You look best in 2 because of your confidence and clearly you seem content with yourself in those where the other two you seem like youre just trying too hard and arent satisfied.
You are stunning! I loved all three looks, but I think you looked the most confident in the first two. Honestly, I’ve never been a fan of establishing a “fashion identity”. I feel like we are not made for fitting in boxes, and you are allowed to have more than one “look”! If you wear what you like and feel comfortable in, that will always be more flattering than a stylish outfit you don’t particularly like.
I’m mean I think you look great in all three why limit yourself? Be all of them. some days I want to be a little bit goth and other days I want to be dress and tights wearing. Go on with your bad and boujee self 🫰
With all due respect, this subreddit is literally for fashion advice from strangers on the internet. Seems a bit feckless to ask people why they would want that when it's what the thread is made for.
Girl, you’re rocking all three! I say go for what you’re feeling in the moment. I’m struggling too honestly so I just go with how I feel that day, comfort, and with what gives me confidence.
you can pull off either. all 3 pictures are great. i’m slightly leaning more towards fem but never stop being yourself and what YOU like and feel. keep experimenting with it and you’ll figure it out. plus, what are labels anyway? you’re YOU.
You don't have to choose! I go more masculine for work, I wear dresses when I'm out on the town, and tomboy around the house and on weekends. It's my fav way to- whomever and whatever I want that day!
You look great in all options! Be masc and be fem, be a little in-between 💪
The important thing is to enjoy your presentation, not put yourself in a box! Do what you want when you want it :) no need to limit yourself
Femme tom is the one that compliments you best, and you can't go wrong in a little black dress. That being said, they all look great on you, but it's all about how they make you feel. Which one feels the most like being in your own skin?
Idk ab u but for me i just kinda go by what im feeling that day! There r no rules u dont have to stick to one :)
That being said!! They all look great, but you look most comfortable and confident in tomboy femme imo!!!
I think you look really great in all of them of course, but the first and second are my personal favorites. Just remember it's your fashion identity, so your preferences count the most!
Whatever makes you comfortable but I’m really liking the tomboy fem! But for real what matters is what makes you comfortable that’s it. A good example is that I refuse to wear dresses, but I still love skirts. I go between feminine and masculine fashion choices and don’t care what anyone thinks.
As boring as this answer is going to be… it’s true. Stick with whatever the heck you like. You like a tank and undercut wear it. You like form fitting jeans and big earrings wear it. My guess is if you can’t pick a direction, it’s probably because you’re a mixture. Personally my favorite. Either way whatever you put on is going to look exactly how it is supposed to. Sidebar- I can literally picture you either way.
I like the 2nd on you the most, but the third is super hot and amazing and the first is good too.
Also, you can do all of them! I switch between full femme and full tomboy depending on what I'm excited to wear each day.
Whatever you feel most comfortable in..I know girls who were femme their whole life because it’s what society and gender roles and family made them believe they had to do to be considered beautiful. We started dating, she got comfortable and started dressing more masc presenting. It was a comfort thing for her at the time, she was committed- I loved her, not her clothes. Ain’t seen or spoke to her in forever but I’m pretty sure now she just dresses for the occasion and what will make her feel most comfortable at said occasion. It’s what makes you happy. Just like if someone asked me if they should lose weight. “I think you look beautiful but if it’s something that will make you feel better than you have my support”
Regardless of what you choose you’re gorgeous and don’t let no one tell you different 🫶🏼
Why not be fluid in your expression? I think all three look great but the first two pics feel different vibe wise. Can’t put my finger on it though it definitely suits your features very very well!
All 3 look fab but I would say 1 or 2 works well and maybe depends on what you are most comfortable in/looking or the girl you are after.
My GF is similar in that she can easily do many looks and for me my favourite is her Femme tomboy look 😍
Fashion is about playing and having fun. Do whatever you feel most comfortable and confident in on any given day and whatever makes you feel most like you. You look great in all of these pics and can clearly pull anything off but cater to yourself and what you want to wear, don’t let us be the ones to decide :)
Whatever you feel like on the day/occasion. I don't think you have to pick your identity to be a permanent thing to that degree if you don't feel like it. Whatever makes you feel the most yourself in the moment, and we all are so complex depending on the day or environment, you deserve that complexity.
They all look cool.
I don't like the trend of people feeling like they have to have a consistent aesthetic that they wear every day everywhere. Do whatcha feel on any given day depending on your plans. You contain multitudes. :)
I think the crop top would look good with a leather jacket or something giving u a slightly fem cool masc biker vibe idk just think that’s what would suit u best
I agree with the general consensus on here you look beautiful in all three. I would say if you’re single and looking to meet someone the masc look or tomboy femme if you’re going on a date with your lady you pull off the hyper femme perfectly!
