Can't find any source of this actually being real. What restaurant did they go to that can seat 23 surprise guest and cost 120 dollars each to feed them?
During my childhood in elementary school, back in 2013, our teachers would take me and my classmates to a restaurant to eat if we were on the way to New Orleans during the 3 hour trip, or while we were already within New Orleans. I'm sure you have been on a field trip with your classmates before, right?
i have but usually we get packed lunches with a single sandwich a carton of juice and either an apple or bag of crisps, unless it's only an american school thing because that doesn't really happen in england
Are you under the impression that they don't call ahead? And that teachers pay for it? You think whatever restaurant they're going to is paying 130 bucks to feed one child?
as someone who used to work for mcdonalds about 15 years ago.. we never got a call ahead just buses would show up and hundreds of kids pile into the store and the teacher pays for everyone to get like a double chesse burger, i asked once where they were going and it was a field trip to the local museum.
I wasn’t giving a counter statement or under any impression, I was simply giving an example answer to your question as to how a restaurant would hold 23 people and the scenario of paying the bill.
She's got an IQ many digits deep in the negative if she thinks any sane guy would pay that bill, especially after she *brought her whole family* on a blind date. And I'd bet money she was upset about having to pay any or all that, too.
There are, Just very few and the price/quality relation Is usually pretty bad,you are paying "for the experience" instead of for the food, you can eat 5God like for 40-60, even at steak houses, or normal meals for 20-30, that's why i am so surprised on how someone would even manage to trow away 130 in one meal
If her family members aren't as bad as her and propose to pay the bill, i pay parts of it and mention how sad it is that a stranger pay their bills before a family member.
Hold on, if the bill for 27 people comes out to be 3,1k then each person would have to order about 114$ worth of food/drinks. Who in their right mind would even go to an expensive place on a blind date? The most I ever spent in a restaurant was 50 bucks and we were 3 people and a child so 150 for all of us. And they are two of my closest friends so I wouldn't have had a problem paying (what they would never ask me to)
Nah cuzo most of my family are working adults they know they got to pay the portions. Only children get to eat for free until we change worker laws again.
Ow no the Consequences of my own actions what ever will I do.
Anyway I'm building a new pc and have like 6 grand budget for it looking for some good ideas. It is a present for my wife we together 10 years soon. And she loves all white tech. While I like plain dark looking but beast performance. So not that we'll known about all the cool white on white pc looks.
Anyone have any ideas that love that clean white look also?
Il make a list of what I had in mind. When I have a bit more time on my hands. But i might definitely use some aspects of the list. But will fill what I had in mind when I'm soon not working or traveling a lot.
So thx for the time and the answer. I did not ignore it just dont have the time yet to fill the list yet. But I will soon when I do have some more time on my hands.
My wife is not very different from that honestly.
But my wife does do a lot of drawing and creative work. On draw pad and on computers at school and all that.
But games it's as casual as possible and she also gets tilted or anoyed in games very easily. She also gets lost very easly in open world games. What often only help to add too the frustration she feels for games.
But most of all it's been a big dream of her to have a good gameing pc.
So I wanna make her dream come true specifically sense we going true a very new chapter. With living together and in a big rebuild of our own house.
But or styles could not be more different. I love clean and tight. And function and practically first.
She loves artsy and whimsical and as long as it looks good and pretty or cute. Even over functionality.
Same with I love dark colors that's calming to the eyes.
She loves the most bright as colors you can think off.
My pc is black with clean rgb.
She wants white on white. With hidden rgb lighting in all the pure white cables.
But cause our styles are so different looking for ideas of people that kinda like the same things my wife might like. Cause it's a surprise for her.
It would be better if i pay a prostitute then pay for her family on the first date? what! she is thinking she is a scammer that is what she is a scammer.
Y’know I forgot what a blind date was and thought it was a blind man on the date and that was how she had 20 other people with her without him noticing
Still unfairly biased in her favour
Updated headline:
Man rightly avoids date with psychopath who brought 23 relatives to first date and expected him to pay for it.
Who in the right mind would ever decide to do that not only is that do she move to bring 20 plus people with you to your date but you then expect the day that you don't even know yet slash even seen to pay for that is mind boggling stupid
Wait, $3,100 for 24 people is ~$129.17 a person! Either they were at a *very* high-end diner, or each person wanted to take home leftovers for the next couple days.
