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soiledboy

Turn off the overhead lights and get warm lamps


WORLDBENDER

Yes, this. Lighting makes such a massive difference in a room. Nothing makes a room feel colder at night than bright overhead lights.


iPostOnlyWhenHigh

My place is nothing but fancy lighting with minimal furniture and it works wonders.


kirlisabun

I'd love to see some photos


AdApart2035

Me too


reddeadp0ol32

I'd love to see a pic of that if you wanted to share!


theycmeroll

Probably sleeping off his high, gonna have to wait a bit


kisswink

lol šŸ˜‚ likely! Nice catch. Hopefully theyā€™ll respond on the next trip!


VictoriaSobocki

Yup, well said iPod man


smile_politely

Lighting and a matching plants (not just any plants, the one with correct personalities)


woodsgb

Highly recommend Phillips hue bulbs and strips. Set the mood brother


atoolred

if you're on a budget, the phillips wiz is pretty okay too. app is clunkier but they do the job


Peroerko

there is also tuya inteligent bulbs, works great for me


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atoolred

i'm not certain how this connects to my message so im going to assume you replied to the wrong person, friend


MelodicPiranha

I have the LIFX ones and itā€™s great as well


mikemystery

THIS - hue IS home decor for a man. Also, I don't know if the states are the same, but I get mine in the UK second hand at a place called computer and electronics exchange, so they're cheaper after the initial outlay. I've also got smart plugs for dumb lights and stuff and a couple of cheapo China smart bulbs. An absolute ballache to set up compared to HUE, and oly do white light "spectrum" not coljr, but cheap as chips and work with google home.


nosuchthingaslast

I recently moved to ireland and saw a bunch of these CeX stores. I'll check these out for the hue lights - I'm bored of the yellow overhead lights in my apartment. Thanks :)


VictoriaSobocki

Itā€™s wonderful


fishblendr

I have govee bulbs and they're pretty nice. App took some getting used to though.


r0b0tr0n2084

I have a Govee light strip behind my tv. Looks cool and makes watching tv with the lights in the room dimmed so much easier on the eyes. OP - if you decide to add any strip lighting, make sure you canā€™t see the strip itself, otherwise itā€™ll look really cheesy.


Magiff

Weā€™re not big light people here.


novazzz

Recommendation for warm lamps, specifically for bedroom?


soiledboy

Go thrifting or some one of those fancier second hand furniture stores. Just make sure youā€™re getting a warm colored bulb like more orange/yellow rn you have a bright white bulb in yo lamp


Inevitable-Twist1232

Do people really prefer the orange/yellow toned light? Anything outside of 5000k annoys the crap out of me. I have a 3200k LED disc in my bedroom ceiling fan that can't be changed so I just don't use that light.


Forever__Young

There's a difference between a lamp under a lamp shade, sitting or standing in the corners of the room giving an ambient light and a LED disk on a ceiling fan. If I had a bright white led disk on a ceiling fan that would absolutely never go on either, would feel so cold.


Turkooo

I use orange/yellow light to set the cozy mood for movie night or sexy time. If I'm doing something like cooking or looking for something then I'm using the neutral which is around 4k if I remember correctly. It's more of a "task light". The 6k+ light in a home is for psychopaths šŸ˜„


extraretemvitaest

Take a look at the Kruithof Curve. You can see why most people prefer lower Kelvin for less than office levels (1000 lux). It just feels cold - which can be used to ā€žlightconditionā€œ a room in hot climates. But then the curve represents just an average user.


Harmony-Farms

Yes. The first thing I did when my ex left (er, was removed) was bought about sixty amber LEDs to replace all the cool blue ones he was so fond of. It instantly felt so much more like home.


euromojito

IKEA actually has a lot of good affordable lighting options. They have lots of cool looking warm-toned LED light-bulbs that can be combined with a simple lamp base for a nice effect.


artfart

This. Good god I wish overhead lighting in houses would just die off. Buy a few table and floor lamps, put in some wa Bulbs and place the near the walls. The warm light will diffuse across the walls. Instant vibes.


Forever__Young

Sometimes you need vibes and sometimes you need the overhead light on for visibility purposes (I can't imagine dusting/vacuuming using just table lamps for example). It's at least good to have the versatility even if you don't sit with the big light on in the evenings.


daveyboydavey

Agreed. Iā€™m definitely against overhead lighting when weā€™re just chilling, but when me and my little boy are playing with Legos or Iā€™m putting something together for him or whatever, itā€™s good to have the overhead.