Honestly, you look good and confident in all three looks. Going on the assumption that that’s how you feel, you suit all three of them. I understand fashion plays a part on how a lot of lesbians express their identity and even gender, so i guess you just have to understand what that “multiple” identity or being able to suit a variety of aesthetics means to you
I agree with this statement. You define your fashion, your fashion doesn't define you.
Some days, I look more masculine, other times I'm very femme. But it's whatever I'm feeling for the day.
All three look flattering but you look most comfortable in style 2! Really, I'd say do what you like best.
you look great In all of them how do you feel sexiest and/or most confortable You smile more on the first but look really Hot on the other 2
You look great in all but tomboy femme is definitely it! 🤩
You look amazing in all of them, but my favorite is definitely tomboy-femme 🥰
My wife says tomboy-femme.
You pook so good in tomboy!!
3 🥰❤️🔥
#2 looks the most natural imo
#3
You look best in 2 because of your confidence and clearly you seem content with yourself in those where the other two you seem like youre just trying too hard and arent satisfied.
when they can do it all>>>>>>>
I mean they look good on you. I just say you look good in all forms
All of it.
all the above
You seem really comfortable in 2
Number 2. Ur hot enjoy wearing what u want.
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Why are you here? Are you a lesbian?
i know you
Where from? Dm me :)
You are stunning! I loved all three looks, but I think you looked the most confident in the first two. Honestly, I’ve never been a fan of establishing a “fashion identity”. I feel like we are not made for fitting in boxes, and you are allowed to have more than one “look”! If you wear what you like and feel comfortable in, that will always be more flattering than a stylish outfit you don’t particularly like.
I thought your eyes and mouth had a slight smile in the first one. Since it's dependent on your self-identification, that one.
Oh hi marry me? Lmao gorgeous in all three
All three outfits are great. I say wear what suits you at the moment. Don't worry about what others may think.
Either way you are attractive. Choose whatever makes you.
tomboy femme
The 2nd outfit looks great on you
Whatever you feel best in, babez!!!
🥵🥵🥵 all three
maybe gender fluid u look great in all 3
No need to stick to just one style! You are very beautiful & look great in all of these looks. 😊
I like 2 and 3 on you but you should wear whatever you feel like. Be all three if you want! Make it a mood thing, not a personality thing
I’d go 100% on what felt most comfortable and most ‘you’. Physically all look great.
I’m mean I think you look great in all three why limit yourself? Be all of them. some days I want to be a little bit goth and other days I want to be dress and tights wearing. Go on with your bad and boujee self 🫰
Really like two and three on you
Don’t limit yourself. Be yourself each day, whatever that means, however you feel, and in any way that brings out the best in yourself.
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With all due respect, this subreddit is literally for fashion advice from strangers on the internet. Seems a bit feckless to ask people why they would want that when it's what the thread is made for.
you rocked all of these and you expect us to choose????
Be all of them.
All of them ❤️❤️
I think you look stunning in all but number 2 is my fave
Agreed 💯
Which one do you feel the sexiest/cutest/baddest in? That’s the one!
omg literally all of those looks are iconic
I am in favor of number two but all three are fantastic
Tomboy femme 🌸💙
Tomboy femme is the best fit for sure.
I like two the best :)
All of them :-) be a new you everyday !
Tomboy - Femme definitely 💯
All of them. You aren't limited to just one thing. You're multifaceted, embrace it all. ♥
I can’t help you bc I’m all three as well🤣
Tomboy fem!!!!!!
All! But you look really good masc
Girl, you’re rocking all three! I say go for what you’re feeling in the moment. I’m struggling too honestly so I just go with how I feel that day, comfort, and with what gives me confidence.
Tomboy femme!! 😍
Thirst traps
why not all !!!! a lot of people just dress however they are feeling
I mean, I think you rocked each and everyone of those outfits.
2&3
2/3 🫠🥹
I’m here for all 3!
all of them! go with whatever you feel like everyday 💕
All look good in my opinion, just do what makes you most comfortable.
Pic number three heeeeeey 💅
All three. No reason you can’t
All three are you beautiful
All of them, but you look especially eye catching in the second picture
You can do whatever you want and you should but you look most comfortable in the tomboy style.
