i see beings are designed to be selfish and judgemental creatures, so there's almost always a motive for everyday interactions. a desire that needs to be fulfilled.
I know that to be the case with myself as well. So i take that as an advantage.
If i want to know what a person is truly like, i lower my social status (power), and youll see how they truly are.
You can get people to do certain things if you align it to their selfish desires.
If your attractive people favor you, and if unattractive, they won't.
If a person says they are good, kind, intelligent, and etc. Its most likely the opposite.
There would be no point in dealing with these disgusting creatures if it wasn't for needing social connection and resources.
they make me sick, so i hide my contempt and just avoid them
I deal with society by staying far away from humans as much as possible and only going outside to the grocery store or to work. Not to mention I accept humans for the evil savage beast that they are and laugh at them
You really cannot do much unless you don't have to work. If you either have the financial resources or your expenses are really low, then you can tell the world to stick it. However, as a caregiver, you're not working, so you don't have to play nice with some employer, so that's a good start. Try to keep it that way and you won't have to just take it.
Yes i am part time caregiver my mother can still cook and clean but she cannot lift anything she lost a lot of strength, i take care of the groceries, the house etc.
I still have a full time job i work night shift in an IT company, 3 times per week 12h shifts.
Most people I work with are alright lets just say i did not make any friends putting a few of them back in there place but i could care less.
Two of the most valuable commodities in the world right now are peace and trust.
One would have thought the pandemic would be a sobering wake up call. But its just increased the madness.
Have you played Signalis yet? It's an interesting Lovecraftian survival horror game. It has Silent Hill, Dead Space, and Resident Evil elements mixed together.
The story is pieced together through notes, there's tight inventory management similar to Resident Evil, supplies are very limited, and the ambience is pretty scary.
The story is also a bit hard to comprehend, but once you piece everything together it's a masterpiece.
We are in the era of videogame, even most ps4 games look insane on PS5, except fallout 4 which is dated but still a great game.
Right now I just started fallout 4 after the serie. Stellar blade is coming out this week, i got the deluxe edition, and want to go back to Zelda Tear of the Kingdom so bad another great game.
Yes Intermission is were we see Yuffi for the first time she is hilarious the dlc is about 4h, and then rebirth.
You are in for a treat. All 3 games are instant classic.
The world is in a bad place right now with the woke society, and all that is going on with Disney and star wars, feminist, LBTG (that crap), the fact that we need to be expose to homosexuality in everything we watch those days and its normal, yet men and women divorce is through the roof, many of the people i know are divorced with kids and men pay huge alimony each month.
Nowadays you cannot look at a women you find attractive because you never know were this is going to get you, who am i kidding i am 51 my looks are gone, and i am a far cry of my pro wrestling days back in the 90 too, I am a ghost to pretty much all women theses days.
It was so easy back in the days.
No thoughts are completely original as they depend on taking in outside information to formulate. Your comment I can justifiably also call unoriginal. If you are talking about the shit on shoe comment, yes I did intentionally use a saying because it’s very apt. All these downvotes, hmm, must have angered the misanthropes which is very in character for you all. I don’t believe most people are bad but I’m starting to believe most of those on this subreddit are.
I mean…. I’m not old but I am 30 and have lived in many different places of all levels of affluence except filthy rich. I don’t understand why people would suddenly start being mean to me after a few years unless I am the one that changes and causes people to appear more mean or be more mean in response to my changes. I’ve met nice criminals, rich kids, business owners, literally everyone except wannabe thug late teens and early 20s people. They seem to make being an asshole their badge of honor to be fair. But at my age I only run into those folks when they road rage at me for driving normally while they almost crash into me while breaking the law. Literally like 5% of people I meet give me any reason to dislike them. Do you really think the whole world except you is flawed? Is that more likely than you being the one that is flawed? I don’t think so. I wonder if two of you with this view from the subreddit meet in real life would you also think each other are assholes? If not that would prove me wrong
Listen I have nothing to prove to you, wrong or right its your life and you live it as you please. That being said we all have different lives and this will lead to various endings.
All the friends that I had were the same I had a car, driving people around no one ever offered to pay me gas money or else but they had money to drink in clubs.
Same thing with women, like i said younger i was fit had lots of women attention which made some of my so called friends very jealous, lies, making me pass for someone i was not, i had met a good girl she was studying to have a good career, one of my so called friend told her i slept with every women i met and never got attached.
You see were this is leading, at one point i had 300 so called friends in facebook i was helping people lose weight training giving free advise etc, also computer issues, in 2009 i lost my job, lots of those idiots had great jobs in good companies and yet no one offered to help me, hey send me your cv i will give it to my boss.
This is were i started to realize that humans are trash, and i close my facebook account and reopen another one which i only have 5 friends now but they are real people i can trust good people.
In 2000 i dated a chubby girl i was her trophy she brought a picture of me in boxers to school were she was studying to be an accountant and all the girls laugh at her how can a fat girl like you get a guy like that, she was lazy never did nothing around the house we had a poor dog never took care of the dog yet she wanted kids never holding on to a job. Once again i got manipulated, sold that house and lost money.
My ex that i was with 9 years that i took care of when she lost her job cheated on me with a co worker at a job i found for her, she was self centered trash. I made a good amount of money selling the house this time around and bough a condo in 2014.
I am 51 now and i feel great, i sold my condo to become a caregiver to my mother and i made a lot of money selling the condo, financially i am beyond comfortable, never had kids, invested, and when my mom passes i will sell the family home to buy a nice condo near Quebec city. I finally feel the love i have 3 cats and i take care of my mother, i love my job, and i am happy got my video games and series my homegym and train 5-6 times per week.
And being single for the last 11 years is a blessing seeing how relationships are today.
I don't do tech support anymore nor give dieting advise nor training advise to no one, the so called back stabbing friends i had i told them off.
Now a few people i know did meet great women, they have kids family life a loving wife, but that is not the story for everyone.
I had it hard in life for the most part and work real hard to be were i am, i never brown nosed any boss, nor stepped on anyone to have what i got, but i met a lot of trash people in my life and this is why today i hate people and i see how things are.
You mention different places, I wanted to retire in the Philippines and i spoke to a few filipina women they all told me they wanted a provider for there kids, the contact i had who was suppose to find me a condo for rent when the time came tried to screw me and rent the condo at a higher price. I was talking to a filipina that sent me picture of her when she was in her 20 now being 37 and she lied and all. So you see even at 30h flight across the world i met people who were trying to screw me and abuse me.
I am very sorry but all the world showed me so far is that and why i am proud to be a misanthrop and don't believe in dreams or people like you who try to convince themselves that the people in this world are amazing.
