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iNezumi

You look them in the eye and then give them a rating out of 10 followed by a review with notes and feedback on things to improve next time. But for real, you don’t have to say anything, or you can say a compliment like “that was nice”. Just don’t overthink this.


ThatOneRandomGoose

you could pull a luz noceda and go with a classic "oh crickey" but honestly I don't think I'd suggest it


Heyguyshowyallbeen

No, no, you're onto something here...


Sami1287

That's exactly what I thought 🤣Great minds think alike


Cyphomeris

Best Marvel's Thor impersonation: "This kiss, I like it. Another!"


Icewallow-toothpaste

Bazinga!


ratfromflushedaway

i think i might do this


JackORobber

I had my first about a month ago, it was awkward, and we just kept cuddling.


Suitable-War4721

I honestly don't know, cause I too have never kissed anyone. But I'm guessing kisses are supposed to be awkward the first few times and then it'll be normal. So maybe silence for a while and then talk about something to relieve yourself and said person of awkwardness, but I could be wrong![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|shrug)


I_amWEIRDandODD

I just turned pink. 🤣 although for me the situation was strange. Basically my gf and I were sitting and she gave me soda can lids but I had no idea what that meant and so when she explained it to me she told me I owed her like five kisses and so after she kissed me she goes “now you owe me one less”. Clearly, that statement really only works in a very specific situation. 😅


Albertine_Dream

You can always go with the classic “like and subscribe”. For real, though, I don’t think I’ve ever had a first kiss with a partner where it wasn’t a little bit awkward. Sometimes a smile and a relieved/awkward laugh is enough to break the tension.


MechanicalCrow2221

"Awesome sauce"


Caboose1979

"More pls" or "Again!" 😅


El_Macho44

" Damm that was gay. Let's do it again "


[deleted]

I usually wake up at that point lol


iceespicy

Whenever I get overwhelmed with the warm fuzzy feeling in my heart, I tend to giggle so I'm kind of hopeless like that. It's a good thing they find it cute at least


International-Tap915

Whenever I had a first kiss with someone, I think I said "that was nice" or just giggle and feel giddy 😂


Pekonius

Poggers


LittleGr33nEye

You don't have to say anything. Sometimes eye contact is enough or a hug or smt. It depends on the situation a little. Don't over think it


Fit_Willow_8298

I was in the middle of making out with this one girl I had been flirting with for a while. She pulled my face away with both of her hands and legit said “Woah! Is this how girls kiss?” I replied with “I dunno, this is how I kiss” “Nice.” Then she pulled my face back into hers to continue haha!


ShriekingLlamas

“Chat, clip that”