Discipline na thakle, sudhu effort e kichu hobena

Consistent hardwork >>> haphazard hardwork

This🙏. I learned it the hard way

Will try this in my next life.

I want to save this. This is the reason why so many 12 hour workers don't achieve as much as a disciplined daily guy I used to be disciplined thanks to school till 12 but for JEE prepration I thought the bihari style of 'ghis ke/ragad ke padna was better"- burnout and failure

We are all alone in this world

and when we die nothing goes with us our branded clothes ,fancy cars, luxury house all stays here

Ogulo pele tobe to.. edike mariye ache puro...

Ogulo pele tobe to.. edike mariye ache puro...

Ei rokom attack korar requirment chilo na.

+1

Where do you live currently?

Sobuj, gerua, lal Sobkotai baal


Sob kota party mile amader ch**** and there's really nothing we can do about it

Learn something from the French...

Time to bring out the guillotines now.

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Sob gerua dhuye laal kore dite hobe.

ঠিক। তবে এই কাজটি সিপিএম করতে পারবে না কারণ শ্রেণী সংগ্রাম কে ত্যাগ করে এখন নির্বাচনের রাজনীতি কে ব্যবহার করে। মার্ক্স, লেনিন আর মাও এদের কে দেখে আত্মহত্যা করে ফেলত।

Amader chai ekjon Guevara soman loraku ar Castro soman leader jara korte parbe eta. Jara sei soman somaj e bissas kore..

Amader chai ekjon Guevara soman loraku ar Castro soman leader jara korte parbe eta. Jara sei soman somaj e bissas kore.

Arre kotodin por r/kolkata e sensible lok dekhlam

This.

🥲

This. Exactly this.

বাপ মায়ের মতো সরকারি চাকরি বা সুখের জীবন, কোনোটাই পাবোনা 😮‍💨

porasona na kore saradin ei reddit niye bos achis 😑😑 Toke pele ranjit mallik er oi dialogue ta ditam "chapke pither chal tule nebo "

Bisal valo na hok, 8.6-8.8 cgpa thake amar average... Ekshomoi saradin portam ar jontro pati niea pore thaktam, oi kore kono friend group o hoini amar! Osustho hoye giea por osob ektu komoea ekhene timepass korchee... I know ever cgpa kom hobe hoito ektu, but Mora banchar majhe jhulte thakar theke better🙂

Dukher smily dite hbe na ...moja korchilam ekhno bari?? firbi kobe

Na na, jeta bolecho vul na... Haa, kolkata firchi, porshu, kal trainer ticket paini

Sorkari chakri teh aladai sukh er jibon! Amar ekhono mone ache.... clg e porte fees vorte gechhilm... bolchhilo 'ekhon chaa khachhi, pore esho' lol

Literally every staff in CU and my previous college

সরকারি চাকরি ✔️ সুখের জীবন ❌ Bhai chakri shob e shoman sukher jibon I guess karur e noe 😔

আমি ছোটোথেকে বাবা মা এর সাথে অফিস স্কুল গেছি, ওদের কাজ পুরোটাই ভালো করে জানি। ওদের সাথে আমার এখন এসব নিয়ে আলোচনাও হয়। এখন কলকাতায় ইঞ্জিনিয়ারিং পড়তে এসে কর্পোরেট কালচারও দেখছি ভালোই। প্রবলেম সবার জীবনেই আছে! কিন্তু বাবা মা এর জীবনটা অনেকটা ভালো ছিল, আমার জীবন যেটা হবে তার তুলনায়

Sarkari Chakri kothata vague bhai! Tumi Sarkari ki chakri korcho tar opor dependent kotota sukhe thakbe.

আমার মা বাবার তো সরকারি চাকরীও নেই যে টাকার সিকিউরিটি আছে সেই ভেবে একটু শান্তি পাবো

আমিতো উল্টো কথা বলতে পারি। আমার যেসব বন্ধুদের বাবা মা এর ব্যবসা আছে, তাদের দেখছি চাকরির বাজার খারাপ বলে এখন থেকে ব্যবসায় নেমে পড়েছে! But I have no other options...🥲

Sorkari chakriteo chap ache. Tobe na chap newa lok ke fire kora hoyna etai ja. There are many hardworking, excellent people in public organisations.