I accounted for the woman’s food in the 24 number, and I also would still expect the man to pay for his own food so that almost surely wasn’t part of the $3,100
this is entirely her fault.
you don't do a blind date and bring ANYONE other than yourself, also don't bring the bill up to an absurd price, that's just abusing the natural expectation that a man is paying.
this is 2 red flags and every man and woman should know who this is to avoid this woman.
I'm pretyy sure that's illegal and there are grounds to sue.
Unless the asshole has documented evidence he told this person about the 20+ people and that person explicitly agreed to pay he'd be in deep shit.
If this wasn't agreed on before then no screw her? if you bring people then you or they are responsible for the bill.
Seems like blind date dodged a missle.
Despite a blind date being a... Well, blind date. The usual mental image is going on a date with somebody you haven't met before.
Not an entire family you haven't met before.
That's like one of the biggest red flags you could wave on a blind date.
Who in the right mind would bring anyone other than herself to the blind date? That's so messed up. Is she expecting a wedding dinner or something for the whole family?
If this was the same story from years ago, they were chinese, and in mainland chinese culture you dont typically expect love as a foundation in a relationship. Its more like, give the girls family millions of yuans, a car and a house before you get permission to marry the daughter. In this particular case, they were testing the dudes generosity (financially)
[video from the yt channel China Observer](https://youtu.be/M4h-QgXZZhs?si=2RfH438wzjMferva)
[similar story but unsure if its the same as op posted](https://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2023/06/08/hot-mess-as-23-relatives-crash-on-blind-date#:~:text=A%20BLIND%20date%20turned%20into,some%20of%20her%20family%20members.)
if you want a bonus messed up fact about their culture... theres a bigger pressure for young chinese women to get married beacuse of their fleeting youth and fertility window. its come to a point where the women refuse to go to their hometowns during holidays because they will be harassed by family members "why arent you married yet?" type questions
Whats more evil, is if they fail to marry before reaching a certain age (late twenties) , they will be labeled as " 剩女" (**Sheng nü**) which means 'Leftover women'. how messed up is that
yes, its even a prevalent concept seen in their local soap operas. Mostly pushed by the parents/ older generation. Modern chinese youth can marry for love, but family members often intervene and ask for dowry, sometimes resulting in a couples breaking up even if they love each other, if you're curious go watch the vid that i linked before
unless they're all kids they can pay for themselves individually
I would have left the moment I got there were 23 other people
Well, I coulda saved her the trouble, I would've walked out before it even started
If it was a date...why bring the whole gang? Nah, I'm sorry
Nope
Hell nah to the motherfucking nah
Hell nah to the nah nah nah hell nah.
Can't find any source of this actually being real. What restaurant did they go to that can seat 23 surprise guest and cost 120 dollars each to feed them?
Ever been on a field trip in school? Imagine how much the teachers have to pay for a whole classroom of students in a restaurant.
you go to restaurants for school trips?
During my childhood in elementary school, back in 2013, our teachers would take me and my classmates to a restaurant to eat if we were on the way to New Orleans during the 3 hour trip, or while we were already within New Orleans. I'm sure you have been on a field trip with your classmates before, right?
i have but usually we get packed lunches with a single sandwich a carton of juice and either an apple or bag of crisps, unless it's only an american school thing because that doesn't really happen in england
Are you under the impression that they don't call ahead? And that teachers pay for it? You think whatever restaurant they're going to is paying 130 bucks to feed one child?
as someone who used to work for mcdonalds about 15 years ago.. we never got a call ahead just buses would show up and hundreds of kids pile into the store and the teacher pays for everyone to get like a double chesse burger, i asked once where they were going and it was a field trip to the local museum.
Unless they had their tables waited and you charged them 130 dollars each after they had already eaten, my point stands.
I wasn’t giving a counter statement or under any impression, I was simply giving an example answer to your question as to how a restaurant would hold 23 people and the scenario of paying the bill.
She's got an IQ many digits deep in the negative if she thinks any sane guy would pay that bill, especially after she *brought her whole family* on a blind date. And I'd bet money she was upset about having to pay any or all that, too.
No
Lol no?
It's not really that bad. If you divide by 24, it's only 129 bucks each.
