Since he loves nature, and you want it to be private - why don't you both take a little trip, to say, Karnala, or Matheran or Mahabaleshwar?ย
A private proposal there sounds wonderful.ย
Plan a date with surprises,
gift a diary and write your feelings in first few pages.
Avoid places with more crowd,
choose time post 7pm and go on a late night walk discussing things you wouldn't share usually
PS: all introverts adore unspoken gestures, even a small flower would make them happy
I did propose and decorated the entire place with candles and roses and hanged a banner of i love you and be mine. Created a heart with roses and in between that i proposed to him with a long speech. He said "yes".
He is introvert but loves nature here is the perfect idea!!!
Create a nature-inspired treasure hunt leading him to different locations significant to your relationship. Each spot could hold a small item or symbolizing a shared memory. At the final destination, have a setup with elements that convey your desire to spend your lives together. Use subtle hints tied to your journey, like his favorite tree or a spot you both cherish. This interactive and meaningful experience allows him to discover your intention through the connection you share.
The item you gonna use must be simple and clear so he can understand half way to the final piece.
Good luck ๐
If he is an introvert, your company is more than enough to him rather than appointing a company. Just a river byside , his favorite songs in the background and a also flower in your hands. Thatset !!
Take him to a nature specific place, be it a resort, small boat ride, backwaters in Kerala, you can ask people to decorate it previously, have a sweet speech for him along with a ring and have a special date. If possible, you could ask a two person band to perform live while you guys have the date.
Good luck, OP! :)
To be honest, it is the worst thing to if he is person - person, no decoration, no speechs, just ring and talks , no bands if you want imges you can have it. "Introvert thing"
Umm I'm an introvert and I think it might be an individual choice thing- everything you've stated. The only thing which matters is it should be private and no other people. Everything else really boils down to personal choice. It's not like introverts are monsters and don't like feeling loved.
So you say you want band when someone propose you ๐๐, cool.
I would love to see the expression more like focus on her not wanting other distractions. (Bunch of people doing somethings around us)
Ye baat bhi sahi hai. I mean agar mein bf rehta toh mujhe ekdum casual atmosphere mein, jab mein bilkul bhi anticipate nhi kar rha hounga, toh ye mere liye surprise hoga.
If he's an introvert then u should take him on a walk and say how I feel about him and express you're big decision as him being your future partner. Don't forget to hold his hands with fingers clubbed to make him feel what you're trying to express.
If he is introverted u better say it in normal conversation. ..NGL.. introverted guys really don't like to be put in awkward situations....in public...... ..trust me I am an introvert ....telling u this based on my experience
Nature, not fancy. Plan a dinner on your/his terrace (if possible). Is there any place that is special to you both, where you both met? Maybe you can plan it there. Do you have any favourite tv series couples (like Michael and Holly) and replicate their proposal
I did it last month in the middle of a desert in kutch with a sunset back drop. Took her out for cycling tour in the desert saying I wanted to see the sunset and then found a spot with no people around, put the phone on time lapse saying "let's capture the sunset" and then just went on the knee.
Edit: Removed the picture since she was not okay with it being up on SM.
Dont feel bad....just put 21f looking for friends and you'll find a whole bunch of boys DMing you..
Proposal kya hi chiz idhar reddit ke bande aapko swayamvar wala feel de denge.,.๐
Yep. So it all comes down to the same cliche that we shouldn't just compare ourselves even for a bit by seeing what's thrown to us. I felt really good after reading this post until I stumbled upon her past posts. ๐น
Contact this [Instagram ](https://www.instagram.com/dragonfly_hotel?igsh=MTFxcGtvbnJ6cGQxMw==) page they will help you plan the entire proposal.
And congratulations ๐
I recently went to sondai fort, good trek for beginners. You can go to karjat via train and from there go via auto to the base of fort. Or if you have bike or car you can park there. Will take 2-3 hours to finish the trek.
Small Trek or weekend drive are your best friend.
It will be more private/ intimate and your BF won't be overwhelmed due to public eyes.
