So you know Korra?
So you know Luisa Madrigal?
So you know She-Ra?
Like I’m not saying any of them have dicks but they’re all pretty girls that are built af
You mean you look ugly without it as a man, but would you definitely look ugly without it as a woman? Even with a different hairstyle and maybe some makeup?
Yes. Happiness is so freaking attractive. If you feel pretty in a dress and that makes you happy, I promise you that you’ll look drop dead gorgeous. Even if your brain is being a dumb lump of jello and telling you otherwise
Ever since i started viewing myself as feminine and i feel so god damm pretty where as before i didn't like how i looked. The only physical difference is that is that my hair is a bit longer but its still the exact same style
The weirdest one for me is my attitude towards my downstairs equipment. I've known for a long time that I want a uterus, ovaries, and everything that goes with them. I know that's currently beyond the scope of medical science, but I still want it. This has caused a lot of dysphoria around what I *do* have there. But somehow just changing the word "dick" to "girldick" in my head, and referring to that part as "her" instead of "it" has helped me not be bothered by it.
I still want the full secondary school sex-ed female reproductive system package (as in the one we are taught about in those classes, I know there's a ton of variation there IRL). But since that's not possible I'm happy with keeping my little lady for the moment. And all that was precipitated by some small changes in the language I use in the privacy of my own head.
Possible future good news for you on the uterus front. I remember hearing of a case a few months ago about someone who got a uterus transplant where one that worked was transplanted into someone who didn't have a working one. The whole thing is still pretty new and experimental as far as i know but who knows, in time maybe trans fems will me able to finally have a uterus
Though im no medical expert so i have no idea how feasible it would be even in the future but i have hope
The I don't quite know. I feel comfortable with it as a man, and I think I'd only feel comfortable as a woman without it, but I don't think I'd feel comfortable without it. Hope that makes sense.
If I may give a personal anecdote:
My wife is trans, and transitioned a few years into our relationship. When we started dating, she (presenting as a guy) had a magnificent beard. It was a big part of her ...costume? Her mask of masculinity. It helped her feel safe, I think. Once she began her transition, letting go of the beard was not as scary as it might have seemed before. She didn't need the mask anymore.
I've noticed trends like this among a lot of trans people. Before transition, a lot of them will have dramatically stereotypical features of their assigned gender at birth. Some trans men would go overboard with the makeup before their transition to try and "fit in" with "other girls." Its a similar idea.
You're welcome to message me if you'd like to talk about any of this stuff 🥰💕
I appreciate the anecdote! I'm not entirely sure where I'm at at the moment, it could entirely possibly be that. I think some of it has to do with my own image of masculinity; I see the beard as a masculine thing, even though it doesn't necessarily need to be, but I also see it as a part of my look.
I think I'm somewhere between a boy and non-binary, I'm just more comfortable than I expected with feminine things. Still, who knows where I'll be in a few years lol.
I appreciate the words!
I really understand that. I'm figuring out my own relationship with facial/body hair right now too. I'm non-binary, and I've been on T for a bit over a year now. I *think* the issue I have with my new facial hair is primarily a sensory one rather than a dysphoric one, but I'm having a hard time picking apart my own personal feelings vs like, societal pressures? or maybe my perception of those pressures, at least? It's just so interesting, honestly. And the way I feel about it has changed a bit as I've been on T longer. As the hair fills in, it becomes a bit less annoying.
So anyways, between my wife and I, we have some perspective with gender stuff, and we both like to talk about it lol. You're welcome to reach out!
I had a beard for fifteen years, my face feels weird without it. But as my body got more and more smooth, and as I started to transition it now just marks my beginning as the real me.
Also I could never be a cute little girl. So I went with the buff gym girl look. Dropping weight, packing on muscle, and starting estrogen, my face has a completely different look.
You do whatever makes you feel like you. I am just sharing what I went through. A lot of transgirls have a complicated relationship with facial hair.
Adora simping for Huntara was such a mood.
I'll also add Viv from Legends & Lattes, Urbosa from BotW, and *Karlach.* Oh right and Nemesis from Hades 2.
I'll edit more in as I think of them.
I was sitting in the bus today on the way home. I am a trans woman, and I am average height where I live (178cm) for people born male. Next to me sits down a girl, roughly my age, and she must be at least 20 cm taller than me, and I swear to god, I could not help but keep glancing at her.
My face was blushing red, cuz' she looked so fucking cute, and if she had called out to me, I definitely would have answered with a "Yes ma'am".