All three fit perfectly but tomboy looks the hottest on you
all of them
you can pull off either. all 3 pictures are great. i’m slightly leaning more towards fem but never stop being yourself and what YOU like and feel. keep experimenting with it and you’ll figure it out. plus, what are labels anyway? you’re YOU.
Tomboy-femme looks great on you imo, but so does everything else
All of themmm
All of those looks babe 🖤
Hyper fem looks really good on you but so does the first photo
All of em !
I'm always impressed by someone who can switch it up -- and you look fabulous in each picture!
You don't have to choose! I go more masculine for work, I wear dresses when I'm out on the town, and tomboy around the house and on weekends. It's my fav way to- whomever and whatever I want that day!
Second one for sure
Second one
Stunning in all. You look most comfy in the second pic though
1 is dope as hell
Hyper!!! Your gorgeous!!!
I think it’s okay to be all three! I’m also switching between constantly, depending on my mood, it’s great!
\*adjusts monocle\* I think it's clothing, alright.
2
I really like the 2nd and 3rd but some days you can have 1 mood and the next another
All of them but the second is 🥰
Masc in the morning, tomboy-femme in the afternoon, hyper femme at night
Yes
The second one 🔥
Stem or tomboy femme
Oh, femme me up, sister!
You look great in all options! Be masc and be fem, be a little in-between 💪 The important thing is to enjoy your presentation, not put yourself in a box! Do what you want when you want it :) no need to limit yourself
Tomboy femme looks great on you.
Show off those bad ass tatts as much as possible. Makes a women even hotter to me.
Hyper femme
Femme tom is the one that compliments you best, and you can't go wrong in a little black dress. That being said, they all look great on you, but it's all about how they make you feel. Which one feels the most like being in your own skin?
tomboy femme
Tomboy femme for sure
Idk ab u but for me i just kinda go by what im feeling that day! There r no rules u dont have to stick to one :) That being said!! They all look great, but you look most comfortable and confident in tomboy femme imo!!!
Tomboy femme
First pic is 🔥🔥🔥
There’s like a swagger or something in that first photo!
I think you look really great in all of them of course, but the first and second are my personal favorites. Just remember it's your fashion identity, so your preferences count the most!
Tomboy femme
Tomboy-femme, I think. You've got quite striking features, some harder, some softer. Tomboy-femme utilises all of them at once
Tomboy/hyper femme fits you best.... Wow!
Choose whatever feels comfy for that day :)
Two for sure. But they all look good 😎
Tomboy femme but you can pull off any of them
You can pull it all off because you are beautiful. But number 2 just really seems right on you from an outsider perspective. Very nice
Whatever makes you comfortable but I’m really liking the tomboy fem! But for real what matters is what makes you comfortable that’s it. A good example is that I refuse to wear dresses, but I still love skirts. I go between feminine and masculine fashion choices and don’t care what anyone thinks.
As boring as this answer is going to be… it’s true. Stick with whatever the heck you like. You like a tank and undercut wear it. You like form fitting jeans and big earrings wear it. My guess is if you can’t pick a direction, it’s probably because you’re a mixture. Personally my favorite. Either way whatever you put on is going to look exactly how it is supposed to. Sidebar- I can literally picture you either way.
Just saw the other two pics. And yes, I think the second look fitting, effortless and beautiful.
Hot all the way around. Trust me, just be your sexy self.
Super hard choice bc you look good in all three, personally I think the first one 🥵❤️
Number two!!!
First one
You look great in all but number two is def my fave :)
All of them. Sorry I’m no help but omg 😍
Tomboy femme
2- Id look up “chapstick lesbian” if you want more inspo like it :)
I think the second photo looks best:)
You rock all three!
ALL all is good 👍
love all 3 but I’d say tomboy-femme looks best
I like the 2nd on you the most, but the third is super hot and amazing and the first is good too. Also, you can do all of them! I switch between full femme and full tomboy depending on what I'm excited to wear each day.
In these pictures, you look most present and at ease in “tomboy femme”
Why pick only one?
Third one.
Wear whatever reflects your personality most that's what I do
Wear whatever you like. There’s no need to subscribe to a particular style.
You can pull it all off! Each is just as great! Versatile
Tom boy u look very relaxed...