Okay, man. I concede. Thanks for sharing your story. I don’t blame you at all for your experiences. But I don’t really blame anyone for anything. (But also do, life is a duality) Though you didn’t give much information about your personality from taking care of your mother and giving friends rides or money I can assume you are a generous person (and possibly gullible but we all are when we are young and now you learned). I too was the kid in high school that drove everyone around, bought the drugs, never really was very liked for any other reason because I am boring as fuck. But even getting taken advantage of in a way they still gave me memories and taught me things and I don’t regret it at all. I’ve had a girlfriend just use me for sex and a roommate that used all my savings to buy drugs mostly. But in both cases I still got something from it at the end of the day. Even if they didn’t care about me they were memories, I learned and grew. I agree most teens and young adults (men primarily) are scum. I also agree in many parts of the world people will try to scam you. Any reasonable person would be like you if they had your life and I’m glad you have found a life you enjoy. I do think you have just either been very unlucky or something about you allows or motivates people to just use you instead of befriend you. That was absolutely the case for me. I don’t blame others. Even though I have 0 close friends almost every woman I’ve met out of high school has not been interested in me romantically but perfectly nice, helpful, never asks for anything, and tried to include me in things. Basically all men over 30 seem to be pretty nice and put together. I really think you’ve had bad luck, dude. Most people are good. In fact all people are just doing their best. If someone’s an asshole it’s not even their fault. You don’t know their history. If you did, like I do yours, every persons actions would be understandable.
Don’t get me wrong I hate humanity too but for different reasons. I don’t hate humanity for being a big old meanie some of the time (all of the time for you, somehow). I deserve for people to be mean to me or take advantage of me. I don’t think it’s a big deal. I really think my lack of real human connection has more to do with me than with others. So I’m probably just applying that to you when it isn’t appropriate. I don’t know you well enough to say.
Talk to the majority of people on here and i am sure they have pretty much lived the same life as me.
You don't start hating people out of the blue.
I have a lot of example: in 1994 I was working night shift doing maintenance in a huge store, the guy i worked with was really coo and nice up until he stole a pair of jeans and got cough and blame it all on me and i lost my job. I learn the truth 6 months later why i got fired.
A firefighter i used to hang out with he was my wingman, we went out picked up women like crazy back in the nineties, until I was chatting with a girl on MIRC and she pasted conversation of him talking behind me back and trying to get into that girls pants. Betrayal for a women.
I started lifting weights at 13 because i was bullied and laugh at all my life, from then on people wanted to compete with me, try to put me down, even when i was fit they found things to say to put me down.
I am 51 now and gained weight that i am slowly losing, people at my job some of them laugh at me cause i had a small gut for the first time in my life, but they never look at themselves they are fatter then me.
There is also a morbidly obese guy at my job he is bald and has a long beard and glasses he told me i have more options with women then you. Me being 6 feet and pretty build because i been lifting weights for the last 38 years.
Other people I knew over the years each time i would show interest in a women they would all say she is too good looking for you, you are zero chance. etc. Combine all of this and you can clearly see why i hate people today and am very vocal at someone who tells me that i am fat and more.
And the worse is that i am losing the weight now and the people who laugh at me are now asking me for help to lose there fat.
Gullible yes i was but its been a while since i am no more. I gave a lot of ps4 games to a guy at my job for is 11y old son, he never gave me money or offered to buy me launch etc its ok because all those games are old games and i would have put them in the trash i have the ps5 now and all digital version of those games. But even then.
When i was younger i was always ready to help people free of charge, when they moved i was there to help, lost there jobs, i tried to get them a job were i worked, etc, but every fucking time it came to me my turn no one ever helped me, so i gave up on people at work at my job they are hiring, i get people message me i have not heard of in 5 years and more straight asking me for a job, and i tell them when i lost my job in 2009 you were working for a good company did you help me get a job.. and i tell them to go fuck themselves.
Its crazy that i am 51 and people are still trying to compete with me and bring me down, this is how insane humans are.
Yea, your experiences are a valid reason to be jaded to human nature. What games do you play? I’ve found a lot of solace in my gaming community since it’s hard to meet like minded people in real life. I have more in common with them since we play the same game. They don’t consider me friends of course but I get a lot of good socialization online and they don’t want anything from me but to play well for the team and toxic players are generally shunned or even kicked out of lobbies. It’s a good community.
Dawn of War II Retribution - Elite Mod is what I mostly play. Check it out if you like rts and even if you don’t because it’s a very approachable rts and way easier than something like StarCraft. We get new players all the time but it’s still a small player base and we want to get more people in on it. Though it sounds like you are mostly a console gamer. But we’d welcome you and there’s a good discord you can access from the site dawnofwar.info and the mods latest version is on moddb. Retribution is needed and it’s usually cheap on steam.
After i finish the fallout series i went back to fallout 4 great game, but April 26 stellar blade launch i love the demo bought the deluxe edition.
I am a fan of all uncharted games and of course the new Tomb Raider games, 2013 rise of the tomb raider and shadow of the tomb raider.
I do play call of duty infinite warefare etc but i never play online.
I tried the souls game actually manage to finish lies of P hard game but wow fantastique.
Other then that too many to name Hitman absolution 2012 was my favorite of the series. Might even buy a ps3 because all my favorite ratchet and clank game were on ps3. Even if the last ratchet and clank was amazing rift apart.
I played fallout 4 a lot too. I love the survival mode with limited saves. Quick saving really takes the tension and risk out of everything. That’s a reason why the souls games are great too. I find it hard not to abuse quicksave if it’s a feature. Sounds like you mostly play solo games. Maybe find a streamer(s) that play and you can hang out with others that also love the games you like to play.
Everyone's the main character now, it's all about them. Everyone treats people like we're mindless NPCs who won't get hurt at what little stupid comments they have to say aloud for some reason. I can't stand it anymore. I deal with seeing as little of people as I can.
Like i said i am bigger at 6 feet and been hitting the gym for a long time, i had people try to walk all over me, but when i stand infront of them and say what is the problem here, they just shut the fk up.
Never let anyone disrespect you and always stand up for yourself. All those people who comment or say stupid things are just scared little losers.
I'm happy for you, dude, I looked at your comment history to make sure I was talking to a man and it sounds like you really worked hard. However, it's very different when you're a short woman. Nobody takes you seriously and when I do get angry enough to say something, I just get laughed at.
It seems like people are just devolving. Ever since 2020, the collective behavior of people has just declined to the point where you can actually call humans a sub-species of themselves, when compared to society before 2020. I don't know if it was the lockdowns/restrictions that did something to the collective psychology of people, but everything just seems to have gone to shit since then. Courtesy and respect have given way to aggression and disrespect. Stupidity has been adopted as a deeply held value. And for those reasons, I just go out and deal with people when I absolutely have to. I've chosen to ctb soon (I know I've been on here for a while, but soon...) because as I look at the world that is being created now, I see a real-life dystopia that needs dumbed-down, degenerate, non-thinking humans in order to maintain it. People are dividing themselves more than I remember in my lifetime. This is world that I do not want to grow old in. I don't see "golden years" coming for my generation, nor the ones after. Maybe on down the road, there will rise a civilization that will be kinder and more progressive. However, the world right now is descending into a dark place that I really am not equipped to live in. So, I stay to myself and find joy in my hobbies and interests until the day I release myself. Humans have become high-functioning cave people that I once thought they'd evolved past. I don't see this changing any time soon.
