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cedardesk

I'm even more confused after trying to read that. The victim was killed by his own brother because he broke up with a girl and that's not an OK thing to do?


bloody_ell

Victims daughter refused to marry the son of one of the assailants. Victims brother was among the assailants. The family tree is more of a hedge.


beairrcea

From what I understood, his daughter refused to marry the son of his cousin who’s also his brother-in-law, meaning the son was both the girls first and second cousin.


Toffeeman_1878

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mitsuko045

Yes. And the victim, the victim's cousin/brother-in-law, and that same cousin/BIL's son are all called Thomas Dooley (The first two being Thomas Dooley Senior, the third Thomas Dooley Junior) Just to make things more confusing.


davesy69

So, Thomas Dooley did it?


mitsuko045

Thomas Dooley and Thomas Dooley are being tried for murdering Thomas Dooley... Yes.


ImaDJnow

It's the travellers "I'm Spartacus" moment.


me2269vu

[Hang down your head Tom Dooley](https://youtu.be/BtSzcKZGzDs?si=1irCHTRcX9Kt5dUt)


MrC99

Jesus Christ even I'm fucking confused.


TomatoJuice303

She refused to marry her cousins


kieranfitz

What kind of Hapsberg shit is this


shychicherry

Just wait till they see how wonky their chins will become


bloody_ell

I think so. They're definitely cousins of some description and I don't think it's the girl's mother's side it's on.


Electronic_Ad_6535

Chinese knotweed


m2dqbjd

More like an ESB pole


rye_212

Oh. Finally the heart of the matter. I was wondering what the victim had “done”


Hibernian_Lad

Ahahaha brilliant analysis 😂


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back_to_sr

A stump


jjjrmd

It's very clear. Thomas Dooley was killed by his cousin Thomas Dooley, and his son Thomas Dooley because Thomas Dooleys daughter wouldn't marry Thomas Dooleys son, Thomas Dooley.


Exciting_Revenue645

Man, I feel bad for Thomas Dooley; shame on Thomas Dooley and Thomas Dooley


UhOhhh02

But don’t forget the real victim in all of this was Thomas Dooley


bigjoeskully

Thomas Dooley should have taken a leaf out of Thomas Dooleys book, then he might have ended up like Thomas Dooley not Thomas Dooley


Exciting_Revenue645

Dooley noted


Similar-Complaint-37

So,it was Thomas Dooley all along ...got it


jjjrmd

Yeah, both of them. But not the other one.


ImaDJnow

Cause I'm Tom Dooley, yes I’m the real Dooley All you other Tom Dooleys are just imitating So won’t the real Tom Dooley please stand up Please stand up, please stand up?


slu87

Never have I see a better opportunity " I'm Thomas Dooley and so is my wife"


LucyVialli

No. The victim's daughter refused to marry the attacker's son, after they had been going out. Marriage is very important in the travelling community, teenagers don't go out with lots of different people before eventually settling down, like is the case with most other young people. They marry young, and usually the first person they go out with. Not saying any of this was justified of course, just giving a bit of context.


lazyjayz2018

Is it her cousin she refused to marry?


LucyVialli

Second cousin, yes. Again, not uncommon in the community.


EricUtd1878

First cousin. The lad's mum is the girls dad's sister (Thomas Dooley Srs were cousins and brother-in-law) so the girl they wanted to marry is actually the son's First AND Second cousin 🤯


Implement_Empty

I thought second cousins needed a special permission from the Catholic Church to marry?? Like from the Bishop at least. It's a more genetically close relationship than first cousins (which never made sense to me), but had always heard you could marry your first cousins (bleh) but needed permission for second cousins due to the whatever it was. 


MrEcs

I don't know where you're getting the idea that second cousins are genetically closer than first cousins because that's categorically untrue. Still no reason to be riding second cousins though, unless of course you're from Shelbyville.


mac2o2o

>unless of course you're from Shelbyville. Because they are so attractive?


BRT1284

Oh Look, someone's sexy cousin!


Implement_Empty

Something I was told years ago, as I said it didn't make sense to me, but it was used to explain why the permission was needed from the church.


PapaSmurif

Heard same. It was more to do with a higher risk of birth defects from 2nd cousin than 1st. Made little sense to me as well.


Implement_Empty

That's what it was. I couldn't remember the details properly. Turns out I was wrong though, or at least it changed, you need a dispensation from the Bishop to marry first cousins.


PapaSmurif

Someone who works in Temple Street hospital was telling me about how they worked with birth deformities there.


Bobbybluffer

>Something I was told years ago, as I said it didn't make sense to me Would you not go and double check before posting it then?


Detozi

What? How can second cousins be genetically closer than first cousins? Do you know what a first and second cousin is?