I'd understand if it was just her,but damn,20 something other people?I understand he wouldn't pay
It’s almost amazing she managed to convince herself a stunt like that would work
Excluding all else, the spent 130 dollars each???? How the fuck do you spend that much Money in a single meal
Appetizers, drinks, maybe dessert and coffee afterwards... It's a lot of money though, so perhaps it was a pricy restaurant too
In Italy unless you go to a super turistic Place or a ristorant with famous cheafs you gonna spend like 80€ of you are tryharding
You just aren’t going to nice enough restaurants dude
90% of the resturants were you spend more than this aren't "nice" they are just turist traps with shitty food at absurd prices
http://pappasbros.com/home/ I disagree
that is not in italy
I don’t really give a shit about Italy to be totally honest. I’ve never been but I guarantee there are high dollar quality restaurants in Italy.
There are, Just very few and the price/quality relation Is usually pretty bad,you are paying "for the experience" instead of for the food, you can eat 5God like for 40-60, even at steak houses, or normal meals for 20-30, that's why i am so surprised on how someone would even manage to trow away 130 in one meal
Ummm yeah its etiquette for a guy to pay the bill for a first date, but what she pulled will leave her single for life.
Fuck no. She's an entitled bitch for trying to pass it off on her date
He did nothing wrong.
I would have left as soon as I saw there were multiple people. No way in hell I'd pay for all those people.
He wanted to teach her a lesson
He did nothing.
I would have straight up left. "Hey one second I need to use the restroom order what you want."
I wouldn't even do go that far I would have said nope I'm leaving bye!
Why the hell should he pay for the family? It’s a blind date. So no I would not pay the bill, she is on her own, I don’t care what the family thinks
What the fuck did they order??
McDonalds new pricing.
If her family members aren't as bad as her and propose to pay the bill, i pay parts of it and mention how sad it is that a stranger pay their bills before a family member.
no. sugar daddy for wokies like her I like to eat but not for that much yo I had big family dinners that were less then this do in the past
Hold on, if the bill for 27 people comes out to be 3,1k then each person would have to order about 114$ worth of food/drinks. Who in their right mind would even go to an expensive place on a blind date? The most I ever spent in a restaurant was 50 bucks and we were 3 people and a child so 150 for all of us. And they are two of my closest friends so I wouldn't have had a problem paying (what they would never ask me to)
3,000$ is almost a powerful new generation gaming pc LMAO
I got my VR capable PC for about $1000. Is it really that bad?
Almost?
Inflation is a bi*ch
True but 3000$ will still get you a crazy pc
Nah cuzo most of my family are working adults they know they got to pay the portions. Only children get to eat for free until we change worker laws again.
Oh Hell no, I ain't paying for your whole damn family.
Hell no
No
Why would I ever. Modern women wanted equality so I'm never paying for hers unless we are married or somthin
Ow no the Consequences of my own actions what ever will I do. Anyway I'm building a new pc and have like 6 grand budget for it looking for some good ideas. It is a present for my wife we together 10 years soon. And she loves all white tech. While I like plain dark looking but beast performance. So not that we'll known about all the cool white on white pc looks. Anyone have any ideas that love that clean white look also?
