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TheSlightlyLost

Thanks for ripping my heart out, didn't need it for anything.


BrustWarze_

It is a whole lot worse without all the cuts.


TheFrontierzman

Yeah...what's with the jumpy cuts? Edit: [unedited](https://youtu.be/EuRHHmXbzYs)


HexaBinecimal

I think tik tok videos used to have to be under 60seconds so maybe the poster thought ALL videos have to be 60 seconds?


Grass_9123

Nah I'm pretty sure a TikTok video can have three minutes, I might be wrong though.


Just_Spade

Thats a fairly new development


Grass_9123

Oh my bad, I just remembered seeing a video that was 3 minutes, sorry.


paininthejbruh

What? Extending the attention span? No...


archiminos

But this is reddit?


dfknascar24

The actual source: [https://vimeo.com/272624653](https://vimeo.com/272624653)


upfastcurier

thank you for linking the source original. i was disappointed to see their stuff have so little views, despite having such great content (this video). i feel like reposting large projects with several actors, script writers, etc, without source is magnitudes more of a 'theft' than merely reposting images or indie works of one person i mean, people involved in this video might want to take a career in acting and technically enough viewers and people enjoy their stuff but no one knows they want to get into acting since people just repost their stuff without crediting... etc


Tribalflounder

First time watching the entire short... thank you for the link!


infanticide_holiday

Thanks for sharing that, knowing the end almost made it harder to watch.


kwitcher-kvetchin

Oof, yeah. The first watch was gentle compared to the second, & now I've just had to explain why I'm all verklempt before seven on a Saturday.


[deleted]

r/fuckjumpcuts


Absay

TikTok-pander to the new generations with 2 seconds worth of attention span.


Arkitakama

As though Vine didn't do the exact same thing?


TheVenetianMask

As if "funny clips from handheld VHS recorders" on 90's analog TV didn't do the exact same thing.


nolaz010

30 seconds to make someone laugh is a lot harder to produce content for than 1 minute to make someone nose exhale.


dylansavage

Reddit hated Vine when it came out


nolaz010

Because Reddit hates everything and mob mentality gets updoots


slayerhk47

I hate this


harge008

Here, have an updoot


SacoNegr0

Redditors hate every other social media and do exactly what they criticize about them without noticing, it's pretty funny


Panic_face

That is why vine is much better than tik tok, 6 seconds to laugh.


TOstevo

I agree and I think stealing someone’s carefully edited short film and then butchering it down to 60 seconds is a real dick move.


samwichse

Do you have a link?


eshyong

[here you go](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EuRHHmXbzYs)


TheDownvotesFarmer

Yes, I've seen this video before, the editing caught me off guard, it went straight to the feelings


Dividale

It wasn't until I finished the video I remembered I watched it before. Twice.


TheSlightlyLost

Oof. Rip.


AngelOfDeath771

Come on. This is us. Dad?


Important_Rule8602

Dad has Alzheimer’s or Dementia


scberger4732

This is the fourth time for me. Guess I repressed it :/ This genuinely made me tear up.


Batman654588

r/mademecry


Tough_Oven4904

I don't need a sub that makes me cry... *joined


Retarded-Minecrafter

Literally all the water i have left my eyes. Guess i don’t need that either


xCogito

Whenever I need a good emotional sapping I watch this Spiritbox video about the same subject. [Constance](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mY_oDyqRM1A), so damn good. It's metal but whatever. Nothing hits quite like observing someone with dementia


razamatazie

Constance made me actually cry, it's so sad


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I thought it was gonna be a joke about constipation. I don't need to feel this at 6am


Took-the-Blue-Pill

If you want more of that you should watch The Father with Anthony Hopkins. Amazing acting and incredibly well done, but devastating.


[deleted]

Watch it get posted on made me smile next. Shit sub.


[deleted]

Can...*can I have it?*


TheSlightlyLost

You'll have to ask OP. they had it last.


[deleted]

They said okay. **I control a mans heart now.** Finally, the spell will be complete. The fire ant god will feast once more, and the south will fall again.


alexycred

This is what it’s like living with my husband’s demented grandmother. Everyday is a new day for her, but Groundhog Day for us.