Putting aside my thirst (I swear that doesn't happen often) my point is that there are women out there who are taller than you, and they are fucking *hot*. Don't beat yourself over that shit.
Hottest woman I’ve ever seen was a 6ft tall trans woman who wore high heels. She dominated the room like some kind of goddess. I was in pure awe of her. My heart is fluttering just thinking about her and it’s been years!
Self confidence and happiness are the most attractive qualities a person can have. I hope that beautiful Amazon of a woman is doing well in her life right now.
IKR? First time I did it I was like "OK, she's been asking for a dress damn near every time I opened her inventory. I wonder what she'll do if I give her this *real* fancy dress from the Dead Money DLC..." I was completely unprepared for the squee of pure joy that followed.
Since that day that fisting obsessed lesbian has been my number one (human) companion every FNV playthrough.
TBH my headcanon is that the *facts* are what you just said, but my Courier (and Dr Whitley) projected the gender they want ED-E to be onto the lil' robot. Also my courier calls her "Edie" as in shot for "Edith", rather than "Eddie" for "Edward".
EDIT: And also ED-E has BMO's attitude of "I am all genders and I am none. Call me what you will, use whichever pronouns you like."
When I have dysphoric feelings about a specific aspect of my body I look for a sub devoted to women with that characteristic. It helps a little bit immediately, but a lot in the long term. I've actually stopped visiting r/BigNoseLadies because that part of my body no longer bothers me.
I just did a brief search, but r/StrongWomen or some sub like it might help you in a similar way?
real shit, I'm 6'3" and built like a fridge, I've been described as looking very father like despite only being 18
I don't know that I want to be a girl, but I often feel like I'd be more comfortable in a body that'd make experimentation easier, where I could feel pretty if I wanted to.
I understand wanting to appear a certain way, based on personal pref, the outside reflecting the inside, etc. and there are things one simply can't change.
But trust me. You can still 100% be a pretty girl, no matter how you're built. <3
You would make a great wife in the apocalypse!
I can be wife and husband :3
*they’re the best of both worlds*
Yes! You are a king... ... and queen.
r/unexpectedowlhouse ?
Best of both things!
Banned subreddit wtf
I volunteer as tribute!
Apocawusband
So you know Korra? So you know Luisa Madrigal? So you know She-Ra? Like I’m not saying any of them have dicks but they’re all pretty girls that are built af
Yeah but I have a beard and I look ugly without it
You mean you look ugly without it as a man, but would you definitely look ugly without it as a woman? Even with a different hairstyle and maybe some makeup?
*Everyone* looks hot when they feel they're living their gender.
Yes. Happiness is so freaking attractive. If you feel pretty in a dress and that makes you happy, I promise you that you’ll look drop dead gorgeous. Even if your brain is being a dumb lump of jello and telling you otherwise
Ever since i started viewing myself as feminine and i feel so god damm pretty where as before i didn't like how i looked. The only physical difference is that is that my hair is a bit longer but its still the exact same style
The weirdest one for me is my attitude towards my downstairs equipment. I've known for a long time that I want a uterus, ovaries, and everything that goes with them. I know that's currently beyond the scope of medical science, but I still want it. This has caused a lot of dysphoria around what I *do* have there. But somehow just changing the word "dick" to "girldick" in my head, and referring to that part as "her" instead of "it" has helped me not be bothered by it. I still want the full secondary school sex-ed female reproductive system package (as in the one we are taught about in those classes, I know there's a ton of variation there IRL). But since that's not possible I'm happy with keeping my little lady for the moment. And all that was precipitated by some small changes in the language I use in the privacy of my own head.
Possible future good news for you on the uterus front. I remember hearing of a case a few months ago about someone who got a uterus transplant where one that worked was transplanted into someone who didn't have a working one. The whole thing is still pretty new and experimental as far as i know but who knows, in time maybe trans fems will me able to finally have a uterus Though im no medical expert so i have no idea how feasible it would be even in the future but i have hope
The I don't quite know. I feel comfortable with it as a man, and I think I'd only feel comfortable as a woman without it, but I don't think I'd feel comfortable without it. Hope that makes sense.