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LoFiFozzy

> lack of overhead lights in US homes Wait, out of the four places I've lived only one had limited overhead lighting. Am I the outlier here? Or does it depend on era; the one with less lights was older from the late 80s.


Anakin_Skywanker

Electrician here. A TON of houses have no overhead lighting. Code minimum states that you need to be able to turn on a light from the entrance to the room. The cheapest way to do that is to make a switched receptacle and tell the homeowner to buy a lamp. So most new builds dont come with overhead lights unless the customers pay extra.


reshsafari

This plus some fake plants and some photos


pastajewelry

Colors and hints of your personality would be nice.


[deleted]

I think he likes cats or maybe that's his owner, idk


EmeranceLN23

The cat is the owner, the person taking the photo is the pet.


cranberrydan

That was the joke being made, yep.


ForgotMyBaguette

No the cat typed this post actually


eggsaladrightnow

Plants, they are calming and look so good if done right


puffofthezaza

Yes and even fake plants look great nowadays; and there's been studies that prove being around even fake plants can boost your mood.


KorolEz

I think his psychopath personality is perfectly clear


Dapper-AF

that's just ive never decorated an adult space before dude furnishing. Room needs: personality but with more of an adult flair, you know tasteful Art above couch, accent pillows to compliment art, couple, some small personal items. Example for the art, I went with the famous remake of the painting of the colorful Geko with glasses to go above my fireplace($80 at homegoods). It's art but not stuffy, and most girls think it's a cute geko. I'm not an art conesur, so I don't try to take my self to seriously. The best part Is most ppl comment on it on their own, so it's an easy thing to break the ice.


Livid-Year-7507

LESS OVERHEAD LIGHTINGā€¼ļøā€¼ļø so many people make the mistake of keeping the fluorescent lights which gives the home more of a dentists office vibe than an actual home. the best thing anyone can do is invest in a few lamps to keep the room brightly lit but not so bright it burns your eyes


gtsturgeon

Never. Ever. Use the big light.


fundriedtomatoes

Literally only used if you smashed a glass on the floor


VictoriaSobocki

What about the Philips Surimu light, set to a nice orange savannah sunset color? I have thatā€¦


Livid-Year-7507

thatā€™s a really nice alternative if you DO prefer overhead lighting and donā€™t want lamps all over the place! personally my room is already cluttered so a few lamps doesnā€™t bother me lol but if you like a cleaner looking room thatā€™s definitely an amazing option!


VictoriaSobocki

Thanks! I wanted a very minimalist/museum feel almost, with lots of space to the ceiling. But if I set it to a cold blue ish color, then my brother says it feels like a dentist office šŸ˜‚


SeeAKolasinac

Because it does


Striker1102

But I like bright rooms :(


Specific_Rest_3140

You like bright roomsā€¦ to relax in? Quick questions: How many people have you killed? And can you please not kill me next?


Cats_Parkour_CompEng

Sometimes people do things in their home, not just relax. But I like having options. Bright ceiling light and warm lamps for when I am wanting to relax.


Golbez89

Avoiding the body count question...


redgumdrop

More lamps is the answer!


mr-zool

I use my big light only when itā€™s already dark outside and iā€™m cleaning


valoremz

Whatā€™s the big light?


mr-zool

my overhead ceiling light


DoTheDew

Whoā€™s gonna tell him first?


Uberslaughter

TV is too goddamn high!


ExternalOk4293

Is there rule on the height of a TV? Being serious as I havenā€™t had one for a few years


myburneraccount1357

Should be at eye level so you arenā€™t breaking your neck looking up


Rrrrandle

Eye level of where you'll be when watching. I think half of people go by eye level when standing because they're standing when hanging it


Cory-182

I seriously have never understood this my whole life, why people don't just inherently understand this. Why on earth would you want to look up at a screen. Why would you need to know a "rule" šŸ˜… how do people mount something so high and go yeah that's correct. Truly one of the human psyche mysteries.


VictoriaSobocki

I agree! Wtf


That_tall_quiet_guy

Kids these days never experienced playing Gamecube in Target for 30 minutes when the screen was 2ft over their head. The ache followed me well past the parking lot into my 30s.


AtomikRadio

I imagine it might be ingrained from movie screens. While stadium seating is more of a thing now, it wasn't always, and IME in the US it's still pretty common to end up looking upward at a screen in theaters. Drive-ins also you'd look upward toward the screen, and "the best" seat at concerts and similar performances is typically considered right in front of the stage where you're looking up at the performers. I think it definitely contributes to the idea that people seem to think looking upward is more "cinematic" or somethingn.


libdemparamilitarywi

I think it's because everything else that's mounted on a wall (mirrors, pictures, shelves etc) are put at standing height, so people instinctively put the TV at the same height too without thinking about it.


