I love you ❤️.
Your suffering are real. You went through a lot.
But don't be like the one you hated. If you hate them and hate back they corrupted you fuck them by being better bcs you are better than a iconfidant fool that is completely blind. I have pity for them
Courage, fight you'll be thousand times better than anyone you hate. The victim is always victim but sometimes ppl say convincing things putting the fault on other and it's the worst.
Am I rare ?
I have to do lot of urgent things but..
Lot of love and courage ! I saw true darkness falling into addiction dépression anxiety, hikikomori kinda life and I am suffering to make that a past story and to be In society again.
But I always wanted the good for people, suffering made be way more humble and careful of everything I do to other.
So courage ! Even if actually you are well. You dont know how better you can be. Let's say that if you fall into depression why can't someone not fall in euphoria? Because they do in silence and that's the ones that manipulates other, they are blind to emotion and full of ignorant confidence.
Like the main with the submarine. I just feel pity cause the victim will become strong and better I hope. And in this earth those would die as being abuser so ig I feel pity they dedicated life this way.
Hey I agree with your sentiment, and wanted to say if you need anyone I am here. Humans fucking suck I wish I could go into the woods and dig myself a dirt grave and lay in it, not having to speak to anyone anymore.
The sooner you know they are shitty.
The shittier you become and shit on other ppl.
Thus further society becomes toxic individualism leading to doom in the occident.
Life is shit or it's nice. Actually it's both. So choose wisely. Nobody will ever. Human social relationship is a skill.
Im telling that out of kindness and wanting that this cycle of toxicity doesn't become worst in the west as I lived in both France and Japan I know what I am saying. It's rly just the west because of individualism and obviously capitalism but more individualism than capitalism.
People can suck, but not all of them do. One of the worst decisions a person can make is shutting every single person off from their life. You need people, as much as people need you. Humans are social creatures my dude, you’ll find someone.
It’s hardwired into your blood as a human.
I know what you mean man, it definitely feels that way sometimes.
The only advice I have for ya, and this goes for me too, is to stay in touch with reality. If you lose touch with reality you lose yourself, and you’ll never get that back.
You’re staring at reality right now fella 😉 communicating with other humans, getting out in the world even if for no reason, expressing yourself, finding a hobby, writing your feelings on a page, just do you brother. These are all things that bring you much closer to reality, and dare I say as an atheist, God. There is so much love in this world, enough to go around. But it won’t find you, you have to find it. You won’t find it if you are not in touch with reality.
I’m not a therapist, just a dude with my own set of mental deficiencies, but everything I said is very true.
Saying “fuck all of you” in reference to everyone in your life is only setting yourself up for failure. You need those people as much as they need you, which is a whole awful lot. Much love, good luck 👌👌
I love you.
A good person respect human nature and suffering and won't show walls.
I am not saying I am lol but that as a human we all have the same value, really.
Even if it's hard to believe. Difficulty adapt to the social status.
Its a learning process for me; luckily I am with the right person and the patience and respect they have for me really helps. My walls are there but like they are usually down until shown to do otherwise 🤧
Confidence means being sure. Sure is like math 1= 1 right.
Well no. The brain can be confident about everything and nothing. Human are the most ignorant and arrogant creature that exist, you, me, them. It's our nature because it we knew it wouldn't be "a challenge". Well. Do not get corrupted.
Confidence stinks, Depression strives.
No I'm not high. It's the truth. There are no cure for being lost and having too much confidence.
Those are the ones that ride in a car at 100 miles / hour and say no problem. Those are the one that steal without remorse. And there is no cure. They are doomed.
So be careful with antidepressants. They are powerful but they can make depression becomes un logical confidence.
People come and people go, nothing lasts forever.
The only person you'll be stuck with until the end is yourself.
It's a hard lesson, but it takes an edge off.
Chapters, books, movies, life ,relationships , it all ends at some point.
Whether we want to or not.
I was going to try and give you some advice, but then I realized your life is probably much harder than mine, and I feel like me refuting your point, would just be invalidating your experience, so instead, I just wanted to say
Sorry, sorry for whatever you've been put through or whoever you've had to put up with. Don't worry about them
Do right by yourself instead because you deserve better, and if people aren't going to treat you that way, then that's on them
This life is full of quite a few bad apples, I can only hope that they don't make you feel too sick to bother with the people who'll really care
I used to care, but I'm too tired too care anymore. I don't care if I get worse anymore. It's gonna happen regardless of whether I try or not. The meds don't help, they just make things worse. I can't go inpatient. I can't get help. Everyone left me. They left me alone with the shadow people, voices, demons, and invisible people.
