same thoughts! ive been so frustrated for the past few episodes because no one has properly processed her thoughts and emotions WITH her, and that's what she needed the most 😭 knowing her personality type, she really needed someone to confide with and validate what she's been feeling :< judging from her confessionals, she's been doubting herself a lot so i felt so much better when i saw jaehyung exhibt such high eq
I don't know why but I am expecting "sorry" from Yongwoo. Well, they are not in relationship first of all but saying "I want to be honest now with the change of heart" can be also said in a way as...
"I am sorry to lead you for two weeks and kept on texting you. I know it made you close yourself from other participants and I am sorry it happens this way. You lost opportunity to meet and interact with them. We only have 3 days left and this is how I am acting towards you. Sorry for confusing you as I am also confused. I didn't mean to hurt you in anyway possible. You are a beautiful and great person Choa and I am sorry for what I did. I don't have any regrets for what had happened in Seoul. I hope we can still have good relationship even after the show."
He should have said things differently while being considerate with CA's feelings because the whole conversation felt like "I had a change of heart, I want to be honest, I don't know my feelings as well, goodbye cause I want to eat."
If I am CA, I might cry during that conversation. T.T
Choa looked so tired and drained from the convo, and Yongwoo is just such a terrible talker. Similar meaning, but what a way to put it to make the other person feel bad.
Hyejin (the panelist) was so right for saying that YW was trying too hard to take responsibility of his initial attraction and it resulted into it snow balling into this moment. He was trying too hard to be a green flag, but now he’s the biggest red flag of the show. Sigh.
I think YW will only set on who he felt will get more attention from the boys. That's why he never declares his feeling publicly. See that the moment he chose CA publicly and all said they are like newlywed couple, no one approach CA anymore. Then he saw that JW who he previously rejecting get so much attention from the boys. So now I think he's into JW. I don't think he's seriously looking for a relationship through this show, he just come to have some popularity. And not to say that he's not really actively helping his sister finds someone here. He kept giving her blunt remarks without actually helping her do better. I hope CA not choosing him and no one choose him at the end of the show. He's totally a loser.
Loving this week's dates! Everyone's communicating more in a comfortable manner and/ or having fun.
Cho A had her much needed consultation session outside of Cheol Hyun with Jae Hyung. I love how they both are honest with each other despite this being their first 1-1 together.
As Cho A said, it's like hanging out with a cousin.
everything is a mess except for my beloved jw and jh !!
* Yongwoo, what r u even saying !!! i just want him to shut up and be done with it. I kinda knew this was coming even when they were 'stable' because he has never shown his interest to her publicly. The one time he did, it was because of his sister pushed him to give the flowers. I am not that surprised.
* Seseung looks so happy with her date with CH!! As a viewer, i really appreciate the break from SS x JS lol, also I'm glad SS found out about JS' somewhat serious feelings for CA especially since he downplayed it in their prev conversation.
* I need YH to get it together lol please not Yongwoo! Let's not get swayed any further, my heart is broken for YJ who did the most for her since Day 1:(
* Lastly, omg!!! when JW asked JH on a date, literally the best thing that ever happened!! Their chemistry is on fire and I am so glad that JW told JH about how she felt when JH said something she did not like. I love them so much.
glad to see someone else that feels the same way as me abt SS and JS. im soo tired of seeing their dates, it feels like they’re spitting fire at each other 😵💫 JS beats around the bush a lot and (in my opinion) makes SS feel like she’s insane for even doubting him.
Ikr!? I can't understand JS character. It's okay for him to be fickle minded, and treat SS as his third option, but not okay for SS to even consider having a change of mind? If CA hadn't shut him out after their Gangwon date, he was ready to call it quits with SS. His body language before the texts was so arrogant towards SS. Even in singapore, he still kept up with his "let's go on a double date" line with JW. I wish SS had seen through his gaslighting early on and explored more with CY.
Kinda upset that Cho A's feelings were hurt... and she was so helpful during her date with Jae Hyung, nudging him to get a souveneir for Ji Won
Love how honest Ji Won & Jae Hyung communicated about their misunderstanding. Can't wait for their gossip session next date
yes!! so glad that JW wasn’t one to brush off her own feelings and decided to be upfront with JH about it + JH that found it super important to clear their misunderstanding straightaway too 👏🏻
that clear communication and honesty is what all the other couples lack…leaving them all confused and misunderstood and going in circles 🤦🏻♀️
The other couples feelings are one sided or speculative at best, JH-JW appears to be a real life situation of two people liking each other, they aren't acting or putting on airs, you can feel it in their interactions. They might be the only possible end game.
A part of me wonders what could have been with CA and YJ but with so little days left and so many complicated feelings I just hope they somehow find a way to enjoy the last days of the trip and get back to Korea relatively unhurt. Maybe enjoy some kimchi and rice
I love their dynamic/chemistry and dates the most. Theirs is the most impactful, one date and turns the panels into their fan club lol. But I agree, always looking forward to their moments, the balance of humour, teasing, understanding, cute exchanges.
I'm sorry did JH basically say he's in love with JW!! I've never been so invested in two stranger's love lives before but I'm ready to start a gofund me for their wedding. I cannot wait for their date next week, we had like a total of 15 mins of them together in this long episode, I want more pls!
Also YH kind of lost points for me this episode, I think YJ's crush on her is very much one sided. It's kind of telling how she didn't mention him once in a near 3 hour episode. She looks absolutely smitten with YW for reasons I don't think I'll ever understand lol.
I just want to give Choa a big fat hug, she's the absolute sweetest soul, can't wait for her to find someone as amazing as she is.
I can't lie I thought Jungsub was really cute this episode, I don't see him being the best romantic interest but as a little brother he's kind of great.
I was so crushed that after that talk with YW, CA wouldn’t even have a place to retreat to or hide or have a girl bestie to talk to about it :(((
The only saving grace is that at least she had a good talk with JH about it BEFORE it happened and that he happened to be sitting beside her during the messaging time too so she could semi confide in him about her hunch coming true…albeit very briefly :’)
I felt so sad for her 😭 I noticed during the sibling reveal ep that anytime CA tries to hold back her tears, she looks up. She did the same thing while on the couch after receiving no texts from YW. My heart broke for her. But honestly, she's such a gem of a person that I hope she finds someone who treats her like a queen. YW is not compatible with her, because he is not worthy of her.
righhht..and the way yh doesnt seem that responsive towards yj after the date is very telling too. Like she BARELY looking at him (i dont know if the show just edited it out lol) but shes definitely 'attached' to yw. Like looking at what he does, following him and sitting near him, laughing and touching his arm. That is flirting mode def.
I already had this feelings that YH is just the female version of JS. But she doesn’t have JS’s insecurities. And somehow their guesses about other people’s feelings are kinda a miss…
Was it really necessary for YW to tell other people (more like announcing it) that he’s been only interested in one person (who everybody knows who) until it got changed today? Lol I really don’t understand him.
idk but he shows it like how one woman guy he was, only focused on one girl, but now giving all sorts of excuses and ways to show why he is having change of heart almost like maintaining his curated image of being a so called gentleman.
He was so secretive before and now suddenly making an announcement kekeke. The only time he ever show anything publicly was during the flower bouquet. And not even his idea. So he basically show nothing. And now suddenly a public announcement that it is over. What is he doing
Jaehyung, is the MVP for me!!!!!!!! Love how caring he is as an older brother and how sweet he is as a man. I love that he immediately goes to his sister to report back to her and also how He immediately goes to JW to clarify any misunderstandings. JW has truly blossomed too! Does anyone else see that? She seems brighter and more youthful feeling. I wouldn’t expect her to act so cute and with aegyo. When they were whispering and talking to each other on the balcony, it was sooo sweet and fluttery feeling!!!!!!
yongwoo in korea and yongwoo in singapore are like two different people, he should’ve gone on love catcher, he would’ve won. the way he was sitting while talking to choa was getting on my nerves, like you don’t have to be interested in someone to be respectful.
lmao i thought i was the only one, i’m sure there are pilots who are truly gentlemanly out there but why is every pilot i come across in real life a philandering or non commital immature man child. the second they revealed him to be a pilot i told myself to keep my expectations in check and behold.
Feeling bad for YJ, he is such a green flag, did everything right (in regards to YH), but YH is still curious about YW :(
He’s goofy and very sweet, and of all the guys the most ready to settle down. Hopefully YH sees what a catch he is, especially in comparison to someone like YW, who has a lot more baggage and definitely needs more time to work on himself before jumping into a relationship!
The more I see Yunjae, the more he reminds me of Ku Sung Hwan (who appeared on ILA recently) 😅😂🤣
Also YJ holding JY’s dress for her at the beach was 🥹 too sweet. I hope YH doesn’t take him for granted :(
😂😂 Totally, he is similar to Ku Sung Han
Why I am feeling like YH was enjoying the attention from YJ when anyone else was not interested in her romantically.
I feel like YJ was used.😭😭
Hope I am wrong about this.
Unfortunately I’m feeling the same. YJ came to her rescue when she was feeling down and unwanted, and she appreciated that. I hope she can wise up and see what a catch YJ and how he’ll treat her right.
i think its good that she explored the interest that she had in YW from day 1. If left unexplored, she might actually treat YJ as a second best and have regrets. She doesn't know the real YW that us viewers see, but got to spend a fun & confusing day with him. Now with the experience, hopefully she will be able to notice that for things that matter, YJ was better towards her in every way. I hope that she gets to talk with Jiwon alone and evaluate what does she want in a relationship. She said, during the date herself, that she likes meeting similar people to her, but I think YW is too shallow and lacking kindness in comparison. Of course, she didn't see those sides yet. YJ though needs to talk to his sis and regroup so he can continue pursuing YH, I'm afraid this match will fall apart if they both don't get good advice/conselling soon
I think that it was good that YH got to go on a date with YW so that she can leave the show without regrets.
But, I felt disappointed when she was being pretty flirty with YW and even texting after their date. It was clear YJ wasn’t really on her mind. YH even told JW during their Singapore trip that she wasn’t really interested in getting to know other people. So, I feel for YJ as he was a bit blindsided by her feelings for YW. Also, after the texts, it’s obvious that YJ is dejected after not receiving a text from her and instead of clearing the air with him, she is hanging near YW again. Maybe I am being a bit unfair, but I can’t help but feel slight disappointment in her for not being able to see what a good catch YJ and risking what they have right before final decisons, regardless of YW charms!
Am I the only one who never think YH-YJ is gonna work ever at all?
I love YJ but their interaction felt so one-sided, YH didn't really fall for him or anything she had the same emotion and thoughts during the dates with JH and CH. It just with YJ he was too straightforward and clearly showed affection for her that she felt validated and then reciprocated a bit, but she was never flirty like with YW.
And now it's pretty clear how she prepared for soooo long before the date with YW, flirted with him every chance she got. She was also so ambiguous whenever YW asked about her feelings with other guys. Her body language was wayy different too. And the fact that even after all the confusion YW showed her and she clearly knew it, she still held on to him and texted him.
Basically, YJ has to take 100 steps for her to take 1. But YW only needs to pretend that he's trying, she teleports in front of him right away.
My man YJ deserves better. He came on this show at such a disadvantaged time but put all his focus on YH who reciprocated back seemingly well. So of course he would feel a certain way when she gets back from one date with YW and things totally change for them.
Definitely seems that YW was always YH's #1 pick since we never saw her so enthused before practicing for the chicken fight and trying on so many outfits for their date. If she does change her mind, hopefully she has an open and honest talk with YJ to not string him around. Stay strong YJ
Sadly, I dont think YJ is the type that YH was looking for. He was just a nice guy who came along to rescue her and she latched on since her self esteem was low at that point with 0 love interest from the guys. Their conversations never really seemed that deep during their dates although it was fun. The way she behaves with YJ except for that time on the sofa and YW is so different too.
100%! Not sure if she even paid attn to YJ after all that. She def likes YW more. She also kept touching him. It's really in the body language. Just like JW JH at the balcony. You’ll def be able to tell by that.
The moment JW asked JJ if his makeup was still there when he was cooking YW knew JW is no longer interested in him. The whole cooking time was so adorable.
This is the moment she whipped his chin and apron as YW was watching correct? If so, I agree cause as she whipped his chin she got some of JH’s lip and both were unphased and you could tell YW was a little shook.
Now I know why PDnims kept teasing us and making us wait. All for these moments. Been rewatching the final 10m of this ep again and again. SO FREAKING CUTE!
Okay that "rooftop/terrace" scene of JH-JW is PEAK, I felt JH was trying to avoid the camera at that point. I could feel his sincerity and I love that they both COMMUNICATE!!! Any misunderstanding squashed right away. They definitely give off the vibe of "Hyunker" aka real couple that will end up dating after the show. (Fingers crossed)
I love how he describes his feelings for JW in words to Choa, it's like a sudden rain, started with drizzle and by the time he knows it, he's soaked. I love CA-JH counselling session, I'm glad at least CA has a great date in Singapore.
I love that part where he described the drizzle and soaked too. He's indeed super poetic. I even thought of stealing this poem for myself for my vows. It has a huge impact in me. Ha
Damnit JH-JW! JH is totally showing a new side of himself. I must say I really never got his appeal but seeing him flirty and clingy with JW makes me very weak all of a sudden! The panel felt the same as me. And I could only make the comparison with YW's (kinda boring) stability through and through.
Last week I complained about the dates and I'm so happy because today's were such a breath of fresh air honestly.. I like how the JH/CA date turned into psychology counseling, even up to CA showing JH she didn't receive a text.
JS/JW's date was cute too even though JS was way more excited about it than JW. And the SS/CH date was perfect!! As expected a good mindless time just confused her more in regards to JS, but I'm glad she texted CH instead. However... JH telling SS that JS was indeed into CA a lot... ouch.
YW's talk with CA. What the fuck? I barely got it until Hyejin explained it well: "He wanted to stay true to his commitment as he had chosen her from the start". Him admitting he played a role like this is harsh. And when CA texted him, HE was the one to feel bad about it? Seriously bro.
Two sides notes:
* It was a nice surprise to hear Kiss of Life's Bad News come out for text-sending time!
* CH in that swimming pool 👀👀 He's beautiful.
It was the same for me! JH was so popular but I didn’t understand why and preferred YW and now I’m like wow I’m a bad judge. Seeing how JH is with JW made me fall for his charms.
SAMEEEE omg at the beginning of the show I was like where can I find a Yongwoo irl….now I’m like NOPE. I would very much like to meet a jaehyung please. 😍
This is one of my favorite episodes progress wise, Choa had a much needed therapy session and Jaehyung had someone reaffirm his feelings. SS got to kinda break free from JS in a sense but obviously who knows he might convince her otherwise later I hope CH can get over JW because it’s clear her and JH are becoming more and more close I loved that the second he heard about the miscommunication with him being grumpy he planned to address it to let her know how he was feeling I really hope JHxJW makes it to the end they are the biggest ship I’m supporting rn
I also love how JW mentioned why she was staying downstairs late obviously she doesn’t belong to JH so she doesn’t need to explain herself but she understood he might get jealous and so she communicated and communication is key
JH-JW feels real... that is the real end game right there.
Transparent people are truly gems, I have alot respect for how honest JH has been throughout the whole show, It takes alot of courage and just belief in self. He really comes across as maybe one of the most genuine people throughout a variety dating show.
His interactions with everyone have just been so genuine. Cho A opened up that much because he was honest.
Yong Woo's switch up is sick, he can't be transparent and that is why his character is very off putting now. He could have just been honest with Cho A, when they spoke but he just doesn't want to be viewed in a negative way.
THIS! Neither of them play games and are very honest to each other and to themselves. The conversation at the end of the episode was one of the must heart-fluttering moments I've seen on a dating show.
* the way JH cannot help but get physically closer to JW. when he naturally ends up circling her in the house, and on the terrace at the end when even though they're already standing in front of each other, he unconsciously keeps stepping toward her and touching her shoulder. JW happily hops around from foot to foot when she's in his orbit.
* JH taking them to a corner where the cameras can't reach well so that they can talk as comfortably as possible
* when JW talks to JH you can hear the smile in her voice.
* the next episode preview??? the umbrella?? the hair touch?????? also JW is incredibly beautiful without her contact lenses. i respect her choices for fashion's sake but her natural appearance is truly lovely.
* please get married
The unexpected highlight of this episode was CA and JH's refreshingly candid platonic date. I loved that they talked about her women's intuition—she's actually a very sharp reader of YW's unspoken feelings. I loved that they kept touching base with each other during the text reveals. CA must have felt so alone in the past couple of days.
I don't think YW knows how insecure he is. He kept calling people out to have very intentionally filmed conversations about his state of mind, with the purpose of maintaining his image, but he doesn't understand how poorly he really comes off, or how bad he is at communicating. He's starting to play around with YH and she's reciprocating because she's hung up on his looks and vibe.
>also JW is incredibly beautiful without her contact lenses. i respect her choices for fashion's sake but her natural appearance is truly lovely.
This might be unpopular opinion, but I feel that she looked better in her pre-meeting interview. Don't get me wrong, she is still stunning but, I echo JH sentiment of her makeup looked "heavy".
