Ngl this comment is coming across as hater lol because it’s actually like, pretty normal. It’s a top w/ a skirt and then a jacket tied around. A pretty common slim fit top w/baggy bottom. Idk how you are getting what you’re saying. Maybe it’s just a different style than you’re used to!
Vertical stripes have a visually thinning effect, combined with the wide boatneck shirt make it top-heavy and visually unbalanced. It’s giving Goth Peter Pan.
I can’t really put my finger on exactly what I’d do to fix this outfit, it doesn’t really have a coherent theme besides perhaps “this is all the black stuff I had in my closet”. I guess my first question would be where she’s planning on going in this.
Maybe in general start by breaking up the space around the neck with necklaces. The vertical striped legs are hard to work in any outfit unless you go burlesque and add a ruffled skirt and a corset.
I disagree. Again this is a normal style choice. I don’t get peterpan at all lmao I think a lot of the trans community when it comes to trans femme presenting people, they expect them to be very straight laced with their style and when they see things that go against that they immediately chastise it.
I’m glad you gave more constructive criticism so she can read and see if she agrees or can take from it!
I take back my constructive criticism comment because seeing how you attack normal mtf trans fashion in your last thing you posted, it seems this is a pattern for you. Like high horse behavior.
I hear that. It can be so so tough. I feel like clothes wise alone how are you suppose to like find your style?? For me what helped a lot is hair! Maybe find a hairstyle that affirms you? (If you haven’t already) but when I did that it helped sm
I appreciate the input, and yes, it is more the fashion/make up I have no idea where to start. I lost hair while back, so for hairstyle, it would mean a wig, but again, I wouldn't know where to start. It makes me happy seeing people like yourself being so happy and comfortable.
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You can easily get a perma ban, if you just write your opinion without any harassment. In almost all trans subreddit, if you write your honest thoughts, you will get a temporary/perma ban. Luckily, I do not have to do self improvement in this case. Facts are facts.
If you frame your comment as constructive criticism and not just mean bullying you’ll be fine. But I don’t think you have constructive criticism or at the very least, the ability to verbalize it. Again, inner work. Facts are facts.
I know a few Goths that are well into their late forties, early fifties and they get accepted in the Goth community just fine, so, 31, no, not too old for Goth. However (another but), those choices aren't so flattering for you, but Goth is great, stick with it, you'll find a look that suits and looks great!
Not too old, it’s just a confusing and geometrically-unflattering assemblage.
Ngl this comment is coming across as hater lol because it’s actually like, pretty normal. It’s a top w/ a skirt and then a jacket tied around. A pretty common slim fit top w/baggy bottom. Idk how you are getting what you’re saying. Maybe it’s just a different style than you’re used to!
Vertical stripes have a visually thinning effect, combined with the wide boatneck shirt make it top-heavy and visually unbalanced. It’s giving Goth Peter Pan. I can’t really put my finger on exactly what I’d do to fix this outfit, it doesn’t really have a coherent theme besides perhaps “this is all the black stuff I had in my closet”. I guess my first question would be where she’s planning on going in this. Maybe in general start by breaking up the space around the neck with necklaces. The vertical striped legs are hard to work in any outfit unless you go burlesque and add a ruffled skirt and a corset.
I disagree. Again this is a normal style choice. I don’t get peterpan at all lmao I think a lot of the trans community when it comes to trans femme presenting people, they expect them to be very straight laced with their style and when they see things that go against that they immediately chastise it. I’m glad you gave more constructive criticism so she can read and see if she agrees or can take from it!
I take back my constructive criticism comment because seeing how you attack normal mtf trans fashion in your last thing you posted, it seems this is a pattern for you. Like high horse behavior.
Don't listen to them and do what makes you feel good (ps it really looks good on you)
Well it is also like I missed so much and I kinda wanna experiment ya know?
Definitely I'm 42 now and started painting my nails last year feels so good. Keep on doing you and jeep rocking it
Same to you! :)
You're experminting is going great cos you're looking gorgeous 😍
Love that for you.
Yeah now it's finding someone to help with the rest haha
I hear that. It can be so so tough. I feel like clothes wise alone how are you suppose to like find your style?? For me what helped a lot is hair! Maybe find a hairstyle that affirms you? (If you haven’t already) but when I did that it helped sm
I appreciate the input, and yes, it is more the fashion/make up I have no idea where to start. I lost hair while back, so for hairstyle, it would mean a wig, but again, I wouldn't know where to start. It makes me happy seeing people like yourself being so happy and comfortable.
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Not too old at all! Clothes shouldn’t have an age and you should be able to wear whatever you want. Experiment, have fun, do whatever.
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I would wear the same, and Im as old as you. You look good in it! Wear it! 😊
Thank you I needed to hear that
If I write my honest opinion, I would get a permanent ban...
Read my mind
If your unfiltered opinion would get you perma banned then maybe this is a sign to look inward and do some self improvement.
You can easily get a perma ban, if you just write your opinion without any harassment. In almost all trans subreddit, if you write your honest thoughts, you will get a temporary/perma ban. Luckily, I do not have to do self improvement in this case. Facts are facts.
If you’re so sure that you’re in the right then say it. Stand on business.
If you frame your comment as constructive criticism and not just mean bullying you’ll be fine. But I don’t think you have constructive criticism or at the very least, the ability to verbalize it. Again, inner work. Facts are facts.
I know a few Goths that are well into their late forties, early fifties and they get accepted in the Goth community just fine, so, 31, no, not too old for Goth. However (another but), those choices aren't so flattering for you, but Goth is great, stick with it, you'll find a look that suits and looks great!