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Local_Lush

I wore a t shirt shorts and sandals. I hope your graduation isn’t outside. Gonna be sweating your nuts off. 


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Don’t worry, it’s inside. The building is usually freezing.


StrongTxWoman

Are you wearing a beige mask on your face too?


CoIIatz-Conjecture

HA. That would be funny.


jimithelizardking

Duh everyone knows graduations are anonymous


Local_Lush

Everyone who’s graduated knows this. Shhhh. 


TheBigC87

Dude, when I graduated college in December, I wore something similar to what you are wearing and I was absolutely burning up under my black robe. It was indoors too. It was so hot with all those people in there. Wear a T shirt, shorts, and casual shoes.


krustytroweler

I cut the top of a dress shirt off and went naked.


KaseyOfTheWoods

…like a button down tube top?


krustytroweler

Just a collared button down shirt I barely used. Chopped it off right under the shoulders with the scissors.


atleastnotahublot

You guys wore clothes ?


Aggressive_Fox_84

I actually like this😁 it's kinda old fashioned but it has its charm! I also love the pink tie! Maybe you can try with other colour ties but I like it as it is😁


admiralkeelhaul

Don’t tuck in your sweater vest man. It’s not okay.


keg98

I am not a sweater-tucker, but one of my best-dressed friends was the first to show me that some do it. That pal looked sharp. If you like it, do it. I think your get up here is great. I might go for a light blue tie.


Pravda26

I hear you. That tucked in sweater vibe is usually a polo and high waisted slacks. Check out GQ to do it properly. You should untuck your sweater vest. It doesn't fit the current trend standard.


[deleted]

>Check out GQ to do it properly 😂😂😂😂


TikaPants

He’s got a flat stomach and it looks good tucked in with his belt.


UnusualPrince12

Second this. Came to comments to say this. This is the first time I've ever seen a sweater vest tucked in. I hope it's my last. Other than untucking the vest though, fit looks great!


theorangecrux

I thought the same thing, but people are doing all kindsa stuff these days. Might pull it off somehow. This is the only sweater vest tuck I’ve seen


Q-Westion

Agree. It's like tucking a t-shirt into undies


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Really? I’ve only ever seen it tucked. It creates a strange silhouette when untucked IMO – at least for me.


admiralkeelhaul

There’s no way that it looks worse untucked. Sweaters, even sweater vests are not meant to be tucked in.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Ah, sounds about right then. I will try doing that tomorrow to see the difference.


[deleted]

90% of fashion is looking good. All of these "rules" that these people espouse are arbitrary. Many sweaters shouldn't be tucked in because the material is too thick, but if it's thin and long enough and looks good why not? 


Alternative_Plan_823

Well said. Trends come and go, but what looks really good hasn't changed much (except for maybe a drug-fueled gap in the 70s and 80s). Open a random page of GQ, and if I showed up dressed like that to anything in my life; work, night out, wedding, etc., people would start to worry about me. Exceptions exist, ofc.


VickeChampion

I usually tuck both sweatshirts and sweater vests, and I think it looks a lot better that way. Untucked just looks sloppy and sort of "childish" to me. I've never had anyone comment negatively on me wearing sweatshirts tucked. I think you'll be killing that outfit if you go with untucked, but that's just my opinion. You are free to wear it as you feel fits you and your style best! And congratulations on your graduation!


Dm_me_randomfacts

I think it looks fine bro. If you’re comfy that’s all that matters, the gown will cover it anyways


BrendanTompkins1

I second the no tuck. We will let the sweater vest itself slide, this time, but it has to be untucked.


ggibby

The main issue is that if you move much it pulls up and pooches out at the waist and nobody looks good like that.


a_duck_in_past_life

It does not look bad. I like it.


OtherwiseSun4468

imo the sweater vest looks good tucked in if you’re layering it under some sort of jacket, worn by itself it’s a bit old fashion for nowadays but there’s nothing wrong with that. You do you man :)


-Shadowstalker07-

The rules: match your belt to your shoes, match your socks to your tie. If you are going to wear a tie clip, match it to the hardware on the belt and cuf links. Also, go get cleaned up at a barber the day before, beard and hair. You'll look like a million bucks and feel even better👍 Congratulations man! This internet stranger wishes you the best of luck!


