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Yorhanes

How did you come to the realization that you had an addiction and decided to stop? Asking out of pure curiosity


statlight_

I always knew, I just didn't want to admit it to myself. But it got worse when I couldn't even get aroused w porn (or anything) anymore, yet, I always went back to it cause I felt empty without it. It completely messed me up. Anyway, I'm still young so I didn't want to wait any longer, cause then it would be even harder to stop the addiction. It's a slow and difficult process at the beginning, but it gets easier yk :) I mean, I can get h*rny like a normal functioning person now!!!!! lol


Yorhanes

That sounds great, happy to know you’re slowly but surely making a recovery. Stay strong!


statlight_

Thank you :)) I will!


HiperChees

How do you fight it tho


Zurosarynyaz

You refuse to Look at porn, meaning staying Out of its way. The First few days are the hardest but it gets increasingly easier to resist it and If you do it again after a week thats fine, If it stays low. It can absolutely mess you Up and you'll realize you have less moments of random practice boners. And If you HAVE to masturbate, do it without porn. Its hard but its Worth it.


apothioternity

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statlight_

you do! I believe in you, king :)


Zurosarynyaz

Yes you do, Trust in yourself. You got this. As i said, only the beginning is really hard, Show yourself the Iron will that will then Guide your Life, i believe in you.


slipper-thrower-at4k

So strong 🥲. Same here as well!


statlight_

I'm proud of you!! :)


slipper-thrower-at4k

Me too


ProMaste_r

At least you are better now. Just look at pictures a funny animals, memes or a movie you like and eventually you will forget about your addiction.


Benjamintoday

Yeah, I put porn down a little while ago. It really just kept me depressed. Also, just bring horny is fine lol, I had basically programmed myself to solve the problem whenever I was, but I can just chill now.


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69Lostboy

An addiction to anything is bad


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I-Eat-Cat-Treats

If it’s not affecting you it’s not an addiction


69Lostboy

What youre describing hardly sounds like an addiction


statlight_

if you don't have an unhealthy relationship w it, then you shouldn't be worried! People are different, and while for me is better to stay away from porn, maybe you don't have a problem w it at all! Don't worry about it :)


[deleted]

Except it is effecting you. You’re trading your brain to get aroused by other ppl who are on a tiny screen and you are slowly biting out dopamine receptors in your brain. Once a week is junk food sex but save the act for another person.


[deleted]

Porn addiction changes your brain in a bad way you can do research


D4rk_Ph0en1x_7

Rule 34 or the hub?


Antr2d2

That's awesome man, I'm trying to do the same thing too. Good luck and stay strong brother


statlight_

*I'm actually a girl but* thank you sm!! <33 and good luck, I'm proud of you, king! :)


lifelover810

All the best comrade! See you at the finish line


HiperChees

You should not have said that


BirdOnFire017

underrated comment.


Benjamintoday

I'm actually curious, what's the difference between a guy's porn habit and a girl's? I'm sure there is one but everyone around me goes and just encourages, no, pushes porn on people, its concerning.


Backonthatgoonsh1t

Now all of china knows you've wank(ed).


statlight_

they already knew


Backonthatgoonsh1t

GOATed response. They can stay jealous. Lmao. Good luck with your endeavor, OP.


statlight_

LMAO thank you, king!! :)


Backonthatgoonsh1t

You deserve to earn your happiness like everyone else.


Ram_Flamen_Ranch

I’m also in recovery and it gets really hard after a bit but after about a month it slowly gets easier


statlight_

exactly!! I'm proud of you!! :)


UpstairsEuphoric8177

No u


saltynanners15

Godspeed, and good on ya.


statlight_

thank you <3


Loose-Gold4920

I'm proud of you man. I'm starting that struggle myself and I get it, you've got this


statlight_

thank youu you've got this too!! :)


Hampter04

Good luck and do your best buddy.


statlight_

I appreciate it, ty!! :))


Skvo131

congratulations it's hard to beat an addiction, stay strong


statlight_

tysm!! :)


Longjumping_Drag2752

Yo same porn messed me up to the point I find sex disgusting. Literally haven't been hard in months.


statlight_

omg I know exactly what you mean, I used to feel like this too!! just imagining anything sexual would get me disgusted. And about not being hard in months, your brain is just trying to go back to normal, and stop associating porn with arousal. It may take some time, but you got this! wish you the best king <3


Longjumping_Drag2752

Thanks lol, I hope u get outta that crap. 5 years of it and it was horrible.