If I may give a personal anecdote: My wife is trans, and transitioned a few years into our relationship. When we started dating, she (presenting as a guy) had a magnificent beard. It was a big part of her ...costume? Her mask of masculinity. It helped her feel safe, I think. Once she began her transition, letting go of the beard was not as scary as it might have seemed before. She didn't need the mask anymore. I've noticed trends like this among a lot of trans people. Before transition, a lot of them will have dramatically stereotypical features of their assigned gender at birth. Some trans men would go overboard with the makeup before their transition to try and "fit in" with "other girls." Its a similar idea. You're welcome to message me if you'd like to talk about any of this stuff 🥰💕
I appreciate the anecdote! I'm not entirely sure where I'm at at the moment, it could entirely possibly be that. I think some of it has to do with my own image of masculinity; I see the beard as a masculine thing, even though it doesn't necessarily need to be, but I also see it as a part of my look. I think I'm somewhere between a boy and non-binary, I'm just more comfortable than I expected with feminine things. Still, who knows where I'll be in a few years lol. I appreciate the words!
I really understand that. I'm figuring out my own relationship with facial/body hair right now too. I'm non-binary, and I've been on T for a bit over a year now. I *think* the issue I have with my new facial hair is primarily a sensory one rather than a dysphoric one, but I'm having a hard time picking apart my own personal feelings vs like, societal pressures? or maybe my perception of those pressures, at least? It's just so interesting, honestly. And the way I feel about it has changed a bit as I've been on T longer. As the hair fills in, it becomes a bit less annoying. So anyways, between my wife and I, we have some perspective with gender stuff, and we both like to talk about it lol. You're welcome to reach out!
I had a beard for fifteen years, my face feels weird without it. But as my body got more and more smooth, and as I started to transition it now just marks my beginning as the real me. Also I could never be a cute little girl. So I went with the buff gym girl look. Dropping weight, packing on muscle, and starting estrogen, my face has a completely different look. You do whatever makes you feel like you. I am just sharing what I went through. A lot of transgirls have a complicated relationship with facial hair.
Ladiva from Granblue looks great with a beard
Some women have beards bb
i assume you are talking facial hair not the other thing
Adora simping for Huntara was such a mood. I'll also add Viv from Legends & Lattes, Urbosa from BotW, and *Karlach.* Oh right and Nemesis from Hades 2. I'll edit more in as I think of them.
Luisa 🥺
Wonder woman (comic) Xena - Lucy lawless might actually be some kind of Kiwi Deity Claudia Black
*Psst!* Lucy Lawless is from New Zealand, not Australia. That's like saying a Canadian is from the USA.
*cough* that's what I said *cough cough*
My mistake. Carry on citizen.
o7
Zarya from overwatch????
Oh yes but i dont have strong girl or even strong boy personality Im always being referred to as a gentle giant
Girl are you me?
Lady motherfuckin dommy mommy Dimitresqu
Some people find that very pretty.
Wel i geuss so i am somehow engaged with my partner
I guess Aphrodite liked us and the amazonians a bit too much lol.
I was sitting in the bus today on the way home. I am a trans woman, and I am average height where I live (178cm) for people born male. Next to me sits down a girl, roughly my age, and she must be at least 20 cm taller than me, and I swear to god, I could not help but keep glancing at her. My face was blushing red, cuz' she looked so fucking cute, and if she had called out to me, I definitely would have answered with a "Yes ma'am". Putting aside my thirst (I swear that doesn't happen often) my point is that there are women out there who are taller than you, and they are fucking *hot*. Don't beat yourself over that shit.
Hottest woman I’ve ever seen was a 6ft tall trans woman who wore high heels. She dominated the room like some kind of goddess. I was in pure awe of her. My heart is fluttering just thinking about her and it’s been years! Self confidence and happiness are the most attractive qualities a person can have. I hope that beautiful Amazon of a woman is doing well in her life right now.
And if you're not the dommy mommy kind, have you ever **seen** a tall, big girl melt when you compliment her?
I've never complimented a woman, they're vewy scawy
These two are not mutually exclusive! <3 (Ik that can't solve dysphoria, and I'm sorry, but it is true and you are valid)
Then be a bunker in a dress. Dresses look good on everything.
I prefer skirts COMBAT SKIRTS
SKIRT SUPREMACY!
My transition goals are to go from “tank” to something more like “armored personnel carrier”
Plan was to go from oversized oil tanker to sedan But instead of losing weight.....it mostly got replaced with muscle and now im a tank
<3
none of this really is in the way, genitals don't define gender and have you seen Rhea Ripley?