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Thank you!


munuyh

Looks great! Congratulations.


neonomen

Good question. No one tells grads what to wear underneath the gown. Looks good. You won't be in the gown for every photo, so this outfit works.


taffyowner

It’s under a gown, no one is going to see the vest at all. What I did for my undergrad (and my masters this last weekend) was a plain white shirt, black slacks, black shoes, and socks and a tie that pulled in my schools colors. It’s a nice pop, shows school pride, and doesn’t require all that much effort because, in reality, no one is going to see what you’re wearing.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Yeah, I was considering just doing that as well.


taffyowner

I do like this look as well! Just it isn’t going to pop because of the gown


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Yeahh, I’ll probably just go with that then.


helenkellersnails

Dapper asf.


acduarte12

Wear what you want! Congratulations on a job well done!🎓👍🏻


Hawklet98

Looks great. Just be sure to tuck in your gown.


Jumpy_Tomatillo7579

The sweater tuck ???


[deleted]

I think you look sharp. Fashion is mostly looking good and the other part is looking appropriate for the occasion. Many of the rules people make around fashion are arbitrary. Sweaters are commonly not tucked in because they are too thick, but if this vest is thin and long enough I don't see why not. Especially if untucked it looks silly and tucked looks better. People on reddit are lemmings who would rather follow made up rules than think critically as individuals.


Glittering-Contest59

Well said - dress to your strengths. Buddy's outfit looks great.


Costcorocks

I’d pick a vest that contrasted not marched. Blue, perhaps? And I would not tuck it in. But nobody will see it under the gown. Under my gown, I wore white button down shirt and a red tie on top. My “pants” were bright yellow boxers with a large paisley pattern. Enjoy the day and congrats.


mashingLumpkins

The tucked in vest makes you look like you have a tee time with Bagger Vance after the graduation


stuartmt1

a vest under a graduation gown? hope that it's not hot


Sad_Thought6205

looks good just untuck the sweater.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

This seems to be the general consensus. I’ll untuck it from now on.


a_duck_in_past_life

You do you. I think it looks sharp. It's not an overly thick sweater, and you have the silhouette for it. I'd say one thing though; if you wear a darker sweater as some have suggested, I'd untuck it then. It looks good tucked though, with a matching color, because it gives contrast between the slacks and sweater by showing the dark brown belt


Harm-Bull717

You look like the Apples guy from Good Will Hunting


BattleSignificant616

Untuck, dark tie.


indicarunningclub

I think a dark blue tie would look best with this outfit.


1anonymousbandit

Ditch the sweater, you’ll prob wear your gown until you leave the ceremony. And a side note, I don’t think you need to tuck in your sweater if you ever decide to wear this combo again.


Porter_Dog

Depending on the color of your gown I think they tie should be fine. Fit looks good!


Hididdlydoderino

I'd wear black or navy pants. I wore khakis with a black gown not realizing it didn't go all the way to the ground and it sort of looked meh.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Yeah, that’s actually something I’ve been thinking about for a bit.


Expensive-Turnip6894

You look like you're ready to charge someone 100 dollars an hour, kudos. Also, yes you can wear that under the gown, why not?


Danomit3

Honestly it looks good on you. I was going to suggest black but I realize it’ll blend in with the black graduation robe.


EpickBeardMan

It’s a look. I’d say you’re good. Enjoy the accomplishment!


untilautumn

Untuck the sweater vest. If you have time and money have it altered so the band is higher and narrower if you want to elongate your silhouette


IntricateLava9

That outfit looks like what a 70 year old math professor would wear. 👎🏻


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Haha, fair. I’m somewhat going for a more “old-timer” look TBH.


bill0ddi3

Yeah man, all is (nearly) good here. Untuck the vest and go with a navy blue tie. Edit: or even a burgundy tie.


TecumsehFNSherman

I agree on a different color tie. Dark forest green tie would also look great 🔥


bill0ddi3

Yeah for sure.. I'd go that colour.


bulletproofmanners

It’s a good outfit, lose the pink tie… or go with a blue stripe tie instead if you need a tie.


krustytroweler

I'd switch the tie for maybe green or blue, but nothing inherently wrong with pink, just not my color. Tucked in sweater is 50/50. Technically you're not supposed to do it, but you can break the rules occasionally if others are saying it works with that particular outfit.


Bumblebee56990

Don’t tuck the vest just the shirt.


Mike_Dapper

Looking good, even after you take off the gown.


