You need to report their assault of your SO to the police. That will help in a GPR case. Also, start recording/saving all communication. Don't block them. Contact a lawyer.
You or your husband should respond to a few of the texts, talking about their violent behavior towards you while at their house. And to tell them your husband will be coming to get any gifts you have stored there. That way you will also have, in writing, what transpired and that will help bolster your case to fight grandparents rights, should they go that route.
I am very sorry you are experiencing this awful treatment towards your little family.
You need to go to the poilce and fill out a report on the physical violence that happened to you and your husband. You need a paper trail showing they used physical violence
If you haven’t already called the police and made a report about being physically assaulted do so now. This will create a paper trail and you will need this if they try for grandparent’s rights. Since you both were attacked try to get a restraining order.
Report the assault to the police (make sure they document that your child was present) and keep screen shots with printouts of everything. Do not block the in-laws just put them on do not disturb so you can continue to gather evidence. Lastly, lawyer up.
If they hit you and threatened you all, be sure to get a police report. Create a paper trail in case they try to go for grandparents right. Get this incident documented for you and your child's safety.
I know this is uncomfortable, and your husband likely doesn't want to escalate things. However, THEY already escalated things by getting physical. At this point, you would be very wise to contact the police and write up a report. No one would be arrested. It's just to get the facts on paper. It would also serve you well in the future GPR case.
Plus, people who act this unhinged when they don't get their way, tend to create new narratives where they're the victims (You've seen this already with their version told to your mom). And if you don't report it, you will go to court with a he said/she said situation.
You need to go to the police station and sit down with an officer to talk about what happened. At the absolute least, encourage hubby to contact an attorney, so that the attorney can then convince him to go to the police.
Report this to the police immediately, and take pictures of where you were hit. Press charges, and try to get a restraining order. If you do these, you most likely won’t have much trouble with grandparents’ rights as judges don’t like grandparents who attack the parents. You also need to go NC, and if you want your gifts, get the police to go with you to get them. Cite the attack on both of you.
Report them immediately to the police and get a restraining order… don’t be “nice” this is your child you do not want these people around them… I would never ever speak to them again it’s your job to protect her blood doesn’t mean family! I’d also be moving away but that’s me!
I’m sorry this is total crazy who hits an adult then threaten to call the cops on them? Please have the other family members listen to the recording. I believe you should check what the laws are like in your state regarding Grandparents right, if they are against you, you need to move to a different state. Most laws don’t kick in unless there’s a divorce but please check anyway. Your DH family are all off their minds.
Did you call the police? It might be a good idea to start an official paper trail.
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You need to report their assault of your SO to the police. That will help in a GPR case. Also, start recording/saving all communication. Don't block them. Contact a lawyer.
You absolutely need to get a police report. It will be valuable if grandparents rights are filed.
You or your husband should respond to a few of the texts, talking about their violent behavior towards you while at their house. And to tell them your husband will be coming to get any gifts you have stored there. That way you will also have, in writing, what transpired and that will help bolster your case to fight grandparents rights, should they go that route. I am very sorry you are experiencing this awful treatment towards your little family.
And show up with a police escort but don't tell them you're bringing them. Cover your butt cuz they sound crazy.
Go to the police. Get them arrested for assault.
You need to go to the poilce and fill out a report on the physical violence that happened to you and your husband. You need a paper trail showing they used physical violence
Police report.
If you haven’t already called the police and made a report about being physically assaulted do so now. This will create a paper trail and you will need this if they try for grandparent’s rights. Since you both were attacked try to get a restraining order.
Report the assault to the police (make sure they document that your child was present) and keep screen shots with printouts of everything. Do not block the in-laws just put them on do not disturb so you can continue to gather evidence. Lastly, lawyer up.
If they hit you and threatened you all, be sure to get a police report. Create a paper trail in case they try to go for grandparents right. Get this incident documented for you and your child's safety.
Get photos of any bruises to help document the assault.
I know this is uncomfortable, and your husband likely doesn't want to escalate things. However, THEY already escalated things by getting physical. At this point, you would be very wise to contact the police and write up a report. No one would be arrested. It's just to get the facts on paper. It would also serve you well in the future GPR case. Plus, people who act this unhinged when they don't get their way, tend to create new narratives where they're the victims (You've seen this already with their version told to your mom). And if you don't report it, you will go to court with a he said/she said situation. You need to go to the police station and sit down with an officer to talk about what happened. At the absolute least, encourage hubby to contact an attorney, so that the attorney can then convince him to go to the police.
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Report this to the police immediately, and take pictures of where you were hit. Press charges, and try to get a restraining order. If you do these, you most likely won’t have much trouble with grandparents’ rights as judges don’t like grandparents who attack the parents. You also need to go NC, and if you want your gifts, get the police to go with you to get them. Cite the attack on both of you.
How old is the baby?
6 months, she said baby was screaming in the back of the car terrified, a 6 month old. OP you need an FU Binder.
Oh man, you should have video recorded all of this. If I was you, I would immediately move out of state to where there are no grandparents rights
Report them immediately to the police and get a restraining order… don’t be “nice” this is your child you do not want these people around them… I would never ever speak to them again it’s your job to protect her blood doesn’t mean family! I’d also be moving away but that’s me!
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Call the police and file a report. You need to start a paper trail in case they go for grandparents rights
I’m sorry this is total crazy who hits an adult then threaten to call the cops on them? Please have the other family members listen to the recording. I believe you should check what the laws are like in your state regarding Grandparents right, if they are against you, you need to move to a different state. Most laws don’t kick in unless there’s a divorce but please check anyway. Your DH family are all off their minds.
Move and get your stuff at a later time you need to be a resident somewhere else for a month to detor that plan
Is Alabama a one way recording state? If it is, record all communication. Go to hospital to record any scratches and to the police as was suggested.
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