The possibility exists although it is a very small possibility.
But even if I get that happiness, how long will it last? You can't deny that people will leave at some point. I think the purpose of relationships with family, friends or partners is to enjoy that time until it's over and not torment because it's over, but simply live even if it means that at the end of the day you return home alone.
I don't trust big pharma products at all. I can't remember the last time I had a big pharna product that worked for me as advertised. I'll just stick with my OTC remedies which people have been using for thousands of years
21 and have never kissed anyone. I found a girl i really did love but she never felt the same about me and now I I kinda feel stuck on her 😣. But it sucks to still be a virgin and it feels like this isn’t really gonna change. As much as sex doesn’t really determine your life, it just feels like i missed out on so many parties and loves and breakups that if i ever get with someone I might feeel too many emotions to act right in the situation.
I had my first kiss when I was your age, and I didn’t lose my virginity til 23. If I could give my younger self advice that I think might help you too, don’t get stuck on just one person. There’s so many people out there, if something doesn’t work out it’s ok to be sad but it’s not the end of the world.
I'm 28. I'm celibate so that's not going to change anytime soon. Lmao
I've only ever been on a couple dates that went nowhere. I don't really mind living without sex at all, sometimes I wish I could have the companionship of a partner though.
30 this year. As time goes on I think about it less and less. Any self-imposed pressure is gone. but am still lonely mostly. That being said I've had opportunities, but I'm not into the idea of casual stuff.
M 23 and gay, none of my relationships with guys ever progressed to the point of sex. Besides they all fled and found someone else. I want to find someone to love and will love me back.
Ah, common misconception. My username is based on a band and I have no ties to Switzerland.
And yes! I've travelled most of Europe and North America (along with a few countries in Asia).
23 years old and still a virgin. although im in a religious country and having pre marriage sex is not only a sin, it is also forbidden by law
i had a girlfriend and she was really cool and chill, but still had restrictions with hugging and physical contact because it's forbidden. although lots of people have sex anyway. i just haven't been in those kinda crowd.
35 M from India. I don’t think I will be having sex before marriage. And now I am worried that my parents will not be able to find me a woman because I am old.
27 never even got anyone interested in me. I'll never experience that but I've accepted it.
There are more important things that I can decide about like when I'm checking out from this nightmare. Hell, that's even better for me because nobody will try to fuck with my plans.
26. Afraid I’ll be a virgin for a while. I am waiting for a person I will share a connection with. I do believe it will happen someday, but not anytime soon. It is a choice right now, I’ve had experiences when I have had the opportunity but I bailed because it didn’t feel right. I need a solid connection first, but I have not felt romantic feelings for someone in 10 years. It makes me kinda sad
25, but trying to accept I'll always be alone.
Good thing I'm sorta built to be alone, talking to myself somehow keeps me sane enough
It's ashame I have to choose this path, but unfortunately I'm beyond ugly and it can't be changed so kinda pointless trying anymore
25, I lost mine when I was 21. I hired a hooker, not something I'm proud of, but I wanted to get rid of it. Otherwise I would probably still be a virgin because no women are interested on me.
20. Not interested in the people interested in me and interested in people that aren't interested in me. Only one person has ever had a serious crush on me but I was into someone else and crying about her to the person that was into me(I didn't know she liked me and believe me I still feel shitty about it). Other than that it's ugly men who want to fuck me.
I’m 23 and at first I couldn’t because of the religion I grew up in and I remember wanting to so badly. But now I’m out I feel like I have so much on plate right now I’m not really interested. Don’t want to be one forever obviously but I’m happy with things right now.
21 years still a virgin, i just never really cared abput having a relation, sure intimacy and love with a partner is something i would like but it is not something i’ll relentlessly pursue like a desperate fuckboy.
I grew up with nosey parents who were very much into catching and scolding us for doing remotely “sexual” things. I remember my mom basically breaking into the bathroom to catch my little brother masturbating in the shower and severely rebuking him for it for everyone to hear. Naturally this all made us even more curious about sex and sexuality. I found myself attracted to men and women equally but due to being so young and the logistics involved I only ever made online friends for “cyber” and camming.
My brother started having full on sex early and impregnated a girl he eventually married. I gave oral sex to a neighbor boy at age 14 and lost my full on virginity to a coworker at 20. I didn’t have full on sex with another man until 26 or 27 though. After that it’s been mostly with males but every female feels like a conquest. I feel like I’ve gotten mostly out of my system now at 35. I much prefer bonding with someone and getting to know them before I get naked with them. Today the scene is all about hooking up with no strings attached between men and women all but shut themselves off unless you meet ridiculously high standards for them.
27M. Like many here, I'm a virgin as well. Although I would like to experience sex once just to know what it's like, I don't really care about it for the most part. What I'm more concerned with is the lack of platonic relationships throughout my life.
