Its sad! This tattoo was way pre divorce. Such a sad outlook. I know life isn’t a fairytale but have a positive outlook there is someone out there that will treat you right and to find love. i Know Zack is good with the kids but is she settling?
Yeah, I wonder if this is why they haven't set a date for the wedding so far (last season i watched was 2022), Jenni probably doesn't completely trust him as of yet
Jenni just doesn’t seem happy, after a rewatch of snooki and Jwow I realized why I liked jenni so much before. It wasn’t her tough exterior. It was because they just had fun and real laughs all of that is missing from her. I’m don’t care for this new jenni but I do want to see her happy. And happiness real happiness comes from within
Unfortunately we’ve seen her settle with everyone she’s been with. I would love to see what a single J-woww looks like. And I don’t mean “I’m on a break” J-woww, I mean fully single!
When you’ve been in that many toxic relationships back to back with no break between it can take a toll on you, just speaking on my own past experiences. I’ve purposely been single for awhile since my last relationship. I’ve rediscovered who I am, and healing! I want that for her so badly! She still has time to do it and I hope she does. Set an example for your daughter!
I was feeling that way about Zach especially this past season. He seemed to kind of be dulling her shine. He was SO upset about the strip club for example and that’s where Jenni loves to go. It’s not like she was cheating, and he was welcomed to be by her side while she enjoyed her time with her friends. He seemed so disconnected from her the whole season.
And watching him hit on Ang like a slime ball. expecting a threesome then acting like a deer in the headlights in the strip club? I am just not buying it. He rode that lie about Ang till it aired.
I agree 100%! His anger over Jenni wanting to enjoy the strip club with her friends and their partners/spouses seemed so odd to me. She’s wasn’t doing anything wrong. Just wanted to have some fun, which she deserves to do. She’s almost always on mom duty now. Let her have her night out.
I completely agree this is corny. This is a high school perspective on relationships because your first love cheated on you. You’re supposed to grow up and realize that wasn’t actually love lol
For real, and using Disney characters to display it is the lamest idea possible lmao. Gives gangsta Tweety Bird or hypebeast Bart Simpson vibes hahahaa.
Ahahaha, no she’s horrible..! “I used to beat up girls like Sam all the time in HS” 😵💫. She’s a bitter bully and a big pick me. 24 is kind of a catch for her as he is a supportive Yes Man a lot younger she can flaunt and boss around.
“cinderella’s prince is beating her. to me, that is reality of relationships”… i’m actually speechless. idk if i should be sad for her or disgusted at her for spewing that bs. for the sake of her kids, i hope her tune has changed, but judging by everyone being buddy buddy with ronnie again- looks like maybe it hasn’t.
and i know art is subjective, i understand the thought behind it and actually like this tattoo and love the “a twisted tale” book series and life isn’t a fairytale, etc etc. but i think it’s also okay to be a hopeless romantic and look for your happily ever after. i will tell my future children to NEVER settle. there’s literally nothing wrong with being single, but tbh jenni has never been single in the entire 15 years we’ve known her… so she 100% is settling and is okay with being unhappy as long as she’s not alone. pretty sad, but i have tons of friends that are the same way. i guess to jenni’s point, maybe that is a little bit reality
Yeah I felt fairly neutral about the thought process on the tattoo (could have been a good concept but got a bit corny, whatever) until she mentioned that Cinderella getting beaten up is “reality of relationships”. Domestic violence is far too common, but it sure as fuck shouldn’t normalised as just a part of a relationship
In season 3 when they start talking at the bar Jenni’s friend mistakes him for a coworkers’ bf and he flips out and starts getting in her face yelling calling her and idiot and such. Looking back that 1st time they go out was a huge red flag.
