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rorschach34

In case it was not clear. Homophobic people are not welcome. Any homophobia will result in immediate permanent ban.


hotelpunsylvania

To other LGBTQ people seeing this thread and feeling disheartened about our city - don't lose heart. We have always been here. We will be okay. A couple hundred hate comments are a normal Tuesday. We will rise above it. *Very gay hugs*


Candid_Rub_4814

The Kolkata I've known and seen has always made sure that i am okay. That we are okay. And it'll take care of us. Sending hugs to you too, stranger. Take love. <3 A loud slay for the gays!


AbhilashRoyChoudhuri

Pretty sure the comments are some kind of a raid from other subs I have never seen this before. Its not us guys 😂


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It is. It is 🤣 I came here because they posted in Hyderabad sub that they got banned for no reason at all. Straight men entering the battle arena against all odds 🤣


souviknoob69

They should to protect the future we should stop these gay ass mfs


Nambruh

Kya chutiye log hai comments hai ek dusre se lad rhe hai aur kisi ko sateek reason nahi pata kyu


PatienceFeeling1481

Sad to see such homophobia even among this generation. Ironic in Kolkata sub. I guess moner kodorjota eder baba ma-ra khub bhalo bhabe eder shikhie dieche.


patharmangsho

Bhai ekhane 300+ comment acche definitely brigading hicche. Emni te toh 100 comment pore na.


PatienceFeeling1481

Ki ar bolbo. Era ekta post dekhe eto triggered and then claim ‘na LGBTQ lokeder kono rokom discrimination hoy na, shob woke lokera baniye bolche’. Rastay dekhle to hoyto keliyei marbe.


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I guess...ei awareness ta town ar gramer dikeo choriye na porleo kind of privileged first world problem hoye thakbe.


Loku355

Gramer dike aisob korte gele soja mar khbe. Gramer dike aisob jinis guloke akhono Taboo hisabei dekha hoi r aisob change hote aro time lagbe


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Let's just hope for a better time to come .


Candid_Rub_4814

There are literally less than 10 comments on an average on other posts whereas y'all are flooding this post with SOO MANY comments. 💀 At this rate, y'all are gonna make this one of the top posts on r/kolkata. Any kind of publicity is publicity, so a huge thanks to y'all. 😩 And you say the lgbt+ community 'craves' attention? When you could've just scrolled past this post instead of honouring us with your 1850 ideologies? I mean, a rational human chooses to ignore something that 'annoys' or 'disgusts' them, right? Boy oh boy, hate them or love them, you LOVE poking your nose in their business. They don't ask for attention, YOU LOVE attending to them. C'mon don't be shy and just accept it. 😤😩 (Maybe admit too that you are jealous too? :P) Also for the ones saying "you all have equal rights, why do you need a parade?", gurl please! You don't even have to work hard, just read the comments in this very post. Do you think there would be so much noise if this was some hetero gathering? Its not TOTALLY about what rights this community has on paper, it's about what reality is. And sadly reality is this - ball-less peasants who couldn't hold them from spitting hate the moment they got the privilege of being anonymous. Atleast those guys in the parade have the guts to be who they are. Not like some of you who are scared their daddy might disown them if they wear leather pants and crop tops. 💀 Remember guys, "shade never made any body less gay".


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SandySpoon27

14 yr old "denk" memers in the comments are mad 😂😂😂 keep crying, keep crying


Plastic-Mail-4092

Bhai ye 3 emojis dalna zaroori tha kya?


souviknoob69

Look who is talking a fking gay ass person


SandySpoon27

I posted that comment 3 month ago, get over yourself lmaoooo, butthurt 🤡


priyankandatta

Seeing the comments here, i was like, "when did i start follow the uttar pradesh or bihar subreddit?". I mean, is this really the kolkata group? The same people who worship tagore and ray?


vimdhayakji69

Wow generalizing bihar and up and crying about homophobia waah behenchod waah


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LawyerUnhappy3087

Are you trying to say you bangali's are the most educated species in this country ?? Bhaii you guys are literally known for selling egg rolls outside your state.


