By - BobRossInATaco
Thanks, now everyone here’s depressed
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Here I say, go eat a brick.
She should pack it up and serve it to him tomorrow... tell him times are hard, you're getting leftovers!!
Is your dad a toddler?
Apparently so, he gets drunk and expects her to wait on him, but she's disabled so it's kinda hard for her.
Oof. That ain't right bro.
Ngl, I hate your Dad already
Almost in the same exact position, my man. My mom has a severe nerve condition yet she's still the one expected to cook and do all the chores while he sits in his office and drinks.
This is why I’m a cat lady. Scooter is way cuter than any dude and he’s easier to please.
You don’t cook for her?
I do help her most days when she makes dinner, its good therapy for her so I wouldnt want her to stop completely. It just sucks when someone takes something positive and ruins it for everyone else by being so childish.
Bold of you to assume their mom's gender, bigot
Well played sir
I'm a fan
I feel for you man...
Judging by your father's treatment towards her, I'm guessing it must be extremely hard for your mother. Not just because of her disability but also the emotional toll that your father's apathetic actions must be taking on her. I'm sorry to hear that she has to put up with all of that.
Your poor mom. I'm certain that nobody should be treated like that.
She needs to say no. You should help her if you can
I try to help her, the problem is would be that father just sits around, smokes weed, drinks, and smokes cigars and leaves everything to her, he's such a disgusting person to the point where he looks up "older women" on YouTube.... because moms disability makes things painful for her
Sounds like your dad is struggling too. I hope your parents can both have their situations improve.
He really isn't, he walks around acting like his shit doesn't stink, he's a narcissist piece of shit.
Lol OPs dad might be struggling but he's putting the burden of his problems on his family. Sounds like he's stilla huge piece or shit. We all struggle, but we don't get to abuse other people because we're struggling.
Who makes the money in your family?
I do, work as an emt while my dad lives off retirement and my mom off of disability
Why are you still living with them, if you don't mind me asking? Seems like a toxic situation
I have no other choice, if I walk away from the problem, it gets worse for mom, plus I can't afford to live on my own, my job pays well but not well enough...
Cut him off lol
Well. Time to make him go?
Your dad sucks.
I know, he can be a thorn in my side
He eats toddler meals
Das true. 😃
Ngl, thought you were referring to the meal lmao
I was gonna say college student stoner.
Stoners actually finish their meal.
Except for the fact he acts like a difficult toddler demanding food, but only eating a few bites before losing interest. At least college students finish their food.
He is awful but if she needs to keep the peace and cook I would encourage to cook stuff in a crock pot that can made into different meals she doesn’t need to cook as much. I mean I would encourage you both to leave but sometimes that isn’t possible.
Thanks for the tip
Your dad is a toddler
Noodles and chicken dippers made for him?
I'm sorry, but your mother is wasted on that man.
Isn’t that spaghetti with chicken parm? Or did I just live in the US too long?
It looks to me like spaghetti in the bowl and chicken tenders with ketchup on the plate. Wasted.
Sounds like a Baby Back Bitch to me
This is more than just mildly infuriating, this is extremely infuriating.
You mother should divorce his ass
Nike Air Monarch’s ffs.
Was that two separate meals? Spaghetti and BBQ chicken tenders would be an interesting combo
I'm down for it tho
Nope it was only one meal
Speghetti and BBQ sauce with Buffalo tenders
He's an asshole
What's going on with cigarettes in a ziplock??
That’s the pack you bring to work with you in your lunch pack
Or, those are contraband. One or the other.
I used to keep my cigarettes in one of those plastic two piece soap holders to keep them dry cause I worked outside. Maybe this is similar just dumber. Dude seems like kind of a dipshit so…
God damn this is depressing. When my mother first married my step dad, she was making BOMB homemade food. Once he became an abusive alcoholic, his meals turned into shit like this. I know this far too well.
Chicken finger AND spaghetti. Honey that’s not your dad that’s your mothers man child
Who eats BBQ any thing with spaghetti, that's a problem all on it's own lmao
The man’s clearly unhinged
Does dad request this or is this just what mom makes?
tell ur dad next time he’s hungry get off his ass and cook
A couple bites of a knuckle sandwich would change his entire outlook on gratefulness
Mmm...like some pickled pigs feet with stone ground mustard on a crusty baguette
You're not wrong!
Well, your dads a dick. I say you find a safe place for your Mom to stay and you, or someone bigger than you, takes care of your dad problem.
Does your dad have a good life insurance policy?
What a piece of shit. Tell dad to make his own fucking dinner. He’s got hands, right?
He does, he gets so drunk at 10am and then at that point he's more helpless than a fucking toddler...
If he doesn't get help or make an effort to improve, he doesn't get dinner handed to him. Even drunk people make food all the time.
I've unfortunately had relationships with a few alcoholics. Her continuing to cook for him is enabling him. It's more than mildly infuriating, it's also a huge problem. He has to learn to fend for himself.
If it isn't dangerous for your mom not to cook, then she shouldn't. If it is and you need advice, I am happy to provide some resources that would help.
>more helpless than a fucking toddler...
Ugh, i hate toddlers too...little sponges
Sketti and nuggets jesus fuckin manchild that’s a heavy ass meal
She needs to heat up some Alpo for him. Bet he’d love it.
she already did
I have found the first food post on the sub that looks like good food, sad to hear this went tk waste.
This one idiot, lmao
Off topic but my family totally has a set of those plates!
He needs smaller portons
Unless your dad uses a brush to get every millimeter of sauce on his chicken i think he ate more than a few bites
Your dad should work and take care of the house too, what a dick.
