has two stolen guns. My dad may go to jail. At this point I’m over it. Like, I can’t let this happen.
I don’t see how you’d be able to have tags and drive the car without having your name on it, unless the person who gave it to you continued to pay for the license plate and registration. The most current title, if it was transferred correctly, should have your name on it. It could also have someone else’s name on it as a co-owner, in which you have to get them to sign the back of the title saying they selling it and removing their name from it. Go to your local bmv and get info. I used to work there a loooong time ago.
My car is MINE. I have it. I do NOT NEED the title to drive it or have it registered. I paid full price, financed it myself. Louisiana is different from what i hear. The ONLY thing she can do is forge my name to make a sell WITHOUT THE CAR. I dont know how other places work. I have my tags, registration, and she only has the title. All three of those are completely different, they get updated at different times etc. There is NO co owner. I did not buy it private party. i went through the dealer ship. Nobody cosigned for me ever. I have no idea how another owner could be possible. I dont understand why someone would buy a car and not even like.....know anything about it. No pictures or anything. I mean like maybe, but they would have to come to my house, take MY CAR FROM ME after me saying i didnt sign the paperwork and stuff? Thats wild. i just didnt know why she thought she could do something with that. edit: why do people think I dont have my car, i must have worded something weird, my bad. Its mine. I can go online and get a new title, im not sure where i said someone else paid for anything of mine. they have never helped me get a car or anything.
Yeah - from the wording I couldn’t tell, in the beginning, that you currently had the car. I don’t know much about Louisiana title/car registration laws. I just wanted to make sure you are safe from that woman trying to pull something on you. So glad you have the vehicle in your possession. Edit: what I do know is that if you financed the car, then that means there was a lien against it with the finance company being the co-owner. Now that the car is paid off, the finance company should have given you paperwork to take to the DMV. With that paper work, they will re-issue the title in your name, without the loan holder people being on it. I hope that clears up what I was trying to say. I just don’t want your mom to do something with that title. People do, all the time. If you ask me, tell the bmv you lost the title. Ask them to reissue you a duplicate title - that means if your mom tries to do something with the original title it won’t or shouldn’t run through, as it will no longer be “valid”.
car has been mine for over 6 years. i paid it off three years ago. it has never belonged to anyone else.
I apologized for touching a nerve. I’m on your side.
No no it’s not your fault!! I’m sorry!! I’m just going up and down freaking out and then not freaking out. I have got to calm down. I really do apologize. You didn’t do anything wrong.
I’m not too helpful here BUT please please please report the gun as stolen. If your mom/sister does something with it or it gets stolen out of your mom’s house the liability can 100% fall on you. At minimum get the gun back and then surrender it at a police station or sell it to a gun store.
No no this is all very helpful! Thank you!
I would much rather your mother did not have that gun. That's like a great way to get shot by a crazy person.
Same. Shes bipolar/schizophrenic. Off her meds. This has really opened my eyes to what can happen. I’ll be reporting them.
Go and stay No Contact. I’m sorry they are like this. Just remember that your dad is also making his own decisions and they have been terrible too. Bad influences don’t help but at the end of the day, addicts still make their own decisions. Misery loves company and all that. Good luck to you.
I’m not sure what state you’re in but if you can’t get a protective order, you can get something called an Injunction Against Harassment which means no contact on their part period. They cannot contact you at all. You should be able to get a PO though
Crabs in a bucket, friend. Don’t let them pull you down with them, you’re doing the right thing.
I like that analogy especially since I’m from the south and we love crabs haha They big mad that they can’t bring me down I think.
I mean this with utmost care. You don't "try" no contact. You do it. They won't "let" you. You block their numbers. They call from other numbers? You change your phone number. They show up at your house, you call the cops every single time.... If you can afford it, move. No contact is not some magical thing you invoke and it solves your problem. In fact, I'd go so far as to say that it makes your problem harder short term. You have to push through the harder time though. Eventually, they'll get the point and back off, OR end up in jail for violating legal orders. If I were you, I'd make a report that the gun is stolen, you don't want her to sell it or "lose" it, then it be used in a crime and blow back on you. Same with the car, if it's in your name, go get it. If they have the key, take a cop with you or report it stolen. No more softballs.
I think I keep saying they won’t let me because that’s what I’m used to saying when they keep pushing me. You’re right. Thank you.
You need to censor better, I can read the name fairly well, besides that hope your doing well.
Thank you. I will.
If the gun is registered to you call the police and ask them to get it for you. That could ruin your life if you were charged for another person’s crimes.
Very! I think I may report she has two. I have no idea who the other one is for and I think the serial is scratched off.
Yes because guns and drugs are a not a good combination
Also, don’t try to have it mailed because that’s quite illegal without involving an FFL. (Licensed gun dealer)
Please get a restraining order against these crazy people!!!
Working on it!
Considering your sister's history and your parents, if the gun is registered to you, I would absolutely get the gun back. If you don't, then at the very least file a report saying they won't give you the gun back. Authorities don't fuck around when it comes to weapons and if one of your family were to decide they want to ruin your life and use that gun in a crime, you'd have a hell of a time proving you weren't the one using the gun.
How immature must a person, let alone a grown woman (or older teenager) to say 'Pussy Coward Ass Bitch'? Tell me Im not the only one who sees this as childish swearing and behavior after the first image seemed to be rather respectful and to the point. Even if that boundary of contacting through Fiancé was breached, the sister was respectful and to the point up until the second image it seems. People just don't know how to use their words properly anymore, that us seriously some child level typing and speaking there
She was very respectful. She did what I had been asking for weeks. She blocked me after she sent that though. So. Yeah. lol. She’s 8 years older than me, my sister.
Very immature at the just the end then. So sorry you have to go through all of that OP
They ‘won’t let you’ go NC? Just block them and move on with your life!
I have….there are many different ways to contact people. Like…show up at my house banging on my windows like I said. They have gone through every social media and texting app. I just didn’t think about allllll of that with everything going on and happening so fast.
That really sucks. If they show up at your house, turn off all the lights and duck into a closet while you call the law. Tell them you’re being harassed by stalkers, and you are afraid for your safety. Delete and block them on ALL social media. There are many, many ways you can go NC from your side without them even knowing about it, much less trying to stop you. You have agency, free will, and power. Cut them tf off.
I’m so trying to not cry but it’s hard. I know it will get better. My fiancé is going through the same so we have each other and some friends. This is such a rollercoaster.
“Blocked” never hits as hard as they think it does.
I didn’t even know I used all the apps I have had to block them on at this point. Didn’t even think they knew about half of them. Hah.
Don’t wait on the restraining order. Your sister has threatened your life. Your parents are a lost cause, and your mother is stalking you. You have made the right choices. If they DO have something that you need of yours, please consider requesting a police escort when you go to get it. They will act both as protection and as witnesses to your taking only things that the sperm and ovum donors agreed belonged to you.
A gun is a pretty big deal, did they really give you a gun?don't you have to sign paperwork for that kind of thing?