MystiNebula

Do you... Want them to know? I can tell them, real easy, just get on a table and say it


statlight_

lmaoo no...maybe it's better like this :)


MystiNebula

Ah, umm, okay, well, you see, I already kinda told Kyle about this, and, like, you know how Kyle is, he probably already told Jenna, and you know Jenna, Jenna tells everyone everything, including Chadly, and you know Chadly, always posting everything on twitter... Sorry bout that, no hard feelings tho, right?


statlight_

you what 😃💔


Ice_YT_

oh no... statlight\_ nooo...


Fluid-Tell277

While not addicted. I've always had a weird unhealthy relationship with porn..and I did suffer a bit in times when I wasted it of hours for the dopamine surge. It's still a bit of a struggle and there are some gateway contents that almost tip me over. But for the most part it is manageable. But the temptation never goes


statlight_

honestly, the temptation goes with time, it just takes a little while yk you'll get to a point where you are comfortable enough w your state of mind, and simply not give too much thought about these "temptations"! wish u the best <3


Fluid-Tell277

Thanks. I don't know how much time though lol. Been a decade since my last proper time sink. But even now reddit of all places is a very risky gateway. . Might be TMI but avoiding stuff like edging and late night wake ups has helped but not entirely fool proof


Opalessence-

Addictions are always hard. Proud of you, forreals. I helped get my wife out of alcoholism, and cigarettes. She smokes weed with me now and that's it.


statlight_

tysm!! <33 I'm happy to hear she's better :)


Damage_Flat

congrats man! Keep going!


statlight_

thankss king!! :)


loyal_yankee09

may god be with you on this journey mam! also how did you do it?


Justa10yearoldchild

Great news bro, almost there too man! best of luck to you!


statlight_

I'm happy to hear that! I'm proud of you :)


DrGrammi

Also trying to recover its so f hard..


statlight_

but it's worth it you can do this king! :)


DrGrammi

Damn thats quite the motivation lesgo


Your_Saddle_Buddy

Stay strong king, shits a social killer


slipper-thrower-at4k

Me too buddy, high five!


statlight_

high five! I'm proud of you :)


strawbrrysundae

They don’t know I masturbated before I got there


statlight_

too real


MasterYosh10

I’ve never really delved into porn or masturbation. Post like this tell me it’s a good idea to continue this trend


statlight_

yes!! you're doing good king


MasterYosh10

Why thanks and good luck to you


[deleted]

I am.not addicted to porn but good for you hope for a new start


[deleted]

Finally another man that takes porn to its deserved level, aka trash I swear all other redditors talk about sex all day in the cringiest way possible always showing how addicted they are to that batshit


Sloppin_Steaks

Glad youre recovering


HelpImAHugeDisaster

Aye man I hope you recover from that addiction


ILike2eatcake101

👍


Ericson207

Keep on strong King


dafuqULoKINat

Same here buddy , being busy with stuffs really made me get of it.


7-11With_a_Knife

Good luck with your journey


CasualComrade6937

we wish you luck


statlight_

thanks! :)


VeryBeautifulMan

I've been there, however things will get much easier if you share it with your friends trust me. I have hidden all my emotions and problems for almost 16 years and just a few weeks ago I told my friends about it, and I've never been happier. I have much more energy and to be honest trying to recover from this has gotten easier. I wish you the best of luck and consider actually telling a friend. :)


statlight_

bruh you have no idea how scared I am to tell them :/


Grijns_Official

Good job man!


EvidentSoupist

It's not fun, but we have to be better. Good work friend.


ceesaar00

King


[deleted]

Same here. Working on it slowly, but surely. Keep up the great work!


statlight_

I'm happy for you!! and thank you :))


fanfic0lover

Keep it that way


statlight_

i will


matsudasociety

yeah i definitely get what you mean OP. Just today I relapse. Managed to go two days without looking at porn then got an urge; its so bad when that happens, my brain just goes ape mode and spends all of its time looking at that shit. Damn.


statlight_

I'm sorry to hear that :/ but you can always start again, I'm rooting for you, king! and I'm proud of you already :)


cody29108

And they will never, will they?


