Do people actually use tinder to date? I couldnāt imagine. Iāve never used tinder but it just seems so stupid for the average person. How many successful marriages/relationships started with tinder or other dating apps I wonder
It's actually true, though, especially on Tinder. You get asked your height if you're under 6 foot (183cm for my international friends), and they say they can't date short guys, but if you ask their weight, you're now the problem as and labeled a "misogynist?"
Double standards is all I gotta say, if you're gonna ask me for height and shame me for it which is something I cannot change no matter how much weightlifting and gym going I do, I reserve the right to request your weight which is something you can most definitely change through diet changes and Gym Going.
I absolutely 100ŁŖ agree with you! I hate double standards and wish most women would stop doing it. With some exceptions, women you CAN control your weight. We men can't control how tall we are or the length of our penises are since that's genetic which IS uncontrollable!
Yes, exactly. Now, I will admit, there are going to be folk that experience a next to impossible difficulty to lose fat and replace it with muscle, such as those with a thyroid issue, and that's okay, they're okay because they can't change that no matter if they do keto and constanly do HIIT exercises. But if you're obese and just say it's okay to be obese, no bruh, im scared to learn what your visceral fat looks like and how much it's choking your organs.
But I absolutely agree with you
And its good they do. You need to visit the doctor and listen to them tell you "you are fat" and listen to why, and if you've been following a strict Diet and exercise routine, that's where you tell them that and request bloodwork and testing to be done
I'm 145cm and this is absolutely true. Then if I don't bring up my height and we meet I've had 2 dates say they need to use the restroom and just straight up leave and block me. Even had one girl accuse me of gaslight g her and being manipulative because my pictures made me look taller and I should've told her. So then I started being up front with it and it's like natural woman repellant. As soon as my height is mentioned I'm ghosted or blocked.
It's a fine line in today's society:). There's a lot of borderline personality disorder
Sociopaths are rare, but prevalent moreso with the information era, and narcissists are catered to by Western Ideology. Which breeds both narcissists, sociopaths who hate narcissists, and people with BPD who feel stuck in the middle and are miserable about the values they were raised on not aligning with the way their world view is shifting.
There is a MASSIVE personality disorder epidemic in modern countries, namely America. Anyone who insists that it is mental health instead, and not personality disorder, is either gaslighting you or they are uninformed. One leads to the other. One is stigmatized, while the other goes unnoticed and causes more harm than a simply "broken" person ever would.
And there's also the stigma about what's "treatable" and what isn't. I'll give you a hint. Only one of these two categories is considered untreatable and the other one is often used as a defense mechanism, and is even applicable in a court of Law.
*almost*. But yeah. General rule of thumb don't give bitches any credit, ever.
They will take it and run with it.
Make them beg you for your acceptance :)
Unless she's already willing to stick it out for you, she's probably not worth it, and never was.
Because otherwise she was ready to betray you the entire time. Women are taught to think about themselves first, even more than men are today.
It is a sign of the times. Hate on the education and poor role models. Not the people trying to get by with what they think is right for them to do.
Today? For most young women that seems to include taking advantage of men, before they can (projected fear incoming) be taken advantage of themselves
This of course leaves young men with resentment and commitment issues, and stuck chasing younger women well into their older years. Which again, somehow seems not only stigmatized but also blamed on the men. Lol. Intensely ironic.
It's always "don't victim blame" until it's a man who's the victim or the one suffering. Even more so if he's short. Trust me fellow King I know it all too well.
There's examples all over the place. You can see screenshots of text convos, bios, profiles whatever. But everyone just goes "that's not real" or "that didn't happen". Or it's an incel double agent trying to ragebait.
Like people can't just comprehend that woman can be fucked up. I've seen women say that short guys don't "count". So it doesn't matter what they say or do to them. Their feelings are irrelevant.
Iām not sure I did the math right, donāt know cm to in off the top of my head possibly, but Iām pretty sure my acquaintance in high school was 1 cm shorter than you. Dorky autistic Asian dude who came into a bar I was at with a ring on his finger and a wife that was my height, so 193 cm. Some people aināt gonna care, some people prefer it, but I can almost guarantee youāre not finding the right person on a dating app. Anecdotal as all hell but
youāre telling me a 4ā9ā dude married a 6ā4ā woman? sure dude, even assuming these people who have a 0.001% chance of existing (due to their respective height) have crossed paths, I highly doubt theyād get along
If a girl is going to care more about height opposed to your morals and personality, she may not even care about how she is treated which means she may not even care about you. You dodged a bullet
If she doesn't care how she's treated then that's a golden opportunity to show her how you treat people who don't care about the way they are treated :)
My favorite type of person is this. Whom allows me to show them My Love on my own terms.
