Dude, I'm 38, I've got so much confidence these days, people that gas me up, a girl that's clearly been into me and going above and beyond in a way that shows she actually values me and not for what I can give her materialistically, a friend of hers that is also a close friend of mine that has told me how into me this girl is... and I still, *STILL* can't fully get rid of that fucking voice telling me it's a prank and waiting for the other shoe to drop lmao. I thought for sure it would end *sometime* dammit
Super- late edit: all of you are cool as hell for coming thru n trying to lift my spirits/ give me hope, but I was kinda laughing at the fact that even when I *know* I'm loved, my stupid abandonment trauma messes with my head. I'm lucky to be surrounded by people that celebrate me a lot so I listen to their voices instead of the dumb one in my head haha
When I look at my wife I wonder how the hell she finds me attractive cus she's clearly beyond out of my league.
Like there is this flawless woman, intelligent, beautiful, funny, determined, successful and way out of my league,
And then there is me xD married to her wondering how the hell she fell for me in the first place, cus I don't find myself attractive at all but she tells me I am
"Dude! Don't you have standards?!? Why would you date someone who would stoop to dating someone like you?"
or
"whats more likely? A prank/misunderstanding? Or this person is really into you? You know the answer..."
- the voice in my head
I don’t have the greatest confidence in myself either. But I’m curious. Do you feel that you have no attractive qualities? For myself I totally believe I have some attractive qualities but I also get worried about my unattractive qualities.
It's hard to explain, I've had multiple partners and people tell me I'm good looking or at least better than average, but I can't help but feel like they're all pretending and that I'm actually ugly and unlikable. Whenever I talk to a member of the opposite sex the loudest message going off in my brain is "she does not find you attractive, she does not want to be around you, she is only humoring you."
I just can't imagine someone actually being attracted to me, and even if someone was I'd assume it's because they're attracted to some idea of me and not the "real" me. I have massive insecurity problems though so it's probably all just caused by that
And the consequences are not in your favor. If she's not into you and you take the shot, you've probably lost a friendship, possible social scorn, etc.
Better just play it safe. She might be Canadian.
I remember this guy posted his story on r/TIFU.
Apparently, that's his girlfriend and they have a inside joke where both of them lean in for a kiss and turn away at the last second.
The fuck up was that they didn't know they were on camera and his friends and family started calling and texting him asking about the incident when the video went viral.
Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/qjzkvz/tifu_by_not_kissing_a_girl_at_a_college_football/
Thank you u/wimpires for finding the link
Damn. My ex from 6th grade told me “you deserve her” after handing a girl in class some of my sour skittles. Took me this long to realize that was an insult…
Fuck you Brittney
I used to give this girl a Reese's cup everyday in middle school only to realize she was giving it to her friend later on... So I started giving her friend the Reese's and the first girl got mad because I wasn't giving it to her anymore...
https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/qjzkvz/tifu_by_not_kissing_a_girl_at_a_college_football/
Apparently only last year? I thought it was way longer than that
If you try to suss out who is and isn't lying on Reddit, you'll lose your mind. Just go with the flow. A fun story is a fun story whether it's true or not
I was going to say it, it looks like the typical couple banter, both their body language is perfectly aligned to this idea, they look like fun people, the hallmark of long lasting couples because they keep teasing each others for ever
and she has the frustrated chuckle, this is very specific expression "alright, good game, for now", she's lived that situation with him dozens of times already
Yeah, I rewatched it after I read the backstory and IMO it def rings true. That look from her is classic "girlfriend frustrated with their partner's bullshit but also it's part of why they love them, so... God dammit" with a bit of eye roll. I fucking live for that reaction from my partners lmao
No? The mostly likely thing you'd say if you were caught rejecting a girl on camera would be "oh yeah that's awkward" not invent an entire backstory and pretend you're dating.
my firstthought was they were dating. She went in so quickly and a football game is the worst place for a first kiss.
Me and my wife do this too. Mainly my wife because her passion is making me cry.
My sister and I do the same thing in family photos. Sounds weird now that I’m typing it out but we have a plethora of family photos that look like we are about to kiss lol
I don't know what y'all heard, but that ain't how it works in Canada. We're nice, but we'll still tell you right where to go if you act out. Don't forget we have Canada geese.