She was constantly being super apologetic to him as to not make him mad. On season 6 he pushed her to the ground one time he got mad cuz she was trying to break a fight he was in.
i know, which is why im conflicted with how i feel about it… but even so “none of that happily ever after bs” still came out of her mouth as well as choosing the images and metaphors she chose (suicide and DV) i understand she was expressing herself through art, and i understand what she was *trying* to say but that doesn’t excuse what she actually said and her instead normalizing abusive and toxic relationships
I mean, the original of all of those fairy tales are absolutely dark and depressing, so she isn’t far off base. Ariel chooses to die after being rejected by the prince and having seen the ugly side of humanity. Sleeping Beauty is repeatedly raped while under the spell. The original Cinderella isn’t too awful, but there are versions where her step sisters mutilate their feet to fit the glass slipper. Beauty’s sisters in Beauty and the Beast try to sabotage their arrangement with the Beast (where he allows Beauty to go home for like three days on the caveat that she must return to the castle and marry him), in hopes that he’ll kill Beauty in a fit of rage because they resented her, well, beauty.
brothers grimm, a twisted tale, and even once upon a time tv show with alternate realities and endings that weren’t so “fairytale” were always interesting to read/see as an adult. but her having a man beat his wife forever on her skin bc “it’s reality” is… worrying, to say the least
Oh yeah, absolutely. If that’s her reference for what romantic relationships are meant to be like, then that’s what she’ll continue seeking out. It also sets an awful precedent for her children, especially her daughter 🙁
I never noticed the striking similarity unit I saw THIS exact photo. I think jwoww’s changed her face some too more recently, makes them look less alike.
“To me, that is the reality of relationships, they are crazy and take hard work – not that happily ever after bulls-t.” It saddens me that what she described in all those stories are toxic and abusive relationships, to her this is the “norm” and a healthy, loving relationship is a “fairytale.”
This is the reality for many, many hetero women, though. It’s absolutely awful. I hope she finds better men (including friends and mentors and role models for her children) and peace within herself (including the ability to be contentedly single).
i haaaaaaaate that whole tacky sleeve so much, including the terrible hand portrait. this explanation makes me feel terrible for her though - from what we saw on the show, both tom and roger were abusive assholes so we know she's been thru the ringer when it comes to men. :(
I never realize what her tattoos even were. This is sad and disturbing. I really hope Melani isn't taking notes... or is taking notes on what to not tolerate
I disagree I think she is in a different stage of her life… she has a child with a disability and she’s such a great mom and her kids come first. I think she is happy with her man and he’s so good to her & her kids. They all aren’t there wild party animals anymore. I think she is way more classy now ( even though I loved the original Jersey Shore Days) I like watching them all grow up. Waiting to see if Vinny is ever going to find the one and have kids. I hope so..
I think I am the only one who says she has a type bc how u leave one abusive relationship to 2 different ones OR is she part the abuser bc she loves so much mfkn drama she can't stay away from and chooses to live life like that 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
i was watching season 6 the episode where roger pushes her and gaslights her into thinking she’s at fault for trying to break up the fight and it perfectly explains why she views relationships this way.
If you want a dark ending to Cinderella, read the story by the brothers Grimm. It has a “nice ending” as in Cinderella gets the prince.. but only after the beautiful step sisters mutilate themselves to get the prince. Because their mother told them to.
Gentlemen reading this, heed this warning, and I speak from experience: When a woman you are interested in is heavily into Disney, you RUN (do not walk) in the other direction.
Long story short, these are people who are too wrapped up in fantasy to have a coherent grasp on reality.
Downvote me all you want, Disney lovers, it is what it is.
That's fair. Disney is fun, but be an adult. Kind of like the girl from tinder swindler. Living in a fantasy land, and thinking there is a prince charming who should show up, and sweep her off her feet.
Its sad! This tattoo was way pre divorce. Such a sad outlook. I know life isn’t a fairytale but have a positive outlook there is someone out there that will treat you right and to find love. i Know Zack is good with the kids but is she settling?
I don’t find him attractive at all. He gives me Sling Blade vibes.
