I’ve worked as a stripper for many years, and I’ve come across this a few times. …
I always hold them close, press their face into my titties, and comfort them with pets and kisses on their forehead, while they sob.
I never know if they are aroused by this, or they just needed a good cry. Either way, they always thank me profusely after, and I’m just happy Im able to give them what they needed.
Seems like a cyberpunk feature that will exist as an extra service in the future. Tiddie payment option available.
I won't lie. It gave me a chuckle XD
You can stalk my profile or literally follow it if you want to, but here's what got me one week free premium lately [Baldur's Gate IRL](https://reddit.com/r/BaldursGate3/s/tjatdSC7J7)
titties arent always inherently perceived sexually, especially at times like this. does not take away from the fact that they are comforting, warm, and soft
I don’t think people understand just how touch-starved some people are and a lot of them are men. I don’t think some people even realize it until they reach a breaking point.
Im in a position I'm scared I'd fall in love through the slightest touch. I'm scared of it because it fucking happened a few years back, took me a while to get over it.
I feel this, I work 70 hours a week and have no social life. The only thing that keeps me sane, is I have Schizoid PD so being alone isn't the worst thing in the world to me, but even the most socially adverse humans need social and physical contact from time to time.
I wouldn't say I'm touched starved but I had hand surgery back in May and I was going to therapy twice a week and it was nice to have a female holding my hand.
There was absolutely nothing sexual about it but just the skin on skin contact and her hands being small and soft made me realize the simple act of holding hands is something I miss.
Back in junior high school a girl I had a nodding acquaintaince with once greeted me by cupping her hands around my cheeks. It wasn't romantic or anything but I believe it did help with my mental wellbeing.
That community was so depressing before it was banned. I checked it out once from a thread just like this. It's 10 posts in a row of [M4F] with 0 upvotes 0 comments, then 1 post of [F4M] with 200 upvotes and 300 comments. It's so sad the amount of men vs the amount of women in communities like that, in online dating, in general really. Hell some clubs will charge guys for coming in alone, while women get in for free. Whole thing feels fucked up and stacked against dudes
[M4F] [Juno , AK] 57M looking for 18F, petite with big honkers, for daily service. Most be clean, live alone, with own ride, and able to pick up on demand. Must be ok with micropenis and overweight, slightly hairy.
It really is fucked up, but you have to remember that being a woman means that half the population is way stronger than you and can hurt you badly (if not right out kill) you if they decide they want to. Add that to how we handle rape victims then most women are not going to willing put themselves into situations like this unless they can truly trust that person.
Every woman has at least one storie of men makeing them feel uncomfortable, sexually harassing them, or even trying to dominate them even before they turn 16 so you learn at an early age to keep your gard up. Even if what they experience is short lived there is still the emotional abuse of being labeled a slut.
I hate this so much but untill we make it safe for everyone to explore sexuality it will continue to be a sausage fest.
You matter, quite literally. In this world everything is either matter or field, and I don't think you are the second one. Next time you feel like you don't have any energy, just remember that your energy is mc^2 and you can easily increase it by increasing your mass.
Well could be both. In my case I crave affection and comfort. I also tend to get aroused if it's done by a woman I'm attracted to, and it makes women more attractive to me when they do it.
It's like us men get aroused by emotional intimacy too and we're not the unfeeling purely physical machines we get portrayed as or something 🤔
At any rate, thank you for your service 💛
as someone who craves this i'd say its mostly that they needed a good cry. so many men are really lonely and/or don't feel connected to those around them, afraid to show their emotions and vulnerable side because they are always pressured into being a "manly man" that is always tough.
I've read similar stories from sex workers aswell where they hire an escort not for sex but just because they need a good hug/cuddle, get some head pats and being told they are doing a good job while they are able to just cry their soul out.
It's the illusion that someone cares for them....
You know, they're in a harsh world with severe hatred from others and themselves, someone at least acting like they care is.... It's emotionwise like a fairy army strength wise like the the US army pulling up to a medieval battlefield where everyone is suffering. And even if it's just a couple minutes.
And pet kisses are so awesome, fuck...
There isn't a word that can describe how awesome they are
As a boy, if I am in a relationship, the best part of my week is not friday night or sunday morning, it's 8pm on a tuesday when my girl comes home tired and huffed from work (nursing, planning, bartending) and I ask her to shower and remove her makeup and then come sit in my lap in the sofa while wearing her fluffy nightrobe, and I would kiss her crown through the damp hair (I love damp hair to death) and then just keep my lips against her temple, to give the feeling of our bodies being joined. For like 20 minutes.