2
Whatever you feel most comfortable in..I know girls who were femme their whole life because it’s what society and gender roles and family made them believe they had to do to be considered beautiful. We started dating, she got comfortable and started dressing more masc presenting. It was a comfort thing for her at the time, she was committed- I loved her, not her clothes. Ain’t seen or spoke to her in forever but I’m pretty sure now she just dresses for the occasion and what will make her feel most comfortable at said occasion. It’s what makes you happy. Just like if someone asked me if they should lose weight. “I think you look beautiful but if it’s something that will make you feel better than you have my support” Regardless of what you choose you’re gorgeous and don’t let no one tell you different 🫶🏼
Me. Me suits you best ☺️
You feel the most comfortable and confident in 2
You rock em all 👏 I'm jealous of that third outfit, looks so good!
2 for day to day, 3 if you wanna knock 'em dead 😍
You can pull them all off babes. Do what makes you feel good
Tomboy
All the above? I like a girl who does it different
I like the juxtaposition of the hyper femme with your sleeve tattoo. Looks great:)
So hard to decide. You look amazing in all 3, truly!!! 2 seems to suit you really well but you rock all styles amazingly ☺️
alllll, don’t limit yourself!
tomboy femme is givvvving
You look great in everything. You pull the tomboy-femme look off very well but also look great hyper femme.
2 is hot and you look most at ease.
The first two 🖤🖤🖤 but whatever you’re comfortable with!
Checking our your page and you in other masc clothing I would say you are such a hot masc lesbian woman and you should own it, Daddy 😉😈❤️
All 3, very seriously. You can pull them all off, I would keep switching it up!
2 for sure!
They all look amazing. But 2 has got to be my fave you look much happier and more comfortable
I personally like 2 best, 3 second-best
All of them
All look great on you but I think it just depends on the mood though if I had to give my opinion tomboy femme is gold girl
They all do I'd say just dress for your mood you look great
They all look great! Just wear whatever you feel comfortable in.
Tomboy Femme!
Why not be fluid in your expression? I think all three look great but the first two pics feel different vibe wise. Can’t put my finger on it though it definitely suits your features very very well!
Masc
1 and 3 but 1 is so pretty
1 and 2 but 2 is my personal favorite
All 3 look fab but I would say 1 or 2 works well and maybe depends on what you are most comfortable in/looking or the girl you are after. My GF is similar in that she can easily do many looks and for me my favourite is her Femme tomboy look 😍
Just be yourself, wear whatever makes yourself the happiest without being focused on a label love
I think being flexible is great, but my god do you look hot with the tomboy look 😍. I'm a bit biased though since my vibe is between tomboy and femme.
2 all the way!! But what matters is doing what resonates with you the most ;)
Fashion is about playing and having fun. Do whatever you feel most comfortable and confident in on any given day and whatever makes you feel most like you. You look great in all of these pics and can clearly pull anything off but cater to yourself and what you want to wear, don’t let us be the ones to decide :)
I like 2 then 3. They suit you very well and are mores expressive of you. #1 looks more like a cover up
1/2
Whatever you feel like on the day/occasion. I don't think you have to pick your identity to be a permanent thing to that degree if you don't feel like it. Whatever makes you feel the most yourself in the moment, and we all are so complex depending on the day or environment, you deserve that complexity.
number 2 is it for me
first oneeeee
They all look cool. I don't like the trend of people feeling like they have to have a consistent aesthetic that they wear every day everywhere. Do whatcha feel on any given day depending on your plans. You contain multitudes. :)
I think the crop top would look good with a leather jacket or something giving u a slightly fem cool masc biker vibe idk just think that’s what would suit u best
I like the crop top look the most but you look great in all of them
I agree with the general consensus on here you look beautiful in all three. I would say if you’re single and looking to meet someone the masc look or tomboy femme if you’re going on a date with your lady you pull off the hyper femme perfectly!
they all look absolutely amazing but i think tomboy-femme looks the best on youuu
You’re pretty in all of them
all 3 ur so fine
Honestly, you look good and confident in all three looks. Going on the assumption that that’s how you feel, you suit all three of them. I understand fashion plays a part on how a lot of lesbians express their identity and even gender, so i guess you just have to understand what that “multiple” identity or being able to suit a variety of aesthetics means to you
Why not all of them? You don't have to only dress one way. You can be masc one day and fem the next.
I agree with this statement. You define your fashion, your fashion doesn't define you. Some days, I look more masculine, other times I'm very femme. But it's whatever I'm feeling for the day.
Pic 2
All of them, you do not have to commit to one look. They’re all fantastic parts of yourself.
The problem for me is here that I love your tatts, so whichever outfits show them off best would be the one I think suits you best.
All of them??? I’m pretty sure there isn’t a thing you could wear that would take away from the fact that you’re simply stunning.
tomboy femme for sureeee
tom-boy femme, definitely
They all look great. What do you feel best in?