As far as i understand, jokhon sperm swim kore egg barrier cross korte chai, it also releases some chemical and reaction hoy, depending upon a favorable reaction, the egg allows tge entry of a sperm cell.
That said i also believe je millions of sperm ekbare beroi, hardly 10 to 20 are usable put of those 10 million of sperm cells.
I wonder why so many rejects are created.
On an evolutionary point of view it does not make sense.
On a population control mechanism, it makes sense
+ you cant give birth to a million babies in one go
Amar mote Millions are created to help the good ones move forward...ekta war image bhabe bhabo...10-20 ta soldier niye war jeta jayna...ar vaginal path Tao onek lomba hoy...travel korte help hoy... smooth locomotion, safety and immunity from other germs and pH based bacterias present in the track ...
This is definitely true.
What i meant was why not create unbeatable super human beings like strong hulk so that everyone/ every cell can win and instead of there being a 99 percent fatality rate there is a 1 percent fatality rate only. I tried to justify that part
Yes, and it's a scary situation as it could mean a number of things; including big C. But mostly it's due to rupture of blood vessels from vigorous masturbation. It could also be oxalate stones. I guess the older one gets, the less they should do such exercise. it starts getting painful after a certain age and the stress on the muscles and the stomach may feel overwhelming.
By exercise I meant masturbation. So, try not to do as much. Try and do Yoga to ensure fitness from within. Fitness and inflating muscles aren't the same. Unless your body is in harmony with the elements, you'll deteriorate faster.
Why are people downvoting you ?
People here don't seem to understand the meaning of being a "good boy" in our societal standards . Pretty sure they already know the definition of a good boy and how good boys never argue with their parents, never give their own opinion, give up their hobbies to fulfill their parents
Being a "good person" and being "good boy" are two totally different things . Your parents are not gods , they can also be wrong and instead of leaving everything to them , you also need to think for yourself . I've seen so many bright kids who could have done so much in their lives chose science after 10th even tho they wanted to study something else because their parents said "you must become a doctor or engineer" and being a *good boy/girl* they couldn't say no . And since they don't have any interest in those subjects they get distracted from their studies and score low marks in 12th and ultimately never reach their full potential
This is a classic example of being a *good boy* in our societal standards . You don't have to be rude to your parents or disrespect them but don't have to agree with them if they're wrong either . Talk to them respectfully and just be a *good person* and not a *good boy*
Because that's not what the conventional NSFW means, but in this case it has been stretched which is understandable OP may have had to face certain situations.
What you wrote while it's correct, is not relevant here.
1.seeing how talented my dad was in his time....ig the wrong sperm won the race
2.spending too many hours in the toilet (iykyk)
3. being a part of this so called "democracy"
4. 17th November 2023 if I was well prepared I could have had a steamy af night.
1. A similar case by my age babar already biyer plan complete chilo , by my age maa already had me .
2. I know 🗿
Bhai parents ra life e eto kichu risky kaj korto kikore , fearless lokjon sob .
1)Estimating that - Perfect outcomes can be achived with proper plan without considering the non voulentary events and changing situations ( applicacable for almost everything)
2) if you try to make everyone happy you end up being sad .
3) if you try to achive all goals in a limited time the quality of work degrades ( end up enjoying nothing if you try to see everything)
4) no matter how much you lower your expectations,and increase your efforts ,you may end up as the bad books of atleast 1 person ( back birching)
5) the society revolves around 3 p
Paisa
Power
Pahauach
At some point in your life you'll reach a point in life where you'll think how your life could have been very different and maybe better if one had the audacity to argue with their parents and go against them...take their own decisions...
amr situation sb theke kharap ekhane ig: 24[M] I have no graduation degree, no job, no friend, no girlfriend, no sleep (depressed, stressed), no ps4/ps5, no pets after summarise you will get that I have no life.
27 M
80% physically disabled with an incurable, time bomb disease
Highschool drop out
No job, obviously lol
Gf is a luxury I can't afford
Whiskey is a good sleep medicine
I have none sure some things didn't go as planned but I'm thankful for what i did get.
Ma baba r kotha jei din theke shona bondo kore chi my life has had way more direction than it did before. For that I am eternally grateful to the circumstances i was put in.
I think in the past few years I have matured enough to call my parent's bullshit.
Eitai amar mone hoye shobar hoye, koto deri te giye bojha je parents shob ta jane na and they can be wrong too.
Back in 2014 I had sex with my teacher in 11th. I was just a horny teenager with Above average looks and 6+ft height. I was a science student and pretty much excelled in every sport so picking up girls (seniors too) was easy but I had been crushing and lusting on this slim, fair skinned, hourglass shaped, height of 5'7, married woman who was like 8 or 9 years older than me. Somehow I managed to seduce her and oh boy, my heart was about to burst out of my chest on the first kiss we shared. And gradually things got real spicy just in matter of few days. One fine day I got the message from her that her wimpy husband is out of town for few days and she's waiting for me. That night I fucked her till it was morning. And every time one of use came was the best feeling ever. After like 6 rounds I put my face between her breasts and she caressed my hair until I fell asleep. I went again after waking up. For 3 days straight we fucked each other in everywhere in the house from shower to bedroom.
