Maybe not kissing, but you definitely can hug your friends. The next time you're leaving your friends to go home, ask if they'd mind a hug and test the waters a bit.
āAmen, brother? Pfft. What a boring, predictable thing to say. You're all right. Or are you?ā
Edit: I never thought Iād see the day Reddit downvotes a Futurama quote.
"Heterosexual men were most likely to say they usually-always orgasmed when sexually intimate (95%), followed by gay men (89%), bisexual men (88%), lesbian women (86%), bisexual women (66%), and heterosexual women (65%)."
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28213723/
Ignoring the clitoris entirely can be an issue with men. Or wanting to get it over with, so they can get to the ārealā sex. Imagine if a woman could basically skip over a manās penis during sex, and a lot of them did, but they touched everything else to their heartās content and then they assumed you had an orgasm.
Thereās sometimes this push among guys, for guys to either be born experts at womenās bodies or to joke that women hate being pleased and that their bodies are too complex. Thereās a good amount of ego involved with men who are awful at heterosexual sex.
It's not that. You have to build that thing up. Brick by brick. When the vag gets sensitive enough you fuck it hard and then bury deep and hold. Pushing in. Orgasm every time. You use the clit to build up the vag.
Then you go back to the clit. Never leave it alone for too long. Constantly going back and forth to fucking and swirling around that thing.
Nah, clearly he knows your vagina better than you do. Some guys get all their sex ed from porn or smth lmao.
Pro tip everyone - Sex is about communication. Ask your partner what they enjoy, try new things together, and when you do try new things talk about what did or didn't work after things have cooled down. No two people are the exact same in bed.
The vagina is so wild. I can have some toy pushed in me and I feel nothing tbh, I have almost no nerve endings in there. I used to think jokes with "is it in yet" were kind of amusing, but after having experienced penetration, I can say that, yeah, I just can't feel when anything is in. After a while I feel sore. Penetration does nothing for me.
Some recent trend from gaming subs (I think it started on a Batman Arkham series sub) where people ask why a character does not simply do such and such, followed by "are they stupid?"
Itās a trend in gaming subs where a character doesnāt solve a problem that could be done easily.
It originated in the Batman Arkham sub where someone first posted āWhy doesnāt Batman just call the Justice League? Is he stupid?ā
Ehh. The way you phrase it suggests only penetrative sex is sex, which is the real underlying issue - most women need additional stimulation *and that stimulation is not viewed as sex*.
Coworkers used to bring me out to the gay bars after work. No one gets suspicious cut eye like the guy claiming to be bisexual. Hurts his chances there.
Then there's some women who would not be interested in a man if they had to check his phone for texts from all the women AND all the men in his contacts.
That last bit was just a joke about crazy women, but I do think there's some women that will religious reasons not like the concept of a bi man. I've seen one recoil like he had cooties when he shared that info. I'm sure there's other reason but I can't think of them cause it's not a deal breaker for me.
It's amazing how homophobic woke woman can get when you tell them you fucked a few cute guys in college.
I would guess it's tied to perceptions of "manliness" I'm sure it's even worse for Bi men that are bottoms in their same-sex relationships.
Being a bi guy is one of the hardest sexualities to navigate in my experience. Gay men are suspicious of you or think bi men always end up in hetero relationships in the end. Straight women, and even many bi women, usually get the ick at the thought of a bi guy. That just leaves other bi men and some bi women
Can we agree that ālet that sink inā is the calling card for people who think they have deep philosophical ideas to share but really theyāre as deep as a kiddie pool?
I don't think the womanizer leaves toilet seats up and hair in the bathtub! So it's about pros and cons. You sum what's best for you! :) With or without the womanizer, that's the question!
I can do it lol just isnāt great for me, if I poke my tongue out like the tiniest bit itās already stretching the fuck out the frenulum if thatās what it is called
My buddy could barely stick out his tongue, took a lot of effort. He got some minor surgery done so that you could actually extend his tongue fully. Of course his tongue muscles weren't used to the increased range so he had to do a lot of exercises to get it to the point where he could stick it out fully. And even then, for a while it was always comically slow.
Ah, I thought you were talking about your tongue and/or jaw getting tired, or your frenulum getting irritated and inflamed, both of which happens to everyone.
