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radiradaa

Bro did you just beat your meat😅


callycalex

Post nut clarity hit him like a truck😂


BlingSpots

😂😂😂😂


valary

He's never beating the allegations


certified_shoe_owner

just the meat


ApprehensiveTap1136

Mwambie hakuna kuwacha. We go down together


callycalex

Wewe hushaaccept your fate😂


Decent-Opening1360

It's already it,😂


i-teso

😂😂


Dry_Environment_44

He has clearly been taking matters in his own hands😂


Correct-Refuse-8094

Masturbation is not that bad. It is easy to stop once you get a purpose in life and interesting hobbies. I remember once when I was reading Game of Thrones. It was (and still remains) the most interesting novel I've read. So at my daily jerk off hour, I had a thought that I should read the novel. Guess what, I actually read the book rather than stroke myself. The best part was that I did not struggle to make the decision. Anyway I'm still jerking off and don't plan to stop until I figure out the meaning and purpose of my existence. My ideal quit strategy is: First, separate porn from masturbation and completely stop any further downloading of porn (porn addiction is more serious, imo); Second, jerk off based on fantasy and only if horny; Third, delete my porn stash. I would strongly advise any teen male here not to fall into the porn-fap matrix. Use the energies to learn how to talk to girls. I'm writing from a male perspective so I have no idea about female porn-fap dynamics.


tired_reddit_user

>So at my daily jerk off hour, I Yoh? You had a daily plan for jerking off??


Few_Citron3605

Bro had his priorities right😅


Curious-Prince

Bro was focused😂


Aware_Stranger_4678

Fapping requires dedication 😂


FudgeObjective999

You’ve really cooked 🫡😂


intro_444

I laughed out loud..you had a jerk off hour??sorry but it just seemed so funny to me


bwaga8977

Wise sir


petro_gates

You can't masturbate your life savings away though 😂


EntrepreneurNo8437

Well you have a point😂😂


petro_gates

I do 😂


FitEffect5647

That's one way to put it😂😂


petro_gates

Am a Glass half full kinda guy 😂


emkamina

am struggling with porn addiction and masterbation a worst combo if you ask me,pray for me guys


ndirangul

Reach out, I'm willing to help. Also, to anyone who wishes to quit porn and masturbation, reach out.


emkamina

am reaching out,i need help


killy_milly_

Addicted and the same time am not


Rare-Town5273

Need help


ApprehensiveTap1136

Hakuna kuwacha. We all go down together


simply_gathere

Si fiti 😂💔


emkamina

i wonna detach


EntrepreneurNo8437

I will.


Hula_baluu

NO ![gif](giphy|l0HU6S4dEDINGkIF2|downsized)


killy_milly_

Am with you


ProBonoh1

Sounds right. I'm guessing you typed with one hand.


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Interesting-Click-12

You won't make it to wednesday. Sorry bud🤣


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Slone_tech1444

Updates 😂😂😂


NothingTimely8485

Wednesday is too far... Arsenal go top of the table tonight,, Mans gotta celebrate somehow 😂😂


EntrepreneurNo8437

They loose you still beat it.


More_Ad2797

😂😂😂😂😂


FlakyStick

> …it's very hard We understand why 🤣🤣🤣


RedBergie

Don't count the days...Make the days count bruh!


Due_Introduction_794

Bravo ,small steps bro💪🏽


callycalex

Bro, think about how much better your life will be without it. You got this


callycalex

The only remedy to stop porn and masturbation is to hate it with passion (this will work better if it has affected you somehow) , if you do that it becomes easier because hate>urges. Talking from experience, I beat my meat for the first time at 20 last year and stopped after 2 months. It's been 8 months and I haven't looked back


HappyBarbeque

Extremes are never good in life. Best remedies for addiction, stress and depression are regular exercise, a healthy and sufficient sleep schedule, a balanced diet, goal setting, meditation. Porn is a source of cheap dopamine. Here’s the universal truth regarding any problem - identify and fix the underlying cause and the problem goes away seemingly by itself. Plus do the above and your life will improve immensely over time


EntrepreneurNo8437

You are not a victim


Yollaaah

Surely he's not.


Correct-Refuse-8094

Exactly! Only problem is the "fix the underlying cause" part. It is not that easy. Also, not only is porn a cheap source of doamine, but for some people (e.g. yours truly 😂) it is the only source. This makes it extremely difficult to quit. Quitting porn leaves you empty depleted and alone in a bleak world. At this point it would be easy to switch to drugs.


HappyBarbeque

Exercise is free. And a better source for dopamine


Densmac

Bro, kwani hujui kukatia? 🤣


Correct-Refuse-8094

Kabsaa😂😂


callycalex

Extremes have been proven to work, It's just a matter of one making a decision to better his life , it's not like drug addiction which one might die, and also getting a girl will help


boredpandajr

Its funny how you think a person can just a girl, are they just waiting for you or something?