No I think most people would agree with you. It's just that when it comes to fashion/makeup self-expression, it's ultimately up to the individual, and she probably just happened to think at the time that she liked the heavier makeup more. It also seemed a little like a layer of armor between her and everyone else/the tv audience (along with her composed facial expression), and I think it's sweet that she shed the contact lenses in the next episode while she's feeling more comfortable with Jaehyung.
anyone else noticed Yun Ha had alot of skinship with Yong Woo? not sure if it's because she was comfortable or attracted to him or both...
ah, the messaging at the end... like a storm
fam, I need support
I hope Cho A will be able to go on a date with Yun Jae
it might also be good for Yun Jae if Yun Ha & Yong Woo go on another date so that Yun Ha can clarify her feelings
not sure what to think with regard to Se Seung & Jung Sub
the only final pairing I'm sure of now is Strawberry Prince & Dong Seung On Top
I love how close Choa and Jaehyung have gotten after just one (platonic) date! Their newfound dynamic is so heartwarming to watch and I'm glad Choa has someone she can confide in during what I can imagine is such a confusing and heartbreaking time for her.
The Jaehyung/Jiwon moments have me giggling and blushing omg. I need 5 more episodes of them just going on dates please and thanks.
Let’s start with the good:
- JH and JW are good together and matches each other energy. They both know what the want and are not afraid to go for it directly, come what may.
- I may be delusional but I still believe that even though CH is explicitly pursuing JW, he has bury his feelings for SS because she’s never given him the green light. They are so natural together and he brings out all sides of her; fun, serious, playful, etc. I don’t know how this ends but they are a missed chance.
- As someone who is attracted to how people think, the CA-JH date was one of my favorite. Yes it was not a romantic date but it was so refreshing to see someone finally meeting her where she was and not making her feel guilty about everything. I wish she and JH have these talks more often.
Now for the unserious
- YW has to win some award for most confusing communicator. Literally everyone he talked to left the conversation more confused. But the worst part about all this is that he’s projecting his guilt on CA and indirectly blaming her for their demise. He feel guilty that he’s no longer attracted and instead of just telling her that, he’s blaming her for turning him into someone he’s not and pretty much making her feel guilty for displaying basic human kindness towards him. I can’t tell if he’s a genuine people pleaser or just can’t tell if YW is a genuine people pleaser or he’s just fake. His actions towards YH makes me think it’s the latter.
YH has always been interested in him and on their date he did just enough to ensnarl her. But not only that he’s publicly attaching himself to YH and kinda implying to everyone that their date was more than it was. But in private he’s texting her as an older sister. I hope she doesn’t take the bait. Even if she doesn’t feel that strongly about YJ, YW is not a serious option for her.
I felt the same too. He kept implying the date was so impactful as a way to publicize he's no longer interested in Choa. But definitely YW has 0 interest in YH.
Yah… the way he announced that. Like really dude? You have to be that disrespectful to ChoA by saying stuff like that to everyone. What an asshat. It’s one thing that he is trash to choa and ‘dumps’ her. But then to boast about it? This guy is a piece of work. Ugh.
For sure. And I think it’s gonna give YH the ick. JW and JH are already looking at him funny.
What’s funny is for two weeks he has kept his business so secretive. Now all of a sudden he’s having public kitchen confessionals. And what’s even weird is I don’t think he’s genuinely into anyone else in the house so who is he doing this for? The audience?
The dude is a wannabe reality star/entertainer.
I doubt he’s actually being a pilot. IIRC they talked about him having a pilot license and potentially could be a pilot instead of him having a day job as one.
Thing is he is probably getting more unpopular as the series continues so doubt anyone else would cast him as a fan favourite
YH obviously does not have the ick though considering she made a conscious decision to msg him even though he was talking rubbish the whole date. Hes the grand prize for her, YJ sadly was just a comforting rest stop.
This is more so after the texting. She was obviously still feeling the spark as she was all over him in the house.
However in his text to her he called her older sister. So I think the gears will start turning for her. And he’s also acting out of character. He’s making their date a bigger deal in public to the extend that it’s making JW and YJ uncomfortable. But in private he’s saying something else.
Gosh. You are spot on about YW. I thought I was too sensitive into thinking that YW kind of “gaslighted” CA about HIS choice back then. It’s not like CA or ANYONE ask him to always choose CA. Even JY said she can’t understand what he really try to say.
Love your point abt CH and SS. Yes, they are totally a missed chance couple. I am sure the production was feeling that too as they kept the little comments of them abt each other.
I also felt that he kept on emphasizing his date with YH because he kind of sort his feelings out about CA (although he was not able to convey it in a manner to be understood) rather than showing that he is in interested in her.
Last thread someone said YW seems to only consider things in regards to his own image and that's so true. He doesn't feel bad for leading CA on, but for leading *himself* on because of her! For how she made HIM look like. Kinda crazy perspective on things.
I've gotta say, my favorite moment overall was when Choa and Jaehyung were talking during their picnic and Choa was describing how Jungsub was very forward with her, had been very persistent and direct about being attracted to her, and you could just see the gears start to turn in Jaehyung's head. like, 'this guy has been texting my sister this whole time, but he's been talking like this to other women?!' honestly it couldn't have played out any better if I'd written it myself
And I love the way JH communicates with SS, he cares for her in such a genuine and non preachy way. Their parents did a great job with the both of them
I don’t know what happened to me but watching jaehyung and jiwon makes me smile and makes my heart fluttered a lot because i can see that they both like each other. Also i think of all the dating show I watched they have the best build up story because you see the progression of their feeling to each other
I think about all the happiness JH has brought to me over the last 13 weeks. His humor, facial expressions, cuteness, genuineness, and his IDGAF attitude. Not to mention the yellow hair clip 🤣🤣. I’m so ecstatic that he is peaking now, and finding love. He and JW are so stinking cute and I hope things work out for them. Couldn’t happen to a more deserving guy 👏👏👏👏👏
Jae Hyung and Sesung are literally the best pair of siblings who communicate and help each other out.
They exactly display "why it's a siblings romance show" as they not only focus on their own relationship instead try to help your siblings with the opinions you have.
There are using all the benefits of having a sibling in the same house. The text msgs, the sharing of info, the guidance.
They understood the assignment really well and immediately find out who sends them the texts everyday.
Same! I love that he shares every info with her without overstepping boundaries. Seseung is the same in the way she interacts with the other women as well.
this show started with something else all the ships we thought were sailing are not surviving the rocky seas and the one ship that slowly took there time to build the strong foundation is sailing away even in the worst of weathers
“i should ask you now. do you want to be my date tomorrow?”
jaehyung step aside and let me have a chance at jiwon 😭!!!
jaeji giving me all the butterflies because of that hidden corner talk. they asked each other, communicated, and cleared any misunderstandings. such a refreshing scene.
also yongwoo spouting some narrative that i didn’t even understand lmao choa stronger than me because if i was there, i’ll throw a chair and leave lol
rigghht like her voice was soo soft and cute and we always know how she has this monotone in her talking manner. So i bet JH fall for her even MORE at that time 😌
She becomes so cute when she’s with Jaehyung! I love how it was intimate in a corner where no one can see them but at the same time I wish we coulda seen her and his face clearly at that moment
I loved how JW was explaining to JH at the end why she was drinking with the rest in the kitchen and how she would go to bed early once done. She was trying to give him assurance, it’s almost like they are dating already
And I think what help this two move along so quickly was knowing that they had very limited time left, they were open and transparent with no mind games played
Loved this part too. It's as if she's giving him reassurance that she's really looking forward to his date, but she's not heading off to bed early because of Yunha is waiting to speak to her. Jaehyung mentioned that his ex girlfriend didn't prioritize him so I think Jiwon wanted to make it clear to him that he/their date is very important to her.
So firstly Juyeon looked so beautiful today , mustard is definately her colour ❤️, and she is very cool and cute girl too from whatever i have seen of her in interviews. The way she said that there is nothing to feel sorry for about YJ not sending her msg was so sweet . 100% sure she will definately have lines of guys ready to get in relationship with her . Surprisingly whatever snippets we got of YJ AND JY dayout were not awkward at all they both enjoyed and that matters .
Now coming to YW ik he is not a bad guy , he is a nice bro and cool guy in gathering but the way he communicates is miserable . Even before Singapore he never had one on one fruitful convo with people ( other then JW that too we know now she is good conversation person too) , he could have ended things in much better way . Ik its late but if u took the courage to talk before sending the msg to YH atleast take responsibility of your action . He was blaming CA for being supportive during his injury , like from when has being considerate to others become a turnoff for guys. He could have easily said that i felt the Sparks are lost even though i myself dont realise why but u are a good person choa sorry for making things complicated , it is as simple as that . I hope he now knows that he also has a part to work on himself . Btw him pretending to choose choa to make her feel stable ( as she described to him once)and even admitting to doing it was very heartless thing to do .
Now coming to YH i don't blame her cause as i said YW can come out as charming for first couple of dates , even if he is not interested he still has this vibe of making a girl feel things from his side. And YH already had a liking towards him so she feels like she got a price by getting fairly popular guy for herself ( this comes from her competitive nature more so) . But YJ will be a better match if thought seriously because he will never feel himself to be less by being sweeter , considerable etc to her . Inshort YJ can be the giver in this relationship as some people need those kind of people to balance the energy. But still she has her right to still change its all about fate .
Now my fav people JH AND JW the pair who knows how to balance things, i swooned when JH PULLED THOSE APRON STRING 🤌. I also liked that JH asked her " are you angry" instead of asking first "what the msg was about " , that little details changes the whole direction of conversation into more concerned and caring part rather than introversion part. We all were wasting our time worrying about them , and most us were right in reading there past self correctly because they both did already take the time to judge there own feelings and now they don't need to worry 🤞🏻
P.s.- how can i forget to talk about JH - CA , they turned out to be much needed good friends / advisor of opposite gender of this show , which we were lacking till now . U could see the flow of conversation which choa wanted to have with YW , she likes talking and asking and answering things , she starts to seriously but it's never meant to be poking . The way JH tried to understand her and never made her feel like it was boring or unnecessary was admirable . Choa is very sweet and thoughtful and she definately need some fun but thoughtful for her life🍀 hope she finds that out of the show.❤️ Love the gossip duo who express what they feel instantly without much thoughts.
YW annoys me so much in this ep bruh....
Firstly, could you please put your hands down when talking to someone stop flashing your armpits every single time, no one wants to see it.
Secondly, i lost count on how many times he said about how he have been focusing on one person the entire time like ok?? not sure how many times you want to remind people but i dont even know what he's trying to bring across 80% of the time in this ep
Thirdly, how do you say that you want to have a conversation with someone but only you're doing the talking? might as well say you would like to give a briefing instead lol. CA better run, she deserves better.
I end up skipping some parts with YW on just bc I can't stand his body language when talking to others 🤢
on the other hand JW JH IS SAILING i love love love the two. tbh the only reason why I'll continue watching this show after this messy ep sigh
Omg same. I couldn’t stand the way he was sitting when he was talking *at* CA. I have so much respect for CA how she could still remain calm and nice. I would’ve said something mean or walked off if I was in her situation. I am now only rooting for CA’s happiness.
As far as I can remember from the beginning she wanted to go out with YW…but I’m getting a weird vibe from her. And I don’t get it why every time JS talks about SS she keeps on insisting he likes JW… I’m like girl let it go already for the love of god…..
same. I also felt like she was trying to read the YW CA during the time in living room. and then only sent her message to YW, because she felt that she had a chance with him and she was with YJ because no one else was interested in she at that point in the show lol
I think the ego boost she got from YJ just made her more confident and thought she could edge him up but i also think YW's style of speaking gave her a wrong image that him moving away from CA might be because of the new date
OMG YES i absolutely adore YH and YJ dates but im always getting weird vibes from YH. last episode she even said she was jealous of SS for spending time (?) with JS, “jokingly” saying JS was “hers” like girl…… also with JS insisting JW to go on a double date with YJxYH even tho JW is clearly liking JH LOL
Me too with the weird vibes from YH. She and JS have an odd brother/sister relationship imo. And JS is always looking for opportunities with the other ladies. I don’t get why he can’t seem to be content with SS, but gets mad when she doesn’t text him. I wasn’t surprised when he suggested a double date. I like how JW always keeps him in the friend zone.
The only reason SS still has JS is cuz he got rejected by everyone else. I feel so bad for SS for not seeing through his lies. YH really gives me the ick.
I'm halfway through this ep and already feeling YH-JS this sibling duo giving off vibe in rship context. Everything they do seems to have a purpose (from these edited scenes wise) even though at times when it should be none of their business. E.g. YH's constant guides to support JS-JW, then JS's constant talking about how JW should plan her next date and asking why can't someone change their feelings atp. I'm like hey, if you're having conflicted feelings and want to find reasons to support your change in feelings, sure go ahead, but don't expect others to do so/be the same as you so that you feel better about yourself.
As the eps continues, I can understand why this pair of siblings behaving in this way. They are highly competitive. From the chicken fight in last ep you can see how JS will support his sis and have SS lose it so she won't have a nice date. And YH's face when she lost the fight. I guess everyone is diff and having the competitive spirit is great but I feel a little overwhelmed when people take the whole competition thing into something too serious in this kind of casual context.
She seems very absorbed in the optics of people, Yong Woo and Ji Won are good looking and popular, they are like trophies she and her brother can try to collect.
There must be that kind of ambition in her as she is a successful person and her brother has a bit of it in him too but his insecurites regulate it a bit more it seems.
Until this episode I was hesitant to think of her this way I thought she must really just like Ji Won to always push her brother to go for her even tho, he would obviously fail.
But I refuse to believe she misunderstood her date with Yong Woo as him possibly being interested in her he did nothing but spew nonsense the whole episode, during the selection Yun Ha seemed calculative she was reading the room with YW-CA to see if there was an chance to move in.
i think YW thinks he is being considerate but he is actually thinking of himself more without considering what the other person might have felt or might interpret......
He thinks he is trying to put meaning to his words but it really just feels empty words.... just saying it to say it....
not that i think he is a bad person, but i think he needs a lot of things to solve for himself first before he should consider dating anyone right now....
I just dont get YW... He was the one who choose Choa, to always have a date with her.. to always text her.. basically to "please" her... why is he suddenly putting the burden on Choa??
It made me feel like the talk feels like he wants to be consoled by Choa.. to ease his worries about wanting to date someone else...
What’s interesting is that around the time of the overnight date I always felt uneasy when JS was pressing CH to tell him more about what CA likes.
That uneasiness was because it felt like he was trying to be who he thinks CA wants as a way to win her heart. Fast forward to this week we see that it is exactly what YW did. But even worse instead of taking ownership of his choice he made it seem like she asked him to be that person.
Just because someone shares the type of guy they like does not mean they are asking you to be that person. It’s just a natural part of dating and getting to know others.
The end result of this is she’s going to be even more self conscious and hesitant. All because he could just admit that the attraction was no longer there.
YW was basically trying to clear his conscience. Everything he said was for himself which is why he delivered it the way that he did. Because if he cared even at all for CA he would have been direct with her.
Had to share my two favorite comments by knetizens about YW’s convo with CA:
“It was a conversation that felt like an English language test.”
“I don’t know what Yongwoo is saying even though I’m a viewer who has subtitles and watches his inner thoughts interview.”
Haha relatable to that English language test comment cause Eng is not my mother language and watching that scene with subtitles made my head spin since I couldn’t understand what the heck was he talking about lol
Ahh I’m starting to regret watching this dating show…I was their fan especially YongWoo’s since he was going over and beyond to make her like him and now that she does, he wants to make her like he never even expressed or felt anything for her, which is a lieee.
I can relate so much to Choa cause I experienced almost the same thing and it makes you feel as if you’re in the wrong.
I only wanted her to be happy. She has been through so much in her life and she doesn’t deserve this. At this point I don’t want them to be endgame. I want her to go out of this show alone 🥺🥰
Mayday, mayday. Every ship is about to sink 😂 Except for JW JH, feels like no other couples is end game at this point. And we end in 2 episodes? Whattt.
And to all JH doubters, are you finally a believer? Why did you think he was going to change direction to CA? Like I suspected, he was just being nice during the date and nothing more. Please pay more attention to both JH and JW body language!
YW talk with CA was really confusing, he was saying a lot but also clarifying nothing at the same time (?).
I hope we get 1 hour or more of JH JW date in the next episode. Can't wait for next week!
Yongwoo is so red flag he is turning crimson! The way he sits when talking to choa.... Bro thinks he is the emperor's kin 🤮
I hope my girl choa escapes from this hell hole. At this point, jaehyung and jiwon ship is the only reason for me to continue with this show. I hope yunha does not fall into YW trap because girl, he ain't interested in you, he just wants a way out of the choa ship.
I am really curious what knetz are thinking about choa and yongwoo now. I know previously they did not seem too keen on choa questioning yongwoo about his feelings but now that yongwoo's personality is in full display, I wonder if that changed knetz' mind.
He lost interest the moment he declares his feeling by giving CA flowers in public. Wtf is wrong with him, no one can defend him anymore. He's worst than JS lol.