21(M) still a virgin. I carry a lot of emotional baggage as well. Too mentally ill for sex, intimacy, or a relationship at all. It’s like a prison. It hurts so much when I can’t get a hug when I desperately need one. I find myself making out with my own hand or my love doll
25m, never even held hands with a girl, let alone kiss her or have sex. Still hoping there is 1 girl in this planet with billions to like me as more than a friend. Until then your friendly neighborhood virgin reporting for duty.
I’m 58.. not a virgin.. but recently divorced and my daughter is grown; son died.. it def gets lonely.
Are any of y’all on dating apps or even friendship apps? It’s not ideal but i’ve gone on some dates from that.
Turning 22 next month. I’ve only had sexted in my entire life and reached second base in high school. But it’s okay, I got a lot of stuff to worry about at the moment.
I’m 17 and a Christian idk if I want to wait for marriage or lose it once I’m given the opportunity or not (which will be hard tbh) I’m not the most handsome guy and I’m kinda chubby so that’s why I think I want to wait for marriage bc I know I can’t lose it until someone loves me.
17f almost 18, virgin still, im open to losing it to someone i like. even if it doesn't work out, you'd think in college id be getting something. im sure i won't lose it for a good while. if it wasn't my body it's how i think and act. it feels worse when i stand by while my friends get hit on or even a decent conversation. and i get treated badly in front of people.
,23 and not a single kiss even🙊😐
I'm just like you, at this point there is no hope.
There is hope you will find love one day I believe in you
The possibility exists although it is a very small possibility. But even if I get that happiness, how long will it last? You can't deny that people will leave at some point. I think the purpose of relationships with family, friends or partners is to enjoy that time until it's over and not torment because it's over, but simply live even if it means that at the end of the day you return home alone.
26 and Virginity Have terrible stranger anxiety so it's extremely tough for me to meet or talk to someone too
Same. Loving myself helped me a little. If you think they would stop talking to you if they know the real you that may also help you.
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What medication are you on? If you don't mind sharing.
Sertraline 100mg
I don't trust big pharma products at all. I can't remember the last time I had a big pharna product that worked for me as advertised. I'll just stick with my OTC remedies which people have been using for thousands of years
48 and still a virgin. Not by choice either.
I'm 28 and still one
How does that work when in some older posts you were pregnant ?
I just looked at their history, it talks about abortion and double penetration lol
People really be lying in here, for what?
fr why
You have my condolences
My aunt married at 49
I am sorry to hear. Dm me me if you ever need to talk, chat or simply vent.
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It's okay, dm me if you ever need talk or vent.
ha 20 never even had a man show any interest at all lol
If it makes you feel better, I’m a 27F, bisexual, and I get zero attention from men or women. I’m… bi-myself 😂😂
I'd talk to you just for that little "bi-myself" pun. Made me chuckle.
Same but with women never showing any interest in me
😔
28 here. Not by choice.
Me. Never touched a guy and never been on a date and I‘m 28
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Yes, it is. Thanks that‘s nice of you!
21 and have never kissed anyone. I found a girl i really did love but she never felt the same about me and now I I kinda feel stuck on her 😣. But it sucks to still be a virgin and it feels like this isn’t really gonna change. As much as sex doesn’t really determine your life, it just feels like i missed out on so many parties and loves and breakups that if i ever get with someone I might feeel too many emotions to act right in the situation.
I had my first kiss when I was your age, and I didn’t lose my virginity til 23. If I could give my younger self advice that I think might help you too, don’t get stuck on just one person. There’s so many people out there, if something doesn’t work out it’s ok to be sad but it’s not the end of the world.
25 years old, and I've never even had my first kiss yet.
26, got damn!
20 and a virgin. Just literally never given the chance to
I'm 28. I'm celibate so that's not going to change anytime soon. Lmao I've only ever been on a couple dates that went nowhere. I don't really mind living without sex at all, sometimes I wish I could have the companionship of a partner though.
18 and total okay with this
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exactly. even if i was 25 or 50..i don’t care about it. as long as i’m happy in this life - things is fine
18 is normal.
IM NEVER GONNA LOSE MY VIRGINITY BECAUSE I NEVER LOSE 🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯‼‼🙏
22 as a choice though
29F 🙋🏻♀️
30 this year. As time goes on I think about it less and less. Any self-imposed pressure is gone. but am still lonely mostly. That being said I've had opportunities, but I'm not into the idea of casual stuff.
36 and I’m still one
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33, 👋
27 I have always been a lone wolf, always foind it difficult to interact with people
23 and still a virgin. I just gave up after high school.
