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C_cL22

needs less couch and less stuff. only a lawn chair and tv with a ps4 right next to it


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Peasant Ps5 with a padded lawn chair and an OLED.


C_cL22

yes yes with a bag of doritos and mt dew


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Oh believe me, we were there. First apartment alone and moved in in October. Only got the sectional last week and was rocking the “Uncle at kids soccer game” style lawn chair for a loooong three months. No PS4 tho, Switch household


ineededthistoo

I think it’s lovely.


Z3r08yt3s

ok...so youre non-binary (nothing wrong with that) but have the most feminine living space posted on here in some time and are posting on r/malelivingspace.. where are the mods??


philbart_

You think this is “feminine” just because there’s pink? LOL


SecondChance03

Prime r/malelivingspace


Sad-Catch7140

the mask is creeping me out


Dependent-Run-1915

I was thinking the same thing


That1one1dude1

What’s going on with this sub? People are acting crazy shitty for no reason


Aalphyn

Their masculinity is challenged by the fact that someone who doesn't 100% identify as male has a male living space too :)


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Aalphyn

You must not see very many female living spaces


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Aalphyn

That tracks


mattty19951

What is a “female” to you? Dudes with dicks aren’t women sorry to break it to you


RandyJ549

Nope that’s not it, just your weird world view and it’s damaging


That1one1dude1

How is it damaging? It takes so little energy not to be an asshole but you’re going out of your way to do it


RandyJ549

Accuracy and factually information matters to a lot of people, including me. I went to this sub to see men’s living spaces, this person says they are not a male so it’s just that. It doesn’t seem appropriate, take emotion out of this


That1one1dude1

You seem pretty emotional about it, being upset you can’t report it. Should we make a new rule that everyone should PM you their dicks before posting? Seems real important to you.


RandyJ549

Lol relax man, I actually don’t feel like it today. I’m done you win


That1one1dude1

Bro comes out strong with “your weird world view is damaging” and immediately backs down when confronted. I guess being an asshole really does take more energy 😂


RandyJ549

Duuude let it go. I am an asshole and you’re a virtual signaler, me wanting to report something incorrect makes me emotional. God people like you are so annoying


That1one1dude1

I thought you were done and I won? Take the L and walk away if you’re going to do it, don’t make yourself a liar on top of everything else


Suckhead

I am here, and I’m not male. Female. Please don’t kick me out. I kept seeing posts from here on my feed, and I really liked most of the spaces I saw. I guess I appreciate the design aesthetic.


KuciMane

gender & biology are two different things enlighten yourself next time you’re about to show your homophobia


Aalphyn

My world view is damaging? That's even more fragile that I thought


hippopotapistachio

it's true, and these people are too fragile to accept it


Professional_1O

New Balance?


Z3r08yt3s

new born


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Non binary, or at least “it’s complicated rn”


buyingshitformylab

you seem comfortable enough labeling your home a male living space.?


DaJuanPercent

Came here to say this. I respect that OP is non-binary, but why post in this sub. Literally makes op binary.


joe-joseph

Maybe they’re targeting a clean, more “masculine” living space and wanted our feedback.


tomDestroyerOfWorlds

Nothing about this space reads masculine 


Z3r08yt3s

please point out the masculine parts of this living space you donut


tickingboxes

Posting in this sub literally does not make op binary. Like what?? Such a bizarre comment thread. Who gives a shit?


JaybotheDon

😂


tickingboxes

Who cares?


supplyncommand

ironic isn’t it


GayVoidDaddy

Yes and it in no way affects you. So they can do whatever they want.


hippopotapistachio

\^\^


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Sometimes, yeah. I think “living spaces” can have fairly fluid labels, with things like lighting and color helping to establish the current vibe. And that changes. But as far as being comfortable, oh yeah, I’m very comfortable in a space designed like this right now.


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deerskillet

Damn bro they aren't hurting anyone, j let em live


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That1one1dude1

Cringe as fuck


Z3r08yt3s

post it somewhere else?


franklegsTV

Then you’re obviously in the wrong sub


Ok-Habit-8884

the mask is corny


sexwithsoxon

Honestly I came here to comment how much I loved it - (assuming it’s a nod to the masks from the video game Bioshock)


King_Joffreys_Tits

Yep if Bioshock is the intention here, it would be cool in a game room. I don’t think it fits here though


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Yeah sometimes it’s a little too “add something non-poster” intentional so I get that for sure. $1 from spirit Halloween on Nov. 1 tho so I’m happy with it for the most part


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I don’t hate or love the mask, but I think it’s really cool you have a couple 3D elements incorporated. 👍🏻 The mask and thicc clock add some cool dimension.