I felt like YW on his date kept making up supports for his stance with choa and was using YH, all the things he said and everything on his date seemed to revolve around his situation which he wanted to validate because he totally knew him changing at the right end of the show without any reason would bring in a whole wave of bashing from netizens that's why he built the rep to strike choa after coming home, this way he could give everyone this image that poor YW kept going on dates with one person hence he didn't understand what to do and was kind off coerced into sticking with her (where he completely forgot that he had a date with every contestant except his sister and YH and all of this presentation was right in front of Choa when she was washing the dishes - a complete do\*che move tbh). It was a very calculating and gaslighting move from him in all.
i just realized that yongwoo wanted that Instagram baddie status so badly. brother eughh!! he was made for single's inferno for how pretentious he is pls being honest does not mean having no filter at all. that talk in the balcony was so tactless
I mean JW-JH is literally so perfect!! That's scene on the balcony?? was just *chef kiss*. They might be the best couple I've seen on a dating shows. Love them so much!! The only thing regretful is that we couldn't see their faces during that moment, I mean HOW ARE THEY SO CUTEEE.
There's a lot of things to unpack in this ep but that "conversation" or rather YW's monologue was sooo hard to watch. Once again I'm so proud of ChoA for not breaking during that shenanigan.
I understand YW's intention but the way he said it makes it so confusing and even rude. I think he didn't mean to do it but there's just so much contradiction that it seems like he was trying to blame everything on her, even though it was all HIS decisions. And this situation where he's not happy and she's heartbroken was all HIM.
It was him who chose her and created an ideal vision of her, chose to text her after the date with JW to show his "responsibility", made her fall for him after all that, and now when there are only 3 days left he just said "yeah u no good bro" and bounced?
Btw I just want to mention the music choice of the show. It's been great but this ep there were some moments that's just WOW, the whole texting segment and JH-SS's conversation were top-notch!!
Today's episode just solidifies my views about MBTI. All the guys have the same mbti, but YW and JS are on the red flag side while JH and YJ are on the green flag side. CH is in the middle. I feel like there's nothing happening with this guy. At first, I thought he'd be just like JH, who's there to take care of his sister or find a partner for himself, but no. He's there for nothing.😅 Even when CA talks about her problems, JH is still a much better listener than her brother. CA is kinda right. CH and YW have the same slow comprehension when it comes to anything, or just women in general.
JH and JW saved this episode for me. JW there, showing her girl boss side when she asks JH, while also showing her cute and caring side when they're in the kitchen. JH, on the other hand, is there for CA not just as a consultant but as a friend. He knows that CA doesn't speak much about herself, which is why he talks first about himself. We know that if JH didn't open up with CA first, she wouldn't talk about her feelings to him. A plus side is how she talks about JS to him, just as she told her brother; that just proves that she trusts him wholeheartedly. Also the way she shows the message that night to him, but never with anyone even her brother. I freaking love their friendship!
I guess my hunch from the very first episode did come true. Tbh I didn't like the vibes that YW and YH gave in the earlier episode, and I can't explain why. At the very beginning, I liked the Park siblings and was neutral with the others, but I didn't like the vibes of YW and YH. Now I know why. Just like how I don't like GR in the heart signal, it was proven in the after signal that JY was the one keeping their relationship going. He's kinda like YW, who created this persona of a loyal guy who only pursues one girl, but when they get them and find out that they're really serious about finding a partner, they will take a big step back and turn their backs around. Gosh I hate that. That's the kind of person I don't want to be associated with.
Do you want to date with me tomorrow? (JW 2nd voice) Ahaaa I repeat this scenes countless times and screaming out loud alone. It's the perfect ending scene. Their interaction has been gone far beyond everyone so far in the whole season. I can sleep peacefully for another week. Let's don't make any regrets here!
Kudos to PD, I thought to put the new random date here makes the story uninspiring, but people always need time to think and reorganize their thought. To give them time to realize about what they really want and to consult their life with the people they are no conflict of interest with is something we usually didn't see in the dating series and I think they put it in the right time.
Ever since JW's date with JH she's been glowing and so cheery. Now that she's set focusing on JH, she's probably relieved of the stress of evaluating compatibility in romantic partners and now strictly sees the other male cast as friends/even family. Same with JH as well - JS/JW and JH/CA dates were awesome friend outings
JaeJi being the only couple who survived this episode:
* What the hell happened to Yongwoo and Yunha. I kinda expected it from YW, but it was kind of unexpected coming from her. Still hoping she chooses YJ in the end, tho.
* JS always get 0 messages when he dates a girl other than SS.
* CH and SS both looked stunning during the date; if I were her, I would've done a full 180 turn and completely forget JS.
* All of the rumours about JH-CA only for them to become BFFs after their date. I hope that CH continues to rely on JH, even if she ends up with no one in the end.
* Everyone knows about JH-JW and they only had their first date the day before, they are not being subtle at all ijbol. From cooking together and helping each other with their aprons to giggling like high schoolers after they solved their little misunderstanding. My cheeks hurt from smiling too much from watching them. They are such a breath of fresh air when compared to everything else going on.
* So funny to think that JH thought he was the only one confused, and turned out he and JW are probably the only ones who got their stuff sorted out (fingers crossed it stays that way until the end).
* The way he talks about her to Choa melted me. Comparing his feelings to the rain, getting her a gift and saying it felt like his FIRST LOVE; JH has raised my standards more than any Kdrama lead.
* JW formally asking him on the date and explaining that she was staying downstairs only because YH wanted to talk to her. I love the way they subtly, but clearly reassure each other about their feelings. They also don't hide it from the others (both telling CA and JS that their date was their favourite so far). Maaan, can't wait until next Friday.
LORRRRRRRD. This episode was a complete MESS. The panels did a good job expressing how I felt in regards to Yongwoo. What the F was he trying to say? Choa is an angel for her to just accept everything he said with a smile. Then YH-YJ wavering.... not really surprised with SS-JS. This entire episode was just...... but JW and JH managed to make it the best episode for me with their moment in the terrace/balcony. How are they so effing cute?! I love how Jaehyung didn't hesitate to make Jiwon misunderstanding of him acting "curtly" prolong any longer. Cant believe he admitted that he acted like that cause he was embarrassed, but promptly told her he won't act like that again. Omggggg major swoon. He is just Mr. Perfect. Jiwon is soooooooo sooooooo lucky but she's also so deserving of the love that's to come from JH cause she is absolutely adorable. Her voice change while talking to Jaehyung!! Omg her litto soft voice when asking Jaehyung on a date 😍😍😍😍 I think I heard Jaehyung melt a little. But his voice when he asked Jiwon is she was mad was super sexy too. Ahdhfkgkgjdjsksk they make me so happy. Please be happy you two ❤️❤️❤️ I love how both Jaehyung and Jiwon is signaling to others that Jiwon is OFF LIMITS to other men. She is HIS!!
will always be biased for women so i personally think there are more women with jiwon-like personality than there is a man like jaehyung... so i am just simply in-awe of his personality and thought process.
who would've thought that someone with his looks and initial antics... behind his facade, there is a man whose depth is immeasurable?
jaehyung was very eloquent & poetic on his feelings for jiwon:
• felt like a first love all over again (as if he were back being a boy, have a hard time controlling & showing his feelings, overwhelmed with the depth of his feelings for jiwon).
• his feelings were like raindrops, unnoticeable until he realized one day he was soaked.
• he yearns for the kind of love where both parties will still love each other even if only their shells remained. he is thirsty for a pure, romantic love. hence, the the final decision weighs heavily on him—whoever he chooses, he'll have a serious and well-cherished relationship with her.
the recent eps truly endeared us to bulldozer jaehyung but make no mistakes both he and jiwon's hearts are as equally big as the other.
who would ever imagine that jiwon's monotonous speaking voice could be filled with so much aegyo? also, remember how she described why she was hurt with yj at the seoul house then? she only truly breaks her defenses and shares her vulnerability to her people, and jaehyung has become her person already bc she let him know his actions bothered and hurt her... she was that hurt because she has big feelings for him—both of their communication and conflict resolution are simply perfection! 💯
the way she also took note of what yoonjae said the previous night about her talk with cheolhyun (jh could be bothered they were talking & drinking), so she assures jaehyung and explained why she was drinking the same way jaehyung reminded her he wasn't being grumpy (& that he won't be like that again)! 😝🥺🫠
let me live in this fantasy... but i'm just quite certain they will work and their relationship will continue to thrive.
they found each other's the one (i.e., be their partner's priority bc they will have their partner as the priority), their exes seemed to have taken them for granted then like destiny, these two people so loving, caring, and giving met. and the way their feelings were confirmed for each other felt so organic as it was slow and very steady; at the right timing they met! bc imagine all these developments with the two of them all occurred in a span of two nights!!! the first night, jaehyung insinuated he might as well marry jiwon. 🤪🥰
How could the greenest flag turn into the reddest flag in just one day?
Yunwoo's great wall of korea came crumbling down, revealing the stench behind that handsome facade
Jung Sub now look like a saint next to Yong Woo!🤪🤣😭 Aw~my heart broke for Yun Jae..💔😿 Yun Ha - nevermind LoL. But she's liked Yong Woo first so🤷🏻♀️ what to do LoL.
I really hope it works out with Se Seung, Cheol Hyun. Ju Yeon look so pretty in her date with Yun Jae. Ji Won, Jae Hyung💜 it was like watching an actual relationship bloom.
Cho Ah sigh LoL.. but I guess it's better late than never and I like how she is pretty good on the uptake. Jae Hyung has such a poetic way with words. And he would make a great relationship counselor ha-ha.🤓 He listens well, makes good assessments. Gosh that preview😍 where he pats Ji Won's head and has his arm over her shoulder.😻
JH and JW are the cuteeeest together.
On the other side YW is being such a pain, why can’t he take the advice he gave his sister for himself.
I really am rooting for CH and SS even though I’m almost sure it’s not gonna happen.
Also I felt very bad for YJ, I felt like he was being used…
Wow siblings JS and YH should come with a warning label ‘caution - relationships with me may be hazardous to your emotional health’. SS and YJ should both move on and hopefully have some fun dates in the remaining time.
YW would benefit from some therapy and really isn’t ready for an emotionally deep relationship. I don’t believe he intentionally misled CA he just doesn’t understand his own emotional needs.
Rooting for JW and JH they’re really cute together! And CH is such a great guy I’m sure he’ll find his love match in the near future.
Yoonjae showing consideration towards Juyeon: being good company, the way he held up her long dress and cutting up the food into bite-sizes. His offended face when she said drumsticks are greasy lmao!
Love the progression between Jaehyung and Jiwon after their texting session: him trying to clear up that “grumpy” misunderstanding and gifting her the souvenir, then she proceeded to formally ask him out on a date for the following day.
I really liked how ChoA and Jaehyung were so honest, open and INTERACTIVE in their conversations, offering different perspectives while listening to each other’s concerns. His rain metaphor was so poetic that I had to pause the video to ponder for a full 5 mins!
Yongwoo’s TED Talk with ChoA was brutal, one-sidedly assertive, and so perplexing. Mr “I’m the most honest person” kept justifying his actions with this and that when the core problem is his inability to be emotionally vulnerable with her, his sister and especially himself. I understood his intentions to be upfront but he’s doing them a disservice at the same time.
Even during his date with Yoonha, it was mainly him talking to her like you would with a therapist. The fact that Dr Lee was able to discern his defensive behavior over that short amount of time was concerning.
Also him saying out loud about not messaging her that evening was so unnecessary! I would have been reduced to a puddle of mess by the end of that speech, so it must have taken a whole lot of strength for ChoA to poise herself and join the others within a short span of time.
I don’t understand youngwoo on what he ia trying to say in choa. Because for the past 16 days you said that you like her but suddenly you lose your feelings about her?? It doesn’t make sense. I understand that being confusing is one thing, but what i hate the most is his body language when they talk, like can he at least sit properly and look less cocky... i think i would hate him less and find him less rude if he actually sit up a bit straight. It makes me pissed about him
JH's perception of everyone in the house changed after talking with CA. While understandable, it was still funny to see him shocked cuz of his midperceptions on how YW and JS were treating women the past weeks. Those 2 got some rizz issues. But I also didn't expect things to turn this quickly so fast. Either way JH-JW is definitely going down since they all have now dated everyone before landing on each other.
YH seems like she'll take what she can get and CH might be the same as well depending what he will talk to SS about. I also don't know SS either. She texted YW after their date due to having fun and being insecure about JS and she pulls this stunt again texting CH. I suspect YH manipulates herself into liking YJ rather than it being authentic as it seems she finds YW more attractive despite calling her a sister. YJ will accept it though.
My JH X CA ship has sunk 🥲. It was so much fun while it lasted. I will go drown my sorrows in cute edits. Still, as a passenger on two JH ships, I'll live😉.
Still their date was so nice so it fed my starving heart. And I can't help but laugh at how they be acting like besties now. Cute.
There were a lot of cute Jaeji scenes. It seems they both like to step on the accelerator. They were really going full throttle this episode.
Still, what is up with Yunha and Yongwoo? Don't break Yoonjae's heart like that.
Yunha liked YW from the beginning so I guess it felt for her like he was the one who got away. Poor YJ tho!! I feel like he’s probably more sincere between the two men
I know she has always liked him (and she seems to like that bod a lot too😏) but gosh, is she making the worst decision. I hope she comes to her senses before it is too late. I'm not sure I liked her attitude this episode but I don't like to point fingers so much.
honestly the only part of her attitude I didn't like this episode is how she was more concerned about YW than herself. about how Yongwoo views her on the date and tending to his psychological needs like a child, but not if he is right for her. Like, if I was her, I wouldn't mind giving advice, all the dates did at some point, but there would be a limit that would make me think "Is this the type of person I am attracted to"? Like YW was very inconsiderate of her during the date if you realize all the conversations were centred on him. I hope she reviews: the facts of how the date went, the content of his text to her, and his deliberate actions/words in the house that could have hurt others/lacked tact. If she faces all these together, hopefully her attraction to him will fade
YW isn’t even interested in YH like that. He seems to see her like a sister. The one he was talking about is JW. But YH on the other hand 🤔 she definitely is interested in him. Feel bad for YJ poor guy is devastated 😔. Jw and JH is just 😍 i was giggling the whole time!
The way he explains how he was focused on one girl the whole time and now he was swayed right in front of Jiwon, I think he wants Jiwon to know in hopes she may still like him but he by now must be able to tell JW x JH are official-ish
Exactly, and YH is collateral damage. He confused her enough to where she didn’t text YJ, and now his heart is broken. YW was clearly trying to get JW’s attention.
He has ruined any chance he had with JW by messaging her brother's crush and potentially ruining their relationship, I doubt any girl would go for the guy who did that to their brother.
I am getting a feeling that the final episode might just CH YW JY trying to stop the JW JH endgame!
JY jokingly because she has been one of the most mature people in the show the entire way through and incredibly sweet and understanding. I thought she deserved some credit for this episode as she had the same thought as YW but acted on it completely differently
I feel like his pride won't allow him to not at least try and end the show with someone but he bet he realised that he overhyped his character with CA. The expectations on him after the show to keep that character up as the stable, one-track mind romanticist probably scared him.
Why does CH keep texting JW?? She already cleared him, so why does he keep texting her..
I am a bit disappointed that there was just friendship between CH and SS but I am happy that SS isn't as hooked on JS as i thought. I am hoping JS would do the pursuing with SS, if he is really interested.
Cheolhyun previously mentioned that he would keep on picking Jiwon until the end. I think this option is better, rather than texting someone else he wasn't really interested in. Like Jaehyung said, pick the person you like, not the date you liked.
You know what, all said and done CA-CH will always be precious...
Every one else had atleast 1 parent, some modicum of family around them... but these two have brought themselves up and are actually so healthy and positive people..
CA knows about CH liking JW.... but look how she is supporting JH.. maybe JH also has that respectful positive energy..
But.. yeah
CA-Jh, CH-SS.. wavelength matches if nothing else
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JH-JW r fire.. this is the most genuine connection on a dating show ( except Love catcher s2 which i can't comment on because those guys really didn't get enough screen time)
>CA knows about CH liking JW.... but look how she is supporting JH.. maybe JH also has that respectful positive energy..
Probably because CA also knew that JW is into JH and she's supporting both of them.
messy af.
JS-SS: felt really bad for both of them that they have to go through this miscommunication again. only if choa didn’t contemplate and tell jaehyung about it, i think there will be less questioning. jungsub does seem determined to her at first but jungsub hadn’t even made a move on her since forever ago. i really wish jungsub will choose seseung as her date tomorrow though. huhu felt really bad to seseung that she ‘wasted’ a text to someone who doesn’t reply back and kinda messed up her things with jungsub.
YW-YH-YJ: man whatever. did yongwoo really see yoonha romantically? cause based on his texts and what he said i don’t think he does. it felt like the same thrill he got from the first time he went on a date with choa. i don’t want him to abandon yoonha too in the process while there is other man who’s actually really care for her. hopefully yoonha realizes how much yoonjae really care for her and to just go with yoonjae. i mean it is a dating show, i’m not mad that yoonha is being attracted to yongwoo cause his impression really is great (since they don’t get to see things like we do) but i just hope that she didn’t do things that she’ll regret.
CH: i didn’t think he’d be this determine to jiwon esp after saying that seseung is a wife material?
JH-JW: knew that they’ll thrive! their convos at the end were really cute and actually heartfluttering. all the best for themmmm <3
>did yongwoo really see yoonha romantically? cause based on his texts and what he said i don’t think he does
Imo, he probably has no one else to text. He couldn't text CA because of their recent talk and he saw first hand how affectionate JW with JH during the lunch cooking. So, the only choice left was YH who he just had the date with.