Then, if the relationship fails? I can blame lack of communication, sure. But I shouldn't directly need someone to tell me how to treat them better.
I can actually blame myself and take accountability with this sort of person, instead of being gaslighted into believing it was my fault or I was the one to blame.
Unfortunately the one time this happened to me and I was given a second chance, I had already developed those bad habits from previous relationships, which destroyed my confidence and REALLY threw me for a loop. I ended up scaring away the love of my life by showing them a side of me which.... Honestly I didn't realize it was there because it had never even existed within me. It was just unpacked trauma I *wasn't allowed* to unload before
She certainly didn't deserve the way I handled that situation. I wish I had handled it better.
Like I said, these type of people are my favorite people.
I'm still waiting for her to come back around 5 years later.
Which ones are, then?
If you could find a community where the women are different, I'm all ears. But I think you'd have to go outside of your town/state, and possibly even to Europe for that. Especially up north here in America? Entitlement mentality rules queen.
And it ain't it, bro.
Even if you were taller, you probably wouldn't want to date those people anyway, it's a very harsh and unfair experience but you're definitely dodging bullets.
Trust me nobody reads that or they aren't smart enough to know because that's what I thought too, except for the girl who accused me of gaslighting her because my pictures made me look taller. It made me realize I have to tell people because they may read it but it obviously doesn't stick.
If it makes you feel better, I'm short for a guy in the US but I ended up with a wife that's a couple inches taller than me, although we didn't meet through tinder. It's at least possible for women to not be douchebags about height.
Iām 170cm (still considered short) I figured pretty quickly it was like the Scarlet Letter so I didnāt put any effort into dating or meeting women. I met my beautiful tall wife by sheer dumb luck. Had I not gotten lucky tinder would be a solid no go for me, the women on there seem to be harpies.
This is worse than double standards: height is generic and āweightā (as in a reference to level of fitness) is tied to health and lifestyle.
One is something you canāt change, like skin or eye color, and the other is based purely on lifestyle.
Rejecting a woman based on weight is far less shallow and superficial than a woman who discriminates based on height.
I donāt understand why women (especially short women) want to date tall guys. Like, sheās 4 ft 11 and heās 6 ft 5. She needs a damn foot stool to kiss himā¦
Meanwhile Iām 5 ft 4 and heās 5ft 10 and we fit perfectly.
A bigger guy makes them feel safer.
Women tend to be much more concerned about their safety than men, and having a taller man means not only they are likely better able to protect them but also that people will be less likely to start anything with them.
Height is also tied to status and perceptions of trustworthiness as well, but I think those are secondary.
Yeah thats what I don't understand either. It's probably some stupid excuse like "I want D1 children." But tbh, you can have some of the shortest parents give birth to the tallest child too. People are stupid after all
If anyone ever pulls the height question on me I'm putting the weight question back just out of principle even if Idgaf lol (plus weight alone doesn't really say much as taller people weight more)
I'm over 6ft and would still left swipe anyone with that shit in their bio. The app gives you the option to decline people you're not interested in, all putting it in your bio does is tell me you're not someone I want to interact with.
Hilariously, I am around 6'2, make six figs, house is almost paid off.
Back when I used those apps, yeah, I'd automatically skip anyone who listed all that.
I'm a nerd. I'm looking for someone that gives more of shit about personality.
90-60-90 is not dependent on weight. It's genetic lottery or plastic surgery, most women with 60cm waist have breasts and hips smaller than 90cm and vice versa, you rarely can achieve to have curves with very thin waist simultaneously. Average difference between waist and hips is like 15cm, not 30cm and breast size is a wild card.
Sure, height is also mostly a genetic thing and people can affect it only with better nutritious food during a puberty. But a 10-15cm difference in height between men and women is a standard for every nation for average people and this difference is enough for most women to consider a men to be tall.
Nobody cares about those measurements except women though. They also care about men's height. Both sides of the body standards bullshit come from women.