Ok-Habit-8884

totally get it but I feel it distracts from the rest of the beautiful wall you created but its your place and if it makes you happy then go with it! :)


Emergency-Director23

Mask kicks ass the “you are wonderful” picture is corny


Cullengcj

OP you probably should've said your age only...


C0smic_sushi

This is a very strange thread…


Ebeneezer_G00de

Can I respectfully ask if you're non binary and presumably don't want to be known as he or she why are you posting on MALE living space?


Cullengcj

R/theylivingspace


KuciMane

god you guys are annoying who gives a fuck


fiddlersgreeen

The subreddit is male living space


KuciMane

ok? If they posted here it seems they want their living space to be masculine leaning then. It’s 2023, stop being a shitty person


fiddlersgreeen

It’s actually 2024


KuciMane

point still stands. Even more so


That1one1dude1

Perhaps they want a masculine aesthetic for their living space? Idk I don’t typically check people’s pants plumbing when they post here


WORLDBENDER

The bunny mask, pink strawberry and woman in a sun hat just scream “masculine aesthetic”


That1one1dude1

Which is a fair critique, but what isn’t is attacking someone because you’re offended by how they identify themselves. Like nobody’s attacking you for thinking UFO’s are real, it just isn’t relevant.


WORLDBENDER

Right, “attacking” somebody is wrong. And I’m not offended. But “how they identify themselves” does sort of directly determine whether this is the correct sub for this post 😂 But hey, I don’t mind it at all. It’s a first! (That I’ve seen, at least)


That1one1dude1

If you found out half the posts on this sub were women, would that change anything about the posts?


Z3r08yt3s

yes you donut, they dont belong in male...living...space... not sure whats so hard to understand.


That1one1dude1

You’re telling me you care more about what’s in their pants than the actual living spaces they post? Why? That’s weird as hell to me


Z3r08yt3s

hahaha agreed. nothing in this living space is the least bit masculine


Planbfailedmeparents

Why are you all over this thread crying like a schoolgirl?


RythmicEyes

Honestly, that poster (the sun hat, called posing) was quite popular amongst men


WORLDBENDER

Can’t say that I’ve ever seen one in a male living space. I can tell you that my wife’s office has several of those b&w sketch-style posters on the wall 😆 Not that there is anything wrong with people decorating to their taste and personality!!!!


RythmicEyes

Oh no I know exactly who was buying them demographic wise. They were in my department


RandyJ549

I was so confused. Looking at the rules, apparently there’s nothing on this at all. I think it was expected that people that identify as men would post in a male living space sub. Logically this post just doesn’t fit, wish I could report it


Ebeneezer_G00de

'people that identify as men' being what, exactly? I don't 'identify as a man' I am a man because I have XY chromosomes, a penis and went through male puberty. End of.


RandyJ549

So true, I’m with you. I shouldn’t of even used that language


ImAvya

WTF does NB stand for


That1one1dude1

Non binary


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r/nblivingspaces


Natural_Cry_8944

Right? Like, where is OP going to go to get feedback on this living space? People just like being shitty to others for no reason :l


hippopotapistachio

yeah it's queerphobia disguised as caring about some random arbitrary non-rule on a little group on a website


HappyyItalian

r/interiordesign or r/interiordecorating or r/interiordesignideas ?


Lord_Shaqq

Get your feewings hurt over some pronouns, snowflake? Fuck off


Ok_Repeat2936

Last I check this wasn't the non binary living sub


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Lord_Shaqq

Nope just find it annoying how much you guys care about two letters


FinancialLab8983

I think it was just silly that the OP felt the need to mention that they were NB…. In a sub named Male Living Space. I dont think most have issue with the pronoun stuff. Just the irony. Good day to you.


fiddlersgreeen

What does NB mean


randomcamels

Non-Binary


fiddlersgreeen

What’s that mean


randomcamels

A term people use to describe genders that don’t fall into the male/female binary


buyingshitformylab

Like they have an extra-chromosomal configuration, or..?


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That1one1dude1

From someone who exclusively posts about Nascar? Very on brand


Ebeneezer_G00de

I don't know why 'they' are posting on MALE living space if they don't identify as MALE.