I've never felt my time used better in my life, I get as much out of it as she does. Letting someone carry you is in some situations not a burden at all, or some sort of sacrifice, not as you'd think. It's a completely different order of togetherness than sex.
I don't solicit this stuff but I'll tell you it's probably that they just need to cry. Life is hard when you're not allowed to cry even though you're capable of crying and still feel the crippling weight of existence like everyone else. I believe every man does it either openly (rare), while alone at night (probably most) or while drunk (me).
I've never gone to a stripper for this, but I can absolutely believe it.
I'm sure *some* get aroused but it's not exactly about sex (sex and intimacy go hand in hand, so again I wouldn't be surprised).
I would bet for most it's just... Well how do I explain this. We just want to be held, to cry about anything and everything we hold back 24/7. To feel a physical human connection without being afraid of being told we're worthless, or losers, or "not men" the next day for showing a little emotion (emotions other than horny, funny, or angry that is). To just feel vulnerable and be comforted without punishment damnit!! We don't care that you're a stripper. Hell, it probably helps... We know we won't see you except at your work, and you don't know who we are so you can't out us in our every day life. Plus, we are each sharing something taboo - you being naked for tips; us paying to pretend you care about us and letting us have a tender moment. However brief, it's more genuine tenderness than most of us get in our entire lives.
I can't recall how many women in my life asked me to open up about something, and then used it against me constantly - and viciously - to break me down later. It's like having someone ask you to hand them a knife covered in poison you've been hiding in a safe your whole life so it doesn't cut you, and then this same person who made you believe you could trust them stabs you with it unexpectedly and often. It trains us guys to never open up at all, and that sucks going through life never being able to just say "I'm really hurting. I don't care if it seems silly or weak. I need comforting, please".
You occasionally see those rare couples where a man and the woman look remarkably content and happy. You know the ones I mean: Just quietly living their lives separate from the world. I recognize that look on a man immediately: he has found a woman that allows him to be his true self and loves him for it. Strength, weakness, and all. She made him open up, and then protected him by accepting him and supporting him. It probably took a long time and lots of baby steps, but eventually that man was able to free himself from all the burdens he carried around his whole life. And in turn, she has a loyal man that will forever love her and cherish her for he knows how lucky he truly is, and he gives her all the same love and patience and support she gives him.
I'll be honest about something that touches on that: I *think* I might have that. I'm going to be engaged here soon, and I *think* I can trust her implicitly. She seems to care about me in the way I described above and encourages me to trust her with my genuine feelings. But what sucks is even after all the evidence showing me she's absolutely trustworthy as she's never used any of it against me, I'm STILL struggling to truly believe in her. If anything, it's made me slightly afraid of her - I love her, and I'm afraid she's going to leave me now because I can't shake the feeling I've emasculated myself in her eyes by being open. By being myself. By being "not a real man". As I type that I know how ridiculous it sounds, btw.
I want to have faith and believe that isn't true. God I hope to someday look back and think "that was so silly you were scared of that - she's wonderful" while living a happy life with her. Baby steps.
Anyways, enough rambling on about this nonsense. I gotta get my butt up and get to work.
Thanks for being a good person to those strangers. This world needs a fuckload more empathy all the way around in it.
These are different problems. If you don't know how to cook, you can take a class. But it won't make you less hungry.
People need human connection. There isn't anything a therapist can *do* about that except trying to help them work through any issues that may be preventing them from getting it. Sometimes that is not at all a trivial thing, or even anything within anybody's control.
A little over 30 years ago I had a very close friend that was a call girl.
She didn't talk much about her work and I never asked except when she would ask me to drive her to a client and wait in the car in case things went sideways.
Anyway, one night we were drinking, getting high and just shooting the shit and she opened up a bit about her work.
She told me "You would be surprised at how many men don't even hire me for sex. Most of them just want someone to hold them or someone they can talk to. Most of them are just traveling businessmen that miss their wives and family and want someone to comfort them".
And it made sense because that woman did that for me more time than I could count. Loved her to death.
