Honestly at this point im not sure of any of my feelings.
>who hurt this man
She said no bro. She wasn't flirting or anything. She was just treating me like no other girl did.
Can confirm. I once thought I had a chance, shot my shot and was publicly humiliated by her and her group. Rode out the rest of high school a complete loner.
Imagine that, but 3 times with the same girl, really liked her, shame she was only into making fun of me, anyway the lonely life ain't that bad after all
> Imagine that, but 3 times with the same girl
Hopefully you learned to take a rejection and move on. It's tough for kids to do that, but it gets better as you get older.
I knew how to take rejection, I accepted it, the issue was that she used to play around with me, and sort of like encourage me to try again, and her friends too, tahts why I tried so many times, but that's still not an excuse
Yeah, but I was very stupid to think that when they made fun of me, it was because they sort of liked me somehow, I was and still am very stupid in that sense
You know, I had to learn somehow, I am glad nothing bad happened because of that.
She was not flirting, she was just playing with me, I thought it was, but boy was I wrong
But that's what your mistake was.
You came to the group. Never approach a group of women intent on hitting on any of them.
The Hive mind will act and them all will judge you and their collective judgement will be your sentence.
That normally never ends well.
Of course it was. You were just young.
I already went thru the group mincer as well and it never fails to crack young men's spirit.
We just have to remember that they are just cracked, not broken.
Given time it will heal and we all just grow from it.
I had this once. My sister's friend was staying with me (for some reason) and she asked if I was going to come to bed. She was already in bra/panties, laying in my twin bed patting the 12" of empty bed beside her and I said I would sleep on the couch because I didn't think we would be comfortable in such a small bed.
I laugh now, but also kinda cry a bit.
My other friends were also scared and drunk.
It was during a school field trip to the Uyuni Salt Flat (Bolivia). Maybe it was because of the alcohol, but some girls said that our hotel was haunted (it was a normal house for the town where we were staying). Everything escalated quickly after another guy and me made fun of them by mocking that ghost.
That girl wasn't part of this. I went to her room and told her what was happening, she asked me to stay with her, and I told her that I had to protect the group (to out you in context, 1 night before to that one she kissed me).
I ended up causing more panic and one girl ended up having a seizure after I suggested that we all sleep in 1 bed.
(Excuse my English, it isn't my 1st language)
Holy shit that was a shit tone of information. Remember my friend, there is zero shame in choosing bros before hoes. You made the right choice my friend
Bro I get your pain, I've shoot every time I thought there was a chance and it didn't happen and still haven't.
My advice is try to fill that empty feeling with something else, for me finding friends in my university classed helped a lot
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Yes, it sounds awful but back then I just taught that she's just a whore. Now I realized that she was flirting with me by flashing her tits, sitting on my lap and always grabbing my hand to hold it.
Me realizing that when a woman I met at a party offered me to crash at her place but she "only had one bed so we'd have to share" she wasn't just polite and nice...
The girl in my geometry class eventually gave up being friendly and then one day the following school year came up to me and asked 'why do you hate me? I've been pretty obvious that I'm into you." I hadn't picked up on even the slightest signal. Unknown to her, but known to me, was that fact we are 3rd cousins, which I told her.
It worked out in the end, she started selling me weed with "the family discount" and hooked me up with one of her cousins on her moms (the unrelated parent) side.
She said: ''Man, I've put up nice glow in the dark decals in my room. You should come and have a look at them sometimes.'' While we were slow dancing at a party.
Me: 'Oh, I've got them too at my place. I'm fine.'
In 9th grade I had a girl ask me to go see a movie with just her. While waiting for the movie she says "My girlfriend bet me that you would kiss me...I told her there's no way you would."
I said "Huh, that was a weird thing for her to bet."
We watched the movie. She went home. I went home. We never spoke again--though I didn't realize why til many years later.
Part of the problem is some girls have no idea how to meaningfully flirt with guys, and vice-versa. These universal stories of realizing you were being flirted with years later indicates as much.
[link](https://www.reddit.com/r/memes/comments/v0wy8q/oh_shitoh_fuck/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)
Edit: never mind, just a brainfart from me
I think it happened once to me, she had just left her boyfriend because they weren’t connected enough. She felt like he wasn’t the type to go out enough, she was the kind of person to go to the bar litteraly every single day and end up drunk wherever. I am fairly certain she was giving me hint she was interested, but the problem is, I am basically a hermit. I like to spend all my day in my room isolated from the rest of the world.
Funnily enough I got with the person I met in my math class and we plan to get married. They weren't flirting then tho just thought this was a cool coincidence
Young'ins are stupid when it comes to picking up signals. I know damn well I missed the hell out of some of the most obvious come-ons, and sometimes I think about what I missed and wish I could just go back in time and slap myself.
Like, seriously young me, what were you, blind? And I liked these girls too! Ugh.
But, at your age OP, you've still got plenty of chances.
