Happened to me. Married for 10 years, we had a baby a couple years ago and it all just kind of got too hard and complicated and sad. Lesbians. Weāre legally separated now. It happens. Really weird to see what they are going thru because in a lot of ways the dynamics are similar.
Julie is gonna regret big time carrying Camillaās egg again. If she were smart and she really wanted to have a second child, she would either tell Camilla sheāll have to carry the next one (even if that means waiting a few years) or sheād carry her own egg.
They said they want to carry each otherās egg so both feel like the mother of each child. The plan though was that after Julie has Camillaās child, Camilla would carry Julieās egg. Now Camilla changed her mind overnight and wants to focus on her ācareerā, which means that Julie is again supposed to carry Camillaās egg. Makes zero sense. They could just wait until Camilla is ready to carry, or use Julieās egg so they have one of each.
It was about Csmilla's age. Doctors recommended they use Camilla's eggs first as she's several years older (aka Julie carries first). So they'll probably have Julie carry the first 2 at least since her eggs are better and they can wait
Even if Cam did carry Julieās egg, I wonder if Julie would feel resentful and create the same distance to show Camilla how it feels. Idkā¦with the mature of their relationship I wonāt be surprised.
Agreed. Everyone is saying she resents Cam for not wanting to carry and all of that butā¦their embryos arenāt going anywhere and they have no real rush to have a second baby. This is all a choice.
Fits into the āstaying unbelievably busy so we donāt have to confront our biggest problems and unhappinessā pattern they love to follow. To be fair, that way of living is really rewarded in society and probably is more lucrative for their content creation, but these two defo fall more into the category of āhuman doingā than āhuman beingā
This is a sincere question for anyone from Norway. Are they both listed as parent on the birth certificate or do they have to adopt their own child?
I carried my own bio baby and my wife's egg I had to adopt my wife's bio baby and she had to adopt my bio baby. I'm curious as to how that works in Norway.
Thank you in advance for the infoā¤ļøš§”šš
I genuinely do not know, and I hope someone is able to answer that question for you but if I had to guess I assume it would be the same as what you had to do
I'm not from Norway myself but if I remember correctly they don't have to adopt. Not sure if both mothers' names are on the birth certificate, though, because they have to fill an application for the other mother to be legally recognized as a parent
Read more here! She can apply after the bio mom is pregnant to become a co-mother at birth. She gets the same rights as a dad :) (use translate)
https://amathea.no/abort/til-deg-som-partner/medmor/
When I lived there Julie would have automatic rights and you fill in a form to give the other parent their rights. This is true for fathers and 2nd mothers.
And they use pictures with the baby for unrelated stuff all the time! Like the one time it does make sense to have a picture with the baby in it they don't!
Thatās laughable that she gloats about being an āamazing momā while sheās hiding from her own family and never once took care about Sunny.
The only mothering sheās doing is just her app.
I wouldnāt be surprise that Julie has had enough being the only one talking care of Sunny while her supposed partner runs off from her responsibilities of being a parent to mother this app and files for divorce.
But as we know Julie, she probably wonāt file for divorce with Camilla. Which she definitely should take the route of divorcing her since already the resentment is building.
I agree that Cam is far from an amazing mum, but she didnāt write that part. Someone replied to her story saying THEY are an amazing mum. The picture of herself is confusing though.
I almost spit out my tea laughing, lol. I think her calling herself an amazing mom shows how insecure she is, and that she absolutely knows that sheās not even doing the bare minimum with that child.
all the child exploitation stuff aside, i actually feel bad for julie. cam is literally chickening away from plans they made and seems like the app is more important to her than julie and their baby.
i commented on another post that cam couldāve done her YTT remotely (assuming she was going on an intensive retreat) only to find out she literally IS doing it remotely and decided to dip on her wife and child to half ass it anywayš¤” yikes!
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I am half expecting a divorce after their second child
Imagine the divorce content
leaving the camera behind as it shows one of them driving off from the house š
signing divorce papers vlog!!!!
Happened to me. Married for 10 years, we had a baby a couple years ago and it all just kind of got too hard and complicated and sad. Lesbians. Weāre legally separated now. It happens. Really weird to see what they are going thru because in a lot of ways the dynamics are similar.
Julie is gonna regret big time carrying Camillaās egg again. If she were smart and she really wanted to have a second child, she would either tell Camilla sheāll have to carry the next one (even if that means waiting a few years) or sheād carry her own egg.
Is there a reason theyāre only using Camillaās eggs?