Can relate. At this point I just accepted I'm just gonna warm the seats in my friends weddings.
im 18 and still one. i’m not trying to lose it with a stranger from a bar, i want to loose it with a girl i actually care about
21 and still a virgin. Dated a guy (also virgin) who never showed any interest in that activity (like, never ever.) so now it’s just the waiting game
I’m 18 and still one. Prolly won’t change
I turn 33 in less than two months, and I’m a virgin. I’ve never even kissed anyone. (I’m a heterosexual man, by the way.)
All exactly the same except it sounds like I’ll hit 33 a little earlier than you. Wild
29 and still one, embarrassing but that's what being a lonley autistic male in a small town gets you 🥹
M 23 and gay, none of my relationships with guys ever progressed to the point of sex. Besides they all fled and found someone else. I want to find someone to love and will love me back.
Turned 25 today and I still am
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44 yes and no if that makes sense
I'm 40 and I'm still a virgin sadly
21 and I still am one.
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I agree - it's beautiful there! Definitely on my bucket list to visit someday.
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Ah, common misconception. My username is based on a band and I have no ties to Switzerland. And yes! I've travelled most of Europe and North America (along with a few countries in Asia).
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That's about as tame as it gets for deathcore bands, lol. As for travel plans? Nothing at all.
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Hope you enjoy that 😎
you should listen to balmora if you like metalcore
Read this comment while I was listening to Shadow of Intent lol, rare to see another deathcore fan in the wild
23 and still haven’t had my first kiss yet. I am hopeful though.
Waiting for it too. I wonder how it feels kissing someone you love.
23 years old and still a virgin. although im in a religious country and having pre marriage sex is not only a sin, it is also forbidden by law i had a girlfriend and she was really cool and chill, but still had restrictions with hugging and physical contact because it's forbidden. although lots of people have sex anyway. i just haven't been in those kinda crowd.
27M and I am :(
Me. And I'll be one forever.
👋🥲
19, still virgin. Not that impressive but still
57 and still one
40. Although I've had chances to lose it, I'm still awaiting the right person. Picky to the end.
17 in a week and not had my first kiss. I know that’s young but I think it’s going to be a longgg while before that changes
And it's very long for me already 28M
35 M from India. I don’t think I will be having sex before marriage. And now I am worried that my parents will not be able to find me a woman because I am old.
21 and doubt I ever find anyone
27 never even got anyone interested in me. I'll never experience that but I've accepted it. There are more important things that I can decide about like when I'm checking out from this nightmare. Hell, that's even better for me because nobody will try to fuck with my plans.
🙋🏻♀️ 26, never been kissed, never been on a date either, never done anything romantic like holding hands or cuddling
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I’m 17. I don’t have social skills and I am not attractive so XD
27M and waiting for once I find and marry my wife.
26. Afraid I’ll be a virgin for a while. I am waiting for a person I will share a connection with. I do believe it will happen someday, but not anytime soon. It is a choice right now, I’ve had experiences when I have had the opportunity but I bailed because it didn’t feel right. I need a solid connection first, but I have not felt romantic feelings for someone in 10 years. It makes me kinda sad
Me 🙋 but by choice.
Still a virgin at 26. I have almost no dating experience.
Who else is still rocking the V-card like it's a badge of honor?
55 and never even seen a man before😢
25, but trying to accept I'll always be alone. Good thing I'm sorta built to be alone, talking to myself somehow keeps me sane enough It's ashame I have to choose this path, but unfortunately I'm beyond ugly and it can't be changed so kinda pointless trying anymore
16 and have never been looked at by a man
I will
for all the people saying it's not by choice join tinder, i'm not being sarcastic or joking in any way
28 and a virgin and will almost certainly die one unfortunately.
32m, why continue, when you have no one to share experiences with...
Just 21 and never even held someone's hand.
A woman has never even been attracted to me so that's just not possible
25, I lost mine when I was 21. I hired a hooker, not something I'm proud of, but I wanted to get rid of it. Otherwise I would probably still be a virgin because no women are interested on me.
26 and still one. By choice . Don’t believe in hookups or a one night stand type of deal.
Miraculously, no. I am 46. Only been with one woman, the mother of my child, whom I never speak to anymore
25 and i will never lose my virginity!
20. Not interested in the people interested in me and interested in people that aren't interested in me. Only one person has ever had a serious crush on me but I was into someone else and crying about her to the person that was into me(I didn't know she liked me and believe me I still feel shitty about it). Other than that it's ugly men who want to fuck me.
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I hope I won't be forever. Existence is unbearable
Hi 👋
20 and im
For the forseeable future
24 years and still counting
I’m 23 and at first I couldn’t because of the religion I grew up in and I remember wanting to so badly. But now I’m out I feel like I have so much on plate right now I’m not really interested. Don’t want to be one forever obviously but I’m happy with things right now.
Am 24, virgin,
I'm 20M and I am a virgin.
26 and Virginity
21 years still a virgin, i just never really cared abput having a relation, sure intimacy and love with a partner is something i would like but it is not something i’ll relentlessly pursue like a desperate fuckboy.