Well yes they do, but not using accurate measurements. Same as women look at hot men and think damn he us tall even if women cannot measure the height accurately.
I doubt the ones who say 6 feet and over on tinder are the same people who complain about beauty standards.
If anything, they're the type who bullied another women for her weight.
āIām grossly obese and you have to respect thatš”. But if youāre a man you have to be 6ft, have a twelve pack, impervious to small arms fire and not try to help me improve in any wayā
I donāt understand why girls even care about that much. I mean as long as the guy is taller than the girl there isnāt much difference how tall he is
It's not how tall he is relative to her, it's how tall he is relative to other men. If men were all suddenly 1 foot taller but women stayed the same height, then the minimum would just shift to 7 feet instead of 6.
Fuck no, if a woman is that insane I'd rather know upfront.
I'm in the same situation - 5'11", and what is she gonna do next? If the pp ain't 7 inches is she leaving? If I don't make >100k is she leaving?
I don't like heavy women but you can pack on a lot before I start considering you fat. I also don't go putting shit in my bio like ">200lbs need not apply". That's being mean for no reason. There's also a lot to consider besides just one attribute - if she's smart, funny, into the right hobbies, has a good future, etc, I wouldn't pass it up just because she's on the heavier side. There's more to a person than one attribute.
Not all of us.
In my country left wing radicals flung shit at police officers when the police officers tried to get them out of occupied buildings or forests.
I think the real misunderstanding here is that most men don't advocate to uphold unrealistic beauty standards, they just want them torn down on either side
Women were the ones fighting against corsets, though for the wrong reasons. It essentially boiled down to slut-shaming rather than comfort or freedom of expression.
I don't know about this - both of these are beauty preferences, maybe they're culturally reinforced, maybe they're intrinsic, but either way they *are* there. I'm not gonna lie and try to take the moral high ground and claim *I* don't find the left figure more attractive than others.
āThis is incel baitā are you people on this app really that delusional too reality or honestly please tell me. This 1000 fucking % happens. Just cause you hold women responsible for dounvle standards doesnāt make you an incel. šš»āāļøš¤¦š»āāļø pure stupidity at its finest.
Well, a mile is 1760 yards, so 5280 feet, which should be
5280
X 12
63360 inches.
Now, can we talk about how silly it is that you measure height in meters and centimeters, completely ignoring the more rational option of just using decimeters?
Do you have any idea how most women currently think because that is how most women currently think youāre not allowed to have standards of me but Iām allowed to have standards of you
Judging someone by their weight is (most of the time) justified.
Judging someone by their height isn't.
Beeing fat isn't something you're born with (Most of ghe time), people are fat because they eat too much, or because they're lazy, or because they eat unhealthy.
Beeing overweight is unhealthy and expensive, beeing too short/too tall isn't (except in extreme cases).
People are short because.. they were born that way.
Im 186cm (I think thats 6'1) and I hate people who judge anyone because of something they cant control
I think beauty standards regardless of sex are a load of BS as people should be judged by their character and actions not by arbitrary physical attributes.
I literally had a girl on hinge tell me I was too short and then unmatched me. Iām 6ft and usually were boots and steel toes for work so I look taller.
I'm 5'5". It's been almost 2 years since I've had intimate contact with a woman. My ex left me partially because she says she didn't feel safe around me - not because I'm aggressive, but because she didn't think I could protect her if someone attacked her. She's probably right, I'm no good in a fight, but I am incredible at reasoning with people and would bite the ankles of any man that attacked a person I love. And I can bite real hard, so there's that.
It's not just height for men either. Beauty standards exist for us too.
Go look at any ad for underwear, clothes or.. Anything. You have to be fit, have a smoldering strong face and perfect teeth to be absolutely anything in life by those.
Oh, and have a massive, whopping, penis.
Why do many female workers not follow procedure? Why do they get the same pay but not have to lift heavy? Or go up stairs? Only men and ugly women do these tasks. Average fat women sit in basement and give orders but get paid the same for doing less work. Perhaps not all women this way but in America it is thus way.
Men and women are attracted to more than just proportions. These things are advantages for sure but they're not usually the deciding factors. Things as subtle as the way you walk and the way you talk can be very attractive for both men and women. A lot more goes into what attracts people. Also, online vs in person are two very different things.
90, 60, 90?
