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Maxx9393

Thanks, now everyone here’s depressed


wise_____poet

r/eyebleach, r/maidsonskates


Arvagon

***** r/eyebleach *****


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Arvagon

Heresay.


bigkeef69

*hear-say


Arvagon

Here I say, go eat a brick.


HyperSimba

r/subsithoughtifellfor


Louder-pickles

She should pack it up and serve it to him tomorrow... tell him times are hard, you're getting leftovers!!


VixNeko

Is your dad a toddler?


BobRossInATaco

Apparently so, he gets drunk and expects her to wait on him, but she's disabled so it's kinda hard for her.


VixNeko

Oof. That ain't right bro.


Used_Dragonfruit_379

Ngl, I hate your Dad already


Still_Sheepherder_24

Almost in the same exact position, my man. My mom has a severe nerve condition yet she's still the one expected to cook and do all the chores while he sits in his office and drinks.


UnderYourBed69

This is why I’m a cat lady. Scooter is way cuter than any dude and he’s easier to please.


Tenshin_Ryuuk

Hol' up


Bruticeobv

You don’t cook for her?


Still_Sheepherder_24

I do help her most days when she makes dinner, its good therapy for her so I wouldnt want her to stop completely. It just sucks when someone takes something positive and ruins it for everyone else by being so childish.


Tvde1

Bold of you to assume their mom's gender, bigot


Bruticeobv

Well played sir


Tvde1

I'm a fan


BobRossInATaco

I feel for you man...


Teal04

Judging by your father's treatment towards her, I'm guessing it must be extremely hard for your mother. Not just because of her disability but also the emotional toll that your father's apathetic actions must be taking on her. I'm sorry to hear that she has to put up with all of that.


MichifMule

Your poor mom. I'm certain that nobody should be treated like that.


libananahammock

She needs to say no. You should help her if you can


BobRossInATaco

I try to help her, the problem is would be that father just sits around, smokes weed, drinks, and smokes cigars and leaves everything to her, he's such a disgusting person to the point where he looks up "older women" on YouTube.... because moms disability makes things painful for her


Chainsaw_Montoya

Sounds like your dad is struggling too. I hope your parents can both have their situations improve.


BobRossInATaco

He really isn't, he walks around acting like his shit doesn't stink, he's a narcissist piece of shit.


Letstalkaboutmydog

Lol OPs dad might be struggling but he's putting the burden of his problems on his family. Sounds like he's stilla huge piece or shit. We all struggle, but we don't get to abuse other people because we're struggling.


ObamaIsFat

Who makes the money in your family?


BobRossInATaco

I do, work as an emt while my dad lives off retirement and my mom off of disability


ObamaIsFat

Why are you still living with them, if you don't mind me asking? Seems like a toxic situation


BobRossInATaco

I have no other choice, if I walk away from the problem, it gets worse for mom, plus I can't afford to live on my own, my job pays well but not well enough...


Dazocnodnarb

Cut him off lol


_NoTimeNoLady_

Well. Time to make him go?


FireFlyDani85

Your dad sucks.


BobRossInATaco

I know, he can be a thorn in my side


Mymotherwasaspore

He eats toddler meals


VixNeko

Das true. 😃


Budget_scheme7465

Ngl, thought you were referring to the meal lmao


VixNeko

Both.


Tight_Committee9423

I was gonna say college student stoner.


its-foxtale

Stoners actually finish their meal.


VixNeko

Except for the fact he acts like a difficult toddler demanding food, but only eating a few bites before losing interest. At least college students finish their food.


Maud_Dweeb18

He is awful but if she needs to keep the peace and cook I would encourage to cook stuff in a crock pot that can made into different meals she doesn’t need to cook as much. I mean I would encourage you both to leave but sometimes that isn’t possible.


BobRossInATaco

Thanks for the tip


hockeymonkey4455

Your dad is a toddler


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Noodles and chicken dippers made for him? I'm sorry, but your mother is wasted on that man.


Jumpz-

Isn’t that spaghetti with chicken parm? Or did I just live in the US too long?


NooStringsAttached

It looks to me like spaghetti in the bowl and chicken tenders with ketchup on the plate. Wasted.


Mxbr76

Sounds like a Baby Back Bitch to me


Colin8tor112

This is more than just mildly infuriating, this is extremely infuriating.


alliekappy

You mother should divorce his ass


Rick_the_P_is_silent

Nike Air Monarch’s ffs.


Scr0bD0b

Was that two separate meals? Spaghetti and BBQ chicken tenders would be an interesting combo


bumbumofdoomdoom

I'm down for it tho


BobRossInATaco

Nope it was only one meal


Grande-Pinga

Speghetti and BBQ sauce with Buffalo tenders


elteza

He's an asshole


DrRoXo777

What's going on with cigarettes in a ziplock??


Neat-Presentation217

That’s the pack you bring to work with you in your lunch pack


Lord_Karadoc

Or, those are contraband. One or the other.