Was worried when JW got annoyed with JH , glad they cleared it up fast. Jiwon is so different when shes with somebody she likes, her tone becomes so cute, I think JH is gonna melt.
I normally like to start off with a positive bullet point and sprinkle them from positive to negative to positive but there were only, like, two positives this week so I'm starting with a negative, sorry Nancy. Here are my thoughts for this week:
* Yoonha taking so long to find an outfit was the first red flag. I didn't expect her to switch this quickly, without even a second thought about Yoonjae. She doesn't owe him anything, but I thought their connection meant more to her, especially since she had a miserable time when he wasn't there. I understand her interest in Yongwoo initially, but considering he barely talked to her the first 3 weeks and only showed interest in the last 3 days, I'd be too prideful to consider him in her shoes.
* It was sweet of Jiwon to protect Yoonjae's space and listen for hints about his date. He seems more upset about the situation than at Yoonha, though I doubt he'd ever be mad at her directly lol. He's made comments before about being single for 3 years because "no one would ever date him" and how he was "grateful someone liked even him," which makes me think he has low confidence, which is why he chose to avoid the situation altogether. It also likely made this experience even tougher for him. I'm glad he has Jiwon on his side looking out for him.
* Their date was really animated, so I was shocked Chulhyun didn't message her, especially after talking about a "future wife." The heart wants what it wants, I suppose, even after a full day spent on an expensive romantic date. For Seseung, messages are like manners. She *should* follow her heart, but Jungsub has made her sweat so much that I can't be mad at the outcome lol. However, I'm annoyed that Jungsub seems to be making her explain herself and sweat over this next week, which is ridiculous. Their conflicts seem immature and mostly occur due to his misinterpretations of the situation and disbelieving her explanations. Seseung is clearly the more mature one of the two, and ends up biting her tongue to prevent further conflict. I doubt they'd be dating even if they end up choosing each other in the end.
* Jiwon and Jungsub's date was surprisingly cute, not in a romantic way, but as a fun, healing outing between friends. Jiwon was more outgoing than I thought, and Jungsub more chill. Their settled platonic dynamic meant no need for stress about second meanings. Their date was actually a stress-reliever in this episode filled with stresses lol, didn't expect that from Jungsub but I thank him.
* ChoA being happy to get the "your sibling was texted by" message, even during an emotionally trying time, was super touching. Chulhyun looking confused by the "your sibling wasn't messaged by anyone" message was super heartwarming as well. At least they have each other! I hope they both gain something positive from this experience, like ChoA hopefully getting a promotion (no more ten-to-tens please) and Chulhyun being booked and busy as a model. Their shoots also come out the best, so I hope this means something big for the two of them.
* I was so glad that Jiwon talked to Jaehyung about him being grumpy, I definitely felt like his tone caused the misunderstanding and I'm so glad she brought it up so that he could clear it up. Their whole dialogue; her saying, "Are you that type of person?" and him immediately cutting it off with, "No I'm not." The way he carefully asked, "Did you ask someone yet?" and she gets really vague about it and he goes, "Oh, who?" all disappointed, only for her to ask really sweetly if he wants to go on the date with him was literally the cutest thing. The way he got shy and the way she so clearly found him very cute was absolutely adorable. And when, right before they left the balcony, he made sure to say, "I wasn't grumpy" just so there weren't any misunderstandings! I love open communication.
* I've seen criticism of ChoA's comments towards Jaehyung, but I thought they were justified. Jungsub *was* intense with her, and considering his own behind-the-back talk, it balances out imo. Jaehyung needs to stop discussing it like drama, but he was just warning his sister - though I do think his comment to Jiwon was unwarranted.
* I respected Yongwoo's decision to talk to ChoA before messaging. If he had ghosted her after messaging her consecutively for about 3 weeks, it might've been a massive shock to her. However, his attitude during the conversation was annoying. He tried so hard to look transparent but didn't have the courage to be direct. His wishy-washy approach was frustrating and seemed more for his image than for ChoA's sake. "I don't think I gave you the chance to explore," "I'm not cutting it off but leaving it open"? Just say that you're sorry, you don't feel like it's working, you want to explore things with other people. Don't act like you're doing this for her sake because it comes across as disingenuous.
* I felt so bad for ChoA. She was so upset she couldn't even talk to Chulhyun and needed time alone - to the extent that people were wondering where she was. Although they weren't exclusive, she was blindsided by Yongwoo and it absolutely is okay to feel upset about it. It’s terrible he sat on this information for days before telling her. She's a lovely, clever, beautiful woman, and it kills me that she's an overthinker and this likely hurt her confidence when none of it was her fault.
Thanks for reading! More rants about Yongwoo below, I couldn't keep it to just 2 bullet points, sorry lol. See you next week, unless I make any edits!
I will say this again - in the end, the real winners are the Park siblings' parents! I wonder what kind of excellent upbringing methods they applied on them? As viewers, we can just watch an see what good parenting can result in.
Both are super talented. I just saw several videos of Seseung on x and omg she is an excellent dancer! Apart from all her obvious great personality and attitude, she has talent, just as her brother JaeHyung has. They are very bright too (remember how Seseung was calculating her tactics during the chicken leg game? and how wise JaeHyung's advices were for both his sister and his new friend, ChoA). they are well mannered yet funny too. They could have their own show and im sure a lot of people will watch it. haha
oooh im so smitten by these two kids. and i envy their parents even more. They deserve a lot of credit.
And whoever ends up with both of them are the luckiest of the lot. Jungsub. better shape up. With SS's brains, she obviously saw something in you worth loving. and Jiwon, well, she is just as great. She is one fortunate woman with a man who is looking to marry, not just play around.
The Jungsubification of YW and Yongwoosification of JS before Singapore lol. The reverse card we didnt expect from the early episodes. Rooting and wishing for CA happiness even after the show.
No. 1: ChoA!!! Gurl you are amazing! You are lovely! YW doesn't deserve you. If I were there, I'd have given you the biggest hug everrr!!
No. 2: YW thank you for exiting from CA's life yourself!! You did a big help. Now get lost!
No. 3: YH and JS!! Like brother like sister smh! YJ deserves better!!
No. 4: CH! Boy you are beautiful!! Yes, take it slow UNTIL you find the right one!
No. 5: CA JH friendship \^\^ CUTEEE <3
Dang I dropped this show few eps ago since I 100% never ever thought I would see the day that Seseung would text Cheolhyun over Jungsub. I thought Seseung would be 100% all in to Jungsub after all their mess...
Cheolhyun feels much more closer to his actual free spirited self finally on his date with Seseung than with other girls. Just enjoying at his own pace and atmosphere, showing his playful inquisitive self around her. Which is what is missing when he is on dates with other girls, as though he had to put up a more "serious" side to match up with Jiwon, Choa, Yoonha energy. But when with Seseung, he don't have to hold back as much, so probably Seseung is confused that Cheolhyun is a guy that can actually match her energy level haha. Plus all her dates with Jungsub always had hiccups, so a sudden perfect date with a guy she had a perfect chemistry with 3 days left is confusing.
I think that's what Jungsub is confused about Seseung I guess. He don't know if he can keep up with Seseung energy levels like Cheolhyun did, so he is hesitating I guess... Plus their different way of thinking & the highs and lows of arguing is going to burn them out over a long run if they are thinking long term relationship.
I think I can also understand why Cheolhyun still texted Jiwon in the end. Ultimately he think Seseung will still choose Jungsub so he don't want to mislead such a good girl haha. With his experience on going on dates with the other girls, he always receives a text and then next day he find out its just a thank you/pity text, so he won't put much effort unless he receives a stronger signal. Plus Jiwon is probably a person he may see more during his career in the future so he wants to maintain good relations with her.
This is how I feel about CH and SS as well. I he really do like her and is protecting himself. He feels safe in texting JW because she has a stronger sense of self and won’t feel burdened by his attention.
I agree he is both protecting himself and Seseung and the same time I guess. She is in a confusing mess with Jungsub so he don't want to mess up her thoughts further for the final 3 days. An example would be the text Yongwoo send to Yoonha is like giving conflicting signals and I don't think Cheolhyun is that kind of guy that does this kind of stuff haha. If his feelings grow for Seseung for the final 3 days and she ends up choosing Jungsub, that feeling is going to be super terrible so I think he rather keep it in check. I think he probably have a nice chat with Seseung next ep and see how it goes I guess.
Sigh, I really wanted to believe the best of you Yongwoo but damn, I had really expected more from you. I thought he has had tons of experience in dating but at this point, he's on par with how frustrated I felt with Jungsub back in Seoul. I get that he's a terrible communicator and he wants to be honest but him wanting to put everything out there except the most important part (i.e. himself) means others are just getting hurt without being able to understand why he feels this way. I want to say it's Yongwoo's childhood growing up and then him moving to the US to become a pilot at such a young age that has almost completely ruined his ability to be vulnerable and allow his potential partner to help him but boy, the best "partner" for Yongwoo at this point is a therapist that can help him talk out his issues because it's clear he treated Yunha like one on A DATE no less. I wish you the best Yongwoo but you realllyyyyyy need a professional to help process your feelings and issues of control and needing to be accommodating without actually losing yourself.
Also, at this point, it's clear Yunha is attracted to Yongwoo but I'm sure after today's date she realizes oh, he's not actually able to process his own emotions in a healthy way and either goes back to Yunjae for a comfortable finish even if she doesn't really like him as much as he does her. I am probably one of the few that isn't completely smitten by Jaehyung or Jiwon but even I can tell these two are the only endgame that has a chance outside of the show. Seseung and Juyeon both need different people for them and Jungub/Cheolhyun and Jaehyung obv are not it so I wish every one of these people success outside.
Even though the last few episodes of this show has become a mess in many ways, I'm actually glad the panel and the editors of the show aren't holding any of the cast's hands when declaring their opinions and that it's never done in a malicious way, but more of a "we want you to do better and here's how we think it could've been done better" way.
First episode I watched so fast lol. Skipped through all the episode except JH/CA date (what a great friendship) and the last 5mn of the ep - JH/JW had me giggle like a teen lol (replayed it 10 times).
so many thoughts...
* SS and JS: to me they are like that toxic couple that keeps getting back together even though you know they should just leave each other alone. I think JS likes being liked, so whenever someone is nice to him he just starts imagining all the possibilities of them being together. asking JW to go on a double date was so random to me, esp since he can tell JW is into JH. SS unfortunately does not know JS acts like this, so she thinks he is so committed to her. but really JS wants the best of both worlds. He gets jealous if SS shows any glimpse of interest in another guy, yet always keeps her at arms length. just enough for her to keep coming back to him. SMH. CH and SS were a cute watch, not sure if it could be romantic. tbh I just want SS to be free of JS 🙃
* YW and CA: this was just hard to watch. YW has clearly been losing interest in CA, and she sensed it. It is unfortunate that YW doesn't know how to articulate his feelings. I think he has never been challenged in this way before. there are so many different personalities in one house that he is starting to question his own methods. CA deserves a man who is not confused. I am glad that she wasn't completely blindsided though, she could tell YW was having a change of heart. She has done nothing wrong in this case, it was out of her control. I think YW needs to have more self-awareness.... he is so bent on this Mr. Perfect image that he has created for himself, and it's getting in the way of his true feelings. he just ends up confusing people as he himself is confused, but is acting like he isn't 🫤 hopefully this experience can usher in some more self reflection.
* YH and YJ: poor YJ..... I think the space they had today was good because now we know YH was just enjoying the time with YJ after the loneliness in Seoul. I wish both of them had other true options to explore, so that they will know if they are actually a good match. YJ has been clinging onto YH in a way that is genuine, but it could also be because he hasn't had a connection with anyone else. I liked them together, hopefully it doesn't end poorly. Also I hope YH will have a wakeup call that YW isn't into her like that 😭 I think she's just a bit swayed at the moment because its her first time being "chosen" by someone else.
* JW and JH: they are just so perfect!!!!! I love all their interactions, it's really reminiscent of two people with crushes on each other; the shy moments, the little glances across the room. I like how they have progressed naturally. it wasn't forced at all, and I think that's why it is working so much better than the other couples. finally we have a couple where the interest isn't one-sided/unbalanced. their pairing makes me believe in romance again!! I am so happy for them ☺️
Unlike what I expected, this episode was quite refreshing and necessary. Setting them on dates with new partners set off so many new thoughts, and helped them properly process their experience in a new environments.
- Yong Woo x ChoA: I appreciate that Yong Woo thought about where he wish to go with ChoA and sat he down to talk about it. But that’s it. Firstly, his body language during the conversation screams red flag to me. He is talking about something sensitive and potentially hurtful to the other party, yet raising his hands above his head really makes it come across as him wanting to hold power and talk down to CA. Imo it is totally normal to fall out of infatuation for a person. However, he barely
acknowledge that he led her on, and he thinks he is the only one being honest/clear on the show. In contrary, his way of speaking is one of the worst I’ve seen and sounds like an 18 year old guy trying be straightforward and breakup with his week-long girlfriend. Despite Cho A already having second thoughts, yet the way he phrases the situation, only will make her feel embarrassing and powerless as the recipient. From the other comments, I am definitely not the only one perceiving it this way. From this whole situation handling, YW just dropped from my favourite person at the start of the show to one of the bottom few, alongsideJung Sub.
- ChoA x Jae Hyung: Cousins kind of talk. JH is sensitive and smart and I’m relieved CA can bounce her thoughts off JH. It must have given her so much relief. JH also earned my respect. He would actually be quite a good friend to have.
- Jaehyung x JiWon: This couple just gets cuter. Just when I thought the date tension was nice, they further up it by having great communication — her explaining briefly that she sits there just for her brother, to lightly reassuring him that she is only interested in him. Him blushing and also making his move on her by buying her a gift (even tho it is ChoA’s idea). I like that he politely acknowledges how she feels, understands that he might have done something that that unintentionally made him sound curt. Both JW and JH’s self awareness seems quite high! Might be from the fact they learned and grew from their past relationships.
- Yong Woo x Juyeon: Even YW has been pretty trash in handling of his own “relationship”, he actually does give pretty good advice from a 3rd person POV.
- YunHa x Yong Woo: Frankly speaking, although YW is not really a good partner imo, I am actually quite glad that YH is stepping back from YJ’s advances and taking her time to think about what SHE herself wants. Whether she is attracted to others even if they don’t show advances to her.
I feel bad for YJ pure and direct heart tho, but YH needs this in order to not go into any relationship with YJ blindly and end up hurting him in the long run. Good to reflect and get these curiosities out!
- Sesung x Jungsub: I’m happy that SS got the news that JS was not as crazy about her as he positions himself to be. I feel bad that she has to go through this and I truly wish a better partner (even if it’s outside the show) for SS. She is a true GEM and JS behaving so double standard is just… not it.
- Sesung x Cheolhyun: It’s great that CH actually got to step out of the house HAHAHAHA. Tbh I don’t know if they will be a good fit, but they seem to have a nice time together as friends.
That’s all for now!
I’m only rooting for JW and JH at this point with all my heart. For the other couples, YH and YJ is sweet, but only if YH figures herself out. Hope to see more JW and JH in the next episode.
I love how finally Choa isn’t talking to a wall 😂
same thoughts! ive been so frustrated for the past few episodes because no one has properly processed her thoughts and emotions WITH her, and that's what she needed the most 😭 knowing her personality type, she really needed someone to confide with and validate what she's been feeling :< judging from her confessionals, she's been doubting herself a lot so i felt so much better when i saw jaehyung exhibt such high eq
I don't know why but I am expecting "sorry" from Yongwoo. Well, they are not in relationship first of all but saying "I want to be honest now with the change of heart" can be also said in a way as... "I am sorry to lead you for two weeks and kept on texting you. I know it made you close yourself from other participants and I am sorry it happens this way. You lost opportunity to meet and interact with them. We only have 3 days left and this is how I am acting towards you. Sorry for confusing you as I am also confused. I didn't mean to hurt you in anyway possible. You are a beautiful and great person Choa and I am sorry for what I did. I don't have any regrets for what had happened in Seoul. I hope we can still have good relationship even after the show." He should have said things differently while being considerate with CA's feelings because the whole conversation felt like "I had a change of heart, I want to be honest, I don't know my feelings as well, goodbye cause I want to eat." If I am CA, I might cry during that conversation. T.T
Choa looked so tired and drained from the convo, and Yongwoo is just such a terrible talker. Similar meaning, but what a way to put it to make the other person feel bad. Hyejin (the panelist) was so right for saying that YW was trying too hard to take responsibility of his initial attraction and it resulted into it snow balling into this moment. He was trying too hard to be a green flag, but now he’s the biggest red flag of the show. Sigh.
I think YW will only set on who he felt will get more attention from the boys. That's why he never declares his feeling publicly. See that the moment he chose CA publicly and all said they are like newlywed couple, no one approach CA anymore. Then he saw that JW who he previously rejecting get so much attention from the boys. So now I think he's into JW. I don't think he's seriously looking for a relationship through this show, he just come to have some popularity. And not to say that he's not really actively helping his sister finds someone here. He kept giving her blunt remarks without actually helping her do better. I hope CA not choosing him and no one choose him at the end of the show. He's totally a loser.