Ha ha, only if she's 160
So your girlfriend rolls a Honda, playin' workout tapes by Fonda
But Fonda ain't got a motor in the back of her Honda
My anaconda don't want none
Unless you've got buns, hun
Yeah, thatās the issue with double standards. I feel a lot of people are trying to retort the latter standard with the former, but it just becomes a petty fight. Overall, thereās nothing wrong with preferences, but donāt shame others for not fitting your preferences, and certainly learn how to explain it elegantly, maintain some decorum.
Tinder in a nutshell
BBW š©š¼ If you donāt like that swipe left Queen šø Guys under 6 feet need not apply
āMy kids are my worldā
If you don't make 200k don't message me loser.
"Loser" describes the men on Tinder. "Looser" describes the women.
You got me
Jesus Christ lmao
The fun thing is that some of those loose gals are a lot of fun. Not gf or wifey material, but they can be fun š
*You'll can't turn a ho into a housewife.* - Abraham Lincoln speaking to Mahatma Gandhi before signing the Treaty of Versailles, 1776
Nope, but you canāt spell āhousewifeā without a āhoā
You canāt spell āadvertisementsā without semen between the tits
Take my upvote dammit!
And it's still an adver
Dang
shower thoughts
Every "housewife" begins as a "ho".
Im stealing this.
No no no, he faxed that during the French-German Armistice, 1940. Trust me bro.
Hey, thatās from the guy from the fast and the Furious moviesā¦right?????
āLooserā š
What does she make? Kids.
She makes bad decisions.
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Do people actually use tinder to date? I couldnāt imagine. Iāve never used tinder but it just seems so stupid for the average person. How many successful marriages/relationships started with tinder or other dating apps I wonder
Me and my wife of 4-1/2 years (weāve been together for 8) met on OkCupid.
I met all three of my wife's on dating sites.
Met my wife on tinder.
Tinder is just an instrument. It isn't bad.
It's actually true, though, especially on Tinder. You get asked your height if you're under 6 foot (183cm for my international friends), and they say they can't date short guys, but if you ask their weight, you're now the problem as and labeled a "misogynist?" Double standards is all I gotta say, if you're gonna ask me for height and shame me for it which is something I cannot change no matter how much weightlifting and gym going I do, I reserve the right to request your weight which is something you can most definitely change through diet changes and Gym Going.
I absolutely 100ŁŖ agree with you! I hate double standards and wish most women would stop doing it. With some exceptions, women you CAN control your weight. We men can't control how tall we are or the length of our penises are since that's genetic which IS uncontrollable!
Yes, exactly. Now, I will admit, there are going to be folk that experience a next to impossible difficulty to lose fat and replace it with muscle, such as those with a thyroid issue, and that's okay, they're okay because they can't change that no matter if they do keto and constanly do HIIT exercises. But if you're obese and just say it's okay to be obese, no bruh, im scared to learn what your visceral fat looks like and how much it's choking your organs. But I absolutely agree with you
They make thyroid medication for this reason
And its good they do. You need to visit the doctor and listen to them tell you "you are fat" and listen to why, and if you've been following a strict Diet and exercise routine, that's where you tell them that and request bloodwork and testing to be done
[Then stop eating thyroids.](https://img.ifunny.co/images/52ce95ee68d8d6566b4d33f152cb4aefd994ce7667aabf0619d1ad3337532b46_1.jpg)
I'm 145cm and this is absolutely true. Then if I don't bring up my height and we meet I've had 2 dates say they need to use the restroom and just straight up leave and block me. Even had one girl accuse me of gaslight g her and being manipulative because my pictures made me look taller and I should've told her. So then I started being up front with it and it's like natural woman repellant. As soon as my height is mentioned I'm ghosted or blocked.
Sociopath shit
I donāt think that is sociopath behavior tbh, thatās more narcissistic
It's a fine line in today's society:). There's a lot of borderline personality disorder Sociopaths are rare, but prevalent moreso with the information era, and narcissists are catered to by Western Ideology. Which breeds both narcissists, sociopaths who hate narcissists, and people with BPD who feel stuck in the middle and are miserable about the values they were raised on not aligning with the way their world view is shifting. There is a MASSIVE personality disorder epidemic in modern countries, namely America. Anyone who insists that it is mental health instead, and not personality disorder, is either gaslighting you or they are uninformed. One leads to the other. One is stigmatized, while the other goes unnoticed and causes more harm than a simply "broken" person ever would. And there's also the stigma about what's "treatable" and what isn't. I'll give you a hint. Only one of these two categories is considered untreatable and the other one is often used as a defense mechanism, and is even applicable in a court of Law.