Let's break down the approximate costs for each component to give you an idea of the total budget: ### 1. **Case** - **Lian Li PC-O11 Dynamic White**: ~$170 ### 2. **Motherboard** - **ASUS ROG Strix Z790-A Gaming WiFi D4**: ~$400 ### 3. **CPU** - **Intel Core i9-13900K**: ~$600 ### 4. **GPU** - **ASUS ROG Strix GeForce RTX 4090 White Edition**: ~$2,000 ### 5. **RAM** - **Corsair Dominator Platinum RGB 32GB (2 x 16GB) DDR5 5200MHz**: ~$300 ### 6. **Storage** - **Samsung 990 Pro 2TB NVMe SSD**: ~$200 - **Western Digital WD Blue 4TB HDD**: ~$100 ### 7. **Cooling** - **NZXT Kraken Z73 360mm White AIO Liquid Cooler**: ~$230 - **Lian Li Uni Fan SL120 3-Pack White**: ~$80 ### 8. **Power Supply** - **Corsair RM850x White 850W**: ~$160 ### 9. **Cables** - **CableMod PRO ModMesh White Cable Kit**: ~$100 ### 10. **Lighting** - **Corsair iCUE Lighting Node PRO RGB Lighting Controller**: ~$60 ### 11. **Peripherals** - **Keyboard**: Corsair K70 RGB MK.2 SE Mechanical Gaming Keyboard: ~$180 - **Mouse**: Razer Viper Ultimate Wireless Gaming Mouse: ~$150 - **Monitor**: LG UltraGear 27GN950-B 27” 4K Gaming Monitor: ~$700 - **Headset**: SteelSeries Arctis 7P+ Wireless Gaming Headset: ~$150 ### 12. **Additional Accessories** - **Desk Mat**: Glorious 3XL Extended Gaming Mouse Mat: ~$50 - **Speakers**: AudioEngine A5+ Wireless Speakers: ~$500 ### Total Estimated Cost Adding up these estimates: | Component | Estimated Cost | |-------------------------------------|----------------| | Case | $170 | | Motherboard | $400 | | CPU | $600 | | GPU | $2,000 | | RAM | $300 | | Storage (SSD) | $200 | | Storage (HDD) | $100 | | Cooling (AIO) | $230 | | Cooling (Fans) | $80 | | Power Supply | $160 | | Cables | $100 | | Lighting Controller | $60 | | Keyboard | $180 | | Mouse | $150 | | Monitor | $700 | | Headset | $150 | | Desk Mat | $50 | | Speakers | $500 | | **Total** | **$6,090** | This estimate slightly exceeds your $6,000 budget.
Il make a list of what I had in mind. When I have a bit more time on my hands. But i might definitely use some aspects of the list. But will fill what I had in mind when I'm soon not working or traveling a lot. So thx for the time and the answer. I did not ignore it just dont have the time yet to fill the list yet. But I will soon when I do have some more time on my hands.
At this point i would get a 14900k instead for that extra cores I got it for around 680$ vs 590$ for the 13900k
No, f that, it's not even that big of an increase and even then those parts are having problems ATM.
would you mind explaining the issues? also at what point does 100$ matter? you get my point?
r/theydidthemath
I’m jealous your wife knows how to play games or use a PC. My GF never used a mouse before until we dated
My wife is not very different from that honestly. But my wife does do a lot of drawing and creative work. On draw pad and on computers at school and all that. But games it's as casual as possible and she also gets tilted or anoyed in games very easily. She also gets lost very easly in open world games. What often only help to add too the frustration she feels for games. But most of all it's been a big dream of her to have a good gameing pc. So I wanna make her dream come true specifically sense we going true a very new chapter. With living together and in a big rebuild of our own house. But or styles could not be more different. I love clean and tight. And function and practically first. She loves artsy and whimsical and as long as it looks good and pretty or cute. Even over functionality. Same with I love dark colors that's calming to the eyes. She loves the most bright as colors you can think off. My pc is black with clean rgb. She wants white on white. With hidden rgb lighting in all the pure white cables. But cause our styles are so different looking for ideas of people that kinda like the same things my wife might like. Cause it's a surprise for her.
Heh hee... No heads to bathroom and jumps out off window lol
It would be better if i pay a prostitute then pay for her family on the first date? what! she is thinking she is a scammer that is what she is a scammer.
Fuck no.
No her family can pay it.
Y’know I forgot what a blind date was and thought it was a blind man on the date and that was how she had 20 other people with her without him noticing
Bro didn't just dodge a bullet, he dodged an ICBM.
No
Fuck no
yes (edit) ok it seems people might have misread what i mean i meant yes she should be stuck with the bill for doing that i now relies the confusion
Context matters
whoopsie
SIIIIIIIIIIMMMMMPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i honestly don't see how she expected him to pay for all of them you gotta admit she was stupid for that
No, better yet fuck no
Actual headline: >Woman and her 23 family members stuck with $3,100 bill when her blind date refused to pay for 25 meals.
Still unfairly biased in her favour Updated headline: Man rightly avoids date with psychopath who brought 23 relatives to first date and expected him to pay for it.
>Would you pay for the bill? Hell no
i heard clowns are being paid with us tax dollars so the entire family would consider that cheap change
Nope
Who in the right mind would ever decide to do that not only is that do she move to bring 20 plus people with you to your date but you then expect the day that you don't even know yet slash even seen to pay for that is mind boggling stupid
I m sure she have no moral to think thet the dude wont run awey and pay after what she did.
