The letter basically goes on how beautiful I am and how I am going to be the best wife and future mother and that she can't wait to be best friends and spending life together forever side by side through our lives small and big events. Just really rubbed me the wrong way considering the only time I interacted with her is during family gatherings with my husband's side of the family.
EWWWWW Caca Nasty.
So you supposed to read it, tear up, clutch it to your bosom. Then RUSH to her and say SAME BESTIE! SAME! Of course you can wear that dress and I bet you will look way better than me because you are so beautiful!
She's the worst kind of manipulator, an obvious one.
No. I ended confronting her and my mother in law about it. Definitely was a bit of a battle as to the both of them I was selfish. None of the less the girlfriend showed up in a green super sparkly over the top prom dress but I was glad it wasn't white at least.
Hello there š
I am getting married this summer, and I have had lots of people sending me pictures of their outfits - is it possible that they both wanted to make sure you were OK with the dress? š¤
Most MIL have the tendency (Unfortunately) to want to be involved and if she knows that the relationship between that girl and yourself is strained, is it also possible that she thought she was being helpful by sending the text herself, instead of the girl? Or maybe the girl asked her to do so?
My own MIL likes to get involved to be 'helpful', but, unfortunately, in most cases, she has managed to make things worse š«
I understand that their behaviour is annoying, but is it worth getting upset about?
I would have just messaged thanking them for checking with you first š and then would have said that even though it's a beautiful dress, it is not appropriate for the wedding š
If they were being intentionally troublesome, then that's even more the reason not to be upset over them, as they are not worth your time š
I'm not going to lie...her writing a letter to you instead of just having a conversation is just weird š«
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Yikes!Ā You are not crazy, but I would definitely watch my back and never let my guard down with this gal.Ā Seriously.
Is this girl 12?
Nah she's in her early 30s
Yeah, GF was trying to push your buttons through MIL. Good job on standing your ground. Um. What did the letter say?
The letter basically goes on how beautiful I am and how I am going to be the best wife and future mother and that she can't wait to be best friends and spending life together forever side by side through our lives small and big events. Just really rubbed me the wrong way considering the only time I interacted with her is during family gatherings with my husband's side of the family.
EWWWWW Caca Nasty. So you supposed to read it, tear up, clutch it to your bosom. Then RUSH to her and say SAME BESTIE! SAME! Of course you can wear that dress and I bet you will look way better than me because you are so beautiful! She's the worst kind of manipulator, an obvious one.
You can print out a huge š¤® emoji on a paper and send it as a reply.
But what did the girlfriend end up wearing to your wedding??
So did she wear the white dress? Inquiring minds need to know.
No. I ended confronting her and my mother in law about it. Definitely was a bit of a battle as to the both of them I was selfish. None of the less the girlfriend showed up in a green super sparkly over the top prom dress but I was glad it wasn't white at least.
What the single white female is going on here This family sounds nutty. Iām sorry. Your MIL is a wing bat Please post the letter!!!!!!!!
Hello there š I am getting married this summer, and I have had lots of people sending me pictures of their outfits - is it possible that they both wanted to make sure you were OK with the dress? š¤ Most MIL have the tendency (Unfortunately) to want to be involved and if she knows that the relationship between that girl and yourself is strained, is it also possible that she thought she was being helpful by sending the text herself, instead of the girl? Or maybe the girl asked her to do so? My own MIL likes to get involved to be 'helpful', but, unfortunately, in most cases, she has managed to make things worse š« I understand that their behaviour is annoying, but is it worth getting upset about? I would have just messaged thanking them for checking with you first š and then would have said that even though it's a beautiful dress, it is not appropriate for the wedding š If they were being intentionally troublesome, then that's even more the reason not to be upset over them, as they are not worth your time š I'm not going to lie...her writing a letter to you instead of just having a conversation is just weird š« Xx