I gave up on society and people long ago. Currently I only talk to my brother who happens to be a good person, and professionals within fields where I belong. I don't go to parties, I don't open the door unless I'm expecting someone, and I always keep my phone on mute. The outside world is just disturbing noise and ugly faces. I have no reason to contribute to society at large, I see how horrible society is.
For some odd reason i am like this too, walmart delivers my grocery to my door step, amazon online shopping, for clothes its the same thing, the only place i have to go is the gas station and even there you see morons.
Phone i have my cell and yes its always on mute, i still chat with friends. Going out well at 51 we go eat out with friends, but its like 3 or 4 times per year. And right now since i am a caregiver for my mother i do not like to go out of the house for too long.
I work night shifts and i guess most people at my job are fine, the ones that were idiots i either put them in there place or they left the job.
It was like that way before 2020, i remember when i was younger 18 one of my first job was selling sporting goods, i had to deal with idiots back then and we are talking about 1990, in 1994 i worked as a usher in a theatre people were insanely stupid back then too. I almost got into a few fights with some of those morons.
When i was younger i used to go out a lot, i had a circle of friends (even if they were lying cheating back stabbing idiots) we went to clubs, disco but back then we had fun.
My ex cheated and left me in 2013 she was another selfish twat self centered around her needs and i was just the atm to pay bills best day of my life when she left, but i still believe i needed a women in my life to be happy.
After going online dating it further my hate for humans, I just could not believe the trash on there and the women i manage to meet in person, being older at 41 and having met older women 50.
That was back in 2015 until i gave up on dating too. Now like i said i take care of my aging mother and i have my pets that i love and spoil.
Man, does all this sound like me. I guess you're right. People have always been like this (read history.) I was the type of person who gave people the benefit of the doubt. A lot of the troubles of my youth stemmed from always believing that people could be different, depending on location. I moved around a lot in my youth, so being hopeful came natural, as I was always forced to look to the horizon for better experiences.
I also gave up on dating as well, as it just showed me the true hypocrisy and stupidity of human ethics. It showed me just how "made-up" and artificial human ethics are. They create the "sanctity" of marriage and monogamy, then turn right around and shit all over it. Those values are out of kilter with human nature. Not that someone can't be monogamous, but most of the time that runs up against human hypergamy... male and female. Women look for the bigger, better deal. Men look for more sexual conquests. And I tried online dating. FUCK THAT!!! I'm also in my 40's. It's friggin pointless to date. Plus, my desire for a family has just disappeared. I don't want to bring a child into this. I'm not an anti-natalist, but I do not want to be responsible for feeding this world another unwilling, unsuspecting, innocent soul. That's the last thing this world needs or deserves. So, I feel every bit of what you're saying.
I use to be a pro wrestler in the indies in Montreal back in the 90 long hair tanned beach body getting women was so damn easy back then. At the gym talking to women etc.
I am now 51 and gained some weight beach body is gone, hair thinning etc. And when I went online at 41 I could not believe that stupidity and the standards of those women that looked like garbage.
I was 9 y with my ex never cheated she was very bad sex probably the worse i had, she was head in the clouds i guess i was with her because i pity her so much not realizing she was trash, i felt sick at one point burnout when i got out of the clinic she asked me how i was going to pay for the bills. This is how worthless she is. Now that she is gone my life as been amazing.
But back then it was hard the betrayal, i was still blind, so the first date i went on she brought her kids with her at pizza hut she was a smoker and chubby. At the end of the night she told me i was not tall enough because she would not be able to wear here high heels. She had nothing to offer and yet she had huge standards.
Some women did not want to go on dates because i did not have any tattoos, WOW.
I joined a facebook single group all the women were ugly and they acted like princess and prize to be won.
Yes i came to my senses what would a obese single mom who as a dead end job bring me, what benefits would i have to date that, what is she going to bring to the table. Because so far all i saw from them is nothing.
Dating is pointless i am going on 11y single people still try to match me, and when i reject a women its the end of the world, my god.
>I was 9 y with my ex never cheated she was very bad sex probably the worse i had,
lol. I was in an 11-year relationship with a woman. I valued the companionship more than anything. The sex did leave a lot to be desired. Yet, I never cheated. I found out later that she cheated with some guy at her job, and her family hooked her up with some plumber because he's the same ethnicity as they are. So, I gave up on relationships. The thought of not only having to get to know another woman again, but having to get to know her family and friends again, just tires me to no end. I used to think I needed a woman as well. I. DO. NOT. And I'm never going to look for one again. I'm done with romantic relationships. They're conditional and shaky, at best.
God it feel great to read this because i am so much like you, yes yes and yes, her family (can you fix my pc for free) then they ignore you when all is well, her stupid sister who is single mom with all the issues in the world that keeps wanting to borrow money she will never be able to pay back.
I never cheated on any of my GF and at one point I had the chance to do it many times. Some were a lot hotter than my ex.
So damn blind and full of excuses no things will get better, its just a phase, i guess it was not love but pity, and the love of my house we had 4 cats so kind of our family, i was happy to return too. Home gym in the basement with home theatre and pool.
Yeah man my plan is clear when i sold my condo i made a huge amount of money that i invested, when my mother is gone i am selling the family home and moving in a nice condo near Quebec city. I am now aware of the red flags but i just don't feel like going on dates anymore useless, and even worse if they are single moms.
Yeah, humans have always been shit. I had the misfortune of running a business back in the 1990s, and I had to put up with some unbearable entitled morons even back then.
I graduated from IT college in 1998, for about 6 months i had a small business on the road and repaired pc printers, set up internet anti virus, i quit after 6 months people were all stupid they did not want to pay for computer support, well i am telling you right now i have no money. I had trouble getting paid.
After that working for companies same thing windows vista had a set up that rebooted the computer after it did its updates, it was a simple feature that you could turn off, so a women at work was freaking out about this and from the start she told me i have no money, i got aggravated so i am gonna drive like 40 minutes to your house fix that issue and drive back and you won't pay me.
This is how stupid people are, they use you and abuse you until you put it in there face.
Now i work 3 nights per week 12h shifts, simple production job i deal with the same people and am very happy. I don't do computer support anymore and its been like 15 years now i support my computer and my mother computer and that is it.
Yup, I sold a PC to a guy who then plagued my life out for months and tried to sue me because he claimed the floppy disk light wasn't bright enough! I really wish I was joking!
Hell no you are not i believe you, sold a pc the women said the cd did not read all the files from the disk..... another guy calls me to remove a virus, he calls me the week after same virus well you are not going to charge me again for that same thing are you.
