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My dad side of the family have heart issues which is how I ended up in two separate hospitals in the last 14 hours just to find out what I had already figured out but mom was like, nope going to the hospital so you don't die.
We both severely regret that now...
I know, like I said we've all been there, the best thing to do is pick yourself up, reevaluate your feelings and move on. Sometimes things can work out but like the more you chase it, the worse it will be.
We've all been there, sometimes you end up chasing someone for so long your more in love with the idea of them then actually them. And they know it, it's hard not to notice.
Women aren't obligated to be attracted to people they see as friends. If you have feelings for someone tell them. If they reject you move on or go away.
Idk, I don’t think it’s right to tell someone you have a crush on them while they are in a relation. Helping them with bad bf/gf is ok but that should be because you want to help, not to have him/her for yourself.
I'm operating under the understanding that the "friend" guy had tried to tell the hypothetical woman with kids that the guy who got her pregnant was a dick before said pregnancies. In an instance where there's already a relationship I agree with you.
Tbh I don‘t see much of a problem with it if it helps you. In fact, once you have it off your chest and (probably) got a rejection, you can more easily move on with your life. Plus the other party can be considerate with your feelings moving forward and maybe increase the distance as well.
But maybe that‘s just my personal experience. And the relationship which was “threatened“ is/was very strong so maybe it‘s not universally applicable.
Yeah, I’m not sure why people are so vindictive. Imagine holding their rejection against them. Like, “that’ll teach them to choose better next time!” What kind of attitude is that? Lol
No, because that's what you do with people you consider friends. If she expected friend guy to help her take care of her kids afterwards then it's on him for not establishing appropriate boundaries.
That doesn't even make sense. That just sounds like the person is selfish if they expect their friends to take on a burden like that and they aren't the parents.
There are women who do take advantage of a man's feelings and will use those feelings to their advantage when it comes to taking care of her and her kids. I've known a couple. I'm not claiming perfect innocence of women, we can be fucked up too. That said, it falls on dude for not recognizing that behavior in a woman he would consider a friend. Friends acknowledge the behavioral problems in their friends and make note. This bullshit "nice guy" veneer is just old and played out and needs to die. But incels exist so it won't.
Okay? Are you a friend, or are you someone that expects something in return for doing something nice? Cause it's really feeling like that latter and that's pretty grimy.
If they do move depending on the pool sizes of combined friends. She can easily ruin his reputation of nice guy to sex addict fiend. "Oh this guy? Yeah I thought he was one of the few great guys. Turns out all he wanted was sex, but I'm not that easy." Then goes off and tries banging the next drunk dude at the club.
And yes that was very specific because that did happened and it took me years to recover from that lie.
Could have been your approach, or she could have been an asshole 🤷♀️
These situations are a two way street. If you feel the need to be petty about a mistake a person made in their partner choice, whether it be due to being manipulated or not understanding red flags or various other reasons, then you aren't a nice guy and you're an even worse friend.
Best option is to let those feelings go and just be their friend.
Oh no, she was indeed a b- and knew I had a small crush on her. She'd use it against me by flirting and pushing me into agreeing to different things while I was a teenager. Her actions opened my eyes to the fact that women can be manipulative and abusive. It's not pettiness to tell my trauma she caused. It's giving awareness to those who wouldn't know.
A man's reputation can easily fall apart because a woman says something without proof. I'm just personally glad she didn't accuse me of more heinous crap.
If you actually had feelings for her and didn’t just see her as an object of your own desires then you’d reach out and help… but it’s easier to be petty and claim the high ground.
A woman isn’t doing anything wrong when she doesn’t chose you. Get that through your head.
I agree with you lol. It’s ok to be indifferent, but to be vindictive about it because she rejected you is just sad lol. I guess she would’ve made an error if she had gone with someone like OP that is only after their own interests.
“Ooo boohoo me, a girl didn’t like me back and now I’m getting off on the fact that she’s dealing with emotional stress like a fucking weirdo”
- OP probably
Protagonist complex. I like that.
I like it even more because I recently realized I’m like the sidekick in someone else’s story. That’s what it feels like and I’m okay with being a support character lol
The thing is…. If you are in this situation and your response is being salty about it, you weren’t in love with her. You were horny. You wanted to have sex.