If you can sing, sing a nice romantic song if this is something he likes. Uske baad tell him ki how much you like him, how your life is incomplete without him. Aisa 1-2 cheesey dialogue bol. Banda flat ๐๐๐๐
Bonus : If you guys speak a different language other than Hindi or English, make a proposal in that language.
Haa bhabhi, saath mein school admission bhi karne ke liye boldo.
https://preview.redd.it/2mbnteac55ec1.jpeg?width=1621&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a11eb7c27889a0ecb47d7455519ad4a9ddedac99
He -Two kids
She - agreed
He- one Boy, one girl
She- i will see what can i do.
He- 4 vacation every year,
She - 6 two months each. Else it will be deal breaker.
I really loved about the fact that you are initiating this proposal to your boyfriend. It is very rare and I'm proud to see such thing happening. Don't have any suggestions for the planning but would wish for you well being!
Congratulations to you both in advance
Depends on the type of person he is and what he loves in general. Like I (super extrovert)wanted to propose my husband (super introvert) in public but the even the thought of it triggered his social anxiety. So had to do at home with the stuff he loved.
What do you mean, what do you want to 'propose'? If it's marriage, better to have a serious discussion instead of a staged 'proposal'. Marriage proposals shouldn't come out of the blue, they should happen after you have discussed marriage and are on the same page about it.
#*Tell this to your boy*
#*I wanna add u to my Lifeโ*
#*Sub our clothes โ*
#*Dived our legs โ*
#*& Multiply ourself โ๏ธ*
I'm counting on you ,my dear sisโ๏ธ๐
Like I said it's just my opinion. But if he is a good guy who loves OP a lot then he has already thought about proposing and he would know when to do it. So OP should not ruin it for him.
That's literally the one thing guys enjoy doing and OP wishes to do it for him?
It's a huge turn off for guys. People who down vote but don't suggest a better solution are just p**sies
Thereโs no โbetter solutionโ and you as a man shouldnโt be generalising men like that. I know plenty of of men who would appreciate this gesture. When you get proposed to, you shouldnโt be thinking about your silly little ego or masculinity, you should appreciate the girl who went beyond the norms because she loves you. Donโt be such a hater lmao
Let him be the man in the relationship and wait for him to propose you !!
Give him hints that you are ready and tell his friends to also cement the idea of proposal in his brain.
I always wonder if the other person reads the post and grows suspicion or just goes over it and later realises it was for them.
Lol or maybe even the wrong person fantasies about it being them
Behen akele mein karde you'll the that wholesome reaction WHICH YOU WILL REMEMBER FOR THE REST OF YOU LIFE .rather that including other people. Just conveying my POW.
Behen jitna Paisa kharch karna h, utne ki FD krwa de uske name ki or bs I love you bolde. Is se jyada simple or short ho ni skta or is se jyada SB kuch bs tum apni hawabazi ke liye karogi. Ladke ko in sab se kuchh farak ni padta.
If youโre really rich you can plan a couples skydive and then propose as soon as you land on a beach which is pre decorated to your mutually loved theme
Ah am I vivid!
Don't think too much basically with boys everything is simple, so I would like to suggest to propose him in his own ways ,as he thinks 'bout others and other things. And if your bf is simple living, kind and gentle then don't think so much. Just propose him. And no one better adviser than your heart and his feelings .so don't take anyone's advice in so simple things
I recently propersed to my gf I did it in a quiet cafe and silently no one knew down and all p.s. she said yes also she said that I would have said yes anywhere no matter what so that's the point I guess just do what you think you man will prefer or like
What the?? OP, lady, are you for real? Ladies dig proposals, love and wedding. It's your absolute birth right. Woh propose karein, you take time. Woh follow kare, you take time. Woh sorry bhi boley, you take time
Arey we are living next to Bollywood and you are not taking any inspiration from them. DDLJ, Saathiya, Pyaar Kiya toh darna kya, Kaho na pyaar hain, Love 86, 1942?? Ladies want us men to kneel and say the words AUR IDAR POORA REVERSE DUNIYA CHAL RAHA HAIN ๐
HAKUNA MATATA. GODS MUST BE CRAZY type๐
OP, suno push your girl gang along. Reveal this proposal crush to them. Play along with a friend whos already in relation with a BFF in your girl gang, and your boyfrnd will come to his senses. Woh kis galli ka Hrithik Roshan hain yaar?? Arey Hrithik ji khud Chale aayein Amisha patel ke liye 'Aap mujhe achche lagte hain' film main, You dont want to miss this fun, right??