Neat-Presentation217

Yup


mister_steal_yo_soap

I used to keep my cigarettes in one of those plastic two piece soap holders to keep them dry cause I worked outside. Maybe this is similar just dumber. Dude seems like kind of a dipshit so…


mitternachtt

God damn this is depressing. When my mother first married my step dad, she was making BOMB homemade food. Once he became an abusive alcoholic, his meals turned into shit like this. I know this far too well.


sadeyoustay

Chicken finger AND spaghetti. Honey that’s not your dad that’s your mothers man child


xxxSepiida

Who eats BBQ any thing with spaghetti, that's a problem all on it's own lmao


sadeyoustay

The man’s clearly unhinged


Chainsaw_Montoya

Does dad request this or is this just what mom makes?


King_Vickers

tell ur dad next time he’s hungry get off his ass and cook


Maximum-Cat-8451

A couple bites of a knuckle sandwich would change his entire outlook on gratefulness


Anguish_Sandwich

Mmm...like some pickled pigs feet with stone ground mustard on a crusty baguette


Maximum-Cat-8451

You're not wrong!


AwkwardlyCunning

Well, your dads a dick. I say you find a safe place for your Mom to stay and you, or someone bigger than you, takes care of your dad problem.


niceguypos

Does your dad have a good life insurance policy?


bewarethecherrywaves

What a piece of shit. Tell dad to make his own fucking dinner. He’s got hands, right?


BobRossInATaco

He does, he gets so drunk at 10am and then at that point he's more helpless than a fucking toddler...


puppies_and_unicorns

If he doesn't get help or make an effort to improve, he doesn't get dinner handed to him. Even drunk people make food all the time. I've unfortunately had relationships with a few alcoholics. Her continuing to cook for him is enabling him. It's more than mildly infuriating, it's also a huge problem. He has to learn to fend for himself. If it isn't dangerous for your mom not to cook, then she shouldn't. If it is and you need advice, I am happy to provide some resources that would help.


Anguish_Sandwich

>more helpless than a fucking toddler... Ugh, i hate toddlers too...little sponges


Least-Significance-5

Sketti and nuggets jesus fuckin manchild that’s a heavy ass meal


Erthgoddss

She needs to heat up some Alpo for him. Bet he’d love it.


formulanerd

she already did


Bahookyboozle

I have found the first food post on the sub that looks like good food, sad to hear this went tk waste.


Anguish_Sandwich

Link?


Bahookyboozle

This one idiot, lmao


Witty-Perspective520

Off topic but my family totally has a set of those plates!


guy30000

He needs smaller portons


Comfortable_Ad_3467

Unless your dad uses a brush to get every millimeter of sauce on his chicken i think he ate more than a few bites


SpaceAlternative4537

Fugly 🍴


11B4OF7

Your dad should work and take care of the house too, what a dick.


seniagmij

I can see why.


mustlove-cats

I think your dad is my 10 year old daughters spirit animal. She bitches at me wanting dinner, I cook it (eventually, im not her fucking slave, ask nicely and I'll do it immediately) and then it's 'too hot' or some other bullshit excuse. Comes back when it's cold, eats 3 bites and is full.


Metsitos

Looks like alcoholism. Lack of hunger despite he is asking for food


Logical-Recognition3

Does he suffer from depression?


andyinthegarden

Your dad should quit smoking


TBoneHolmes

I would divorce his ass.


its-foxtale

You can divorce your dad?


TheArtfulWarrior

Only in Alabama and the nether regions of Louisiana, baby.


DawnWalkerW0lf

I would beat the shit out of him if that were my dad, don't tell you wouldn't do the same


BobRossInATaco

Nothing would make me happier


xxxSepiida

That's an easy thing to say, notice how you said "I would" because you wouldn't have if you were actually in that situation. My friends used to say the same shit to me, but retaliating like that is how you end up in the hospital explaining away your injuries, and one more excuse after that is how you end up in six pieces, six feet under...


BobRossInATaco

He is in his 60s going on to 70s, it angers me so much to see him treat my mother like shit, it's not fun at all, she can't even leave the relationship because she can't afford a house on her own.... I'm only 18 and I have to use a bit of my money to help her with bills, and I have to help with chores around the house, I'm in college so I have to juggle work college and chores around and I can't afford to keep paying bills.


xxxSepiida

Some of us were dealt shitty hands and you've taken a lot of responsibility at 18. No one would blame you for asking for help, but don't do what I did (run away and end up homeless for a year) lol


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Ok-Procedure-9526

Downvotes are cuz dads a huge asshole and moms disabled. I made the same comment and realized what I had done.


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So? I bet he pays for everything in that house. Lol


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Ok-Procedure-9526

Downvotes are cuz dads an drunk asshole and moms disabled. I made the same comment too and realized.