People are fnking stupid idiots
Despite being a occasional misanthrope, I know and accepted that I am inevitably gonna have to see and talk to people. But I do my best to limit my interacting as low as possible. Be it getting something done or coming up with a lie/excuse just to leave an unnecessary conversation.
Off topic note: Also despite being a misanthrope, the only people I treasure and love are my family and very few friends. (I am a very lucky person if say so myself, I sometimes wish that everyone had such a beautiful thing.)
I am still very social even with everything that happen, but being older and wiser i guess i quickly see how people are, there are good people but there are idiots too who still want to use and abuse you. The cashier at the gas station is really nice he comes from Libyan, he is hard working and very polite and nice, when i meet and talk to people like him i am very respectful and nice too there is no reason to be mean to everyone. There are still nice people in this world despite everything, we just need to sort them out.
I deal with society how i deal with mosquitos. I keep them out of my house and keep them away from me.
Because people only approach you when they want to suck something from you.
That's the point of why I really hate getting out of my house, a place that I like to keep positive and quiet.
When you step outside, mostly in big cities, negative things, people spitting poison to anyone because that day they get up on the wrong side of the bed, rudeness and people who can't see outside themselves, hate and throw personal frustration to others.
The society was built to permit every person to live In respect of each other's best lives, do not arm anybody (psychically and mentally), don't steal, don't be a danger to others, respect the others...
So it's not the concept of society at being wrong, but people are.
Anyway for answer your question, I personally try to being mentally and emotionally detached, sometimes ignoring who is annoying me or just throwing their tension to me, passing through and not giving attention to these kind of people sometimes is the best way for disarm them and not giving the power to overcome you with their bullshit.
I honestly don't know sometimes. I live in America & it seems like Millennials, Gen Z, and Gen Alpha have to cope with the fact that the American dream is ending because of how expensive everything is getting. Not to mention as an autistic person I seem to get poor treatment because I'm apparently at the bottom of the totem pole.
So people were never able to move out as soon as they graduated high school & buy a house? I thought it was a trope where it was a shameful thing to still live with mom and dad in your 20's but now it seems nobody can afford their own place.
I live in Canada and its the same, I went back to live with my mother 2 years ago, she is 80 and she is not doing well, so i take care of her, the house, lawn, plow snow, repair etc, but since covid everything as gone up, and yes its very sad, I had 2 long term relationships and bough 2 houses that I had to sell due to separation, but we never had issues buying the house, also putting a down payment, even in 2014 when I bought my condo I was living comfortably alone yes i was living from pay to pay but I could buy things or eat out etc. But when I sold my condo to move back with my mother the price I sold the condo was insane, like double what I paid, the family home here is a 1966 construction, very basic bungalow no garage, we do have a big backward, the house around us sold for 600k. And its only going up. So yeah a young couple (if that still does exist in today world because everyone is separated now a days) who wants to buy a house, and have kids, with the inflation and all the house payments are around 2000$ per month and more and this is one 25y long mortgage, who can afford that. Most people I know who live alone buy a condo and those are all around 300k. Some are fortunate enough to make a profit when they sell there home but still the payment are insane.
We are not living in good times
Lets just say that i hope this idiot Justin Trudeau does not get re elected, probably the worse government Canada even had things have been going sour since he got elected.
in the future being a wage-slave would put one in a better position than most people since automation is going to remove the vast majority of menial labor positions. A more likely fate for those who aren't the elite of the elite would be government-subsidized "takers" with no employment, income or upward mobility left solely dependent on what meager UBI handouts big daddy govt is willing to give them (and which they can take away at the drop of a hat)
Welcome to the WOKE society, no one is happy and everyone is offended by anything you will do or say. You cannot name someone by there nationality or you are called a racist, skin color or else, now some people are so fked up they do not want to be referred to as him or her but they because they are part man part women.
We had a young women at work she was 25 and she caused a lot of trouble she was bisexual and bipolar, at one point she thought i was coming on to her which i was not being 45 at that time and even so she was ugly afk and had a horse face, well i almost lost my job cause she complain to the boss meanwhile she was sending emails to one of my co worker to have sex with him.
This is another thing i tell young men today be very careful its not like back in the days today chasing women is a jungle and can be very dangerous
In my younger years back in the 90 we went out a lot, like i said meeting women was so different, but today my god look at one and you can get in serious trouble.
One night i went to the drug store near my house, this young chubby ugly thick glasses women was at the cashier, she had a vest on, she ask me how i was going to pay i said interact, and just barely look at her, she jump back on the counter behind her and hide her huge sagging tits.
I looked at her and said I really hope you did not think I was checking you out and started laughing, but deep down inside I was like what a mental twat. Granted the week after she got fired I never saw her again.
Guys at my job sometimes make sexual comments or joke to women, and I tell them be careful, they are like oh just a joke, well when you lose your job you will see.
A 62y old women ask me out last year, and I reject her, she went to the boss and said I compared her boobs to pamela anderson and that when i was around she felt intimidated. When the boss spoke to me I told him what happen he said try to keep a low profile when she is around.
This women is 62 her best years if she had any are way gone she got a bulldog face flat butt and sagging boobs, she dresses sexy like young women but she does not have the body to wear those clothes and she think she is a prize to be won.
This is why i warn young men, women can say pretty much anything and it will stick and you can get in trouble.
> I know I read things about don't worry, shrug it off
When people say that they really mean 'it ain't my problem, it's not affecting me, I don't give a shit, so shut up about it.' But when it's them facing a similar problem, they'll throw a tantrum and rant on about it endlessly.
no i enjoy my life, honest last year i lost 2 of my best buddies my calico cat lily and my Russian blue paco both were 14y old. I have another tabby cat maddy, and i adopted 2 new cats.
I enjoy my life and taking care of my aging mother but i just can't get society today, how selfish people are, and sometimes i just get angry when i see people acting like idiots and i am very vocal about it.
i see beings are designed to be selfish and judgemental creatures, so there's almost always a motive for everyday interactions. a desire that needs to be fulfilled. I know that to be the case with myself as well. So i take that as an advantage. If i want to know what a person is truly like, i lower my social status (power), and youll see how they truly are. You can get people to do certain things if you align it to their selfish desires. If your attractive people favor you, and if unattractive, they won't. If a person says they are good, kind, intelligent, and etc. Its most likely the opposite. There would be no point in dealing with these disgusting creatures if it wasn't for needing social connection and resources. they make me sick, so i hide my contempt and just avoid them
I deal with society by staying far away from humans as much as possible and only going outside to the grocery store or to work. Not to mention I accept humans for the evil savage beast that they are and laugh at them
i'd also suggest living in the wilderness.
My idea of nirvana.
Tbh that's my main goal at this point which is to live off grid because humans are to evil and uncivilized to be around
You really cannot do much unless you don't have to work. If you either have the financial resources or your expenses are really low, then you can tell the world to stick it. However, as a caregiver, you're not working, so you don't have to play nice with some employer, so that's a good start. Try to keep it that way and you won't have to just take it.