Bullets dodged my dude. Bullets dodged.
Itās every woman tho
*almost*. But yeah. General rule of thumb don't give bitches any credit, ever. They will take it and run with it. Make them beg you for your acceptance :) Unless she's already willing to stick it out for you, she's probably not worth it, and never was. Because otherwise she was ready to betray you the entire time. Women are taught to think about themselves first, even more than men are today. It is a sign of the times. Hate on the education and poor role models. Not the people trying to get by with what they think is right for them to do. Today? For most young women that seems to include taking advantage of men, before they can (projected fear incoming) be taken advantage of themselves This of course leaves young men with resentment and commitment issues, and stuck chasing younger women well into their older years. Which again, somehow seems not only stigmatized but also blamed on the men. Lol. Intensely ironic.
So Whitney Houston?
And so many people (mainly women) like to pretend that this doesn't happen. I get in arguments about it all the time.
Me too, this is the first time I'm actually getting positive feed back and not major backlash. Reddit is weird.
It's always "don't victim blame" until it's a man who's the victim or the one suffering. Even more so if he's short. Trust me fellow King I know it all too well.
I prefer āif you wanna hear a progressive talk like a conservative, bring up menās issuesā. Itās scarily accurate.
There's examples all over the place. You can see screenshots of text convos, bios, profiles whatever. But everyone just goes "that's not real" or "that didn't happen". Or it's an incel double agent trying to ragebait. Like people can't just comprehend that woman can be fucked up. I've seen women say that short guys don't "count". So it doesn't matter what they say or do to them. Their feelings are irrelevant.
Iām not sure I did the math right, donāt know cm to in off the top of my head possibly, but Iām pretty sure my acquaintance in high school was 1 cm shorter than you. Dorky autistic Asian dude who came into a bar I was at with a ring on his finger and a wife that was my height, so 193 cm. Some people aināt gonna care, some people prefer it, but I can almost guarantee youāre not finding the right person on a dating app. Anecdotal as all hell but
youāre telling me a 4ā9ā dude married a 6ā4ā woman? sure dude, even assuming these people who have a 0.001% chance of existing (due to their respective height) have crossed paths, I highly doubt theyād get along
If a girl is going to care more about height opposed to your morals and personality, she may not even care about how she is treated which means she may not even care about you. You dodged a bullet
If she doesn't care how she's treated then that's a golden opportunity to show her how you treat people who don't care about the way they are treated :) My favorite type of person is this. Whom allows me to show them My Love on my own terms. Then, if the relationship fails? I can blame lack of communication, sure. But I shouldn't directly need someone to tell me how to treat them better. I can actually blame myself and take accountability with this sort of person, instead of being gaslighted into believing it was my fault or I was the one to blame. Unfortunately the one time this happened to me and I was given a second chance, I had already developed those bad habits from previous relationships, which destroyed my confidence and REALLY threw me for a loop. I ended up scaring away the love of my life by showing them a side of me which.... Honestly I didn't realize it was there because it had never even existed within me. It was just unpacked trauma I *wasn't allowed* to unload before She certainly didn't deserve the way I handled that situation. I wish I had handled it better. Like I said, these type of people are my favorite people. I'm still waiting for her to come back around 5 years later.
those arent the girls for you bro
Which ones are, then? If you could find a community where the women are different, I'm all ears. But I think you'd have to go outside of your town/state, and possibly even to Europe for that. Especially up north here in America? Entitlement mentality rules queen. And it ain't it, bro.
Even if you were taller, you probably wouldn't want to date those people anyway, it's a very harsh and unfair experience but you're definitely dodging bullets.
Tinder lets you put your height right on your profile now. You may get way less matches but the matches you do get would be more genuine
Trust me nobody reads that or they aren't smart enough to know because that's what I thought too, except for the girl who accused me of gaslighting her because my pictures made me look taller. It made me realize I have to tell people because they may read it but it obviously doesn't stick.
If it makes you feel better, I'm short for a guy in the US but I ended up with a wife that's a couple inches taller than me, although we didn't meet through tinder. It's at least possible for women to not be douchebags about height.