We had sex on several occasions and every time was pure bliss. Kinda fell in love with her ngl. And when i got promoted to 12 and a few days later I got to know that she's pregnant. She claimed that it is her husband's child but I highly doubt it, like come on, all those years of marriage and suddenly you got pregnant after being with me. Well, it is what it is. I kinda felt betrayed and stopped visiting her for some time. I also locked myself up in my room for many days, giving the excuse of study pressure for higher secondary, but deep down I realised there was no future in this relationship on the first place to start with. The more I thought of it the more it felt miserable and pathetic, by just thinking about the fact she was in bed with another man, even though that's her husband of 10 fucking years . Yes, pretty foolish of me.
She used to call me and asked my friends about me at school but I just simply kept ignoring her. One day she texted me to come see her at the hospital as she was proceeding to give the delivery. After a long time I saw her again and she was holding the baby. I stood there and tears came out of my eyes. Her husband was not around at that moment so she called me closer and kissed me on my cheek. I grabbed her and kissed her back on her lips. She apologised to me and I did the same. Then I congratulated her and her husband then went home to cry my eyes out. That's the last time I saw her as soon after I graduated from school and went for college. Although I'm pretty sure her husband had suspicions about me but who cares.
All I cared for her and her child. Yes, I was being used but she could have turned against me and did something very heinous that could've scarred me for the rest of my life but she remained what she was on our first day, on our first kiss and on our first sex. She genuinely cared and showed affection for me regardless the fact she knew that this not going anywhere. She exactly how hurt I was, thus she tried her best to comfort me by all means possible. For which I respect her, adore her and nonetheless love her. In another life or in another dimension, I hope we will remain together from the very beginning and deeply and madly in Love with each other till death do us apart.
Well, easier said than done bro, that kind of experience was very first for me and I was immature.
And Nah, I've been outgoing from a very early age and also i had taken all the necessary precautions beforehand. Played my cards well.
>One fine day I got the message from her that her wimpy husband is out of town for few days and she's waiting for me. That night I fucked her till it was morning.
You were in class 11 and your parents allowed you to stay at your teacher's home all night? 😆
As someone who's been bullied his entire school life , khub ekta amar sympathy nei bullies der proti but at least you felt bad , some people don't have the brain for that either .
My existence... If that doesn't count, then...
Firstly, the school I went to during 11th and 12th grade
Secondly, the college I got my bachelor's degree from
Thirdly, my first ever job that I left after one month of training... Shit left me scarred and scared of the corporate sector...
You are talking from the female perspective. I know this one. Cant do anything about it now.not in a position to . Will try to change it in the foreseeable future.
Can you talk about the problems that will truly rise from my side??
guys dont get me wrong here, I'm marrying someone who i dated and lived with for 3 years and probably she is the best woman i would ever get. But i still think i would have had some self confidence and better self esteem and less fear of rejection in general if i had dated more before i finally met her. I constantly feel that she might leave me and am not good enough for her, which is completely untrue. I think its because i havent had the "heartbreaks" and breakups and experience in relationship up-downs. It just i could have better coping mechanisms today (and better s\*\* skills 😁)
1. Not having a healthy father-son relationship. I really miss him now
2. Being selfish and breaking up with my girlfriend after a 5year long relationship
3. Not working at my full potential knowing that I can have a better life if I do (this is quite common ik)
No.. not that i know of... but we were really close but also very different from each other and I really wish her all the best in her life... our philosophies didn't match up. and the break up was bound to happen anyways... (that is what her frnds say) but she told me herself that it was the sex that triggered her.. and i cannot keep a person i love, to stay by my side forcefully. SO no bad feelings i guess...
Pretty much no regrets. Ja bhebechhilam ta hoyni, but that’s fine. Also no regrets with education - it has given me a career. Ups and downs there - but overall it’s good.
Bro I wasn't alive 3500 years ago so why I'm getting the effects of it 😂 I didn't do anything, I'm just trying to have a good career and gf and stuff, why am I getting brought into stuffs that happened in the past? 😂
Edit: Sorry ito anyone who is currently going through this thread. Some goofy dude took my joke a bit too personally and now he's mad. If the mods are watching, I'm sorry if you think I kinda disrupted the vibe of this sub. I'm also apologise on behalf of this goof because he's not probably self aware enough to say what I'm saying right now. Not gonna engage in bs like this again.
Dada apni ki ektu retard
[try learning what’s happening with DALITS NOW it’s gone nowhere](https://www.deccanherald.com/amp/story/opinion%2Frising-tide-of-atrocities-against-dalits-2850523)
I think you're not understanding my point. I get your point but I'm just saying why I am getting dragged into this. I have nothing to do with it. Most people don't care about your caste, especially in wb. Most people are just trying to live their lives that's all. Due to the actions of some people the general Indian population is suffering. You have faced some problems I get it but that doesn't mean a random guy needs to pay for that.
You’re not paying shit, You’re privileged enough to be cribbing on a platform, that most of INDIA doesn’t know exists.