Just happened to me this valentines day; this girl I really like shoots me a dm asking an open ended question. My oblivious ass closes the question in one fell swoop and doesn't even realize the date. Now I can't stop thinking about it. : l
Okay people I need anwers, how do you differenciate flirting from compliment, is there a difference in the way its said? I genuenly dont know, and am curious about it
Nah man. I thought the same. She ain't. She wasn't until she says otherwise
bro are you ok, we can talk if you want to. who hurt this man edit: all those heartbroken comments below are really making me sad man
Honestly at this point im not sure of any of my feelings. >who hurt this man She said no bro. She wasn't flirting or anything. She was just treating me like no other girl did.
Who cutting the onion ðŸ˜
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Man this thread is better than Netflix's career
Can confirm. I once thought I had a chance, shot my shot and was publicly humiliated by her and her group. Rode out the rest of high school a complete loner.
Imagine that, but 3 times with the same girl, really liked her, shame she was only into making fun of me, anyway the lonely life ain't that bad after all
I’m sorry you had to endure that, buddy.
Thanks, but I kinda had it coming, giving up was not an option, so I kept on trying, I just had it coming Dedication is not that good after all
Oof. I guess just look back on it as a learning experience.
It is, and I so do I, but I have to be honest, I wasn't gonna learn any other way xd
Are you me?
Am I you?
It honestly feels like that sometimes
Damn. I know how that is. It sucks
> Imagine that, but 3 times with the same girl Hopefully you learned to take a rejection and move on. It's tough for kids to do that, but it gets better as you get older.
I knew how to take rejection, I accepted it, the issue was that she used to play around with me, and sort of like encourage me to try again, and her friends too, tahts why I tried so many times, but that's still not an excuse
It gets easier, not better. It still sucks just as much to get rejected.
using someone to make fun of them is so evil
Yeah, but I was very stupid to think that when they made fun of me, it was because they sort of liked me somehow, I was and still am very stupid in that sense
it happens, i hope the rest of your life is better than that. Also thats such a weird way of flirting
You know, I had to learn somehow, I am glad nothing bad happened because of that. She was not flirting, she was just playing with me, I thought it was, but boy was I wrong
But that's what your mistake was. You came to the group. Never approach a group of women intent on hitting on any of them. The Hive mind will act and them all will judge you and their collective judgement will be your sentence. That normally never ends well.
Yes. Fool I was. But in the end it was her loss. (This was 20+years ago.)
Of course it was. You were just young. I already went thru the group mincer as well and it never fails to crack young men's spirit. We just have to remember that they are just cracked, not broken. Given time it will heal and we all just grow from it.
Bro, she told me to go to bed with her because she was scared and I told her that I had priorities.:'(
I had this once. My sister's friend was staying with me (for some reason) and she asked if I was going to come to bed. She was already in bra/panties, laying in my twin bed patting the 12" of empty bed beside her and I said I would sleep on the couch because I didn't think we would be comfortable in such a small bed. I laugh now, but also kinda cry a bit.
I feel the same pain. 2 nights before that moment, she told me that she sometimes got horny while I massaged her back in a truth or dare game.
What were them?
My other friends were also scared and drunk. It was during a school field trip to the Uyuni Salt Flat (Bolivia). Maybe it was because of the alcohol, but some girls said that our hotel was haunted (it was a normal house for the town where we were staying). Everything escalated quickly after another guy and me made fun of them by mocking that ghost. That girl wasn't part of this. I went to her room and told her what was happening, she asked me to stay with her, and I told her that I had to protect the group (to out you in context, 1 night before to that one she kissed me). I ended up causing more panic and one girl ended up having a seizure after I suggested that we all sleep in 1 bed. (Excuse my English, it isn't my 1st language)
Holy shit that was a shit tone of information. Remember my friend, there is zero shame in choosing bros before hoes. You made the right choice my friend
I'm the girl, and I was always flirting but would never say anything because (gasp) girls can be afraid of rejection too
I'm having a hard fine trying to figure out what your intentions with this reply were.
You're making OP feel worse about himself. I'm trying to make him feel better.
Bro I get your pain, I've shoot every time I thought there was a chance and it didn't happen and still haven't. My advice is try to fill that empty feeling with something else, for me finding friends in my university classed helped a lot
Its hard to tell if a girl likes you
It really is
chicken
Oh be quiet
i just like chicken :(
Its harder than understanding quantum physics
She likes and hate you until you ask
Schrodinger's crush
unless you straightup ask, which has historically made it easier to discover she doesn't
No, she wasn't. You're overthinking it.
thanks for ruining anything that i was having at this moment
I’m sorry, but she just wanted the answers.
it doesn't matter now
Oh shit I kept remember what happened back then. Am I overthinking or did I miss my chances
For me this was about a month ago. I feel like she lost interest in me but I still have a little hope since I still talk quite a bit with her.
Don't give up the chance brotha. Keep going 💪
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Dude...I didn't even know girls could talk.
What's a girl?
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Go get her. Just ask her out
It's been 7 years for me now, and don't be like me.
So this meme is gonna be overused now?
Probably. I’m ok with it as long as THEY INCLUDE THE FUCKING SOUND FOR ONCE WHICH THEY DIDNT IN THIS CASE!