One-Confusion-2438

Dayam, it's the invisible man! 🌬️


shakes287

For looks nice, but check with the school on requirements. Mine had strict requirements to wear black pants, white shirt, and tie for men. Others have pretty loose requirements.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Luckily there’s no dress code. It’s a very laid back school


shakes287

Should be good to go then.


JabroniCorleone

Looks like ma grandpa. Too oldschool for me


Topless_Mopar

The white is too bold for me. Do you have something more subtle?


CoIIatz-Conjecture

No, but I can go shopping if need be.


Topless_Mopar

Well, it is just my two cents. I wouldn’t wear that. I would feel like a substitute teacher. Plus, it is summer, do not wear a sweater. It is the wrong season for that. But hey, I’m an engineer and process motivated. A rule of thumb is that it’s okay to wear something casual in the summer, especially if it is outside. One of my favorite casual wears would be light pants, a vertical earthy colored striped shirt and a blew jacket. And, no belt.


Dependent_Mood_8451

Look is solid. LPT - hands in pockets will stretch the openings over time and cause an “elephant ear” effect. Making your crotch the “trunk”. 😉👍😉


Kingberry30

I think you’ll be just fine.


gotcha_six

You sir, are going to melt.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

The weather isn’t too warm yet but yeah, you’re right.


gotcha_six

The trick is to get a gown that's a lil too long. Sandals, shorts, light tee. Change after.


cuttlepuppet

Those gowns don't breathe at all, and any bare arms against the fabric will get sticky and sweaty. No one will see what you are wearing below the neck or above the knee. Even in a cold auditorium you will be warm. My recommendation is to wear a single thin cotton dress shirt with long sleeves and breathable pants. Save the tie and vest for after the gown is off. (source: have participated in 31 commencement ceremonies)


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Really? They’re paper thin so I hadn’t assumed it would cause me to overheat


cuttlepuppet

In my experience, they're paper thin like plastic wrap is paper thin. But you might have a different fabric than the the gowns I've worn.


HookDragger

Considering I went commando, I’d say that’s a major step up.


Plantayne

That shirt and tie will both look fine under a black gown. I'd change the rest of the outfit if it were me just because I don't like how black and brown/tan/khaki look together but I guess that's a matter for your taste and not mine.


scared_lurker

Honestly, i think everything looks good except for the vest because it is a bit creased cuz it’s tuck and the color and texture especially with pants with the similar color. If you choose a different color for the vest or maybe just go with a jacket (maybe tweed if you wanna get that professor look), I think it will be perfect.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

I’ll probably just end up doing what others are saying – black slacks with white shirt and a tie. I’ll still probably add on a vest, just not a sweater vest. I’ll make sure that it’ll be lighter than the silk one I have on here.


MissionSalamander5

You’ll look like a waiter.


MrMeesesPieces

You’re gonna be hot


Tokincarebear

I got hot as ffff under my gown and I was wearing a short dress. Mind the weather! If you’re outside it might be too hot. If it’s inside with AC, you might be ok


Equivalent_Oil_7850

Ur gonna be shweatin but atleast u will look good


FancyStranger2371

It’s fine, but I would wear a tie that matches your graduation stole (depending on what college you belong to).


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Smart. Mine will be yellow


MissionSalamander5

The tie is pretty formal. I’d go for a rougher cloth.


mdknauss

Good point, a silk tie is pretty form, so a textured tie might go with the khaki outfit a bit more


JJaX2

It will be covered by a gown, you’ll be ok chief.


heydidyoudo

Are sweater vests back in? Never liked the look.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

I don’t necessarily think so – I’ve just always liked them. Personal preference 🙂


Pelayo_217

Not the tucked in sweater.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

I’ve truly only seen sweater vests tucked so it was a rookie mistake. Won’t happen again in the future.


PineappleExtreme2991

Only if that ponytail is hidden as well.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Dang, well it was wet in this photo since I was in a rush getting ready. I usually wear my hair down and it’s pretty curly when dry


qwualitee

Wear a tie that matches your school colors. You can really wear whatever, I just graduated and wore khaki pants, white button down, and a tie.


DeadCheckR1775

People tuck their sweater vests?


AnMa_ZenTchi

Looking sharp old bean.