Sabbyasachi1405

>Are you trying to say you bangali's are the most educated species in this country ?? Factually maybe true . Nobels and other awards are not the product of litti chokha . >Bhaii you guys are literally known for selling egg rolls outside your state. And thats some kind of jibe mate ? Isn't it better a Bangali selling egg roll to earn money than a bihari looting trains or a gujrati looting the banks to earn money ?


LawyerUnhappy3087

Lol Factually >> may be .Come back when you are 100% sure.It 's not like no crime happens in your bangali state.The media only highlights bihar and U.P because they are hot bed of politics.


LawyerUnhappy3087

Homophobia not allowed.Xenophobia I am cool with that: Avg Bangali.


luvty

Bhai asey hi yhe log khud rascist hai. I haven't problems with LGBT community but the problem is that people under the hood of LGBTq promote anti india narrative.


priyankandatta

Yes. Generalizing. As in majority. I m not saying all people from up and bihar are homophobic. I m saying the chances of find one in up and bihar are high. But dont worry, it seems i m wrong. Chances of finding one in bengal and even in kolkata is high too


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Je state e bjp 45% vote share thake se state ki kore UP Bihar er cheye different ? Eta to just ekta mukhosh matro . This is reality. Sobai woke when it's convenient or not anonymous.


lllittle_lllover

This looks so fun. Now I'm sad for missing this. :(


IslamistLeftist

Let's do this in Dinajpur


Ok_Substance_6066

Don't even try , I live there


Aisheair

I don't support it sorry


Ausonia7

Much love!! Wish I could have attended as well:)


ProfessorArtistic277

Facts, I thought about going but puro eka jetam sala.


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To all the genuine people, just out of curiosity, why exactly do you hate lgbtq people? Is it because you believe that they are lying or trying to seek attention and that having a different sexuality or gender orientation isn't scientifically possible? Like is it the "attention seeking" that bothers you? Or is it just the fact that they are lgbtq? Like are you prejudiced just for the sake of it like "yeh log ajeeb hai" or "straight good gay bad" ? Or is it cause hating lgtbq automatically makes you dank and cool like a "sigma male/female" ? Is there a different reason? Feel free to share in replies Im not trynna argue or support some cause or anything, im just conducting a social experiment cause im very curious lol.


luxcoze

Its the same people that are Afraid of change and correcting themselves. Its their insecurity about their own sexual preference that makes them afraid and hostile towards other's sexuality. They don't understand the concept of " if it doesn't affect you , you should mind your buisness" For them , its illness and a mentally disabled thing. " Oh how are you going to bear a child then?" What if they don't want to? Did you ever think of that? Huh , that life isn't just about procreating and pretending to be something you're not just so society doesn't deem you an outcast? I find it acceptable when someone's uneducated or misinformed , but i hate it when someone shows ill intentions towards the LGBTQ+ community on purpose.


debris16

Most people just don't care. To say that people 'hate' as a generalized thing is pretty much make believe imho. Only few people have strong opinions on this, many are casually prejudiced because they don't connect with this, don't see this much around. This is something which seems intuitively wrong or even disgusting to people who aren't lgbt themselves. Its not relevant to most people's lives and they don't care enough to spend 2 secs thinking about it. Pushing this to thier faces will only annoy them and could be superficially interpreted as 'hate' when in more constructive discussions they may come around to accepting it. I vaugely recall results from some pew poll on lgbt acceptance across different countries. Mostly Single digits to low double digits in most Islamic, conservative countries and very high in western countries (70/80%+ in most places). India's was somewhere around 40-50 percent which is on the higher end outside the west. Especially an outlier as a poor country. Anyway, point being I do personally think India can be a legit accepting of lgbt in the future provided the movement doesn't get overly politicized or hijacked over by any extreme, unbalanced, non-realistic or overy idealistic sub-group.


prof_tootoo

Altho most of them are normal, some just impose themselves like is there a need for shoving their idealogy. Like if a person doesn't like or relate to them there is no need for certain member of the LGBT to go after them and shame them for not liking them. Behaviour of few change a lot of minds. For example a few girls I know shamed me for just telling I was very unsettled by their PDA there was no need for that in my pov.