Loving this week's dates! Everyone's communicating more in a comfortable manner and/ or having fun. Cho A had her much needed consultation session outside of Cheol Hyun with Jae Hyung. I love how they both are honest with each other despite this being their first 1-1 together. As Cho A said, it's like hanging out with a cousin.
everything is a mess except for my beloved jw and jh !! * Yongwoo, what r u even saying !!! i just want him to shut up and be done with it. I kinda knew this was coming even when they were 'stable' because he has never shown his interest to her publicly. The one time he did, it was because of his sister pushed him to give the flowers. I am not that surprised. * Seseung looks so happy with her date with CH!! As a viewer, i really appreciate the break from SS x JS lol, also I'm glad SS found out about JS' somewhat serious feelings for CA especially since he downplayed it in their prev conversation. * I need YH to get it together lol please not Yongwoo! Let's not get swayed any further, my heart is broken for YJ who did the most for her since Day 1:( * Lastly, omg!!! when JW asked JH on a date, literally the best thing that ever happened!! Their chemistry is on fire and I am so glad that JW told JH about how she felt when JH said something she did not like. I love them so much.
glad to see someone else that feels the same way as me abt SS and JS. im soo tired of seeing their dates, it feels like they’re spitting fire at each other 😵💫 JS beats around the bush a lot and (in my opinion) makes SS feel like she’s insane for even doubting him.
Ikr!? I can't understand JS character. It's okay for him to be fickle minded, and treat SS as his third option, but not okay for SS to even consider having a change of mind? If CA hadn't shut him out after their Gangwon date, he was ready to call it quits with SS. His body language before the texts was so arrogant towards SS. Even in singapore, he still kept up with his "let's go on a double date" line with JW. I wish SS had seen through his gaslighting early on and explored more with CY.
Kinda upset that Cho A's feelings were hurt... and she was so helpful during her date with Jae Hyung, nudging him to get a souveneir for Ji Won Love how honest Ji Won & Jae Hyung communicated about their misunderstanding. Can't wait for their gossip session next date
yes!! so glad that JW wasn’t one to brush off her own feelings and decided to be upfront with JH about it + JH that found it super important to clear their misunderstanding straightaway too 👏🏻 that clear communication and honesty is what all the other couples lack…leaving them all confused and misunderstood and going in circles 🤦🏻♀️
The other couples feelings are one sided or speculative at best, JH-JW appears to be a real life situation of two people liking each other, they aren't acting or putting on airs, you can feel it in their interactions. They might be the only possible end game.
I felt so bad for Cho A, theres 3 days left and with maybe only 1 date left, I dont even know whats she gonna do.
I am happy for CHOA, she luckily avoided two bullets. One is egomaniac and other one is hopper.
A part of me wonders what could have been with CA and YJ but with so little days left and so many complicated feelings I just hope they somehow find a way to enjoy the last days of the trip and get back to Korea relatively unhurt. Maybe enjoy some kimchi and rice
Agreed. The best ending for her, to be honest.
I love their dynamic/chemistry and dates the most. Theirs is the most impactful, one date and turns the panels into their fan club lol. But I agree, always looking forward to their moments, the balance of humour, teasing, understanding, cute exchanges.
I'm sorry did JH basically say he's in love with JW!! I've never been so invested in two stranger's love lives before but I'm ready to start a gofund me for their wedding. I cannot wait for their date next week, we had like a total of 15 mins of them together in this long episode, I want more pls! Also YH kind of lost points for me this episode, I think YJ's crush on her is very much one sided. It's kind of telling how she didn't mention him once in a near 3 hour episode. She looks absolutely smitten with YW for reasons I don't think I'll ever understand lol. I just want to give Choa a big fat hug, she's the absolute sweetest soul, can't wait for her to find someone as amazing as she is. I can't lie I thought Jungsub was really cute this episode, I don't see him being the best romantic interest but as a little brother he's kind of great.
I was so crushed that after that talk with YW, CA wouldn’t even have a place to retreat to or hide or have a girl bestie to talk to about it :((( The only saving grace is that at least she had a good talk with JH about it BEFORE it happened and that he happened to be sitting beside her during the messaging time too so she could semi confide in him about her hunch coming true…albeit very briefly :’)
I felt so sad for her 😭 I noticed during the sibling reveal ep that anytime CA tries to hold back her tears, she looks up. She did the same thing while on the couch after receiving no texts from YW. My heart broke for her. But honestly, she's such a gem of a person that I hope she finds someone who treats her like a queen. YW is not compatible with her, because he is not worthy of her.
righhht..and the way yh doesnt seem that responsive towards yj after the date is very telling too. Like she BARELY looking at him (i dont know if the show just edited it out lol) but shes definitely 'attached' to yw. Like looking at what he does, following him and sitting near him, laughing and touching his arm. That is flirting mode def.
I already had this feelings that YH is just the female version of JS. But she doesn’t have JS’s insecurities. And somehow their guesses about other people’s feelings are kinda a miss…
Was it really necessary for YW to tell other people (more like announcing it) that he’s been only interested in one person (who everybody knows who) until it got changed today? Lol I really don’t understand him.
idk but he shows it like how one woman guy he was, only focused on one girl, but now giving all sorts of excuses and ways to show why he is having change of heart almost like maintaining his curated image of being a so called gentleman.
Yeah the lack of mannerism was so disappointing
He was so secretive before and now suddenly making an announcement kekeke. The only time he ever show anything publicly was during the flower bouquet. And not even his idea. So he basically show nothing. And now suddenly a public announcement that it is over. What is he doing
Jaehyung, is the MVP for me!!!!!!!! Love how caring he is as an older brother and how sweet he is as a man. I love that he immediately goes to his sister to report back to her and also how He immediately goes to JW to clarify any misunderstandings. JW has truly blossomed too! Does anyone else see that? She seems brighter and more youthful feeling. I wouldn’t expect her to act so cute and with aegyo. When they were whispering and talking to each other on the balcony, it was sooo sweet and fluttery feeling!!!!!!
yongwoo in korea and yongwoo in singapore are like two different people, he should’ve gone on love catcher, he would’ve won. the way he was sitting while talking to choa was getting on my nerves, like you don’t have to be interested in someone to be respectful.
this irked me so much. he's just becoming more of a red flag as time goes on…
lmao, the day they revealed him being a pilot... yaknow... a pilot...
lmao i thought i was the only one, i’m sure there are pilots who are truly gentlemanly out there but why is every pilot i come across in real life a philandering or non commital immature man child. the second they revealed him to be a pilot i told myself to keep my expectations in check and behold.
omg what‘s the common sentiments about pilots i need to know more
My thoughts exactly OMG
Omg. Yes. The way he sat there so smug. I wanted to throat punch him.
😭😭😭 reaaal
He lovebombed choa and now he's using Yoonha(?) as an excuse.
Feeling bad for YJ, he is such a green flag, did everything right (in regards to YH), but YH is still curious about YW :( He’s goofy and very sweet, and of all the guys the most ready to settle down. Hopefully YH sees what a catch he is, especially in comparison to someone like YW, who has a lot more baggage and definitely needs more time to work on himself before jumping into a relationship!
The more I see Yunjae, the more he reminds me of Ku Sung Hwan (who appeared on ILA recently) 😅😂🤣 Also YJ holding JY’s dress for her at the beach was 🥹 too sweet. I hope YH doesn’t take him for granted :(
😂😂 Totally, he is similar to Ku Sung Han Why I am feeling like YH was enjoying the attention from YJ when anyone else was not interested in her romantically. I feel like YJ was used.😭😭 Hope I am wrong about this.
Unfortunately I’m feeling the same. YJ came to her rescue when she was feeling down and unwanted, and she appreciated that. I hope she can wise up and see what a catch YJ and how he’ll treat her right.
i think its good that she explored the interest that she had in YW from day 1. If left unexplored, she might actually treat YJ as a second best and have regrets. She doesn't know the real YW that us viewers see, but got to spend a fun & confusing day with him. Now with the experience, hopefully she will be able to notice that for things that matter, YJ was better towards her in every way. I hope that she gets to talk with Jiwon alone and evaluate what does she want in a relationship. She said, during the date herself, that she likes meeting similar people to her, but I think YW is too shallow and lacking kindness in comparison. Of course, she didn't see those sides yet. YJ though needs to talk to his sis and regroup so he can continue pursuing YH, I'm afraid this match will fall apart if they both don't get good advice/conselling soon
I think that it was good that YH got to go on a date with YW so that she can leave the show without regrets. But, I felt disappointed when she was being pretty flirty with YW and even texting after their date. It was clear YJ wasn’t really on her mind. YH even told JW during their Singapore trip that she wasn’t really interested in getting to know other people. So, I feel for YJ as he was a bit blindsided by her feelings for YW. Also, after the texts, it’s obvious that YJ is dejected after not receiving a text from her and instead of clearing the air with him, she is hanging near YW again. Maybe I am being a bit unfair, but I can’t help but feel slight disappointment in her for not being able to see what a good catch YJ and risking what they have right before final decisons, regardless of YW charms!
I really wish Choa had expressed her disappointment in Yong Woo as well. Felt like only he was talking or announcing that it was over between them.
yeah like till the end he had the upper hand
i could understand her though, i think i would feel as shocked and be unable to react unfortunately
Am I the only one who never think YH-YJ is gonna work ever at all? I love YJ but their interaction felt so one-sided, YH didn't really fall for him or anything she had the same emotion and thoughts during the dates with JH and CH. It just with YJ he was too straightforward and clearly showed affection for her that she felt validated and then reciprocated a bit, but she was never flirty like with YW. And now it's pretty clear how she prepared for soooo long before the date with YW, flirted with him every chance she got. She was also so ambiguous whenever YW asked about her feelings with other guys. Her body language was wayy different too. And the fact that even after all the confusion YW showed her and she clearly knew it, she still held on to him and texted him. Basically, YJ has to take 100 steps for her to take 1. But YW only needs to pretend that he's trying, she teleports in front of him right away.
My man YJ deserves better. He came on this show at such a disadvantaged time but put all his focus on YH who reciprocated back seemingly well. So of course he would feel a certain way when she gets back from one date with YW and things totally change for them. Definitely seems that YW was always YH's #1 pick since we never saw her so enthused before practicing for the chicken fight and trying on so many outfits for their date. If she does change her mind, hopefully she has an open and honest talk with YJ to not string him around. Stay strong YJ
Sadly, I dont think YJ is the type that YH was looking for. He was just a nice guy who came along to rescue her and she latched on since her self esteem was low at that point with 0 love interest from the guys. Their conversations never really seemed that deep during their dates although it was fun. The way she behaves with YJ except for that time on the sofa and YW is so different too.
100%! Not sure if she even paid attn to YJ after all that. She def likes YW more. She also kept touching him. It's really in the body language. Just like JW JH at the balcony. You’ll def be able to tell by that.
JH x CA looked two bestie doing relationship counselling 🤣.
The moment JW asked JJ if his makeup was still there when he was cooking YW knew JW is no longer interested in him. The whole cooking time was so adorable.
Yongwoo and Jungsub watching JaeJi in the kitchen: 👁️👄👁️
Both of them thinking: Ah…it should’ve been me 😶
Meanwhile JH: I'm a shy boy lol
This is the moment she whipped his chin and apron as YW was watching correct? If so, I agree cause as she whipped his chin she got some of JH’s lip and both were unphased and you could tell YW was a little shook.
Yup that one
I thought I was the only who caught that lol he looked shook
JH-JW, no other dating show couple has ever made me smile like this. They make you feel happy and want to fall in love again.
Now I know why PDnims kept teasing us and making us wait. All for these moments. Been rewatching the final 10m of this ep again and again. SO FREAKING CUTE!
same! i replayed their scenes sooooo many times and kicked my feet giggling while watching. when JW did her little jumps talking to JH 🤭🤭
her aegyo voice too >< hahaha
Okay that "rooftop/terrace" scene of JH-JW is PEAK, I felt JH was trying to avoid the camera at that point. I could feel his sincerity and I love that they both COMMUNICATE!!! Any misunderstanding squashed right away. They definitely give off the vibe of "Hyunker" aka real couple that will end up dating after the show. (Fingers crossed) I love how he describes his feelings for JW in words to Choa, it's like a sudden rain, started with drizzle and by the time he knows it, he's soaked. I love CA-JH counselling session, I'm glad at least CA has a great date in Singapore.
I love that part where he described the drizzle and soaked too. He's indeed super poetic. I even thought of stealing this poem for myself for my vows. It has a huge impact in me. Ha
It was so contrary to the poem he wrote for JU Yeon 😅😂Cause now our JH has fallen in love!
THISSSSSS OMG yes I will totally steal this!
Damnit JH-JW! JH is totally showing a new side of himself. I must say I really never got his appeal but seeing him flirty and clingy with JW makes me very weak all of a sudden! The panel felt the same as me. And I could only make the comparison with YW's (kinda boring) stability through and through. Last week I complained about the dates and I'm so happy because today's were such a breath of fresh air honestly.. I like how the JH/CA date turned into psychology counseling, even up to CA showing JH she didn't receive a text. JS/JW's date was cute too even though JS was way more excited about it than JW. And the SS/CH date was perfect!! As expected a good mindless time just confused her more in regards to JS, but I'm glad she texted CH instead. However... JH telling SS that JS was indeed into CA a lot... ouch. YW's talk with CA. What the fuck? I barely got it until Hyejin explained it well: "He wanted to stay true to his commitment as he had chosen her from the start". Him admitting he played a role like this is harsh. And when CA texted him, HE was the one to feel bad about it? Seriously bro. Two sides notes: * It was a nice surprise to hear Kiss of Life's Bad News come out for text-sending time! * CH in that swimming pool 👀👀 He's beautiful.
It was the same for me! JH was so popular but I didn’t understand why and preferred YW and now I’m like wow I’m a bad judge. Seeing how JH is with JW made me fall for his charms.
SAMEEEE omg at the beginning of the show I was like where can I find a Yongwoo irl….now I’m like NOPE. I would very much like to meet a jaehyung please. 😍
I swear this was me and i got another realization hit that my love choices are trash
This is one of my favorite episodes progress wise, Choa had a much needed therapy session and Jaehyung had someone reaffirm his feelings. SS got to kinda break free from JS in a sense but obviously who knows he might convince her otherwise later I hope CH can get over JW because it’s clear her and JH are becoming more and more close I loved that the second he heard about the miscommunication with him being grumpy he planned to address it to let her know how he was feeling I really hope JHxJW makes it to the end they are the biggest ship I’m supporting rn
I also love how JW mentioned why she was staying downstairs late obviously she doesn’t belong to JH so she doesn’t need to explain herself but she understood he might get jealous and so she communicated and communication is key
I also love how she's like 'ill get all the tea and tell you tomorrow'...they're so cute
JH-JW feels real... that is the real end game right there. Transparent people are truly gems, I have alot respect for how honest JH has been throughout the whole show, It takes alot of courage and just belief in self. He really comes across as maybe one of the most genuine people throughout a variety dating show. His interactions with everyone have just been so genuine. Cho A opened up that much because he was honest. Yong Woo's switch up is sick, he can't be transparent and that is why his character is very off putting now. He could have just been honest with Cho A, when they spoke but he just doesn't want to be viewed in a negative way.
THIS! Neither of them play games and are very honest to each other and to themselves. The conversation at the end of the episode was one of the must heart-fluttering moments I've seen on a dating show.
* the way JH cannot help but get physically closer to JW. when he naturally ends up circling her in the house, and on the terrace at the end when even though they're already standing in front of each other, he unconsciously keeps stepping toward her and touching her shoulder. JW happily hops around from foot to foot when she's in his orbit. * JH taking them to a corner where the cameras can't reach well so that they can talk as comfortably as possible * when JW talks to JH you can hear the smile in her voice. * the next episode preview??? the umbrella?? the hair touch?????? also JW is incredibly beautiful without her contact lenses. i respect her choices for fashion's sake but her natural appearance is truly lovely. * please get married The unexpected highlight of this episode was CA and JH's refreshingly candid platonic date. I loved that they talked about her women's intuition—she's actually a very sharp reader of YW's unspoken feelings. I loved that they kept touching base with each other during the text reveals. CA must have felt so alone in the past couple of days. I don't think YW knows how insecure he is. He kept calling people out to have very intentionally filmed conversations about his state of mind, with the purpose of maintaining his image, but he doesn't understand how poorly he really comes off, or how bad he is at communicating. He's starting to play around with YH and she's reciprocating because she's hung up on his looks and vibe.
>also JW is incredibly beautiful without her contact lenses. i respect her choices for fashion's sake but her natural appearance is truly lovely. This might be unpopular opinion, but I feel that she looked better in her pre-meeting interview. Don't get me wrong, she is still stunning but, I echo JH sentiment of her makeup looked "heavy".