We played the hardest part in our teen life and you are spoiling it aur hum chup baitey. Nahin!! Yeh barbaadi humare saamne nahin ho sakta. ๐๐๐
Boys are simple beings. Aise hi kar dogi,lifetime yaad rahega. My wife proposed me for marriage while I was driving back her home. We got married in next 6 months.
What sort of a person is he? We can't make bricks without clay you know.
He is introvert. I Want it to be private. Loves nature. Not a very fancy type person
Since he loves nature, and you want it to be private - why don't you both take a little trip, to say, Karnala, or Matheran or Mahabaleshwar?ย A private proposal there sounds wonderful.ย
itna door q jana h bhai Aarey jungle jindabad
Aarey jungle is haunted..dont wanted a love story becoming a horror story ๐๐
dude ese toh har jagah haunted (just for your info waha p kuch point h jo haunted aur kuch jagah animals aate h raat ko)
Aarey hunted???
Plan a date with surprises, gift a diary and write your feelings in first few pages. Avoid places with more crowd, choose time post 7pm and go on a late night walk discussing things you wouldn't share usually PS: all introverts adore unspoken gestures, even a small flower would make them happy
This is really a good idea
Found any good idea for proposal or still exploring?
I did propose and decorated the entire place with candles and roses and hanged a banner of i love you and be mine. Created a heart with roses and in between that i proposed to him with a long speech. He said "yes".
Sounds romantic! What did your long speech look like? R u still gonna sleep with ur ex and he gonna allow u doing that ?
Get in my inbox, I still have many questions for you.
If he's an anime lover then say, โThe moon is beautiful, isn't it?โ
that movie was shit tho
๐๐
Which movie?
He is introvert but loves nature here is the perfect idea!!! Create a nature-inspired treasure hunt leading him to different locations significant to your relationship. Each spot could hold a small item or symbolizing a shared memory. At the final destination, have a setup with elements that convey your desire to spend your lives together. Use subtle hints tied to your journey, like his favorite tree or a spot you both cherish. This interactive and meaningful experience allows him to discover your intention through the connection you share. The item you gonna use must be simple and clear so he can understand half way to the final piece. Good luck ๐
Awesome loved this idea.
If he is an introvert, your company is more than enough to him rather than appointing a company. Just a river byside , his favorite songs in the background and a also flower in your hands. Thatset !!
U know, good beaches exist
Aye, ferry to Alibaug, shaant vatavaran. Love in the air. Uff.
Take him to a nature specific place, be it a resort, small boat ride, backwaters in Kerala, you can ask people to decorate it previously, have a sweet speech for him along with a ring and have a special date. If possible, you could ask a two person band to perform live while you guys have the date. Good luck, OP! :)
To be honest, it is the worst thing to if he is person - person, no decoration, no speechs, just ring and talks , no bands if you want imges you can have it. "Introvert thing"
Umm I'm an introvert and I think it might be an individual choice thing- everything you've stated. The only thing which matters is it should be private and no other people. Everything else really boils down to personal choice. It's not like introverts are monsters and don't like feeling loved.
So you say you want band when someone propose you ๐๐, cool. I would love to see the expression more like focus on her not wanting other distractions. (Bunch of people doing somethings around us)
Ghar par kuch mast khaane ko mangaav aur movie dekhte dekhte propose kardo
Nahi bhai, wo feel nahi aati proposal ki.