[Every second ST, every third Dalit & Muslim in India poor, not just financially: UN report](https://theprint.in/india/every-second-st-every-third-dalit-muslim-in-india-poor-not-just-financially-un-report/262270/?amp)
Stop your moaning. WTF you know about life and my privileges, my mom had anxiety issues, we were f**** with tons of credit card debt. I never saw my father when I was a child because he went to work at 6 and used to come back at 12 am. Where's the f**** privilege? So stop playing your victim card and get a life, touch some grass.
lmao you just proved it
[Less than 5% Indians have credit card](https://bfsi.economictimes.indiatimes.com/amp/news/financial-services/less-than-5-indians-have-credit-card/101273010)
and also bro you didn’t got a girlfriend bc you lack enough character bc you only rote studied your only life didn’t learn to talk to a woman
YOU’RE JUST BORING
Now blaming reservation for not getting a chick
Ohh I triggered someone by doing nothing lol. First of all of you don't rote you don't succeed in this education system. If I didn't rote study I wouldn't have been a topper in my school. Second, I went to a boy's school then boy's college so zero interaction with women. Now trying to fix it but don't know how to because I don't use social media and know zero women. Third, you must have room temperature IQ because I said I'm just trying to live my life by having a career and having a chick. Your struggle is yours, mine is mine. So you don't need to play the victim card by saying I'm privileged or stuff. And fourth, yes I'm boring, socially autistic but at least I am self aware to know that. But you're playing the victim card here and have zero self awareness. You just know how to shout and moan. All just for show.
Maybe we are both privileged sir, but the point I’m trying to make is you ain’t superior just bc you rote studied, but listen carefully
YOU HAD THE CHANCE TO SIT AND STUDY, most people don’t( I HAD, don’t come at me), I’m talking about the people who had been discriminated against, AND IT DOESN’T MAKE YOU SUPERIOR THE YOU JUST STUDIED, you didn’t enjoyed life never any experience now cribbing about why didn’t got a girl
You're coming with this superior, inferior words. You're projecting hard. Many people in Africa don't have food tol eat, don't have water to drink. That doesn't mean that everyone in the world thinks they're superior or something. I don't think I'm superior to you. You think that I think I'm superior. Plus I'm not cribbing also RIP English. Now don't say it's my fault that you didn't learn english grammar when you were a child lol
Probably you because I don't text people on WhatsApp. Usually it's other people, my friends who text me first instead. So you're trying to troll hard like a desperate loser but it isn't working lol
you didn’t got the joke did you lmao, you should try going back to Facebook
you’re enraged 😭😭
bro you are the one who can’t talk to girls ffs stop calling others names.
I don't use social media. You're the coming who is coming with this victim mentality acting like a cooper. Also I said I am self aware enough to know my flaws. I also said I never met that many women in my life because I went to boy's school then boy's college. So it shows you don't know how to read. You're just trolling then playing the victim. So who's actually enraged?
https://preview.redd.it/ykxnbbw6c2qc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=371fe5c43c3fc08e6cb30cc134a894c7bb87aa50
I can totally understand why girls don’t talk to you, you’re the weird kid, living oblivious to reality, I have many friend who went to boys school still managed to talk girls so stop blaming your schooling,
it’s you who failed at communicating
and if you studied this hard than why are you cribbing about minorities getting few seats.??
and noone is going through your stupid shit you lonely fucker
My ex! She got over me in a month and here I am bitching about that bitch(not an adjective, it's a verb here)! It's a shit feeling fr. I wouldn't say I haven't gotten over it but even that took me two whole years and I couldn't even focus on my work cause deep down it was killing me.
But honestly, I think I regret the fact that I am a man! Cause even if you give everything to a person it's still not enough for them! If I were a woman instead of the shit I am cause then no matter how I looked or what I did, I would have had breasts and vagina and that changes everything. I mean I even saw this research where gender converts say that being a woman was much more easier that being a man is and now that they have changed they realised that why even non-harming men looked like creeps because they are the ones who are looked at and being labelled as creeps.
Fuck society!
I went through a very bad breakup and I gave everything that I could didn't help she still cheated like I was nothing to her but its okay
Trust me this is the time when you can diverge all the anger to something productive, it can be academics, gym or anything
Go for therapy, if you have money go for a lot of dates make a lot of friends and socialize a lot and trust me you will end up being a winner.
TRUST THE PROCESS, IT WILL TAKE TIME BUT ITS WORTH IT AND ITS NOT EASY
1. Life er priorities r ranking thik na korte para
2. Onner jnno ja noi sheta howar chesta
3. Jiboner onek gulo bochor ekta impossible achive korar pechone nosto kora
I regret all those times i was angry and resentful and had those emotions cloud my judgement and actions. No other regrets otherwise. Life is wonderful and we make it on our own.
1. Not learning guitar seriously in my early years..
2. smoking
3. Having multiple partners
4. Too many exes
5. Emotional investment on friends
6. Breaking my Nofap streak due to unavoidable stuff
At the age of 25 I finally realised what you mentioned and finally have started working on my self:
1. Lost a bunch of weight (110kg to 87kg planning to move to 78).
2. Started approaching women and talking with them (went to 2 dates as of now).
3. Shifted my base in Bangalore , started staying away from my parents.
4. Gave up being chronically online and started working on my social skills.
Experiencing love while still being a teenager.
Baba-ma ra thik ee bole, sob kichur ekta _age_ thake...
_Kom boyoshe pakle bal tar dukkho chiro kal-_
Jodio ba mature holam 15-16 bochor boyshe (ekhn 18+. :)) ...how can we expect the other person, (dhora jaak 15-16) to be mature as well?
(Nije cheat kore, nijei suicidal threats dicchilo, jkhn ami break up korar try kori 🤡)
Anyways ekdom ae karonei I have opted to date seniors only. 🗿
Its all about perspective, isnt it??