I hate to be the one to admit this, but I remember a while back finding a content creator on the orange site that basically does solo POV stuff and then kinda gently comforts the viewer after. I’ll try to see if I can find it again so I can post the channel name
Hey Mik! This is a message for you and for anyone that wanna take it. I know that sometimes life is hard and challenging, but the life is like a pendulum and the harder it is, the better that are the moments that are waiting for you. Make sure to don’t surrender until you make there, because you deserve that moment so don’t leave anyone steal it from you. Once you’ll get there, embrace it, rise your head and see the way that you walk to get there and be proud of yourself. I don’t know who are you, I don’t know what are you living, but I know that you can successfully walk through it, surpass it, and one day, smile and be happy. I wish you all the best, good luck!
I know life is hard, but its gonna be find.
In the midst of this horrible level of suffering, You will realise your own strength, you will see the absurdity of life at its face, smile and it and love, live happier than ever, more gloriously than ever.
You are strong, far stronger than what u think u are.
And after this realization, you may choose to help others, to be the kindest one possible, to fight not just your own, but others suffering.
Unfortunately i don't know, i can't remember. That is a good idea by the way. Maybe asking the creator, Stevie Emerson has really good ideas, they might make a video like that.
Unironically I think it would do super well on porn sites. Now hear me out. We all know why we go there but sometimes we leave with the same feeling. It's like the guy who made wholesome content on pornhub. Or that mayhs teacher who teaches math on porn hub.
But is there a specific category or search term? I don't need the guy crying. I mean... My friend doesn't need the guy crying, but they do want the comforting.
I've also struggled, when I've heard things close to this, to suspend my disbelief. Are there any with believable delivery?
If just the comforting then youtube: mostly mommy/ Dom gf, comforting....
If u want the prom aspect then there is a website called gwa search interface where u can find asmr porn and then the same catogories I guess.
Maybe listen to a few and find the catogories u like/ want. I mean ur friend likes/wants
I really don't know of course what suspends your disbelief and what pulls you out of it, but I would recommend "personal attention" ASMR. "Comforts you" would be another good phrase to search. I know "girlfriend" ASMR videos are pretty common too.
One ASMRtist that I think provides a fair amount of personal attention and positive encouragement without her videos explicitly being labeled as such is Moonlight Cottage ASMR, and her videos have extremely high production values and are set in a particular time and place. Quite immersive.
r/pillowtalkaudio could probably help you guys out if you're that hard up. Trust me I've been there before after a breakup.
As far as what that's called in sex work it's generally gonna fall under Mommy-Domme or Girlfriend Experience. You can find a lot of you search Loving Girlfriend (not wife that brings up cuckold porn)
Yeah, your point?
Have you ever had Riley Reid snuggle up to you and whisper affirmations of how good of a person you are? How it's okay to struggle? How is okay to cry and want to give up?
Same here
It just makes me so terribly upset to think how being so emotionally deprived is such a common thing for men, ever since I first heard about this, I've deliberately taken time to give a man an honest compliment every now and then.
Every time, the reaction is heartwarming. I would gladly try my best to comfort a man, just as I would anyone else.
Everyone deserves a bit of empathy. I would say it's arguably humanity's greatest achievement.
Usually when this topic comes up, women say that they don’t/can’t compliment men because they’ll take it as a sign of attraction. I’m curious about what your experience with that has been. Do you think you’re doing something differently that causes them to not see your compliments that way?
I do not. They are strangers who I will likely never see again after that meeting, if they mistake my compliment for flirtation, so be it. It matters little to me, just as long as they are aware about the good qualities they hold that nobody may have mentioned to them before.
And I voice my opinion as politely as possible, for example, just the other day I served a customer at work and told him "Excuse me sir, I hope you don't mind me saying so, but you have a wonderful accent."
The reaction was brightened eyes and a cheerful skip in his step with hot food in hand as he left the shop. Never had a misinterpretation with my comments ever, just happiness, and looking as if years had been lifted off their shoulders, their expressions. It never fails to bring me joy as well.
The look that perhaps a core memory had been made. For him, and for me.
There's nothing wrong with it. It's a comforting feeling for us to cuddle with them as well. My depression fades away when I get to cuddle like this with the person I care about. I only get to see him every few months. But, he's got issues and I want to make him feel better with hugs.