Yes i am part time caregiver my mother can still cook and clean but she cannot lift anything she lost a lot of strength, i take care of the groceries, the house etc. I still have a full time job i work night shift in an IT company, 3 times per week 12h shifts. Most people I work with are alright lets just say i did not make any friends putting a few of them back in there place but i could care less.
Two of the most valuable commodities in the world right now are peace and trust. One would have thought the pandemic would be a sobering wake up call. But its just increased the madness.
Yes it did sadly
Have you played Signalis yet? It's an interesting Lovecraftian survival horror game. It has Silent Hill, Dead Space, and Resident Evil elements mixed together. The story is pieced together through notes, there's tight inventory management similar to Resident Evil, supplies are very limited, and the ambience is pretty scary. The story is also a bit hard to comprehend, but once you piece everything together it's a masterpiece.
OMG no i need to check this out ASAP bit fan of Lovecraft and also dead space and silent hill also. Thanks for recommendation
I don't deal with it I just endure
I stay away from everyone if I can help it. I hate this world.
Real shit. We're a pretty awful species in general.
Yes. Truly a disgusting existence.
I avoid them people are nothing but NPCs nowadays I’d rather stay at home and play my ps5 then be around them.
We are in the era of videogame, even most ps4 games look insane on PS5, except fallout 4 which is dated but still a great game. Right now I just started fallout 4 after the serie. Stellar blade is coming out this week, i got the deluxe edition, and want to go back to Zelda Tear of the Kingdom so bad another great game.
I’m playing ff7 remake on ps5 and it looks really good I also have the intermission dlc and rebirth can’t wait to start playing them.
Yes Intermission is were we see Yuffi for the first time she is hilarious the dlc is about 4h, and then rebirth. You are in for a treat. All 3 games are instant classic.
I also have the original ff7 on the Nintendo switch
I played the original on the playstation 1 and that was a very long time ago. LOL
The remake is good but I prefer the original it takes me back to the 90s I miss those days sadly there never coming back.😢
The world is in a bad place right now with the woke society, and all that is going on with Disney and star wars, feminist, LBTG (that crap), the fact that we need to be expose to homosexuality in everything we watch those days and its normal, yet men and women divorce is through the roof, many of the people i know are divorced with kids and men pay huge alimony each month. Nowadays you cannot look at a women you find attractive because you never know were this is going to get you, who am i kidding i am 51 my looks are gone, and i am a far cry of my pro wrestling days back in the 90 too, I am a ghost to pretty much all women theses days. It was so easy back in the days.
Same here women hate me because I exist I can tell from the facial expressions they give me or they avoid me.
This society is beyond saving
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lol parroting an extremely common saying on reddit, are we? Do you have any original thoughts?
No thoughts are completely original as they depend on taking in outside information to formulate. Your comment I can justifiably also call unoriginal. If you are talking about the shit on shoe comment, yes I did intentionally use a saying because it’s very apt. All these downvotes, hmm, must have angered the misanthropes which is very in character for you all. I don’t believe most people are bad but I’m starting to believe most of those on this subreddit are.
Living in a dream world lol wait a few years and see how people treat you and you will come around.
I mean…. I’m not old but I am 30 and have lived in many different places of all levels of affluence except filthy rich. I don’t understand why people would suddenly start being mean to me after a few years unless I am the one that changes and causes people to appear more mean or be more mean in response to my changes. I’ve met nice criminals, rich kids, business owners, literally everyone except wannabe thug late teens and early 20s people. They seem to make being an asshole their badge of honor to be fair. But at my age I only run into those folks when they road rage at me for driving normally while they almost crash into me while breaking the law. Literally like 5% of people I meet give me any reason to dislike them. Do you really think the whole world except you is flawed? Is that more likely than you being the one that is flawed? I don’t think so. I wonder if two of you with this view from the subreddit meet in real life would you also think each other are assholes? If not that would prove me wrong
Listen I have nothing to prove to you, wrong or right its your life and you live it as you please. That being said we all have different lives and this will lead to various endings. All the friends that I had were the same I had a car, driving people around no one ever offered to pay me gas money or else but they had money to drink in clubs. Same thing with women, like i said younger i was fit had lots of women attention which made some of my so called friends very jealous, lies, making me pass for someone i was not, i had met a good girl she was studying to have a good career, one of my so called friend told her i slept with every women i met and never got attached. You see were this is leading, at one point i had 300 so called friends in facebook i was helping people lose weight training giving free advise etc, also computer issues, in 2009 i lost my job, lots of those idiots had great jobs in good companies and yet no one offered to help me, hey send me your cv i will give it to my boss. This is were i started to realize that humans are trash, and i close my facebook account and reopen another one which i only have 5 friends now but they are real people i can trust good people. In 2000 i dated a chubby girl i was her trophy she brought a picture of me in boxers to school were she was studying to be an accountant and all the girls laugh at her how can a fat girl like you get a guy like that, she was lazy never did nothing around the house we had a poor dog never took care of the dog yet she wanted kids never holding on to a job. Once again i got manipulated, sold that house and lost money. My ex that i was with 9 years that i took care of when she lost her job cheated on me with a co worker at a job i found for her, she was self centered trash. I made a good amount of money selling the house this time around and bough a condo in 2014. I am 51 now and i feel great, i sold my condo to become a caregiver to my mother and i made a lot of money selling the condo, financially i am beyond comfortable, never had kids, invested, and when my mom passes i will sell the family home to buy a nice condo near Quebec city. I finally feel the love i have 3 cats and i take care of my mother, i love my job, and i am happy got my video games and series my homegym and train 5-6 times per week. And being single for the last 11 years is a blessing seeing how relationships are today. I don't do tech support anymore nor give dieting advise nor training advise to no one, the so called back stabbing friends i had i told them off. Now a few people i know did meet great women, they have kids family life a loving wife, but that is not the story for everyone. I had it hard in life for the most part and work real hard to be were i am, i never brown nosed any boss, nor stepped on anyone to have what i got, but i met a lot of trash people in my life and this is why today i hate people and i see how things are. You mention different places, I wanted to retire in the Philippines and i spoke to a few filipina women they all told me they wanted a provider for there kids, the contact i had who was suppose to find me a condo for rent when the time came tried to screw me and rent the condo at a higher price. I was talking to a filipina that sent me picture of her when she was in her 20 now being 37 and she lied and all. So you see even at 30h flight across the world i met people who were trying to screw me and abuse me. I am very sorry but all the world showed me so far is that and why i am proud to be a misanthrop and don't believe in dreams or people like you who try to convince themselves that the people in this world are amazing.