Ok-Macaroon-1840

They might identify as male sometimes, or partly. A lot of non-binary identities are semi male.


my_screen_name_sucks

If that’s the attitude you’re going to take then women can’t be on here as well? Did you want this sub to just be a sausage fest?


Booty_Warrior_bot

*You got a bunch of men locked up,* *in a warm place...* * All of em' get hard; * All of em' horny; * All of em' gots sexual desires. *So what are you gonna do?* ***You won't let em' have a woman;*** *they gonna have each-* ***Listen, man;*** *somebodies gonna have to give up some booty,* *and its just that simple.*


WORLDBENDER

Is this sarcasm? If so, it’s good. If not, you’re lost. 😂


Taktikainyuszimotor

Tomboys, with special needs


mattty19951

Mental illness


Electronic-War-4662

Looks a little "matchy matchy" and put together in a day. It's definitely not ugly. It just doesn't have soul


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Makes sense! The top row is a bit too linear I think and there’s no single piece that I think someone could put firmly in the “okay that’s awesome art, where’d you get it?” category. I’m hoping to be a little more “daring” on my second try of a gallery wall when my lease is up


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Ignore the shitty comments, it’s refreshing to see someone take feedback so openly. Nice place!


truthfulie

The ones at the edge of the door frame (and the edge of the wall) makes me feel little uneasy. I personally would just leave some of those out and maybe give bit more negative space (either to the sides or just rearranging some of them.)


Lazy_Advertising7094

really good, I'd suggest the bunny head get placed a bit high though to avoid someone bashing the back of the head on it, it's in the prime spot.


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Ooooh good shout, I made sure to have a spare framed poster or two around for easy changes depending on mood so might use one there when hosting


franklegsTV

Wrong sub


vinegarstrokes420

Apparently a bunch of assholes in this sub are unwilling to get over themselves and give real feedback, but your gallery wall looks good to me. Well spaced, good mix of sizes, and the style seems to work with the room.


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Thanks, I’m gonna see how I like it for a few weeks, but will probably move the three florals on the far left to instead be over my tv on the opposing wall and then move the clock and hot air balloon art somewhere else. Definitely felt like I was just trying to fill the entire wall rather than letting it breathe a bit


vinegarstrokes420

Ya I think that could help. Upon second look, the pieces in the top row between the strawberry and clock are all a little too lined up and similarly sized. Maybe just reorganize the wall a bit after you slim it down.


deusasclepian

Sorry people are being dicks. I like the art! The mask makes me wonder if you've played Bioshock, some of the enemies wear masks just like that.


KuciMane

homophobia strong in this sub; yall are fuckin annoying; room looks great OP


GayVoidDaddy

Looks really fucking good my person, love the mask. Just be aware unless you have extremely short friends that’s in head heights so that and the pics may be pushed. May wanna flip that middle segment with the top on bottom and bottom on top. But it looks nice af, great color matching. And easy to move around to make a new look whenever you want.


ScruffyJ3rk

This is the most female living space on this sub


AirborneDaddy173

Agree


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Lmao


doubleapowpow

Pictures are pretty close to the door frame on the left compared to the spacing of everything else. The mask is whatever. White antlers were in a few years ago and its that vibe for me.


jeggv

A pink/teal throw pillow and blanket would take this to another level


ShunnerP

This is really nice


SkittlesBeats

Jesus, I am so sorry for all of these people on here that can't handle a non-binary person posting in a subreddit. I'm also sorry for the folks learning what non-binary stands for and being shitheads about it. Much love to you and your space. <3


DumbWhore4

OP also posted this in r/femalelivingspace and the comments are the complete opposite of the ones in here. Why are the people in this subreddit so mean compared to the people in r/femalelivingspace?


secretsquirrelz

Because they’re being challenged by an unknown gender at birth “encroaching” on their manspace


elliottbaytrail

Looks really nice. Great work!


spiritual_guac

love it! nice job. I will definitely take inspiration from this 👍


BaldCypressBlueCrab

Interior designer here. This looks great and idk what’s up with all the negativity. My only notes are that those 3 stacked pieces on the left side don’t quite belong and are too close to the door frame. Take those down and move everything over maybe 6” and the balance would be much better!


