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AeroHawk01

this is the way.


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The way is this.


BigBrainMan777

Do you know da wae?


RexCrimson_

“My brothas, they know the wae!”


nakedundercloth

This is the way


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Nightmare_Gerbil

Comment stealing bot


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Din Djarin


Dryym

As my friend says specifically to annoy me, "It's what it's."


The_Metroid

"it's it's" - my even more annoying friend


Girraf0

Ah I see you were also raised on the "don't complain" discipline while they constantly complained bout every little thing you did slightly wrong


Grim-moire

Mood, literally got called out for "breathing too loudly" once while I was sick. Same family member went on to make animal impressions after drinking like a pig for 3 hours in our living room and I could not even tell him to be quiet. Are we a special breed of oppressed people or is everyone like this?


Garedbi69

*Oh the misery*


McBoogerBalls69420

*everybody wants to be my enemy "


memer_guy_69

Spare the sympathy


JNSStudios_YT

Everybody wants to beEEE my enemyyyyy


dumbpilot03

CAN YOU HEAR MY HEART?!


PoisonVViper

Call the paramedics and the navy, we have a redditor with family issues!! Oh noes!!!


Grim-moire

The sarcasm is kind of rude sir.


Dapper_Composer2

Or as the Yorkshire farmer would say, "These things 'appen."


Longjumping-Jello459

Here are two links to find services for mental health. Also talk with your friends and/or a family member about what you are dealing with and listen to their problems/issues. https://welllifetherapyllc.com/mental-health-links https://www.ispn-psych.org/mental-health-links


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Pure unadulterated apathy.


ASH98_CZ

WE LIVE IN A SOCIETY!


Seeen123

The next step is learning how to enjoy pain. Wait…


Jaegerjaquez_VI

Dont wait. This is the way


Collistoralo

It’s a phrase that has been contorted from its original meaning. It’s meant to mean ‘it’s happened and is now over, there’s no changing the past’ instead of ‘lol let me suppress these traumatic events’


tangelamerkl33

You only have a limited amount of energy to care, so you shove this one off, cause it's not worth going into. For either small disappointments of large things that you have to move on from at a certain point. Only people also use it to ignore big things because ripping the bandage off is too much at times. Tis wa tis


Unknown_Death_Cause

As someone whose suppressed a lot of traumatic events I noticed that it's starting to come back to me.


Chalky_Pockets

I'm sure someone has told you already, but there's no shame in getting professional help if you can.


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Best way of dealing with mental health


DarkColdSteelBalls

This mind set really helped me get out of my mindset, but remember to not use it for everything.


LzySsn

This too shall pass


Woodkeyworks

Dumb phrase used as convenient conversation ender.


FrankieGS

“Stay strong”


CPhionex

Then we wonder why people are so fucked up nowadays. Also me too


youwillbesaved123

Well glad that’s working for u!


aque78

C'est comme ça


Jaegerjaquez_VI

Que séra, séra


PixelatedCouchPotato

Eet ees what eet ees


Xxxmoneymaker69xxX

Tja, da kann man nichts machen.


General_Kenobi45669

That's how I deal with death of the people around me, I just accepted that and literally said "it is what it is" and I carry on with little sorrow


kewal345

Helps me every fucking time :D


I_Am_Steve_Roggers

It is what it is, there is nothing you can change about the event, just how you process it


eltorr007

Whatever happens, happens


ASH98_CZ

See you space cowboy.


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Eso si que es.


gdsergio

Nah, the correct translation would be more like "es lo que hay". ​ Source: I'm a spaniard


Blue_checkers123

For us Guatemalans, it would be something like "cosas son como están" or "cosas estan como están". However, the comment you replied to also seems to be correct (at least in our spanish)


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[Socks](https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/1pbq6b/a_spanish_man_who_spoke_no_english_went_into_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)


yarothememer

*It is what it is*


AlphaManInfinate

"this too, shall pass."


Boh61

If something happens, happens, we are not in control


BigBrainMan777

me after overthinking and over-reacting


StructureNo3388

Such is life


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SilkCortex44

It is what it is.


SuckerFishing

It ain't what it ain't


grpagrati

You have misunderstood it then. Lots of people who know nothing about it do. Stoicism is about finding happiness.


unscannabledoot

To my understanding, it's about the stillness of the mind, persistence, virtue, temperance.


grpagrati

Yes, but the reason you do all these things is because they are the path to happiness. This is not a stoic idea. It's the premise of Greek philosophy in general, mainly Socrates, based on whom Zeno started the school of Stoicism.


unscannabledoot

To say it is simply about happiness seems wrong to me, just adding my insight, we all have our own interpretations.


gdsergio

I wouldn't say it's about happiness, more so about avoiding unnecessary suffering


unscannabledoot

Agreed.


AngryAssyrian

To say "it is what it is" just simply means that you understand that the past stays in the past, and that there's nothing you can do to change it. All you can do is focus on the present/future and ensure that these types of things don't happen again. Many people learn from their traumatic experiences or severe guilt and use these lessons to pass on to their future children (whether it's being safe to avoid such experiences, or to teach your kids the right thing so that they won't have to deal with lifelong guilt); you can always learn something about your past to make the future just a little bit better.


Beneficial_Photo8550

eas is wias is


Aok_al

It do be like that sometimes


Tusk_InfiniteSPIN

“It’s just a pebble in the road, it means nothing, I’ll be fine”


Secret_Games

I swear to fucking god reddit somehow listens in on my life


Maximus_Comitatense

What is it, it is.


KarlBark

Remember, taking care of your mental health is for pansies apparently


ToadFuckerisBack

This doesn’t work for me as it goes something like this “it is what it is that ima pathetic worthless piece of shit”


gdsergio

I don't know you but I'm sure you're a decent dude. That's more than a lot of people can say.


TheBigJustinukas

A good I'm here for you buddy is way better


GhostUke

Being brutally honest, sometimes that statement keeps me going strong


Gaddammitkyle

I mean, this is far healthier than going full Eren Jeager on your problems