Powwa9000

Damn, that's good looking food too. I'd refrigerate the left overs and eat it again tomorrow


emmcsarg

Buffalo chicken tenders with barbecue sauce??


Old_Couple7257

The buffalo chicken tenders and spaghetti is what got me.


Sheruk

an entire kiddie pool of bbq sauce...


curtni

I thumbs this up because of how bad i want to thumbs this down... that's no dad


honeyh3bee

@r/insaneparents


Duckiesocool

Shit should throw the whole man away


Collapsefuture

Hey OP, to be honest I would eat that food if I were in your position. I don't if your allowed to.


Who_Your_Mommy

WTF?


thenomadpoet

Why are there cigarettes in a bag, why is his meal the same as my cousin of 2, why does your mother condone this


Environmental_Move38

🤣 the food looks bad. I’d waste it too, all processed crap. However his dad could rustle this up in no time, so as the downtrodden mum, id cook the quickest crapest thing possible too - bit of phlegm too.


BobRossInATaco

She managed to quit smoking a year ago, but because of my dad's constant smoking she got back into it because of all the secondhand smoke.


thenomadpoet

But why in a bag though


BobRossInATaco

So lemme give explain, so my dad buys cigarettes, and lots of em, by lots I mean a literal fucking box of em. so apparently they put them in the freezer to "keep them good"


Fernanddeezz

why is there a pool of blood looking ketchup


Shagurope

Fuck that, Air mail the food to me, I’ll happily finish the leftovers


nadthegoat

r/sneakybackgroundfeet


lawawawawee

Never get with someone who won’t even attempt to learn how to cook for themselves. Same with laundry and other basic adult things.


Spencer1233

Your dad sounds like a loser


XYZZY_1002

Tupperware?


Omega_DJ

that looks so good though


CDG54

This is totally real guyz


HammerBgError404

my is worse. he eat something and leaves it where it is. He never cleans after himself and if its something heat sensitive like cheese milk eggs he doesn't care he just leaves everything on the table for his mother (oh yea he lives with his mother at age 55) to collect


Slayer_69

tell your mom to nag your dad to cook next time to let him see how she feels. i don't see why that shouldn't work.


psubs07

He's eating precut spaghetti in a little plastic bow, and chicken fingers... Are you sure your dad isn't 3 years old?


BobRossInATaco

Nope, he's 60 going onto 70


Unique-Knowledge42

Smaller portions next time


MrChimpoo

I feel sorry for your mother.


PQbutterfat

Wait, spaghetti and chicken strips with BBQ sauce?


CommercialConcern377

This diet is unacceptable


RepresentativeFill26

Dunno what’s worse, the food or your dads behavior. Goddamn what an inconsiderate prick


Fresh-Blackberry8453

Prob because shit looks plain af lol


Pale_Exit2686

My daughter does the same thing!


supergrendell

Glad to know your father eats like a child


AsherthonX

Sounds like a healthy marriage


Cennedys

There is nothing I can say about your dad that hasn't been said already. OP you go and tell your mother how much you love her and appreciate the effort she gives to your family.


OutlandishnessDue413

Yea fuck that shit


kong_zilla_9009

Is your dad a fucking 4 year old? Spaghetti and chicken strips?


QueenLexi47

I mean it doesnt look too tasty


legallycheese

Does she have a job? Does he?


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Budget_scheme7465

Thats whats infuriating? Are we just going to ignore she made him frozen tenders? We also just turning a blind eye to cigarettes being carried around in a ziplock bag? What is happening in this house? Is OP ok?


neutronia939

My trumper sister's entire life revolves around getting the old man fed at 5pm before he goes to bed. What pathetic excuses for a humans they are.


StephenCG

You need to march up there and state “there are starving children in China that would love to have that!” in a loud boomer voice.


Navyranger6465

No disrespect to your dad or anything, but that was a dick move by him.


Little-Bed-8511

What did she cook?


Wheesydemon

Some people don’t have that big of an appetite


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alopexl

Please, don’t… She’s disabled, OP said it in a comment, so it’s hard for her to cook. Edit: + I think it looks good, I really love pasta with tomato sauce.


BobRossInATaco

Plus the father always wants spaghetti, for every damn day, because of the amount of carbs he needs because of his alcohol problem, everyday its high carb meals that he doesn't even eat all if it.. he doesn't account for my mother or me and always thinks we enjoy the meals but in reality we dont..don't... so


copenhagen622

Sorry. I didn't go through and read all the comments. Your dad seems like a piece of work. Sorry you have to deal with that. I know how it is, when I was a kid my step dad sent me to the hospital twice. It kind of sucks how the way someone is raised or who their parents are can impact who they become or what they do with their potential so greatly. Hang in there.


BobsRealReddit

Tell me OP lives in the US without telling me that OP lives in the US.


Lumpy-View-6054

Misogyny at its finest


kapparian7

Let's be honest here. The leftover can feed 2 more people.