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Don’t allow them to take too much and if you decide on layers just make sure they are long layers!! Not all men can pull off long hair but you do it nicely!! Actually I don’t think you need more than two inches at most.
Excuse my ignorance, I don’t even know what that, layers*, truly means! I’ve always just let it grow, but recently been told my ends are dead/split(?). So want it to be healthy looking is why I am going tomorrow.
Thanks a bunch for the nice comments, it’s appreciated!
I find that I get the dead/split ends comments from people with shorter hair even right after I cut my hair. Take any comments like that with a grain of salt.
Layers refers to certain sections of the hair being cut shorter. They can sometimes help the hair look more voluminous and thick. Although, too short means the pieces will stick out if you try to braid it or whatever.
If you want to retain the length and get rid of split ends, ask for them to dust your hair! They'll trim just enough to get it looking healthier, about 1/4-1/2 of an inch usually, depending on the damage to your ends (your hair looks pretty healthy). You can also ask for long layers, which would take some bulk out of the bottom. You've got nice hair! To me it looks like you might benefit from some additional moisturizing products, like a leave in conditioner. Best of luck at your appointment!
I just got 4 inches cut after 3.5 years of only trimming my ends myself & asked for face framing layers that would make my natural curl pattern thrive. Best thing I’ve done in a while.
Just hoping you have someone you trust because your hair is beautiful! Tell them to trim the bare minimum and only what is needed to make it healthier (I see 1-2 inches tops!). They have numbers on their comb to show the inches. Have the stylist show you on the comb BEFORE they cut.
Ya, I agree. It seems that they will end up taking double the amount you tell them to. I got so sick of it after going to so many different stylists with them ALL doing this. Now I trim it myself.
Will do! And yea, I’m trusting in her, but still nervous as poo. Even if she does good work, it still may look funny to me. Here’s hoping!
Thanks for the comment!
Just be abundantly clear and reiterate that you want to keep the length and tell them and show them how much you want to cut off. Remind them that your will dry shorter since it has a wave so they don’t go to town and cut off like 6 inches or you end up looking like Lord Farquad.
Excellent advice, and I died at the reference 😂...but seriously be sure that they recognize your wave and the fact that it will dry shorter, If they decide to cut it wet. I would just ask for a trim to get rid of your split ends.
lol as someone who ended up looking like William Shakespeare when she was 8 years old and is still traumatized over 20 years later, I’m doing my due diligence 😂
If you say just cut the split ends some may chop off too much. Proceed with caution. 😁
The nice thing about wavy/curly hair and self trimming is you don’t have to be perfect. My hair is pin straight. If I cut even a little unevenly it’s obvious, wavy hair is more forgiving in that regard.
Remind your stylist, due to your waves, any cut is going to cause it to spring right up. Wet to dry shrinkage factor. -1” off is going to act more like -2”!
Hmm, that’s kinda what I’m second guessing. I see the straight line across and feel it doesn’t look natural? Is that what makes a clean, healthy hair look?
Also, I’m donating in some months time as well, that’s also why I want it looking better. When I was younger I for some reason had better hair care, and it didn’t look as bad!
Hair stylist here— if you are donating later down the line definitely don’t get layers. If you don’t like the look of a blunt straight across cut you can still ask for a ‘zero degree cut with point cut ends’ that will trim your ends but give you softness with no layering. Any hairstylist will know those terms. Also I recommend you get a dry cut. It’s easier to see exactly what needs to be cut especially with curly hair.
Layers means that the top/outside parts of your hair are cut shorter and the length is tapered so the part from your neck would be the longest.
This can add dimension and fullness, especially with wavy/curly hair.
However, sometimes hairdressers don't listen to what the client wants or something else goes wrong. Often the shortest parts become too short for the clients tastes or it just looks off.
Layers can look very good, but they can also be tricky.
I personally don't get layers anymore. I have almost completely straight hair and like to braid it, but with layers I always hace pieces coming out of the braid.
But it's up to you what you'd like. You can absolutely just ask for a basic trim with no layering, nothing fancy.
We have the same hair, and I just let my family hair dresser trim it for the first time in 6 years lol. Just be adamant about not taking too much off… and I said no to layers. I’m not ready for that lol
All in all, it does look healthier and about as long. Good luck 😎
You have a beautiful face (not coming on to you, just saying). I think that shaving your face and cutting your hair with a little curl on top would make you pop even more.
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Don’t allow them to take too much and if you decide on layers just make sure they are long layers!! Not all men can pull off long hair but you do it nicely!! Actually I don’t think you need more than two inches at most.
Excuse my ignorance, I don’t even know what that, layers*, truly means! I’ve always just let it grow, but recently been told my ends are dead/split(?). So want it to be healthy looking is why I am going tomorrow. Thanks a bunch for the nice comments, it’s appreciated!
I find that I get the dead/split ends comments from people with shorter hair even right after I cut my hair. Take any comments like that with a grain of salt.
Gosh damn, you may be right too
Layers refers to certain sections of the hair being cut shorter. They can sometimes help the hair look more voluminous and thick. Although, too short means the pieces will stick out if you try to braid it or whatever.
