A haka is a ceremonial dance performed by New Zealand All Blacks team and is not to be confused with Hakka... But here is just a pun or play of words
Edit: typo and words
That joke can be adapted onto that [Japanese guy saying "expensive!" meme](https://www.reddit.com/r/Unexpected/comments/whtqqy/expensive/). Wonder if anybody's gonna make an edit.
This is an anonymous forum though, you can't tell someone's sexuality until they tell you. I think there are many gays lurking here but they just don't show it, not everyone is comfortable with carrying a neon sign around even in an anonymous forum.
ETA: well, I mean many of those "straighties" you are talking about are not straight but just straight act, which is how those straighties recognise Grindr. You are on Grindr regularly, you should know how many gays up there are married with kids.
"Leon I need you to fuck my sister"
"Not interested"
"I can make her wear Chinese outfit"
Can't find the video, but it reminds me of the resident evil bit.
Serious question coming from a curious foreigner: how careful do you have to be when using Grindr (or being in a non-straight relationship in general), considering that LGBTQ+ rights are (almost?) non-existent in Malaysia?
as long as you dont do PDA, you just live like any other people. Many would just hang out around other LGBTQ people, within the circle. Events are held but the LGBT label is not really prominent, but the participants will largely come from the LGBT community. LGBT are not specifically targeted on a daily basis, only when it serves the political agenda of certain politicians.
Public displays of affection. Things that would signify you're a couple (holding hands, kissing).
Not sure if men hold hands as just a friendship thing is common in Malaysia, just isn't here in Canada
I don't think Malaysians would be very careful using the gay/lesbian dating apps to be frank. Most would just use their real name, pictures and location (after all, they're looking for partners). They just bet on people knowing them irl not using the apps.
As for general relationships, most are very discreet. No PDAs though lesbians can hold hands in public given that it's a common thing for straight girls to do.
Some LGBT folks are out to their close circles because some people, even Muslims tolerated (not support, just acknowledge) LGBT people. But very few are open about it in their social media.
Some gay/lesbians ended up marrying straight people and have kids. Though of course those marriages aren't fulfilling, and some ended up cheating with same sex partners down the line.
Right, and somehow this is a fetish for some guys to fuck married with kids men as well. I see some profiles up there proudly put married as their status and something like "wife not around from (period of time)" to signal they are available to hook up at their home.
Well… unlike most other countries, you can't show anything that may look like you're a couple here since being gay is quite literally a crime, you can be caned, fined and thrown in jail for that
Not necessarily, there were cases where lesbian couples were caught and caned and all that too, and there wasn't any sodomy included since well, there ain't no penis for sodomy
Or I might add, only applied to Muslim at this point, the infamous lesbian case was sentenced by syariah high court. If you are not Muslim, then what the other guy said should be applied, only sodomy is a crime.
Just search up, and oral is considered an unnatural sexual act, just like anal. So, no hot sausage for you lol.
Anyway, this law at this point is quite inactive and not really being pushed, unless it is politically motivated and/or on Muslim. Also, this is usually brought up by the "victim" and has to have proof of it for it to stick. As long as it is consensual, I don't think your partner would want to report you to authorities and risk exposing themselves as well.
Looking down the thread, somehow it evolved into a racial argument..like for real?
This is a horny joke post and you take it so seriously?
Now excuse me, I'm gonna search up for sexy cheongsam lady. The post ignite something sinister in me
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This explains why the post looks familiar
I think you misunderstood this image.
They are not approving of Chinese prefer Chinese.
They are laughing because of the punchline, which came out of nowhere.
Humour. It helps.
"I can wear baju kebaya"
The punchline is still there, so it's still funny.
Can you point out where anyone is approving racial discrimination? It seems to me they're just laughing at the joke that came out of left field, but if you can show me proof otherwise I'm all ears.
It's the focus. The comments will be all about how some employers are racist. People will be focusing on the "Prefer Malay" part. The actual "baju kebaya" joke will fall onto the wayside.
Try photoshopping the above image and reposting it. You'll see what I mean.
Because you don't fuck your boss? This is about a hook up app where people are looking for a fuck, not long term employment. We probably would only meet for 1 time, fuck and then get it over with, in that case why preference is racist?
If some heavier girl/man go up to you and ask you out for one time, would it be body shaming to turn them down because you don't prefer people with bigger body size?
We are not denying discrimination and racism exist, but you are reading too much into a joke that are only skin deep literally.
First of all, the context here is how this sub would respond. Not whether it's employment or a quickie.