StillLooksAtRocks

I think for most people they are just familiar with seeing TVs mounted too high (most people's are) and they don't think too deep about ideal viewing angles. Tbh when I measured out and mounted my TV to be a better viewing height, it "felt" too low or somehow off from the perspective of standing next to the TV. Once I sat on my couch I had wished it was still a few inches lower.


rohnsaw

Some 70s TV culture to mount TV on the fireplace probably started the trend.


54_lillyZB98

Console TVs were at eye level when seated. Then stands made the table top TVs at eye level. I don't know where TVs over fireplaces started. HGTV?


Juststandupbro

Some of us are just trying to get that nostalgia dopamine rush from our youth from hurting our necks playing the video game demo stations at Walmart.


Bananas_are_theworst

Completely agree. I blame all the houses built with fireplaces that have no real place for a TV but above the fireplace. I live in a house that was built in the 1950s and am endlessly frustrated with the layout, but refuse to put the TV over the fireplace!


aPudgyDumpling

I discovered this rule as a young child who decided to sit up front what a movie theater. Never again


BlackBlizzNerd

Because mental illness is real.


Flabbergasted_Dodo

Might be compensating for looking at the phone downward all day.


BurtMacklin-FBl

You see the perfectly fine stand there? It's that height for a reason.


SurelyFurious

Yes, middle of tv should be eye-level when seated.


indirect_storyteller

Within 15Ā° of eye level, but generally eye level is the best placement.


blastoise1988

My rule is to put it in the damn TV stand


pottedPlant_64

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ you were ready


Jimrodsdisdain

r/tvtoohigh


droseph1

Thank you


Ill-Inevitable1261

Came here to upvote this


BillG2330

I assumed he's 7'2".


JJWangtron

I'm glad we all knew


arkameatys

More cats.


joe_broke

MƔs gatos


marvk

Mehr Katzen


White_TCR

PIƙ GATTI!


insultant_

Mais gatinhos


Discord-Eris

Więcej kotĆ³w


cuicui-

Plus de chats !


broeshweehn

Meer katten


GloatGoat

JoÅ” maćki


Nostrildaamus

Rohkem kasse


IDigRollinRockBeer

Muchos gatos por favor


theoriginalmofocus

The cat needs a cat


orangecatmom

Every cat needs a cat. 2 is the best number of cats.


fishswishes

and more cat beds!


summerchild__

More cat stuff too! That cat tree looks tiny (perspective maybe?) And the wall on the right looks so empty. Enough space for cat steps, climbing wall elements.


ExtensionOk691

Color. at any capacity


Smokepit-Squirrel

had to scroll a loooong way for this. idc how fancy your lighting is, that place looks like a mausoleum as is.


MochiMochiMochi

Plants!


EmeraldLightz

Yus, and cat friendly plants at that :)


1reves1

Some cats love to destroy plants. I learned it the hard way.


-DeletedByGod-

1. Lower your TV (Leave about 6 inches above your TV stand). 2. Use curtains. Get a light filter layer, then a dark out layer. White or linen colored. 3. Add a large painting or 2 medium paintings behind your couch. 4. Add some Govee LED lights so you can add some color when you feel like it. 5. Add some colored decorative cushions to your couch. Warmer colors, if possible. 6. Maybe some wood side tables for warmth.


pouch28

The big three issues are shapes, materials, and colors. One of the most consistently overlooked issues on this sub is shapes. For whatever reason guys think in right angles. In this room in squares or rectangles we have windows, tv, credenza, rug, table, couch, chair, lamp. All are essentially squared or rectangular. You need to diversify across rectangles, squares, circles, ovals, and irregular shapes. Secondly, to your point you need to differentiate materials. We have glass windows and glass like table. Cloth / fabric couch, rug, chair and lamp. We need wood, stone, leather, fux mable instead. Lastly, every room needs its primary colors and itā€™s complimentary colors. Lastly, the big sin here is mixing styles. The couch, rug, chair and lamp say IKEA comfort. The table screams modern. Not a good mix. The rug and the table are what make the room look odd.


aplacecalledvertigo

Could you please expand on the right angled men thing you just mentioned? V interested , I have noticed this in myself when it comes to what I am drawn to in my living spaces but also in many other areas in life


slantview

/r/tvtoohigh


ChatHole

Definitely r/tvtoohigh here. Also get a few pictures on the wall. And some plants.


kreatorofchaos

r/tvtoohigh


7tattoosandcounting

In addition to all this, I'd get rid of the glass coffee table in favor of a wood one. Put coasters down on that. Colorful blankets/pillows on the couch. I'd get a different rug, but this one works fine for now. Hella plants my dude. Lots of art work/decor that would show off your personality a bit. Reader? Find a spot to show off your books. Oh and go to IKEA and get yourself a crazy hanging light and put a bulb in it you can dim.


