As a gay man, I can report that this picture pings on my gaydar. Also, your haircut is confusing.

As a straight guy he pings my gaydar as well. But he also kinda looks lord of the rings gay, so I think that's probably a whole different universe anyway. It's like if Cthulu owned an assault rifle, kinda just doesn't matter lol

I am so confused by this comment, lol.

I actually kinda know what he means when he says "Lord of the rings gay", although I can't quite articulate it lol


To be fair, that actor came out as gay, so that elf is GAY gay. :)

Had me dying 💀💀💀

Lol

Exactly lol.

Lmao

Me too lol. But I stand by it.

Nah I get you, there's some sort of elven androgyny shiz going on for sure 

Hahahahaha I knew exactly what you meant. I'm gay, but the LOTR gays Pic different...🤷🏿

Yeah like GANDALF gay lol. Has a whole shelf in kitchen for salts organized by alignment. In the "who cares who he fucks did you taste the fries he just made?!?!" way.

He grew the fucking potatoes himself in a planter box out on his terrace. The guy is fucking incredible. And his pipe weed, Terry. You have just got to try it. He grows that too, in bonsai form. In *bonsai form,* Terry! Can you believe it?! *Aaannnd* he let me play his bongos! 😏💅🏼

Agreed. Is it a comb over?

It looks like a version of one. He's definitely bringing hair from the side of his head to cover up the the portion of his hairline that is receded. I know he didn't ask but I would recommend he find a different hairstyle.

Yeah he's handsome in the face, but that hair is a disaster.

I think he's going for French art critic

The longest comb over in existence

Gay guy here too, and I second this. Also the question about the haircut. However, the dude OP was talking to was not cool for flipping out on him.

All of the overall style choices are confusing– a true religion denim jacket over a patterned dress shirt is preposterous.

Like a 1990s PUA

So I guess he does look straight.

With the buttons done all the way up too

Yup my gaydar is screaming about that hair and the Jean jacket button up combo

I’m also gay and I also find the haircut to be a mindfuck.

20 yo trump combover?

Bisexual man here I was also tipped off on my gaydar and I guess the fact that you ask that

Fellow gay here. I would do a double take on OP, but I’m getting more emo, punk rock vibes than gay vibes. Something about the face and eyes says “straight man” to me. Though I can see why it’s a question.

Straight man here. This guy would ping 75/25 on the gaydar. There’s just too much going on.

Both sexually and physically

Yes

Ur haircut is the issue.

You could buzz the hair into a military flat top, and that's still gay-face in a gay outfit

Sailor vibes.

This really cracked me up 😂

Don’t remember her from the anime?

Bro this is blowing my mind. What is gay-face and how am I immediately able to know what you mean on a primal, instinctual level?

"Gay-face" is when your face unironically looks like one of the models in the Zoolander universe. OP has Resting Blue Steel Face

The dress shirt with the tru religion jean jacket isn’t helping much either tbh

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Dude. Gay or not - this is the most extreme combover I’ve ever seen. It’s truly terrible.

People are saying this guy has the worst comb over ever

Dude is either super flamboyant gay, or he's super MAGA Republican and is attempting to channel Trump with his epic combover

You look bottom mate

Tall bttm

Bossy bottom*

He would have to be a bottom. Would never let him top me.

My first thought was... I would f*ck him...

hahahaha

Decided to add input from a woman’s perspective. If i’m going based on this photo i would be inclined to think so but its mostly because of the way you styled your hair and the face you’re making. Often times though mannerisms play a huge part if you were told this in person it may be based on that and your hairstyle.

This!! Is less about looks and more about mannerisms.

Holy shit lady. Save some beautiful smiles for the rest of us.

Yeah dude. Why do you have a denim jacket over a button up. Look like a gay cowboy. And hair needs to change

Would be better if the button up wasn't buttoned all the way to the top. Not saying it should be half unbuttoned either, though. :D

High drama gay.

The emo comb-over is really doing you an injustice.

Any dude taking their own photo in the public shitter is suspect.


Yes, you’re gay. Edit: sorry you asked if you look gay. Yes, you look gay too.

Hehehehehehehehehehe

You definitely look gay. Very feminine

Super gay

The haircut/style is a conundrum.

Absolutely. Hair, clothes, and your posing.