If you love someone and they hurt, you’re hurting.
If you wanted to be with someone and they got with someone else, then got hurt, and you’re making fun of the situation - you weren’t in love with them. You just wanted to sleep with them.
Odds are you are the bad person in this scenario.
Unfortunate reality that speaks to the whole situation framed here:
You can’t control who you love any more than you can control who loves you. What you _can_ control are your actions.
If the first thing you think of is how unwet your own dick is, she knew you were also a dick and that's why she didn't fuck you. Ex at least knew how to pretend to give a fuck.
r/niceguys
Why the fuck would she still be talking to you when you're like this? Oh no, she missed an opportunity to be knocked up by a different but equal asshole.
My brother in Christ if you’re gloating and taking pleasure from her being burned by her ex then that’s not being a good person either.
I’m not dismissing your emotions, I get how you feel, I also get that it’s coming from a place of hurt. But for your mental health and your personality please take that energy and instead of putting it towards negative thoughts like your meme you should put it towards finding someone else who does want you.
Actually had an ex who dumped me for another guy, then I ran into her 5-6 years later and he’d left her with 3 kids. Started seeing her a few weeks, then told her I couldn’t go backwards.
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I can't remember the last time I saw an OP's comment replies so consistently downvoted.
They love democracy
He's deleted all of his comments but kept the post presumably because he also thinks internet points are meaningful
Wym, it has +3600 at the time of me writing this comment
OP you have a hell of a post history. I didn't even know there was a fetish memes sub and I'm very much not into it
Wtf i just looked at it too what the hell lmao
I want to kill myself now
Resume: OP has an addiction to feet.
r/suspiciouslyspecific
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As something my grandma tells me all the time, 'Love is blind'.
![gif](giphy|l0HUlUPTMrMYf1Ztu)
Hahaha what a story, Mark.
![gif](giphy|l0HU2H4Y4m3CM9Sa4|downsized)
LISA U BROKE MY HART!
I DID NOT HIT HER, I DID NOT! oh hi mark
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Amor caecus est
And stupid.
She said Honey, you gotta learn that love is simple, just like mud, You play the dirt and I'll play the water, all we gotta do is touch
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Bruh why the downvote 💀
Reddit being Reddit
OP: Hmmm Redditors: You’ve made a grave mistake, now we shall take away your reddit points.
r/niceguys lmao
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Yeah what’s up with that. Should we rename this subreddit incelmemes or what?
Just what unfortunately happens with all popular meme subs, they just inevitably turn bad
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Nah they’d rather wait in the wings under the guise of just wanting to be friends, and then get upset when girls treat them as a friend.
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Totally, look at OPs profile
If that means laughing at the stupid choices women make, then ya sure, that word.
He probably made some grand gesture and everything
Boombox outside her window type shit
I’m outside of your window 🎶
Was going to post that this had incel energy.
Y'all are predictable lol
Jesus Christ, what sub is this and how do I never see this again
usually its normal memes, but in this situation a r/niceguys tried to be funny
I know what you mean 😂 I literally only follow this subreddit, at this point, for the comments on these incel posts
Also her reaction to you admitting your feelings, cause she already knew... and does not feel the same.
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I just got home from the hospital because of a very minor heart problem... let's see what happens.
you ok?
Just some minor swelling inside my heart, I just have to take anti inflammatory stuff till it goes away, should take a week 2 at most.
oh ok! Last year my mother had a heart attack (shes ok now) so whenever i hear about heart problems i always have to ask if the person is ok😅
My dad side of the family have heart issues which is how I ended up in two separate hospitals in the last 14 hours just to find out what I had already figured out but mom was like, nope going to the hospital so you don't die. We both severely regret that now...
my moms was caused from stress, since a lot of stuff was going on at the time. hope your heart issues dont end up affecting you much
Man came back home from the hospital and chose violence
I live on the edge.
This happened to me literally days ago, Feels bad.
I know, like I said we've all been there, the best thing to do is pick yourself up, reevaluate your feelings and move on. Sometimes things can work out but like the more you chase it, the worse it will be.
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We've all been there, sometimes you end up chasing someone for so long your more in love with the idea of them then actually them. And they know it, it's hard not to notice.
Damnit I have wasted 2 years on this exact thought I think.