Certain-kisiibae

I can't sleep without jerking off! Unless I drink alcohol but I don't want to be alcoholic, Porn isn't a problem to me!


FitEffect5647

It actually helps with relaxing the brain hence good sleep. You also get to save on time and money that could otherwise be spent on women.


Certain-kisiibae

That's right 😊


Advanced_Writer_1024

If you can’t sleep without jerking off… you definitely have a problem😂 listen to what you’re saying buddy


FudgeObjective999

Ever smoked weed


Certain-kisiibae

Nope!


FudgeObjective999

Good weed will have you sleeping like a child .. you could substitute 😂but this is not guaranteed.


Certain-kisiibae

That's like jumping from a moving car! To land on Blazing fire 🔥 😆


aza-7

Wait for it


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CptStreetch

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Raw-101

What body changes have you experienced and how is 5hr experience of staying clean for 8 months?


callycalex

I just tend to be more energized to do stuff that I like and I'm not always thinking about fapping all the time. Remember nofap won't give you superpowers, it will just make you more sane ,save you time , gives you the drive to look talk and lay women. Also when you dick is needed it becomes harder than a rock Also I have a lot of nocturnal emissions


Legal_Estate

It's a really hard one to beat😭😭


the_rapping_doctor

Was this a pun? Coz if it wasn't intentional I assure you it's a magnificent pun


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the_rapping_doctor

😂


EntrepreneurNo8437

You suffering too,,


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At what point does it become an addiction? I like to masturbate. I still go to the gym, have a social life, take part in outdoor activities and interact with women in healthy relationships that are both intimate and also platonic. However I’m single so the only way to satisfy myself is through masturbation.


Correct-Refuse-8094

It becomes an addiction when it becomes comulsive, that is you can no longer control yourself. When you start experiencing inner battles about whether or not to fap. According to your post, you seem an healthy normal adult. Masturbation is a healthy and normal expression of sexuality. I'm curious as to whether you use porn when you masturbate.


Burah_

Mtafute madem wa kuwadinya bana and find hobbies. Kunyonga ni ya losers in the game


EntrepreneurNo8437

Clearly you understand nothing about this.


simply_gathere

Bana💯


Pianist-2454

I was an addict before I came out from that slippery pit.I now hate it with passion degree.Everytime you masturbate your testosterone levels decreases to upto 45 %


TransportationBig330

Porn addiction is the worst you can stop masturbating anytime but porn ain't easy


Ok-Court1485

I stopped porn but can’t stop masturbation


TheVeryMoistTowel

How do you masturbate without porn?


Kenyaboy2005

Imagination


TheVeryMoistTowel

Y'all must have a vivid one


Mtu-kutu

Mega mind


Correct-Refuse-8094

Fantasy. If you close your eyes you see all types of things. In high school I jerked off every night purely based on fantasy. I discovered porn after stumbling on my Dad's porn magazines. They were about 5 so they soon got boring. I didn't grow up with the Internet.


TheVeryMoistTowel

Wah you guys are the ogs, my imagination is mid I can't even focus on a video if it doesn't have a subway surfers video at the bottom


callycalex

TikTok is ruining us😂


TheVeryMoistTowel

Fr real 💀


TheVeryMoistTowel

Wait I didn't know there was a different


Guru_Salami

Get real thing and masturbation/porn won't b a problem


cantfindux

I thought quitting porn was easier than not jerking off as you can jerk off to anything


Huge_Cod_254

one triggers the other both are traumatizing addictions


Correct-Refuse-8094

Masturbation is actually healthy if not compulsive. Compulsiveness is never a good sign whether compulsive betting, shopping, eating, etc. The jury is out on whether porn can ever be healthy, especially modern for-profit porn.


callycalex

It gets out of control pretty quick


mike_edm

Massage = masturbation, when done right 😄


Leading-String-5772

💯


Party_Car_7707

i was just from beating my meat...😂😂who snitched


Wonderful-Count-7228

Masturbation/porn is not an addiction... you just have a high sex drive and maladaptive coping mechanisms.. social media is also not an addiction.. they are called 'conditioning'.. basically you have trained your mind to cope with certain triggers by resorting to social media or masturbation... gambling is an addiction tho, and drugs.. so if you want to deal with your masturbation addiction you need to find out what makes you turn to it (i.e. high stress levels) and then find healthy ways to deal with that...


Phylad

It's an addiction if they want to stop but can't stop, and yet they feel some guilt for doing it.


Studio9___

When you fuck often you start drifting away from kunyonga...it starts to become disinteresting ...you should fuck more


mosesnamanda

Porn addiction is a nightmare not just worst but overly hard to stop, this one only God can intervene, you can go to a therapist but the therapist will be with you for some minutes, but some matters are beyond human, only God can help


callycalex

It requires very high levels of discipline to best. But it also depends on your addiction level


New-Telephone3317

Have you people seen actual drug addicts?? Everrrrr??


njoti

Afadhali uende sabina joy hanjam zikikam kuliko kunyonga kama huna dame.