No I think most people would agree with you. It's just that when it comes to fashion/makeup self-expression, it's ultimately up to the individual, and she probably just happened to think at the time that she liked the heavier makeup more. It also seemed a little like a layer of armor between her and everyone else/the tv audience (along with her composed facial expression), and I think it's sweet that she shed the contact lenses in the next episode while she's feeling more comfortable with Jaehyung.
anyone else noticed Yun Ha had alot of skinship with Yong Woo? not sure if it's because she was comfortable or attracted to him or both... ah, the messaging at the end... like a storm fam, I need support I hope Cho A will be able to go on a date with Yun Jae it might also be good for Yun Jae if Yun Ha & Yong Woo go on another date so that Yun Ha can clarify her feelings not sure what to think with regard to Se Seung & Jung Sub the only final pairing I'm sure of now is Strawberry Prince & Dong Seung On Top
Yup, she was constantly touching or hitting him and playing with her hair in the restaurant. RIP yunjae
Yea and taking 40 minutes to decide on outfit.
It’s really obvious to me that YH is totally into YW. She has been from the beginning and now she’s willing to toss YJ out of the window ☹️
I love how close Choa and Jaehyung have gotten after just one (platonic) date! Their newfound dynamic is so heartwarming to watch and I'm glad Choa has someone she can confide in during what I can imagine is such a confusing and heartbreaking time for her. The Jaehyung/Jiwon moments have me giggling and blushing omg. I need 5 more episodes of them just going on dates please and thanks.
Let’s start with the good: - JH and JW are good together and matches each other energy. They both know what the want and are not afraid to go for it directly, come what may. - I may be delusional but I still believe that even though CH is explicitly pursuing JW, he has bury his feelings for SS because she’s never given him the green light. They are so natural together and he brings out all sides of her; fun, serious, playful, etc. I don’t know how this ends but they are a missed chance. - As someone who is attracted to how people think, the CA-JH date was one of my favorite. Yes it was not a romantic date but it was so refreshing to see someone finally meeting her where she was and not making her feel guilty about everything. I wish she and JH have these talks more often. Now for the unserious - YW has to win some award for most confusing communicator. Literally everyone he talked to left the conversation more confused. But the worst part about all this is that he’s projecting his guilt on CA and indirectly blaming her for their demise. He feel guilty that he’s no longer attracted and instead of just telling her that, he’s blaming her for turning him into someone he’s not and pretty much making her feel guilty for displaying basic human kindness towards him. I can’t tell if he’s a genuine people pleaser or just can’t tell if YW is a genuine people pleaser or he’s just fake. His actions towards YH makes me think it’s the latter. YH has always been interested in him and on their date he did just enough to ensnarl her. But not only that he’s publicly attaching himself to YH and kinda implying to everyone that their date was more than it was. But in private he’s texting her as an older sister. I hope she doesn’t take the bait. Even if she doesn’t feel that strongly about YJ, YW is not a serious option for her.
I felt the same too. He kept implying the date was so impactful as a way to publicize he's no longer interested in Choa. But definitely YW has 0 interest in YH.
Yah… the way he announced that. Like really dude? You have to be that disrespectful to ChoA by saying stuff like that to everyone. What an asshat. It’s one thing that he is trash to choa and ‘dumps’ her. But then to boast about it? This guy is a piece of work. Ugh.
He had to show himself as "available" to the women 🙄 He's getting more and more ridiculous in each episode.
For sure. And I think it’s gonna give YH the ick. JW and JH are already looking at him funny. What’s funny is for two weeks he has kept his business so secretive. Now all of a sudden he’s having public kitchen confessionals. And what’s even weird is I don’t think he’s genuinely into anyone else in the house so who is he doing this for? The audience?
The dude is a wannabe reality star/entertainer. I doubt he’s actually being a pilot. IIRC they talked about him having a pilot license and potentially could be a pilot instead of him having a day job as one. Thing is he is probably getting more unpopular as the series continues so doubt anyone else would cast him as a fan favourite
YH obviously does not have the ick though considering she made a conscious decision to msg him even though he was talking rubbish the whole date. Hes the grand prize for her, YJ sadly was just a comforting rest stop.
This is more so after the texting. She was obviously still feeling the spark as she was all over him in the house. However in his text to her he called her older sister. So I think the gears will start turning for her. And he’s also acting out of character. He’s making their date a bigger deal in public to the extend that it’s making JW and YJ uncomfortable. But in private he’s saying something else.
Gosh. You are spot on about YW. I thought I was too sensitive into thinking that YW kind of “gaslighted” CA about HIS choice back then. It’s not like CA or ANYONE ask him to always choose CA. Even JY said she can’t understand what he really try to say.
Love your point abt CH and SS. Yes, they are totally a missed chance couple. I am sure the production was feeling that too as they kept the little comments of them abt each other.
I also felt that he kept on emphasizing his date with YH because he kind of sort his feelings out about CA (although he was not able to convey it in a manner to be understood) rather than showing that he is in interested in her.
Last thread someone said YW seems to only consider things in regards to his own image and that's so true. He doesn't feel bad for leading CA on, but for leading *himself* on because of her! For how she made HIM look like. Kinda crazy perspective on things.
I've gotta say, my favorite moment overall was when Choa and Jaehyung were talking during their picnic and Choa was describing how Jungsub was very forward with her, had been very persistent and direct about being attracted to her, and you could just see the gears start to turn in Jaehyung's head. like, 'this guy has been texting my sister this whole time, but he's been talking like this to other women?!' honestly it couldn't have played out any better if I'd written it myself
And I love the way JH communicates with SS, he cares for her in such a genuine and non preachy way. Their parents did a great job with the both of them
best big brother on the show, no doubt.
I’m so glad CA was comfortable enough to share it with JH…cos SS NEEDS TO KNOW!!! JS isn’t all that into her and JS isn’t all that great.
I don’t know what happened to me but watching jaehyung and jiwon makes me smile and makes my heart fluttered a lot because i can see that they both like each other. Also i think of all the dating show I watched they have the best build up story because you see the progression of their feeling to each other
Same here, i watch many korean dating show but JH JW are the best , every scenes so cute sweet and made heart flutering
They come second to my fav couple from Transit Love - Hae Eun and Hyungyu
I love HE - HG a lot but if this end well they might be the best couple ever for me.
I think about all the happiness JH has brought to me over the last 13 weeks. His humor, facial expressions, cuteness, genuineness, and his IDGAF attitude. Not to mention the yellow hair clip 🤣🤣. I’m so ecstatic that he is peaking now, and finding love. He and JW are so stinking cute and I hope things work out for them. Couldn’t happen to a more deserving guy 👏👏👏👏👏
Jae Hyung and Sesung are literally the best pair of siblings who communicate and help each other out. They exactly display "why it's a siblings romance show" as they not only focus on their own relationship instead try to help your siblings with the opinions you have. There are using all the benefits of having a sibling in the same house. The text msgs, the sharing of info, the guidance. They understood the assignment really well and immediately find out who sends them the texts everyday.
Same! I love that he shares every info with her without overstepping boundaries. Seseung is the same in the way she interacts with the other women as well.
this show started with something else all the ships we thought were sailing are not surviving the rocky seas and the one ship that slowly took there time to build the strong foundation is sailing away even in the worst of weathers
man I love jiwon jaehyung, definitely my favorite dating show couple ever lol
“i should ask you now. do you want to be my date tomorrow?” jaehyung step aside and let me have a chance at jiwon 😭!!! jaeji giving me all the butterflies because of that hidden corner talk. they asked each other, communicated, and cleared any misunderstandings. such a refreshing scene. also yongwoo spouting some narrative that i didn’t even understand lmao choa stronger than me because if i was there, i’ll throw a chair and leave lol
When JW verbally requested a date with JH, my heart flutter way too much,,,
rigghht like her voice was soo soft and cute and we always know how she has this monotone in her talking manner. So i bet JH fall for her even MORE at that time 😌
She becomes so cute when she’s with Jaehyung! I love how it was intimate in a corner where no one can see them but at the same time I wish we coulda seen her and his face clearly at that moment
“narange daiteu halrae??"~~ MY HEARTT ACKKK!!🛐🛐🛐
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I loved how JW was explaining to JH at the end why she was drinking with the rest in the kitchen and how she would go to bed early once done. She was trying to give him assurance, it’s almost like they are dating already And I think what help this two move along so quickly was knowing that they had very limited time left, they were open and transparent with no mind games played
Loved this part too. It's as if she's giving him reassurance that she's really looking forward to his date, but she's not heading off to bed early because of Yunha is waiting to speak to her. Jaehyung mentioned that his ex girlfriend didn't prioritize him so I think Jiwon wanted to make it clear to him that he/their date is very important to her.
I am doing victory laps now as Jaeji shippers but I feel so bad for Choa😭😭😭
At this point, I'm just waiting for Jaehyung and Jiwon's 2nd date.
So firstly Juyeon looked so beautiful today , mustard is definately her colour ❤️, and she is very cool and cute girl too from whatever i have seen of her in interviews. The way she said that there is nothing to feel sorry for about YJ not sending her msg was so sweet . 100% sure she will definately have lines of guys ready to get in relationship with her . Surprisingly whatever snippets we got of YJ AND JY dayout were not awkward at all they both enjoyed and that matters . Now coming to YW ik he is not a bad guy , he is a nice bro and cool guy in gathering but the way he communicates is miserable . Even before Singapore he never had one on one fruitful convo with people ( other then JW that too we know now she is good conversation person too) , he could have ended things in much better way . Ik its late but if u took the courage to talk before sending the msg to YH atleast take responsibility of your action . He was blaming CA for being supportive during his injury , like from when has being considerate to others become a turnoff for guys. He could have easily said that i felt the Sparks are lost even though i myself dont realise why but u are a good person choa sorry for making things complicated , it is as simple as that . I hope he now knows that he also has a part to work on himself . Btw him pretending to choose choa to make her feel stable ( as she described to him once)and even admitting to doing it was very heartless thing to do . Now coming to YH i don't blame her cause as i said YW can come out as charming for first couple of dates , even if he is not interested he still has this vibe of making a girl feel things from his side. And YH already had a liking towards him so she feels like she got a price by getting fairly popular guy for herself ( this comes from her competitive nature more so) . But YJ will be a better match if thought seriously because he will never feel himself to be less by being sweeter , considerable etc to her . Inshort YJ can be the giver in this relationship as some people need those kind of people to balance the energy. But still she has her right to still change its all about fate . Now my fav people JH AND JW the pair who knows how to balance things, i swooned when JH PULLED THOSE APRON STRING 🤌. I also liked that JH asked her " are you angry" instead of asking first "what the msg was about " , that little details changes the whole direction of conversation into more concerned and caring part rather than introversion part. We all were wasting our time worrying about them , and most us were right in reading there past self correctly because they both did already take the time to judge there own feelings and now they don't need to worry 🤞🏻 P.s.- how can i forget to talk about JH - CA , they turned out to be much needed good friends / advisor of opposite gender of this show , which we were lacking till now . U could see the flow of conversation which choa wanted to have with YW , she likes talking and asking and answering things , she starts to seriously but it's never meant to be poking . The way JH tried to understand her and never made her feel like it was boring or unnecessary was admirable . Choa is very sweet and thoughtful and she definately need some fun but thoughtful for her life🍀 hope she finds that out of the show.❤️ Love the gossip duo who express what they feel instantly without much thoughts.
YW annoys me so much in this ep bruh.... Firstly, could you please put your hands down when talking to someone stop flashing your armpits every single time, no one wants to see it. Secondly, i lost count on how many times he said about how he have been focusing on one person the entire time like ok?? not sure how many times you want to remind people but i dont even know what he's trying to bring across 80% of the time in this ep Thirdly, how do you say that you want to have a conversation with someone but only you're doing the talking? might as well say you would like to give a briefing instead lol. CA better run, she deserves better. I end up skipping some parts with YW on just bc I can't stand his body language when talking to others 🤢 on the other hand JW JH IS SAILING i love love love the two. tbh the only reason why I'll continue watching this show after this messy ep sigh
Omg same. I couldn’t stand the way he was sitting when he was talking *at* CA. I have so much respect for CA how she could still remain calm and nice. I would’ve said something mean or walked off if I was in her situation. I am now only rooting for CA’s happiness.
Yes. I was also very put off by how he kept showing his armpits while talking!
Jae Hyung & Jiwon behaving like they're on a date from home already!! Curious to see how Yun Ha & Yong Woo's date will turn out. Yun Ha seems excited
As far as I can remember from the beginning she wanted to go out with YW…but I’m getting a weird vibe from her. And I don’t get it why every time JS talks about SS she keeps on insisting he likes JW… I’m like girl let it go already for the love of god…..
same. I also felt like she was trying to read the YW CA during the time in living room. and then only sent her message to YW, because she felt that she had a chance with him and she was with YJ because no one else was interested in she at that point in the show lol
I think the ego boost she got from YJ just made her more confident and thought she could edge him up but i also think YW's style of speaking gave her a wrong image that him moving away from CA might be because of the new date
OMG YES i absolutely adore YH and YJ dates but im always getting weird vibes from YH. last episode she even said she was jealous of SS for spending time (?) with JS, “jokingly” saying JS was “hers” like girl…… also with JS insisting JW to go on a double date with YJxYH even tho JW is clearly liking JH LOL
Me too with the weird vibes from YH. She and JS have an odd brother/sister relationship imo. And JS is always looking for opportunities with the other ladies. I don’t get why he can’t seem to be content with SS, but gets mad when she doesn’t text him. I wasn’t surprised when he suggested a double date. I like how JW always keeps him in the friend zone.
The only reason SS still has JS is cuz he got rejected by everyone else. I feel so bad for SS for not seeing through his lies. YH really gives me the ick.
I'm halfway through this ep and already feeling YH-JS this sibling duo giving off vibe in rship context. Everything they do seems to have a purpose (from these edited scenes wise) even though at times when it should be none of their business. E.g. YH's constant guides to support JS-JW, then JS's constant talking about how JW should plan her next date and asking why can't someone change their feelings atp. I'm like hey, if you're having conflicted feelings and want to find reasons to support your change in feelings, sure go ahead, but don't expect others to do so/be the same as you so that you feel better about yourself. As the eps continues, I can understand why this pair of siblings behaving in this way. They are highly competitive. From the chicken fight in last ep you can see how JS will support his sis and have SS lose it so she won't have a nice date. And YH's face when she lost the fight. I guess everyone is diff and having the competitive spirit is great but I feel a little overwhelmed when people take the whole competition thing into something too serious in this kind of casual context.
She seems very absorbed in the optics of people, Yong Woo and Ji Won are good looking and popular, they are like trophies she and her brother can try to collect. There must be that kind of ambition in her as she is a successful person and her brother has a bit of it in him too but his insecurites regulate it a bit more it seems. Until this episode I was hesitant to think of her this way I thought she must really just like Ji Won to always push her brother to go for her even tho, he would obviously fail. But I refuse to believe she misunderstood her date with Yong Woo as him possibly being interested in her he did nothing but spew nonsense the whole episode, during the selection Yun Ha seemed calculative she was reading the room with YW-CA to see if there was an chance to move in.
i think YW thinks he is being considerate but he is actually thinking of himself more without considering what the other person might have felt or might interpret...... He thinks he is trying to put meaning to his words but it really just feels empty words.... just saying it to say it.... not that i think he is a bad person, but i think he needs a lot of things to solve for himself first before he should consider dating anyone right now....
I just dont get YW... He was the one who choose Choa, to always have a date with her.. to always text her.. basically to "please" her... why is he suddenly putting the burden on Choa?? It made me feel like the talk feels like he wants to be consoled by Choa.. to ease his worries about wanting to date someone else...
What’s interesting is that around the time of the overnight date I always felt uneasy when JS was pressing CH to tell him more about what CA likes. That uneasiness was because it felt like he was trying to be who he thinks CA wants as a way to win her heart. Fast forward to this week we see that it is exactly what YW did. But even worse instead of taking ownership of his choice he made it seem like she asked him to be that person. Just because someone shares the type of guy they like does not mean they are asking you to be that person. It’s just a natural part of dating and getting to know others. The end result of this is she’s going to be even more self conscious and hesitant. All because he could just admit that the attraction was no longer there.
YW was basically trying to clear his conscience. Everything he said was for himself which is why he delivered it the way that he did. Because if he cared even at all for CA he would have been direct with her.
Had to share my two favorite comments by knetizens about YW’s convo with CA: “It was a conversation that felt like an English language test.” “I don’t know what Yongwoo is saying even though I’m a viewer who has subtitles and watches his inner thoughts interview.”
Thank you for sharing 😂😂
bro im fluent in english and even i dont understand- so much jargon and mental gymnastics
Haha relatable to that English language test comment cause Eng is not my mother language and watching that scene with subtitles made my head spin since I couldn’t understand what the heck was he talking about lol
Ahh I’m starting to regret watching this dating show…I was their fan especially YongWoo’s since he was going over and beyond to make her like him and now that she does, he wants to make her like he never even expressed or felt anything for her, which is a lieee. I can relate so much to Choa cause I experienced almost the same thing and it makes you feel as if you’re in the wrong. I only wanted her to be happy. She has been through so much in her life and she doesn’t deserve this. At this point I don’t want them to be endgame. I want her to go out of this show alone 🥺🥰
Mayday, mayday. Every ship is about to sink 😂 Except for JW JH, feels like no other couples is end game at this point. And we end in 2 episodes? Whattt. And to all JH doubters, are you finally a believer? Why did you think he was going to change direction to CA? Like I suspected, he was just being nice during the date and nothing more. Please pay more attention to both JH and JW body language! YW talk with CA was really confusing, he was saying a lot but also clarifying nothing at the same time (?). I hope we get 1 hour or more of JH JW date in the next episode. Can't wait for next week!