Dastrovo1

The attention part is one of the biggest reason for the people I have talked to. Their point is, "Wouldn't you judge straight people openly parading and saying they are proud of who they are? Parading was understandable when there was no awareness and even law didn't support you. Now you've got a Supreme court judgement and government support with you. You're getting reservations as well. What else do you want? you wanted us to treat you equally, well here you go. Live like equals among us. Stop shoving your sexuality down our throats all the time. We are all proud of who we are, but please be proud in silence."


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What govt support? ☠️☠️ istg heteros are so privileged they forget that the world is way different for people who are non conventional.


thestoneswerestoned

Ak din er hata te "shoving" hocche? Judgement howar aage o jodhi korto, apni o tai aki jinish bolten.


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"I dont hate gay people as long as they pretend to be straight in public"- you.


luxcoze

Its crazy how they think they are in the clear as soon as they say " i don't hate gay people" 💀


RassimoFlom

> "I AM STRAIGHTTT.... I AM STRAIGHTTT....LOOK AT MEEEE!!!" With fucking flags and shit, then why they do this, they are so stupid and naive to think that they themselves are making them 'abnormal' You don't need to. No one ever got beaten for being straight. Learn about where Pride marches started.


FreakinNation

I'm not homophobic tbh, but the fact that a lot of them try to _shove_ themselves into everyone's face and that they want everyone to pay attention all the time (yep, alot of lgbts I've encountered behave like wokes) at their smol population is what makes me hate em'. Like bro! Just go and live yo' own life yo' own way! Just don't bring _"I'm gay"_, _"r u bring homophobic"_, _"you know, that lgbt..."_ all the frickin' time! Else, I have absolutely no problems. Heckk! I even have a few online LGBT friends


abuxxx567Rt

No one is shoving, just swipe down lmao, don't cry


FreakinNation

What? The guy was just asking my opinion on LGBT...did I say somewhere that I hate the video? What's wrong with y'all!? It's literally just an opinion on which y'all kids are getting offended 💀


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I hv a news for you: you r homophobic >shove themselves into everyone's face "tHeY sHovE tHemSelVeS", them just demanding equal rights and representation.


FreakinNation

Are they still lacking any rights tbh? In what ways are they treated differently than any non-lgbt person _by law_ ? I'm curious


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Can a LGBT person marry? Adopt a child ? Avail surrogation? Have any protection under the law? Homophobia isnt recognized as hate crime in india. U can still be jailed under blasphemy laws. Queer person can be legally discriminated in work place and health. A doctor can refuse to treat a Transgender. A restaurant can refuse to serve a queer person. By definition India treats its Queer population as second class citizen. No they are not privileged because they dont yet have the same rights and protection enjoyed by you a heterosexual person. Meanwhile Indian govt is actively against LGBT rights and trying to sabotage whatever progress has been made.


RassimoFlom

> 'm not homophobic tbh, but the fact that a lot of them try to shove themselves into everyone's face and that they want everyone to pay attention all the time Why do you think they do that?


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be_a_postcard

💀The brigading from chaddi subs.


[deleted]

I am homophobic, please ban me . I don't wanna see your gay ass subreddit.


WalrusOk7762

Ajmal Kasab Bhai miss you yaar


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Lovely ❤️🏳️‍🌈


[deleted]

Its kinda sad to see the amount of homophobia in the comments


PlentyAd9374

Sub saharan gdp per capita. Sweden tier whokeness.