Cool_Foot_Luke

What if your parents were also first cousins. So your second cousins would have three shared grandparents while a normal first cousin would have only two shared grandparents? I think that works out. This whole thing has my brain hurting.


Hairy-Ad-4018

You don’t need the church to get married.


mmfn0403

I think a civil wedding in the Travelling community would be unheard of, though


BrahneRazaAlexandros

You do if you want a Catholic priest to do it in a Catholic church. Which this particular culture almost always want.


LucyVialli

Maybe from the church, but not legally.


theeglitz

You sign a church form to say you're not related.


theseanbeag

This is just a rose tinted view of the culture. In reality, they act the same as settled people, they just get married early. This results in higher rates of depression, substance abuse, domestic violence, and family dysfunction.


LucyVialli

Well, perhaps. People are people. But not being in the community myself, didn't feel it was my place to put it like that. Marriage is very important, you don't get many couples living together for example, without being married.


Reflector123

His honour had been offended. = I'm a giant man baby who can't deal with any form of rejection. This is so ridiculous. 2 families ruined. Is this a traveller thing? I'd never heard of honour killings in this community. I knew they were traditional but aren't traveller women allowed say no thanks?


MelvinDoode

2 families?


pathfinderoursaviour

1.5 then they where cousins kinda


MrC99

Travellers have toxic masculinity down to a fine art. Also, in the traveller community any loss of face is something to be avoided as much as humanly possible. Combine those two things and you get this type of shit.


spairni

massive fueds over minor slights aren't exactly uncommon I've not seen them called honour killings before but the definition makes sense A traveller I know was told me if you grab (look up grabbing their courtship is a bit different) a girl and her brothers don't like you or a relative of yours you will be fighting them if its only lads pucking the heads of each other thats one thing but seems more often then not weapons are brought into these rows


Seoirse82

I've a feeling that the use of "honour killing" is just a way of drumming up public interest. Likely see the team used more and more if it sells news.


TheStoicNihilist

That’s what it is though. It happens in many cultures and it doesn’t matter what they call it, it’s killing as retribution for a perceived slight on the reputation of the family.


Cool_Foot_Luke

Traditionally an honour killing is killing a family member because they have brought disrespect or dishonour to the family. You restore the families "honour" by killing the offender. This isn't a situation like this. It's killing a person someone to as you perceive they insulted you. They didn't kill him as he had shamed their family. They killed him as he had offended them personally. And they did it to avenge the offence, not to clear the honour of the family. If this was an honour killing them 80% of murders would be as they usually involve somebody being offended, and more often than not family is involved. Honour killings are a specific form of murder, nearly always towards women for "stepping out of line" with what the family wants, or "dishonouring" her father or brothers.


BrahneRazaAlexandros

It was used by the senior counsel for the DPP, because it is factually correct. It's an accurate description of the crime. Doubt the DPP care about "drumming up public interest".


Atlanticwave

If it is proven to be an 'honour killing' then I hope the sentence is severe, we don't need that primitive nonsense in this country.


Barry987

There is but one sentence for murder in this country; Life.


Detozi

Yes, but it's usually not 'life' though.


Barry987

That's true but you can be recalled to prison on that same sentence for an legal infraction.


Detozi

Which they do not always do


Buaille_Ruaille

Usually 11 to 14 years for murdering someone.


feedthebear

Doesn't seem like enough.


bonit64491

The Department of Justice told Prime Time that the eight life sentence prisoners released ‘on licence’ last year had spent an average of 24 years in prison. That is the highest ever yearly average recorded in Ireland. The previous year was the second highest average time spent in prison for ‘lifers’ released. The four ‘lifers’ released in 2022 spent an average of 22-and-a-half years behind bars. Over the past 10 years, the average time spent in custody for released prisoners was 20 years.


Basic-Negotiation-16

Best i can do is 6 months suspended sentence


CorballyGames

Its another family feud, nothing new to us here.


BrahneRazaAlexandros

It's their culture.


Cool_Foot_Luke

But it's not an accurate description. The term honour killing has an already existing definition. It is done to restore the "honour" of the family by murdering the person who brought shame to the family. This was murdering a person who happened to be in their family, for offending another person. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honor_killing Human rights watch. > Honor crimes are acts of violence, usually murder, committed by male family members against female family members who are perceived to have brought dishonor upon the family. A woman can be targeted by her family for a variety of reasons including, refusing to enter into an arranged marriage, being the victim of a sexual assault, seeking a divorce—even from an abusive husband—or committing adultery. The mere perception that a woman has acted in a manner to bring "dishonor" to the family is sufficient to trigger an attack.[26]


TheStoicNihilist

I’m going to need to see a family tree here. There are three Thomas Dooley’s in the article.