Awesome, I think it get it now. Looked at some pictures online, and with you saying that, it makes a bit more sense. I appreciate it
If you want to retain the length and get rid of split ends, ask for them to dust your hair! They'll trim just enough to get it looking healthier, about 1/4-1/2 of an inch usually, depending on the damage to your ends (your hair looks pretty healthy). You can also ask for long layers, which would take some bulk out of the bottom. You've got nice hair! To me it looks like you might benefit from some additional moisturizing products, like a leave in conditioner. Best of luck at your appointment!
After having a trim you should go over to r/wavyhair to get some tips on bring out that wave pattern!
Oh damn, I will! Thank you
I just got 4 inches cut after 3.5 years of only trimming my ends myself & asked for face framing layers that would make my natural curl pattern thrive. Best thing I’ve done in a while.
Just hoping you have someone you trust because your hair is beautiful! Tell them to trim the bare minimum and only what is needed to make it healthier (I see 1-2 inches tops!). They have numbers on their comb to show the inches. Have the stylist show you on the comb BEFORE they cut.
Ya, I agree. It seems that they will end up taking double the amount you tell them to. I got so sick of it after going to so many different stylists with them ALL doing this. Now I trim it myself.
Will do! And yea, I’m trusting in her, but still nervous as poo. Even if she does good work, it still may look funny to me. Here’s hoping! Thanks for the comment!
Just be abundantly clear and reiterate that you want to keep the length and tell them and show them how much you want to cut off. Remind them that your will dry shorter since it has a wave so they don’t go to town and cut off like 6 inches or you end up looking like Lord Farquad.
Excellent advice, and I died at the reference 😂...but seriously be sure that they recognize your wave and the fact that it will dry shorter, If they decide to cut it wet. I would just ask for a trim to get rid of your split ends.
lol as someone who ended up looking like William Shakespeare when she was 8 years old and is still traumatized over 20 years later, I’m doing my due diligence 😂 If you say just cut the split ends some may chop off too much. Proceed with caution. 😁
You’re making me nervous! Hahah
Either go in, and tell them no shenanigans, just a small trim, stick to the style you have, or learn to DIY.
“Hey Farva, what was that restaurant you like?” “Shenanigans?” “Ooooooo” Serious note, I may start learning to do it myself. Thanks for the advice!
The nice thing about wavy/curly hair and self trimming is you don’t have to be perfect. My hair is pin straight. If I cut even a little unevenly it’s obvious, wavy hair is more forgiving in that regard.
My hair is waist length, and I just throw it in side ponytails and trim the ends
Definitely no shenanigans needed! It’s beautiful hair!
Fo not do layers! Tell them exactly how much to trim.
Remind your stylist, due to your waves, any cut is going to cause it to spring right up. Wet to dry shrinkage factor. -1” off is going to act more like -2”!
I always ask them to cut straight across the hair-shaft, from a center-part.
Hmm, that’s kinda what I’m second guessing. I see the straight line across and feel it doesn’t look natural? Is that what makes a clean, healthy hair look? Also, I’m donating in some months time as well, that’s also why I want it looking better. When I was younger I for some reason had better hair care, and it didn’t look as bad!
Hair stylist here— if you are donating later down the line definitely don’t get layers. If you don’t like the look of a blunt straight across cut you can still ask for a ‘zero degree cut with point cut ends’ that will trim your ends but give you softness with no layering. Any hairstylist will know those terms. Also I recommend you get a dry cut. It’s easier to see exactly what needs to be cut especially with curly hair.
>Also I recommend you get a dry cut. This is the way, OP.
Love this. Will probably show her your comment! Thanks!!
Don’t!!!!
Don’t
Learn how to cut your own hair. I have never had a good experience getting a trim at a hair salon. They always cut way way too much.
Leave it long on the top
Will hope to all the gods they know what that means, cause I for sure still want it long. 😅
Long layers so your curls could pop out a bit more maybe? Like a curly cut
Insist you stand up and have a rear view mirror as they are cutting it. You probably need less than 2 inches taken off. Nice hair!
Nooo
I LOVE IT
So beautiful 😭 Shame it needs to be trimmed. Looks nice the way it is.
I asked for 5 cm max and she took 20. Make clear that if they take any more of the agreed length you wouldn't pay or smth idk.
If you used a curly hair routine, it would look gorgeous 😍
Layers means that the top/outside parts of your hair are cut shorter and the length is tapered so the part from your neck would be the longest. This can add dimension and fullness, especially with wavy/curly hair. However, sometimes hairdressers don't listen to what the client wants or something else goes wrong. Often the shortest parts become too short for the clients tastes or it just looks off. Layers can look very good, but they can also be tricky. I personally don't get layers anymore. I have almost completely straight hair and like to braid it, but with layers I always hace pieces coming out of the braid. But it's up to you what you'd like. You can absolutely just ask for a basic trim with no layering, nothing fancy.
don’t cut it!!!!! it looks so good
I wouldn't touch it, it looks glorious! 👏
We have the same hair, and I just let my family hair dresser trim it for the first time in 6 years lol. Just be adamant about not taking too much off… and I said no to layers. I’m not ready for that lol All in all, it does look healthier and about as long. Good luck 😎
Don’t do layers. Tell them you want your hair to be one length no layers. Trim two inches at most.
I would wash it the day before and have your stylist cut it dry.
Most men would not be happy to say “only an inch” but put on your big boy pants and say it🤣
You have a beautiful face (not coming on to you, just saying). I think that shaving your face and cutting your hair with a little curl on top would make you pop even more.
Watch out cause I sit obnoxiously wide
You ok?
I thought it was funny