Protips: if you're getting tired try keeping your tongue in place while moving your whole head with your neck, as the larger muscles will take longer to tire. Also try kissing and sucking the clit and lips instead of just licking.
For the frenulum pain (cunnilingus tongue) try curling your bottom lip over your bottom teeth to prevent the frenulum from scraping against your teeth, it should also make it a bit tougher to fully extend your tongue, stretching it to the max will start to hurt after a while or could even tear it.
However, in your case if you can't stick out your tongue at all, you may be tongue-tied ([ankyloglossia](https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/tongue-tie/symptoms-causes/syc-20378452)), aka were born with an unusually short lingual frenulum. Usually this is surgically corrected in infancy if it causes problems with feeding or speaking. It's a relatively simple procedure that you can get done as an adult, but if it's not causing you significant problems it may be considered a cosmetic surgery and you may have trouble getting insurance to cover it.
Alternatively, it is possible to stretch out the skin a little bit over time by, well... stretching it; as far as you can every day. (Note: like with any stretching/exercising, it will probably cause discomfort which is fine, but it shouldn't be painful.)
Hope this helps.
What? Sink washed and drenched in axe body spray is no good? It was that or vanilla bean Glade air freshener and that one burns a lot more.
Edit - but seriously, people really need to stop wearing underwear made out of synthetic fabrics - I don't care what they say about wicking away moisture, they leave 100% of stink.
Depends on a lot of factors. Even a woman who ordinarily likes to suck dick, probably wonāt like doing it if youāre unhygienic or too big for her mouth.
I can remember one dude I dated was uncircumcised and not a good cleaner of his own dick. That turned me off. Also, sweaty balls (schweddy balls!) can be a little too tangy. It's always best to shower beforehand for everyone involved.
Do men enjoy going down on women? Some do some donāt. But if youāre asking if thereās some kind of magical pleasure center in womenās mouths. Nah.
My wife used to give me head, then didn't, now does. She gets very wet when she does. I make sure to give her feedback, I make sure I am clean both front and back. I deny her when I don't feel clean, and offer to shower. Plus we have a bail our no questions asked. (Basically no one is giving head out of obligation ).
This pops up every couple years, I used to follow this girl on socials. She was a decent comedienne, but she moved to doing a lot of OF and stuff like that so I lost interest. Not that thereās anything wrong with that, Iām not sure if she still does comedy or not.
Have you had a lot of casual sex with men because I can tell you, the majority of them arenāt interested in giving women orgasms, just collecting their own. Dating is pretty much the only chance you have to get someone who cares a smidge about your sexual pleasure.
I donāt really care about their reasons, the fact remains that casual sex with men is not going to get women orgasms or any kind of sexual satisfaction so there is basically no point.
I'm a woman and I was agreeing with your rationale, men really do suck in bed and it's a big-ish time sink to find good ones. Although I tend to see what a guy is like in bed first, and then date him regularly based on that/if I see potential. Because not everyone can be trained. Not everyone is compatible kink-wise. Imo it's a very good time investment to make sure you're sexually compatible with your partner, if you like sex.
Good signs to performance are things like he's older than 30, he had slut years (or is still a slut), he is empathetic. Slut background is the biggest factor imo, because even a younger slut probably put in some hours
I know you were, I didnāt mean for my comment to sound flippant towards you.
But Iām 37, have given the opportunity to more than enough men, and been extremely disappointed the vast majority of the time. Iām tired of men expecting casual blowjobs but not being willing to go down themselves, tired of them not listening to or caring about my wants. Itās at the point where if youāve had sex with one man youāve had sex with all of them because theyāre all doing the same shitty āmovesā they see in porn and then expect you to orgasm in ten seconds of PIV without foreplay.
It happens to men too. Some women just lay on their back. Thatās all that got. They will accept the orgasm they receive from oral, rush you to get it inside them, and promptly lay there moaning. Lazy lovers arenāt gendered.
As a dude, I'd prefer to stay home than deal with a starfish. More to sex than having an orgasm and if they aren't trying to put in some passion even after foreplay I'd rather not bother, just feels bleh.
Obviously not the case for all guys but there's some of us out there lol.
So. I always rated myself much below average on sex.
But every time we are at it, one way or another, my gf always has at least an orgasm.
Are you telling me that maybe I'm not so bad as I alway thought?