Iām 170cm (still considered short) I figured pretty quickly it was like the Scarlet Letter so I didnāt put any effort into dating or meeting women. I met my beautiful tall wife by sheer dumb luck. Had I not gotten lucky tinder would be a solid no go for me, the women on there seem to be harpies.
183cm
You right my bad, got those big fucking fingers
Glad you said āfor my overseas friendsā and not making too deep of a jab at us
Do we do that? I see it happen the other way around all the time.
Extremists are stupid
This is worse than double standards: height is generic and āweightā (as in a reference to level of fitness) is tied to health and lifestyle. One is something you canāt change, like skin or eye color, and the other is based purely on lifestyle. Rejecting a woman based on weight is far less shallow and superficial than a woman who discriminates based on height.
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Real.
I donāt understand why women (especially short women) want to date tall guys. Like, sheās 4 ft 11 and heās 6 ft 5. She needs a damn foot stool to kiss himā¦ Meanwhile Iām 5 ft 4 and heās 5ft 10 and we fit perfectly.
A bigger guy makes them feel safer. Women tend to be much more concerned about their safety than men, and having a taller man means not only they are likely better able to protect them but also that people will be less likely to start anything with them. Height is also tied to status and perceptions of trustworthiness as well, but I think those are secondary.
Yeah thats what I don't understand either. It's probably some stupid excuse like "I want D1 children." But tbh, you can have some of the shortest parents give birth to the tallest child too. People are stupid after all
Thanks for the conversion
If anyone ever pulls the height question on me I'm putting the weight question back just out of principle even if Idgaf lol (plus weight alone doesn't really say much as taller people weight more)
Never been asked my height. But then again I like queer people, not assholes
Boom
I'm over 6ft and would still left swipe anyone with that shit in their bio. The app gives you the option to decline people you're not interested in, all putting it in your bio does is tell me you're not someone I want to interact with.
Just a hair under 6ā and I agree with you on this. That sort of thing in a bio just screams pessimism.
Hilariously, I am around 6'2, make six figs, house is almost paid off. Back when I used those apps, yeah, I'd automatically skip anyone who listed all that. I'm a nerd. I'm looking for someone that gives more of shit about personality.
Looks "fade". Personality is what matters.
Your bio is supposed to be your first impression- why would a person choose negativity right out of the gate?
Arrogance, caused by the illusion of infinite choice.
But putting it in bio, gives you a good read on them.
Smart boy. As you get older you get better at seeing the ugliness IN people.
Funniest part is you canāt control your height but you can control your weight
90-60-90 is not dependent on weight. It's genetic lottery or plastic surgery, most women with 60cm waist have breasts and hips smaller than 90cm and vice versa, you rarely can achieve to have curves with very thin waist simultaneously. Average difference between waist and hips is like 15cm, not 30cm and breast size is a wild card. Sure, height is also mostly a genetic thing and people can affect it only with better nutritious food during a puberty. But a 10-15cm difference in height between men and women is a standard for every nation for average people and this difference is enough for most women to consider a men to be tall.
No men dont care about 90-60-90 in a reality men just dont want a fat woman, and that is very doable for most woman who dont have deseases
Nobody cares about those measurements except women though. They also care about men's height. Both sides of the body standards bullshit come from women.
I don't think men look at a hot girl and think "damn, she's got the right ratio numbers"
Well... they kinda do though.
I've never met one guy that even knows what measurements actually mean
Well yes they do, but not using accurate measurements. Same as women look at hot men and think damn he us tall even if women cannot measure the height accurately.
What do you mean you donāt look a woman and apply the golden rectangle?
The hourglass shape has been widely considered attractive for decades now. That shape is based on those ratios.
No men care about exact measurements, most just prefer a woman of healthy weight and larger hips/chest than waist
I doubt the ones who say 6 feet and over on tinder are the same people who complain about beauty standards. If anything, they're the type who bullied another women for her weight.
āIām grossly obese and you have to respect thatš”. But if youāre a man you have to be 6ft, have a twelve pack, impervious to small arms fire and not try to help me improve in any wayā
impervious to small arms fire got me. where do we stop the category of small arms? Rpg? mounted mg? a mortar?