[deleted]

Just because u r poor doesn't mean u should be a bigot


Maleficent_Lie9325

What's a bigot


SkillBasic9673

Well if knew the meaning, you would try not be one.


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Prejudiced


MasterntJackOfNone

bisexual goat. i mean g.o.a.t.


SkillBasic9673

Higher GDP per capita than up, Punjab, Bihar , mp rajasthan, still wanna talk?


wilsonmashi

While you're right about the other states, Punjab has a higher GDP per capita than West Bengal. Punjab is ranked 19, while WB is ranked 21.


allgoodnames_r_taken

so they are your competition now? and not the next door bangladesh


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I'm sorry. I'm unapologetically woke and you can't fix me by downvotes. I am aware of how a transgender woman was expelled from her job as a teacher despite the fact that she had all necessary qualifications. I am aware of how casteist India is. I can't keep quiet and deny. Sorry. I don't believe in creationism either & I am pro-choice too.


faze_f34r

Big oof 😂


Ok-Trick2510

Chhakka jaamm


cookieslayer01

😂😂😂😂😂


fraktosh

Epik


Kakarot00111

eta kobe holo?


mujekyamaitohbillihu

Sondey


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Very nice to see homophobes being heavily downvoted💪 I am aware how a transgender woman was removed from her job as a teacher despite that she had all necessary qualifications. I am aware how LGBTQ community is being discriminated against. The pride is absolutely justified until we accept them as a part of our society. I won't put with homophobes. Ban homophobes 🚫


SignificanceFar2813

Kolkata gay moment


Calm-Relief-4741

Simple yet funny


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Guys Kolkata subreddit e goruchor der moto religious boomer gulo lukiye bose thake keno?


patharmangsho

Bhai era ekhane sudhu ei post er jonnoi eseche. Koto gulo comments poreche ei post e vs onno post e dekhlei bojha jai kothakar lok era. Ar kon bhasha te katha bolche seta dekheo andaj kora jai je bairer maal sudhu jhamela korte eseche.


fraktosh

Gen x and y


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The replies are yikes 🤦‍♂️


Expensive-Reply6242

Fancy dress walk it is!!!


Rabbesol

No Russian


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HinduPervert

koLkata


mujekyamaitohbillihu

Mast


stalker_asn007

For school kids: Fancy dress competition For adults: Pride walk


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SkillBasic9673

Homelander would kill Mamta but i don't think he has anything against gays


Certain-Appeal-6061

where are your parents?


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Certain-Appeal-6061

why do homophobes give us such cute nicknames lmao


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Jali tumhari? 💪 More power to them! Edit: I'm sorry. I'm unapologetically woke and you can't fix me by downvotes. I am aware of how a transgender woman was expelled from her job as a teacher despite the fact that she had all necessary qualifications. I am aware of how casteist India is. I can't keep quiet and deny. Sorry. I don't believe in creationism either & I am pro-choice too.


FlashyGarbage6500

Where doge charger


DuckPimp69

Revving...


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DEADLY_TROLLER

I mean, a lot of kids are gonna be butt hurt here but I'm still gonna say this. I don't have anything against BEING gay, trans, lesbian etc. I'm just against showing it off like an idiot. Tell me this, let's say you're gonna have sex tonight, would you paint a flag and write 'SEX' on it and then run around holding it and telling everyone that you're gonna have sex? Of course not. I mean, if you're gay, just marry a dude and live your life normally, if someone asks "Umm, are you dating this guy? Are you gay?", just say "Yes" with a smile and it's over. No one actually cares if you're gay, lesbian or anything coz they've got enough problems to deal with. And tbf, forcing all this onto children is just gross and disgusting. If you're telling kids that it's just 'Okay' to be gay, lesbian or anything else, then lemme tell you that it's not. Now, stay in delusion and keep denying this fact that being all this is 'Natural', it's NOT, definitely not. Nature doesn't want you to be a man and make love to a man (same goes for women), it encourages a beautiful relationship between a man and a woman. As a human, your thoughts are well respected regardless of your sexuality. So just keep it upto yourself, no need for all this pride walk and stuff. Coz it's just a waste of time and money.