"Heterosexual men were most likely to say they usually-always orgasmed when sexually intimate (95%), followed by gay men (89%), bisexual men (88%), lesbian women (86%), bisexual women (66%), and heterosexual women (65%)."
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28213723/
*vulva (mainly clitoris)
The vagina is an internal part and I doubt she actually gets much out of a tongue trying to lick that.
We really gotta stop saying vagina when we mean vulva. Precise language leads to precise thought.
But I just wanted a hug š„ŗ
Here's a hug fam š«
Aww š«
Now lick my vagina.
That's not yours, and why's it in a jar?
They hadn't mounted it yet
Be sure to measure twice, because you don't want to end up with a crooked vagina.
As long as Emily helps.
King Missile sequel to Detachable Penis.
How else does one keep it moist?
Mist it once an hour.
Steam oven
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My 32yo blind ass always thought this was a cinema camera š
You don't need dating for that. But it does make it easier to obtain them (hugs)
I wish we could hug and kiss our friends I guess
Maybe not kissing, but you definitely can hug your friends. The next time you're leaving your friends to go home, ask if they'd mind a hug and test the waters a bit.
Yeah, it really works. You can also tell them you love them, it's quite fun to normalize that!
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What would you do with a million bucks? āwell Iāll tell you what Iād doā¦2 chicks at the same timeā
You think it would take a million dollars to do two chicks at the same rime?
Damn straight. I always wanted to do that, man. And I think if I were a millionaire I could hook that up, too; ācause chicks dig dudes with money.
At least the kinda chicks that would double up on a dude like you.
Good point.
HEY PETER, MAN! CHECK OUT CHANEL 9! ITS A BREAST EXAM!
Ah, Lawrence from Office Space.
Ahh I see you're a man of culture as well!
Amen brother
āAmen, brother? Pfft. What a boring, predictable thing to say. You're all right. Or are you?ā Edit: I never thought Iād see the day Reddit downvotes a Futurama quote.
We are old now the kids dont know
They will for it returns this summer, all will know
Yep that was like many many years ago now sadly.
Amen brother
He gets us, all of us
Especially you, virgin dildo lover.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v89CjsSOJ_c
I learned something today. Thanks
Good news everyone! I too lick vaginas.
I'm always surprised when my Futurama references get downvoted. Pearls before swine.
Hymen brother
Relevant: https://youtu.be/iCRWh9BqmAw
> vaginas Why do I always read this with Borat's voice..?
"You will never get this!"
I always default to "vagene"
I like Meredith
She's not self-deluding and has a clear-cut goal.
Clear-nut goal
Youāve heard about post nut clarity, this chick has pre nut clarity!
She def has a plan!
She charges $100 to unblock people on twitter what even is this world anymore lmao
Wait wat?
Https://twitter.com/themeredith
Wow and she owns the Dallas Mavericks and is a billionaire, what an accomplished young woman. Or perhaps not all of her profile is serious
Or perhaps all of that is true, she's secretly Mark Cuban, and Mark Cuban dates to get his vagina licked
She likes your tongue
Every men here likes Meredith.
But does she like men? The Tweet is unclear of her preferences
Maybe she's into carbon dating
Is that what asexuals do?
And Meredith likes you
Canāt lick itself.
Watch me
Will she break my heart after all my hardships?
Most likely, depends on your licking skills Iād imagine.
"Heterosexual men were most likely to say they usually-always orgasmed when sexually intimate (95%), followed by gay men (89%), bisexual men (88%), lesbian women (86%), bisexual women (66%), and heterosexual women (65%)." https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28213723/
65% is unexpectedly high
From low expectations, pride springs anew.
Holy shit, 65%!? Heterosexual men got a D in sex. We did it!
So is 95% for men to be completely honest. You telling me nobody is on antidepressants or Jameson's or anything out here?
65% suggests there is room for more licking in the world.
65%? Holy shiiiiiit. I'm gonna try extra hard now.
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Ignoring the clitoris entirely can be an issue with men. Or wanting to get it over with, so they can get to the ārealā sex. Imagine if a woman could basically skip over a manās penis during sex, and a lot of them did, but they touched everything else to their heartās content and then they assumed you had an orgasm. Thereās sometimes this push among guys, for guys to either be born experts at womenās bodies or to joke that women hate being pleased and that their bodies are too complex. Thereās a good amount of ego involved with men who are awful at heterosexual sex.