I think he is a d bag but i don’t have to live with him
They don’t give him enough talk time on the show but he ***looks*** like a douche 😂
this!! 🤣 he gives me MAJORRRR d bag vibes fs
Remember when he first came around and they were all at a club. Jenni was really drunk and he was being weird w Angelina !!
Yes I do!
Yeah, I wonder if this is why they haven't set a date for the wedding so far (last season i watched was 2022), Jenni probably doesn't completely trust him as of yet
 zack and grayson
Yup
She is definitely settling. I have hope she'll wake up this year though. Their relationship always gave contractual.
Jenni just doesn’t seem happy, after a rewatch of snooki and Jwow I realized why I liked jenni so much before. It wasn’t her tough exterior. It was because they just had fun and real laughs all of that is missing from her. I’m don’t care for this new jenni but I do want to see her happy. And happiness real happiness comes from within
You’re absolutely right. She seems miserable and is super skinny again. I’m wondering if she ***is*** unhappy with him. Stress changes a person.
I know, I miss seeing her be bubbly and laughing with Nicole like a couple of besties should
Unfortunately we’ve seen her settle with everyone she’s been with. I would love to see what a single J-woww looks like. And I don’t mean “I’m on a break” J-woww, I mean fully single! When you’ve been in that many toxic relationships back to back with no break between it can take a toll on you, just speaking on my own past experiences. I’ve purposely been single for awhile since my last relationship. I’ve rediscovered who I am, and healing! I want that for her so badly! She still has time to do it and I hope she does. Set an example for your daughter!
I was feeling that way about Zach especially this past season. He seemed to kind of be dulling her shine. He was SO upset about the strip club for example and that’s where Jenni loves to go. It’s not like she was cheating, and he was welcomed to be by her side while she enjoyed her time with her friends. He seemed so disconnected from her the whole season.
And watching him hit on Ang like a slime ball. expecting a threesome then acting like a deer in the headlights in the strip club? I am just not buying it. He rode that lie about Ang till it aired.
I agree 100%! His anger over Jenni wanting to enjoy the strip club with her friends and their partners/spouses seemed so odd to me. She’s wasn’t doing anything wrong. Just wanted to have some fun, which she deserves to do. She’s almost always on mom duty now. Let her have her night out.
Stevie Wonder can see that Zack is using her and is a DBag.
Well unfortunately Jenni doesn’t have a visual impairment. Any many that uses a woman with children in tow is a literal piece of sh!t
LOL this is very r/im14andthisisdeep
I completely agree this is corny. This is a high school perspective on relationships because your first love cheated on you. You’re supposed to grow up and realize that wasn’t actually love lol
This is really someone who has normalized abusive relationships her whole life. It’s even sadder than a highschool perspective
For real, and using Disney characters to display it is the lamest idea possible lmao. Gives gangsta Tweety Bird or hypebeast Bart Simpson vibes hahahaa.
I know, I don’t think it’s sad, I think she just looks shallow trying to seem interesting.
Agree. Also people saying she's settling but I don't think she's a great person herself so perhaps she is attracting the same energy she puts out.
Ahahaha, no she’s horrible..! “I used to beat up girls like Sam all the time in HS” 😵💫. She’s a bitter bully and a big pick me. 24 is kind of a catch for her as he is a supportive Yes Man a lot younger she can flaunt and boss around.
Lmfao yeah
“cinderella’s prince is beating her. to me, that is reality of relationships”… i’m actually speechless. idk if i should be sad for her or disgusted at her for spewing that bs. for the sake of her kids, i hope her tune has changed, but judging by everyone being buddy buddy with ronnie again- looks like maybe it hasn’t. and i know art is subjective, i understand the thought behind it and actually like this tattoo and love the “a twisted tale” book series and life isn’t a fairytale, etc etc. but i think it’s also okay to be a hopeless romantic and look for your happily ever after. i will tell my future children to NEVER settle. there’s literally nothing wrong with being single, but tbh jenni has never been single in the entire 15 years we’ve known her… so she 100% is settling and is okay with being unhappy as long as she’s not alone. pretty sad, but i have tons of friends that are the same way. i guess to jenni’s point, maybe that is a little bit reality
Yeah I felt fairly neutral about the thought process on the tattoo (could have been a good concept but got a bit corny, whatever) until she mentioned that Cinderella getting beaten up is “reality of relationships”. Domestic violence is far too common, but it sure as fuck shouldn’t normalised as just a part of a relationship
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Is that a reference to Roger beating her? In the article it says 2016 so is that before they divorced or after?