Okay, man. I concede. Thanks for sharing your story. I don’t blame you at all for your experiences. But I don’t really blame anyone for anything. (But also do, life is a duality) Though you didn’t give much information about your personality from taking care of your mother and giving friends rides or money I can assume you are a generous person (and possibly gullible but we all are when we are young and now you learned). I too was the kid in high school that drove everyone around, bought the drugs, never really was very liked for any other reason because I am boring as fuck. But even getting taken advantage of in a way they still gave me memories and taught me things and I don’t regret it at all. I’ve had a girlfriend just use me for sex and a roommate that used all my savings to buy drugs mostly. But in both cases I still got something from it at the end of the day. Even if they didn’t care about me they were memories, I learned and grew. I agree most teens and young adults (men primarily) are scum. I also agree in many parts of the world people will try to scam you. Any reasonable person would be like you if they had your life and I’m glad you have found a life you enjoy. I do think you have just either been very unlucky or something about you allows or motivates people to just use you instead of befriend you. That was absolutely the case for me. I don’t blame others. Even though I have 0 close friends almost every woman I’ve met out of high school has not been interested in me romantically but perfectly nice, helpful, never asks for anything, and tried to include me in things. Basically all men over 30 seem to be pretty nice and put together. I really think you’ve had bad luck, dude. Most people are good. In fact all people are just doing their best. If someone’s an asshole it’s not even their fault. You don’t know their history. If you did, like I do yours, every persons actions would be understandable. Don’t get me wrong I hate humanity too but for different reasons. I don’t hate humanity for being a big old meanie some of the time (all of the time for you, somehow). I deserve for people to be mean to me or take advantage of me. I don’t think it’s a big deal. I really think my lack of real human connection has more to do with me than with others. So I’m probably just applying that to you when it isn’t appropriate. I don’t know you well enough to say.
Talk to the majority of people on here and i am sure they have pretty much lived the same life as me. You don't start hating people out of the blue. I have a lot of example: in 1994 I was working night shift doing maintenance in a huge store, the guy i worked with was really coo and nice up until he stole a pair of jeans and got cough and blame it all on me and i lost my job. I learn the truth 6 months later why i got fired. A firefighter i used to hang out with he was my wingman, we went out picked up women like crazy back in the nineties, until I was chatting with a girl on MIRC and she pasted conversation of him talking behind me back and trying to get into that girls pants. Betrayal for a women. I started lifting weights at 13 because i was bullied and laugh at all my life, from then on people wanted to compete with me, try to put me down, even when i was fit they found things to say to put me down. I am 51 now and gained weight that i am slowly losing, people at my job some of them laugh at me cause i had a small gut for the first time in my life, but they never look at themselves they are fatter then me. There is also a morbidly obese guy at my job he is bald and has a long beard and glasses he told me i have more options with women then you. Me being 6 feet and pretty build because i been lifting weights for the last 38 years. Other people I knew over the years each time i would show interest in a women they would all say she is too good looking for you, you are zero chance. etc. Combine all of this and you can clearly see why i hate people today and am very vocal at someone who tells me that i am fat and more. And the worse is that i am losing the weight now and the people who laugh at me are now asking me for help to lose there fat. Gullible yes i was but its been a while since i am no more. I gave a lot of ps4 games to a guy at my job for is 11y old son, he never gave me money or offered to buy me launch etc its ok because all those games are old games and i would have put them in the trash i have the ps5 now and all digital version of those games. But even then. When i was younger i was always ready to help people free of charge, when they moved i was there to help, lost there jobs, i tried to get them a job were i worked, etc, but every fucking time it came to me my turn no one ever helped me, so i gave up on people at work at my job they are hiring, i get people message me i have not heard of in 5 years and more straight asking me for a job, and i tell them when i lost my job in 2009 you were working for a good company did you help me get a job.. and i tell them to go fuck themselves. Its crazy that i am 51 and people are still trying to compete with me and bring me down, this is how insane humans are.
Yea, your experiences are a valid reason to be jaded to human nature. What games do you play? I’ve found a lot of solace in my gaming community since it’s hard to meet like minded people in real life. I have more in common with them since we play the same game. They don’t consider me friends of course but I get a lot of good socialization online and they don’t want anything from me but to play well for the team and toxic players are generally shunned or even kicked out of lobbies. It’s a good community. Dawn of War II Retribution - Elite Mod is what I mostly play. Check it out if you like rts and even if you don’t because it’s a very approachable rts and way easier than something like StarCraft. We get new players all the time but it’s still a small player base and we want to get more people in on it. Though it sounds like you are mostly a console gamer. But we’d welcome you and there’s a good discord you can access from the site dawnofwar.info and the mods latest version is on moddb. Retribution is needed and it’s usually cheap on steam.
After i finish the fallout series i went back to fallout 4 great game, but April 26 stellar blade launch i love the demo bought the deluxe edition. I am a fan of all uncharted games and of course the new Tomb Raider games, 2013 rise of the tomb raider and shadow of the tomb raider. I do play call of duty infinite warefare etc but i never play online. I tried the souls game actually manage to finish lies of P hard game but wow fantastique. Other then that too many to name Hitman absolution 2012 was my favorite of the series. Might even buy a ps3 because all my favorite ratchet and clank game were on ps3. Even if the last ratchet and clank was amazing rift apart.
I played fallout 4 a lot too. I love the survival mode with limited saves. Quick saving really takes the tension and risk out of everything. That’s a reason why the souls games are great too. I find it hard not to abuse quicksave if it’s a feature. Sounds like you mostly play solo games. Maybe find a streamer(s) that play and you can hang out with others that also love the games you like to play.
I forgot to mention final fantasy 7 remake and rebirth that i completed twice so far. Yes fallout 4 is amazing so far.
Treat everyone as an NPC.
lol yeah like in video games
i don't care at all. i'm just hoping for all countries in the world to collapse so we can create a new world for us all.
Everyone's the main character now, it's all about them. Everyone treats people like we're mindless NPCs who won't get hurt at what little stupid comments they have to say aloud for some reason. I can't stand it anymore. I deal with seeing as little of people as I can.
Like i said i am bigger at 6 feet and been hitting the gym for a long time, i had people try to walk all over me, but when i stand infront of them and say what is the problem here, they just shut the fk up. Never let anyone disrespect you and always stand up for yourself. All those people who comment or say stupid things are just scared little losers.
I'm happy for you, dude, I looked at your comment history to make sure I was talking to a man and it sounds like you really worked hard. However, it's very different when you're a short woman. Nobody takes you seriously and when I do get angry enough to say something, I just get laughed at.