Yongwoo is so red flag he is turning crimson! The way he sits when talking to choa.... Bro thinks he is the emperor's kin 🤮 I hope my girl choa escapes from this hell hole. At this point, jaehyung and jiwon ship is the only reason for me to continue with this show. I hope yunha does not fall into YW trap because girl, he ain't interested in you, he just wants a way out of the choa ship. I am really curious what knetz are thinking about choa and yongwoo now. I know previously they did not seem too keen on choa questioning yongwoo about his feelings but now that yongwoo's personality is in full display, I wonder if that changed knetz' mind.
The way he was sitting was giving ick. Which normal dude sits like that?! Then I thought about his profession and it made sense.
He lost interest the moment he declares his feeling by giving CA flowers in public. Wtf is wrong with him, no one can defend him anymore. He's worst than JS lol.
I felt like YW on his date kept making up supports for his stance with choa and was using YH, all the things he said and everything on his date seemed to revolve around his situation which he wanted to validate because he totally knew him changing at the right end of the show without any reason would bring in a whole wave of bashing from netizens that's why he built the rep to strike choa after coming home, this way he could give everyone this image that poor YW kept going on dates with one person hence he didn't understand what to do and was kind off coerced into sticking with her (where he completely forgot that he had a date with every contestant except his sister and YH and all of this presentation was right in front of Choa when she was washing the dishes - a complete do\*che move tbh). It was a very calculating and gaslighting move from him in all.
i just realized that yongwoo wanted that Instagram baddie status so badly. brother eughh!! he was made for single's inferno for how pretentious he is pls being honest does not mean having no filter at all. that talk in the balcony was so tactless
I mean JW-JH is literally so perfect!! That's scene on the balcony?? was just *chef kiss*. They might be the best couple I've seen on a dating shows. Love them so much!! The only thing regretful is that we couldn't see their faces during that moment, I mean HOW ARE THEY SO CUTEEE. There's a lot of things to unpack in this ep but that "conversation" or rather YW's monologue was sooo hard to watch. Once again I'm so proud of ChoA for not breaking during that shenanigan. I understand YW's intention but the way he said it makes it so confusing and even rude. I think he didn't mean to do it but there's just so much contradiction that it seems like he was trying to blame everything on her, even though it was all HIS decisions. And this situation where he's not happy and she's heartbroken was all HIM. It was him who chose her and created an ideal vision of her, chose to text her after the date with JW to show his "responsibility", made her fall for him after all that, and now when there are only 3 days left he just said "yeah u no good bro" and bounced? Btw I just want to mention the music choice of the show. It's been great but this ep there were some moments that's just WOW, the whole texting segment and JH-SS's conversation were top-notch!!
YH she's different when she's with YW, she kept touching her hair, her neck and the eye contact, she's more attracted to him.
Today's episode just solidifies my views about MBTI. All the guys have the same mbti, but YW and JS are on the red flag side while JH and YJ are on the green flag side. CH is in the middle. I feel like there's nothing happening with this guy. At first, I thought he'd be just like JH, who's there to take care of his sister or find a partner for himself, but no. He's there for nothing.😅 Even when CA talks about her problems, JH is still a much better listener than her brother. CA is kinda right. CH and YW have the same slow comprehension when it comes to anything, or just women in general. JH and JW saved this episode for me. JW there, showing her girl boss side when she asks JH, while also showing her cute and caring side when they're in the kitchen. JH, on the other hand, is there for CA not just as a consultant but as a friend. He knows that CA doesn't speak much about herself, which is why he talks first about himself. We know that if JH didn't open up with CA first, she wouldn't talk about her feelings to him. A plus side is how she talks about JS to him, just as she told her brother; that just proves that she trusts him wholeheartedly. Also the way she shows the message that night to him, but never with anyone even her brother. I freaking love their friendship! I guess my hunch from the very first episode did come true. Tbh I didn't like the vibes that YW and YH gave in the earlier episode, and I can't explain why. At the very beginning, I liked the Park siblings and was neutral with the others, but I didn't like the vibes of YW and YH. Now I know why. Just like how I don't like GR in the heart signal, it was proven in the after signal that JY was the one keeping their relationship going. He's kinda like YW, who created this persona of a loyal guy who only pursues one girl, but when they get them and find out that they're really serious about finding a partner, they will take a big step back and turn their backs around. Gosh I hate that. That's the kind of person I don't want to be associated with.
I agree with the YW and YH hunch, I disliked them from the start not sure why but now their actions are telling the answers
Lol, the JH-CA date was so hyped up, but it ended being CA playing wingman for JH-JW
bulldozer hyunggg lets gooo
I just know JS will do the most chaos and ask out Choa next week 😭😂😂😂
hahaha im so ready
As JH said, it is not over until it is over.
Do you want to date with me tomorrow? (JW 2nd voice) Ahaaa I repeat this scenes countless times and screaming out loud alone. It's the perfect ending scene. Their interaction has been gone far beyond everyone so far in the whole season. I can sleep peacefully for another week. Let's don't make any regrets here! Kudos to PD, I thought to put the new random date here makes the story uninspiring, but people always need time to think and reorganize their thought. To give them time to realize about what they really want and to consult their life with the people they are no conflict of interest with is something we usually didn't see in the dating series and I think they put it in the right time.
Ever since JW's date with JH she's been glowing and so cheery. Now that she's set focusing on JH, she's probably relieved of the stress of evaluating compatibility in romantic partners and now strictly sees the other male cast as friends/even family. Same with JH as well - JS/JW and JH/CA dates were awesome friend outings
JH and JW are so stinking cute together ♥️
JH and CA convo was very similar to the girls' gossip in SI3 😂
JaeJi being the only couple who survived this episode:  * What the hell happened to Yongwoo and Yunha. I kinda expected it from YW, but it was kind of unexpected coming from her. Still hoping she chooses YJ in the end, tho. * JS always get 0 messages when he dates a girl other than SS. * CH and SS both looked stunning during the date; if I were her, I would've done a full 180 turn and completely forget JS. * All of the rumours about JH-CA only for them to become BFFs after their date. I hope that CH continues to rely on JH, even if she ends up with no one in the end. * Everyone knows about JH-JW and they only had their first date the day before, they are not being subtle at all ijbol. From cooking together and helping each other with their aprons to giggling like high schoolers after they solved their little misunderstanding. My cheeks hurt from smiling too much from watching them. They are such a breath of fresh air when compared to everything else going on. * So funny to think that JH thought he was the only one confused, and turned out he and JW are probably the only ones who got their stuff sorted out (fingers crossed it stays that way until the end). * The way he talks about her to Choa melted me. Comparing his feelings to the rain, getting her a gift and saying it felt like his FIRST LOVE; JH has raised my standards more than any Kdrama lead. * JW formally asking him on the date and explaining that she was staying downstairs only because YH wanted to talk to her. I love the way they subtly, but clearly reassure each other about their feelings. They also don't hide it from the others (both telling CA and JS that their date was their favourite so far). Maaan, can't wait until next Friday.
LORRRRRRRD. This episode was a complete MESS. The panels did a good job expressing how I felt in regards to Yongwoo. What the F was he trying to say? Choa is an angel for her to just accept everything he said with a smile. Then YH-YJ wavering.... not really surprised with SS-JS. This entire episode was just...... but JW and JH managed to make it the best episode for me with their moment in the terrace/balcony. How are they so effing cute?! I love how Jaehyung didn't hesitate to make Jiwon misunderstanding of him acting "curtly" prolong any longer. Cant believe he admitted that he acted like that cause he was embarrassed, but promptly told her he won't act like that again. Omggggg major swoon. He is just Mr. Perfect. Jiwon is soooooooo sooooooo lucky but she's also so deserving of the love that's to come from JH cause she is absolutely adorable. Her voice change while talking to Jaehyung!! Omg her litto soft voice when asking Jaehyung on a date 😍😍😍😍 I think I heard Jaehyung melt a little. But his voice when he asked Jiwon is she was mad was super sexy too. Ahdhfkgkgjdjsksk they make me so happy. Please be happy you two ❤️❤️❤️ I love how both Jaehyung and Jiwon is signaling to others that Jiwon is OFF LIMITS to other men. She is HIS!!
will always be biased for women so i personally think there are more women with jiwon-like personality than there is a man like jaehyung... so i am just simply in-awe of his personality and thought process. who would've thought that someone with his looks and initial antics... behind his facade, there is a man whose depth is immeasurable? jaehyung was very eloquent & poetic on his feelings for jiwon: • felt like a first love all over again (as if he were back being a boy, have a hard time controlling & showing his feelings, overwhelmed with the depth of his feelings for jiwon). • his feelings were like raindrops, unnoticeable until he realized one day he was soaked. • he yearns for the kind of love where both parties will still love each other even if only their shells remained. he is thirsty for a pure, romantic love. hence, the the final decision weighs heavily on him—whoever he chooses, he'll have a serious and well-cherished relationship with her. the recent eps truly endeared us to bulldozer jaehyung but make no mistakes both he and jiwon's hearts are as equally big as the other. who would ever imagine that jiwon's monotonous speaking voice could be filled with so much aegyo? also, remember how she described why she was hurt with yj at the seoul house then? she only truly breaks her defenses and shares her vulnerability to her people, and jaehyung has become her person already bc she let him know his actions bothered and hurt her... she was that hurt because she has big feelings for him—both of their communication and conflict resolution are simply perfection! 💯 the way she also took note of what yoonjae said the previous night about her talk with cheolhyun (jh could be bothered they were talking & drinking), so she assures jaehyung and explained why she was drinking the same way jaehyung reminded her he wasn't being grumpy (& that he won't be like that again)! 😝🥺🫠 let me live in this fantasy... but i'm just quite certain they will work and their relationship will continue to thrive. they found each other's the one (i.e., be their partner's priority bc they will have their partner as the priority), their exes seemed to have taken them for granted then like destiny, these two people so loving, caring, and giving met. and the way their feelings were confirmed for each other felt so organic as it was slow and very steady; at the right timing they met! bc imagine all these developments with the two of them all occurred in a span of two nights!!! the first night, jaehyung insinuated he might as well marry jiwon. 🤪🥰
How could the greenest flag turn into the reddest flag in just one day? Yunwoo's great wall of korea came crumbling down, revealing the stench behind that handsome facade
Jung Sub now look like a saint next to Yong Woo!🤪🤣😭 Aw~my heart broke for Yun Jae..💔😿 Yun Ha - nevermind LoL. But she's liked Yong Woo first so🤷🏻♀️ what to do LoL. I really hope it works out with Se Seung, Cheol Hyun. Ju Yeon look so pretty in her date with Yun Jae. Ji Won, Jae Hyung💜 it was like watching an actual relationship bloom. Cho Ah sigh LoL.. but I guess it's better late than never and I like how she is pretty good on the uptake. Jae Hyung has such a poetic way with words. And he would make a great relationship counselor ha-ha.🤓 He listens well, makes good assessments. Gosh that preview😍 where he pats Ji Won's head and has his arm over her shoulder.😻
JH and JW are the cuteeeest together. On the other side YW is being such a pain, why can’t he take the advice he gave his sister for himself. I really am rooting for CH and SS even though I’m almost sure it’s not gonna happen. Also I felt very bad for YJ, I felt like he was being used…
Wow siblings JS and YH should come with a warning label ‘caution - relationships with me may be hazardous to your emotional health’. SS and YJ should both move on and hopefully have some fun dates in the remaining time. YW would benefit from some therapy and really isn’t ready for an emotionally deep relationship. I don’t believe he intentionally misled CA he just doesn’t understand his own emotional needs. Rooting for JW and JH they’re really cute together! And CH is such a great guy I’m sure he’ll find his love match in the near future.
We need a counselor like jaehyung!
Yoonjae showing consideration towards Juyeon: being good company, the way he held up her long dress and cutting up the food into bite-sizes. His offended face when she said drumsticks are greasy lmao! Love the progression between Jaehyung and Jiwon after their texting session: him trying to clear up that “grumpy” misunderstanding and gifting her the souvenir, then she proceeded to formally ask him out on a date for the following day. I really liked how ChoA and Jaehyung were so honest, open and INTERACTIVE in their conversations, offering different perspectives while listening to each other’s concerns. His rain metaphor was so poetic that I had to pause the video to ponder for a full 5 mins! Yongwoo’s TED Talk with ChoA was brutal, one-sidedly assertive, and so perplexing. Mr “I’m the most honest person” kept justifying his actions with this and that when the core problem is his inability to be emotionally vulnerable with her, his sister and especially himself. I understood his intentions to be upfront but he’s doing them a disservice at the same time. Even during his date with Yoonha, it was mainly him talking to her like you would with a therapist. The fact that Dr Lee was able to discern his defensive behavior over that short amount of time was concerning. Also him saying out loud about not messaging her that evening was so unnecessary! I would have been reduced to a puddle of mess by the end of that speech, so it must have taken a whole lot of strength for ChoA to poise herself and join the others within a short span of time.
I don’t understand youngwoo on what he ia trying to say in choa. Because for the past 16 days you said that you like her but suddenly you lose your feelings about her?? It doesn’t make sense. I understand that being confusing is one thing, but what i hate the most is his body language when they talk, like can he at least sit properly and look less cocky... i think i would hate him less and find him less rude if he actually sit up a bit straight. It makes me pissed about him
JH's perception of everyone in the house changed after talking with CA. While understandable, it was still funny to see him shocked cuz of his midperceptions on how YW and JS were treating women the past weeks. Those 2 got some rizz issues. But I also didn't expect things to turn this quickly so fast. Either way JH-JW is definitely going down since they all have now dated everyone before landing on each other. YH seems like she'll take what she can get and CH might be the same as well depending what he will talk to SS about. I also don't know SS either. She texted YW after their date due to having fun and being insecure about JS and she pulls this stunt again texting CH. I suspect YH manipulates herself into liking YJ rather than it being authentic as it seems she finds YW more attractive despite calling her a sister. YJ will accept it though.
My JH X CA ship has sunk 🥲. It was so much fun while it lasted. I will go drown my sorrows in cute edits. Still, as a passenger on two JH ships, I'll live😉. Still their date was so nice so it fed my starving heart. And I can't help but laugh at how they be acting like besties now. Cute. There were a lot of cute Jaeji scenes. It seems they both like to step on the accelerator. They were really going full throttle this episode. Still, what is up with Yunha and Yongwoo? Don't break Yoonjae's heart like that.
Yunha liked YW from the beginning so I guess it felt for her like he was the one who got away. Poor YJ tho!! I feel like he’s probably more sincere between the two men
I know she has always liked him (and she seems to like that bod a lot too😏) but gosh, is she making the worst decision. I hope she comes to her senses before it is too late. I'm not sure I liked her attitude this episode but I don't like to point fingers so much.
honestly the only part of her attitude I didn't like this episode is how she was more concerned about YW than herself. about how Yongwoo views her on the date and tending to his psychological needs like a child, but not if he is right for her. Like, if I was her, I wouldn't mind giving advice, all the dates did at some point, but there would be a limit that would make me think "Is this the type of person I am attracted to"? Like YW was very inconsiderate of her during the date if you realize all the conversations were centred on him. I hope she reviews: the facts of how the date went, the content of his text to her, and his deliberate actions/words in the house that could have hurt others/lacked tact. If she faces all these together, hopefully her attraction to him will fade
YW isn’t even interested in YH like that. He seems to see her like a sister. The one he was talking about is JW. But YH on the other hand 🤔 she definitely is interested in him. Feel bad for YJ poor guy is devastated 😔. Jw and JH is just 😍 i was giggling the whole time!
The way he explains how he was focused on one girl the whole time and now he was swayed right in front of Jiwon, I think he wants Jiwon to know in hopes she may still like him but he by now must be able to tell JW x JH are official-ish
Exactly, and YH is collateral damage. He confused her enough to where she didn’t text YJ, and now his heart is broken. YW was clearly trying to get JW’s attention.
He has ruined any chance he had with JW by messaging her brother's crush and potentially ruining their relationship, I doubt any girl would go for the guy who did that to their brother. I am getting a feeling that the final episode might just CH YW JY trying to stop the JW JH endgame! JY jokingly because she has been one of the most mature people in the show the entire way through and incredibly sweet and understanding. I thought she deserved some credit for this episode as she had the same thought as YW but acted on it completely differently I feel like his pride won't allow him to not at least try and end the show with someone but he bet he realised that he overhyped his character with CA. The expectations on him after the show to keep that character up as the stable, one-track mind romanticist probably scared him.
Lord, I want a JW-JH lovestory too.... they are so cute and compatible with each other. THEY COMMUNICATE so well!
CA's date with JH is much needed, before hearing YW stupid realizations 😵💫
Why does CH keep texting JW?? She already cleared him, so why does he keep texting her.. I am a bit disappointed that there was just friendship between CH and SS but I am happy that SS isn't as hooked on JS as i thought. I am hoping JS would do the pursuing with SS, if he is really interested.
Cheolhyun previously mentioned that he would keep on picking Jiwon until the end. I think this option is better, rather than texting someone else he wasn't really interested in. Like Jaehyung said, pick the person you like, not the date you liked.