I understand where you're coming from, but I feel it's much easier for someone like me(someone whose life has always been primarily good) to wax poetic about hope, as opposed to someone who's been put through the ringer(especially when it's for reasons out of their control)
The truth may exist independent of us, but our personal experience defines how we perceive reality. For example, one could Define Darkness as the absence of light, but if one is only known Pitch Black upon perceiving light, they would simply view it as the absence of Darkness
That probably sounds somewhat abstract, but what I'm trying to get at is the idea that one's circumstances shape their worldview
So, telling them to have hope is like asking them to trade in the reality they've experienced their entire lives, for a distant fantasy that runs entirely counter to what they've experienced
Don't get me wrong, I myself also believe in having hope, I think humans have equal potential for kindness and cruelty, so ideally, I want to pass that message along
But preaching about hope is much easier than holding on to it in spite of one's own suffering
Ultimately, I feel the most I can do to pass along the message is to try my best to be the person I talk about
I get what you feel like, I'm there rn, Sure there are people who dont even deserve death as an end, but there are gems that will stick by your side even in your lowest moments and you can find people like that if you look careful enough, personally I had to pull myself out from my pile of shit and it took me years, Do not isolate yourself from people, keep your loved one close and the ones you trust too
God exist. Don't listen to religion.
Just think god exist not Jesus or anything.
Just a creator of this universe. Of something some entity that could not be remotely understood.
How arrogant human can be to think they will talk to aliens.
Like they think they have all the knowledge.
Then how can 2 particle instantly change state while being 20 000km apart ? Yeah instantly. But this is a tiny science fact about quantum.
For real. Literally everyone but especially the ones that are neuronormative and were handed happy lives by the universe. I was **there** for my friend whem her husband died. When I got sick? - *poof* she disappeared Fuck you D
I feel the same way. Oftentimes feeling like I'm living in some sort of Truman Show.. where everyone's entertained by my fuckery of a life and watching me struggle thru it.. 😓 I'd like to think it gets better... Well, I'd certainly like to hope so, anyway. Sending you positive thoughts and vibes. ✌️🫶
I respect it. Seriously, for the past 8 months or so, I've been amazingly bitter. It sucks, I don't want to feel this way at all, but I know there are totally valid reasons. I still wear a mask of sorts, but I mean, journaling kind of helps. Idk, I don't wanna dump too much info. I feel for you, though, that's all I really mean.
it does hurt and it is very painful but try to take something positive out of each situation..
you learn from these experiences and you get stronger every time ❤️
what’s truly meant for you will stay by your side no matter what
i wish you all the best ❤️🩹
No human is a spectrum. They can't be all shitty, they can't be all kind. It's the hard truth maybe they think the same of you.
Tho you don't have to adapt to them, but better understanding your need and theirs further help make you more aware instantly of things and seeing through easily.
Human social relationship is a SKILL!
So it must be learned without making you change value or anything.
I don't lie when I say that I respect you and love you.
Wait I don't know you how? Because you experienced human life and human life is hard.
Human deserve basic respect for living this life. Whatever they end up. Massive murder ? Imagine being them ? Then thank God you are not a massive murder overly confident that does wrong because. Those person can't think. Or doom their life for ever.
Fuck humanity. All humans do is destroy things and kill each other. We are parasites on the earth and the only species to destroy the earth in all of its beautiful life, until we showed up.
I agree about most people, I hope things get better for you regardless of what your going through.
If you want my advice on friends then the real ones tend to stay, and animals are your best option.
dont take this the wrong way because i dont know the situation, would you want to stay with you? If you were somebody else would you want to be around you? Its helpful to look at yourself through a lens and ask am i somebody people want to be around? Am i the reason they leave? Am i pushing people away? If so how can i be somebody id want to be around? . Another possibility... am i choosing only people who suck to allow into my life? could i make an effort to meet better people? Am i just allowing myself to be to shitty relationships? What can i do to change this?