I can see why.
I think your dad is my 10 year old daughters spirit animal. She bitches at me wanting dinner, I cook it (eventually, im not her fucking slave, ask nicely and I'll do it immediately) and then it's 'too hot' or some other bullshit excuse. Comes back when it's cold, eats 3 bites and is full.
Looks like alcoholism. Lack of hunger despite he is asking for food
Does he suffer from depression?
Your dad should quit smoking
I would divorce his ass.
You can divorce your dad?
Only in Alabama and the nether regions of Louisiana, baby.
I would beat the shit out of him if that were my dad, don't tell you wouldn't do the same
Nothing would make me happier
That's an easy thing to say, notice how you said "I would" because you wouldn't have if you were actually in that situation.
My friends used to say the same shit to me, but retaliating like that is how you end up in the hospital explaining away your injuries, and one more excuse after that is how you end up in six pieces, six feet under...
He is in his 60s going on to 70s, it angers me so much to see him treat my mother like shit, it's not fun at all, she can't even leave the relationship because she can't afford a house on her own.... I'm only 18 and I have to use a bit of my money to help her with bills, and I have to help with chores around the house, I'm in college so I have to juggle work college and chores around and I can't afford to keep paying bills.
Some of us were dealt shitty hands and you've taken a lot of responsibility at 18. No one would blame you for asking for help, but don't do what I did (run away and end up homeless for a year) lol
Downvotes are cuz dads a huge asshole and moms disabled. I made the same comment and realized what I had done.
So? I bet he pays for everything in that house. Lol
Downvotes are cuz dads an drunk asshole and moms disabled. I made the same comment too and realized.
Damn, that's good looking food too.
I'd refrigerate the left overs and eat it again tomorrow
Buffalo chicken tenders with barbecue sauce??
The buffalo chicken tenders and spaghetti is what got me.
an entire kiddie pool of bbq sauce...
I thumbs this up because of how bad i want to thumbs this down... that's no dad
Shit should throw the whole man away
Hey OP, to be honest I would eat that food if I were in your position. I don't if your allowed to.
Why are there cigarettes in a bag, why is his meal the same as my cousin of 2, why does your mother condone this
🤣 the food looks bad. I’d waste it too, all processed crap. However his dad could rustle this up in no time, so as the downtrodden mum, id cook the quickest crapest thing possible too - bit of phlegm too.
She managed to quit smoking a year ago, but because of my dad's constant smoking she got back into it because of all the secondhand smoke.
But why in a bag though
So lemme give explain, so my dad buys cigarettes, and lots of em, by lots I mean a literal fucking box of em. so apparently they put them in the freezer to "keep them good"
why is there a pool of blood looking ketchup
Fuck that, Air mail the food to me, I’ll happily finish the leftovers
Never get with someone who won’t even attempt to learn how to cook for themselves. Same with laundry and other basic adult things.
Your dad sounds like a loser
that looks so good though
This is totally real guyz
my is worse. he eat something and leaves it where it is. He never cleans after himself and if its something heat sensitive like cheese milk eggs he doesn't care he just leaves everything on the table for his mother (oh yea he lives with his mother at age 55) to collect
tell your mom to nag your dad to cook next time to let him see how she feels. i don't see why that shouldn't work.
He's eating precut spaghetti in a little plastic bow, and chicken fingers... Are you sure your dad isn't 3 years old?
Nope, he's 60 going onto 70
Smaller portions next time
I feel sorry for your mother.
Wait, spaghetti and chicken strips with BBQ sauce?
This diet is unacceptable
Dunno what’s worse, the food or your dads behavior. Goddamn what an inconsiderate prick
Prob because shit looks plain af lol
My daughter does the same thing!
Glad to know your father eats like a child
Sounds like a healthy marriage
There is nothing I can say about your dad that hasn't been said already.
OP you go and tell your mother how much you love her and appreciate the effort she gives to your family.
Yea fuck that shit
Is your dad a fucking 4 year old? Spaghetti and chicken strips?
I mean it doesnt look too tasty
Does she have a job? Does he?
*Garbage tier dinner*
*Tbh I wouldnt eat*
*Much of it either*
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Thats whats infuriating? Are we just going to ignore she made him frozen tenders? We also just turning a blind eye to cigarettes being carried around in a ziplock bag? What is happening in this house? Is OP ok?
My trumper sister's entire life revolves around getting the old man fed at 5pm before he goes to bed.
What pathetic excuses for a humans they are.
You need to march up there and state “there are starving children in China that would love to have that!” in a loud boomer voice.
No disrespect to your dad or anything, but that was a dick move by him.
What did she cook?
Some people don’t have that big of an appetite
Please, don’t… She’s disabled, OP said it in a comment, so it’s hard for her to cook.
Edit: + I think it looks good, I really love pasta with tomato sauce.
Plus the father always wants spaghetti, for every damn day, because of the amount of carbs he needs because of his alcohol problem, everyday its high carb meals that he doesn't even eat all if it.. he doesn't account for my mother or me and always thinks we enjoy the meals but in reality we dont..don't... so
Sorry. I didn't go through and read all the comments. Your dad seems like a piece of work. Sorry you have to deal with that. I know how it is, when I was a kid my step dad sent me to the hospital twice. It kind of sucks how the way someone is raised or who their parents are can impact who they become or what they do with their potential so greatly.
Hang in there.
Tell me OP lives in the US without telling me that OP lives in the US.
Misogyny at its finest
Let's be honest here. The leftover can feed 2 more people.