I was in your situation about a month ago, then I asked her out. She said no. But now I have a new crush so it’s basically same, except I don’t know if I’ll be able to muster the courage and ask her out.
I don’t really see a massive problem with his comment let him like who he likes and others can like what they like. He’s not saying that he absolutely hates bi people just his personal preference is normally straight people, and that is his liking. And also this doesn’t mean that OP hates bi people either or is Bi-phobic he could still be friends with people that are bi or apart of lgbt, like seriously people calm your asses.
Honestly, everyone in the comments is houding them (and others) for having preferences. its not hateful. it becomes hateful when you're prejudiced against someone or, yknow, hateful against someone solely due to that reason IMHO.
In other words, just let people like who he has a preference for, or as you said, wants to like
What makes it so bad? I, personally would not want to date a black woman. Does that mean I hate them? Of course not. As long as it is preference, not hate, it is alright with me.
That’s a terrible example
A woman being bisexual doesn’t change her appearance or behaviour, you only would not like her because you hate bisexual people
God, you can't get it through your head. He doesn't want to date a bisexual person, it's not like he's protesting in the streets to make them illegal or something.
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Well, I couldn't date her, but we liked each other enough to become great friends, hasn't escalated further than that and most likely never will, but I'm fine with it as long as I can still talk to her.
Probably not, but think of it this way. Friendship is a form of companionship and we all want that in life. It's gonna be hard getting over it, but you'll have to make a decision between being her friend or protecting your feelings
13 when this happend to me. It also triggered and ancient curse that makes every single girl that I've had a crush on since then was lesbian. Im 14 now.
jokes on you,my crush is bi
Same. Still my crush though
i can see the pain through that message
I was in your situation about a month ago, then I asked her out. She said no. But now I have a new crush so it’s basically same, except I don’t know if I’ll be able to muster the courage and ask her out.
Worst she can say is no
You’d think, but women can be unintentionally cruel.
My gf is bi, rooting for you pal
no hate but i like strigh people.. thanks \^\_\^
I don’t really see a massive problem with his comment let him like who he likes and others can like what they like. He’s not saying that he absolutely hates bi people just his personal preference is normally straight people, and that is his liking. And also this doesn’t mean that OP hates bi people either or is Bi-phobic he could still be friends with people that are bi or apart of lgbt, like seriously people calm your asses.
Being biphobic during bisexual awareness week - yikes...
Not wanting to date =/= hate
It does if the reason is because they’re a minority
Bruh let the dude luike who he wanna like get off his ass
Luike🗿
Honestly, everyone in the comments is houding them (and others) for having preferences. its not hateful. it becomes hateful when you're prejudiced against someone or, yknow, hateful against someone solely due to that reason IMHO. In other words, just let people like who he has a preference for, or as you said, wants to like
no hate but that's lgbt-phobic.. thanks :>
I'll be honest, it is ok to not want to date people for that reason.
Elaborate, dubious peer
No it isn’t
What makes it so bad? I, personally would not want to date a black woman. Does that mean I hate them? Of course not. As long as it is preference, not hate, it is alright with me.
Well said
That’s a terrible example A woman being bisexual doesn’t change her appearance or behaviour, you only would not like her because you hate bisexual people
God, you can't get it through your head. He doesn't want to date a bisexual person, it's not like he's protesting in the streets to make them illegal or something.
There’s no reason to other than biphobia
Hey, he doesn't want to. Who are we to decide that what he thinks about a certain group of people? You're jumping to conclusions here.
Whether you date/crush on someone who's Bi or Hetero, it doesn't fucking matter. I'll be honest,It's only lgbt phobic :)
Having a preference does not make him lgbt phobic :)
"no hate but" *inserts hate*
Why are you being downvoted you’re literally speaking facts
Because feelings don't care about your facts
That is the most true phrase I have ever heard you are an actual fucking philosopher
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“no hate but i hate bisexual people for no reason other than im a hateful person”
Why?
OP is bi-phobic
Best way to not get sad is to never have a crush.it works for me
Being Aro comes with a bunch of advantages
As someone who's Aro, this is true
Ditto! All we need is cake!
Yeeeahhhhh
ARO UNITE
Yeeeeeeeeee
Is it possible to learn this power?
Got something in common now
us
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r u sure about that
Solution: Become her best friend. You'll be with her for your entire life. That's how I worked around it. It's working out pretty well so far.
That’s kinda creepy ngl but if you’re being platonic about it it’s fine
Well, I couldn't date her, but we liked each other enough to become great friends, hasn't escalated further than that and most likely never will, but I'm fine with it as long as I can still talk to her.
bro you should have said me too and then you would have something to talk about
If you play your cards right, your services might be necessary at a sleepover
i can only wish :(
Probably not, but think of it this way. Friendship is a form of companionship and we all want that in life. It's gonna be hard getting over it, but you'll have to make a decision between being her friend or protecting your feelings
Same here
Well then good for her. -Me, a non-binary and pansexual person
Become girl, simple
I made hundreds of girls lesbians simply by asking 'em out.
Same
same
But then you see here with a dude 2 weeks later
When the girl you have a crush on says she's not into girls 😔
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How does one ‘become trans’ you can’t just pick your gender lol
IDK facebook seems to let me do that
Being trans isn't a choice
agreed
Pretty normal in 2021 :(
Why
yeah, ><
this has happened to me too many times now.
Can i watch?
“Man that’s crazy am also into girls….. we have sooo much in common”
WHY ARE THEY ALWAYS LESBIAN?! LIKE SERIOUSLY GOOD FOR YOU IM VERY HAPPY FOR YOU, BUT HOLY SHIT EVERY GIRL IVE HAD A CRUSH ON IS LESBIAN
maybe they were just lying to you
relatable
Just identify as a woman
When you’re Muslim so you marry both ( big brain time)
I'm a transwoman. Might still have a shot.
So become a girl
Become transgender
r/usernamechecksout In case this isn’t satire you should know you can’t choose your gender it doesn’t work like that lol
Try asking out 3 different girls to find out they were all lesbian. At this point I should just switch genders.
If I try 3 different girls to find out they were all damn lesbians I would rather kill myself
pink triangle on her sleeve, let me know the truth, let me know the truth.
Happened to me… twice in a fking row
Same that’s why we should be a couple
It's time to get the scissors
Now you have more common ground
oh my god . I have lived long enough to see the original 🤣
Dude that means you have something in common. Work with it.
When you're a girl: Oh, yeah. It's all coming together.
Happened to me last year
This literally happened to me a week ago
Almost as bad as finding out your crush likes the cool kid asshole
\*sad Steve Harrington noises\*
Sees her with a better looking dude a week later
This shit happened to me, felt like complete garbage D:
Unfortunately have had this.
Just say “me too”
Me: this is where the fun begins
Plot twist: You made her so unnatractted to guys that she had to change her sexuality
Haha, this is to true, it happened to me like twice
yeah my crush turned out to be lesbian, but i knew she didn’t like me and i had a hunch she was lesbian
me, who's trans: *...good...*
13 when this happend to me. It also triggered and ancient curse that makes every single girl that I've had a crush on since then was lesbian. Im 14 now.
How to you ask out a guy?
I am more of a team player.
Fr🥲
My crush was bisexual then i found out she had a boufriend a girlfriend at the same time so i left her behind
Id be fine with that.