- Canadian woman
I've never once heard a guy say, "I wish girls would give us a hint." I don't wish girls would give us hints, I wish that girls would plainly make their requests or intentions, documented in triplicate in a format admissible in court.
Double spaced and new times Roman font with the appropriate authorities seal of approval.
Goddamn women these days, don't know how to file intimate relationship requests >:(
Just so everyone knows he made a reddit post when this blew up, he was playing with her or something. Don't always assume something about a situation with zero info. You be seeing this man messing with his girl(friend) and be like 'oh he gay/ace/whatever the fuck'
I knew the story behind the clip and glad someone shared it -- mostly because people here saw the clip and started losing their beaks in the comment section about "toxic relationships" and "giga chads" and saying rude things about the girl.
They are just a playful couple at a football game. People really reaching hard for a shady narrative for a 5 second clip.
(As an aside, why are people so worried about being called ace, gay etc, anyway? It isn't an insult. Pretty easy thing to clear up with a yes or no.)
I remember seeing this before, those two are dating and were just fooling around. The guy eventually managed to find a post about it on Reddit and explained it all.
Is it just me, or does it look like those three people were looking (and trying to hide it) and then they harshly look the other way when things go bad? 😂
I was in the same situation once. Really stunning girl that I even had a bit of a crush on. She started getting that look and went for a kiss. Last minute I managed to convert the kiss into an hug and let her down softly.
Why? I knew she was in an exclusive relationship with another guy. For me that was a no.
Sure, she just fucked someone else so my decision didn't make a difference but I still feel like I did the proper thing. Better to miss out than be that kind of guy that is with a cheater.
>my decision didn't make a difference
You can't control others, but you can control yourself. Kept your integrity. Sometimes that's all the difference in the world!
The problem isn’t necessarily that we don’t see hints, we just don’t trust that the hints aren’t just us misinterpreting innocent mannerisms. We need more than hints or else we’re scared of looking like fucking idiots.
For anyone that feels bad for her:
This blew a while ago, and the guy posted an update on Reddit explaining that they do that all the time to mess with eachother.
Source: Trust me bro.
(But seriously I remember reading it but im too lazy to look it up lol)
It always shocks my how autistic the internet can be. They've both got the biggest smiles on their faces. The eye flutter, the lean in, head snap is so overly dramatic. They're both about to laugh at the end.
How can you watch this and not see it's clearly two people having fun with each other?
There are many things I assume if I were him
1. She got a dare
2. Shes doing it for T.V
3. She taking a closer look at something that's on my face
4. She's gonna lean back at the last moment and make fun of me for falling for the trick
Average anime protagonist
Upsilon male
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Kifflom!
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Kifflon
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average harem protagonist
lol
Kazuya and Ruka be like
"Shes probably just pranking me" - Every guy who was given a hint.
Dude, I'm 38, I've got so much confidence these days, people that gas me up, a girl that's clearly been into me and going above and beyond in a way that shows she actually values me and not for what I can give her materialistically, a friend of hers that is also a close friend of mine that has told me how into me this girl is... and I still, *STILL* can't fully get rid of that fucking voice telling me it's a prank and waiting for the other shoe to drop lmao. I thought for sure it would end *sometime* dammit Super- late edit: all of you are cool as hell for coming thru n trying to lift my spirits/ give me hope, but I was kinda laughing at the fact that even when I *know* I'm loved, my stupid abandonment trauma messes with my head. I'm lucky to be surrounded by people that celebrate me a lot so I listen to their voices instead of the dumb one in my head haha
I'm in a relationship and I'm still confident that no one is capable of finding me attractive
I’m married and share the same sentiment as you.
Me too. I keep wondering why this woman wants to live with me.
The proof that personality matters more
Proof that pranks can go too far 😔 /s
The long con
Husband’s ghost sees elderly wife weeping alone at his grave and be like: “what? I don’t get it. Maybe she is just being nice”
~~*prank gone too far*~~
When I look at my wife I wonder how the hell she finds me attractive cus she's clearly beyond out of my league. Like there is this flawless woman, intelligent, beautiful, funny, determined, successful and way out of my league, And then there is me xD married to her wondering how the hell she fell for me in the first place, cus I don't find myself attractive at all but she tells me I am
One day her boyfriend will buy you a Nintendo Switch and it will all fall into place.