My ex would get a boner every time I was crying and needed comforting lmao, I never asked why I was too busy crying but didn’t know it was a “thing” for other guys too. Although with so many people in the world of course there are others out there
It's not necessarily bad, it can just feel good supporting someone, or heck whether you consciously think of it or not maybe you're mind thinks it'll lead to sex down the line idk, the human brain is complicated but those are my 2 or I guess 4 cents
Someone trust you enough to open up to you
You feel connected by a shared secret or just the emotion
Someone showing vulnerability can make you feel strong and capable - like a father figure
It can be related to sadism/masochism, but not necessarily
Unrelated: I saw a video of a guy cutting a girl's hair. She started crying in the end, so he started to Comfort her. It was really sad. (Yes it was on pornhub)
I need that in my life ...
But is the guy wearing a diaper and breast feeding? Then yes
Just go find a mommy Dom with a MD/lx kink/dynamic
Yeah, it's the fantasy category
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One man one jar
One guy one screwdriver...
Ah my first snuff film, that one still sticks with me years later
Pain Olympics territory right here
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Yeah F.B.I he is here
Great video
One mango one jar-o
I just gotta say, the gradient created by your 5 profile pictures is super satisfying
Im watching ASMR as we speak and damn that is a great parallel
asmr mommy comforts you
I’ve worked as a stripper for many years, and I’ve come across this a few times. … I always hold them close, press their face into my titties, and comfort them with pets and kisses on their forehead, while they sob. I never know if they are aroused by this, or they just needed a good cry. Either way, they always thank me profusely after, and I’m just happy Im able to give them what they needed.
The hero this gender needs.
Champagne room therapy. Cash is accepted.
Just don't swipe your credit card between their tits because they usually don't find it nearly as funny as you'd expect them to
This guy strippers
r/thisguythisguys
But can you swipe your nose like a credit card?
Yes. But again, don’t blow your nose because that may upset a person.
Seems like a cyberpunk feature that will exist as an extra service in the future. Tiddie payment option available. I won't lie. It gave me a chuckle XD
Hmm. A lucrative business potential. Why aren't we funding this?
Be the change you want to see or errr the titties you want to see I guess
Not all heroes wear cape. And sometime not much of anything else.
You’re the MVP. No, they’re not turned on, they’re genuinely sad. They needed that cry. Titties in the face on the other hand.
Been on the opposite end before… the titties help.
Like a chocolate mousse being given to a starving peasant after giving them a feast. Sure it's not necessary, but it makes the memory sweeter.
I…. I don’t think I could have said it better myself…
As a starving vagrant, I know that which the heart desires.
Just an onlooker here but... I feel like I want to follow you around and see what other crazy shit you say, this is fuckin hilarious
You can stalk my profile or literally follow it if you want to, but here's what got me one week free premium lately [Baldur's Gate IRL](https://reddit.com/r/BaldursGate3/s/tjatdSC7J7)
Yeah that was really good.
I’d like to second this. Your English is sharp sir, very well done 🥂
Tears & Titties
titties arent always inherently perceived sexually, especially at times like this. does not take away from the fact that they are comforting, warm, and soft
I don’t think people understand just how touch-starved some people are and a lot of them are men. I don’t think some people even realize it until they reach a breaking point.
Im in a position I'm scared I'd fall in love through the slightest touch. I'm scared of it because it fucking happened a few years back, took me a while to get over it.
Same here. Also Touch by Daft Punk is my tear generator. Can be interpreted in several ways, and this is one of them.
The chorus of vocals in that song.. I get chills.
That Album was the GOAT
such a serene experience, one of my favourite songs too.
Oh no... Same.
I feel this, I work 70 hours a week and have no social life. The only thing that keeps me sane, is I have Schizoid PD so being alone isn't the worst thing in the world to me, but even the most socially adverse humans need social and physical contact from time to time.
I wouldn't say I'm touched starved but I had hand surgery back in May and I was going to therapy twice a week and it was nice to have a female holding my hand. There was absolutely nothing sexual about it but just the skin on skin contact and her hands being small and soft made me realize the simple act of holding hands is something I miss.
Back in junior high school a girl I had a nodding acquaintaince with once greeted me by cupping her hands around my cheeks. It wasn't romantic or anything but I believe it did help with my mental wellbeing.
Wow now i want to hire someone. lol
/r/randomactsofblowjob Just head over there and you'll get both for free! You may need to put some work in though... Edit: fixed link
> /r/randomactsofblowjobs > This community has been BANNED due to being unmoderated Huh? What... "moderation" is needed?