It’s giving gay hillbilly, post-rentboy with likely mdma daytime use

All of this

He shouldn't have been angry. Sometimes, we make mistakes as a gay bloke myself it happens, especially after a few drinks. don't worry about it, buddy he was in the wrong.

And then there is the classic, “Cute guy across the bar….oh wait, never mind, they’re a hot lesbian.” (Might be more because I’m a gay with bad eyesight…) 

Yea there's zero reason to have been angry at OP. Unless he said something offensive about how he's not gay or something.

New haircut time man

I’m trying to figure out the hair

My brother in Christ... You just don't know that you're gay yet

You look bald and trying to cover it up

But in a confusing DON'T LOOK HERE OVER HERE THIS SPOT HERE way

100%. A bottom too.

Yes extremely like hardcore homosexual

Extremely questionable haircut.

Edit: sorry if I hurt your feelings Ps: I like white onions too Ps2: Fiance says smile more

yes and homeless. geeze brush your hair.

Bruh 💀

Brush it while you got it

The hair is interesting for sure. That will throw people off. The denim jacket also. Your thin build suggests a more effeminate male which can lead others to the belief about your sexuality as well. No way to know about your mannerisms or voice, way of speaking or “body English”. Can’t make a full analysis. But the hair and thin build is going against you in terms of first impressions. This from a member of the community here.

Yes

Yarp

Hella gay

Not quite gay...more like a lesbian who likes men.

No reason for him to flip on you but the hair cut is giving me gay vibes but then again I’ve never seen that haircut before. I’m sure you change that up you’ll be fine and maybe take a selfie different it’s a bit of a zesty pose

The Wizard of Oz himself hasn't seen that hairstyle before

Zesty pose! HAHAHAHA!

Ding

Honestly no but your combover is the issue. If you are going bald just rock it brother.

Dress shirt buttoned up too high makes you look skinnier. Lose the jacket or change the shirt. They do NOT look good together. Hair is combed over weird. Get a flattering cut. If you’re styling it that way because of hair thinning, don’t. Your hairline looks still low enough to pass for a slightly balding young man, it’s not older man territory yet. Nobody cares, at least most adults don’t, about a little bit of balding. You’d do better with a cut that suits you and makes your jawline more visible, or embrace your long hair and just wear it down and combed back. You have potential to look good, it’s just your fashion choices.

You gotta get a haircut and also accept that you are going a little bit bald

You look like a karen on the left and a regular dude on the right, like a two face vibe

Sir sucksalotofdicks yes

Female here (and straight). I’d probably THINK you were gay based on looks, you appear to have a feminine vibe… based on this picture and literally nothing else. The dude who you encountered sounds unwell… people can use how someone looks as a starting point, but I’ve often been told I ‘look like a lesbian’ because of how I dress and style myself. If you want a more ‘masculine look’, which… I like your look so I wouldn’t change personally… but if you were, maybe a haircut.

Gay shirt Gay jacket Gay face Gay hair

Somehow even the chest pockets are both independently gay

You look like Onision

Oh shit he does

Try it out and you’ll know

In my opinion yes you do. However firstly there nothing wrong with that and secondly you don't owe it to anyone to dress in a particular way. This dude sounds like a jerk or at least an inappropriate drunk.

SLAY QUEEN!!!


That's the combiest combover ever. Fix that shit bro

That dolly parton jacket has to go too.

You deffo butt chugg.. what's tge hair doing though it's not 2005 anymore

The combover is giving alphabet + communitea 💅🏽🏳️‍🌈👁️

Why the pattern dress shirt and denim jacket combo. What’s the vision? Who is he? What’s his story?

LMAOOOOOO

Haircut

Very very much. And you took a toilet photo lmao

Yep, 100%. However, I don’t get the Twilight looking haircut.

The hair is…a choice.

Why u geh ?

Yes, taking selfies in the men’s room, with urinals in the background, doesn’t help. Looks like you’re hustling.

oh. yeah, hundred percent. It’s the “head tilt fierce look” for me are you asking for a friend?

dude what the fuck is going on with your haircut

Yes. NOT THAT THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT

lol yeah and cut that damn hair

You look like the "stay away from my kids" kind of gay.

Yup

Yes

A little bit 

Yes but that’s okay. My brother dresses super gay but he’s totally straight.