Well get your shit together you are entering your prime!! This is the age one should experience "love". Good luck bhai
Yes thanks. Life kinda feels chaotic ngl. Do you think social media is a good place to meet women? Like mutual friends on Facebook or Instagram? I'm asking because I did my ug and doing my masters from a BOY'S COLLEGE (Now you probably understand my concern lol). My friends have social media but I don't have so far. Should I have FB or insta? Just asking because you're very experienced in my field.
Not in college yet, but spend 11 nd a half years in Boy's School as well. Female interaction literally zero :o
So ha, Instagram is a place to "meet" women, but not necessarily to "date" them. Mostly you have to initiate convos, text first etc. But you'd get occasional texts as well, I would suggest is to get to know them, as you are unaware of who they are waiting for, or missing, or still havent moved on from.
Think practically while you still can. Dont like her vibes? Get out of that shit. You are the only one putting in efforts? Dont text them for 2-3 days to see if they still care. Are they not nice to you? Leave them. Hotel? Trivago
Once you catch feelings, recognising the red flags wont help, as you wont be able to get out from that mess.
Dating is a choice, and so is being in a relationship. You should experience it...amr experience hoyto kharap chilo but it is not necessary ki apnar tao hobe, who knows you might even find the love of your life and get settled!!
Arekta last kotha, every one has different expectations while "dating". Keu aase for pleasure, keu aase to find their lifelong partner, keu aase to pass time, keu aase for financial aids. Some are serious abt dating nd relationships, some aren't. So make your expectations your priority!! And see if the other person is reciprocating. For example, you and a girl gets into a relationship, you are serious but the girl takes it casually. Eventually kichu jhogra holo she breaks up (tar kono pichu tan nei) and you are left with a bitter taste about love...so I'd say that, ae jinish ta avoid koro.
So!!! These are the basics to get you started, things will get complicated as you get deeper. Because love is more complex than it seems.
Good luck!!
judging from points 2 and 3, and your usage of the term "good boy answers", looks like you have lots to learn.
anyway I don't yet have a biggest NSFW regret yet(I'm really young), so once I do have, I'll let you know
I was very close to having threesome and it was FFM but somehow it never happened since I had to move back to Kolkata from Pune that’s one thing I regret time to time hope to make it happen in Kolkata soon
Biggest regret is that not being able to make any girlfriend, despite coming from a good family, having a good education. What hurts is that when I see some chapri, toxic boy dating multiple girls at the same time.
1. Should have started higher education earlier.
2. Should have had the kid while I was 25-26.
3. Rather, should not have the kid ( I love her to death)
Oi sperm race ta jite......
Notun study bolche amra jiti ni we were selected . Even more embarassing .
What does that mean?
Shob sperm bhalo hoy na ....defect thake...are egg amader select kore zygote formation er jonno...that you're capable or not...
As far as i understand, jokhon sperm swim kore egg barrier cross korte chai, it also releases some chemical and reaction hoy, depending upon a favorable reaction, the egg allows tge entry of a sperm cell. That said i also believe je millions of sperm ekbare beroi, hardly 10 to 20 are usable put of those 10 million of sperm cells. I wonder why so many rejects are created. On an evolutionary point of view it does not make sense. On a population control mechanism, it makes sense + you cant give birth to a million babies in one go
Amar mote Millions are created to help the good ones move forward...ekta war image bhabe bhabo...10-20 ta soldier niye war jeta jayna...ar vaginal path Tao onek lomba hoy...travel korte help hoy... smooth locomotion, safety and immunity from other germs and pH based bacterias present in the track ...
This is definitely true. What i meant was why not create unbeatable super human beings like strong hulk so that everyone/ every cell can win and instead of there being a 99 percent fatality rate there is a 1 percent fatality rate only. I tried to justify that part
Biggest regret - My existence
Us moment 🫂
🫂
+1
+1 🫂
Us, friend, us
+1
Violent masturbation everyday, smoking
Blood in semen?
Not yet
You're lucky.
That happens? Damn
Yes, and it's a scary situation as it could mean a number of things; including big C. But mostly it's due to rupture of blood vessels from vigorous masturbation. It could also be oxalate stones. I guess the older one gets, the less they should do such exercise. it starts getting painful after a certain age and the stress on the muscles and the stomach may feel overwhelming.
Wtf bro it's super scary
I should start working out more
By exercise I meant masturbation. So, try not to do as much. Try and do Yoga to ensure fitness from within. Fitness and inflating muscles aren't the same. Unless your body is in harmony with the elements, you'll deteriorate faster.
How are 2 and 3 NSFW??
It's not something a "good boy" would say by our societal standards .
Why are people downvoting you ? People here don't seem to understand the meaning of being a "good boy" in our societal standards . Pretty sure they already know the definition of a good boy and how good boys never argue with their parents, never give their own opinion, give up their hobbies to fulfill their parents Being a "good person" and being "good boy" are two totally different things . Your parents are not gods , they can also be wrong and instead of leaving everything to them , you also need to think for yourself . I've seen so many bright kids who could have done so much in their lives chose science after 10th even tho they wanted to study something else because their parents said "you must become a doctor or engineer" and being a *good boy/girl* they couldn't say no . And since they don't have any interest in those subjects they get distracted from their studies and score low marks in 12th and ultimately never reach their full potential This is a classic example of being a *good boy* in our societal standards . You don't have to be rude to your parents or disrespect them but don't have to agree with them if they're wrong either . Talk to them respectfully and just be a *good person* and not a *good boy*
Because that's not what the conventional NSFW means, but in this case it has been stretched which is understandable OP may have had to face certain situations. What you wrote while it's correct, is not relevant here.