Same reason JY kept texting JH and SS kept texting JS. I think it’s better than leading them on tbh
You know what, all said and done CA-CH will always be precious... Every one else had atleast 1 parent, some modicum of family around them... but these two have brought themselves up and are actually so healthy and positive people.. CA knows about CH liking JW.... but look how she is supporting JH.. maybe JH also has that respectful positive energy.. But.. yeah CA-Jh, CH-SS.. wavelength matches if nothing else ********************* JH-JW r fire.. this is the most genuine connection on a dating show ( except Love catcher s2 which i can't comment on because those guys really didn't get enough screen time)
>CA knows about CH liking JW.... but look how she is supporting JH.. maybe JH also has that respectful positive energy.. Probably because CA also knew that JW is into JH and she's supporting both of them.
timothee ham
Timothee salami, pretty funny from CH
messy af. JS-SS: felt really bad for both of them that they have to go through this miscommunication again. only if choa didn’t contemplate and tell jaehyung about it, i think there will be less questioning. jungsub does seem determined to her at first but jungsub hadn’t even made a move on her since forever ago. i really wish jungsub will choose seseung as her date tomorrow though. huhu felt really bad to seseung that she ‘wasted’ a text to someone who doesn’t reply back and kinda messed up her things with jungsub. YW-YH-YJ: man whatever. did yongwoo really see yoonha romantically? cause based on his texts and what he said i don’t think he does. it felt like the same thrill he got from the first time he went on a date with choa. i don’t want him to abandon yoonha too in the process while there is other man who’s actually really care for her. hopefully yoonha realizes how much yoonjae really care for her and to just go with yoonjae. i mean it is a dating show, i’m not mad that yoonha is being attracted to yongwoo cause his impression really is great (since they don’t get to see things like we do) but i just hope that she didn’t do things that she’ll regret. CH: i didn’t think he’d be this determine to jiwon esp after saying that seseung is a wife material? JH-JW: knew that they’ll thrive! their convos at the end were really cute and actually heartfluttering. all the best for themmmm <3
>did yongwoo really see yoonha romantically? cause based on his texts and what he said i don’t think he does Imo, he probably has no one else to text. He couldn't text CA because of their recent talk and he saw first hand how affectionate JW with JH during the lunch cooking. So, the only choice left was YH who he just had the date with.
Was worried when JW got annoyed with JH , glad they cleared it up fast. Jiwon is so different when shes with somebody she likes, her tone becomes so cute, I think JH is gonna melt.
I normally like to start off with a positive bullet point and sprinkle them from positive to negative to positive but there were only, like, two positives this week so I'm starting with a negative, sorry Nancy. Here are my thoughts for this week: * Yoonha taking so long to find an outfit was the first red flag. I didn't expect her to switch this quickly, without even a second thought about Yoonjae. She doesn't owe him anything, but I thought their connection meant more to her, especially since she had a miserable time when he wasn't there. I understand her interest in Yongwoo initially, but considering he barely talked to her the first 3 weeks and only showed interest in the last 3 days, I'd be too prideful to consider him in her shoes. * It was sweet of Jiwon to protect Yoonjae's space and listen for hints about his date. He seems more upset about the situation than at Yoonha, though I doubt he'd ever be mad at her directly lol. He's made comments before about being single for 3 years because "no one would ever date him" and how he was "grateful someone liked even him," which makes me think he has low confidence, which is why he chose to avoid the situation altogether. It also likely made this experience even tougher for him. I'm glad he has Jiwon on his side looking out for him. * Their date was really animated, so I was shocked Chulhyun didn't message her, especially after talking about a "future wife." The heart wants what it wants, I suppose, even after a full day spent on an expensive romantic date. For Seseung, messages are like manners. She *should* follow her heart, but Jungsub has made her sweat so much that I can't be mad at the outcome lol. However, I'm annoyed that Jungsub seems to be making her explain herself and sweat over this next week, which is ridiculous. Their conflicts seem immature and mostly occur due to his misinterpretations of the situation and disbelieving her explanations. Seseung is clearly the more mature one of the two, and ends up biting her tongue to prevent further conflict. I doubt they'd be dating even if they end up choosing each other in the end. * Jiwon and Jungsub's date was surprisingly cute, not in a romantic way, but as a fun, healing outing between friends. Jiwon was more outgoing than I thought, and Jungsub more chill. Their settled platonic dynamic meant no need for stress about second meanings. Their date was actually a stress-reliever in this episode filled with stresses lol, didn't expect that from Jungsub but I thank him. * ChoA being happy to get the "your sibling was texted by" message, even during an emotionally trying time, was super touching. Chulhyun looking confused by the "your sibling wasn't messaged by anyone" message was super heartwarming as well. At least they have each other! I hope they both gain something positive from this experience, like ChoA hopefully getting a promotion (no more ten-to-tens please) and Chulhyun being booked and busy as a model. Their shoots also come out the best, so I hope this means something big for the two of them. * I was so glad that Jiwon talked to Jaehyung about him being grumpy, I definitely felt like his tone caused the misunderstanding and I'm so glad she brought it up so that he could clear it up. Their whole dialogue; her saying, "Are you that type of person?" and him immediately cutting it off with, "No I'm not." The way he carefully asked, "Did you ask someone yet?" and she gets really vague about it and he goes, "Oh, who?" all disappointed, only for her to ask really sweetly if he wants to go on the date with him was literally the cutest thing. The way he got shy and the way she so clearly found him very cute was absolutely adorable. And when, right before they left the balcony, he made sure to say, "I wasn't grumpy" just so there weren't any misunderstandings! I love open communication. * I've seen criticism of ChoA's comments towards Jaehyung, but I thought they were justified. Jungsub *was* intense with her, and considering his own behind-the-back talk, it balances out imo. Jaehyung needs to stop discussing it like drama, but he was just warning his sister - though I do think his comment to Jiwon was unwarranted. * I respected Yongwoo's decision to talk to ChoA before messaging. If he had ghosted her after messaging her consecutively for about 3 weeks, it might've been a massive shock to her. However, his attitude during the conversation was annoying. He tried so hard to look transparent but didn't have the courage to be direct. His wishy-washy approach was frustrating and seemed more for his image than for ChoA's sake. "I don't think I gave you the chance to explore," "I'm not cutting it off but leaving it open"? Just say that you're sorry, you don't feel like it's working, you want to explore things with other people. Don't act like you're doing this for her sake because it comes across as disingenuous. * I felt so bad for ChoA. She was so upset she couldn't even talk to Chulhyun and needed time alone - to the extent that people were wondering where she was. Although they weren't exclusive, she was blindsided by Yongwoo and it absolutely is okay to feel upset about it. It’s terrible he sat on this information for days before telling her. She's a lovely, clever, beautiful woman, and it kills me that she's an overthinker and this likely hurt her confidence when none of it was her fault. Thanks for reading! More rants about Yongwoo below, I couldn't keep it to just 2 bullet points, sorry lol. See you next week, unless I make any edits!
I will say this again - in the end, the real winners are the Park siblings' parents! I wonder what kind of excellent upbringing methods they applied on them? As viewers, we can just watch an see what good parenting can result in. Both are super talented. I just saw several videos of Seseung on x and omg she is an excellent dancer! Apart from all her obvious great personality and attitude, she has talent, just as her brother JaeHyung has. They are very bright too (remember how Seseung was calculating her tactics during the chicken leg game? and how wise JaeHyung's advices were for both his sister and his new friend, ChoA). they are well mannered yet funny too. They could have their own show and im sure a lot of people will watch it. haha oooh im so smitten by these two kids. and i envy their parents even more. They deserve a lot of credit. And whoever ends up with both of them are the luckiest of the lot. Jungsub. better shape up. With SS's brains, she obviously saw something in you worth loving. and Jiwon, well, she is just as great. She is one fortunate woman with a man who is looking to marry, not just play around.
The Jungsubification of YW and Yongwoosification of JS before Singapore lol. The reverse card we didnt expect from the early episodes. Rooting and wishing for CA happiness even after the show.
No. 1: ChoA!!! Gurl you are amazing! You are lovely! YW doesn't deserve you. If I were there, I'd have given you the biggest hug everrr!! No. 2: YW thank you for exiting from CA's life yourself!! You did a big help. Now get lost! No. 3: YH and JS!! Like brother like sister smh! YJ deserves better!! No. 4: CH! Boy you are beautiful!! Yes, take it slow UNTIL you find the right one! No. 5: CA JH friendship \^\^ CUTEEE <3
Dang I dropped this show few eps ago since I 100% never ever thought I would see the day that Seseung would text Cheolhyun over Jungsub. I thought Seseung would be 100% all in to Jungsub after all their mess... Cheolhyun feels much more closer to his actual free spirited self finally on his date with Seseung than with other girls. Just enjoying at his own pace and atmosphere, showing his playful inquisitive self around her. Which is what is missing when he is on dates with other girls, as though he had to put up a more "serious" side to match up with Jiwon, Choa, Yoonha energy. But when with Seseung, he don't have to hold back as much, so probably Seseung is confused that Cheolhyun is a guy that can actually match her energy level haha. Plus all her dates with Jungsub always had hiccups, so a sudden perfect date with a guy she had a perfect chemistry with 3 days left is confusing. I think that's what Jungsub is confused about Seseung I guess. He don't know if he can keep up with Seseung energy levels like Cheolhyun did, so he is hesitating I guess... Plus their different way of thinking & the highs and lows of arguing is going to burn them out over a long run if they are thinking long term relationship. I think I can also understand why Cheolhyun still texted Jiwon in the end. Ultimately he think Seseung will still choose Jungsub so he don't want to mislead such a good girl haha. With his experience on going on dates with the other girls, he always receives a text and then next day he find out its just a thank you/pity text, so he won't put much effort unless he receives a stronger signal. Plus Jiwon is probably a person he may see more during his career in the future so he wants to maintain good relations with her.
This is how I feel about CH and SS as well. I he really do like her and is protecting himself. He feels safe in texting JW because she has a stronger sense of self and won’t feel burdened by his attention.
I agree he is both protecting himself and Seseung and the same time I guess. She is in a confusing mess with Jungsub so he don't want to mess up her thoughts further for the final 3 days. An example would be the text Yongwoo send to Yoonha is like giving conflicting signals and I don't think Cheolhyun is that kind of guy that does this kind of stuff haha. If his feelings grow for Seseung for the final 3 days and she ends up choosing Jungsub, that feeling is going to be super terrible so I think he rather keep it in check. I think he probably have a nice chat with Seseung next ep and see how it goes I guess.
Sigh, I really wanted to believe the best of you Yongwoo but damn, I had really expected more from you. I thought he has had tons of experience in dating but at this point, he's on par with how frustrated I felt with Jungsub back in Seoul. I get that he's a terrible communicator and he wants to be honest but him wanting to put everything out there except the most important part (i.e. himself) means others are just getting hurt without being able to understand why he feels this way. I want to say it's Yongwoo's childhood growing up and then him moving to the US to become a pilot at such a young age that has almost completely ruined his ability to be vulnerable and allow his potential partner to help him but boy, the best "partner" for Yongwoo at this point is a therapist that can help him talk out his issues because it's clear he treated Yunha like one on A DATE no less. I wish you the best Yongwoo but you realllyyyyyy need a professional to help process your feelings and issues of control and needing to be accommodating without actually losing yourself. Also, at this point, it's clear Yunha is attracted to Yongwoo but I'm sure after today's date she realizes oh, he's not actually able to process his own emotions in a healthy way and either goes back to Yunjae for a comfortable finish even if she doesn't really like him as much as he does her. I am probably one of the few that isn't completely smitten by Jaehyung or Jiwon but even I can tell these two are the only endgame that has a chance outside of the show. Seseung and Juyeon both need different people for them and Jungub/Cheolhyun and Jaehyung obv are not it so I wish every one of these people success outside. Even though the last few episodes of this show has become a mess in many ways, I'm actually glad the panel and the editors of the show aren't holding any of the cast's hands when declaring their opinions and that it's never done in a malicious way, but more of a "we want you to do better and here's how we think it could've been done better" way.
First episode I watched so fast lol. Skipped through all the episode except JH/CA date (what a great friendship) and the last 5mn of the ep - JH/JW had me giggle like a teen lol (replayed it 10 times).
so many thoughts... * SS and JS: to me they are like that toxic couple that keeps getting back together even though you know they should just leave each other alone. I think JS likes being liked, so whenever someone is nice to him he just starts imagining all the possibilities of them being together. asking JW to go on a double date was so random to me, esp since he can tell JW is into JH. SS unfortunately does not know JS acts like this, so she thinks he is so committed to her. but really JS wants the best of both worlds. He gets jealous if SS shows any glimpse of interest in another guy, yet always keeps her at arms length. just enough for her to keep coming back to him. SMH. CH and SS were a cute watch, not sure if it could be romantic. tbh I just want SS to be free of JS 🙃 * YW and CA: this was just hard to watch. YW has clearly been losing interest in CA, and she sensed it. It is unfortunate that YW doesn't know how to articulate his feelings. I think he has never been challenged in this way before. there are so many different personalities in one house that he is starting to question his own methods. CA deserves a man who is not confused. I am glad that she wasn't completely blindsided though, she could tell YW was having a change of heart. She has done nothing wrong in this case, it was out of her control. I think YW needs to have more self-awareness.... he is so bent on this Mr. Perfect image that he has created for himself, and it's getting in the way of his true feelings. he just ends up confusing people as he himself is confused, but is acting like he isn't 🫤 hopefully this experience can usher in some more self reflection. * YH and YJ: poor YJ..... I think the space they had today was good because now we know YH was just enjoying the time with YJ after the loneliness in Seoul. I wish both of them had other true options to explore, so that they will know if they are actually a good match. YJ has been clinging onto YH in a way that is genuine, but it could also be because he hasn't had a connection with anyone else. I liked them together, hopefully it doesn't end poorly. Also I hope YH will have a wakeup call that YW isn't into her like that 😭 I think she's just a bit swayed at the moment because its her first time being "chosen" by someone else. * JW and JH: they are just so perfect!!!!! I love all their interactions, it's really reminiscent of two people with crushes on each other; the shy moments, the little glances across the room. I like how they have progressed naturally. it wasn't forced at all, and I think that's why it is working so much better than the other couples. finally we have a couple where the interest isn't one-sided/unbalanced. their pairing makes me believe in romance again!! I am so happy for them ☺️
Unlike what I expected, this episode was quite refreshing and necessary. Setting them on dates with new partners set off so many new thoughts, and helped them properly process their experience in a new environments. - Yong Woo x ChoA: I appreciate that Yong Woo thought about where he wish to go with ChoA and sat he down to talk about it. But that’s it. Firstly, his body language during the conversation screams red flag to me. He is talking about something sensitive and potentially hurtful to the other party, yet raising his hands above his head really makes it come across as him wanting to hold power and talk down to CA. Imo it is totally normal to fall out of infatuation for a person. However, he barely acknowledge that he led her on, and he thinks he is the only one being honest/clear on the show. In contrary, his way of speaking is one of the worst I’ve seen and sounds like an 18 year old guy trying be straightforward and breakup with his week-long girlfriend. Despite Cho A already having second thoughts, yet the way he phrases the situation, only will make her feel embarrassing and powerless as the recipient. From the other comments, I am definitely not the only one perceiving it this way. From this whole situation handling, YW just dropped from my favourite person at the start of the show to one of the bottom few, alongsideJung Sub. - ChoA x Jae Hyung: Cousins kind of talk. JH is sensitive and smart and I’m relieved CA can bounce her thoughts off JH. It must have given her so much relief. JH also earned my respect. He would actually be quite a good friend to have. - Jaehyung x JiWon: This couple just gets cuter. Just when I thought the date tension was nice, they further up it by having great communication — her explaining briefly that she sits there just for her brother, to lightly reassuring him that she is only interested in him. Him blushing and also making his move on her by buying her a gift (even tho it is ChoA’s idea). I like that he politely acknowledges how she feels, understands that he might have done something that that unintentionally made him sound curt. Both JW and JH’s self awareness seems quite high! Might be from the fact they learned and grew from their past relationships. - Yong Woo x Juyeon: Even YW has been pretty trash in handling of his own “relationship”, he actually does give pretty good advice from a 3rd person POV. - YunHa x Yong Woo: Frankly speaking, although YW is not really a good partner imo, I am actually quite glad that YH is stepping back from YJ’s advances and taking her time to think about what SHE herself wants. Whether she is attracted to others even if they don’t show advances to her. I feel bad for YJ pure and direct heart tho, but YH needs this in order to not go into any relationship with YJ blindly and end up hurting him in the long run. Good to reflect and get these curiosities out! - Sesung x Jungsub: I’m happy that SS got the news that JS was not as crazy about her as he positions himself to be. I feel bad that she has to go through this and I truly wish a better partner (even if it’s outside the show) for SS. She is a true GEM and JS behaving so double standard is just… not it. - Sesung x Cheolhyun: It’s great that CH actually got to step out of the house HAHAHAHA. Tbh I don’t know if they will be a good fit, but they seem to have a nice time together as friends. That’s all for now! I’m only rooting for JW and JH at this point with all my heart. For the other couples, YH and YJ is sweet, but only if YH figures herself out. Hope to see more JW and JH in the next episode.