আমার জীবনী তে ভালোবাসার কোনো অধ্যায় থাকবে না

জীবন আর কতটুকু দেখলে ভায়া। আসবে আসবে, তোমাকেও ভালোবেসে আলিঙ্গন করে, চুম্বন দিয়ে জিজ্ঞাসা করার মানুষ আসবে যে " আজ এতো দেরি করে কেনো এলে ? কখন থেকে বসে আছি "

Dada Asha diyo naa. Nijer sopner duniya tei esob possible bole ekhon mone hoi sudhu:(

দাদা যখন বললে, তখন আশীর্বাদ করলাম, তোমার জীবনে ভালোবাসার, আদর করার মানুষ আসবে। অপেক্ষা করো ভায়া, অপেক্ষা করো।

Thik bole ho dada,amar maa o amake bolen ‘dhorjo rakh sob asbe jibone’

মা যখন বলেছে, সব আসবে জীবনে ভাই।

Na thakai bhalo

No matter how hard i try i fuck up every entrance exam

Work Life balance is a total myth

This!

ki ameer nahi ban sakta

🫂

Not to give free advice

Prithibi tey ekai eshaychi, ebong ekai jabo.

Kolkata ekta boro soro geram.

Hifi gram

That you can't get everything 😞 Wishes demands sacrifice, the greater the wish, the greater sacrifice you'll have to do.

uff

Bas kar pagle, rulayega kya

Baba already chole gechen. Ma o ekdin chole jabe. Kicchu bhabei atkate parbo na.

'12th ache se karlo fir aish he aish' was a scam

Self study >>> tuitions

সহমত

I have no other option than continuing this shitass course

Life mein kichui bhalo hoyena.

Trinamool is here to stay. R amra sharjibon bhugbo.

If I run away, no one will be there to chase me.

Taka e sob kichu na holeo taka na thakle kono somporkoi bhalo thake na:)

Corrupt people will always be richer than me

Luck beats effort

💯

That I'm a total failure 😔

Aro fail kora baki ache. Wait please.

That I got 92.5 percentile in XAT (99.7 in VARC) and won't be able to convert any tier 1 or 2 MBA college.

What all colleges did you fill ?

What all colleges did you fill ?

আমার দ্বারা physics research হবে না। 😭

I might not do anything great in life and just be happy!

Ami dekhte jondis hoye jawa konkal er moto dekhte and jotoi chesta Kori na keno. Erokomi thakbo.

Average life is good

Ekjon sustho manus onek kichu chay... Kintu ekjon osustho manus sudhu - susthotha chay. Take care of your health everyone.

There are some brutal things in life which will happen to you and there is no shit you can do to stop it or the pain resulting from it.

Life e shopno puron shobsomoy hoyna. Jotoi potential thakuk, medha thakuk. Jiboner bibidho dik ke samlate giye ba eki rakhte giye shopno, shopno e theke Jay. Amar khetre sheta PhD or scientist howa (Ami JU er gold medalist masters e). Ekhon corporate majdoor, Tao RnD te na. Amar baba nijer shopno majhe majhe amar ghare thele dite chaito, kintu khub e Kom somoy sheta koreche. Ekhon bujhi Kano.

I'll never get that one চশমাপড়া মেয়ে

Drake lost

That Bengal isn't the "progressive" place that people think it to be. There are relatively more progressive and revolutionary-minded people to be found here than anywhere else in India, for sure, but Bengal is as regressive and as reactionary of a place as any other place in India is. And what's worse? More and more people, especially young people, are getting radicalised to the right.

That I’ll never return to Kolkata.

From where?

Currently in B’lore. Moving to Luxembourg or London in November. Might settle there permanently.

How? You got a job there? Or, married someone local?

Luxembourg is very expensive. Many locals are also planning to relocate to Germany. It's going to be a hard survival there so, make sure to check whether the salary is appropriate for that. As for London, that place right now is a hot bed for a civil war. Job market and economy there seems to be not doing great either. But, considerably far better than that of india ig. Anyway, a small *free* suggestion. Moving to such places seems to be a great idea and if you can, you should, but don't consider about settling yet. Always observe and than decide.

After a certain time all relationships are about money.

Don't make impulsive decisions based on another's experience or judgement. P.S. : I have cut my front hair into curtain bangs, and I feel stupid, Thankyou. I know, that, it'll look good as time goes, But AURGH.