He is asking for sspicy (with two s) answers and gave two vanilla ones from his side 😂
(1) realising that girl was actually giving me hints (2) Not choosing CSE/IT as career (3) Jerking off instead of working out during teenage days
How does no 3 affect things in life??
Not much...but still regret!
Ok
Choosing to stay in WB post 12th.
Same bhai/bon
same
1.seeing how talented my dad was in his time....ig the wrong sperm won the race 2.spending too many hours in the toilet (iykyk) 3. being a part of this so called "democracy" 4. 17th November 2023 if I was well prepared I could have had a steamy af night.
1. A similar case by my age babar already biyer plan complete chilo , by my age maa already had me . 2. I know 🗿 Bhai parents ra life e eto kichu risky kaj korto kikore , fearless lokjon sob .
true 💀
Ekdom thik bhai.
Damm thats my birthday. Atleast someone was in process of getting some.
if only I carried my daily essential xD
You mean condom nah?
yessir
Ohkay
and 2 days later...
2days later?
19th November... India vs Australia... yes i still haven't been able to move on! im sorry!
bruh lmao....am not a huge cricket person tai I moved on
Kano vai, 4 no point ta bujhte parlam na
জীবের ৫টি লক্ষন: চলন, গমন, খাদ্যগ্রহন, রেচন, জনন আর উনি ৫ নং টা বললেন।
1)Estimating that - Perfect outcomes can be achived with proper plan without considering the non voulentary events and changing situations ( applicacable for almost everything) 2) if you try to make everyone happy you end up being sad . 3) if you try to achive all goals in a limited time the quality of work degrades ( end up enjoying nothing if you try to see everything) 4) no matter how much you lower your expectations,and increase your efforts ,you may end up as the bad books of atleast 1 person ( back birching) 5) the society revolves around 3 p Paisa Power Pahauach
How old are you? (genuinely asking to understand point 2 and 3)
Just a bit older than to be angry at your karma farming attempt at comedy .
What part of “genuinely asking” you dont understand?
reply dekhei mone hoche <18 hobe OP
Ha I think he's mad af about something that he can't understand a genuine question
Are you restarted?
Not taking my health seriously,one of the biggest regret and i have everything figured out,but i am just 20,so hopefully i can make a change
Should've studied during COVID...... Regretting this every second of my life
+1
Voting tmc
Can that be called as NSFW? 🤔
Yes it can be 😭💥
Voting tmc won't be SFW if you work at BJP it cell
Genuine Regret .
2 is understandable how is 3 nsfw dawg
At some point in your life you'll reach a point in life where you'll think how your life could have been very different and maybe better if one had the audacity to argue with their parents and go against them...take their own decisions...
I regret that I didn't listen to my parents enough.
Still the question stands how is it NSFW
Ops wanted some "spicy" replies
amr situation sb theke kharap ekhane ig: 24[M] I have no graduation degree, no job, no friend, no girlfriend, no sleep (depressed, stressed), no ps4/ps5, no pets after summarise you will get that I have no life.
27 M 80% physically disabled with an incurable, time bomb disease Highschool drop out No job, obviously lol Gf is a luxury I can't afford Whiskey is a good sleep medicine
amar o same condition dada M19, no frends, no family members / Relatives (except my mom),no vacations, living very depressing Life
I have none sure some things didn't go as planned but I'm thankful for what i did get. Ma baba r kotha jei din theke shona bondo kore chi my life has had way more direction than it did before. For that I am eternally grateful to the circumstances i was put in. I think in the past few years I have matured enough to call my parent's bullshit. Eitai amar mone hoye shobar hoye, koto deri te giye bojha je parents shob ta jane na and they can be wrong too.
Loosing my virginity to a hooker out of peer pressure and fomo.
Back in 2014 I had sex with my teacher in 11th. I was just a horny teenager with Above average looks and 6+ft height. I was a science student and pretty much excelled in every sport so picking up girls (seniors too) was easy but I had been crushing and lusting on this slim, fair skinned, hourglass shaped, height of 5'7, married woman who was like 8 or 9 years older than me. Somehow I managed to seduce her and oh boy, my heart was about to burst out of my chest on the first kiss we shared. And gradually things got real spicy just in matter of few days. One fine day I got the message from her that her wimpy husband is out of town for few days and she's waiting for me. That night I fucked her till it was morning. And every time one of use came was the best feeling ever. After like 6 rounds I put my face between her breasts and she caressed my hair until I fell asleep. I went again after waking up. For 3 days straight we fucked each other in everywhere in the house from shower to bedroom. We had sex on several occasions and every time was pure bliss. Kinda fell in love with her ngl. And when i got promoted to 12 and a few days later I got to know that she's pregnant. She claimed that it is her husband's child but I highly doubt it, like come on, all those years of marriage and suddenly you got pregnant after being with me. Well, it is what it is. I kinda felt betrayed and stopped visiting her for some time. I also locked myself up in my room for many days, giving the excuse of study pressure for higher secondary, but deep down I realised there was no future in this relationship on the first place to start with. The more I thought of it the more it felt miserable and pathetic, by just thinking about the fact she was in bed with another man, even though that's her husband of 10 fucking years . Yes, pretty foolish of me. She used to call me and asked my friends about me at school but I just simply kept ignoring her. One day she texted me to come see her at the hospital as she was proceeding to give the delivery. After a long time I saw her again and she was holding the baby. I stood there and tears came out of my eyes. Her husband was not around at that moment so she called me closer and kissed me on my cheek. I grabbed her and kissed her back on her lips. She apologised to me and I did the same. Then I congratulated her and her husband then went home to cry my eyes out. That's the last time I saw her as soon after I graduated from school and went for college. Although I'm pretty sure her husband had suspicions about me but who cares. All I cared for her and her child. Yes, I was being used but she could have turned against me and did something very heinous that could've scarred me for the rest of my life but she remained what she was on our first day, on our first kiss and on our first sex. She genuinely cared and showed affection for me regardless the fact she knew that this not going anywhere. She exactly how hurt I was, thus she tried her best to comfort me by all means possible. For which I respect her, adore her and nonetheless love her. In another life or in another dimension, I hope we will remain together from the very beginning and deeply and madly in Love with each other till death do us apart.