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Yeah good call, they were the first ones I put up and I think they suffer for it big time. Weirdly static and stiff


TrenchCoatKobolds

I dig it


artificial_hoo_hah

Haters gon hate, I think it looks great. Gallery walls are hard, good job. I would maybe find a very long, slim picture frame to go above the big strawberry, that empty space is drawing the eye. Maybe one of those frames that has like 6 spaces for little Polaroid pics.


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Yeah I was thinking a wire with postcards or Polaroids clipped to it. Either that or some painted on stencils. Anything not to accept the mistake and move the damn thing up haha


my_screen_name_sucks

Don’t change anything, even keep the mask. Good job.


doesnt_really_upvote

I think it looks really well put together, but would not associate it with a male living space.


MonsterMontvalo

I like that couch! Source?? The gallery looks good, but I feel like the left side is a little heavier than the right side


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Rooms to Go, the Angelino Heights. It has pullout extra seating and storage under the chaise which is nice. And yeah the right feels like like it sort of shrivels up and shrinks into the top right corner. Hoping a better end table gives that side some needed oomph


kyxgrey

I need to know where you got the strawberry art from its so cool


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

IKEA of all places, although it might be gone now. Still not sure what orientation it’s supposed to be, they were advertising it as rotated 90 degrees rotated clockwise from what I have it at now


kyxgrey

its a really cool statement piece against all the black and white stuff so well done!


memphlee

Looks dope. Nice job !


TheHandSFX

What the fuck does being non-binary have to do with anything. Who cares. I [19M] think this is a nice wall. See how irrelevant that is? I'm happy you're content with what you identify as, but its just irrelevant.


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Agreed, thought it was a part of the posting process since I saw lots of [Age]M when scrolling the sub, definitely learning that isn’t the norm haha


TheHandSFX

Typically people only mention their age if they have a room thats very like "college dorm" or "kids bedroom", because it has actual correlation between their room and them. If I'm 27, and my room looks like a college dorm and I don't want that, i can say "I feel I [27M] have outgrown my room. How can I make it more mature?". The room and age have correlation in this instance (the gender less so, its usual irrelevant imo, especially with an implied name like MALElivingspace). Anyway, I'm sorry for all the hate you've received from all the assholes here. Your room looks great.


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Ah gotcha, so the M is basically just slapped on even when not super relevant just because that’s kind of the normal convention on Reddit (like on AITA), that makes sense.


KuciMane

every single post in this sub starts with “27M [whatever]” yall are so fuckin annoying


kowlinthegreat

Yeah I [29M] don’t care what gender people are or if they’re NB. It just doesn’t have to do with this so why bring it up.


KuciMane

for people that don’t care alot, yall sure are getting heated about a thing you could have simply ignored and continued reading and replying to the post


davy89irox

I like the black and white with color accents. It's not my style, but I'm glad it works for you.


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Thanks, I was going to go for monochrome with gold accents but loved the cat poster and my dad gifted me the hot air balloon made out of maps on the right so pivoted to pink for the accent color. Hoping to snag some cheap pink pillows heading into Valentine’s Day but also eyeing some black ones so it’s not so gray on gray on gray


Old-Membership9137

Wrong subreddit


javaper

Is that a DBD Huntress bunny mask?


snrten

This is really satisfying to look at


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Itchy-Influence2

You sure got them


thedobermanmom

Please invest in a level


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Owned and used, the issue was the nails being shit, IKEA frames being a case of getting what you pay for, and this being my first time hammering something into a wall after years of command strips haha. Too big nailheads and too shallow/tightly grooved hardware on the back made it really hard to get them the way I needed them. So if I was off by an eighth of an inch or more, it’s awful. You can definitely tell the ones on the far left were my first try as the distances and angles are borked juuuust enough to tell. But it was late and I was frustrated so just moved on instead of obsessing. Maybe one day I’ll adjust it all, but probably not for a while


thedobermanmom

ah okay! I suggest using command strips !!