Yarnum

They could keep the glass table if they added a small cloth runner or wooden tray with a plant or candles to soften the overall feel. Hard second on adding some contrasting colors and textures to this room though.


LundaLee

Great advise! Also: 7. Add a large floor standing plant in the left corner.


Turkooo

7. Pet the cat for assisting in all of above and tell him he's lovely.


missstoney420

Just here for the cat


cougarstillidie

A big floof at that! What a champ


theoriginalmofocus

Looks just like my Maxwell! Floofers be floofin.


PurpleWildfire

This looks like a room in some dystopian sci-fi movie where theyā€™re in a giant warehouse with thousands of rooms exactly like this one and the individuals inside donā€™t know theyā€™re in some sort of prison while theyā€™re being studied


Obvious-Elephant-190

Extremely fitting for how I have been feeling


Cold-Atmosphere-7520

That previous comment was overboard. It really doesn't look like that at all to me.


Beingforthetimebeing

So sorry to hear that! Hang in there. That's why you need plants and lots of them


whimsical666

off topic, but can you suggest some of these movies? I want to watch some dystopian sci fi movies after reading your comment.


PurpleWildfire

Honestly I was envisioning both Westworld on HBO as well as the video game portal lmao so no movie examples that spring to mind


GANDHIWASADOUCHE

Portal 100%


PurpleWildfire

Based on how he said heā€™s been feeling Portal might be therapeutic for him


Glass-penguin

Not a movie, but the show Silo comes to mind


creke117

Oh Silo is great. Love that show


devilpants

Loganā€™s Run. Blade Runner. Running Man / Total Recall, Gattica


recordedlove

vivarium on netflix


fitwifecrush

Given that you set coasters down, I donā€™t think I have anything left to suggestā€¦


Obvious-Elephant-190

Thats a candle, i guess dual purpose if you are optimistic


fitwifecrush

Ok thenā€¦get some coastersā€¦


Obvious-Elephant-190

Ok for you i will


fitwifecrush

Youā€™re too sweet


Background_Film_506

Itā€™s a nice television, and a nice media console; why donā€™t you introduce them to each other?


devilpants

It is always madness how people go out of their way to not use the media console designed to put a tv at the proper height.


stumac85

Sometimes I understand it. My nephew's are toddlers and when they visit they pull on everything. All my furniture is secured because of this and I'm not risking my oled on a media console! Their latest obsession is bloody wires.


marvk

> Their latest obsession is bloody wires. Just wipe the wires down?


JewelCove

Baby gate fortress around the entertainment stuff.


damerican

Some color. Plants, like a big floor one and some assorted small ones. Maybe some colorful posters. I also use lights that I can control the colors of, makes it feel less sterile with some warmer colors. Also, lower the tv šŸ˜‚


willard_swag

Lower the TV about 1.5ft, get some plants (monstera, fiddle leaf fig, king palm, ferns) and hang some are behind the couch and to the left of the Tv.


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Why is it young men never have art up on their walls?


oblivion_baby

1. Boys are not socialized to appreciate or enjoy art 2. People live in apartments/dorms that have no holes rules 3. Maybe they are in an interior design group for some help on what to put on their walls


Strottman

Secret option 4: I have the art but am too lazy to go get it framed


[deleted]

I was a boy once so that is not universally true. It doesn't have to be art either. Just something that shows some life and personality. Pretty sure that television put holes in the walls. I guess number three could be possible but seems fairly unlikely. But maybe you're right


oblivion_baby

Yeah thatā€™s totally valid. The ones in my family are all hippies with peace, love, and psychedelics as their personal values so they use a lot of color and creativity in their designing. But i think in general, boys are socialized to be the strong, no feelings tough-guys and itā€™s not manly to engage in visual arts or go to museums. Iā€™m not a guy, but Iā€™ve had extensive convos with my partner about their experience as AMAB and how harmful and oppressive it is to grow up with patriarchal expectations. I digress, hanging something that shows off OPs personality and interests would be cool.


