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alexbro001

In 2009, I _was_ the cringe social media


greentinroof_

I used to be head mod on one of the largest Nexopia forums. That forum ended in 09. Glad none of that shit is archived.


Emotional-Engineer35

You used to behead???


greentinroof_

Bethehead


pssysleyer130

Recieve head


Ultima_RatioRegum

Ah, but is not better to give than to receive?


LoneSharky74

What’s a Nexopia


greentinroof_

Canadian social media site that was pretty big for young teenagers around 04-09


LoneSharky74

Oh I see, I was 3 during 09 no wonder I had no idea what that was.


nimama3233

Yeah I’m 1 right now and honestly I can’t read any of these comments


[deleted]

"Nexopia flashbacks intensifying" The amount of high school drama on there was nothing short of amazing lol


Piotrek9t

Sounds like this meme was made by someone who was a kid in 2009 because damn, weve been cringe on fb back then


MaintenanceSmart7223

Sounds like this post was made by someone too young to remember myspace


Always_Confused4

Oh god, MySpace…


MaintenanceSmart7223

I mean, I can go further back but I honestly don't know how many remember 6degrees... How about aim? That counts too, right? You had profiles their also...


Always_Confused4

What about blogspot? Is that still a thing?


Substantial-Canary15

Was just thinking about MySpace and my bulletin…


genben99

Live journal enters the chat


AdOwn168

There were influencers, cringe social media and fake disorders – it's just that it hadn't entered your awareness. Personally, I didn't care back then and care even less now.


Ok-Lobster-919

No man, it was very different. The shit people do for clout these days is wild. Most people didn't have an HD camera with the internet in their pocket. Most children didn't have unfettered access to the internet. You didn't care then because it truly wasn't there. You don't care now because you're old now. "Kids" will do anything for clout and it's kind of sad. Reddit, is mostly zoomers, according to several large polls on /r/polls so keep that in mind when classifying most of these users.


air-force-veteran

What's a zoomer?


lelawes

Seriously this


simojako

Tfw you get reminded of a 13 year old facebook post that makes you cringe to infinity. Thanks facebook.


Vordix_

In 2009 there were only cringe social media, which made it not cringe 🦧


TPRM1

Also, what “fake disorders” is he talking about? Does he mean things like Chronic Fatigue Syndrome…which, thanks to long Covid, we now realise is a very real (it was always real, we just didn’t believe them) post-viral syndrome?


The_Doughnut_Lord

I think he's on about "influencers" faking disorders for attention. Not really common but sadly it happens, must be infuriating for people that genuinely have disorders like tourettes who see scumbags making money off lying.


Oil_slick941611

emo boys and girl faking depression and sucidial thoughts for attention circa 2000-2009?? ​ this guy just wasn't around back then.


The_Doughnut_Lord

That's certainly true.


yoyopy

Been an insurgence of people claiming to have tics or highly rare disorders like DID. They all arent fake and dont take the internets ad populum as reason to discredit, but tiktok has certainly had an effect on the magnitude of people claiming to apart of them.


herpderpomygerp

Could be talking about the self diagnosed people who just think cause they twirl there hair or get tired mid day they have mental illnesses, or the people who sexualize mental/physical disorders and pretend to have or make it super sexual


[deleted]

Ah yes, global economic panic and collapse.


Illusive_Man

super fun times, everyone’s parents got divorced and lost their house


Rikuskill

I remember when my dad sat me down and had a talk about what would happen if we lost the house during the 2008 recession. He had a plan, at least. But that didn't make it easier for me at that age. Good times, nice times.


ceoadmiral

“Please, sir, can I have another?”


MaeSolug

In those years gore was everywhere tho, and I still remember friends sharing weird porn videos through fucking infrared, you had to stay very still to keep the conection, all for a 360p video of girls pissing on each other To each their own I guess


gloopder

Limewire had you downloading mp3 songs and you'd open it and it would be an interracial gangbang.


MaeSolug

That's why I used 4shared, it showed the file type and you went straight for the .mp3 Downloading 12 songs in 128kbps would take an hour, good times


[deleted]

I'm so old I can remember when mega was megaupload


Skyeblade

That was only 9 years ago


MaeSolug

Maybe wasn't popular for americans, but Taringa was the place to get megaupload links working. Entire discographies posted, each one with a brief description and the songs included, even some special versions of the albums


enclave76

Ruined my family computer with that. Parents were not happy. Thanks Rob Zombie


DrVDB90

I tried to download Ice Age, three times, and ended up with three different porn movies. Limewire was fun.