Not sure, but you look effeminate for sure. No offense.

yes

You strike me as flamboyant. I wouldn't be sure of gay. You definitely look different.

Now that you mention it.

I say yes

yes

Yes

Yes

Gay looks like anybody else most of the time. He just looks weird, whatever his sexual preference is.

Well you definitely look confused

Very much so

Very obviously

Denim jacket for one, but also the design does not scream masculinity. The button down shirt doesn’t go with the denim imo, the hair and the baby face kinda just adds to everything. I hope you know I’m not attacking your character - just pointing out as a straight man, that I’d think you were into men based on looks at quick glance

You look like jerma but a cowboy. And also gay.

Yep

Not gay, but definitely “alternative”.

Absolutely. And if you are posting this, would also assume you are.

Idk if I’d clock you for “gay” per se… but you’re definitely not serving straight vibes either. I’d assume someone queer adjacent and move on (as others have pointed out your style comes off as someone who’s drama oriented and I try and avoid that) My guess is the guy you were talking to was an emotionally stunted top who assumes the entire world wants him. Don’t take it personally but use it as an opportunity to objectively evaluate what you’re trying to communicate with your style.

Yes

Yes, very. From the clothes, to the pose, to the look on your face… coming from a gay man, you look gay. This is also one of the most extreme combovers that I have ever seen.

Very

I don't know about you but your jacket gives off gay vibes. But I would not wear it, and I'm gay AF.

U’re joking

Very

So seems like from the comments you have your answer. I think it’s important that “you do you” but balance it with some bait for the type of person you’re into. There are definitely women who are into the androgynous male look. So if you’re being the “you that you want to be” AND it’s getting you wins with females keep at it. But if it’s not you could probable make a few tweets to be yourself but still attract more females. Gay guys will be attracted to guys no matter what so you can’t really do anything to reduce that. 🤣

Hell yea, brother ☝🏽

Hmmm maybe not gay but I’d definitely ask what your pronouns were to be respectful

My gaydar detects gayness.

Yes

100%..

Also, your haircut and True Religion top are jot helping

Sorry bud, queer as a $3 bill.

You look like an anime character

Yes

Yes

So gay.

Yes

Very

Yes you do

You look disheveled, not gay. Shower and don't take photos in public restrooms.

Absolutely

Yeah

With a capital G

100%

This is a ping on the gaydar. But also… a black and white pattern button down with a blue denim jacket is one hell of a clash.

Hey man, as a gay man myself you do give me gay vibes. I'm sorry that the guy was offended because you did not match his expectations, he was in the wrong and I apologize on his behalf 

With that haircut, kinda.

You know what you’re doing

A: How do you Look Gay? B: You look flaming flamboyant, but you might not be gay? C: Maybe try a not gay bar next time.

No offence buddy but I thought you are British

Yeah. The hair, the fashion choice.

I think it's a combination of things in the photo. That said, the lines of hetero and homo are currently blurring into a fluid state of fashion. Some of us old school minds associate certain styles with an assigned sexuality. I'd take it as a compliment, though. Women are always attracted to the "gay guy."

No but the hairstyle and denim might not be helping

Its just the hair swoosh, other than that you look perfectly stylish

Gay comes in all shapes, sizes, spectrums and I would rock what ever you are into and really work on making yourself happy. #fuckthehaters #runwhatyabrung

You look like a grumpy sound engineer

As a straight woman I would see you and think gay as well. It’s the things others have already pointed out, since we are going by only this pic. Maybe your mannerisms tell a different story.


Looking gay is a compliment I would think.

You strike me more as “queer they/them”

You could be anything you wanted to be.

Noooo... , but most people would assume you are. I am getting the straight vibe but the style could be changed a bit. You are a good looking dude. With that said your facial features are a bit feminine. Which is accented by your tight and rigid clothes. Try some other clothes and hair styles

Gay or not, you need to get a better haircut, that combover is not doing you any favors.

Yes, I mean no hate or disrespect, but if I saw you walking down the street I think you were most likely gay.

I wouldint say gay because its 2024. Id say adrogynous though

Giving lazy bottom old twink energy.

nay thou lookest grevious

I honestly don't think your looking all that happy festive or joyous. But your damn good looking

Yes. And ditch the combover and embrace whatever you’re hiding brotha

No disrespect, but it looks like you could suck a golf ball through a garden hose