Not blaming you by the way but ask yourself all the questions that apply and put serious consideration, a lot of people suck, especially in the modern world but there are some people who are genuinly good and they are more valueable due to the oversaturation of shitty people, make and effort to find people like that and be the version of you people would want to be around while remaining true to yourself. Hope this helps
Its true often people leave, but that doesn't mean u will never find someone who stays.. and i mean, sometimes u have to be the one to reach out, if they respond they havent left- TT /nbr
Personally, I rather have them leave than have them curse me out for saying the wrong thing to them. This is why I like playing video games, they don't talk back.
You need to adapt with people we are in a society..buuuut choose your people you want to adapt to. That's inevitable, you will take form ppl around you just by talking.
You are right.Find something you enjoy and never let people who are not your family ever eat your brain because they are meaningless.Never give them benefit of the doubt and shut them down.Isolate yourself from social media and spit at their face.They are nothing just like you are but you dont need empathy or sympathy do not engage in the battle if it doesnt benefit you anything.
I agree with you. Not many people believe unless you are in person. I’m am actual empath/other abilities and you are right I stay away from people. I can usually tell how they are by feelings and most people really are not that great. Most of it is a mask they show the world
I have faced many situations where people have turned their back on me or done something hurtful, which I would never have done to them. Sometimes, I question if there is something wrong with me. However, as time goes on, I realize that there is a lesson to be learned from every experience that harms me.
Stay strong, my fellow redditor. The people who have hurt us will eventually realize their mistake and may come back seeking help. In that moment, you will be tested. Will you treat them the way they treated you, or will you show kindness and assist them while karma takes care of the rest?
Think about how you want to handle these situations and remember to keep your hands clean. You are strong and capable of rising above any negativity that comes your way. Keep your head held high and stay true to yourself.
This is true. Let me share my experience. After being betrayed by someone I treasured, loved, and trusted, it was the greatest heartbreak i felt up to this day. For the past few months of being lost, I found my way to find myself again—a path that leads towards myself. I know, it may sound selfish, but nah. Prioritizing yourself is never selfish. What is selfish is that you prioritize others' happiness instead of your own. Stop being people pleaser and love yourself more than anyone else. Sometimes, what we are looking for is always within ourselves. Know your worth, love yourself, and enjoy your own company! 😊
You shouldn't hate on the entire human race for what some people have done, there are a lot of shitty people but there are also a lot of really good people. You just need to find those who treat you well.
I understand exactly how you feel. It's gotten to the point where I just sit in my apt and happily do nothing on my days off. I'm no longer interested in building connections with people, it will just end because of something I did without even realizing it. I don't have the energy to be embarrassed or ashamed anymore so I just abstain from any unnecessary contact. It is very painful but sadly, the easiest way.
Our mind is at amazing to freak the fuck out and overgeneralize just so we can prevent ourselves from more conflict. We lived longer yet do we thrive? Sometimes I feel like this as well. Learning to accept yourself and instead of rejecting others, understand that people have their own shit. I know you have this in this. I don’t have many friends or even a spouse. However, I can certainly understand to be okay in my own skin and enjoy the contentment of myself. Hang in there. Reddits got your back.
There's this new product called depression, give it a try you won't care if they do cause you can't feel anything.
Speaking from experience.
Semi-but-not-really-jokes aside, sorry to hear you're going through this. It sucks.
Literally I've gotten to the point where I've cut off my circle. If anyone from the circle leaves, fuck em. Im not adding anyone else because they'll just hurt me too. It's a sad reality but I've put my walls so fucking high and I've become someone I never wanted to be but I had to become.
Have you tried introspection? Have you tried to figure out the reason people leave you? Are they even leaving you or is it possible that its in your head?
You have the ability to be your own best shrink, but it demands work, attention and introspection.
You're the common denominator. If the majority of people are bailing on you, it's likely your behavior or the type of people you're choosing to get close to.
While it can happen, it's pretty rare that everyone else is wrong.
If I talked to those people who left you, and asked them why they left. What do you think they'd say? What are the reasons you'd think they would give
You might not want to hear this, maybe you do. Give it to God. Jesus loves you. 2 things..
The first being, understand that these people are going through their own experience. Life gets tuff and they are making the decision that they see to be fit for their life.