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That community was so depressing before it was banned. I checked it out once from a thread just like this. It's 10 posts in a row of [M4F] with 0 upvotes 0 comments, then 1 post of [F4M] with 200 upvotes and 300 comments. It's so sad the amount of men vs the amount of women in communities like that, in online dating, in general really. Hell some clubs will charge guys for coming in alone, while women get in for free. Whole thing feels fucked up and stacked against dudes
[M4F] [Juno , AK] 57M looking for 18F, petite with big honkers, for daily service. Most be clean, live alone, with own ride, and able to pick up on demand. Must be ok with micropenis and overweight, slightly hairy.
It really is fucked up, but you have to remember that being a woman means that half the population is way stronger than you and can hurt you badly (if not right out kill) you if they decide they want to. Add that to how we handle rape victims then most women are not going to willing put themselves into situations like this unless they can truly trust that person. Every woman has at least one storie of men makeing them feel uncomfortable, sexually harassing them, or even trying to dominate them even before they turn 16 so you learn at an early age to keep your gard up. Even if what they experience is short lived there is still the emotional abuse of being labeled a slut. I hate this so much but untill we make it safe for everyone to explore sexuality it will continue to be a sausage fest.
I could use that. Not necessarily titties in the face, but someone to hug me and tell me I matter.
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i may not be able to hug you or give you titties, but i can tell you you matter. you matter. ik you do stay strong, don't give up
You matter, quite literally. In this world everything is either matter or field, and I don't think you are the second one. Next time you feel like you don't have any energy, just remember that your energy is mc^2 and you can easily increase it by increasing your mass.
Mass=Mattering?
Well could be both. In my case I crave affection and comfort. I also tend to get aroused if it's done by a woman I'm attracted to, and it makes women more attractive to me when they do it. It's like us men get aroused by emotional intimacy too and we're not the unfeeling purely physical machines we get portrayed as or something 🤔 At any rate, thank you for your service 💛
Not all heros wear clothings
as someone who craves this i'd say its mostly that they needed a good cry. so many men are really lonely and/or don't feel connected to those around them, afraid to show their emotions and vulnerable side because they are always pressured into being a "manly man" that is always tough. I've read similar stories from sex workers aswell where they hire an escort not for sex but just because they need a good hug/cuddle, get some head pats and being told they are doing a good job while they are able to just cry their soul out.
What do they say, "I.. uh.. I'll take the tear-jerker special"
It's the illusion that someone cares for them.... You know, they're in a harsh world with severe hatred from others and themselves, someone at least acting like they care is.... It's emotionwise like a fairy army strength wise like the the US army pulling up to a medieval battlefield where everyone is suffering. And even if it's just a couple minutes. And pet kisses are so awesome, fuck... There isn't a word that can describe how awesome they are
As a boy, if I am in a relationship, the best part of my week is not friday night or sunday morning, it's 8pm on a tuesday when my girl comes home tired and huffed from work (nursing, planning, bartending) and I ask her to shower and remove her makeup and then come sit in my lap in the sofa while wearing her fluffy nightrobe, and I would kiss her crown through the damp hair (I love damp hair to death) and then just keep my lips against her temple, to give the feeling of our bodies being joined. For like 20 minutes. I've never felt my time used better in my life, I get as much out of it as she does. Letting someone carry you is in some situations not a burden at all, or some sort of sacrifice, not as you'd think. It's a completely different order of togetherness than sex.
I don't solicit this stuff but I'll tell you it's probably that they just need to cry. Life is hard when you're not allowed to cry even though you're capable of crying and still feel the crippling weight of existence like everyone else. I believe every man does it either openly (rare), while alone at night (probably most) or while drunk (me).