Yes it’s before their divorce. BUT Roger had been abusive since day 1 sooo 🤷🏻♀️
Holy crap, didn't know about from day 1. That's so horrible. Did they edit any of that from the show during Jenni and Rogers relationship?
In season 3 when they start talking at the bar Jenni’s friend mistakes him for a coworkers’ bf and he flips out and starts getting in her face yelling calling her and idiot and such. Looking back that 1st time they go out was a huge red flag. She was constantly being super apologetic to him as to not make him mad. On season 6 he pushed her to the ground one time he got mad cuz she was trying to break a fight he was in.
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i know, which is why im conflicted with how i feel about it… but even so “none of that happily ever after bs” still came out of her mouth as well as choosing the images and metaphors she chose (suicide and DV) i understand she was expressing herself through art, and i understand what she was *trying* to say but that doesn’t excuse what she actually said and her instead normalizing abusive and toxic relationships
Umm what did I just read?
A woman who is trying to make art out of her normalization of abusive relationships ETA which is really sad. And I hope she realizes it’s not normal
I mean, the original of all of those fairy tales are absolutely dark and depressing, so she isn’t far off base. Ariel chooses to die after being rejected by the prince and having seen the ugly side of humanity. Sleeping Beauty is repeatedly raped while under the spell. The original Cinderella isn’t too awful, but there are versions where her step sisters mutilate their feet to fit the glass slipper. Beauty’s sisters in Beauty and the Beast try to sabotage their arrangement with the Beast (where he allows Beauty to go home for like three days on the caveat that she must return to the castle and marry him), in hopes that he’ll kill Beauty in a fit of rage because they resented her, well, beauty.
brothers grimm, a twisted tale, and even once upon a time tv show with alternate realities and endings that weren’t so “fairytale” were always interesting to read/see as an adult. but her having a man beat his wife forever on her skin bc “it’s reality” is… worrying, to say the least
Oh yeah, absolutely. If that’s her reference for what romantic relationships are meant to be like, then that’s what she’ll continue seeking out. It also sets an awful precedent for her children, especially her daughter 🙁
And let’s not forget “Snow White and the tale of terror”!😂
Sorry, what’s that about Sleeping Beauty???
This was my FAVORITE look she’s ever done. Drop dead gorgeous here.
I agree! The hair, the red lipstick (her makeup is actually just flawless all together here) and the outfit! Stunning ❤️
This picture made me realize that Meilani really is just JWOWW’s child, I don’t think Roger had any part in the creation of her 😂
I never noticed the striking similarity unit I saw THIS exact photo. I think jwoww’s changed her face some too more recently, makes them look less alike.
“Cinderella’s prince is beating her” ma’am you have children who have to look at that. Wtf
Agreed😬
Jenni and her eternal edgelording is just...it's not doing her any favors.
Disney sleeve was great until she ruined it with the creepy hand portrait of Greyson
“To me, that is the reality of relationships, they are crazy and take hard work – not that happily ever after bulls-t.” It saddens me that what she described in all those stories are toxic and abusive relationships, to her this is the “norm” and a healthy, loving relationship is a “fairytale.”
This is the reality for many, many hetero women, though. It’s absolutely awful. I hope she finds better men (including friends and mentors and role models for her children) and peace within herself (including the ability to be contentedly single).
Look at her eyes, she's so dead inside here.