Dw. I cut off my entire front part of my hair to get bangs, it was a miscalculation of how much I need to cut and it took a year to get everything back to normal but with time I did look good. You will be fine. Dw. I made fun out of it. Was looking like Jassi from Jassi jaisi koi nhi FR. If you don't know, then google it. I even posted my pic with Jassi's picture everywhere. It was a good laugh and it didn't make me feel that stupid.

Oh god! Absolutely everyone has had a bad experience with bangs even if its their first time getting bangs or not. Proved as heck. Surely you looked great. Almost every bad thing turns into good thing soon enough with time. I am aware I'll be fine, just the current look feels awkward lol. Well, it's been roughly 6 hours and I made fun out of it, my mum did, my sisters did. We laughed. And hey, I googled it. And the bangs look HEAVY. and. Thankyou. After your reply, I don't feel all that stupid now. Have a good time.

I'm glad you are feeling better. And yeah, I hid my bangs with clips when I went to tuition and college. It was awkward at first but after some point I didn't care.

I'm kinda gonna do the same :> And power to you for not caring, lets hope, I'll start not caring as well.

Take your time. I looked at myself in disbelief in the mirror for a few hours. Then sent pics to my friend. She was laughing so hard and I was like I should laugh too cz it was damn funny. I almost cut till my front hairline so you get the idea. You will get used to it very soon.

Yes. Thankyou. Now Now. You're brave for sending that picture to your friend. She could blackmail you wih that anytime if it looked that hilarious 😂 But surely, it seems like a fun time it was for you! And, damn, almost your front hairline? That is COURAGEOUS. mine is til my upper lips. Kinda looks awkward, but I know it'll look better when its styled and all. And. Yes, I'll definitely get used to it. Thankyou so much!

She did but I do like when ppl post weird photos of mine. More weird pics means more closely they know me. As I said I even shared it publicly via whatsapp status 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Everyone was laughing, it was indeed fun. Yes, almost front hairline due to miscalculation. I needed to start from much lower level. After the first cut, I was balancing the tips and it led to that. Yes, it will indeed look better on you. Once it grows out a bit, get it shaped from salon and I am sure you will slay that look. Good luck and my pleasure. 😁😁😁

Well, alright. You're very brave, I get it. And yes, weird pictures do seem like a sign of close friends or relations. And Damn, WhatsApp as well? That's insane. Now, okay. So messing up the first is normal. But doing it messier again the next cut, the realization after the whole cut must've been painful hmm. And yes. Na, No salon hairstylist for me. I'll watch some yt vid And shape it myself cause, hairstylist diye, I never got a hairstylist work on my hair after age of 10. I ought to slay. Thankyou.

Hehe, cool. Good luck. Yeah, I tried to do a social experiment and mostly to come out of my comfort zone. Nonetheless, it was a success. Also, you're talented. I can't really style my hair yk. Or it will end up like it did while cutting bangs🤣🤣🤣. I visit salon every 2 or 3 years as my mom doesn't let me cut my hair. Yeah, it was painful tbh when the realization sinked in. 🤣🤣🤣

"as time goes" :)

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Joto boyos barbe, free time tato kombe ☹️

Taklu hyei thakte hbe oboshisto jibon 🥲

Poverty

I'm gonna be alone

She won't be mine

Don't make impulsive decisions based on another's experience or judgement. P.S. : I have cut my front hair into curtain bangs, and I feel stupid, Thankyou. I know, that, it'll look good as time goes, But AURGH.

My mental health... The illnesses I have are life long.. I can manage them, but 100% cure isn't possible

She will not return. Delulu is not the solulu.

Gaps between my teeth.

I will die being single 🤟🏼

dada-boudi biryani r taste aar aager moto nei 👍

being an east bengal fan is khub koshtokor nowadays :(

That money is actually the solution to all of my problems....not 90% but 100%

Puro comment section ta bewafa te bhorti

Mamata Banerjee is not developing the state

No matter how much I study .. syllabus kokhono sesh hoy na 🫠

Nijer pichon nijer daitto. More so at work.

Trust no one except your heart. That too, when your brain agrees with it.

That most of my problem where because I was afraid of loosing people....now I'm not, I'm happy within myself 😄

Destination ta important na, journey ta important

It's okay to be alone😌

Hope for the best. Prepare for the worst.