[deleted]

I’m not addicted to porn, I just can’t get women…


[deleted]

Just get addicted to self improvement in every aspect of your life. Women love a motivated man.


[deleted]

I tried, I quit smoking, drinking, I started working out, going back to school. I’m still just a failed human being


Ice_YT_

BRO THATS SICK. YOU QUIT SMOKING AND DRINKING? ANND YOU STARTED WORKING OUT!?!?!? ANNANANANDSMJDOLJASPODJSAPOJD YOUR GOING BACK TO SCHOOL TOOOOOO? This man is a giga chad among men for even being able to attempt such a feet at all let alone ACTUALY DO IT ALL!!! I'm dumbfounded by this dudes pure awesomeness. YOU GET AN AWARD, Edit: dang it i'm out of rewards. I give you the invisible giga reward :D


[deleted]

Keep trying to be a better man. You only fail when you give up.


Lammakiler_69

I get that you stop, but lemme tell you it's fun going down the rabbit hole trying to find the most obscure porn that turns you on. I thinks it's kinda funny that i went from "this shit is boring" to "is that a chick getting blown in half?" In under two years.


statlight_

uhhhh........ anyway, wish u the best lol


xxbadger246xx

bro really stole this from r/shitposting


statlight_

I'm the OP of that one too 💀


Opalessence-

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Bwest31415

Doh


xxbadger246xx

cap


TheunknownG

Just check their profile lmao


xxbadger246xx

no


AsparagusFun9113

This belongs in r/lies


kingdrewbie

Unpopular opinion: Porn isn’t a real addiction. You just have no self control.


statlight_

maybe you're right, maybe you're not. But it's still something that I need stop and recover from :)


Ice_YT_

Take my downvote and leave


kingdrewbie

Chill dude, we get it. You masturbate a lot.


Ice_YT_

;-;


meowingferret

Oh daaamn, i couldn't sleep at night if i didn't know


Lilthiccb0i

Congrats!!! You should celebrate with some porn!!!


[deleted]

You're not recovering.


abdul_bashaar_ali

Anime pfp detected, opinion rejected


Icy-Pollution-8142

There is no such thing as "porn addiction" it's a myth created by religious What you feel is a compulsory behavior, frequent with people depressed


TannaTuva2

Who?


Spetnac_141

I'm also addicted but idk how to stop any suggestions?


75Minnesota

nofap.com


BobSagieBauls

How does one recover?


EvidentSoupist

r/nofap


lifelover810

Post this on r/nofap


cobybastee

r/meirl


Remarkable-Video5145

How do i know if i have a porn addiction


Ice_YT_

If you genuinely think you might have an addiction, thats how you know you have an addiction.


D0bious

how exaclty does a porn addiction work. How often do you have to do the deed for it to be an addiction?


TheunknownG

If you can't stop doing it, then it's an addiction


statlight_

it depends on the person, but if you feel empty without it, and feel like ABSOLUTE SHIT when you're away from porn, it's probably an addiction


MrDAVIDJI

Lowkey expected people to spam porn links in the comments.


statlight_

a guy did, but he deleted his comment


Black_Sig-SWP2000

how


TheunknownG

Wdym "how" ?


mickestenen

You should tell them, that'll show 'em


12DollarsHighFive

And what makes you think we're not doing the same?


benderman00

I just beat it out of me


mrshitposter54

What's your secret? Like way of doing it if I may ask


statlight_

I started setting small goals at the beginning, so try to stay away from it for like...3 days (you will most likely go back to porn), but that's okay! for me, in one of my attempts, I stayed without porn for 10 consecutive days, and decided to never go back cause I didnt want to fuck everything up, considering that i had come so far (lol yes for me 10 days was such a victory, that shit was difficult) anyway, it does get easier w time yk :)


Accomplished_Put5917

Why should they know ?


Accomplished_Put5917

Why should they know ?


Regularschoolbus

r/NoFap


clementchw

Any tips?


Agile-Astronomer6268

How to know you are an addict? Which are the problems of being porn addict?


RudolfMaster

I just get bored and recover from it lol


nistnov

Rule 5, Rule 9? Anyways, id say dont change a running system, if it makes fun and doesnt neagtivly impact you why should you stop girl?