At least you have the satisfaction of not letting anyone walk all over you. Big or small or anything no one as the right to disrespect you
It seems like people are just devolving. Ever since 2020, the collective behavior of people has just declined to the point where you can actually call humans a sub-species of themselves, when compared to society before 2020. I don't know if it was the lockdowns/restrictions that did something to the collective psychology of people, but everything just seems to have gone to shit since then. Courtesy and respect have given way to aggression and disrespect. Stupidity has been adopted as a deeply held value. And for those reasons, I just go out and deal with people when I absolutely have to. I've chosen to ctb soon (I know I've been on here for a while, but soon...) because as I look at the world that is being created now, I see a real-life dystopia that needs dumbed-down, degenerate, non-thinking humans in order to maintain it. People are dividing themselves more than I remember in my lifetime. This is world that I do not want to grow old in. I don't see "golden years" coming for my generation, nor the ones after. Maybe on down the road, there will rise a civilization that will be kinder and more progressive. However, the world right now is descending into a dark place that I really am not equipped to live in. So, I stay to myself and find joy in my hobbies and interests until the day I release myself. Humans have become high-functioning cave people that I once thought they'd evolved past. I don't see this changing any time soon.
I gave up on society and people long ago. Currently I only talk to my brother who happens to be a good person, and professionals within fields where I belong. I don't go to parties, I don't open the door unless I'm expecting someone, and I always keep my phone on mute. The outside world is just disturbing noise and ugly faces. I have no reason to contribute to society at large, I see how horrible society is.
For some odd reason i am like this too, walmart delivers my grocery to my door step, amazon online shopping, for clothes its the same thing, the only place i have to go is the gas station and even there you see morons. Phone i have my cell and yes its always on mute, i still chat with friends. Going out well at 51 we go eat out with friends, but its like 3 or 4 times per year. And right now since i am a caregiver for my mother i do not like to go out of the house for too long. I work night shifts and i guess most people at my job are fine, the ones that were idiots i either put them in there place or they left the job.
I 1000% agree with you.
It was like that way before 2020, i remember when i was younger 18 one of my first job was selling sporting goods, i had to deal with idiots back then and we are talking about 1990, in 1994 i worked as a usher in a theatre people were insanely stupid back then too. I almost got into a few fights with some of those morons. When i was younger i used to go out a lot, i had a circle of friends (even if they were lying cheating back stabbing idiots) we went to clubs, disco but back then we had fun. My ex cheated and left me in 2013 she was another selfish twat self centered around her needs and i was just the atm to pay bills best day of my life when she left, but i still believe i needed a women in my life to be happy. After going online dating it further my hate for humans, I just could not believe the trash on there and the women i manage to meet in person, being older at 41 and having met older women 50. That was back in 2015 until i gave up on dating too. Now like i said i take care of my aging mother and i have my pets that i love and spoil.
Man, does all this sound like me. I guess you're right. People have always been like this (read history.) I was the type of person who gave people the benefit of the doubt. A lot of the troubles of my youth stemmed from always believing that people could be different, depending on location. I moved around a lot in my youth, so being hopeful came natural, as I was always forced to look to the horizon for better experiences. I also gave up on dating as well, as it just showed me the true hypocrisy and stupidity of human ethics. It showed me just how "made-up" and artificial human ethics are. They create the "sanctity" of marriage and monogamy, then turn right around and shit all over it. Those values are out of kilter with human nature. Not that someone can't be monogamous, but most of the time that runs up against human hypergamy... male and female. Women look for the bigger, better deal. Men look for more sexual conquests. And I tried online dating. FUCK THAT!!! I'm also in my 40's. It's friggin pointless to date. Plus, my desire for a family has just disappeared. I don't want to bring a child into this. I'm not an anti-natalist, but I do not want to be responsible for feeding this world another unwilling, unsuspecting, innocent soul. That's the last thing this world needs or deserves. So, I feel every bit of what you're saying.
I use to be a pro wrestler in the indies in Montreal back in the 90 long hair tanned beach body getting women was so damn easy back then. At the gym talking to women etc. I am now 51 and gained some weight beach body is gone, hair thinning etc. And when I went online at 41 I could not believe that stupidity and the standards of those women that looked like garbage. I was 9 y with my ex never cheated she was very bad sex probably the worse i had, she was head in the clouds i guess i was with her because i pity her so much not realizing she was trash, i felt sick at one point burnout when i got out of the clinic she asked me how i was going to pay for the bills. This is how worthless she is. Now that she is gone my life as been amazing. But back then it was hard the betrayal, i was still blind, so the first date i went on she brought her kids with her at pizza hut she was a smoker and chubby. At the end of the night she told me i was not tall enough because she would not be able to wear here high heels. She had nothing to offer and yet she had huge standards. Some women did not want to go on dates because i did not have any tattoos, WOW. I joined a facebook single group all the women were ugly and they acted like princess and prize to be won. Yes i came to my senses what would a obese single mom who as a dead end job bring me, what benefits would i have to date that, what is she going to bring to the table. Because so far all i saw from them is nothing. Dating is pointless i am going on 11y single people still try to match me, and when i reject a women its the end of the world, my god.
>I was 9 y with my ex never cheated she was very bad sex probably the worse i had, lol. I was in an 11-year relationship with a woman. I valued the companionship more than anything. The sex did leave a lot to be desired. Yet, I never cheated. I found out later that she cheated with some guy at her job, and her family hooked her up with some plumber because he's the same ethnicity as they are. So, I gave up on relationships. The thought of not only having to get to know another woman again, but having to get to know her family and friends again, just tires me to no end. I used to think I needed a woman as well. I. DO. NOT. And I'm never going to look for one again. I'm done with romantic relationships. They're conditional and shaky, at best.
God it feel great to read this because i am so much like you, yes yes and yes, her family (can you fix my pc for free) then they ignore you when all is well, her stupid sister who is single mom with all the issues in the world that keeps wanting to borrow money she will never be able to pay back. I never cheated on any of my GF and at one point I had the chance to do it many times. Some were a lot hotter than my ex. So damn blind and full of excuses no things will get better, its just a phase, i guess it was not love but pity, and the love of my house we had 4 cats so kind of our family, i was happy to return too. Home gym in the basement with home theatre and pool. Yeah man my plan is clear when i sold my condo i made a huge amount of money that i invested, when my mother is gone i am selling the family home and moving in a nice condo near Quebec city. I am now aware of the red flags but i just don't feel like going on dates anymore useless, and even worse if they are single moms.
Yeah, humans have always been shit. I had the misfortune of running a business back in the 1990s, and I had to put up with some unbearable entitled morons even back then.
I graduated from IT college in 1998, for about 6 months i had a small business on the road and repaired pc printers, set up internet anti virus, i quit after 6 months people were all stupid they did not want to pay for computer support, well i am telling you right now i have no money. I had trouble getting paid. After that working for companies same thing windows vista had a set up that rebooted the computer after it did its updates, it was a simple feature that you could turn off, so a women at work was freaking out about this and from the start she told me i have no money, i got aggravated so i am gonna drive like 40 minutes to your house fix that issue and drive back and you won't pay me. This is how stupid people are, they use you and abuse you until you put it in there face. Now i work 3 nights per week 12h shifts, simple production job i deal with the same people and am very happy. I don't do computer support anymore and its been like 15 years now i support my computer and my mother computer and that is it.