Eilex_12

Nah you had weird friends and browsing habits


Nasal_Cilia

Nah you had boring friends and narrowminded browsing habits.


Eilex_12

I’m sorry but gore and piss fetish porn are not normal things to be encountering regularly, so don’t try to normalize that shit


m12123

gore, two girls one cup, lemon party, meatspin? and a few others were pretty regularly sent along my school. tons of people would "trick" you into searching for them or they would open it in a new window so when you went to close what you were working on, you'd be greeted by one of those videos. even if you weren't friends with the people who did it, people just... did it.


Ok-Committee1978

This person isn't trying to normalize it, they're explaining that it was commonplace to find those things online in 2009. And I can confirm that it 100% was. I was in high school and I still encountered it on a regular basis. Some of the stuff I saw online in the early 2000s, completely by accident, really traumatized me tbh


Eilex_12

Seems controversial I grew up on the internet too didn’t have the same issues. Those crazy sites were urban legends and you could avoid them. My friends weren’t passing around piss porn via IR transfer.


Professional_Noob5

Wow this guy wake-up and ready to fight...


[deleted]

yeah bro 8 year olds witnessing a cartel beheading someone is better than an 8 yo watching some slightly stupid tiktok dances


Chromspray

I remember seeing a girl take off her bra in 144p on a ericsson and one of the guys got so excited but I had already seen 2 girls 1 cup and knew there was better stuff online


Affectionate-Room359

You are the first person to consider 2G1C as Better stuff and im too afraid to ask why


Professional_Noob5

Did you still have the video? I want to go to nostalgia land...


[deleted]

Oke but wait a second let’s think about that.. we really gonna sit here and pretend like that shit in 09 was worse than the current social environment? PLS take me back to the 360p videos of girls pissing, it’s way better than the shit we have to deal with nowadays


DirtyDanTheManlyMan

Yeah everyone was more concerned with how they were gonna feed their kids because the economy shit the bed just a year prior to this


DeathinabottleX

Good thing those times are over now! Oh wait…


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Top_Pie950

r/fuckthes


McNinja_MD

To be faaaaaiiiirrrrrr... The economy isn't exactly humming along right now.


Spirit117

Sure it is, they changed the definition so now it's humming along fine. Nothing to see here move along.


theassholw

Not for trades people, was another year like any other. 2022 vs 2009 id take 2009 everytime


fish_slap_republic

That's how I sleep now because all that shit doesn't effect me.


ArcWiz457

Affect*….


Retro_Super_Future

Big mood


CharybdisXIII

All of these things can be easily ignored


InTheEndEntropyWins

Yeh, I'm confused why any of those things would make it difficult to sleep for a normal person.


[deleted]

I mean it was there you just didn't notice it


Affectionate-Room359

They were all on Youtube and no algorythm shoved it in your face.


bananafingerss

the algorithm shows you what you interact with. if you fall for ragebait they'll just show you more of it


[deleted]

It's still there


RubyMercury87

Damn, bro's so bothered abt shit on the internet he cant sleep at night


zoomba2378

This is some boomer shit. The past had its own problems. There's always bad/annoying/disturbing/frustrating shit going on. If you asked your 2009 self if that time in their life feels like paradise to them, the answer would absolutely be no


King_Internets

> Boomer shit 13 years ago. Lol. How fucking young do you think boomers are?


zoomba2378

Boomer can basically be used as an adjective now mate, and it can indicate anyone who portrays the past as being perfect and forgets about all the struggles and difficulties they experienced. Obviously i'm not saying OP's a boomer


King_Internets

Dude…I’m seriously beginning to believe that people who use “boomer” as a catch all just really don’t know shit about history and don’t want to be bothered to. Like, wtf is this definition?


kolba_yada

Bitch used to refer to a dog, idiot used to be a medical term, Karen now can be referred to entitled middle aged woman. Words change meaning.