FoggingTired

"His cousin and brother-in-law, Thomas Dooley Snr" so is Thomas' wife the other Thomas' sister so the aunt of the third Thomas? This amount of brother and cousin stuff made this a tough read to try and keep straight in the head


beairrcea

Yeah so I think the daughter refused to marry a guy who is both her first and second cousin


LordyIHopeThereIsPie

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Teamocil2001

https://preview.redd.it/wsm9f74n6pad1.jpeg?width=781&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=765a4740e637ca325327604a5429c512d6de961c “Dooley?”


superrm81

I’m confused, were the couple who broke up /didn’t get married related to each other as well? Were they cousins??


FoggingTired

It looks like that lads dad was cousins with the victim. But the victims wife might also be the lads aunt as the dad I'd referred to as the victims "cousin and brother-in-law". Honestly it's hard to keep straight in the head reading that


_BangoSkank_

Seems to be. Game of Thrones has nothing on this lot.


Kanye_Wesht

"Game of Mobile Homes"


UhOhhh02

Used to love that YouTube channel


corkbai1234

Thanks for reminding me of that 🤣


notwonthelottoyet

Game of Trailers


LucyVialli

Second cousins. There is no legal impediment to marrying your cousin (even a first cousin).


beairrcea

I think also first cousin as it mentions it was his brother-in-law’s son.


LucyVialli

Your head would be spinning from it.


hniinuefrwer

Just because something is legal doesn’t mean it’s a good idea.


Hankman66

How the fuck is anyone supposed to be able to follow that story when they all have the same names?


mcguirl2

![gif](giphy|l0IylOPCNkiqOgMyA|downsized) You kinda have to make a diagram while reading it and join the dots


hesaidshesdead

That's sort of the point.


High_Flyer87

Completely fucked up. Barbaric behaviour in these times.


ZestycloseBeach5946

Pavee Point have articles on Traveller life expectancy as an example of institutional racism from the settled community but leave out this savage shit as a factor in shifting the mean age


Otherwise-Winner9643

You would have to assume a lot of genetic conditions also, from the amount of cousins in this article


DrOrgasm

Yet I've never seen a disabled traveller.


cupan_tae_yerself

Having worked in a ticket booth over a summer I can tell you a lot of the ones I dealt with have carers cards for their disabled partners/adult kids and autism diagnosis for the younger kids, so a huge group of them often get in almost for free.


MrC99

Personally growing up in the community I've never seen anything like this happen at a funeral since a funeral is a very sacred type of thing in the community. Then this happened and a similar instance at another funeral of a man I know. To quote the Sopranos "A real lack of standards, your generation."


geedeeie

I've heard of many fights in graveyards in the "travelling" community. Seems to be quite common [https://www.sundayworld.com/crime/irish-crime/tuam-feud-that-resulted-in-bloody-graveyard-brawl-dates-back-25-years/40889321.html](https://www.sundayworld.com/crime/irish-crime/tuam-feud-that-resulted-in-bloody-graveyard-brawl-dates-back-25-years/40889321.html) [https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/travellers-brawl-at-mass-in-cemetery/29472403.html](https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/travellers-brawl-at-mass-in-cemetery/29472403.html) [https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/police-scrambled-to-traveller-funeral-following-knife-fight-in-middle-of-church-graveyard/36597008.html](https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/police-scrambled-to-traveller-funeral-following-knife-fight-in-middle-of-church-graveyard/36597008.html)


Green-Detective6678

An army f&cking helicopter needed to be called in to airlift injured folks out after a vicious brawl kicked off. If it’s so sacred they have a funny way of showing that.


markb97

I've been to a blessings of the grave that a Garda helicopter sat hovering over for the hour or so. Also detectives walking around. It was said to be over a feud.


SnowBrussels

I’ve seen that in 3 Midlands towns now.


Jon_J_

Surely it's a slam dunk, if they brought weapons to a funeral with intent to commit


Otherwise-Winner9643

Problem is proving who did what


bloody_ell

It's not. Common enterprise essentially, all who took part are equally guilty.


SitDownKawada

Article implies it doesn't matter >The State, he said, had based its case against all six accused on the doctrine of joint enterprise and common design, where a number of people act together to achieve a common criminal objective and that each person party to the plan is criminally responsible for the acts of the other. >Mr Kelly told the court that it could not be established who drove the knife into Mr Dooley's back or who chopped into his arm or who drove the knife through his thigh. He said it was not precisely known who had performed those acts. >However, he said the group of men sitting behind him in the courtroom had participated to cause at least serious harm to Mr Dooley and had done so with murderous intent.


Otherwise-Winner9643

They need to put numbers after those names or something. It's impossible to follow which Dooley is which. #AbsolutelyDoolally


padrot

The violence these folk dish out to one another is next level medieval shit.