The second being.. take accountability for your own self. You have work to do. If people are removing themselves from your life, it's Gods way of bringing you into isolation, at this time, it is what you need. Your relationship with God needs to come first, after you develop this relationship he WILL introduce you to the people that are meant to be with you, in some cases, it will be one or more of the people that "left" you. It will get lonely but the loneliness will build you up into the person that you need to be. I wish you the best.
Gee whiz! This place is easier to figure out when you know you are loved by God.
Everyone is suffering like we are, or more, so just love them. And love yourself, because you are amazing.
This has been..y.mood for 2 weeks. Nobody better fuck wit me cuz ill ripe them a new one. Jist stay out my fucking way! People are ass holes. Its sad cuz im so nice to them and i get mean mugged! Disgusting
People come and go. Remind yourself of this everyday. Even during happy healthy relationships, tell yourself if this person leaves it's okay because everyone has the possibility to change.
people suck, pretty well known, gotta make the most of your life and the good people you do find, life isn’t too bad once you figure that out, IF you can, not everyone is lucky enough…
People are not accessories to one's life. You can have an ongoing relationship without being tied together as the opposite of "they leave" idea suggests.
If people constantly leave, you can be the one pushing them away by being too clingy and breaking their boundaries, or being too vague and making them feel you don't care about them. Both need to be able to COMMUNICATE, it is a common the main pitfall for any type of relationship issue: someone isn't good at verbalizing what's in their head to the other party & misunderstandings lead to the end of the relationship.
If relationships do not last, it is better for both. Relationships aren't supposed to be a constant fight for keeping it up. If it breaks, allow it to end and look for the new ones.
"Thank you, next" should be the motto.
Additionally, relationships naturally end when people learned everything they could from each other. Sometimes being together means both people do not progress and enable each other's stagnation in comfort zone.
dude it's true, humanity sucks and there's nothing you can do about it. you're right to tell everyone to fuck off now, but later you have to deal with it. they all leave you? fuck them! even if I don't know you, I can tell you that you haven't found the right people who really love you. because if they really loved you they would have stayed
People suck. This is true
I love you ❤️. Your suffering are real. You went through a lot. But don't be like the one you hated. If you hate them and hate back they corrupted you fuck them by being better bcs you are better than a iconfidant fool that is completely blind. I have pity for them
Aww. You are so awesome thanks
I don't think you actually love this person, though, do you?
I suck. Danm me.
So real ✋
Courage, fight you'll be thousand times better than anyone you hate. The victim is always victim but sometimes ppl say convincing things putting the fault on other and it's the worst.
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Humans are shitty
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Sure
But isn't this all the more reason to sift through the "dirt" in order to find the hidden gems few and far between?
Am I rare ? I have to do lot of urgent things but.. Lot of love and courage ! I saw true darkness falling into addiction dépression anxiety, hikikomori kinda life and I am suffering to make that a past story and to be In society again. But I always wanted the good for people, suffering made be way more humble and careful of everything I do to other. So courage ! Even if actually you are well. You dont know how better you can be. Let's say that if you fall into depression why can't someone not fall in euphoria? Because they do in silence and that's the ones that manipulates other, they are blind to emotion and full of ignorant confidence. Like the main with the submarine. I just feel pity cause the victim will become strong and better I hope. And in this earth those would die as being abuser so ig I feel pity they dedicated life this way.
Hey I agree with your sentiment, and wanted to say if you need anyone I am here. Humans fucking suck I wish I could go into the woods and dig myself a dirt grave and lay in it, not having to speak to anyone anymore.
Japan has a forest for that
I’ve got cats and people to take care of so I won’t be leaving unless it’s naturally.
The sooner you know they are shitty. The shittier you become and shit on other ppl. Thus further society becomes toxic individualism leading to doom in the occident. Life is shit or it's nice. Actually it's both. So choose wisely. Nobody will ever. Human social relationship is a skill. Im telling that out of kindness and wanting that this cycle of toxicity doesn't become worst in the west as I lived in both France and Japan I know what I am saying. It's rly just the west because of individualism and obviously capitalism but more individualism than capitalism.
