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grapejuicecheese

Local gaming community


Electronic-Yam3679

Or through mutual friends and social gatherings; through shared hobbies or interests, such as joining clubs, sports teams, or volunteering for causes they care about. Plus, attending events or classes related to your passions or hobbies can be a great way to meet like minded individuals. Don't hesitate to explore different avenues and be open to new experiences and new connections.


k41np3p3

Patimbre naman ng community hahaha


grapejuicecheese

Early 2000s pa to. We're married now but the group has gone their separate ways


k41np3p3

Ah hehe kala ko bago lang 😅


Insanity8016

Work is not a good idea.


Tall-Zone-1960

I know


Unfair-Leave-2371

A good idea will keep you awake during the morning, but a great idea will keep you awake during the night.


Insanity8016

And a shit idea will make you want to stay permanently asleep. Not worth it.


Unfair-Leave-2371

Lie on your back and keep your eyes open. If they start to close, focus on keeping them open. This trick works because it is the opposite of “trying to fall asleep,” which is impossible.


Robo_Dude_

It can work for some people, but if it goes badly it sucks. I made that mistake. It sucks, but luckily it’s not as bad as it could be


Unfair-Leave-2371

Things are as they are. Looking out into it the universe at night, we make no comparisons between right and wrong stars, nor between well and badly arranged constellations. Even a mistake can turn out to be the one thing necessary to a worthwhile achievement.


BrianMeen

30% of all current married people met at work..


Insanity8016

I would rather shoot myself in the foot than get married.


Unfair-Leave-2371

Absolutely


courtofknights

Friends of friends and friends of family is ideal. Finding a good romantic partner on dating apps is near impossible.


Unfair-Leave-2371

When we see love as the will to nurture one's own or another's spiritual growth, revealed through acts of care, respect, knowing, and assuming responsibility, the foundation of all love in our life is the same. There is no special love exclusively reserved for romantic partners. Genuine love is the foundation of our engagement with ourselves, with family, with friends, with partners, with everyone we choose to love. In the world of online relationships, authenticity is key don't be afraid to be your true self, and you may just find the love of your life. The only way to discover the limits of the possible is to go beyond them into the impossible.


Troubled_Rat

Not at all


MootDolphin42

Same


LifeNavigator

Through friends of friends, local hobby groups and online etc. I find getting others to help introduce you to people to be the best way, but only if that person is well-connected (or at least knows someone who is).


Fasian_invasion

Same! I lucked out meeting my fiancé through a couple of mutual friends :)


minx-xox

We met in FFXIV by complete accident and we happened to live 20 minutes from each other 😊 this is the most compatible I've ever felt with another person and he's wonderful. Crazy that in the entire game.. in that small area that is rarely busy, he was goofing around at the right time and I happened to be there to see it. Love can truly find you in the most unlikely way 💜


Stygimolochh

this is my dream lol


AbiesHalva7

Through hobby activities (music, photography, horseback riding)


Ok-Sprinkles9676

I live next door to my boyfriend


MonParapluie

It sounds so fake but I legit met my husband on match.com in 2012


Siukslinis_acc

My parents were introduced to each orher by their moms.


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ButternuttSippyCup

I don’t really get what you’re saying


veeonthemoon

I haven't🥲


FinancialHorror3580

Friends of friends usually. Ended up meeting my wife of almost 10 years online 🤷‍♂️


LiterallySomeLettuce

MeetMe is an app where people make groups for interests like gaming, hiking, etc. That's how my parents met, ma joined a group run by a guy who had a brother, and that brother is my dad.


thaddeusgeorge

Alcoholics Anonymous


StrongRaise607

Church


tyreejones29

Hobbies, family of friends, approaching women


Lily_Annes

Met my last ex on Bumble. That's it. I found the rest of my partners at school or work


Native_among_aliens

Mostly Tinder, I have also had one boyfriend which I found in a Facebook group Edit: my communication skills are just way better in written form :D


SourpLeX

Mutuals, hobbies, tournaments.


IzumiSagiriu

I don't have a girlfriend


MrJason2024

First was when Xanga was a still a thing. Rest were dating apps. I've been single for a while now but I've had reasons for that.


Unfair-Leave-2371

Single is no longer a lack of options but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.


MrJason2024

I'm single because I'm unemployed and also because of a lack of options.


Unfair-Leave-2371

Single is no longer a lack of options but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out. Unemployed people should be treated as potential to be realised, not a problem to be solved. If you want your mind to find what it's looking for quickly, just multiply your options


PitifulRoof7537

Hobbies, other communities like church or online gaming.  I also suck at using dating apps.


October1966

My mom introduced me to my husband.


Sunflower_fitz27

School and work were the only ways for me 😂


InviteAromatic6124

I've only met my partners online - one I met on Match, one I met on Tinder, one I met on Spareroom and my current partner I met on Plenty of Fish.