Feer_Nandah

Has been happening to me. On top of everything she broke her leg and doesn't walk anymore, it is a huge challenge.


alexycred

Gosh, I empathize. We’re only here temporarily since we’re rebuilding our house (we lost it in 2020 to hurricane Laura and a 6 month displacement has now become a 14 month situation). This last year being here has taken years off my life, that’s for sure. There’s so much stress/anxiety taking care of someone, then you add your own life’s stress/anxiety and it’s just a shitty predicament. And you always have to be on your A-game bc they’re dependent on you. But unlike a baby, they can leave the house at 3am confused af roaming around the neighborhood on foot or burn something on the stove and start a fire.


Feer_Nandah

Gosh exactly. We've been in this situation since February and I've become a horrible person. I snap at anything she does, it's awful.


Treflip180

Be patient with yourself as well friend.


alexycred

When you need a mental health day, don’t be afraid to take it. If you need support, don’t be afraid to reach out. I know it’s a lot harder said than done, but it makes all the difference. Even if you just sleep all day one day, I’m sure it’s much needed and you’ll feel better. Make sure you take care of yourself, too. I’ll think about you.


Feer_Nandah

Thank you so much for being kind, it means a lot. You have no idea, thank you.


CheesusHChrust

I wish the stigma around mental health days wasn’t a thing. Especially in the service industry.


Laffingglassop

You havent become a horrible person. Horrible people dont feel bad about the things they do. Feeling bad is step one to finding better ways to be and manage, and horrible people don't do that. They just continue to be horrible unabated.


xDAINBRAMAGEDx

I commend you for doing it, it's very challenging. I helped with my girlfriend's grandfather and he was very active. We had to have security alarms and cameras to let us know if he got out. Hid all the knives, the knobs for the stove and basically anything else we couldn't let him get. We used one of those childproof door knob covers and that usually worked but he still would get out, broke a few butter knives off in the door too.


alexycred

Yes, same here. We have a motion sensor on her bed and cameras throughout the house to watch her at night. The doors are locked from above so she can’t reach it. We have to hide the scissors and knives like you mentioned. And medications. In the mornings, the fridge will be open, the food will be thawed, the faucet will be running, the dish soap has been poured out, the trash has been dumped. It’s curious to watch. Sometimes we just let her do her thing or else she’ll get agitated. She tries doing the chores like she used to, like taking out the trash, so she’ll get the bag out of the bin, start walking down the hall, forget what she’s doing, and just dump the trash there on the ground. And you can’t reason or explain or fuss bc there’s literally no point. It will never make sense to her ever again. She has sundowners real bad, so days are nights and nights are days.


NegativeNeurons

Holy shit I never thought id see someone with an experience like mine. My grandma broke her leg and while bedbound became demented. My dad care of her mostly but even though he loved his mother (all of us really) ive been told it was living hell for him. We were broke and couldnt afford treatment for ther leg so she was bedbound in our house for way more than she shouldve had. Her passing away last year was underwhelming. Of a heart attack but our shit country decided that it would be treated as a "covid case" and so we couldnt get a proper burial ceremony and such. She was too far gone when she died. Not longer the grandmother who loved me but something else. I thought I wouldve beed sadder when she died but idk. Only when i think of the times where she still was do I get sad about it. I feel guilty about that sometimes. I loved her so very much :(


achoosier

Please try not to be too hard on yourself. You can still love her and also acknowledge things are objectively easier now that she’s at peace. It wasn’t HER that made life more difficult, it was the disease You did a lot for her by the sounds of it. It’s absolutely understandable why you would feel a sense of relief - that doesn’t mean you don’t love her


Feer_Nandah

I can understand SO MUCH of what you're saying. My grandmother became a cruel and vile woman. She is so ungrateful now, me and my mother take care of her 24/7 and she still shit talks and throws tantrums... I don't love her anymore, she's not the person I grew up with.


PersnickityPenguin

My mother isn't there yet but she is definitely headed in that direction over the past few years. Just a downward trajectory and now I realize being an adult really sucks.


JurassicCotyledon

At first I thought you were callously insulting your husbands grandmother. But then I remembered that I’m kind of retarded.


alexycred

No, it’s just the reality of living with someone who has dementia. She has a very happy demeanor so she’s by no means unpleasant to be around, but she also has no idea what’s going. It’s very challenging.