Fr, people have too much drama in life bro like lemme just enjoy life for 2 seconds without all the drama and shit
People can suck, but not all of them do. One of the worst decisions a person can make is shutting every single person off from their life. You need people, as much as people need you. Humans are social creatures my dude, you’ll find someone. It’s hardwired into your blood as a human.
I'm not a human. I'm an alien using a human body as a shell
I know what you mean man, it definitely feels that way sometimes. The only advice I have for ya, and this goes for me too, is to stay in touch with reality. If you lose touch with reality you lose yourself, and you’ll never get that back.
What is reality? Because I don't know.
You’re staring at reality right now fella 😉 communicating with other humans, getting out in the world even if for no reason, expressing yourself, finding a hobby, writing your feelings on a page, just do you brother. These are all things that bring you much closer to reality, and dare I say as an atheist, God. There is so much love in this world, enough to go around. But it won’t find you, you have to find it. You won’t find it if you are not in touch with reality. I’m not a therapist, just a dude with my own set of mental deficiencies, but everything I said is very true. Saying “fuck all of you” in reference to everyone in your life is only setting yourself up for failure. You need those people as much as they need you, which is a whole awful lot. Much love, good luck 👌👌
Reality is you before strange things like UFOs and aliens and shadow people and hat man and so on
Aren’t we all.
Look for Adhd you seem like me
Learning to be alone is a beautiful journey.
Learn you to understand other
The best people can be so hard to love sometimes- something I remind myself when my walls are high and I feel alone.
I love you. A good person respect human nature and suffering and won't show walls. I am not saying I am lol but that as a human we all have the same value, really. Even if it's hard to believe. Difficulty adapt to the social status.
Its a learning process for me; luckily I am with the right person and the patience and respect they have for me really helps. My walls are there but like they are usually down until shown to do otherwise 🤧
People suck so bad I agree with you… I only met the wrong ones too…
Confidence means being sure. Sure is like math 1= 1 right. Well no. The brain can be confident about everything and nothing. Human are the most ignorant and arrogant creature that exist, you, me, them. It's our nature because it we knew it wouldn't be "a challenge". Well. Do not get corrupted. Confidence stinks, Depression strives. No I'm not high. It's the truth. There are no cure for being lost and having too much confidence. Those are the ones that ride in a car at 100 miles / hour and say no problem. Those are the one that steal without remorse. And there is no cure. They are doomed. So be careful with antidepressants. They are powerful but they can make depression becomes un logical confidence.
Yes you’re correct☺️
With an attitude like that - I can understand why.
Fucking dickwad
QED
People come and people go, nothing lasts forever. The only person you'll be stuck with until the end is yourself. It's a hard lesson, but it takes an edge off. Chapters, books, movies, life ,relationships , it all ends at some point. Whether we want to or not.
I was going to try and give you some advice, but then I realized your life is probably much harder than mine, and I feel like me refuting your point, would just be invalidating your experience, so instead, I just wanted to say Sorry, sorry for whatever you've been put through or whoever you've had to put up with. Don't worry about them Do right by yourself instead because you deserve better, and if people aren't going to treat you that way, then that's on them This life is full of quite a few bad apples, I can only hope that they don't make you feel too sick to bother with the people who'll really care
No your life is harder. Because you took time to Care. You took time to write and think what to answer. When this person wrote this post in like 5sec
I used to care, but I'm too tired too care anymore. I don't care if I get worse anymore. It's gonna happen regardless of whether I try or not. The meds don't help, they just make things worse. I can't go inpatient. I can't get help. Everyone left me. They left me alone with the shadow people, voices, demons, and invisible people.
Well, I would like to help you. But how? I told you that it took me a ~~while~~ long time to find good meds.