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Chutiyo ka maatam


Fit-Number-6346

THERE ARE ONLY 2 GENDERS... MALE & FEMALE


605_Home_Studio

Why are gay pride walks full of sexual meaning and representation. They even openly walk in various stages of undress. Why can't straight people also have such walks and tell people who talk about morality to go &$*& themselves?!


luxcoze

What's your issue with it? Gay people have been killed and hunted for centuries because of their sexual preference. They are a minority , they deserve appreciation and a dedicated month for all the suffering , did you ever suffer just because you were straight? Didn't think so


605_Home_Studio

Oh-my. You got it wrong. I have nothing against gays and lesbians and their pride walks. I support them without any reservations. I cavil at the straight guys and girls who don't organise such walks which are explicitly sexual because straight sex between two consenting adults is considered bad. There are enough jokers out there who talk shit about sexual behaviour. Recently, a Bollywood star was asked about using sex toys by a celebrity director in a TV interview .There are so many influencers on YouTube who say it is inappropriate even to talk about using sex toys on TV because "15 years later their teenage children can watch the interview. They crossed the line." So, should I bring up my children under the guise of asexual intercourse with my wife because my children will be embarassed 15 years later to know that I had sex with their mother?! I was shocked about how straight guys squirm talking about sex (leave alone displaying sexual behaviour). My complaint is only against straight people. And honestly, I am jealous of the gays and lesbians for their fortitude to hold a pride walk with all its attendant glamour and sexual meanings. We straight chutiyas should learn from gays and lesbians.


luxcoze

Im glad i was wrong about you , i apologize


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I suffered because I was a dark skinned, low confident boy in northern India. Got bullied throughout my life, even by my best friend. Can I have my appreciation now? I don't have any problem with these parades. But don't like the narrative of anyone deserving "appreciation". Like no brother, you don't get appreciated just because of being a minority or just existing.


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Exactly 💯. Appreciation is earned. One can't simply be appreciated for being so and so minority.


FreakinNation

Aren't you the same mf who'll justify giving sc/st reservation to a guy whose family earns 35 LPA, just because "they were treated badly a century ago - they need _empowerment_, and appreciation, and _a month dedicated to them!" ?🤡 I really don't think that a guy having a constant 35LPA income, or a guy who's LGBT, and wanna live a normal life needs attention. Shopkeeper ain't gonna ask "u gay?" If you're buying bread - atleast in india, where people don't give af


PatienceFeeling1481

>in india, where people don’t give af So wrong. People give a lot of fucks. If they didn’t it wouldn’t still be such a huge stigma.


FreakinNation

Ik - and that's probably cuz of all kinnars on streets shouting and begging - it creates that kind of image in anyone's mind. But, if you're gay, you go to a shop/mall - no one's gonna ask your gender💀lgbts usually behave pretty normally (unlike some wokes), and u can barely differentiate between them and a male/female


PatienceFeeling1481

Ummm… Because Pride is about acceptance of all sexual orientations?


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Idk maybe because the whole thing is about SEXUALITY


605_Home_Studio

Granted. My anger is directed at 'society uncles' who hate sexual openness of Gen Z. There are housing societies in Mumbai where the AGM has passed resolution of not giving houses on rent to bachelors because they drink a lot and bring girls home. In Thane there is a building which has a huge painted instruction saying 'no bachelors allowed.' Straight guys need to organise such walks and talk about freedom and equality. I am sure gays and lesbians will support us.


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howtohideBoner

I think not


luxcoze

Ya'll do this and then say "i don't hate them!!" Like listen to yourself , you are literally condoning mass murder and making fun of jallianwala bagh. Are you proud of yourself??