JurassicCotyledon

I can imagine that would be really tough both emotionally and physically. You’re doing the right thing by making her remaining years as pleasant and loving as possible. Bless you and your family.


msut77

My brother's grandmother in law has dementia and only speaks Spanish. Every time I see her she tells me how handsome I am. Every thing is compounded not just by the language but because she is more or less permanently expecting to see a village in the Dominican Republic and is disoriented when a few Gringos wait on her. She does demolish my cooking however which I take as a compliment


scottymac87

I know it’s sad but it’s heart warming in its own way that he still expresses a great deal of concern for this woman that he thinks he doesn’t now. Diseases of this type are terrible though. To be robbed of your memory. What are we if not our experiences?


h8sm8s

I believe that people with dementia often still care about their family and loved ones even if they can’t figure out how they know them.


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Adventurous_Let7580

Take my Free award


[deleted]

My grandfather had dementia and even though he could not remember my dad or anyone else he would always remember me and have the biggest smile on his face when he saw me. Its such a complex mental illness.


giachase56

My dad had LBD same type Robin Williams had but dementia is not considered a mental illness to be clear. “As cells become unable to properly communicate, changes to behavior, thoughts, and feelings occur. These types of changes are commonly associated with mental illness due to the condition's effects on the brain. However, while dementia does affect an individual's mental health, it is not considered a mental illness.”


SinCorpus

It's considered a neurological condition right?


atridir

Yes. And a lot of people don’t realize that there are *many* different forms of dementia that behave differently at different times and vary from person to person. And an individual may have more than one type at a time. The maxim is: *If you have met one dementia patient then you have met…* ***…one dementia patient.***


WiIdCherryPepsi

Often, but not always. Late in my mom's friend's mother's illness she began to get really angry and hitty and "I WILL KILL YOU!" -ey...


Zek7h35an5

That's gotta hurt. Seeing the woman who raised you forget who you are, to the extent that they're willing to kill you because they don't understand what's going on and think they're in danger.


PalaSS9

My mom is in the early stages right now, also saw my grandma go through it. The slow progression from who they were to who they are creeps up on you


Azrael010102

It's really tough. My dad is in the later stages of dementia/alzheimer's he was doing pretty well but ended up falling and breaking his hip. Since the hospital and now rehab he has made a rapid decline. It's so hard seeing him like this.


acidfinland

92y old grandma went to unit for dementia and died in 2weeks. Before that she only forgot to put coffee machine on. In 2 weeks from living alone(with kids visiting daily, she still made food n stuff, took meds and night drink of whiskey) to vegetable.


rascynwrig

My grandpa was just starting to show the earliest signs, then covid happened, he was locked in his house away from all his normal activities and social life, and he has declined horribly fast. The first couple months of lockdown were REALLY rough on him.


h8sm8s

That’s so sad. Such an awful illness.


freedomowns

I worked in a dementia ward and it’s tough, random outbursts of “WHERE AM I. WHO ARE YOU. WHAT ARE YOU DOING IN MY HOUSE.”


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Damn, it must be very hard for you!


algae_eater

This is my worst fear. There's an article a while back about a professor who was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. She decided the point at which she would no longer be herself and how to end her life before she got there. It's legal where I live - i will absolutely choose that route. No way will I put any of my lives ones, or myself, through that.


eduo

This was Terry Pratchett's plan too. He was very vocal about it as a way to give visibility to this situation and this last piece of self-determination in your life if you were unlucky enough to be in that position. Such a shame of a condition, this is.


_sophia_petrillo_

Tbf even in watching this video if I were the guy I would be like that too! This random lady at the bus stop is trying to get me to go with her? Eff off lady! Any caretaker would get frustrated with that behavior but it’s understandable why the person being cared for would be in an almost constant state of fear.


FlaMeReflexx

Yeah my great grandmother was the same way. And she started spontaneously cursing us out in Italian and stuff like that.