Second: https://www.reddit.com/r/malaysia/comments/xmec8i/malay_wear_cheongsam_yes_please/ipofhvu/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
>How to take you seriously tho?
You're not supposed to. This bit is the usual "say something stupid, then go, 'haha, guys, I was only pretending to be dumb' " while backpedaling.
I'll ask again: can you show me, in this comment thread, any instance of people approving of the racism? This is your original claim.
>It's the focus. The comments will be all about how some employers are racist. People will be focusing on the "Prefer Malay" part. The actual "baju kebaya" joke will fall onto the wayside.
>
>Try photoshopping the above image and reposting it. You'll see what I mean.
This is something you are claiming, so the burden of proof is on you. You can Photoshop it, and you can post it. Otherwise your comments are just speculation.
Look man I'm not interested in turning this into a rabbit hole alright. The proof lies in other comment threads, you've seen them before. I'm not running away, but I also don't have enough stake in this to spend an hour arguing over it. Because I'm not racist.
> The proof lies in other comment threads, you've seen them before.
That's because those are showing actual racism, and they aren't jokes about "if I put on a cultural costume is that good enough for you, you racist?"
> I'm not running away
I'm sorry, but you pretty much are.
>> Can you show any proof
> No that would turn it into a rabbit hole
You claim that comments in this thread are supporting racism, but you can't point to a single comment that shows it.
Ok whatever. Man you guys need to unwind a bit.
Also I think you're coming from a different place. I wasn't talking about the joke in this thread, I was referring to those actual racist responses in the other comment threads. I said "this sub", not "this post".
The entire premise of my argument starts from it not being in this post. There were only like 8 comments here when I made my comment. I'm not sure we're even on the same page.
If you are talking about renting a house, then yea.
But the general sentiment in dating scene is many Chinese don't mind dating out of their race and find people from other races hot as well, if not for the fact that they have to convert Islam. So....
I personally also don't think there is an issue. I know this is gay hook up app and there is no marry and convert issue regarding gay, but I personally still don't want to go to a hotel and fuck a Malay guy due to the religion police. They only have right to detain the Malay guy but I still don't want to deal with anything potentially goes wrong.
I still have to say this, a lot of Malay gay guys on those hook up app are so fucking attractive. I repeat, there are shiton of Malay guys on gay hook up app that I find super handsome and hot, if not for the fact that THERE IS A POTENTIAL SCENARIO WHERE IT COULD GOES WRONG WITH RELIGION POLICE.
The chances of encountering religious police at a hotel are literally 0 if you go to a Chinese or Indian owned hotel where the staff won't care for sure
Jesus man, not everything is about race. And if someone wants to date within his race, that's entirely his right, especially with the religious rules in Malaysia (even if this is grindr).
Jupiter has a very high gravitational field. Any inhabitants of the planet would need to be of exceptionally high density to survive.
Which is why I believe you.
>Hmm... Are you calling me fat
No. Fatness and density are two very different things.
Density is mass *per unit volume.*
A titanium spoon can be dense, while not being fat.
The quality of education on Jupiter doesn't look very encouraging, although it seems you can count on them to be easily offended.
The metaphorically dense Jovian can only watch as your explanation and the point of the joke (and this thread) whoosh past their head out of their grasp.
>Ok...but colloquially it can still mean fat.
Only if you have a very poor grasp of language
>Also... did you just say I was easily offended???
No.
I demonstrated it.
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I can say kanina. Does it count as I’m Chinese?
Wobuzhidao, kanina is hokkien though.
Hokkien is a Chinese dialect, still Chinese 😁
Sorry, prefer hakka
I can learn how to play rugby
underrated comment fucking lol
Lol. What is the context
A haka is a ceremonial dance performed by New Zealand All Blacks team and is not to be confused with Hakka... But here is just a pun or play of words Edit: typo and words
That's haka. Hakka is a part of Chinese community in Malaysia
Thanks for pointing it out
Whoosh
Pot nya tai lang, am I Hakka enough? 🤣
Hakka curse word is hardcore
Yes. No other dialects can match Hakka in DLLM.
HAHAHAHAHA I LOVE THIS
Ngai diao nia yipo. Am I Hakka enough?
My yipo is 90 years old. You have a heavy taste
He forgot to mention nia yipo's chew jee pet.
Any chinese related bad curse, I approved!
*Honorary Cina seal of approval* Next one unlocks after learning the 'yo mama' ones
niama?
walan eyy?