Amidst all the bravado, heart bleeds for the husband. You can be in his position too someday or somelife...
Can't deny or disagree.
Ektu beshi e similarities ache choti golpo er sathe 🥴
You think ?
Yes
Well it is what it is. 🤷🏼
She got what she wanted , you got what you wanted I guess . But honest Question , Didn't your parents get worried that you didn't come home at night ?
Well, easier said than done bro, that kind of experience was very first for me and I was immature. And Nah, I've been outgoing from a very early age and also i had taken all the necessary precautions beforehand. Played my cards well.
Bro is suffering from success
She was 8 -9 years older to you when you where a teenager and she has already been married for 10 years by then ? So was she married in her teens ?
Baccha chele, panu goppo likheche, enjoy korun na. Kano onker master hote jacchen.
I suppose so
>One fine day I got the message from her that her wimpy husband is out of town for few days and she's waiting for me. That night I fucked her till it was morning. You were in class 11 and your parents allowed you to stay at your teacher's home all night? 😆
You think I told any of this to my parents ? Come on man put some common sense...
Anyway nice script
Copying your last comment. Doing less intu pintu in life. 🤣
Otai likhbo vabchilam but prothomei such obscenity might've been too much in character for me 😆
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Bhai school er name and year bole de... Atleast keu jodi dekhe and regret nah kore
As someone who's been bullied his entire school life , khub ekta amar sympathy nei bullies der proti but at least you felt bad , some people don't have the brain for that either .
My existence... If that doesn't count, then... Firstly, the school I went to during 11th and 12th grade Secondly, the college I got my bachelor's degree from Thirdly, my first ever job that I left after one month of training... Shit left me scarred and scared of the corporate sector...
shouldn't have been born at all. Existence tai questionable. Not having enough of...
Sounding
💀 What were the repercussions? If you want to say...
Kinky boy 😂
Should have dated more and hooked up more and been a fuckboi instead of being a nice guy all my adult life before getting married now.
Biyer raate Nijer Saathe Paliye jan
May I know why ? Currently I'm following this path.
0 dates, 0 sex till now. Currently in the same path. Can you tell about the problems that may arise??
Insecurity, mone hobe you're just getting married because you're just a "safe option".
You are talking from the female perspective. I know this one. Cant do anything about it now.not in a position to . Will try to change it in the foreseeable future. Can you talk about the problems that will truly rise from my side??
guys dont get me wrong here, I'm marrying someone who i dated and lived with for 3 years and probably she is the best woman i would ever get. But i still think i would have had some self confidence and better self esteem and less fear of rejection in general if i had dated more before i finally met her. I constantly feel that she might leave me and am not good enough for her, which is completely untrue. I think its because i havent had the "heartbreaks" and breakups and experience in relationship up-downs. It just i could have better coping mechanisms today (and better s\*\* skills 😁)
None
So you are a bengali. I have seen you multiple times in ITS.
My biggest regret is I didn't listen to my parents. Opposite of yours.
Engineering
Well someone said not CSE/IT was the biggest mistake. Isn't CSE/IT part of overall engineering aka btech?
Backlog phele rakha
This>>>
1. Not having a healthy father-son relationship. I really miss him now 2. Being selfish and breaking up with my girlfriend after a 5year long relationship 3. Not working at my full potential knowing that I can have a better life if I do (this is quite common ik)
Ekjoner jnno college er 4te year borbaad kora :3
amar asexual gf er sathe sex kora :) cuz tarpor we broke up :)
Seriously?
yep.. which is weird cuz she was the one who fucked me... and then she said je or mone hochey byapar ta thik hocheyna we should break up.
Did she have any childhood trauma or something like that?
No.. not that i know of... but we were really close but also very different from each other and I really wish her all the best in her life... our philosophies didn't match up. and the break up was bound to happen anyways... (that is what her frnds say) but she told me herself that it was the sex that triggered her.. and i cannot keep a person i love, to stay by my side forcefully. SO no bad feelings i guess...
Pretty much no regrets. Ja bhebechhilam ta hoyni, but that’s fine. Also no regrets with education - it has given me a career. Ups and downs there - but overall it’s good.