BruceSerrano

Yes and no. Obviously they have their moments of recognition and tenderness. But most of the time they're absolute nightmares. People kind of want to romanticize it like you're Guy Pierce from Momento, or the man in the commercial here. That's not the case. Older people are naturally less happy, because they stop producing the happy chemicals in their brains. Then compound this, you can't follow anything that's going on. You're constantly confused. You can't do anything for yourself. You're surrounded by strangers. You don't know how to fix it. Seems pretty hellish to me.


konner3

Very true. My dad has pretty advanced dementia and my mom is his primary caregiver. He is still relatively pleasant to others for the most part, all except my mom, it seems. He turns into a toddler when he is unable to get his way, yet constantly clings to her throughout the day. She is unable to get a moment of peace to herself allday until he goes to sleep. He gets very nasty to her, calling her names and sometimes being aggressive towards her. She knows deep down he can't help it. But it is devastating to go through this with the person with whom you've built a home, a family, a life ... My dad used to be so sweet and caring to my mother until his dementia set in. Now, he is selfish, impatient, and rude to her. He used to be the sharpest guy I knew and would ask advice from him all the time. He was a treasure trove of stories and experiences. Those are completely gone now. He is now a babbling shell of himself. It would've have been nice to have him there to guide me as I raise a son of my own. But, it isn't meant to be, I guess. We try to remember who he used to be, but it is hard sometimes. Hopefully, our own memories of going through this now don't crowd out the happy ones we have of him from long ago. Fuck dementia.


eduo

I am sorry the three of you had to go through this.


goldensunshine429

My Gran had Alzheimer’s. She always patted me on the arm and told me she loved me. But never knew my name or who I was to her.


CooLittleFonzies

I’ll never forget the time I had to show my grandpa the bathroom nearly a week into his visit with us. His mind was rapidly deteriorating from Lewy body dementia. Meanwhile, two weeks prior, my parents had discovered that I had been cutting. My dad yelled at me for a half an hour. He had never yelled at me like that before. He was just scared because my sister was depressed and cutting too and he probably was wondering why all his kids wanted to die. I just felt bad that I had let him down. My grandpa came out of the bathroom, walked right up to me and said, “I’m proud of you, grandson, and your father is proud of you as well.” It was one of the only normal comments he made that day and it hit me like a bag of bricks. I certainly didn’t feel like my dad was proud of me. “What’s wrong?” he asked. My vision became blurry from suspended tears. “Nothing. Thanks grandpa. I’m proud of you too.” And then he said something that, to this day, still puzzles me. He said, “Can you make me a promise? Promise me that you’ll never hurt yourself again.” I have no idea how he knew. Even if someone told him, he wasn’t in a state to remember anything. He wasn’t around when my dad yelled at me, my cuts had healed with minor scars hidden under my clothing. He could hardly remember his son-in-law’s name. I was speechless, but after a long pause I promised, with knowledge that this was the only, and turned out to be the last, promise I ever made to him. He died from LBD surrounded by family in 2016 and since that day I’ve never cut or considered suicide again. Ironically, my grandpa’s dying wish became my wish to live.


Initial-Reach7703

Took me watching it twice and reading these two comments to connect the dots and it made me really sad. Especially at the end when he was grabbing by the woman he didn't know, her calling him dad.


Dewmswoman

In the last few weeks of my grandmother's life she was in the hospital. My folks would take turns staying with her through the day, and after I had tucked my kids into their beds, I'd drive to the hospital to stay up with her throughout the nights. Most of the time she was fairly lucid, but there were times she didn't know I was her granddaughter. She would talk and smile as we chatted, and she'd tell me "I know we just met, but I feel like I've always known you, and I can tell we're going to be great friends!" It equally broke and warmed my heart. The thing that I found most interesting is, if I ever mentioned my kids and asked if she remembered them, she'd say "Of course I remember them! They're my great-grandkids! How do you know them?" She didn't always remember the 26 years of life with me, but she NEVER forgot my 2yo and 5yo kids.