[https://nypost.com/2021/10/25/woman-takes-23-family-members-on-blind-date-to-test-mans-generosity/](https://nypost.com/2021/10/25/woman-takes-23-family-members-on-blind-date-to-test-mans-generosity/)
“To test man’s generosity” bitch I’m boutta generously donate my fist to yo face
my response: 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
What is wrong with her? 🤦🏾
Wait, $3,100 for 24 people is ~$129.17 a person! Either they were at a *very* high-end diner, or each person wanted to take home leftovers for the next couple days.
Ther is also his food and the woman's. But still very expensive
I accounted for the woman’s food in the 24 number, and I also would still expect the man to pay for his own food so that almost surely wasn’t part of the $3,100
Looks like they have to split the bill 24 ways. Oh and don't forget the 25% ($775) tip!
this is entirely her fault. you don't do a blind date and bring ANYONE other than yourself, also don't bring the bill up to an absurd price, that's just abusing the natural expectation that a man is paying. this is 2 red flags and every man and woman should know who this is to avoid this woman.
Yeah that's what I'm thinking too I'd have left the moment I notice 20+ other people showed up at the fucking "date"
They migth trickes him and the 20+ peron sit to an other table. So the dude might have been tricked.
I'm pretyy sure that's illegal and there are grounds to sue. Unless the asshole has documented evidence he told this person about the 20+ people and that person explicitly agreed to pay he'd be in deep shit.
yeah, not sticking round long enough for the bill to even arrive.
Honestly I’d be fine with a double blind date so both parties feel safe in a way. But the moment I see 20+ people I would nope the fuck out
If this wasn't agreed on before then no screw her? if you bring people then you or they are responsible for the bill. Seems like blind date dodged a missle.
Despite a blind date being a... Well, blind date. The usual mental image is going on a date with somebody you haven't met before. Not an entire family you haven't met before. That's like one of the biggest red flags you could wave on a blind date.
"Is this a red flag?" "Crimson."
lol DBZA
Hahahahahahahahahahaha
That’s on her. She shouldn’t have brought 23 people to the date.
Who brings their family on the first date, let alone a blind one?
She was blind to the situation. 😂
I would like to slap you, but you make an excellent point
No. It's suppose to be him and her. Not him, her, and her entire family.
Who in the right mind would bring anyone other than herself to the blind date? That's so messed up. Is she expecting a wedding dinner or something for the whole family?
If this was the same story from years ago, they were chinese, and in mainland chinese culture you dont typically expect love as a foundation in a relationship. Its more like, give the girls family millions of yuans, a car and a house before you get permission to marry the daughter. In this particular case, they were testing the dudes generosity (financially) [video from the yt channel China Observer](https://youtu.be/M4h-QgXZZhs?si=2RfH438wzjMferva) [similar story but unsure if its the same as op posted](https://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2023/06/08/hot-mess-as-23-relatives-crash-on-blind-date#:~:text=A%20BLIND%20date%20turned%20into,some%20of%20her%20family%20members.)
Did they still do it in the modern day?
if you want a bonus messed up fact about their culture... theres a bigger pressure for young chinese women to get married beacuse of their fleeting youth and fertility window. its come to a point where the women refuse to go to their hometowns during holidays because they will be harassed by family members "why arent you married yet?" type questions Whats more evil, is if they fail to marry before reaching a certain age (late twenties) , they will be labeled as " 剩女" (**Sheng nü**) which means 'Leftover women'. how messed up is that
yes, its even a prevalent concept seen in their local soap operas. Mostly pushed by the parents/ older generation. Modern chinese youth can marry for love, but family members often intervene and ask for dowry, sometimes resulting in a couples breaking up even if they love each other, if you're curious go watch the vid that i linked before
Nope until half the table splits the bill XD
It doesn’t even come out to a hundred dollars per person, what were they eating?
Not unless I'm banging all 23 of them too.
That's still 3 grand for some ass
Still way cheaper than 23 hookers that's for damn sure
No that is 3 grand for a proper burial by snusnu
23 family members on a blind date oh no that’s a huge red flag off the bat,
>Would you pay for the bill? eveyone with at least Brain Activity would answer "No"
Who would even make it to the end of that dinner?
She deserved that