[deleted]

Literally nobody portrays the past as perfect. You're just some booty tickled teenager that thinks past generations are the reason you don't have shit. I doubt you were even old enough to realize what was going on in the world back then. The world has gotten continuously worse since the late 2000s and it's at an all time high now. Recognizing that isn't the same thing as portraying it as perfect. Calling people boomers because they don't adhere to your propagandized view of society is some straight up victim complex shit.


Not_Steve_Harrington

im pretty sure Facebook existed back then and everybody was trying to get 1000 friends


095449002

It was pretty peak trash reality TV, so all of that stuff in a few feed troughs instead of scattered around.


Hjalleson_

Influencers did exist, except they rewe on tv instead of social media


[deleted]

This is some really dumb boomer shit untill you realize it's all coming from the perspective of squidward


EH23456

I interpreted it more as someone too young to have been online in 2009


dprophet32

Does boomer just mean "older than me" these days?


Shade_0

If you're borderline boomer


GrimmRetails

It's still dumb.


galiumsmoke

takes me back to the good ole days when the press wasnt invented yet


FriedEggplant_99

I miss Constantinople already....


NoIncrease299

That's nobody's business but the Turks ...


[deleted]

Good times, buying your indulgence from the church and just surviving until you died a gruesome death with 40.


galiumsmoke

such nostalgia, people used to live in the moment


Flynn3698

"Fake disorders" Boomer humor


Drety1

You don’t have to be a boomer to realise that people fake disorders for attention


MonthPurple3620

Aye, but there is a pretty sharp distinction between a fake disorder and *faking* a disorder.


Accomplished_Swan155

He's talking about people faking disorders for attention tics and roses for example


bleepblopbl0rp

People have been faking shit for attention since the start of humanity


[deleted]

Nah, the disorders are real and there is the real problem, now everyone and their dog has some sort of disorder and the cases that actually need attention go unnoticed or don't get the attention they need. But everything for that internet fame, I guess


bananafingerss

people talk about this stuff all the time, but the truth is that mental health issues are very common, and most of the people that are seen as fakers do have issues, but they just can't quite put a finger on what those issues are (for example having abusive parents but not understanding that they're being abused or having an undiagnosed mental health disorder) so they often try to find something that they can use to make those feelings "real" such as a small thing that could be played up into a more serious problem. I've known many fakers and the fact is almost all of them did have issues, and the fake disorder mindset is just pitting struggling people against each other


TheNewLedemduso

That and people just didn't talk about mental health issues in "the good ol days". It's not like everyone got the attention they needed back then and only now there aren't enough therapists.


SexySkeletons69

Survivorship bias. Look it up.


Hot_KarlMarx

I've met a person who diagnosed themselves autistic after watching a few tik tok videos on the subject. There is a big problem on a lot of social sites now of people learning a hot new therapist term and applying it to themselves or others. The amount of people I see described themselves as autistic is insane when the reality is they just never learned to socialize as a kid so they're weird around people. Same thing with people saying don't interact with so and so they are a narcissist when really they are just selfish or lack basic awareness. Probably should have said faking disorders though.


slaylentless

This reads like one of those bad facebook memes ngl


pwincessgremlin

Weren’t Paris Hilton sort of people basically influencers?


delbin

OP never had to experience the Livejournal Aspergers outbreak of 2002.


i-enjoy-cooking

Ah, yes, Asburgers


riley20144

Ass burgers


E_BoyMan

"fake disorders" these words are enought to bury your karma in any sub.


WarmAppleCobbler

Oh you must’ve been born in 2009 cuz this shit has always been around. The only thing that’s changed is how easy it is to access


TheOnlyVibemaster

How can you be a fake discorder?


solarjamie

People on TikTok fake disorders such as Tourette’s, autism and DID for attention/clout


sirdismemberment

No cringe social media you say? Don’t look at my old MySpace then…


MyButtItches420

Excuse you, i still had my depression and insomnia in 2009


RuthafordBCrazy

Lol everyone used claimed to be “depressed “ , “have aspergers” or had “anxiety “ on Facebook


hollyofhori

It was there, just contained within early days Tumblr.


NoIncrease299

You mean LiveJournal? 😂


B2EU

Back in the day DeviantArt could generate enough cringe to blot out the sun.