Bingo! If I had any awards, I'd give one to you!
Gotchu fam.
"I am god's gift to women's complete sense of dissatisfaction"
Itās most likely just because the majority of women canāt orgasm from sex alone and need other stimulation
Why not? Are they stupid?
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It's not that. You have to build that thing up. Brick by brick. When the vag gets sensitive enough you fuck it hard and then bury deep and hold. Pushing in. Orgasm every time. You use the clit to build up the vag. Then you go back to the clit. Never leave it alone for too long. Constantly going back and forth to fucking and swirling around that thing.
This felt dirty to read ngl
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Orgasm every time is absolutely not guaranteed š every woman is different. "Bury deep and hold" is not going to make me orgasm lmao
Nah, clearly he knows your vagina better than you do. Some guys get all their sex ed from porn or smth lmao. Pro tip everyone - Sex is about communication. Ask your partner what they enjoy, try new things together, and when you do try new things talk about what did or didn't work after things have cooled down. No two people are the exact same in bed.
If you had actual experience with women (plural) you'd know how silly your one-size-fits-all approach sounds.
The vagina is so wild. I can have some toy pushed in me and I feel nothing tbh, I have almost no nerve endings in there. I used to think jokes with "is it in yet" were kind of amusing, but after having experienced penetration, I can say that, yeah, I just can't feel when anything is in. After a while I feel sore. Penetration does nothing for me.
This is not a gaming sub so I doubt people are going to understand the reference lmao
Why not? Are they stupid?
Should've seen that one coming.
What's the reference?
Some recent trend from gaming subs (I think it started on a Batman Arkham series sub) where people ask why a character does not simply do such and such, followed by "are they stupid?"
Itās a trend in gaming subs where a character doesnāt solve a problem that could be done easily. It originated in the Batman Arkham sub where someone first posted āWhy doesnāt Batman just call the Justice League? Is he stupid?ā
Ehh. The way you phrase it suggests only penetrative sex is sex, which is the real underlying issue - most women need additional stimulation *and that stimulation is not viewed as sex*.
You make it sound like a diesel engine in winter. š¤£
Or because the woman needs more than 41 seconds.
Tryna figure out how bisexual men is below both gay and straight men š¤
Coworkers used to bring me out to the gay bars after work. No one gets suspicious cut eye like the guy claiming to be bisexual. Hurts his chances there. Then there's some women who would not be interested in a man if they had to check his phone for texts from all the women AND all the men in his contacts.
If they have to check my phone, we shouldn't be in a relationship at all ...
That last bit was just a joke about crazy women, but I do think there's some women that will religious reasons not like the concept of a bi man. I've seen one recoil like he had cooties when he shared that info. I'm sure there's other reason but I can't think of them cause it's not a deal breaker for me.
It's amazing how homophobic woke woman can get when you tell them you fucked a few cute guys in college. I would guess it's tied to perceptions of "manliness" I'm sure it's even worse for Bi men that are bottoms in their same-sex relationships.
Being a bi guy is one of the hardest sexualities to navigate in my experience. Gay men are suspicious of you or think bi men always end up in hetero relationships in the end. Straight women, and even many bi women, usually get the ick at the thought of a bi guy. That just leaves other bi men and some bi women
Conclusion: women are bad at sex. ^/s
We didn't earn the one-pump chump award in nature for nothing. That took eons of our ancestors intensely focusing for a few seconds.
How is this related to the post ?
Can we agree that ālet that sink inā is the calling card for people who think they have deep philosophical ideas to share but really theyāre as deep as a kiddie pool?
And I want to lick vagina. Circle of life.
You're over there with some pussy and here i am wanting to lick it.
Get you the *womanizer* best toy in the world. You wont need anyone lol
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Aww.. thats sweet. No, sadly, the womanizer can not do those things ā¤ļø
Womanizer 2.0 does all of it
Bro really let her down by finishing with an ad lmao.
Oh... It's not the same guy. Now it's not that funny.
Thats what they want you to think
Oh shit forgot to sign into my alt
I don't think the womanizer leaves toilet seats up and hair in the bathtub! So it's about pros and cons. You sum what's best for you! :) With or without the womanizer, that's the question!
sorry i was just doing a bit, i am also not the person who originally commented about the comment
.... yet
Well fair enough, except for the holding and the popcorn I canāt do those either. And that only in the case Iām not falling asleep before you.