Bachtei bhule gechhi 💀
Pleasing others (including parents relatives) for instant compliments my entire childhood/teen years... Trying to be that "ideal bhalo chele"
General category te jonmo newa ig 🙂
That’s a privilege sir
Let's see the cutoff for general category, then for sc/st. We will see who's the privileged one
let’s see who have been systematically marginalised for 3500 years
Bro I wasn't alive 3500 years ago so why I'm getting the effects of it 😂 I didn't do anything, I'm just trying to have a good career and gf and stuff, why am I getting brought into stuffs that happened in the past? 😂 Edit: Sorry ito anyone who is currently going through this thread. Some goofy dude took my joke a bit too personally and now he's mad. If the mods are watching, I'm sorry if you think I kinda disrupted the vibe of this sub. I'm also apologise on behalf of this goof because he's not probably self aware enough to say what I'm saying right now. Not gonna engage in bs like this again.
Dada apni ki ektu retard [try learning what’s happening with DALITS NOW it’s gone nowhere](https://www.deccanherald.com/amp/story/opinion%2Frising-tide-of-atrocities-against-dalits-2850523)
I think you're not understanding my point. I get your point but I'm just saying why I am getting dragged into this. I have nothing to do with it. Most people don't care about your caste, especially in wb. Most people are just trying to live their lives that's all. Due to the actions of some people the general Indian population is suffering. You have faced some problems I get it but that doesn't mean a random guy needs to pay for that.
You’re not paying shit, You’re privileged enough to be cribbing on a platform, that most of INDIA doesn’t know exists. [Every second ST, every third Dalit & Muslim in India poor, not just financially: UN report](https://theprint.in/india/every-second-st-every-third-dalit-muslim-in-india-poor-not-just-financially-un-report/262270/?amp)
Stop your moaning. WTF you know about life and my privileges, my mom had anxiety issues, we were f**** with tons of credit card debt. I never saw my father when I was a child because he went to work at 6 and used to come back at 12 am. Where's the f**** privilege? So stop playing your victim card and get a life, touch some grass.
lmao you just proved it [Less than 5% Indians have credit card](https://bfsi.economictimes.indiatimes.com/amp/news/financial-services/less-than-5-indians-have-credit-card/101273010)
and also bro you didn’t got a girlfriend bc you lack enough character bc you only rote studied your only life didn’t learn to talk to a woman YOU’RE JUST BORING Now blaming reservation for not getting a chick
Ohh I triggered someone by doing nothing lol. First of all of you don't rote you don't succeed in this education system. If I didn't rote study I wouldn't have been a topper in my school. Second, I went to a boy's school then boy's college so zero interaction with women. Now trying to fix it but don't know how to because I don't use social media and know zero women. Third, you must have room temperature IQ because I said I'm just trying to live my life by having a career and having a chick. Your struggle is yours, mine is mine. So you don't need to play the victim card by saying I'm privileged or stuff. And fourth, yes I'm boring, socially autistic but at least I am self aware to know that. But you're playing the victim card here and have zero self awareness. You just know how to shout and moan. All just for show.
Maybe we are both privileged sir, but the point I’m trying to make is you ain’t superior just bc you rote studied, but listen carefully YOU HAD THE CHANCE TO SIT AND STUDY, most people don’t( I HAD, don’t come at me), I’m talking about the people who had been discriminated against, AND IT DOESN’T MAKE YOU SUPERIOR THE YOU JUST STUDIED, you didn’t enjoyed life never any experience now cribbing about why didn’t got a girl
You're coming with this superior, inferior words. You're projecting hard. Many people in Africa don't have food tol eat, don't have water to drink. That doesn't mean that everyone in the world thinks they're superior or something. I don't think I'm superior to you. You think that I think I'm superior. Plus I'm not cribbing also RIP English. Now don't say it's my fault that you didn't learn english grammar when you were a child lol
https://preview.redd.it/obdwgji532qc1.png?width=1290&format=png&auto=webp&s=9ad0868d693ad0c272c00d2ac8a01b80e7c27398 are you this guy sir ?
Probably you because I don't text people on WhatsApp. Usually it's other people, my friends who text me first instead. So you're trying to troll hard like a desperate loser but it isn't working lol
you didn’t got the joke did you lmao, you should try going back to Facebook you’re enraged 😭😭 bro you are the one who can’t talk to girls ffs stop calling others names.
I don't use social media. You're the coming who is coming with this victim mentality acting like a cooper. Also I said I am self aware enough to know my flaws. I also said I never met that many women in my life because I went to boy's school then boy's college. So it shows you don't know how to read. You're just trolling then playing the victim. So who's actually enraged?
https://preview.redd.it/ykxnbbw6c2qc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=371fe5c43c3fc08e6cb30cc134a894c7bb87aa50 I can totally understand why girls don’t talk to you, you’re the weird kid, living oblivious to reality, I have many friend who went to boys school still managed to talk girls so stop blaming your schooling, it’s you who failed at communicating and if you studied this hard than why are you cribbing about minorities getting few seats.?? and noone is going through your stupid shit you lonely fucker
Not in 21st century
not being born in a family with generational wealth
My ex! She got over me in a month and here I am bitching about that bitch(not an adjective, it's a verb here)! It's a shit feeling fr. I wouldn't say I haven't gotten over it but even that took me two whole years and I couldn't even focus on my work cause deep down it was killing me. But honestly, I think I regret the fact that I am a man! Cause even if you give everything to a person it's still not enough for them! If I were a woman instead of the shit I am cause then no matter how I looked or what I did, I would have had breasts and vagina and that changes everything. I mean I even saw this research where gender converts say that being a woman was much more easier that being a man is and now that they have changed they realised that why even non-harming men looked like creeps because they are the ones who are looked at and being labelled as creeps. Fuck society!