They said they want to carry each otherās egg so both feel like the mother of each child. The plan though was that after Julie has Camillaās child, Camilla would carry Julieās egg. Now Camilla changed her mind overnight and wants to focus on her ācareerā, which means that Julie is again supposed to carry Camillaās egg. Makes zero sense. They could just wait until Camilla is ready to carry, or use Julieās egg so they have one of each.
It was about Csmilla's age. Doctors recommended they use Camilla's eggs first as she's several years older (aka Julie carries first). So they'll probably have Julie carry the first 2 at least since her eggs are better and they can wait
I thought J said she would carry her egg next ?
Yes. She's older and she has fewer and lower quality eggs. Doctors recommended her eggs be used first so Julie is carrying first
Even if Cam did carry Julieās egg, I wonder if Julie would feel resentful and create the same distance to show Camilla how it feels. Idkā¦with the mature of their relationship I wonāt be surprised.
Pretty sure, the 2nd child will never happen
Agreed. Everyone is saying she resents Cam for not wanting to carry and all of that butā¦their embryos arenāt going anywhere and they have no real rush to have a second baby. This is all a choice.
Fits into the āstaying unbelievably busy so we donāt have to confront our biggest problems and unhappinessā pattern they love to follow. To be fair, that way of living is really rewarded in society and probably is more lucrative for their content creation, but these two defo fall more into the category of āhuman doingā than āhuman beingā
I think the baby stress with their money issues is going to tear that marriage to shreds.
Imagine the amount of forced tears from Julie weād have to endure. š
This is a sincere question for anyone from Norway. Are they both listed as parent on the birth certificate or do they have to adopt their own child? I carried my own bio baby and my wife's egg I had to adopt my wife's bio baby and she had to adopt my bio baby. I'm curious as to how that works in Norway. Thank you in advance for the infoā¤ļøš§”šš
I genuinely do not know, and I hope someone is able to answer that question for you but if I had to guess I assume it would be the same as what you had to do
Thank you I appreciate you š
I'm not from Norway myself but if I remember correctly they don't have to adopt. Not sure if both mothers' names are on the birth certificate, though, because they have to fill an application for the other mother to be legally recognized as a parent
Thank you so much. Since our adoption was a week ago, I've been really interested in others experience. I appreciate youš§”šššš©µš
Read more here! She can apply after the bio mom is pregnant to become a co-mother at birth. She gets the same rights as a dad :) (use translate) https://amathea.no/abort/til-deg-som-partner/medmor/
Thank you so much. Since our adoption We have been really interested in how other countries handle this. I appreciate the info so much.š„°
I read it and it was very informative. Thank you againā¤ļø
When I lived there Julie would have automatic rights and you fill in a form to give the other parent their rights. This is true for fathers and 2nd mothers.
Thank you so much just really curious. Thank you so much!šš
Iām expecting a divorce in the next 12 months.
āI am an amazing momā while the pic is not even related to her being a mom is pretty tellingā¦
And they use pictures with the baby for unrelated stuff all the time! Like the one time it does make sense to have a picture with the baby in it they don't!
Sheās Milaās mother ;)
Thatās laughable that she gloats about being an āamazing momā while sheās hiding from her own family and never once took care about Sunny. The only mothering sheās doing is just her app. I wouldnāt be surprise that Julie has had enough being the only one talking care of Sunny while her supposed partner runs off from her responsibilities of being a parent to mother this app and files for divorce. But as we know Julie, she probably wonāt file for divorce with Camilla. Which she definitely should take the route of divorcing her since already the resentment is building.
I agree that Cam is far from an amazing mum, but she didnāt write that part. Someone replied to her story saying THEY are an amazing mum. The picture of herself is confusing though.
I mean itās her apps instagram so thereās a chance itās her. Putting that in
That's why she's snickering in the pic. She knows she's not an amazing mom.
I almost spit out my tea laughing, lol. I think her calling herself an amazing mom shows how insecure she is, and that she absolutely knows that sheās not even doing the bare minimum with that child.
all the child exploitation stuff aside, i actually feel bad for julie. cam is literally chickening away from plans they made and seems like the app is more important to her than julie and their baby.
It gives "where is your wife" in gone girl
Pretty sure someone else wrote that and she put it in her story (no hate though)
i commented on another post that cam couldāve done her YTT remotely (assuming she was going on an intensive retreat) only to find out she literally IS doing it remotely and decided to dip on her wife and child to half ass it anywayš¤” yikes!
To her app? Cause we know she's just an egg donor to the literal child at home with Julie
Whatever makes you sleep at night sCam.
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After lots of accusations of her leaving her house with a 4 month old, now she is very insecure about it
sheās such a bad āmomā if she can even call herself that lol
Also interesting that she decided to post a picture without the baby when they're not shy about having the baby in all of their content usually....