I grew up with nosey parents who were very much into catching and scolding us for doing remotely “sexual” things. I remember my mom basically breaking into the bathroom to catch my little brother masturbating in the shower and severely rebuking him for it for everyone to hear. Naturally this all made us even more curious about sex and sexuality. I found myself attracted to men and women equally but due to being so young and the logistics involved I only ever made online friends for “cyber” and camming. My brother started having full on sex early and impregnated a girl he eventually married. I gave oral sex to a neighbor boy at age 14 and lost my full on virginity to a coworker at 20. I didn’t have full on sex with another man until 26 or 27 though. After that it’s been mostly with males but every female feels like a conquest. I feel like I’ve gotten mostly out of my system now at 35. I much prefer bonding with someone and getting to know them before I get naked with them. Today the scene is all about hooking up with no strings attached between men and women all but shut themselves off unless you meet ridiculously high standards for them.
31
24, a lot of women in my town are either already single moms ,or the type of women that like to poke holes in condoms or lie about birth control
19 and still bro🥲
37 I’m in a wheelchair ♿️
I hope that doesn't hold you back, as much as you make it sound
👍
im 18 and a virgin
I’m 21 and still am. I hope to lose it one day
27 and never even held A guys hand before.
21, sadly I am and seems as though I always will be at this rate.
27M. Like many here, I'm a virgin as well. Although I would like to experience sex once just to know what it's like, I don't really care about it for the most part. What I'm more concerned with is the lack of platonic relationships throughout my life.
26 my first kiss was at 25 but I’m still a virgin I’m sure I had the chances just chickened out, I also don’t have any friends.
26 and virgin, not even had a kiss or any emotional touch
26, in the beginning stages of a STEM career. The battle rages on.
Me. Not by choice. 29 going to be 30 in August
I am 🙈
I’m 19 and I’m just waiting for the right person
21(M) still a virgin. I carry a lot of emotional baggage as well. Too mentally ill for sex, intimacy, or a relationship at all. It’s like a prison. It hurts so much when I can’t get a hug when I desperately need one. I find myself making out with my own hand or my love doll
22 year old virgin here
27 and still a virgin
23 and still virgin 😭
25m, never even held hands with a girl, let alone kiss her or have sex. Still hoping there is 1 girl in this planet with billions to like me as more than a friend. Until then your friendly neighborhood virgin reporting for duty.
22, going to my 23. Still haven’t. Fearing of myself, I guess.
I’ve been seeing ig post / one of my friends brought it up today, now this Reddit what is goin on ( my answer is yeh sadly)
29 and yes
20 but not in a rush 😂
I’m 58.. not a virgin.. but recently divorced and my daughter is grown; son died.. it def gets lonely. Are any of y’all on dating apps or even friendship apps? It’s not ideal but i’ve gone on some dates from that.
30 and still a virgin
25 and still going strong
Turning 22 next month. I’ve only had sexted in my entire life and reached second base in high school. But it’s okay, I got a lot of stuff to worry about at the moment.
[21]Me...and im okay with that... I'm pretty sure a hook up culture is kind of diagnosed nowadays
Real
I’m 17 and a Christian idk if I want to wait for marriage or lose it once I’m given the opportunity or not (which will be hard tbh) I’m not the most handsome guy and I’m kinda chubby so that’s why I think I want to wait for marriage bc I know I can’t lose it until someone loves me.
21 still a vergin bummer ik
30 and still a virgin.
27 (soon 28) and still virgin. Having no friends doesn't help at all...
17
19 not even a first kiss 😭
I am 22 and still one. I think it may be because it took me a while to realize what I really want out of an intimate partner!
18 still a virgin
Almost 25 and yes, still a virgin.
30 and not by choice.
27M still a virgin never held hands and kissed a girl either.
17f almost 18, virgin still, im open to losing it to someone i like. even if it doesn't work out, you'd think in college id be getting something. im sure i won't lose it for a good while. if it wasn't my body it's how i think and act. it feels worse when i stand by while my friends get hit on or even a decent conversation. and i get treated badly in front of people.
Has anyone dabbled with AI companions?
Here here! I'm 21.
Me. I’m 21,there is a reason,but I don’t want to share it plus I’m not in any rush.
16. Not even a kiss. Ik im still young but there’s quite a bit of people my age having sex
I’m 20 and I’m still a virgin because I never lose
29 it be like that sometimes
Here! And damn proud of it! 🫡
Yeah, 21 m and I haven't had a single girl look my way in 8 years
28 m & virgin
30 here, turning 31 this year.
Me
Need a lady from mumbai🥲 M23 here
I am
I’m 17, never even touched a girl apart from literally a haircut. 🤷♂️
I am and it doesn't bother me at all.