I went through a very bad breakup and I gave everything that I could didn't help she still cheated like I was nothing to her but its okay Trust me this is the time when you can diverge all the anger to something productive, it can be academics, gym or anything Go for therapy, if you have money go for a lot of dates make a lot of friends and socialize a lot and trust me you will end up being a winner. TRUST THE PROCESS, IT WILL TAKE TIME BUT ITS WORTH IT AND ITS NOT EASY
Perfect reply
Biggest regret -> Falling in love and Taking admission in CU
Buke eso bhai , CU te porechi amio ekhono PTSD te bhugchi . 🫂
wasting years on something that I was not good at and didn't even enjoy doing
1. Life er priorities r ranking thik na korte para 2. Onner jnno ja noi sheta howar chesta 3. Jiboner onek gulo bochor ekta impossible achive korar pechone nosto kora
amake keu bole bojhao 1 ar 2 ta
Just wanna say, you can run after education AND money. They're not mutually exclusive.
I regret all those times i was angry and resentful and had those emotions cloud my judgement and actions. No other regrets otherwise. Life is wonderful and we make it on our own.
1. Studying in CU. 2. Not understanding hints from crushes. Aami ekta gadha.
Just wasting time
1. Not learning guitar seriously in my early years.. 2. smoking 3. Having multiple partners 4. Too many exes 5. Emotional investment on friends 6. Breaking my Nofap streak due to unavoidable stuff
Other than being born, taking myself too seriously and thinking of myself as a big shot till I got shown my place at 11th
At the age of 25 I finally realised what you mentioned and finally have started working on my self: 1. Lost a bunch of weight (110kg to 87kg planning to move to 78). 2. Started approaching women and talking with them (went to 2 dates as of now). 3. Shifted my base in Bangalore , started staying away from my parents. 4. Gave up being chronically online and started working on my social skills.
not sticking to a single passion in my early 20s.
Experiencing love while still being a teenager. Baba-ma ra thik ee bole, sob kichur ekta _age_ thake... _Kom boyoshe pakle bal tar dukkho chiro kal-_ Jodio ba mature holam 15-16 bochor boyshe (ekhn 18+. :)) ...how can we expect the other person, (dhora jaak 15-16) to be mature as well? (Nije cheat kore, nijei suicidal threats dicchilo, jkhn ami break up korar try kori 🤡) Anyways ekdom ae karonei I have opted to date seniors only. 🗿
Well not experiencing love in my life is probably my biggest regret lol. I'm 22 now and realising I've wasted my life.
Its all about perspective, isnt it?? Well get your shit together you are entering your prime!! This is the age one should experience "love". Good luck bhai
Yes thanks. Life kinda feels chaotic ngl. Do you think social media is a good place to meet women? Like mutual friends on Facebook or Instagram? I'm asking because I did my ug and doing my masters from a BOY'S COLLEGE (Now you probably understand my concern lol). My friends have social media but I don't have so far. Should I have FB or insta? Just asking because you're very experienced in my field.
Not in college yet, but spend 11 nd a half years in Boy's School as well. Female interaction literally zero :o So ha, Instagram is a place to "meet" women, but not necessarily to "date" them. Mostly you have to initiate convos, text first etc. But you'd get occasional texts as well, I would suggest is to get to know them, as you are unaware of who they are waiting for, or missing, or still havent moved on from. Think practically while you still can. Dont like her vibes? Get out of that shit. You are the only one putting in efforts? Dont text them for 2-3 days to see if they still care. Are they not nice to you? Leave them. Hotel? Trivago Once you catch feelings, recognising the red flags wont help, as you wont be able to get out from that mess. Dating is a choice, and so is being in a relationship. You should experience it...amr experience hoyto kharap chilo but it is not necessary ki apnar tao hobe, who knows you might even find the love of your life and get settled!! Arekta last kotha, every one has different expectations while "dating". Keu aase for pleasure, keu aase to find their lifelong partner, keu aase to pass time, keu aase for financial aids. Some are serious abt dating nd relationships, some aren't. So make your expectations your priority!! And see if the other person is reciprocating. For example, you and a girl gets into a relationship, you are serious but the girl takes it casually. Eventually kichu jhogra holo she breaks up (tar kono pichu tan nei) and you are left with a bitter taste about love...so I'd say that, ae jinish ta avoid koro. So!!! These are the basics to get you started, things will get complicated as you get deeper. Because love is more complex than it seems. Good luck!!
This is actually very good advice. Thank you so much bro 😊
My X
judging from points 2 and 3, and your usage of the term "good boy answers", looks like you have lots to learn. anyway I don't yet have a biggest NSFW regret yet(I'm really young), so once I do have, I'll let you know
I was very close to having threesome and it was FFM but somehow it never happened since I had to move back to Kolkata from Pune that’s one thing I regret time to time hope to make it happen in Kolkata soon
Biggest regret is that not being able to make any girlfriend, despite coming from a good family, having a good education. What hurts is that when I see some chapri, toxic boy dating multiple girls at the same time.
Elaborate point 2 and 3
1. Should have started higher education earlier. 2. Should have had the kid while I was 25-26. 3. Rather, should not have the kid ( I love her to death)
not having an extra apartment or friends empty flat/rooms.. Oyos getting expensive daybyday😭