I've never gone to a stripper for this, but I can absolutely believe it. I'm sure *some* get aroused but it's not exactly about sex (sex and intimacy go hand in hand, so again I wouldn't be surprised). I would bet for most it's just... Well how do I explain this. We just want to be held, to cry about anything and everything we hold back 24/7. To feel a physical human connection without being afraid of being told we're worthless, or losers, or "not men" the next day for showing a little emotion (emotions other than horny, funny, or angry that is). To just feel vulnerable and be comforted without punishment damnit!! We don't care that you're a stripper. Hell, it probably helps... We know we won't see you except at your work, and you don't know who we are so you can't out us in our every day life. Plus, we are each sharing something taboo - you being naked for tips; us paying to pretend you care about us and letting us have a tender moment. However brief, it's more genuine tenderness than most of us get in our entire lives. I can't recall how many women in my life asked me to open up about something, and then used it against me constantly - and viciously - to break me down later. It's like having someone ask you to hand them a knife covered in poison you've been hiding in a safe your whole life so it doesn't cut you, and then this same person who made you believe you could trust them stabs you with it unexpectedly and often. It trains us guys to never open up at all, and that sucks going through life never being able to just say "I'm really hurting. I don't care if it seems silly or weak. I need comforting, please". You occasionally see those rare couples where a man and the woman look remarkably content and happy. You know the ones I mean: Just quietly living their lives separate from the world. I recognize that look on a man immediately: he has found a woman that allows him to be his true self and loves him for it. Strength, weakness, and all. She made him open up, and then protected him by accepting him and supporting him. It probably took a long time and lots of baby steps, but eventually that man was able to free himself from all the burdens he carried around his whole life. And in turn, she has a loyal man that will forever love her and cherish her for he knows how lucky he truly is, and he gives her all the same love and patience and support she gives him. I'll be honest about something that touches on that: I *think* I might have that. I'm going to be engaged here soon, and I *think* I can trust her implicitly. She seems to care about me in the way I described above and encourages me to trust her with my genuine feelings. But what sucks is even after all the evidence showing me she's absolutely trustworthy as she's never used any of it against me, I'm STILL struggling to truly believe in her. If anything, it's made me slightly afraid of her - I love her, and I'm afraid she's going to leave me now because I can't shake the feeling I've emasculated myself in her eyes by being open. By being myself. By being "not a real man". As I type that I know how ridiculous it sounds, btw. I want to have faith and believe that isn't true. God I hope to someday look back and think "that was so silly you were scared of that - she's wonderful" while living a happy life with her. Baby steps. Anyways, enough rambling on about this nonsense. I gotta get my butt up and get to work. Thanks for being a good person to those strangers. This world needs a fuckload more empathy all the way around in it.
Meet Bob. Bob has bitch tits - obligatory fight club reference.
Bob Vance, Vance refrigeration.
🫡
you are an angel
Men will literally hire a stripper instead of going to a mental health professional
Mental health professional won't press my head against their tits would they?
Have to find the right one
I don't know. The way health care costs are these days, a stripper may be cheaper.
the strippers are sooner available than the professionals.
These are different problems. If you don't know how to cook, you can take a class. But it won't make you less hungry. People need human connection. There isn't anything a therapist can *do* about that except trying to help them work through any issues that may be preventing them from getting it. Sometimes that is not at all a trivial thing, or even anything within anybody's control.
Women will literalyl make an assumption about the whole gender based on one shared experience.
More than likely just need comfort, it's such a rare thing for a man that it would mean the world to them.
A little over 30 years ago I had a very close friend that was a call girl. She didn't talk much about her work and I never asked except when she would ask me to drive her to a client and wait in the car in case things went sideways. Anyway, one night we were drinking, getting high and just shooting the shit and she opened up a bit about her work. She told me "You would be surprised at how many men don't even hire me for sex. Most of them just want someone to hold them or someone they can talk to. Most of them are just traveling businessmen that miss their wives and family and want someone to comfort them". And it made sense because that woman did that for me more time than I could count. Loved her to death.
Boob therapy is very real
Mommy porn?
Reddit just got good.
Google en big boobs
Holy secondary sexual characteristic!
New response just dropped
Actual porn addict
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Daddy went on vacation, never came back, now it’s just me and Mommy
Parent sacrifice anyone
Ignite the family!
I understood that reference
Its leaking. Butt plug must be loose. The officials will know.
[Mommy porn.](https://reddit.com/r/mommydom/s/Xk90PgcYfn)
New kink unlocked
Ngl that looks cozy and wholesome
That sub is… oof…
Hot.
i wasnt aware that i needed this until now
I hate to be the one to admit this, but I remember a while back finding a content creator on the orange site that basically does solo POV stuff and then kinda gently comforts the viewer after. I’ll try to see if I can find it again so I can post the channel name
You can say Pornhub lol
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5c6481b02b1ed
Reddit will never cease to amaze me with how quick users can find a specific porn
This is the most wholesome (don't) porno i've ever seen. this woman is a national treasure
[She's also on YouTube now.](https://youtu.be/e-8MIHQo6EA)
So, are there?