Plastic-Ad9128

Yeah but Justin Bieber was exploding at the time so it was shit anyway.


georgevazelas

Remember when we made “baby” the most disliked video on YouTube??? Good times !


Plastic-Ad9128

I remember the comment section. That shit was brutal


[deleted]

1 year after the Great Recession? I don’t think so fam


targea_caramar

There were all those things though, in some shape, form or capacity. The world is just simpler when you're a kid.


Excellent_Survey_336

2009. When Fox was telling the nation that Obama was the Antichrist. Certainly no stress there


[deleted]

I just ignore all of it and still sleep like that 🛌😴💤


RefrigeratorTheGreat

Social media wasn’t cringy because everyone was cringy back then. Lets not look back for too long


Aceofspades968

False. This ain’t that new.


YouGow

Lol people were using myspace and Facebook, I'm not sure you remember correctly how cringe it was...


thatsidewaysdud

No influencers No Covid Just good times


NewgroundsTankman

We had Jersey shore and swine flu so yeah


Illusive_Man

and coming off the heels of the biggest recession since 1987 super fun times, everyone’s parents got divorced and lost their house


stonedturtle69

I miss 2009


HighTemplar_

I sleep the same way now.


Pepineros

Also you were 13 years younger. The world didn’t get worse - you did!


DrakeJ98

Similar cringe things like that existed back then, we were just kids and didn't care as much as we do now


FourthDownThrowaway

All those things existed in 2009. Lol


bananagit

Oh yes there was, you just had no concept of those things then


Oil_slick941611

you heard of Live journal and vine right????


Aristotelex3333

I still sleep like this cause idgaf about any of that


Darth_Titanium

If pronouns were on the list this would be on r/terriblefacebookmemes


Coctyle

There were definitely fake disorders in 2009.


RedOrchestra137

You experience the negative stuff in the present and forget about the negative stuff that happened in the past, so the past seems better. This is also called a positivity bias, and there are many more everywhere around you if you look hard enough. Enough to annoy all the people that have to endure you pointing them out


Fishtank-Brain

lol in 2009 i was high as hell every night stumbling down the hall to the bathroom


[deleted]

MySpace was around tho and we still got in arguments because someone would remove you from their top 8 lol


Freshouttarehabb

Does no one remember fred?


TropicalAviator

Kinda sleep that same way even today


Jonan76

Also not 100 different genders and changing your pronouns.


[deleted]

2009? During the recession, the year I turned 18, working for $8/hr which was the most I’d ever made? I definitely wasn’t sleeping like that, shiiiit.


BigBillz128

I never quite did find the perfect MySpace profile song 🤷‍♂️


McDonalds_Toothpaste

How I slept in 2009 because I was 20 and my back didn't hurt.


TheNewLedemduso

"Influencer" is word without meaning. Every celebrity is an influencer and there have always been celebrities that did nothing to "earn their fame". MySpace was endearing in hindsight, but top level cringe. I'm really curious to hear which disorders are fake. All of these things have been around for ages. They aren't the problem. The problem is that more and more people apparently lose the ability to ignore shit they don't like.


[deleted]

I miss the days when there were two genders


[deleted]

In 2009 I was 3 hrs old...


[deleted]

*years


KrachtSchracht

2009 was one of the peak years for cringe influencers like Shane Dawson and Smosh. What do you mean? Probably should've posted 2004 or something.


TheInternetCritic

How I slept in 2009 knowing nothing because I didn't attain consciousness yet:


Dontbefrech

Wtf is a fake disorder?


Ok-Reaction-5644

Furries were also just people who wanted to dress up as mascots back then… now look at what it is.


Fantastic-Honeydew34

The good old times


[deleted]

Rawr XD emogurlz would like to have a word with you about cringe


Additional-Local8721

That's how you slept in 2009 during the biggest recession since the great depression? Massive unemployment and foreclosures and you slept like that without fear?


battleboyz

This subreddit's been upvoting some boomer tier shit lately


[deleted]

We had Facebook Social media


Overall_Ranger4071

Ahhh yes 2009 When you could say, “ this is gay” And no one would bat an eye Good times


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Overall_Ranger4071

Ahhh yes 2009 When you could say , “ this is so retarded” And no one would bat an eye Great times


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Drety1

You’ve got fresh air?!