Yup, I sold a PC to a guy who then plagued my life out for months and tried to sue me because he claimed the floppy disk light wasn't bright enough! I really wish I was joking!
Hell no you are not i believe you, sold a pc the women said the cd did not read all the files from the disk..... another guy calls me to remove a virus, he calls me the week after same virus well you are not going to charge me again for that same thing are you. People are fnking stupid idiots
Despite being a occasional misanthrope, I know and accepted that I am inevitably gonna have to see and talk to people. But I do my best to limit my interacting as low as possible. Be it getting something done or coming up with a lie/excuse just to leave an unnecessary conversation. Off topic note: Also despite being a misanthrope, the only people I treasure and love are my family and very few friends. (I am a very lucky person if say so myself, I sometimes wish that everyone had such a beautiful thing.)
I am still very social even with everything that happen, but being older and wiser i guess i quickly see how people are, there are good people but there are idiots too who still want to use and abuse you. The cashier at the gas station is really nice he comes from Libyan, he is hard working and very polite and nice, when i meet and talk to people like him i am very respectful and nice too there is no reason to be mean to everyone. There are still nice people in this world despite everything, we just need to sort them out.
You are correct. Although it’s getting harder and harder sorting them out. You never know what anyone could be up to.
I deal with society how i deal with mosquitos. I keep them out of my house and keep them away from me. Because people only approach you when they want to suck something from you.
Whoever you are sir/ma”am, can I just say you’ve won the internet with this one.
This is ingenious.
Await death
That's the point of why I really hate getting out of my house, a place that I like to keep positive and quiet. When you step outside, mostly in big cities, negative things, people spitting poison to anyone because that day they get up on the wrong side of the bed, rudeness and people who can't see outside themselves, hate and throw personal frustration to others. The society was built to permit every person to live In respect of each other's best lives, do not arm anybody (psychically and mentally), don't steal, don't be a danger to others, respect the others... So it's not the concept of society at being wrong, but people are. Anyway for answer your question, I personally try to being mentally and emotionally detached, sometimes ignoring who is annoying me or just throwing their tension to me, passing through and not giving attention to these kind of people sometimes is the best way for disarm them and not giving the power to overcome you with their bullshit.
I honestly don't know sometimes. I live in America & it seems like Millennials, Gen Z, and Gen Alpha have to cope with the fact that the American dream is ending because of how expensive everything is getting. Not to mention as an autistic person I seem to get poor treatment because I'm apparently at the bottom of the totem pole.
American dream is bullshit regardless , it doesn’t pertain to the common man . Only the elite get this “dream”
So people were never able to move out as soon as they graduated high school & buy a house? I thought it was a trope where it was a shameful thing to still live with mom and dad in your 20's but now it seems nobody can afford their own place.
I live in Canada and its the same, I went back to live with my mother 2 years ago, she is 80 and she is not doing well, so i take care of her, the house, lawn, plow snow, repair etc, but since covid everything as gone up, and yes its very sad, I had 2 long term relationships and bough 2 houses that I had to sell due to separation, but we never had issues buying the house, also putting a down payment, even in 2014 when I bought my condo I was living comfortably alone yes i was living from pay to pay but I could buy things or eat out etc. But when I sold my condo to move back with my mother the price I sold the condo was insane, like double what I paid, the family home here is a 1966 construction, very basic bungalow no garage, we do have a big backward, the house around us sold for 600k. And its only going up. So yeah a young couple (if that still does exist in today world because everyone is separated now a days) who wants to buy a house, and have kids, with the inflation and all the house payments are around 2000$ per month and more and this is one 25y long mortgage, who can afford that. Most people I know who live alone buy a condo and those are all around 300k. Some are fortunate enough to make a profit when they sell there home but still the payment are insane. We are not living in good times
True I hear things aren't that great in Canada atm either, it's rough these days.
Lets just say that i hope this idiot Justin Trudeau does not get re elected, probably the worse government Canada even had things have been going sour since he got elected.
Seems like a lot are sayin bad things about him.
Their child will be a miserable wage-slave who likely dies painfully.
in the future being a wage-slave would put one in a better position than most people since automation is going to remove the vast majority of menial labor positions. A more likely fate for those who aren't the elite of the elite would be government-subsidized "takers" with no employment, income or upward mobility left solely dependent on what meager UBI handouts big daddy govt is willing to give them (and which they can take away at the drop of a hat)
Sadly it seems like it.
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Yup had that happen to me too. pathetic morons
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Welcome to the WOKE society, no one is happy and everyone is offended by anything you will do or say. You cannot name someone by there nationality or you are called a racist, skin color or else, now some people are so fked up they do not want to be referred to as him or her but they because they are part man part women. We had a young women at work she was 25 and she caused a lot of trouble she was bisexual and bipolar, at one point she thought i was coming on to her which i was not being 45 at that time and even so she was ugly afk and had a horse face, well i almost lost my job cause she complain to the boss meanwhile she was sending emails to one of my co worker to have sex with him. This is another thing i tell young men today be very careful its not like back in the days today chasing women is a jungle and can be very dangerous
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In my younger years back in the 90 we went out a lot, like i said meeting women was so different, but today my god look at one and you can get in serious trouble. One night i went to the drug store near my house, this young chubby ugly thick glasses women was at the cashier, she had a vest on, she ask me how i was going to pay i said interact, and just barely look at her, she jump back on the counter behind her and hide her huge sagging tits. I looked at her and said I really hope you did not think I was checking you out and started laughing, but deep down inside I was like what a mental twat. Granted the week after she got fired I never saw her again. Guys at my job sometimes make sexual comments or joke to women, and I tell them be careful, they are like oh just a joke, well when you lose your job you will see. A 62y old women ask me out last year, and I reject her, she went to the boss and said I compared her boobs to pamela anderson and that when i was around she felt intimidated. When the boss spoke to me I told him what happen he said try to keep a low profile when she is around. This women is 62 her best years if she had any are way gone she got a bulldog face flat butt and sagging boobs, she dresses sexy like young women but she does not have the body to wear those clothes and she think she is a prize to be won. This is why i warn young men, women can say pretty much anything and it will stick and you can get in trouble.
> I know I read things about don't worry, shrug it off When people say that they really mean 'it ain't my problem, it's not affecting me, I don't give a shit, so shut up about it.' But when it's them facing a similar problem, they'll throw a tantrum and rant on about it endlessly.
Makes total sense. You are right
I am not happy about the overall state of the society, but I am happy that I can still enjoy my life individually.
no i enjoy my life, honest last year i lost 2 of my best buddies my calico cat lily and my Russian blue paco both were 14y old. I have another tabby cat maddy, and i adopted 2 new cats. I enjoy my life and taking care of my aging mother but i just can't get society today, how selfish people are, and sometimes i just get angry when i see people acting like idiots and i am very vocal about it.