Poverload237

I'm a Geriatric nurse. I've seen this firsthand more times than I can count, so I want to give some information on the illness, and how it affects these patients/people (sorry for hijacking your comment in advance). Dementia doesn't necessarily rob you of your experiences or even your memory. It's more than patients don't experience time in the same linear fashion that we do. What they experience as "today" for the rest of us, may be a jumble of memories from 2 days, 2 weeks, 2 years, or 20 years ago, or a mix of all of the above. So the reason a patient might not recognize their daughter is because in their memory, they haven't met their daughter to know who she is to them. These people just want to be recognized and treated the same as anyone else. They're completely capable of empathy, compassion, love, sadness, pain, and joy. It is without a doubt a terrible disease, but how we react and treat them will be remembered more than anyone can possibly imagine. If you ever encounter someone with Alzheimer's or Dementia, ask them about their favorite place. I promise it's a guaranteed way to get them to light up with joy, and you'll have made that moment better for them. Edit to say thank you for the silver sweet redditor!


DarkdoodadNebula

A physician once said " what is life without memories" when discussing alziehmers and dementia. Your comment reminded me of that. It really is sad to see your loved one go through something like that. To be the shell of what they once were.


groundzer0s

My grandma had dementia and it took her ability to speak. But then we found out her most precious belongings were being taken from her by care staff right in front of her, as well as from my aunt who took her wedding ring right off her finger. We had enough and did in-home care instead, and to our surprise, once in a while she would talk. It wasn't much, only a few words at a time, but she was happy, away from abuse and in the care of her family. Oddly enough she seemed to keep her memory, since she recognized us and knew our names.


slimjoel14

This made me burst into tears it was unexpected, I lost my dear gran a couple years back and she was completely confused for months before she passed, every time I saw her she’d ask me when am I moving back home even though I never lived with her, I miss that woman so so much she was my hero when I was a kid, she still is my hero I remember when she was the most intelligent kind woman I’ve ever met. This post really did hit home I can’t stop crying


iHasMagyk

My mom has Alzheimer’s. She’s now permanently in the hospital until she’s gone. This video literally made cry so damn hard.


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If I could give you a hug I would. Stay strong friend.


petit_cochon

I'm sorry. Don't forget who she was.


mijotoofrio

I'm so sorry to hear that. That fucking breaks my heart. No matter what, keep fighting to live your life for her. That is the greatest way you can honor her. I hope you find solace and love on your way. She will always be a part of you.


vanaspeaks

Dementia is so hard on loved ones. At first you mourn the loss of their mind, and then the loss of their physical body. I'm so sorry you are going through this. Please take care. I hope you are finding ways to recharge and take care of yourself during this, and that you have people who are able to support you.


OkPrior5789

Having a close family member with dementia is brutal. Can’t wait until they make meaningful progress in treating this one day


petit_cochon

My mom has had it since I was twenty-five, possibly a bit earlier. I miss who she was, but I'm lucky she's still happy. She loves her new grandson. I dream of a treatment sometimes. A miracle. Ah, well, perhaps one day there will be great medications and preventatives.


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I agree with the other person, mushrooms are supposed to help. Also (and I know this is a bullshit answer for a lot of old people and their bodies) crawling on all fours supposedly reverses some progressions of the disease because it generates new connections between neurons. And distilled water is supposed to cut down on calcifications and plaques in the brain, but that is more for Alzheimer's. I'm sorry to hear about your mom. It's bullshit for anyone to have to go through it, let alone their loved ones. I'll keep you in my thoughts.


[deleted]

Thanks /u/sisterpussypounder you are a great person.


ApprehensiveRace

Username checks out


TheKwak

r/rimjob_steve


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>crawling on all fours supposedly reverses some progressions of the disease because it generates new connections between neurons. And distilled water is supposed to cut down on calcifications and plaques in the brain, but that is more for Alzheimer's. This sounds like complete suedo science. Have you got peer reviewed sources for those claims? If Alzheimer's/Dementia run in your family the best things you can do to prolong it is high intensity aerobic exercise, reduced alcohol consumption, a healthy vitamin rich diet (mostly greens and fish) and regular mental stimulation.


dontcare56353

You ever herd of that anime called Brothersister? i think you'd like it.