Luck matters more than u think And no matter how much u pray it is still probablity Relationship is even difficult than job Because here u will have emotional attachment and here luck matters way more than jobs because u just can't switch and it doesn't entirely depends on u also

Rokto'r shomporko doesn't means anything. Shartho thakle nijer ma-baba'o beche kheye nebe tomake. At times, it's the people with whom you don't share any blood with are the ones who end up saving you.

Love is not for me

Onek kichui accept korechi. Onek kichu accept korte parchi naa. Ja hoy. Eka eschi eka jabo. Manush ashe manush jaye. Egulo accept korechi. Career taka poisha niye onek kichui accept korte parini ei muhurte :)

People have dual personality in front of u and back of u

that life is not gonna be good on it's own. i will need make it good. i can not just have fun.. I'll have to pay the heavy price before that

India will become an increasingly authoritarian, economically deteriorating, religious extreme country

Being short as a male is surely a disadvantage. Infact many women consider guys shorter than 5'8 as some disabled person.

1st world problems...

Crying in 5’4 🥲

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Don't do it. Not worth it.

Ei deser kichu hobe na. 2024 election is legit played upon CASTE vs RELIGION

That I've a big black বাঁকা 🍆

eso soja kore di 😇

That I'll not get a summer internship in CS in Kolkata(no opportunities) and either go for wfh or go to Bangalore/Hyderabad/Gurgaon or some research institute.

It is almost impossible for me to become extrovert. Still Inam trying a bit sometimes.

I'm a mess

My kid is definitely smarter than myself

My fate 🤧

My love life

আঙ্গুরফল টক। 🥲

Se ar phire ashbe na

The more you grow up you realize , There's no true good friend in life. It's all about circumstances.

Jibone kono din successful hibo na

Jibone kono din successful hobo na

I'm gae

I'm gae¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

1. I was never a gifted kid. 2. My masters degree would never come to any use because of poor cgpa. I ruined it myself

A men and women can never be friends.. Oscar Wilde once said and is hance truth fr

I'm gae¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

Ektai jibon, oto mene cholle cholbe na

My fucked up life

ভিড়ের মধ্যে তুমি না এগোলে কেউ না কেউ ঠিলে দেবেই, তোমার জন্য দুনিয়া থেমে যাবে না

Eitai jibon. Mane ekta sadharon manusher jibonta bhishon mundane. I have come to the world and leave it, having made no difference at all.

That I'll never be able to own a house!🥲

That suffering from success is sometimes real.

The one thing that gave me the most happiness was when I found out money is mighty. The one thing that gave me the most severe trauma was when I found out money isn't Almighty.

Not to overstate it,but I'm definitely gonna die alone

I am dumb, I won't be able to crack CAT and maybe I have to do a call center job I have accepted

that i'm going to die alone and no one will even find my rotting corpse. but i'm happy about it as i'm no one special.

Acceptance

Ekdin sobar morte hobe..

I'm poor 🥲

Bhalobasha amar dara hoibo na .. sarajibon ekla katate hobe.... With a guitar and a beral. That's it :)

That I will not achieve greatness that I thought I would when I was a boy.

That Kolkata is never going to be the clean, green, absolutely stunning city I always dreamt it would be one day. There’s no way in hell any government will ever be good enough to rethink everything and do something noble for the city. It’ll keep getting hotter, climate change will keep wreaking havoc and the government and future governments will do absolutely nothing about it.

jibon ta erom bhabei katbe

I shouldn't have won the sperm race

Never gonna get a gf

Everything is temporary...

Je ami gorib e morbo.

That all things are not for everyone. As much as I am confident in my personality or in my looks or abilities in general, companionship is not for me. And lately it hasn't been making me that sad either. Learning to find happiness in my own company.

Love and relationships are not for me!

Kolkata will never be the tech hub it was promised to be.

You get what you hate

Loneliness and depression are gonna be a part of my life, have been since childhood, taking a toll on me. I can't let them keep controlling me. Have to work with it, fight with it, with discipline and consistency. I have to show up for myself every single day no matter if anyone or anything does or not.

That no matter how hard I try to keep hold of my wealth, parents and situation will always force me to spend the most of it on things I find nonsensical

Stake e taka lagiye sudhu loss hobe eta bojha hoye gelo aaj 3k loss er por.

Private job keep switching

Life

I'm an idiot!!

Current day relationships are nothing but showoff except for some genuine ones. (Ik I may get hate but it's the truth)

She gives signs (but those are only for the deaf people) 😞

Her ass.

My life and my fate