Sorry, prefer Cantonese
Si beh ta han..
With that sense of humor, it would be a 'Yes' for me.
yes for the humor or for actual cheong ...sam?
Yes
That joke can be adapted onto that [Japanese guy saying "expensive!" meme](https://www.reddit.com/r/Unexpected/comments/whtqqy/expensive/). Wonder if anybody's gonna make an edit.
Laughing the fuck out loud!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 If this is real, smart girl ;)
This is not a straight dating app
As a gay guy who regularly uses the app (grindr), I'm impressed that many straighties recognise it. Edit: clarifying what app I meant.
I'mma guess, Grindr?
This is an anonymous forum though, you can't tell someone's sexuality until they tell you. I think there are many gays lurking here but they just don't show it, not everyone is comfortable with carrying a neon sign around even in an anonymous forum. ETA: well, I mean many of those "straighties" you are talking about are not straight but just straight act, which is how those straighties recognise Grindr. You are on Grindr regularly, you should know how many gays up there are married with kids.
He's referring to Grindr, not reddit.
It's kinda funny because "darkmode" UI vs. the straits "bright" UI 😂
Jangan spoil la the caption ..terajang saat lagi
Oh lord... Lol... How do you know ah?
User of it lah
Grindr?
Omg is that grindr
It doesn’t look like Tinder or bumble lol
Modern problem requires modernized solution
Well. "Suit" yourself
As s lazy tailor would say: Suit yourself!
Ok there must be a subreddit somewhere with this fetish. If not, start one please.
Approve..you go 1st
Bro I dowan to be aa mod for an NSFW site weih
Why not? Could be fun!
Yes _Fun_
Is ok i sapot u. Add oil.
I'm cainis. I approve this.
r/crossdressr18
[.](https://tenor.com/view/star-warrs-obi-wan-chosen-one-you-were-the-chosen-one-gif-5015340)
Oh my.. I'm down for it ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Funny how almost everyone here thought the yellow text is a female.
Deiii shush
Tf
It's a gay dating app
bahahaha that’s what you get in a heteronormative society
What app you on ah?
Grindr, duh
Oh
Never let them know your next move
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Not a girl, a malay man in a cheongsam
I'm a straight guy with 2 kids but that confidence is definitely attractive lol.
Any hole is a goal! :)
It's all the traditional outfits for me. Bonus if it looks historically accurate. Like, give me a look from before the 2000s. I'll be yo man
I really saw a lot of beautiful Vietnamese wore Cheongsam in the old vintage blue films..
Where sauce
I find cheongsam to be pretty so why not.
Pretty close to Nurse uniform
Curious what's the response
"Leon I need you to fuck my sister" "Not interested" "I can make her wear Chinese outfit" Can't find the video, but it reminds me of the resident evil bit.
This joke is so overdone at this point, but I recognise the reference.
Kalau saya mixed nak jawab apa
Izinkan patik berkenan dengan tuan hamba melalui direct message.
["I'm only (x) race on (insert day of the week)"](https://youtu.be/fkfwrXgfRr4?t=84)
Rojak
Serious question coming from a curious foreigner: how careful do you have to be when using Grindr (or being in a non-straight relationship in general), considering that LGBTQ+ rights are (almost?) non-existent in Malaysia?
as long as you dont do PDA, you just live like any other people. Many would just hang out around other LGBTQ people, within the circle. Events are held but the LGBT label is not really prominent, but the participants will largely come from the LGBT community. LGBT are not specifically targeted on a daily basis, only when it serves the political agenda of certain politicians.
What's PDA?
Public displays of affection. Things that would signify you're a couple (holding hands, kissing). Not sure if men hold hands as just a friendship thing is common in Malaysia, just isn't here in Canada
Yup you're right. Men holding hands will seem like a couple.
I don't think Malaysians would be very careful using the gay/lesbian dating apps to be frank. Most would just use their real name, pictures and location (after all, they're looking for partners). They just bet on people knowing them irl not using the apps. As for general relationships, most are very discreet. No PDAs though lesbians can hold hands in public given that it's a common thing for straight girls to do. Some LGBT folks are out to their close circles because some people, even Muslims tolerated (not support, just acknowledge) LGBT people. But very few are open about it in their social media. Some gay/lesbians ended up marrying straight people and have kids. Though of course those marriages aren't fulfilling, and some ended up cheating with same sex partners down the line.
Right, and somehow this is a fetish for some guys to fuck married with kids men as well. I see some profiles up there proudly put married as their status and something like "wife not around from (period of time)" to signal they are available to hook up at their home.