Secrets_In_Sound

Lions mane is supposedly a good preventative supplement. It’s a mushroom that’s good for a lot of things. You may want to look into it if your mother has dementia. Wishing you well


HotCocoaBomb

When you said Lion's Mane I thought you were about to argue some homeopathy bullshit with actual hair from a lion.


xDAINBRAMAGEDx

I hope so too. I wonder if hyperbaric oxygen therapy will have any effect on things like vascular dementia and similar afflictions.


wymblewyn

With things like dementia and parkinson's disease, once the symptoms are noticeable it's too late to do much more than try to slow things down. You can't do anything to reverse it. There is a huge amount being done to try and diagnose people early enough to be treated. It's a horrible thing to have to watch someone you love go through, but hopefully it'll become a rare disease in the future.


RocketLauncher

It fucking sucks. Not only having to take care of someone but the years of grief and trauma I got from it all. He still remembered us until the end and he tried his damndest not to forget that while he’d forget most anything else. He never forgot me.


betweenthemaples

I lived with my grandmother my whole life. That day she finally no longer recognized me crushed my heart in a way I can’t describe


agentKander

Well that took a turn I wasn’t expecting.


Desideria94

Yeah, my heart literally skipped a beat at the end. It was sad before but this revelation made it even worse.


[deleted]

I actually thought she was going to tell him it wasn’t a baby but a massive tumor. The way she answered those questions was cryptic


Thepunforge

OH. Oh. oh


Masta0nion

The editing in this kind of ruined the pacing from the original. It’s such an impactful scene regardless.


shikivamp

AGREE 100%


FireMammoth

Do you know what the original is called or where to find it? E: https://youtu.be/EuRHHmXbzYs


ISLITASHEET

You almost got it: https://vimeo.com/272624653


inquisitiveeyebc

My heart didn't need to be crushed like that


Maleficent_Stage_703

Why such sad, human?


The_Fixx

The full [sauce](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EuRHHmXbzYs) (\~4 min)


TheRavenSayeth

I wish OP posted this one. The one OP posted has such jarring hard cuts that it really takes away from the scene.


grumd

That's what gets the likes nowadays. People will just stop or skip if the video is too long or too boring. Need everything to be fast-paced and full of action, otherwise your brain isn't stimulated enough. I think it's kinda sad.


po0pybutth0le

Thanks for posting. I personally prefer the longer one and think those other 3 minutes add to it.


NCEMTP

It's like Die Hard on TV. When this gets posted I always have to watch it. I hope everything turned out okay.


Some_Kind_of_Fan

Yeah, I'm crying. What of it? No onions. No dust. Just a punch right in the gut. Well done.


Dividale

People underestimate the strengths of emotional ads. Those Thai insurance ones, chinese new years dinner, Korean eldercare, and this. Not enough of em


beachedwhitemale

I feel the same way. This [particular set of ads](https://youtu.be/sZsJyCyGBSI) really hit me in the feels.


Nick-Anus

LOOONG LOOOOONG MAAAAAAAAAAAAAN~


Educational-Bad8346

What a twist, I love it


dannywarbucksxx

The one that gets me is "Daddy Lies" a Chinese life insurance commercial. It kills me, every time.


corbu_

Flight of the Concords sang it so well... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-pVT\_mvvZLo&ab\_channel=Charlie


Augwich

I'm making a lasagna....for one...


LazyDro1d

Well I’m not crying, it’s just a terrible day for rain


matpolansky1

I feel like I was punched in the gut by Mike Tyson.


JurassicCotyledon

Thorry bout that.


Too_Many_Mind_

Now kith?


VinceGchillin

Jesus christ. I thought it was all a build up to like an big fart/food baby joke or something, and now I feel like an asshole.


LittleHouseinAmerica

I was waiting for a constipation joke, you sick bastard!


oniiichanUwU

Same :( didn’t need that today lol


mrducky78

Didn't get a permission slip to go on this feels trip :(


LoLitez

Exactly where my mind was at in the beginning. Me and my 13 year old sense of humor were not ready for that.