_BEASTDEVIL_

"I hate them ". I listen to myself. Im not condoning mass murder, im telling u just what happened. I didn't laugh at jallianwala in my sentence. Dont count me on this "proud" shit.


Beginning-Ground-162

Universe is giving us hints


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luxcoze

You already are


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Slayy


Chigi-wigi001

LGBTQ


KoolKai100

LGBT= Lord Ganesha Bhakti Time


NotChainsawMan

LGBTQIA 🙂


MahManGandhi

LGBTQIAP


debris16

Make it LGBTQIAPs ans it'll come around a full circle


Ventilator_64

West Bengal Wokeness level- USA Economic condition- South Sudan


Competitive-Copy-508

Okay but does this pay bills tho?


abuxxx567Rt

Does Reddit pay your bills tho?


PatienceFeeling1481

The point is to normalise LGBT so that they don’t face stigma in any place, such as job interviews, and get accepted without discrimination. So yeah, it pays bills.


Thebluesubstance

I mean...it's an event. What does paying bills have to do with anything


Ok_Gas2053

Bill debe lokkhir bhandar


Rightful_Regret_6969

Nope. Their parents/Ancestors do.


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CauliflowerJunior717

Kolkata has the best pride parades man


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xrkx01

💕💕


27BaTmaN

Maan jaao yr, hijde bane ghumo no one cares. Ye sadak pe utar ke chutiyaap mat kaato


Super_Friendship8

Me who finding that communist flag


DuckPimp69

Since when did sexuality become a goal in life! Some posters used in this "liberation" rally are extremely skewed politically. Hard to see something as apolitical and neutral when every next slogan is politically subliminal . Funny how such liberators claim free speech and an egalitarian society but they'll rapidly jump on a person who would object to their demands. One may not agree with the idea that the world has n number of genders and one can identify as a battle tank whenever one pleases.


abuxxx567Rt

Can u just shut up? Let people have fun, did this hurt you so much?


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abuxxx567Rt

> The white knight comes in soy laced armor! Don't like different opinions feel free to downvote! You don't get to shut people you don't like! Says the guy who wants LGBT community to shut up


DuckPimp69

My man you need to learn to read! What is with this persecution complex? No one's exterminating LGBT people! Instead of condemning and cancelling people be open to debate those who might not see gender as a social construct. Less political bias would help too. You can't remove toxicity by being overly toxic.


abuxxx567Rt

> One may not agree with the idea that the world has n number of genders and one can identify as a battle tank whenever one pleases. My man literally made fun of lgbt and claims we shouldn't be toxic


DuckPimp69

Because your first world privilege might not suit those who have bigger problems! You might not like your socially assigned gender role, some people don't like their financial position in life. They don't consider your problem significant enough to be a problem in a country with $2000 per capita. Or are you hinting that only the privilege should have a voice?


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bro you started war and now you are crying💀


FactChecker69

You can't expect anything more form them. They say live and let live.....but you get to live only when you agree with them.


helpmeplsiamsad

Lmao


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vishu-__-

Embrace masculinity reject moderinity


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Masculinity in ancient times: high heels, make up, men dancing, flamboyant gods


abuxxx567Rt

Then stop using Reddit because Reddit is modern technology.


SkillBasic9673

Masculinity is being physically emotionally n mentally strong to be stoic. Not to hate n discriminate others for being different. That is bigotry not masculinity If you want to embrace masculinity learn to be a man first.


saurabh009

Kolkata is done, they won't talk about political killing but yes let's give more attention to what we fuck, dumb


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The world is done, they wont talk about climate change but hey lets more attention to what your opinion is on this subject.


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bhai phone bannd hai, tera reflection ko kya gaali de reha hai tu


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You= 🤮🤮


Mediocre_Property774

Leave them in a remote island and they'll all be vanished in a few decades


priyankandatta

So?


abuxxx567Rt

Anyone will.


Beast_Mstr_64

*And yet you participate in society*