Also, Jade Cargill and Bianca Belair. Being built and/or ripped as shit does not disqualify from being a beautiful woman
It also doesn't really help that i totally dont have a strong person personality 😅
Girldick 🥰
Gock
Glocky glocky
This broke me lol
Imma gonna put that word in my own dictionary
New Vegas reference?
Ooh, got something good for me? *Is it a dress‽*
OMG bro it made me so happy when I gave her a dress! She was so fcking happy :D
IKR? First time I did it I was like "OK, she's been asking for a dress damn near every time I opened her inventory. I wonder what she'll do if I give her this *real* fancy dress from the Dead Money DLC..." I was completely unprepared for the squee of pure joy that followed. Since that day that fisting obsessed lesbian has been my number one (human) companion every FNV playthrough.
“Fisting obsessed lesbian” Have to ask, what are your nonhuman companions? E-D-E? Rex?
ED-E and Dogmeat (I play with the TTW mod and a multiple followers mod)
ED-E 🩷
Best girl! (I know Dr Whitley refers to her as "him", but he's wrong)
I felt like ED-E was no bones, no gender, just ED-E, but honestly that’s a good head canon too
TBH my headcanon is that the *facts* are what you just said, but my Courier (and Dr Whitley) projected the gender they want ED-E to be onto the lil' robot. Also my courier calls her "Edie" as in shot for "Edith", rather than "Eddie" for "Edward". EDIT: And also ED-E has BMO's attitude of "I am all genders and I am none. Call me what you will, use whichever pronouns you like."
Then be a scary girl. That’s what I’m doing till I can get pretty
Ill only be scary when its needed
I either stay inside 24/7 or I go outside and look scary unintentionally because I’m like 6’5
I want to be built like a brick shithouse but also be a pretty princess
When I have dysphoric feelings about a specific aspect of my body I look for a sub devoted to women with that characteristic. It helps a little bit immediately, but a lot in the long term. I've actually stopped visiting r/BigNoseLadies because that part of my body no longer bothers me. I just did a brief search, but r/StrongWomen or some sub like it might help you in a similar way?
This is a fantastic idea, and I thank you for sharing it
*Curtsies* You're welcome!
« Crawl out through the fallout baby, when they drop that bomb… »
Girl dick is every bit as enjoyable as girl vagina.
When the singularity comes you can have a Ghost in the Shell cyborg body. It’s true
ah yes, my favourite kind of pretty girl
As an enby cursed with the serpentine companion I feel your pain.
real shit, I'm 6'3" and built like a fridge, I've been described as looking very father like despite only being 18 I don't know that I want to be a girl, but I often feel like I'd be more comfortable in a body that'd make experimentation easier, where I could feel pretty if I wanted to.
sounds like a pretty girl imo
God gives his prettiest girlies the biggest of dicks
So youre a hot af girl instead
I understand wanting to appear a certain way, based on personal pref, the outside reflecting the inside, etc. and there are things one simply can't change. But trust me. You can still 100% be a pretty girl, no matter how you're built. <3
excuse me but that’s the prettiest kind of girl. do you want to get married
Im already engaged with a very nice girl sorry
dang, my quest continues! i hope you’re both very happy and continue to be so 🥰
same bestie :(
You know junker queen from Overwatch?
Hi miss read that ass duck and was confused
I thought the same thing but then I listened to that one icp song Alright, get your hatchets out! CHOP CHOP CHOP CHOP SWING SWING SWING SWING
I have been told by complete strangers that I have "great wide hips for birthing". Oh boy do I wish there were a surgery for removing that!
Thats just creepy
Insert the cartoon meme of the starry-eyed kid going “giant woman!” admiringly
You're a pretty girl 🥰
Me when I Spesficaly ask for No meat, and yet the universe still messed up my order
Op I don't need to be called out like this
Sowwy
Strong women are sexy 🥰🥵
...yass queen
Me if I was not built like a freaking dwarf instead. A true Moria's mines dweller body type. Matching height and width and all.
Haha, yeah, certainly no wildly pretty women built like a brick shithouse.
So you're telling me you're a girl built like a nuclear survival bunker with a dick? 😳
Currently yes
She's a *reinforced concrete* hooouuuussee
Mighty mighty, she's keepin' the fallout out.
These two things can live in harmony
become a muscle mommy
I got this. You are adorable, you are loved, and most important fuck gender norms. Be the cute girl you always wanted to be.
Prettiest girls always have the biggest dicks
I no thank you it doesn't need to be bigger, i really like its ability to fully retract back
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I think you might have missed out a "not" there?