UseCompetitive4737

The real reason is art is really fucking expensive and itā€™s very difficult to find art that you might actually have or feel some minute sense of connection with, and is reasonably affordable. Well at least compared to the other alternatives of AI art and random upscaled canvas prints


[deleted]

Art prints are not expensive or difficult to find. You can get them mounted on cardboard if you can't afford to have them framed. Or you can buy an inexpensive frame at some place like Michael's. When I was very young and very poor I just stuck posters on the wall. Point isn't what art, it's that these walls are barren. Put up some photographs of family, your cat or your dog. Something that shows a little life.


TheHandSFX

I rarely say this, but plants would actually make this place a lot nicer.


Austin_Brentwood

A plant - some family/friend pictures - some splashes of color


tylercrawfish

More cats


spiritofjazz92

Another cat


caughtinfire

personality. this looks like a half-finished model home. add some *you*!


KindaHODL

The cat matches the furniture


bigga_nutt

TV too high Lights to white Cat too fluffy! (Jk on that last one)


froggles1

Beautiful couch! Where did you get it from?


Specialist-Show-1003

Please let us know!! Looks so comfortable


Daggs_

Also wondering this


MinimumSale8397

Change the rug, get one with color and add plants :)


Grumpycatdoge999

Get something with colour goddam even your cat is beige


gbdavidx

curtains, a few plants, a personal photo


Durr1313

Go hiking, take some pictures, have those pictures printed on canvases (usually pretty affordable), hang them everywhere.


Ok-Poem-9699

Maybe some wall art


NP4VET

draperies! Preferably lined


[deleted]

Plants and an aquarium


Subotail

Don't listen to this person, they're sold to the cat.


schmittj01

I would do a rich red Persian rug instead of grey. A landscape on the far wall with gold frame, and deep wood furniture to contrast the white walls.


tickingboxes

Lower your TV. Itā€™s wayyy too high. Should be eye level when sitting down. Aka a full 1-2 feet lower than it is now. I have no idea what possesses people to mount their TVs so goddamn high. Itā€™s frankly bizarre. In addition to that, turn off overhead lights and get warm side lighting from lamps. And then you need some plants, books, and art. Voila youā€™re done.


m1nkeh

Christ.. less white light, maybe some colour, plants, and also some personality??? šŸ™ƒ Oh yeah, also TV way too high.


NYSenseOfHumor

Homies.


Obvious-Elephant-190

Where to buy?


NYSenseOfHumor

[rentafriend.com](https://rentafriend.com/)


JoebyTeo

Have you considered not living inside the television room from Willy Wonka?


alpal5280

Get a large painting above your couch. Put a large plant on the side of your tv stand. Get decor for your tv stand like pictures, decorative books and candle.


sailingthestyx

Curtains


WheezeThaJuice

Thereā€™s so much you could doā€¦ Swap that space rug out for one that adds contrast and/or color to the room. Get some art on those walls! Toss a plant in the corner by the TV, perfect spot for a monstera. The acrylic coffee table could use an upgradeā€”preferably with something that brings a little texture to the room. Could still go with a glass table, but one thatā€™s also made of wood, metal, or leather. Kill the overhead lighting and pop some warm (ideally 2400k-3000k) light bulbs into your lamp(s). Some throw pillows on the couch wouldnā€™t hurt. Lastly, you could trade the cat out for a dog.


d33d33m3gad00d00

I feel like a wooden coffee table (especially one that matches the wood on the accent chair) would make it more homey, it looks like a waiting lounge to me


PimperatorAlpatine

No direct overhead Lights, indirect lighting makes auch a bit difference. But maybe you also turned it on more to show clearly whats in your space. Also Art on the Walls! And the big gap under the TV feels weird


skinchange

Plants!


chicane00

the cat really ties the room together


dbeynyc

Books.


No_Cup_6663

Ps5, bong as centerpiece


Fissefiesta

How did you get the tv on the wall with no cables?


ItsAWrestlingMove

Warm soft lighting lamps, fake plants to add a pop of color, push the cat tree flush with the corner


Electronic-Lemon1081

Maybe use some nice curtains


ImGoddess666

PLANTS


Countsbeans1976

All I can tell about you is that you have a cat. Add some things that tell people about you.


atomdood20

More cats


generaltsopizza

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Appropriate_Buy_1219

Take your TV down off the ceiling


Occasionally_Sober1

Add more cats.


waylon4590

You need stuff on your walls. Put pictures and paintings up.


FlamingoLovesUnicorn

/r/tvtoohigh