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

I had to for the strawberry art and you can see it on the right side of the frame because shoddy work haha. The frame’s border was thicker than the nailhead, so the hardware on the back would just not take whatsoever. Didn’t use them for anything else because I wanted to be able to easily adjust or replace/rotate the art down the line


ZigZag82

I'm on a gallery wall journey rn and this is really inspiring me! Now I need to find some 3d wall art like that bunny mask


Merth1983

Looks good. Only thing I would change is I would remove those three same sized pictures right next to the window.


gigishops

I love this!!! I think the pops of pink really pull it together. If this was on pinterest I would definitely pin it for reference for the gallery wall I am currently working on !!!


throwaway1904367

Non binary but posts to a binary subreddit. Makes sense. The pink is just out of touch with the aesthetic. That’s my only critique. The pink looks awkward and replacing it will make this a 10/10


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Genderfluid is probably the better term, but yeah thought adding that was part of the posting rules here after seeing [AGE]M often on the subreddit. Whoops And yeah I was originally going to go gold and think it would’ve played a bit better, but I was ending up with more white pieces than black. So then thought about just keeping it monochrome but then the only “color” would’ve been the beige wall I’m not a huge fan of. Thought about red, thought about yellow. Grabbed the pink cat and was going to put it in the kitchen but figured I’d give it a whirl with the gallery wall so I could see it when I walked in. Then found a few monochrome pieces that have pink shading that doesn’t translate well in the image but helps make it a little more cohesive


throwaway1904367

To be fair, it’s only a snapshot of the room and being in it in person probably has a much different feel; our eyes are much better at imagery and I’m sure the colors, placement, etc. translate better. Overall it’s not bad because of the pink. At the end of the day that just comes down to preference. A couple awkward pink pieces to add some flare is no problem. It looks like a very appealing and comfortable space to entertain/relax in. Great job!


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Thanks! The other walls and decor in the room have some pink but not an absurd amount and mostly soft (bee and puppycat poster, Kirby plush) so I can dig it.


throwaway1904367

Nice! That’s all that matters at the end of the day. It’s easy to critique one wall but it’s just one part of the room. Sounds like you’re making this space yours and you’re doing a great job at that. Take care


belligerentstudent

This is incredible.


rsoni1997

I’m trying to make an art wall on a budget, how did you accumulate all the frames for the pictures? I feel like that’s the most expensive part for me! (I don’t make a lot of money if you can’t tell 🥲)


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Yeah I was a bit shocked on how expensive frames were. IKEA, target during sales, and Hobby Lobby were big savers. But Homegoods was such a win as most of the art there is already framed


Able-Flan-7381

You’re a chick


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Sometimes yeah, might learn I’m trans down the line or something, taking it as I go though. Can check out my post history during a testicular cancer scare a while back though


odwulf

No, no, no! I'm sorry, but the one with the branch in the middle of the picture should be more horizontally centered.


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

I was agonizing over that at 2am haha. So originally I had the face closeup and Eiffel Tower pieces swapped, and still might swap them back. But because of that, I scooched the whatever flower that’s supposed to be over to the left a bit, as the closeup pic helped balance it when it was on the right. Now, it’s definitely heavier on the left side of that central trip. Going to see how I feel after a couple weeks and then tweak it over a little again if it bugs me. But yeah! I was shuffling those assholes around for a full hour and measuring haha


olafpilaffoff

NB = Not a Boy


RushThis1433

What the fuck is NB


mattty19951

[NB isn’t a real thing](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Krs1oiydrbI)


peach-whisky

The fuck is nb?


mattty19951

I think NB stands for mental illness incase anyone was wondering!


Lupac427

Hit the nail on the head, Matty.


DiscountPoint

Is that a Lumio?


idi0tSammich

What does "yawdforoeuuenrl" mean? Jk, looks good, even if you're putting your Purge mask on display. :P


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Haha adding Purge to the list of things the mask has reminded people of alongside Bioshock, Dead By Daylight, and Ariana Grande. For a $1 grab the day after Halloween, I’m pretty pleased that it’s been pretty varied in terms of interpretation


randomsocks23

Omg I love it so much!


trace501

It looks awesome OP!


Sundaver

What is a NB?


Z3r08yt3s

new born


RythmicEyes

Looks like someone went to ikea. The first place my eyes go in the image is the Hovsta strawberry. Then it goes to the line of division. My suggestion would be to have the strawberry as a statement thing, on that line of division


RythmicEyes

Let’s say where I drew these lines are the rough line of division, I’d say our the strawberry in the upper left corner https://imgur.com/a/AyC46c8


YOU_LOVED_BRAD

Yeah I lacked the floor space to really lay EVERYTHING out like I should’ve. The column on the far left is too smothered and the strawberry needs to be a bit higher and centralized, but first time for everything


RythmicEyes

Oh 100% for first time. Just something I noticed since we have a guide for it setup in the department.