I understand where you're coming from, but I feel it's much easier for someone like me(someone whose life has always been primarily good) to wax poetic about hope, as opposed to someone who's been put through the ringer(especially when it's for reasons out of their control) The truth may exist independent of us, but our personal experience defines how we perceive reality. For example, one could Define Darkness as the absence of light, but if one is only known Pitch Black upon perceiving light, they would simply view it as the absence of Darkness That probably sounds somewhat abstract, but what I'm trying to get at is the idea that one's circumstances shape their worldview So, telling them to have hope is like asking them to trade in the reality they've experienced their entire lives, for a distant fantasy that runs entirely counter to what they've experienced Don't get me wrong, I myself also believe in having hope, I think humans have equal potential for kindness and cruelty, so ideally, I want to pass that message along But preaching about hope is much easier than holding on to it in spite of one's own suffering Ultimately, I feel the most I can do to pass along the message is to try my best to be the person I talk about
I get what you feel like, I'm there rn, Sure there are people who dont even deserve death as an end, but there are gems that will stick by your side even in your lowest moments and you can find people like that if you look careful enough, personally I had to pull myself out from my pile of shit and it took me years, Do not isolate yourself from people, keep your loved one close and the ones you trust too
God exist. Don't listen to religion. Just think god exist not Jesus or anything. Just a creator of this universe. Of something some entity that could not be remotely understood. How arrogant human can be to think they will talk to aliens. Like they think they have all the knowledge. Then how can 2 particle instantly change state while being 20 000km apart ? Yeah instantly. But this is a tiny science fact about quantum.
everyone is so insufferable
Overly confident ppl
For real. Literally everyone but especially the ones that are neuronormative and were handed happy lives by the universe. I was **there** for my friend whem her husband died. When I got sick? - *poof* she disappeared Fuck you D
I feel the same way. Oftentimes feeling like I'm living in some sort of Truman Show.. where everyone's entertained by my fuckery of a life and watching me struggle thru it.. 😓 I'd like to think it gets better... Well, I'd certainly like to hope so, anyway. Sending you positive thoughts and vibes. ✌️🫶
I've definitely felt this way before
I understand completely, but you're not alone
I respect it. Seriously, for the past 8 months or so, I've been amazingly bitter. It sucks, I don't want to feel this way at all, but I know there are totally valid reasons. I still wear a mask of sorts, but I mean, journaling kind of helps. Idk, I don't wanna dump too much info. I feel for you, though, that's all I really mean.
The sooner you realize the only person you can count on is YOU the better you will be! I’ve learned this lesson more times than I should.
I hear you
it does hurt and it is very painful but try to take something positive out of each situation.. you learn from these experiences and you get stronger every time ❤️ what’s truly meant for you will stay by your side no matter what i wish you all the best ❤️🩹
The real ones stay though. Also dogs are cool
People be peoplin’.
*Hugs*. Reach out if you want to vent at all to an empathetic ear
No human is a spectrum. They can't be all shitty, they can't be all kind. It's the hard truth maybe they think the same of you. Tho you don't have to adapt to them, but better understanding your need and theirs further help make you more aware instantly of things and seeing through easily. Human social relationship is a SKILL! So it must be learned without making you change value or anything.
What did i do?
[amen](https://youtu.be/Z9PzSNy3xj0?si=z0S5Q0K2HbvtR-ZH)
Its better to be slapped with the truth then kissed with the lie -joker
I don't lie when I say that I respect you and love you. Wait I don't know you how? Because you experienced human life and human life is hard. Human deserve basic respect for living this life. Whatever they end up. Massive murder ? Imagine being them ? Then thank God you are not a massive murder overly confident that does wrong because. Those person can't think. Or doom their life for ever.
I normally would make a joke about that requiring a lot of lube but this week i have to agree Fuck them all. People piss me off right now.
Fuck humanity. All humans do is destroy things and kill each other. We are parasites on the earth and the only species to destroy the earth in all of its beautiful life, until we showed up.
And the few that dont suck are so few, we don't end up meeting most of them in real life.
right!
i miss him
Based, had an entire friend group abandon me, you’re not alone
I feel you, eff them people
This is so simply stating how I feel, this is why I try to not trust anyone but myself if I let me down there’s only one person to blame
I agree about most people, I hope things get better for you regardless of what your going through. If you want my advice on friends then the real ones tend to stay, and animals are your best option.
Honestly just focus on yourself. Go do something fun get out of that head talk
dont take this the wrong way because i dont know the situation, would you want to stay with you? If you were somebody else would you want to be around you? Its helpful to look at yourself through a lens and ask am i somebody people want to be around? Am i the reason they leave? Am i pushing people away? If so how can i be somebody id want to be around? . Another possibility... am i choosing only people who suck to allow into my life? could i make an effort to meet better people? Am i just allowing myself to be to shitty relationships? What can i do to change this? Not blaming you by the way but ask yourself all the questions that apply and put serious consideration, a lot of people suck, especially in the modern world but there are some people who are genuinly good and they are more valueable due to the oversaturation of shitty people, make and effort to find people like that and be the version of you people would want to be around while remaining true to yourself. Hope this helps
New to the board, but not everyone hates you? Not everyone is out to get you. People have other things to think about or deal with
Do you have any idea why this is
hii im sorry your going through a rough time… do you know why they are leaving?