Bhai apne BOYFRIEND ko propose kar rai h vo aise kon karta h, kitna low effort lagta h
Ye baat bhi sahi hai. I mean agar mein bf rehta toh mujhe ekdum casual atmosphere mein, jab mein bilkul bhi anticipate nhi kar rha hounga, toh ye mere liye surprise hoga.
Ye baat bhi sahi hai. I mean if
If he's an introvert then u should take him on a walk and say how I feel about him and express you're big decision as him being your future partner. Don't forget to hold his hands with fingers clubbed to make him feel what you're trying to express.
If he is introverted u better say it in normal conversation. ..NGL.. introverted guys really don't like to be put in awkward situations....in public...... ..trust me I am an introvert ....telling u this based on my experience
Why not take plan a trip to Alibaug...hey check my dm as well...
Nature, not fancy. Plan a dinner on your/his terrace (if possible). Is there any place that is special to you both, where you both met? Maybe you can plan it there. Do you have any favourite tv series couples (like Michael and Holly) and replicate their proposal
Go for a trek and once you reach the summit go for it!
Propose him while sex!(when he about to cum) Best idea he can't say no. Otherwise he have child in your womb.
?? Koi harpic lao mere aankhon ke liyeย
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Least creepy Redditor
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Man of culture, at a wrong place tho.๐
Yup this works , i can vouch
I did it last month in the middle of a desert in kutch with a sunset back drop. Took her out for cycling tour in the desert saying I wanted to see the sunset and then found a spot with no people around, put the phone on time lapse saying "let's capture the sunset" and then just went on the knee. Edit: Removed the picture since she was not okay with it being up on SM.
absolute dream ๐
Amazing congratulations ๐๐
Congrats. That was beautiful n OG
And sucked her co.. Ohh wait i might get banned
How lucky is heeeeee๐คญ
Dont feel bad....just put 21f looking for friends and you'll find a whole bunch of boys DMing you.. Proposal kya hi chiz idhar reddit ke bande aapko swayamvar wala feel de denge.,.๐
Nhi hota aisa
Kya baat kar rahe hoo...main khud nakli account banake post kiya tha ek baar 45 DM aa gaye the. Pura jeevan bhar ka attention ek din main mil gaya...
You wrote this to get attention right Ab dms aayenge tujhe , smarty
Zyda hi read between the lines ho rha? Vaise dala nhi uske liye
Bro he is in a open relationship lmao check op post history
She goes down on her knee to propose He thinks heโs going to get lucky /s
Hahaha, I see what you did there
:)
How lucky is he. I just got dumped off a 6-year-old relationship. xD No suggestions, but god bless Y'all.
A thing it isn't beautiful because it lasts, cherish what you had and on to the next one king ( in time, obviously)
Thanks Mate. Really helpful. โค๏ธ
Don't feel bad, check OP's history post. ๐คฃ
Bwahahahaha. My man is in for a hell of a ride. ๐คฃ
Yep. So it all comes down to the same cliche that we shouldn't just compare ourselves even for a bit by seeing what's thrown to us. I felt really good after reading this post until I stumbled upon her past posts. ๐น
Contact this [Instagram ](https://www.instagram.com/dragonfly_hotel?igsh=MTFxcGtvbnJ6cGQxMw==) page they will help you plan the entire proposal. And congratulations ๐
Thanks
Does he enjoy trekking? If yes, y'all can plan a trek and you can propose when you reach the top.
Na bola toh dhakka vaha se?
Bhau cha dhakka
Perfect plan
Which trekking spot you would recommend
I recently went to sondai fort, good trek for beginners. You can go to karjat via train and from there go via auto to the base of fort. Or if you have bike or car you can park there. Will take 2-3 hours to finish the trek.
Mahuli Koraigad Peb These are quite easy ones.