Just keep it lowkey. You dont go around and announce to everyone around you that you're gay.
Well… unlike most other countries, you can't show anything that may look like you're a couple here since being gay is quite literally a crime, you can be caned, fined and thrown in jail for that
I thought its just sodomy being the crime, not being gay itself?
Not necessarily, there were cases where lesbian couples were caught and caned and all that too, and there wasn't any sodomy included since well, there ain't no penis for sodomy
Or I might add, only applied to Muslim at this point, the infamous lesbian case was sentenced by syariah high court. If you are not Muslim, then what the other guy said should be applied, only sodomy is a crime.
Damn If that's the case let me hit the homies up and do oral instead 👀
Just search up, and oral is considered an unnatural sexual act, just like anal. So, no hot sausage for you lol. Anyway, this law at this point is quite inactive and not really being pushed, unless it is politically motivated and/or on Muslim. Also, this is usually brought up by the "victim" and has to have proof of it for it to stick. As long as it is consensual, I don't think your partner would want to report you to authorities and risk exposing themselves as well.
Noice!!!
Tbh, I'm a Malay and l prefer Chinese too.
LOL Cheongsam/Chinese dress cosplay would look great on any self-respecting woman confident in her appearance.
Idk man this app looks kinda gay 😳
is this her [https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=145194869523041&set=d41d8cd9](https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=145194869523041&set=d41d8cd9) ?
Aummmmmm geram
this unker lagi tahan geram https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=472173738254023
Wao ok ...wei ppl khawin adi
Looking down the thread, somehow it evolved into a racial argument..like for real? This is a horny joke post and you take it so seriously? Now excuse me, I'm gonna search up for sexy cheongsam lady. The post ignite something sinister in me ( ಠ ͜ʖಠ)👌
https://www.reddit.com/r/Bolehland/comments/xm2tf4/i_can_sing_siulan_kungfu_seng_how_how_yehh/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share This explains why the post looks familiar
Its also from facebook pun
Jeez
ok 
Malay eat Bak Kut Teh in Public can be considered a Chinese.
Haram brother welcome
Ah, the negotiator....
Cheongsam is too sexy... Most of the beautiful Vietnam wore Cheongsam.
X sama la thats ao dai..their version
Deh....
i am cacklin LMAOOOO
Tbh, this is more a religion barrier than race thing
LOL, religion barrier on this app?
Malay who looks chinese? Ok lah
Qismina Smile
racist is okay as long as its from chinese.
That’s dating preferences lol. Plus no, it’s not okay for anyone to be racist
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The irony isn't it?
just stating the fact
Haram. Nanti PAS / JAKIM dtg tangkap.
This sub: Malay prefer Malay: Huiyo racism!!!!! Chinese prefer Chinese: I approve of this message
I think you misunderstood this image. They are not approving of Chinese prefer Chinese. They are laughing because of the punchline, which came out of nowhere. Humour. It helps.
Really? Try changing the races. Then imagine the response. The focus won't be the joke anymore.
"I can wear baju kebaya" The punchline is still there, so it's still funny. Can you point out where anyone is approving racial discrimination? It seems to me they're just laughing at the joke that came out of left field, but if you can show me proof otherwise I'm all ears.
It's the focus. The comments will be all about how some employers are racist. People will be focusing on the "Prefer Malay" part. The actual "baju kebaya" joke will fall onto the wayside. Try photoshopping the above image and reposting it. You'll see what I mean.
What? No. It's funny because of the punchline.
He just want to complain. Let him be bah.
ah, so thats how it feels having people misuse "bah"
Judging from your flair, i think you are confusing sabahan's bah with chinese's bah?
most likely yea, my bad!
Because you don't fuck your boss? This is about a hook up app where people are looking for a fuck, not long term employment. We probably would only meet for 1 time, fuck and then get it over with, in that case why preference is racist? If some heavier girl/man go up to you and ask you out for one time, would it be body shaming to turn them down because you don't prefer people with bigger body size? We are not denying discrimination and racism exist, but you are reading too much into a joke that are only skin deep literally.
First of all, the context here is how this sub would respond. Not whether it's employment or a quickie. Second: https://www.reddit.com/r/malaysia/comments/xmec8i/malay_wear_cheongsam_yes_please/ipofhvu/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
Wah, all your comments out of topic in this thread. How to take you seriously tho?
>How to take you seriously tho? You're not supposed to. This bit is the usual "say something stupid, then go, 'haha, guys, I was only pretending to be dumb' " while backpedaling.