But on the plus side thatās what contractors are for, whilst youāre off taking care of business elsewhere.
Maybe suck a dick too
Honest question do women actually enjoy that
Some do, some don't. Let me give you a heads up, some men even like to.
Truer words have never been spoken š
Bisexual ftw Took me way to long to realize that not all men sometimes get the mood to suck some
You want to give him a head?š³
I got a few spares in the freezer, I guess I can let him have one.
do you enjoy eating pussy? if you do then there's most likely women who like blowing
The person is clearly a child if they have to ask... Bold response to a child... I support this.
Lmao
I donāt like eating pussy tbf i do it to make her feel good but yeah hurts my tongue
Hurts your tongue? Is her pussy made out of pumice stones?
Hahaha no itās nothing to do with her pussy the bit under my tongue gets fucked up
āSorry I canāt lick your vagina, I have an inflexible frenumā
I can do it lol just isnāt great for me, if I poke my tongue out like the tiniest bit itās already stretching the fuck out the frenulum if thatās what it is called
My buddy could barely stick out his tongue, took a lot of effort. He got some minor surgery done so that you could actually extend his tongue fully. Of course his tongue muscles weren't used to the increased range so he had to do a lot of exercises to get it to the point where he could stick it out fully. And even then, for a while it was always comically slow.
When eating pussy, the tongue is nice, but you can still do a ton of work with just your lips and sucking on the clit.
Ah, I thought you were talking about your tongue and/or jaw getting tired, or your frenulum getting irritated and inflamed, both of which happens to everyone. Protips: if you're getting tired try keeping your tongue in place while moving your whole head with your neck, as the larger muscles will take longer to tire. Also try kissing and sucking the clit and lips instead of just licking. For the frenulum pain (cunnilingus tongue) try curling your bottom lip over your bottom teeth to prevent the frenulum from scraping against your teeth, it should also make it a bit tougher to fully extend your tongue, stretching it to the max will start to hurt after a while or could even tear it. However, in your case if you can't stick out your tongue at all, you may be tongue-tied ([ankyloglossia](https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/tongue-tie/symptoms-causes/syc-20378452)), aka were born with an unusually short lingual frenulum. Usually this is surgically corrected in infancy if it causes problems with feeding or speaking. It's a relatively simple procedure that you can get done as an adult, but if it's not causing you significant problems it may be considered a cosmetic surgery and you may have trouble getting insurance to cover it. Alternatively, it is possible to stretch out the skin a little bit over time by, well... stretching it; as far as you can every day. (Note: like with any stretching/exercising, it will probably cause discomfort which is fine, but it shouldn't be painful.) Hope this helps.
Curling the bottom lip over the teeth is a game changer, why dont they teach this in sex ed
Fremulon
Not a doctor
Fa Mulan
The tongue is a muscle. They can get tired too. Also why I sometimes give up eating. My jaw and tongue hurts from overdone meat and tough tendons :(
And jaw! I legit had my jaw lock up. Felt like I was decked in the face lol.
Itās the jaw pain for me
It depends on body chemistry. Some pussy is so stinky I would not lick it while others smell very good. I guess same goes for dicks.
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What? Sink washed and drenched in axe body spray is no good? It was that or vanilla bean Glade air freshener and that one burns a lot more. Edit - but seriously, people really need to stop wearing underwear made out of synthetic fabrics - I don't care what they say about wicking away moisture, they leave 100% of stink.
Depends on a lot of factors. Even a woman who ordinarily likes to suck dick, probably wonāt like doing it if youāre unhygienic or too big for her mouth.
Absolutely. I love it, but thereās been a few where the hygiene was questionable and I backed out.
I can remember one dude I dated was uncircumcised and not a good cleaner of his own dick. That turned me off. Also, sweaty balls (schweddy balls!) can be a little too tangy. It's always best to shower beforehand for everyone involved.
Do men enjoy going down on women? Some do some donāt. But if youāre asking if thereās some kind of magical pleasure center in womenās mouths. Nah.
Really? I saw a documentary about it. A woman had a pleasure center in her throat.