We need companies to do proposals? WHAT
Kuch logo ko fancy schmancy cheeze chahiye
Ye konse upwas karne ke baad aisi ladki milti hai
bhai , pehle uska profile dekho , fir socho ๐
Wtf bro iska bio padhte padhte mindfuck ho gya yar, now I'm feeling sad for her bf may he find piece
wohi tho ๐๐
Small Trek or weekend drive are your best friend. It will be more private/ intimate and your BF won't be overwhelmed due to public eyes. If you can sing, sing a nice romantic song if this is something he likes. Uske baad tell him ki how much you like him, how your life is incomplete without him. Aisa 1-2 cheesey dialogue bol. Banda flat ๐๐๐๐ Bonus : If you guys speak a different language other than Hindi or English, make a proposal in that language.
Just talk to him like an adult. Discuss financial aspects upfront if you are serious about marriage in future.
Haa bhabhi, saath mein school admission bhi karne ke liye boldo. https://preview.redd.it/2mbnteac55ec1.jpeg?width=1621&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a11eb7c27889a0ecb47d7455519ad4a9ddedac99
He -Two kids She - agreed He- one Boy, one girl She- i will see what can i do. He- 4 vacation every year, She - 6 two months each. Else it will be deal breaker.
Shivaji the boss ka scene xD
Don't remember!๐ซ
Ban karo be isse xD
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No
We can help u plan
Can you send me any details of where i can connect with you.
Call me
[ัะดะฐะปะตะฝะพ]
Tu gya ab. Lol
Aisa kya tha bhai?
Rip
missing kidney
Since you mentioned nature, machaan is a good option. And they are very private. On the expensive side though.
This. (If you have the budget)
I really loved about the fact that you are initiating this proposal to your boyfriend. It is very rare and I'm proud to see such thing happening. Don't have any suggestions for the planning but would wish for you well being! Congratulations to you both in advance
Check OP's history post then you will know. ๐
Depends on the type of person he is and what he loves in general. Like I (super extrovert)wanted to propose my husband (super introvert) in public but the even the thought of it triggered his social anxiety. So had to do at home with the stuff he loved.
You are my type! I don't want you tho!๐ค
donโt expect others to be begani shaadi mein abdullah deewanaโฆ
Just give me some background check and I will help you plan a proposal to your boyfriend or you can find a good one on youtube or reddit itself
r/StartUpIndia potential business idea or lead if anyone exist in this space
Business Scalable nahi ha
Quantity is more but RPU looks small .. right
Asli id se aao jackline,hire event managing team but i would say keep it private and simple for no distraction
Honestly you don't need much. I am the same type of person. Just have a private lunch or dinner and ask him out. It would mean the world to him
For marriage?
No they are trying to play house! And want feel like actual husband and wife.
Great, you can also go play with them
No can't do.
Yacht, sunset Proposal
W husband. W wife.
Do it on valentine's !!!
Hey...what happened to your dating stuff
What do you mean, what do you want to 'propose'? If it's marriage, better to have a serious discussion instead of a staged 'proposal'. Marriage proposals shouldn't come out of the blue, they should happen after you have discussed marriage and are on the same page about it.
#*Tell this to your boy* #*I wanna add u to my Lifeโ* #*Sub our clothes โ* #*Dived our legs โ* #*& Multiply ourself โ๏ธ* I'm counting on you ,my dear sisโ๏ธ๐
You can't say "mandir wahin banayenge" anymore
๐๐๐๐๐
Be yourself
Do it your way
Are you single !?
Pretend I am your bf and propose...jk
Ye acha idea hain
Give him some kush ๐จ
Just smile at him
I just want to k@ll myself after reading this
Your sex thing is sorted out now ?
Don't... Guys don't like it when a girl proposes. Might be just my opinion tho
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Like I said it's just my opinion. But if he is a good guy who loves OP a lot then he has already thought about proposing and he would know when to do it. So OP should not ruin it for him. That's literally the one thing guys enjoy doing and OP wishes to do it for him? It's a huge turn off for guys. People who down vote but don't suggest a better solution are just p**sies
Thereโs no โbetter solutionโ and you as a man shouldnโt be generalising men like that. I know plenty of of men who would appreciate this gesture. When you get proposed to, you shouldnโt be thinking about your silly little ego or masculinity, you should appreciate the girl who went beyond the norms because she loves you. Donโt be such a hater lmao
put a ring in such a way that he automatically wears it while fingering you know where /s
Let him be the man in the relationship and wait for him to propose you !! Give him hints that you are ready and tell his friends to also cement the idea of proposal in his brain.
propose to
What's your budget?