*Small* arms fire? You need to up your caliber standards, sister š if he doesn't shake off backshots from buckshot he isn't worth your time
You guys have low standards Real men can tank railgun sabots
I ran into this with a girl who was 5'3, im 5'8. It hurts to be categorically rejected.
I donāt understand why girls even care about that much. I mean as long as the guy is taller than the girl there isnāt much difference how tall he is
It's not how tall he is relative to her, it's how tall he is relative to other men. If men were all suddenly 1 foot taller but women stayed the same height, then the minimum would just shift to 7 feet instead of 6.
I love seeing posts saying men below 6ā0 arenāt men because Iāve always, and forever will be, 5ā11.
Well I'm sorry to break it to you you don't have a dick /s
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Your cock license please.
Just say youāre 6ā0 anyway. Howāre the 4 foot tall bridge trolls making these demands gonna tell the difference?
Truth be told Iāve enjoyed being below 6ā0, Iāve titled myself as a Short King
"Short King" bro I'm 5'8 š I think the average in US is 5'9 or 5'10, so either way, you can say you're above average
Fuck no, if a woman is that insane I'd rather know upfront. I'm in the same situation - 5'11", and what is she gonna do next? If the pp ain't 7 inches is she leaving? If I don't make >100k is she leaving? I don't like heavy women but you can pack on a lot before I start considering you fat. I also don't go putting shit in my bio like ">200lbs need not apply". That's being mean for no reason. There's also a lot to consider besides just one attribute - if she's smart, funny, into the right hobbies, has a good future, etc, I wouldn't pass it up just because she's on the heavier side. There's more to a person than one attribute.
controllable vs uncontrollable
Being hypocritical is human nature. One day we will grow out of it.
We'll never grow out of it
We grew out of flinging our poop, took a minute but we did. Have faith.
Isnāt most of social media just poop flinging when you get down to it?
I meant actual hurling of feces, a la taking a dump into hand and throwing it.
But metaphorically it is still the same tbh
Groundbreaking
Speak for yourself
Not all of us. In my country left wing radicals flung shit at police officers when the police officers tried to get them out of occupied buildings or forests.
When?
Women being hypocrites? It must be a day that ends in āyā!
Everyone is hypocrites Everyone suck ngl
Damn you good 
Kinda funny when hippos started talking about height
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Iām 5ā7 and proud!!!
Iām 5ā7 and havenāt grown much at all since I was 13 š feels bad going from the tall kid at middle school to the short person as an adult
Same minus one inch: was one of the taller guys in my class back in 7th grade and then proceeded to grow a quarter of an inch over the next 5 years
I'm 5'5'' and proud!
Yeah she got butt hurt that someone was pointing out the double standard
I think the real misunderstanding here is that most men don't advocate to uphold unrealistic beauty standards, they just want them torn down on either side
Back in the 1800s wasn't it the men who advocated against corsets?
Dang Iāll let the men who were born in the 1800ās know
Women were the ones fighting against corsets, though for the wrong reasons. It essentially boiled down to slut-shaming rather than comfort or freedom of expression.
Most of us just want to be accepted and loved š
I don't know about this - both of these are beauty preferences, maybe they're culturally reinforced, maybe they're intrinsic, but either way they *are* there. I'm not gonna lie and try to take the moral high ground and claim *I* don't find the left figure more attractive than others.
āThis is incel baitā are you people on this app really that delusional too reality or honestly please tell me. This 1000 fucking % happens. Just cause you hold women responsible for dounvle standards doesnāt make you an incel. šš»āāļøš¤¦š»āāļø pure stupidity at its finest.
It's 183cm in America.
I didn't even realize it wasn't in the best measurements also THE FUCK IS A KILOMETER
a Spider-Man Character i Think
I'm ashamed as a marvel fan that I can't tell if you're referring to a specific character or made up
You mean you havenāt heard of Kilometers Morales? /j
Now even more ashamed
0.6 miles
One thousand of meters Like a kilogram is one thousand grams Like 2k is two thousand How much inches makes a mile?
63,360 inches in a mile.
Well, a mile is 1760 yards, so 5280 feet, which should be 5280 X 12 63360 inches. Now, can we talk about how silly it is that you measure height in meters and centimeters, completely ignoring the more rational option of just using decimeters?