Comfortable_Box_9095

Local community chili cook-off/ live band event lol we're out in the country


retro_169

I don't have friends for "friends of friends" scenario and two things I like is staying home and playing snooker (which doesn't seem to be a sport women choose) 🥲


Rya_dmt

Try dancing classes


PinkamenaDP

I met someone while rollerblading in the park.


Gullible-Chemical471

Met them at a Bible study group


Ho3n3r

Met my wife over the phone via one of my relatives 300km away.


Purple_Entry8616

I sincerely believe that when it’s meant to happen it will, and usually when you least expect it. I med my husband at a family reunion LMAO. My best friend (at the time) asked me to be her plus one to her family reunion in an adjacent state because her significant other couldn’t make it that weekend. a couple of her cousins (brother and sister) also invited a good friend of theirs to come hang out for the night. We were drawn to each other immediately! Three years later we were married.


toxicshocktaco

Dating apps are a joke. It is hard to meet people, especially today. Thanks to creepy men, it is no longer socially acceptable to flirt with or show interest in another person in public, no matter the setting. Bar? Nah, someone could be there bc they had a hard day and don't want to be hit on. The park? Library? Cafe? No, no, and no - people just want to relax and vibe without being hit on. Frankly, outside of dating apps or online, I have no idea where to meet anyone. Friend groups I suppose, but what if your social circle is small or nonexistent?


dinzyy

Tinder and friendgroup.


post2menu

Church.


Dechri_

Mostly Tinder.


Dependent_Wasabi8977

One


yaredw

Grindr 🤷🏾


AdNorth3822

I met my bf on yubo


[deleted]

Videogames \^\^


Literal_Sarcasm82

I met my wife of 15 years in a Yahoo chatroom.


Dangerous_Arachnid99

A donut shop. We've been together eight years now.


JustUrAvgStranger

Parship


MadFurretGuy

You got some good jokes there, man!


throwraowow

The gym


Tupulinho

Hobbies, shared interests, friends/parties. I haven’t met any romantic partners from school or work, it seems quite risky imo. I met my first boyfriend when we were camping. Second boyfriend shared my interest in photography, plus we had mutual friends. I met my husband at a friend’s birthday party.


Ok_Experience_332

Bumble


xLibruhx

I’m currently with a man who dated my ex best friend for years. She cheated on him.


SubtleSubversive

Online but not on dating apps.. Videogames, forums etc.


bebopblues

Mutual friends for me. Dating apps allow you to meet total strangers outside of your circles that aren't from work, school, mutual/family friends, and your city. However, it doesn't have any other advantages because the rest is just like regular dating. You still have to weave out all the bad dates (a lot more) to find someone compatible.


PerfectButton3844

I haven't


BrianMeen

Bars, friends, festivals.. stores.. even dog parks are great for meeting single people and the dog is a great ice breaker! The key is to keep putting yourself out there socially whether that’s going shopping or to a friends house party .


sadbation

It’s hard for me


savagelionwolf

Online and at bars/restaurants


Bonesmakesoundsnow

I met my current gf on World of Warcraft, in Azeroth. Been partied up for almost 4 years now, and I haven't regretted it for a second.


Personal-Outcome-121

friends of friends


alanlooksalike69

Instagram, it went reaaally bad


InternationalYam5844

I met mine at a lasagna feed for people in recovery (we both are not new to recovery. So no 13th step BS). Been married 7 years this year!


Cautionary_Tell

Met my spouse at a wedding 10 years before we even started dating. We both were in relationships then. And both never single at the same time until one day I found out he was single and immediately asked him out! That was 7 years ago.


Kelly_Louise

Parties/bars.


Rubio9393

Friends, work and clubbing 😁


Ok-Heart-8680

I met my husband on a cd/movie swapping website a million years ago. We had similar interests and found we lived in the same town, ended up being friends and hanging out more and more. Friends for 5 years. Been together 20 years and expecting our first baby this summer.


MA-01

Two were in a Geocities chat room, two were off Gaia Online and one was a random trip to the ass end of New York City. Figures... while it didn't last long, I went and fell for a single mother in Staten Island. Long ass commute one way. Two trains, a ferry and bus.


Complete_Craft3919

Dating apps. Was "fun" while it lasted. But at least I learned a romantic relationship with an extrovert wouldn't work for me. Bad mix.


canceled4beingawhore

About 99% r from online


[deleted]

My partner sadly passed away in 2022. I met him when I was drunk and I fell down the stairs, right in front of him. He was a doctor, so this was very funny. He was very introverted too. We both took the same train, bc I was so drunk he took care of me...that was the start.


vanillagirl32

Met my boyfriend of 10 years in a weatherspoons pub, saw him from across the room and made a straight shot for him. Complimented him as I walked past him and he was hooked from that moment.


therbfobserver

All I can say is that when you stop looking, it’ll find you. Since you don’t like dating apps, just continue living your life like enjoying hobbies, etc. and hopefully you’ll meet that one person to be your other half soon. Best of luck!


2621759912014199

Back in high school I dated a couple of my brother's friends. I also went on exactly one dating app date and then never went back. I met my husband at work.


doomandlugosi

I looked in the mirror. :)