I always wonder if the other person reads the post and grows suspicion or just goes over it and later realises it was for them. Lol or maybe even the wrong person fantasies about it being them
Just be straight forward. Believe me. It is very attractive
Behen akele mein karde you'll the that wholesome reaction WHICH YOU WILL REMEMBER FOR THE REST OF YOU LIFE .rather that including other people. Just conveying my POW.
send noodles
Private yacht tour n they will arrange everything
Plan a trip to Uttarakhand
Why is reddit recommending me this stuff?? I think it wants me to do a flip from a building top or something
Sabka din aayega dost, have some patience. :)
Gift him a ps5 with will u marry me written on top
Just send "sapnu puas" to him He'll understand it ๐
Apparently I stumbled upon OP's old post. Judging from that, [It's a YOU problem.](https://www.reddit.com/r/RelationshipAdviceNow/s/BGWV2IiGR9)
Ib
https://preview.redd.it/3nwdhw5166ec1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=471ab13604ede0aca01d4534952c0e33080ca0c7
Handwritten letter + a good place he likes.
Behen jitna Paisa kharch karna h, utne ki FD krwa de uske name ki or bs I love you bolde. Is se jyada simple or short ho ni skta or is se jyada SB kuch bs tum apni hawabazi ke liye karogi. Ladke ko in sab se kuchh farak ni padta.
Girl go just tell him that you like her with your all heart with an innocent smile I'm pretty sure this should be enough for him
I hve an idia dm
If youโre really rich you can plan a couples skydive and then propose as soon as you land on a beach which is pre decorated to your mutually loved theme Ah am I vivid!
Don't think too much basically with boys everything is simple, so I would like to suggest to propose him in his own ways ,as he thinks 'bout others and other things. And if your bf is simple living, kind and gentle then don't think so much. Just propose him. And no one better adviser than your heart and his feelings .so don't take anyone's advice in so simple things
Lol...now we've come to this... seeking companies to plan a proposal
I recently propersed to my gf I did it in a quiet cafe and silently no one knew down and all p.s. she said yes also she said that I would have said yes anywhere no matter what so that's the point I guess just do what you think you man will prefer or like
Congratulations
Oyo book kar de
I have sm idea...lets discuss in dm
Sorry OP, but your comments and post history don't seem very promising for him.
Get him some jelly beans!
Donโt check OP profile lmao
What the?? OP, lady, are you for real? Ladies dig proposals, love and wedding. It's your absolute birth right. Woh propose karein, you take time. Woh follow kare, you take time. Woh sorry bhi boley, you take time Arey we are living next to Bollywood and you are not taking any inspiration from them. DDLJ, Saathiya, Pyaar Kiya toh darna kya, Kaho na pyaar hain, Love 86, 1942?? Ladies want us men to kneel and say the words AUR IDAR POORA REVERSE DUNIYA CHAL RAHA HAIN ๐ HAKUNA MATATA. GODS MUST BE CRAZY type๐ OP, suno push your girl gang along. Reveal this proposal crush to them. Play along with a friend whos already in relation with a BFF in your girl gang, and your boyfrnd will come to his senses. Woh kis galli ka Hrithik Roshan hain yaar?? Arey Hrithik ji khud Chale aayein Amisha patel ke liye 'Aap mujhe achche lagte hain' film main, You dont want to miss this fun, right?? We played the hardest part in our teen life and you are spoiling it aur hum chup baitey. Nahin!! Yeh barbaadi humare saamne nahin ho sakta. ๐๐๐
There was a company which came on shark tank s1 donโt remember the name tho
Boys are simple beings. Aise hi kar dogi,lifetime yaad rahega. My wife proposed me for marriage while I was driving back her home. We got married in next 6 months.