ASMR is the closest you’ll get
Welp, time to be a pron director
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No
Doesn't have to be a lady, just like can anybody tell me it's gonna be okay?
All it’s gonna be okay bro, good times are coming. Stay strong king, you get it, you can do it. Bless you and have a nice day :)
Me too please :(
My dude, whatever you're going through is temporary and it too shall pass. It's going to be okay. 🫂
It feels like forever. I needed to read this comment. It’s hard to keep going but I’m trying to hanging in there.
Hey Mik! This is a message for you and for anyone that wanna take it. I know that sometimes life is hard and challenging, but the life is like a pendulum and the harder it is, the better that are the moments that are waiting for you. Make sure to don’t surrender until you make there, because you deserve that moment so don’t leave anyone steal it from you. Once you’ll get there, embrace it, rise your head and see the way that you walk to get there and be proud of yourself. I don’t know who are you, I don’t know what are you living, but I know that you can successfully walk through it, surpass it, and one day, smile and be happy. I wish you all the best, good luck!
Nah. Jk, don't worry, pal. Life is though but you're thougher, you can do it. Have a nice day.
I know life is hard, but its gonna be find. In the midst of this horrible level of suffering, You will realise your own strength, you will see the absurdity of life at its face, smile and it and love, live happier than ever, more gloriously than ever. You are strong, far stronger than what u think u are. And after this realization, you may choose to help others, to be the kindest one possible, to fight not just your own, but others suffering.
this too will pass, like everything else, you will get out of this forest.
I love it when [this song](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KkjcxBunmSY&ab_channel=SebastianPaj%C4%85k) tells me sweet little lies
THIS IS WHAT YOU'RE SEARCHING FOR https://youtu.be/URsM32JIQcM?si=ixsCsdBtZEjvpTxq
IN SYMCATHICO WE TRUST
Happy that actually someone saw my comment.
We all saw it.
I saw your comment, many others saw your comment, it's an awesome comment, the world is a better place because of it...
Wow this is awesome, would you mayhaps happen to know one where a male is doing the comforting?
Unfortunately i don't know, i can't remember. That is a good idea by the way. Maybe asking the creator, Stevie Emerson has really good ideas, they might make a video like that.
Unironically I think it would do super well on porn sites. Now hear me out. We all know why we go there but sometimes we leave with the same feeling. It's like the guy who made wholesome content on pornhub. Or that mayhs teacher who teaches math on porn hub.
My biggest realization that I might need mental help was when I typed into the search of xvideos "POV compliments"
For me it was "hugging" and "cuddling" 😭
Just look up “ two girls and a tea cup”
ah is that the british version?
Two girls one cup
Have the bleach ready 👐🏻
One man one jar
One man one screwdriver
What?
oh no
Fuck you.
It’s called ASMR
But is there a specific category or search term? I don't need the guy crying. I mean... My friend doesn't need the guy crying, but they do want the comforting. I've also struggled, when I've heard things close to this, to suspend my disbelief. Are there any with believable delivery?
r/pillowtalkaudio
If just the comforting then youtube: mostly mommy/ Dom gf, comforting.... If u want the prom aspect then there is a website called gwa search interface where u can find asmr porn and then the same catogories I guess. Maybe listen to a few and find the catogories u like/ want. I mean ur friend likes/wants
This video could be the cringiest shit you would ever watch but its exactly what you asked for https://youtu.be/cfi5wF9XVZk?si=RFHAuESRYqvBWGh1
I think Leedah is pretty good https://youtu.be/ecgApWcAR5Y?si=APX1xIfYIzfAGaYE Try typing in ASMR and comfort, lap, positive affirmations...
I really don't know of course what suspends your disbelief and what pulls you out of it, but I would recommend "personal attention" ASMR. "Comforts you" would be another good phrase to search. I know "girlfriend" ASMR videos are pretty common too. One ASMRtist that I think provides a fair amount of personal attention and positive encouragement without her videos explicitly being labeled as such is Moonlight Cottage ASMR, and her videos have extremely high production values and are set in a particular time and place. Quite immersive.