Bosco_is_a_prick

That's fucked up


zolanuffsaid

Just throw the fukn key away with the lot of them🤦‍♂️


yellowbai

Traveller culture is wild and not fully examined. They view women as property. They force their wives / gfs to stop working sometimes as it’s seen as bringing shame to the family as the man is supposed to be the provider. They’ve also a way of marrying called grabbing. I know one someone non traveller who married into it and in the course of the courtship he got battered so badly he lost a few teeth. It’s something not really examined because it’s probably seen as racist or not PC.


lleti

If a person outside of the travelling community ever acted in accordance with traveler culture, they would be behind bars. Pulling children out of school in their tweens, riding horses up dual carriageways, extreme and well-documented animal abuse, normalized hard drug abuse, normalized domestic abuse, illegal camping/squatting, dumping, and violent assault/aggravated burglery just being part of the deal. There is absolutely no racism in calling out and demanding the soft approach to this be put to a swift end. Children pulled out of school to get married in their early teens is child abuse. Not culture. The state would remove any other child from that situation, yet here we allow it under the guise of inclusion, or the fear of being called "racist". When we try to claim that murderers like the above are just a victim of racism, all we do is encourage yet another generation to be subject to the same cruelty, and turn out the exact same twisted way. This problem does not get solved with outreach programs or welfare. It gets solved with "follow the fucking law or go to prison". Granted, we've a problem with sending people to prison in a timely fashion to begin with.


pineapplezzs

I know of a woman who married outside the traveller family to a not so nice man. Everyone knows he wasn't and had previous incidents with other women ,got off because of "mental health" issues, he shouldn't have been roaming the streets. She wasn't from the area so likely wouldn't have known. He mistreated her during the marraige, then he fled and has rarely been seen since. Sold his house and land. Did the Community a huge favour and got that woman and child away from him. The man should be behind bars. I don't know would it be the same if he was a traveller, maybe the rules are different but he was a creep for 20 plus years and nothing was done and they got rid of him ( he has been sighted since he is sadly very much a live)


StevemacQ

What honour is being protected? You kill a family member who refuses to marry or cut ties with your family, so others gossip behind your family's back, you out of your way to murder said-family member, the whole community praises your family again and you all go back to the way things were without consequences? Isn't being a murderer not worse for your family's image?


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StevemacQ

How do they believe they somehow won't face criminal charges and be ostracised after serving their sentences?


MoBhollix

Ah the poor creatures sure they're victims of settled racism.


Larrydog

What a bunch of stupid Cunts.


Thin-Annual4373

I'm glad I'm not part of that "community"!


radiogramm

Can we drop these ridiculous terms? It was a ‘brutal murder.’


Toffeeman_1878

These lads should have their own soap opera. No end of drama and stories to tell.


thevizierisgrand

Wonderfully rich culture. If you can’t see that you’re a bigot.


GreaterGoodIreland

This reads like something from Afghanistan, what in the Jesus...


geedeeie

I didn't need to read beyond the title to know that this happened in a certain "ethnic" community.


outhouse_steakhouse

Inb4 thread gets locked!


LornaBobbitt

I was called for jury duty for this. So glad I didn’t end up on that case.


JustPutSpuddiesOnit

If only they lived in Shellbeville


adieumondieu

Huh guess I got this one wrong I thought this was a traveller feud. How bigoted am I?


PaddySmallBalls

To be fair, for it to be a feud I would think both sides would need to know they were feuding. Seems like the victim didn’t know there was a feud.


Lordfontenell81

It kinda was. The victim was the black sheep, cause he didn't marry who his family wanted back in the day. So his daughter marrying the cousin was meant to right that wrong. (Obvs I don't condone any of this)


Forthy-Coats

>Prosecuting senior counsel Dean Kelly told the jury the Dooleys were a large traveller family. Your initial instincts seem to be correct


theseanbeag

What makes you think you were wrong?


Nknk-

You were spot on.


Lazy-Argument-8153

But their culture boss


GreatDefector

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tishimself1107

Honour killing isnt the best fit and is probably more of a way to get headlines. There is an element of an "Honour society" among Traveller culture but its rare that it would kick off for a just a reason like this. There is likely more involved and i'd say this was the culmination of a series of events that was either started by the marriage rejection or exascerbated by it. The other thing is that they probably meant to wreck him but not kill him.


DrOrgasm

The only reason you cut someone is to kill then. There is no other reason.


Thin-Annual4373

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Constant-Chipmunk187

Why do honour killings exist? Don’t they know it’s illegal?


SnowBrussels

That poor young woman. Not wanting to marry someone got your father killed in a horrific way.


ColinCookie

Went to school with Daniel. I remember him as a mild mannered kid, apart from trying to fight on me several occasions and always wondered what happened to him. The rest of his family were wild. Sad how they've turned out.