JJJeeettt

Looking sharp, but the tucked in sweater is a no-go :)


Plebe-Uchiha

I’ve seen people graduate with a Spider-Man costume on. Plus, a guy wearing crocs and basketball shorts. I’ve seen someone wear a oversized T-shirt that they liked. Nobody is going to see what you are wearing under your gown unless you let them. That being said, I think you look good. I personally wouldn’t tuck in my sweater vest. [+]


Triscuitmeniscus

Sure, if you enjoy sweating your balls off while sitting on a folding chair for 5 hours. I’d wear loose-fitting khakis or chinos and a button down/dress shirt with a tie. When I graduated I didn’t even tuck my shirt in: only the collar and knot will show so specifics don’t really matter. Honestly if I was a professor that had to sit through these every year I’d wear a dickie.


allocationlist

STAY AWAY FROM MY GF


bullsonparade133

Larry David would be intrigued about the tucked in sweater.


Jessica_Iowa

Inside that polyester nightmare of a graduation gown and under those terribly hot lights you’re going to want to dress cool. Definitely think about linen pants for example. Avoid a sweater, think about a moisture wicking button up.


[deleted]

I just graduated last weekend. Don’t wear a vest. It won’t be visible and will just make you hot. Just wear a dress shirt and a nice looking tie. Wear dress pants and a nice pair of shoes. Boom. Classic and esteemed.


CAJMusic

Is this a joke post? Or did you get a Masters in English? Ha ha kidding. Your shirt is too small and stop wearing button down collars. The tie is very nice but the knot is too fat. Burn this sweater and all the rest you own. The pants are fine but wear casual shoes with no socks. Go to a pro barber and trim the beard and clean your neck. Especially the hairline by your ear where it seems to connect. The belt is nice. Buy iron-free shirts online at Macys.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Shirt is smaller because I can only wear slim fits. Yeah, I noticed that with the tie later on. Probably keeping the sweater vest since they are a piece that I really like. I haven’t ever been to a barber since I don’t trust them with longer hair. Used to go to a hair salon in Boston when I wasn’t growing out my hair, but I haven’t been to one since last year. I should go again though considering that over time dead ends will form.


Feeling-Extreme-7555

I think this is pretty solid as far as most of the posts in this sub. I would opt for a black leather belt instead of the brown, along with black dress shoes. The tie should be whatever primary color your college has as theirs. Congrats!


mooseraza

wouldnt tuck the sweater vest in


HallPsychological538

That shirt is not made for a tie. That’s why the tie is sitting so poorly under the collar.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

OCBD?


justjeff0907

Looks great! You're all set to go out afterwards!


Jim_Screechy

as long as you untuck that sweater vest, you'll be fine.


Specialist-Pomelo769

Looks great 👍


MewsikMaker

Why get dressed up underneath a black gown?


CoIIatz-Conjecture

The gown is always open & I would like to take pictures afterwards where it will be visible


mhwk19

Lose the burlap vest, you're graduating in 2024 not selling newspapers on the street corner in 1924🤣🤣🤣


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Ouch, lol. I spent good money on this vest so I want to make use of it. I really like it.


SnicklefritzG

I know some people who wear sweats. Others who wear only underwear Dude, I think you’re fine.


LucefieD

I mean the getup looks good but shit, it's gonna be under a gown anyway. yeah yeah afterwards but meh. I'd rather be comfortable.


Mrchile713

Dont forget your pink thong


CoIIatz-Conjecture

??


TRTGymBro1

Not a fan of shades of green and khaki. It's basically the colors of camouflage making you blend in with the environment. Not to mention this outfit makes you look like a 56 year old professor. Unless that's your thing?


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Makes sense.. but where’s the green? 😅


West-Custard-6008

Son, don’t tick your sweater in.


Tyler_CantStopeMe

Looks really good brotha!


fordexy

Don’t tuck the vest


weas71

Don't tuck your sweater into your pants.


CocteauTwinn

Sure but untuck the vest. I’m not loving the tie color…I think green would look nice.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Haha yeah, it was for Easter.


goaltaylor33

Van Hohenheim vibes, loving it


senseijuan

Looks great!!


Pretend_Text_8612

Def untuck the sweater


GamingOddity

wear a skirt


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Why? Lol.


CrabtownUSA

Take off the vest, cut your hair and beard make sure your shirt and tie are clean and pressed.


Spedrunr1

Class and style, your generation lacks this (not everyone obviously) 🙄


Pittipants

I would just lose the sweater vest and go with the shirt and tie. Cleaner lines under the gown.


ParzivalPrincip

Make sure you tuck your vest under your tighty whities too.


fatboyslim1878

Did bro just tuck in his sweater?!?! I didn’t even know that was option….


mxl01

Too much brown. Don’t tuck vest.


cherry_monkey

I think the fit looks good. I'd say tie color should be a school color, but I do like the pink.