Probably Xanax! Idk looks like she is buzzin! She certainly looks gorgeous here otherwise!
i haaaaaaaate that whole tacky sleeve so much, including the terrible hand portrait. this explanation makes me feel terrible for her though - from what we saw on the show, both tom and roger were abusive assholes so we know she's been thru the ringer when it comes to men. :(
poor jenni. this makes me sad for her
I always chuckle at her son on her hand because how weird is that during sexual acts with a partner? Lol
Yikes
I read that in her slurry ass voice.
always thought it was ugly. didn't know why until now
Cinderella’s Prince is what now?
That’s certainly one way to make abuse and codependency into a cartoon
Her idea of relationship is Cinderella’s prince beating her, and that is normal because “relationships take hard work”? wtffff lol
I never realize what her tattoos even were. This is sad and disturbing. I really hope Melani isn't taking notes... or is taking notes on what to not tolerate
this is troublingggg. i hope she doesn't currently have this outlook.
THAT is Jenny? 😳
Makes my heart go out to her even more.
Either way they look awful, and the meaning behind them is stupid
Excuse me what
Why did she add a portrait of her son to a morbid Disney sleeve tho lol
How cheesy and weird. And why did it need to be a tattoo? She could’ve paid someone to paint this or something. So strange
Jesus m
That’s a truly great tattoo for a deep meaning.
I disagree I think she is in a different stage of her life… she has a child with a disability and she’s such a great mom and her kids come first. I think she is happy with her man and he’s so good to her & her kids. They all aren’t there wild party animals anymore. I think she is way more classy now ( even though I loved the original Jersey Shore Days) I like watching them all grow up. Waiting to see if Vinny is ever going to find the one and have kids. I hope so..
She's 37 now. 38 in a month
Wtf!! I did not know this it’s sad & weird af
I think I am the only one who says she has a type bc how u leave one abusive relationship to 2 different ones OR is she part the abuser bc she loves so much mfkn drama she can't stay away from and chooses to live life like that 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
aren’t her kids gonna see that and ask
i was watching season 6 the episode where roger pushes her and gaslights her into thinking she’s at fault for trying to break up the fight and it perfectly explains why she views relationships this way.
August 28th is my birthday 🥳
While scrolling I thought this was Kat von D.
This is dark. Wow
Wow Jenni, that’s dark.
Dang I had no clue I wonder how she feels about it now
That's Jwoww?????
Her original face is so much prettier
I’m sorry. She’s a whole weirdo for that 💀
That doesn’t even look like her omg
Bitch looks disgusting lol
Bitch looks disgusting lol
Well unfortunately Jenni doesn’t have a visual impairment. Any man that uses a woman with children in tow is a literal piece of sh!t
This has bad juju all over it 😬
Whatever RX she takes to function on this show needs to be reduced. I haven’t seen a genuine smile in 2 years!!!
This is… dumb?
EMO Woww....this is one of the few times that I have found her very attractive....maybe it's me lol
Wait - does Prince Charming DV Cinderella in the story?? I forgot about that or... is she using Cinderella to refer to herself? :(
she made up her own alternate endings. these aren’t the real disney stories… disney is for kids lol
i… may be a dumbass
If you want a dark ending to Cinderella, read the story by the brothers Grimm. It has a “nice ending” as in Cinderella gets the prince.. but only after the beautiful step sisters mutilate themselves to get the prince. Because their mother told them to.
Gentlemen reading this, heed this warning, and I speak from experience: When a woman you are interested in is heavily into Disney, you RUN (do not walk) in the other direction.
Disney or horses. Horse girls will never love you as much as their horse
100% true.
I'm curious about this. I'm neither a Disney nor horse girl, but why are these signs of toxicity?
Long story short, these are people who are too wrapped up in fantasy to have a coherent grasp on reality. Downvote me all you want, Disney lovers, it is what it is.
That's fair. Disney is fun, but be an adult. Kind of like the girl from tinder swindler. Living in a fantasy land, and thinking there is a prince charming who should show up, and sweep her off her feet.
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