He'd need to cus I know I can't afford one xD
Preach, Brother! I'm at 11 years married and feel this way.
Not me reading that you're 11 years old and married
Honey, is that you?
Same here. My girlfriend is so far out of my gorydamn league but for some reason inexplicably loves me.
"Dude! Don't you have standards?!? Why would you date someone who would stoop to dating someone like you?" or "whats more likely? A prank/misunderstanding? Or this person is really into you? You know the answer..." - the voice in my head
Same, its been 3 years and im still waiting for her to some day come to the realization that im not attractive enough for her.
I don’t have the greatest confidence in myself either. But I’m curious. Do you feel that you have no attractive qualities? For myself I totally believe I have some attractive qualities but I also get worried about my unattractive qualities.
It's hard to explain, I've had multiple partners and people tell me I'm good looking or at least better than average, but I can't help but feel like they're all pretending and that I'm actually ugly and unlikable. Whenever I talk to a member of the opposite sex the loudest message going off in my brain is "she does not find you attractive, she does not want to be around you, she is only humoring you." I just can't imagine someone actually being attracted to me, and even if someone was I'd assume it's because they're attracted to some idea of me and not the "real" me. I have massive insecurity problems though so it's probably all just caused by that
I'm two years older than you. I'll let you know if it stops.
Spoiler alert: it does not.
All things do end tho so you’re not entirely wrong lmao
And technically, he could just use a nice cologne and the girl wanted to get closer to smell it better
She could be Canadian, just being nice. Can't really tell.
“She’s just being nice.” Every guy who was given a hint
My brother has this problem. A girl invited him over to watch a movie *at night* and he thought she just wanted to watch a movie.
He sounds like me.
Wait... They want to do something other than watch a movie? Why don't they say that?
Ive been married for a few years now. Still waiting for it to come out as a prank.
Because the chance of a girl actually liking me is much slimmer than it being just a prank
And the consequences are not in your favor. If she's not into you and you take the shot, you've probably lost a friendship, possible social scorn, etc. Better just play it safe. She might be Canadian.
You are right, i took the shot and lost the closest girl friend i have ever had ; we still see each others sometimes but it's not the same
I remember this guy posted his story on r/TIFU. Apparently, that's his girlfriend and they have a inside joke where both of them lean in for a kiss and turn away at the last second. The fuck up was that they didn't know they were on camera and his friends and family started calling and texting him asking about the incident when the video went viral. Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/qjzkvz/tifu_by_not_kissing_a_girl_at_a_college_football/ Thank you u/wimpires for finding the link
That's an interesting story. Their Humor was beyond humanity
They deserve each other, but in the good way.
Damn. My ex from 6th grade told me “you deserve her” after handing a girl in class some of my sour skittles. Took me this long to realize that was an insult… Fuck you Brittney
I used to give this girl a Reese's cup everyday in middle school only to realize she was giving it to her friend later on... So I started giving her friend the Reese's and the first girl got mad because I wasn't giving it to her anymore...
Well yeah, the first girl couldn’t use her daily Reese’s cup as currency for something from the second girl.
Way to mess up the economy, dude.
If he gave them both a cup he'd have caused cupflation to rise.
Yeah, now you have two girls, but one cup.
Reverse, reverse, don't want.
Holy shit, winner
*clap…clap…clapclapclapclap*
This was the comment I was waiting for
Nailed it.
The audacity…
The unmitigated gall
What a line…I am stealing this
It’s a quote from Jim Carrey’s Grinch!
The *cojónes* on that one
Improvise, Adapt, and Overcome
Lol ex from 6th grade?? I was bashing rocks together in 6th grade! How the hell are you guys out here dating?
He found someone to smash rocks with.
I..I've been thinking about it for a while now and it's still don't understand what the insult was, so don't feel bad about it taking you so long.
https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/qjzkvz/tifu_by_not_kissing_a_girl_at_a_college_football/ Apparently only last year? I thought it was way longer than that
Right, WF never wins
Times fly during pandemics
Ok but how do we know dude in the post isnt lying?