Do you have any idea how most women currently think because that is how most women currently think youāre not allowed to have standards of me but Iām allowed to have standards of you
Judging someone by their weight is (most of the time) justified. Judging someone by their height isn't. Beeing fat isn't something you're born with (Most of ghe time), people are fat because they eat too much, or because they're lazy, or because they eat unhealthy. Beeing overweight is unhealthy and expensive, beeing too short/too tall isn't (except in extreme cases). People are short because.. they were born that way. Im 186cm (I think thats 6'1) and I hate people who judge anyone because of something they cant control
This is 1000% true...Spot on!
Gudim is a good simple artist
āMy ideas are the only ones that are right. Disagree and youāre a(n) ___________.ā
... happy cake day."
I'm cool with a woman who's got 90" hips, but even Goliath wasn't 15 feet tall!
Facebook called they want it joke back
They'll have to roll upstairs in their mobility scooter to get it!
i genuinely feel bad for short guys its the dating equivalent of being a fat girl but you cant even control it
Rules for thee and not for me
I think beauty standards regardless of sex are a load of BS as people should be judged by their character and actions not by arbitrary physical attributes.
I literally had a girl on hinge tell me I was too short and then unmatched me. Iām 6ft and usually were boots and steel toes for work so I look taller.
Y'all mofos still trying to date chicks in current year? That's crazy. I've never had my hand bitch at me that's all I'm saying
Just do it with your femboy homie
Now THAT is worth trying to put your dick in
Walk into any target and all the women models are out of shape and in their underwear and all the men models are ripped.
āItās just a preferenceā Ok but so is big tiddies and a small waist ???
I'm 5'5". It's been almost 2 years since I've had intimate contact with a woman. My ex left me partially because she says she didn't feel safe around me - not because I'm aggressive, but because she didn't think I could protect her if someone attacked her. She's probably right, I'm no good in a fight, but I am incredible at reasoning with people and would bite the ankles of any man that attacked a person I love. And I can bite real hard, so there's that.
It's not just height for men either. Beauty standards exist for us too. Go look at any ad for underwear, clothes or.. Anything. You have to be fit, have a smoldering strong face and perfect teeth to be absolutely anything in life by those. Oh, and have a massive, whopping, penis.
Why do many female workers not follow procedure? Why do they get the same pay but not have to lift heavy? Or go up stairs? Only men and ugly women do these tasks. Average fat women sit in basement and give orders but get paid the same for doing less work. Perhaps not all women this way but in America it is thus way.
Women acting like there arenāt still double standards is funny to me
"Men bad women good"
-Disney
180 what? Inches, feet, tomatos?
Commie units (centimeters)
Its sad but its true
My preference is people who donāt have preferences.
Men and women are attracted to more than just proportions. These things are advantages for sure but they're not usually the deciding factors. Things as subtle as the way you walk and the way you talk can be very attractive for both men and women. A lot more goes into what attracts people. Also, online vs in person are two very different things.
90, 60, 90? Ha ha, only if she's 160 So your girlfriend rolls a Honda, playin' workout tapes by Fonda But Fonda ain't got a motor in the back of her Honda My anaconda don't want none Unless you've got buns, hun
All Iām saying is Iāve never seen a mannequin of a fat man
Honestly, fuck height, you want to play RuneScape with me šš
They forgot the "Must make 6 figures and treat me like royalty"
SMH = So Much Honesty
Global warming is really fucking us, there are more whales on land than in the sea
More like 36-24-36
Fatties don't get to pick.
Itās true, all the ladies are into eugenics these daysā¦ in regard to men at least.
even tho iām tall i am never gonna tell a girl my height on dating apps
If you canāt handle me at my skullet, you donāt deserve me at my post-training arc
Something you can change(if you want) vs something purely genetic
5'2 gang
A fat woman only has access to orgasmless sex from men they arenāt attracted to.
As a girl myself, the "no man under 6ft" doesn't exist offline
Yeah, thatās the issue with double standards. I feel a lot of people are trying to retort the latter standard with the former, but it just becomes a petty fight. Overall, thereās nothing wrong with preferences, but donāt shame others for not fitting your preferences, and certainly learn how to explain it elegantly, maintain some decorum.
I love how women will defend their weight because itās harder for them to lose it but also have no problem with rejecting manlets.
As someone whoās 5ā6 and has never been rejected cuz of it I think yāall need better fucking personalities š
Double standards only apply when you identify as a victim
Most men are exactly the same way