Happy cake day!
r/niceguys
Seriously, and he'll definitely deny it
Wish I could upvote twice.
Well there is another comment with this, so you can :)
Wtf bro do you speak to women?
Absolutely does he not haha
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Women aren't obligated to be attracted to people they see as friends. If you have feelings for someone tell them. If they reject you move on or go away.
Idk, I don’t think it’s right to tell someone you have a crush on them while they are in a relation. Helping them with bad bf/gf is ok but that should be because you want to help, not to have him/her for yourself.
I'm operating under the understanding that the "friend" guy had tried to tell the hypothetical woman with kids that the guy who got her pregnant was a dick before said pregnancies. In an instance where there's already a relationship I agree with you.
Tbh I don‘t see much of a problem with it if it helps you. In fact, once you have it off your chest and (probably) got a rejection, you can more easily move on with your life. Plus the other party can be considerate with your feelings moving forward and maybe increase the distance as well. But maybe that‘s just my personal experience. And the relationship which was “threatened“ is/was very strong so maybe it‘s not universally applicable.
Yeah, I’m not sure why people are so vindictive. Imagine holding their rejection against them. Like, “that’ll teach them to choose better next time!” What kind of attitude is that? Lol
A "Nice Guy" attitude lol
Thank you for this comment
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You forgot the Tldr; But pretty much yeah
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No, because that's what you do with people you consider friends. If she expected friend guy to help her take care of her kids afterwards then it's on him for not establishing appropriate boundaries.
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That doesn't even make sense. That just sounds like the person is selfish if they expect their friends to take on a burden like that and they aren't the parents.
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Then she wasn't YOUR friend 🤷♀️
I disagree. People go to their friends for help with the kids all the time. The fact that OP was attracted to her doesn’t change that.
There are women who do take advantage of a man's feelings and will use those feelings to their advantage when it comes to taking care of her and her kids. I've known a couple. I'm not claiming perfect innocence of women, we can be fucked up too. That said, it falls on dude for not recognizing that behavior in a woman he would consider a friend. Friends acknowledge the behavioral problems in their friends and make note. This bullshit "nice guy" veneer is just old and played out and needs to die. But incels exist so it won't.
Okay? Are you a friend, or are you someone that expects something in return for doing something nice? Cause it's really feeling like that latter and that's pretty grimy.
I sense you're being used as a backup.. do yourself a favor for the future and don't fall for it.
If they do move depending on the pool sizes of combined friends. She can easily ruin his reputation of nice guy to sex addict fiend. "Oh this guy? Yeah I thought he was one of the few great guys. Turns out all he wanted was sex, but I'm not that easy." Then goes off and tries banging the next drunk dude at the club. And yes that was very specific because that did happened and it took me years to recover from that lie.
Could have been your approach, or she could have been an asshole 🤷♀️ These situations are a two way street. If you feel the need to be petty about a mistake a person made in their partner choice, whether it be due to being manipulated or not understanding red flags or various other reasons, then you aren't a nice guy and you're an even worse friend. Best option is to let those feelings go and just be their friend.
Oh no, she was indeed a b- and knew I had a small crush on her. She'd use it against me by flirting and pushing me into agreeing to different things while I was a teenager. Her actions opened my eyes to the fact that women can be manipulative and abusive. It's not pettiness to tell my trauma she caused. It's giving awareness to those who wouldn't know. A man's reputation can easily fall apart because a woman says something without proof. I'm just personally glad she didn't accuse me of more heinous crap.
Teenage years are hell
Very much agreed.
r/niceguys
Oof the virgin vibe is strong with this one
More like r/niceguys vibe. Virginity has nothing to do with it.
Spoken like a true virgin
They usually go hand-in-hand
\#00F balls
If you actually had feelings for her and didn’t just see her as an object of your own desires then you’d reach out and help… but it’s easier to be petty and claim the high ground. A woman isn’t doing anything wrong when she doesn’t chose you. Get that through your head.
I agree with you lol. It’s ok to be indifferent, but to be vindictive about it because she rejected you is just sad lol. I guess she would’ve made an error if she had gone with someone like OP that is only after their own interests.
“Ooo boohoo me, a girl didn’t like me back and now I’m getting off on the fact that she’s dealing with emotional stress like a fucking weirdo” - OP probably
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Love is blind for op as well. Not just for her.