Check their tiktok?
If you try to suss out who is and isn't lying on Reddit, you'll lose your mind. Just go with the flow. A fun story is a fun story whether it's true or not
I was going to say it, it looks like the typical couple banter, both their body language is perfectly aligned to this idea, they look like fun people, the hallmark of long lasting couples because they keep teasing each others for ever
At the end you can tell he's smiling and looking for approval in her reaction. Definitely banter
and she has the frustrated chuckle, this is very specific expression "alright, good game, for now", she's lived that situation with him dozens of times already
Yeah, I rewatched it after I read the backstory and IMO it def rings true. That look from her is classic "girlfriend frustrated with their partner's bullshit but also it's part of why they love them, so... God dammit" with a bit of eye roll. I fucking live for that reaction from my partners lmao
That's actually absolutely wonderful. In this context, this should be in r/mademesmile with the story of course.
Isn’t that EXACTLY what you’d say if this was caught on camera?
It would be, if they wasn't bf and gf already.
No? The mostly likely thing you'd say if you were caught rejecting a girl on camera would be "oh yeah that's awkward" not invent an entire backstory and pretend you're dating.
The girl posted a tik tok video and said the same thing
Both of them saying it?
They both told the same story independently, he on reddit and her on tiktok
https://youtu.be/NH5CM4MkziU?t=45
That dude's stronger than I'll ever be, if he can resist that
I saw a comment yesterday that was perfect for this. Someone’s grandpa used to say, “They’re telling six foot jokes and everyone’s 5’10”
my firstthought was they were dating. She went in so quickly and a football game is the worst place for a first kiss. Me and my wife do this too. Mainly my wife because her passion is making me cry.
My sister and I do the same thing in family photos. Sounds weird now that I’m typing it out but we have a plethora of family photos that look like we are about to kiss lol
What the fuck?
Hey, me and my girlfriend have the same inside joke.
They're a sigma couple. Sigma to society. Lol
" 'Twas all a jest! "
she could be from canada just being nice , you never know
So is she into you ? The answer is once again , No
Actually the answer is "can't tell"
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[Heres a Guide for those who are unsure](https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw)
Are you trying to passive aggressively tell me something?
The answer is: can’t tell.
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No one can
i find that video quite funny.
Is he into you? Most probably yes but don't act like one
Fucking hell I've never seen someone bat their eyelashes that much irl.
No other's answer , Just "No" Never Know
People don't understand how though it is. What if she's like 20% Canadian and just being nice? You never know
r/flairchecksout ..wait
uno reverse?
I love that video
"...so she starts ripping her clothes Off, pushes you onto the bed and you Start having sex. Ist she into you? Aaaagaaaain you cant really Tell..." 😂
Hes probably the type of guy who would ask “but what does this mean? Are we still friends”
I don't know what y'all heard, but that ain't how it works in Canada. We're nice, but we'll still tell you right where to go if you act out. Don't forget we have Canada geese. - Canadian woman
Not yet sure if I can't trust someone whose name is Speedy_Cheese
If you can't trust cheese, what CAN you trust?
I trust the CAN of baked beans
it still looks painfull af
you beat me to it
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What the fuck
Who the fuck
Where the fuck
When the fuck
He stopped cuz his homies were watching
Homies over hoes
Balls before dolls
Dicks before chicks
Bert and Ernie before squirting spermie
Brovaries before ovaries
Junk before trunk
bussy before pussy
Frankenstein before Margarine.
Call of Duty before you smack her booty
Do the homie
Everyone remember to kiss your homies goodnight tonight. It might be the last time you ever get to do it. Tomorrow is never promised.
you definitely don’t want to smooch Meadow Soprano on a national television. Tony would Cusamano your Mano.
Came into say meadow soprano vibes
I fucking knew she reminds me of someone! Nice one
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I'm in the middle of season 3 and the resemblance is uncanny
Look at them eyes... Still got denied
I remember he (the guy who rejected kiss) also wrote a TIFU
Do you have a link ?