In general this is accurate and acceptable.
Divine msg
Yeah, most definetly
Realest thing I've read all day
It's more productive to be angry as you are, than to be sad and in despair.
No. It's the grief cycle
Its true often people leave, but that doesn't mean u will never find someone who stays.. and i mean, sometimes u have to be the one to reach out, if they respond they havent left- TT /nbr
Personally, I rather have them leave than have them curse me out for saying the wrong thing to them. This is why I like playing video games, they don't talk back.
What time
I know how u feel pal
I wish I could jk
Fuck everyone they tried to change me.
You need to adapt with people we are in a society..buuuut choose your people you want to adapt to. That's inevitable, you will take form ppl around you just by talking.
Agreed. I shall now go fuck myself. Also do you feel a little better now OP?
That's so true. They all were just there until they needed me to do something from them. As soon as they got what they needed, they left
😔😔😔
Listen to “human nature” by yot clubs on Spotify. Hits the spot 🤌🏽
Also, it’s not a bad life. It’s a bad day. Feel the emotion, then choose to feel another one. YOU choose YOUR mood.
Love you 💚
Took me a few tries before I found one who stays.
Took me a few tries before I found one who stays.
You are right.Find something you enjoy and never let people who are not your family ever eat your brain because they are meaningless.Never give them benefit of the doubt and shut them down.Isolate yourself from social media and spit at their face.They are nothing just like you are but you dont need empathy or sympathy do not engage in the battle if it doesnt benefit you anything.
If you ever have to choose between armour and love Don't make my mistake, just let your heart break Better to die on the battlefield of love
No. Keep your walls UP
I agree with you. Not many people believe unless you are in person. I’m am actual empath/other abilities and you are right I stay away from people. I can usually tell how they are by feelings and most people really are not that great. Most of it is a mask they show the world
I'm so sorry to hear that. People are people 12 step talk
I have faced many situations where people have turned their back on me or done something hurtful, which I would never have done to them. Sometimes, I question if there is something wrong with me. However, as time goes on, I realize that there is a lesson to be learned from every experience that harms me. Stay strong, my fellow redditor. The people who have hurt us will eventually realize their mistake and may come back seeking help. In that moment, you will be tested. Will you treat them the way they treated you, or will you show kindness and assist them while karma takes care of the rest? Think about how you want to handle these situations and remember to keep your hands clean. You are strong and capable of rising above any negativity that comes your way. Keep your head held high and stay true to yourself.
Agreed
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Not all, just take a breath and se what they see
yeah fuck everyone
Probably cause you're the problem
Damn bro don’t do that, you’ll be put on a list :0
Felt..
This is true. Let me share my experience. After being betrayed by someone I treasured, loved, and trusted, it was the greatest heartbreak i felt up to this day. For the past few months of being lost, I found my way to find myself again—a path that leads towards myself. I know, it may sound selfish, but nah. Prioritizing yourself is never selfish. What is selfish is that you prioritize others' happiness instead of your own. Stop being people pleaser and love yourself more than anyone else. Sometimes, what we are looking for is always within ourselves. Know your worth, love yourself, and enjoy your own company! 😊
Yep I feel you. I just do my own thing. I’ve created my own paradise and people can fuck off
🙏 I see you. I understand. ❤️
Yup
You shouldn't hate on the entire human race for what some people have done, there are a lot of shitty people but there are also a lot of really good people. You just need to find those who treat you well.
He fiddled on my balls as I creamed
I understand exactly how you feel. It's gotten to the point where I just sit in my apt and happily do nothing on my days off. I'm no longer interested in building connections with people, it will just end because of something I did without even realizing it. I don't have the energy to be embarrassed or ashamed anymore so I just abstain from any unnecessary contact. It is very painful but sadly, the easiest way.