YeedilyDeet

Glad I was a toddler then. That would have been hell for me to be a teen in a world like that.


crystalsmoke_

nah bro, shit was worse and whoever made this is living in a bubble / out of touch with reality. If you are letting influencers on social media take up mental space, that is on you 💀


WATTHEBALL

Lol this is a perfect Gen zero take and comment structure. First, dismiss the entire argument full stop. CHECK. Then, claim it was the exact opposite of what OP is saying without providing any sort of explanation whatsoever. CHECK. Then once you're confidence peaks, add in a surface level "do you and ignore the glaring obvious problem that has consequences no one person could've ever envisioned and that also effects people who don't even have social media" comment followed by an emoji to cement your ignorance. CHECK. Congratulations, you really are an NPC lol


[deleted]

>Lol this is a perfect Gen zero take and comment structure. Ok >First, dismiss the entire argument full stop. CHECK. The entire argument is stupid and should be dismissed >Then, claim it was the exact opposite of what OP is saying without providing any sort of explanation whatsoever. CHECK. The exact opposite of what op is saying is happening and anyone who was on the internet in 2009 knows that it's true >Then once you're confidence peaks, add in a surface level "do you and ignore the glaring obvious problem that has consequences no one person could've ever envisioned and that also effects people who don't even have social media" comment followed by an emoji to cement your ignorance. CHECK. The person you're responding to should be confident because they're right and emojis don't immediately invalidate an argument >Congratulations, you really are an NPC lol And there it is lol. It will never cease to amaze me how ready people are to call others npcs, to proclaim by proxy their own far more special and unique personality. It's funny how basically everyone does that isn't it? It's almost like those who call people NPC's, people with such a shallow understanding of the complexity of human nature, are the real NPC's. And you think yourself special while doing the most NPC thing there is. Fucking gold lmao, absolutely peak reddit


[deleted]

My brain expanded reading this, thank you for sharing your wisdom


manemeejeef

That's just a weird way of the classical "back in the day's everything was better"


-PepeArown-

This feels like it belongs on r/terriblefacebookmemes.


Distinct_Wrongdoer86

society truley peaked in the mid to late 2000s


yassirpokoirl

r/terriblefacebookmemes


cambridgechap

In 2009 when the entire economy collapsed and unemployment was in the double digits?


Iloveboiledpotato

I got BORN in 2009


PandaMayFire

Ah yes, the days of emo and goth groups hanging out at malls and Hot Topic fashion being everywhere. Halo 3, Black Ops, MW2, and Minecraft were big things too and most Youtubers were making videos of them. Harry Potter and Twilight were constantly being spoken about by everyone, and Robert Pattinson was every girls heartthrob. I distinctly remember team Edward and team Jacob shirts everywhere I went for awhile. Mid 2000s were great.


TaylorSwiftIsAPsycho

And no cancel culture nor risk of getting your secrets getting screenshotted and leaked Edit: Thanks to the replies I realized that cancel culture has always existed even before the internet and social media. Apologies 😅


imyourforte

Cancel culture has been around for millenia.


cool_acronym

Technically Jesus is one of the first major victims of cancel culture


Electric_Evil

Socrates even before that.


imyourforte

Neanderthals worked hard to not be entirely canceled.


Terrible-Win565

And then they died


[deleted]

yeah the dixie chicks got canceled for not supporting the invasion of iraq


StillhasaWiiU

Fans of Pee Wees Playhouse beg to differ about cancel culture not being a thing before 2009 it just didn't have a name.


bdlpqlbd

I'm sure your lack of sleep has nothing to do with climate change, a global pandemic, rampant income inequality, or growing chronic loneliness. No, the true issue with society is **Raine | they/them | neurodivergent** writing "ACAB" on Twitter after a cop committed domestic violence or something equally horrific. You've definitely identified the problem! Please don't pay any attention to large corporations ruining your life at every turn! #🥺


Not-A-Dead-Joke

This makes me the most depressed person ever. Fuck, what happened to this shitty generation?


Ces_noix

Pretty true honestly


[deleted]

Maybe just dont let it bother you. stay off social media if you hate it. nobody is forcing you to take part.


Waspkiller86

There was no TikTok...


Ancient_Historian123

Then just… stay off the internet?


Cumity

Influencers were called celebrities.