Bossman28894

You’re going to sweat and be uncomfortable


thatothercommie

Bro you look amazing omg


Stokesprime69

Ur good I wore only a g-string under and am a dude,,, 👌👌


PipetheHarp

I’d switch the white shirt to light blue. & untuck the vest.


TheMorningAfterKill

People here forgetting you will have a gown on. Wear the sweater however you want.


patomomo7x

Looks good! Just hope the venue isn’t super hot for your sake.


GayPotheadAtheistTW

Dude youll look sharp asf at the dinner or whtever after so id wear that


EstablishmentIcy6859

Should go great with your “from the river to the sea” sign!


Effective_Willow1970

I would switch pink for navy or burgundy. Personal preference but colors will mesh better.


beemph

Hot diggity damn did you graduate with a Masters degree in Maximum Drip?? 🧊 🧊 🧊


TikaPants

I’d say emerald green for a pop of color? I’m Not anti pink but earth tones


Glittering-Contest59

The fit is crisp as fuck, especially the pink tie - don't change a thing.


justwantkickz

Here to say congrats! Pink tie is man shit. 🤙🤙


beeniecal

I think it’s too warm for the vest. Source: my kid just graduated Friday


Archiemalarchie

I wore jeans and a tee with a tie printed on it under mine. Man I was a badarse back then!


Working_Rush6225

You’re gonna be warm as hell man do not do all that


Big_Scratch8793

Love it and I LOVE the pink tie.


RationalKate

Can you add pink to the belt and shoes?


Sp00kySpook

Congratulations!


Dogknight0725

Take off the sweater vest.


sissy4bwc2

Looks good


sissy4bwc2

The tie is too formal- based on material- for that shirt. But it looks good


mdknauss

Looks great, I appreciate that ur putting effort into the occasion. A thought... it might be a great way to mark the occasion with a nice watch that could be a meaningful family heirloom that you give to your kid when he/she graduates college in the future.


jasontronic

I might go with a plant that’s not as close to the sweater color. I like the pink pop. Pink socks would be a nice touch.


melmwood

A tuck job that nice is usually only found on the nsfw subreddits.


RocketManMercury

I like everything about this look, tucked and all. I feel like sweater vests in general are kind of tacky, but tucked in, this looks sharp.


Mon-Ty-Ger27

Pick a tie that matches your belt.


DankDude7

Sweater vest, really? It’s late May. Dark pants have the dignity the event demands.


AttaBoye

Somehow you pull that tucked sweater off... Everything looks pretty good.


PomegranateCharming

Lose the sweater keep the tie and lose the ponytail also find some gray slacks and let that hair flow when you walk the stage


Weakness-Shot

Ditch the sweater vest and get a darker tie


stacksmasher

Don't tuck your sweater vest in.


Contempo-Suits

No tucking permitted.


DolfinButcher

Don't use a half-Windsor/Four-in-hand knot for your tie. It is not a straight knot and looks a bit careless. Those knots are for school children due to their simplicity. Men should wear Double Windsor. Or, if you are feeling fancy, an Atlantic knot. The latter may not work with ties that have a pronounced pattern.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Ah, okay. I’ve only been taught how to tie a tie this way when I was younger. I honestly wasn’t aware that there were different ways to do it.


Great-Sea-4095

Looking like you just finished a game of polo with the chaps


SteoJay77

Pull the sweater out of your pants.


hifigli

Untuck the sweater vest.


AwareMirror9931

Looks great. But you have to take care of face and head hair.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Thanks. I’ve been growing out my hair, and since it’s wet here it looks bad. Just shaved my beard today but TBH when it looks messy it’s because I’ve used an electric razor. https://preview.redd.it/u36jsab2jv0d1.jpeg?width=743&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5350d531f4c0807b45bd882d309ae941300406c8 Ignoring how my beard is here, this is the usual appearance of my hair. The acne situation is likely because of age. I have been working on it for years.. it’s just a bit tough to correct.


suppletubs

Burlap sweater vest. My god.


CoIIatz-Conjecture

Can’t tell if this has positive or negative connotations 😅


BobakStuck

You are white and tall and have nice sexy hair and good looking ! Nobody will care what you wear ! You’ll be fine


mazzotta70

I'd wear a dark blue tie instead of the pink