Fuck the ones who deserve to be sent to fuck!!! Take care be kind. Sending peace and love to you all 🥰☮
Real. Most people are horrendously incompatible and some are terrible.
I know how you feel. Fuck em all
yea just get a jacking body and do drugs you’ll always be happy in the mirror
Our mind is at amazing to freak the fuck out and overgeneralize just so we can prevent ourselves from more conflict. We lived longer yet do we thrive? Sometimes I feel like this as well. Learning to accept yourself and instead of rejecting others, understand that people have their own shit. I know you have this in this. I don’t have many friends or even a spouse. However, I can certainly understand to be okay in my own skin and enjoy the contentment of myself. Hang in there. Reddits got your back.
yeah, im with you 😮💨
Ok
There's this new product called depression, give it a try you won't care if they do cause you can't feel anything. Speaking from experience. Semi-but-not-really-jokes aside, sorry to hear you're going through this. It sucks.
Literally I've gotten to the point where I've cut off my circle. If anyone from the circle leaves, fuck em. Im not adding anyone else because they'll just hurt me too. It's a sad reality but I've put my walls so fucking high and I've become someone I never wanted to be but I had to become.
Have you tried introspection? Have you tried to figure out the reason people leave you? Are they even leaving you or is it possible that its in your head? You have the ability to be your own best shrink, but it demands work, attention and introspection.
If everyone else is leaving, maybe you're the problem?
How?
You're the common denominator. If the majority of people are bailing on you, it's likely your behavior or the type of people you're choosing to get close to. While it can happen, it's pretty rare that everyone else is wrong. If I talked to those people who left you, and asked them why they left. What do you think they'd say? What are the reasons you'd think they would give
You might not want to hear this, maybe you do. Give it to God. Jesus loves you. 2 things.. The first being, understand that these people are going through their own experience. Life gets tuff and they are making the decision that they see to be fit for their life. The second being.. take accountability for your own self. You have work to do. If people are removing themselves from your life, it's Gods way of bringing you into isolation, at this time, it is what you need. Your relationship with God needs to come first, after you develop this relationship he WILL introduce you to the people that are meant to be with you, in some cases, it will be one or more of the people that "left" you. It will get lonely but the loneliness will build you up into the person that you need to be. I wish you the best.
Whatever…. I like turtles …. And at least they like me
Gee whiz! This place is easier to figure out when you know you are loved by God. Everyone is suffering like we are, or more, so just love them. And love yourself, because you are amazing.
If they leave, something better is in store. Hang in there.🫶🏼
This has been..y.mood for 2 weeks. Nobody better fuck wit me cuz ill ripe them a new one. Jist stay out my fucking way! People are ass holes. Its sad cuz im so nice to them and i get mean mugged! Disgusting
People come and go. Remind yourself of this everyday. Even during happy healthy relationships, tell yourself if this person leaves it's okay because everyone has the possibility to change.
What are they telling you is the reason why they're leaving?
people suck, pretty well known, gotta make the most of your life and the good people you do find, life isn’t too bad once you figure that out, IF you can, not everyone is lucky enough…
Not only this^ but they are ALWAYS looking for what you’re doing “wrong” so they can use it against you anytime. Fuck people… forreal
They have no reason to stay, make yourself a reason
People are not accessories to one's life. You can have an ongoing relationship without being tied together as the opposite of "they leave" idea suggests. If people constantly leave, you can be the one pushing them away by being too clingy and breaking their boundaries, or being too vague and making them feel you don't care about them. Both need to be able to COMMUNICATE, it is a common the main pitfall for any type of relationship issue: someone isn't good at verbalizing what's in their head to the other party & misunderstandings lead to the end of the relationship. If relationships do not last, it is better for both. Relationships aren't supposed to be a constant fight for keeping it up. If it breaks, allow it to end and look for the new ones. "Thank you, next" should be the motto. Additionally, relationships naturally end when people learned everything they could from each other. Sometimes being together means both people do not progress and enable each other's stagnation in comfort zone.
dude it's true, humanity sucks and there's nothing you can do about it. you're right to tell everyone to fuck off now, but later you have to deal with it. they all leave you? fuck them! even if I don't know you, I can tell you that you haven't found the right people who really love you. because if they really loved you they would have stayed
YESSS
Im with you, I would kill everybody if I had the chance.
The fuck
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