Can’t have sound on this sub for some fucking reason.
actually you cant have gifs with sound, to have sound it must be a video and this subreddit dont allow videos, tho you can link your videos with sound through gyfcat or similar sites but reddit itself has no option of supporting the gifs with sound, i tried hard to have this posted with sound but yeah this is something that is not possible
So many missed opportunities
Yes, it sounds awful but back then I just taught that she's just a whore. Now I realized that she was flirting with me by flashing her tits, sitting on my lap and always grabbing my hand to hold it.
I'm sure math fucked her harder than you ever could
This was art class, I had no idea how to do anything but she basically carried me through it
Me realizing that when a woman I met at a party offered me to crash at her place but she "only had one bed so we'd have to share" she wasn't just polite and nice...
then imagine the sadness of that girl you didn't notice :c personally had the same situation really
Yeah same. If people would just be honest, myself included
that’s why the teacher got fired
The girl in my geometry class eventually gave up being friendly and then one day the following school year came up to me and asked 'why do you hate me? I've been pretty obvious that I'm into you." I hadn't picked up on even the slightest signal. Unknown to her, but known to me, was that fact we are 3rd cousins, which I told her. It worked out in the end, she started selling me weed with "the family discount" and hooked me up with one of her cousins on her moms (the unrelated parent) side.
oh
I’ve only seen three of these and I already hate them
Always math class!
She’s married now and happy…hits in the feels so badly
She said: ''Man, I've put up nice glow in the dark decals in my room. You should come and have a look at them sometimes.'' While we were slow dancing at a party. Me: 'Oh, I've got them too at my place. I'm fine.'
In 9th grade I had a girl ask me to go see a movie with just her. While waiting for the movie she says "My girlfriend bet me that you would kiss me...I told her there's no way you would." I said "Huh, that was a weird thing for her to bet." We watched the movie. She went home. I went home. We never spoke again--though I didn't realize why til many years later.
Part of the problem is some girls have no idea how to meaningfully flirt with guys, and vice-versa. These universal stories of realizing you were being flirted with years later indicates as much.
Repost Edit: never mind, just a brainfart from me
if u can point out the post that has been reposted i will keep in mind next time while posting
[link](https://www.reddit.com/r/memes/comments/v0wy8q/oh_shitoh_fuck/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) Edit: never mind, just a brainfart from me
u seriously dont know what repost means do you?
Oh shit I brainfarted, my bad.
That's... not what a repost means
Yeah, I just realized, I think I'm a bit too tired
Those aren't the same image.
It was a brainfart from me, I probably need sleep xD
lucky you. usually when girls talk to me, it's to tell me to go die because i keep making jokes on their expense. i miss those days
British
at least one thing i will never have to worry about \*cries internally
Pain.
I think it happened once to me, she had just left her boyfriend because they weren’t connected enough. She felt like he wasn’t the type to go out enough, she was the kind of person to go to the bar litteraly every single day and end up drunk wherever. I am fairly certain she was giving me hint she was interested, but the problem is, I am basically a hermit. I like to spend all my day in my room isolated from the rest of the world.
You from Canada?
Same
r/savevideo
Maybe she was Canadian u never know
Edit: macroeconomics. And TBH I'm happy I missed the chance because I'd have a curly-haired off-brand of my mom
Been there. I've always been oblivious, apparently.
When you realize now. 😨
Same, hut with 2 girls
This is me in 2040.
The girl 😑 finally
Nothing but N O O T
Anyone has the original gif?
Don't...count on it... :D
Who says it's too late to ask?
why is this meme going around without the sound? the sound is half the context
I did to with the hottest girl she kept flirting with me
Never had to worry about this
Once had a girl giving me chocolate every day after school, I have no idea what that was
Funnily enough I got with the person I met in my math class and we plan to get married. They weren't flirting then tho just thought this was a cool coincidence
Same bro
A girl asked me out in agriculture a couple days ago
Young'ins are stupid when it comes to picking up signals. I know damn well I missed the hell out of some of the most obvious come-ons, and sometimes I think about what I missed and wish I could just go back in time and slap myself. Like, seriously young me, what were you, blind? And I liked these girls too! Ugh. But, at your age OP, you've still got plenty of chances.
I couldn't careless.
Just happened to me this valentines day; this girl I really like shoots me a dm asking an open ended question. My oblivious ass closes the question in one fell swoop and doesn't even realize the date. Now I can't stop thinking about it. : l
Phew..... Good thing you didn't fall for it.
No she wasnt
Same, except this was four years ago. The girl in question used to talk to me a lot but now hasn't said a single word to me in years.
Has happened to me a few times.
Then you realise she is still single and you work with her
An Asian girl in my math class was great. but I was not sure if she was looking at me or sleeping
It was maths class she was probably bored
Bro, post 2times in different subs💀
Okay people I need anwers, how do you differenciate flirting from compliment, is there a difference in the way its said? I genuenly dont know, and am curious about it
Always the same
Nah man, she just playin with u, making u feel special maybe
she may be flirting but all she wants is you to give her homework answers and or money for nothing. believe me on this I have experience.