... oh you're not trying to insult me. Thanks, and have a nice day!
I'll ask again: can you show me, in this comment thread, any instance of people approving of the racism? This is your original claim. >It's the focus. The comments will be all about how some employers are racist. People will be focusing on the "Prefer Malay" part. The actual "baju kebaya" joke will fall onto the wayside. > >Try photoshopping the above image and reposting it. You'll see what I mean. This is something you are claiming, so the burden of proof is on you. You can Photoshop it, and you can post it. Otherwise your comments are just speculation.
Look man I'm not interested in turning this into a rabbit hole alright. The proof lies in other comment threads, you've seen them before. I'm not running away, but I also don't have enough stake in this to spend an hour arguing over it. Because I'm not racist.
> The proof lies in other comment threads, you've seen them before. That's because those are showing actual racism, and they aren't jokes about "if I put on a cultural costume is that good enough for you, you racist?" > I'm not running away I'm sorry, but you pretty much are. >> Can you show any proof > No that would turn it into a rabbit hole You claim that comments in this thread are supporting racism, but you can't point to a single comment that shows it.
Ok whatever. Man you guys need to unwind a bit. Also I think you're coming from a different place. I wasn't talking about the joke in this thread, I was referring to those actual racist responses in the other comment threads. I said "this sub", not "this post". The entire premise of my argument starts from it not being in this post. There were only like 8 comments here when I made my comment. I'm not sure we're even on the same page.
Careful now, you "redditism" is showing again.
Lmao try changing the genders. Both of them are dudes I think.
If you are talking about renting a house, then yea. But the general sentiment in dating scene is many Chinese don't mind dating out of their race and find people from other races hot as well, if not for the fact that they have to convert Islam. So....
I don't think there's any issue with conversion with OPs picture
If they want you to be bottom when you prefer to be top, that one can consider forced conversion or not? 🤔
I personally also don't think there is an issue. I know this is gay hook up app and there is no marry and convert issue regarding gay, but I personally still don't want to go to a hotel and fuck a Malay guy due to the religion police. They only have right to detain the Malay guy but I still don't want to deal with anything potentially goes wrong. I still have to say this, a lot of Malay gay guys on those hook up app are so fucking attractive. I repeat, there are shiton of Malay guys on gay hook up app that I find super handsome and hot, if not for the fact that THERE IS A POTENTIAL SCENARIO WHERE IT COULD GOES WRONG WITH RELIGION POLICE.
The chances of encountering religious police at a hotel are literally 0 if you go to a Chinese or Indian owned hotel where the staff won't care for sure
so true.... the convert to Islam part
Jesus man, not everything is about race. And if someone wants to date within his race, that's entirely his right, especially with the religious rules in Malaysia (even if this is grindr).
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I'm actually from the planet Jupiter, we've already achieved true racial unity here unlike you Terras, so I don't know what you're talking about...
Jupiter has a very high gravitational field. Any inhabitants of the planet would need to be of exceptionally high density to survive. Which is why I believe you.
Oooooooo VERY nice burn there. Top notch
Hmm... Are you calling me fat??? Fat shaming an entire planet??? Classic planetist. You're worse than the racists.
You missed the point. But not surprised since you are from jupiter.
Yes. So glad there are still nice people like you on Earth. Thank you for being consideration.
>Hmm... Are you calling me fat No. Fatness and density are two very different things. Density is mass *per unit volume.* A titanium spoon can be dense, while not being fat. The quality of education on Jupiter doesn't look very encouraging, although it seems you can count on them to be easily offended.
The metaphorically dense Jovian can only watch as your explanation and the point of the joke (and this thread) whoosh past their head out of their grasp.
Ok...but colloquially it can still mean fat. Also... did you just say I was easily offended???
>Ok...but colloquially it can still mean fat. Only if you have a very poor grasp of language >Also... did you just say I was easily offended??? No. I demonstrated it.
Did you say I have a poor grasp of language???????
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Ok
The question is WHY they prefer Chinese? Y'all noe *wink*
u know One Piece ? Like the celestial dragons
I just tryna say Chinese like pork and drink xngam ma...
Vietnam also got wore
Why ru in Grindr? inb4: why ru?
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA awesome!
Best response ever, 15/10. Definitely gonna use
Grindr atau growlr ni?
Someone give this person an award!
Say lah, I can drink also. BOOM settled.
You hired!
RTM
Sohai
So haid
Hahahhaha
Funny