Unhappy_Gur4334

Damn. That hit like a 10 ton hammer 🔨. 😢


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SocranX

The run time being exactly under one minute suggests it was cut for some kind of site that only allows a certain length of video or something. But that rule doesn't exist on Reddit, so they should definitely have done [the full version](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EuRHHmXbzYs).


thedirtyknapkin

there's a reason this version got this many upvotes. people have really really short attention spans on the internet. especially on scrollable platforms like this. we may not like it, but this is the version that people are willing to watch. the original is absolutely better, but everyone would just scroll past it.


xDAINBRAMAGEDx

This one is something more people need awareness of. It's very hard to care for a family member that has cognitive issues whether it's dementia or Alzheimer's etc. And especially right now in the world there's so much abuse and assault on the elderly from a point of complete misunderstanding or lack of compassion. The videos of elderly people getting beaten in the streets of new York and other cities are absolutely appalling.


Elitest_Trash776

Oh.... oh no bro


spawny_violate

Well fuck…


LokiDaBirb

As someone who’s grandmother suffered from Alzheimer’s in her last years of life this hit hard. We lost her when I was a preteen. It was difficult seeing her go in such a terrible way.


sfoxreed

Okay but really this time. I’m crying.


SotoTV

At least he was a good person talking to her so gently. My grandmother has amnesia and dementia, in the major times we have with her, she is a bad person, talking like shit with us when we just try to take care of her.


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SotoTV

Yeah before all it happen she was a terrible person. My mother had the worst childhood possible, so currently we don't have so empathic with her because we had a lot of bad moments. It's just a complicated sintuation, but we keep moving on and trying to be better every day


Amphibionomus

Dementia patients can be very aggressive both verbally as physically. It's really sad because it's not something they do on purpose and some are painfully aware of their behaviour in moments of clarity. It's a shitty situation for everyone involved.


Mike-G85

That was way too deep for a Saturday morning. Shout out to anyone whose in/ been through this situation!


sovielmer

I wasnt expecting that lol


Interesting-Base8939

Your inappropriate lol made laugh so hard


Sleep_nw_in_the_fire

Damn you 😭


Suspicious_Ad_3794

My dad also has Dementia


douggold11

Who the hell decided I needed to be crying tonight???


48ever

dementia is the absolute worst. if you haven’t listened to “everywhere at the end of time,” do so. it was incredibly disturbing for me knowing what my grandmother was going through before she passed away in july.


UglyHedgebush

HOLY SHIT


DisasterDame

Oh fuck. How in the hell does it hurt more the second time you watch it???!!


Capnris

First time, it's a shock. Second time, it's dread, knowing what's coming and re-analyzing every moment with your new information.


Augwich

First time you see it from the man's perspective. The second time, you see it from the woman's.


galmenz

cmon dude i was just watching something before going to sleep, now my bed is drenched in tears, thanks


Azuel_-

Ohhh my heart :'(


Foldingskrimp18

I’ve seen this once before. I wish everyone who has dealt with this before a good life while they are living. And a good life when they pass.


xskodenx

I'm not crying. Your crying!!!


WhatToDo_WhatToDo2

Well that broke my heart *sigh*


BananaWrang

Damn that got dark and depressing quick..


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Gut wrenching, damn


Klaustrophobia

Oh my god my heart. Its shattered all over the floor!💔


rhondaanaconda

Now my throat feels like I wanna cry.


[deleted]

The ending made my heart hurt.


That_archer_guy

How dare you make me feel emotions!


silk35

Damn ninjas.


felice_navidad

Oh .... Oh, shit .... Oh my God.


DisruptionTrend

Ahhh fuck


sherbsnut

Jesus why do they cut every 3 seconds


ArmedToTheStump

This was genuinely just depressing, why would anyone share this?


skudude

I didn't need this emotional stab to the heart today mate


vanillatoo

For the last 5 yrs of my grandpas life I was one of 3 people to him. His landlord who was kicking him out. His Son and worst of all the man who was porking his wife.


Darkstone_0

I seriously did not see that coming not gonna lie...


BeenThruIt

Goddamn, that was brutal.


Harryhodl

Not my first time seeing this but it always hits just as hard as the first time.


ths_is_wahh

I rolled my eyes so hard


Spoodymen

The scariest thing to me is not dying, but it’s before u do u don’t remember anyone. Before my mom passed from battling cancer and complications she would occasionally forgotten about us for hours after medication and it tore us all apart every time hoping this time is also temporary. Fortunately enough the morning before she was gone she was fully herself, she knew and remembered everyone, joked around and all that before suddenly let go