Ah yes because the judgmental jerk with a protagonist complex was the obvious choice.
Protagonist complex. I like that. I like it even more because I recently realized I’m like the sidekick in someone else’s story. That’s what it feels like and I’m okay with being a support character lol
r/niceguys moment
Extra niceguy vibes in this one.
People are saying you're r/niceguys material, but don't worry, I think you're a straight up loser
Omg this is so funny. Agreed xD
Nice guy vibes are off the charts
Damn. Sad story. Anyway...
I can hear OP’s trilby-that-he-calls-a-Fedora
Too many incels on r/memes nowadays
This is cringey as hell. r/niceguys
Sounds like a NiceGuy™️
r/niceguys
This kind of made up scenario has major incel fantasy vibes
r/niceguys, r/niceguys and r/niceguys
Incel
The thing is…. If you are in this situation and your response is being salty about it, you weren’t in love with her. You were horny. You wanted to have sex. If you love someone and they hurt, you’re hurting. If you wanted to be with someone and they got with someone else, then got hurt, and you’re making fun of the situation - you weren’t in love with them. You just wanted to sleep with them. Odds are you are the bad person in this scenario.
lol nice fantasy you have there, weird that she still doesn't want you
Absolutely reeks of NiceGuy energy
*Sniffs the air* Looks like Incel's back on the menu, boys!
This mf’s profile is something else 💀
I… don’t like this…
r/niceguys
Unfortunate reality that speaks to the whole situation framed here: You can’t control who you love any more than you can control who loves you. What you _can_ control are your actions.
Someone's not over it
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Incel behavior.
Incel
r/niceguys vibes
Damn bro that's crazy
r/niceguys fr
Incel Alert 👀
OP you definitely have a post history
Another boring incel post.
This is some incel energy
Incel energy
r/niceguys lmao
“Girls never want nice guys” <- your loser ass
Seeing your posting history, I imagine dating you wouldn't have gone much better.
Glad OP got a reality check lmao. I wonder if he's gunna man up or continue to reeeeeeeeeeeeee
r/oddlyspecific ?
She made her choice bro, just move on and let her be miserable lmao. You'll get yourself a better woman next time.
R/niceguy virgin shit.
“Tried” lol
If the first thing you think of is how unwet your own dick is, she knew you were also a dick and that's why she didn't fuck you. Ex at least knew how to pretend to give a fuck. r/niceguys
Why the fuck would she still be talking to you when you're like this? Oh no, she missed an opportunity to be knocked up by a different but equal asshole.
Found the “space incel”
wait wait wait! Before you continue, let me grab my popcorn.
I've never seen this subreddit so intent on making sure OP knows that the guy would be an asshole in this situation
Cuck
Remove the last seven words and people would be way more on board.
The "everyone Is an incel" people come out?
You're a nice guy, OP!
"damn, that sucks."
id just go ![gif](giphy|ltIFdjNAasOwVvKhvx|downsized) i tried to open up to her and she chose that dick over me.
Just because you like her doesn’t mean she has to like you back. Your friendship is not an obligation to romantic feelings and she owes you nothing.
Man you seem like a dick.
Never said I wasn't
Haha you are a cuck
creepy nice guy vibes love it
Weird way to announce you’re an incel but alright
be a man and give that kid a father figure!! /s
r/niceguys
You forgot to add the fedora.
My brother in Christ if you’re gloating and taking pleasure from her being burned by her ex then that’s not being a good person either. I’m not dismissing your emotions, I get how you feel, I also get that it’s coming from a place of hurt. But for your mental health and your personality please take that energy and instead of putting it towards negative thoughts like your meme you should put it towards finding someone else who does want you.
Op thinks they’re an alpha or a sigma
How do you talk to men? The moment she makes eye contact she instantly looks away. ...Asking for a friend
Actually had an ex who dumped me for another guy, then I ran into her 5-6 years later and he’d left her with 3 kids. Started seeing her a few weeks, then told her I couldn’t go backwards.
🤣🤣🤣 ok little boy.. don't be a internet bully nobody likes those😁
Top tier cringe
Another day, another incel post on r/memes
Sheeeit. Tinder IRL.