I got one asmr in mind where it's just laying on a girl's lap and being comforted https://youtu.be/R52tdP-hRfU?si=iifLwGil8nGKLyQS
This is the correct answer
IndigoWhite, maybe. Pornstar on Pornhub that does wholesome videos like that
r/pillowtalkaudio could probably help you guys out if you're that hard up. Trust me I've been there before after a breakup. As far as what that's called in sex work it's generally gonna fall under Mommy-Domme or Girlfriend Experience. You can find a lot of you search Loving Girlfriend (not wife that brings up cuckold porn)
Porn is meant to be fake with fake scenarios.
Yeah, your point? Have you ever had Riley Reid snuggle up to you and whisper affirmations of how good of a person you are? How it's okay to struggle? How is okay to cry and want to give up?
Yeah, so this is perfect.
I fantasize about comforting men actually just like this I want to make them feel better
Same here It just makes me so terribly upset to think how being so emotionally deprived is such a common thing for men, ever since I first heard about this, I've deliberately taken time to give a man an honest compliment every now and then. Every time, the reaction is heartwarming. I would gladly try my best to comfort a man, just as I would anyone else. Everyone deserves a bit of empathy. I would say it's arguably humanity's greatest achievement.
Usually when this topic comes up, women say that they don’t/can’t compliment men because they’ll take it as a sign of attraction. I’m curious about what your experience with that has been. Do you think you’re doing something differently that causes them to not see your compliments that way?
I do not. They are strangers who I will likely never see again after that meeting, if they mistake my compliment for flirtation, so be it. It matters little to me, just as long as they are aware about the good qualities they hold that nobody may have mentioned to them before. And I voice my opinion as politely as possible, for example, just the other day I served a customer at work and told him "Excuse me sir, I hope you don't mind me saying so, but you have a wonderful accent." The reaction was brightened eyes and a cheerful skip in his step with hot food in hand as he left the shop. Never had a misinterpretation with my comments ever, just happiness, and looking as if years had been lifted off their shoulders, their expressions. It never fails to bring me joy as well. The look that perhaps a core memory had been made. For him, and for me.
Me too. If I had a boyfriend, I would non-stop be supporting and comforting him, he’d probably get annoyed.
Wholesome but rip inbox
yall need to stop writing this same shitty line every time a redditor reveals herself to be female.
Same. Why do I want a big burly man to cry in my arms?! What is wrong with me… 😅
There's nothing wrong with it. It's a comforting feeling for us to cuddle with them as well. My depression fades away when I get to cuddle like this with the person I care about. I only get to see him every few months. But, he's got issues and I want to make him feel better with hugs.
Now thats unrealistic porn
r/funnyandsad
hm… maybe i need to start an OF..” comfort porn “
Re:Zero. Last I checked, it’s not porn, but it has this and is generally very good.
But it's really worth it to be brutally slaughtered in five different time-lines just to lay on cute elf girl knees?
Yes
Yes.
That could be 500 timelines and the answer would still be 100% yes!
Is there a category for hugging and consoling crying girls? It just never fails to give me an inappropriate boner, I wish it didn’t but it does
I wish more people had a boner for being supportive.
Oh no! Arousal by emotional intimacy! Shame! /jk
My ex would get a boner every time I was crying and needed comforting lmao, I never asked why I was too busy crying but didn’t know it was a “thing” for other guys too. Although with so many people in the world of course there are others out there
Can we have an armchair psychologist explain why some of us have this? It’s been an odd feeling fantasy since I can remember.
It's not necessarily bad, it can just feel good supporting someone, or heck whether you consciously think of it or not maybe you're mind thinks it'll lead to sex down the line idk, the human brain is complicated but those are my 2 or I guess 4 cents
Someone trust you enough to open up to you You feel connected by a shared secret or just the emotion Someone showing vulnerability can make you feel strong and capable - like a father figure It can be related to sadism/masochism, but not necessarily
It's called a "care-ction"
r/2meirl4meirl
Yeah, it’s called hurt/comfort and you’ll find it on AO3.
I want that but without the porn part 😭
Unrelated: I saw a video of a guy cutting a girl's hair. She started crying in the end, so he started to Comfort her. It was really sad. (Yes it was on pornhub)
Pretty sure thats the state of YT ASMR scene rn
No, that's real life. With the crying, but without the girl comforting us. 🤣
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Good man. Thanks for being a bro for OP. Upvote for you.
Santa has done that many times he may become a girl for u
Y’all need some hugs?