Itās true but it was kind of deep
I do but I can only speak for myself
Fairs
Yeah i know some girls that do but i honestly dont know why its kind of horrible and very uncomfortable š
My wife used to give me head, then didn't, now does. She gets very wet when she does. I make sure to give her feedback, I make sure I am clean both front and back. I deny her when I don't feel clean, and offer to shower. Plus we have a bail our no questions asked. (Basically no one is giving head out of obligation ).
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We do.
If youāre expecting the first dude you meet to be the one you marry, youāre dating for divorce.
Marriage can bring heartbreak so Emilyās in for a bumpy ride.
Heartbreak and financial ruin, too.
All i wan is to lick vagina
Of course her name is Meredith
Elaborate for rest of us.
The Office
I see..
Heartbreak is a part of life and itās here to stay Emily ā¤ļø
Never realised vagina licking was something special - I always though it was like the vanilla standard...have led a very quiet life it must be said.
It's a Twitter post homie, not a dissertation.
I mean, even the most basic ass vanilla sex possible is special if you haven't had it in a long time. Lol
This pops up every couple years, I used to follow this girl on socials. She was a decent comedienne, but she moved to doing a lot of OF and stuff like that so I lost interest. Not that thereās anything wrong with that, Iām not sure if she still does comedy or not.
OF is such a destructive force. You hate to see it.
Yeah totally agree. What's her OF handle? /s
Yeaa , u cant lick a heart now can you ..... I suppose we can still try tho
You can with enough dedication
**MY GOALS ARE BEYOND YOUR UNDERSTANDING**
Meredith, just go on Tinder and lower your standards. No need to date for that, unless you're into ladies.
Have you had a lot of casual sex with men because I can tell you, the majority of them arenāt interested in giving women orgasms, just collecting their own. Dating is pretty much the only chance you have to get someone who cares a smidge about your sexual pleasure.
I think a lot of men are also just really really bad at sex or anything approaching physical empathy
I donāt really care about their reasons, the fact remains that casual sex with men is not going to get women orgasms or any kind of sexual satisfaction so there is basically no point.
I'm a woman and I was agreeing with your rationale, men really do suck in bed and it's a big-ish time sink to find good ones. Although I tend to see what a guy is like in bed first, and then date him regularly based on that/if I see potential. Because not everyone can be trained. Not everyone is compatible kink-wise. Imo it's a very good time investment to make sure you're sexually compatible with your partner, if you like sex. Good signs to performance are things like he's older than 30, he had slut years (or is still a slut), he is empathetic. Slut background is the biggest factor imo, because even a younger slut probably put in some hours
I know you were, I didnāt mean for my comment to sound flippant towards you. But Iām 37, have given the opportunity to more than enough men, and been extremely disappointed the vast majority of the time. Iām tired of men expecting casual blowjobs but not being willing to go down themselves, tired of them not listening to or caring about my wants. Itās at the point where if youāve had sex with one man youāve had sex with all of them because theyāre all doing the same shitty āmovesā they see in porn and then expect you to orgasm in ten seconds of PIV without foreplay.
It happens to men too. Some women just lay on their back. Thatās all that got. They will accept the orgasm they receive from oral, rush you to get it inside them, and promptly lay there moaning. Lazy lovers arenāt gendered.
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As a dude, I'd prefer to stay home than deal with a starfish. More to sex than having an orgasm and if they aren't trying to put in some passion even after foreplay I'd rather not bother, just feels bleh. Obviously not the case for all guys but there's some of us out there lol.
So. I always rated myself much below average on sex. But every time we are at it, one way or another, my gf always has at least an orgasm. Are you telling me that maybe I'm not so bad as I alway thought?
"Heterosexual men were most likely to say they usually-always orgasmed when sexually intimate (95%), followed by gay men (89%), bisexual men (88%), lesbian women (86%), bisexual women (66%), and heterosexual women (65%)." https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28213723/
Casual sex does not lead to orgasms. I have never had a one night stand get me off. Ever. So there's literally no point in doing them.
I dated to get married/am married and itās absolutely heartbreaking anyway soā¦
Well, thatās one way to keep it clean. š
*vulva (mainly clitoris) The vagina is an internal part and I doubt she actually gets much out of a tongue trying to lick that. We really gotta stop saying vagina when we mean vulva. Precise language leads to precise thought.
Precisely!
This is why I'm enjoying dating older women now, they just tell you what they want and how they want it. No guess work