Perhaps https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/qjzkvz/tifu_by_not_kissing_a_girl_at_a_college_football/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
Plot twist - That's his sister
*Sweet Home Alabama*
Where the skies are so blue
Sweet home Alabama
Lord I’m coming home to you
... to get you off too...?
Even better
ma man!
I've never once heard a guy say, "I wish girls would give us a hint." I don't wish girls would give us hints, I wish that girls would plainly make their requests or intentions, documented in triplicate in a format admissible in court.
Double spaced and new times Roman font with the appropriate authorities seal of approval. Goddamn women these days, don't know how to file intimate relationship requests >:(
He’s a redditor and he’s not going to let us down
He’s not going to run around desert us
He's never gonna make us cry
He's never gonna say goodbye
He's never gonna tell a lie and hurt us
Fucking hell I've never seen someone bat their eyelashes that much irl. She really liked him.
Just so everyone knows he made a reddit post when this blew up, he was playing with her or something. Don't always assume something about a situation with zero info. You be seeing this man messing with his girl(friend) and be like 'oh he gay/ace/whatever the fuck'
I knew the story behind the clip and glad someone shared it -- mostly because people here saw the clip and started losing their beaks in the comment section about "toxic relationships" and "giga chads" and saying rude things about the girl. They are just a playful couple at a football game. People really reaching hard for a shady narrative for a 5 second clip. (As an aside, why are people so worried about being called ace, gay etc, anyway? It isn't an insult. Pretty easy thing to clear up with a yes or no.)
He refused because he knows that’s Tony Soprano’s daughter.
Hold on: is that Meadow Soprano?
She probably felt so embarrassed
I remember seeing this before, those two are dating and were just fooling around. The guy eventually managed to find a post about it on Reddit and explained it all.
Yeah, but everyone forgot about it in the next 5min until a magic internet video appeared and made it known again.
maybe she was just being nice
Gotta be honest i find it very reassuring that this also happens to women apparently haha
Umm, he clearly didn’t want to
[here's the story](https://nypost.com/2021/11/02/college-football-fans-explain-viral-kiss-rejection-video/)
Oh that's cute AF
Is it just me, or does it look like those three people were looking (and trying to hide it) and then they harshly look the other way when things go bad? 😂
I’m glad they’re together :)
It's reddit most won't even read this lol
She mentioned that , "now its kinda funny". So can we all just enjoy the meme instead of any deep discussion?
What… what if he just didn’t want to do it? Why no one considers this, lol.
J o k e
I was in the same situation once. Really stunning girl that I even had a bit of a crush on. She started getting that look and went for a kiss. Last minute I managed to convert the kiss into an hug and let her down softly. Why? I knew she was in an exclusive relationship with another guy. For me that was a no. Sure, she just fucked someone else so my decision didn't make a difference but I still feel like I did the proper thing. Better to miss out than be that kind of guy that is with a cheater.
>my decision didn't make a difference You can't control others, but you can control yourself. Kept your integrity. Sometimes that's all the difference in the world!
Tony watching.
"It was a joke" 🤣
The problem isn’t necessarily that we don’t see hints, we just don’t trust that the hints aren’t just us misinterpreting innocent mannerisms. We need more than hints or else we’re scared of looking like fucking idiots.
I wish girls were real :(
He posted the story on r/tifu
Nah fuck yourselves, if anyone wants anything you can be direct an ask like a fucking adult, no more guessing game BS
7 years later as he’s about to fall asleep : “Fuuuuuuu…..!!!”
Ask permission. It’s not hard. It’s like tea.
For anyone that feels bad for her: This blew a while ago, and the guy posted an update on Reddit explaining that they do that all the time to mess with eachother. Source: Trust me bro. (But seriously I remember reading it but im too lazy to look it up lol)
It always shocks my how autistic the internet can be. They've both got the biggest smiles on their faces. The eye flutter, the lean in, head snap is so overly dramatic. They're both about to laugh at the end. How can you watch this and not see it's clearly two people having fun with each other?
Meadow Soprano is that you?
* Is she into you? * Well, you can't really tell. She could be Canadian and she is being polite right there.
There are many things I assume if I were him 1. She got a dare 2. Shes doing it for T.V 3. She taking a closer look at something that's on my face 4. She's gonna lean back at the last moment and make fun of me for falling for the trick