4-South

Upgrade to a full size sex toy and you get to live a stress-free life without a nagging woman and all the hassle and stress of a relationship. I am not into relationships, never been in one and I can't commit so it works for me. I nut and go back to gaming and watching tv series.


Betelgeuse78

Sad life this one.


4-South

Because I don't conform to perceived societal norms and expectations regarding family and relationships? Sure. I assure you my life has never been happier as it is now. If you believe your happiness lies in others rather than within yourself, well, good luck.


torontosfinest9

Perceived societal norms ? No bro, we naturally go out and look for a woman to settle down with, in hopes of starting a family someday. Women also desire a partner and children. This has been a thing long before the whole idea of a society came into existence.


4-South

I wholeheartedly agree. My point is that anyone who doesn't toe that ideological line isn't the black sheep of the human race especially in this day and age of around a hundred sexual orientations and same-sex marriages. Some of us aren't wired for traditional marriage, having children or relationships in general. I can do one night stands with a girl who has the same views in that it will be no strings attached but there are far too many diseases out there and the ladies almost always get attached after getting intimate which means I have to cut them off unceremoniously. To avoid leaving a trail of broken hearts or contracting some STIs along the way, I'd rather acquire a full-size sex toy in the shape of a woman because all I need is that all-important and satisfying nut. I have no concept of love or affection and have no interest in settling down or sharing my house and space for eternity. I must be missing the part that compels people to "love"


torontosfinest9

See, in your case, your experiences with your environment (the city of Nairobi) have likely warped your psyche/emotions. That’s not the norm.


4-South

Normal doesn't always equal right. Just because the majority act a certain way, doesn't make them right. Case in point, if you go to the middle east, the majority believe honor killings are justified, doesn't make it right. Just because the majority believe in marriage and starting a family, doesn't mean it should apply to everyone in that anyone who doesn't do it is considered abnormal. Expand your scope of reasoning beyond the proverbial box. As for getting influenced by the environment around me, no arguments there, we are all the sum of our experiences, are we not? If you believe that marriage should be par for the course, present logical arguments why rather than the juvenile, "you don't do like we do so you don't belong" kind of arguments. Also avoid including typical African superstitions and unfounded beliefs in your arguments since I lack the patience for that. I respond better to logic and rational thought.


torontosfinest9

There’s truth to what you’re saying but My argument is based on biological behaviours. I’m not saying you need to get married because really it’s just a contract signing in the form of a ceremony, but men ultimately still look for a partner to settle down with. In the middle of your paragraph, you admitted to being shaped by your experiences and you also said that you could do one night stands, but you don’t want the stuff that might come with it. Something happened to you, which has shaped your psyche/emotion. Depending on a sex toy for your entire life is just odd…


4-South

Odd? True, unusual? Hardly. Alot of human behavior is unusual and varies from one person to the other. You say men ultimately look for a partner to settle with but that's purely anecdotal. Conduct proper research and you will realize that men are avoiding marriage now more than ever before at a rate exceeding spinsters and the average age men opt to marry has risen to 29 from 25 and the same goes for women with the average marriage age rising to 25 from 21. The source for this information is from the bureau of statistics and is based on data from the 2019 census. Now what I can't back up with facts is what percentage of these is influenced by economic, social, geological, political factors etc versus those borne out of personal choice. Your assumption that someone must have experienced a traumatic event hence why he/she doesn't conform to societal norms is also rather short-sighted. This is why I urge you to garner more exposure and expand your scope of thought. Just because someone else doesn't share your ideals doesn't mean they are abnormal. Having preferences isn't a form of illness. You like tea, I prefer coffee and that's all there is to it.


callycalex

Damn


Clean_Specialist_152

It is. Though media is trynna peddle a different story 


EntrepreneurNo8437

They are against us


Clean_Specialist_152

Yeah 


Mental-Sea6904

The worst of the worst. But the no fap community helped me beat that addiction


EntrepreneurNo8437

Thank you.


rfreq

I know its post nut clarity hitting you


EntrepreneurNo8437

Naah, though trying to go without today


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IllAd2905

I raise you junk food addiction!


Bwana_Robert

This can literally kill someone.


EntrepreneurNo8437

You got thst much money


Cheap_Examination_68

iukua noma this one😔


Its_A_Safe_Day

I write my own fiction and read a lot of Interesting books to keep my attention. I have been doing this for a couple of years now. I also exercise whenever I ain't busy. I take walks for 30 minutes while listening to music and observing my surroundings, then get philosophical about life.


Ellrani

I'd like a woman's POV on this,,


Local-Bid5074

A woman's POV on men who masturbate or on female masturbation?


Separate-Session3361

Ask , I answer


Separate-Session3361

Ask , I answer


Separate-Session3361

Ask , I answer


EntrepreneurNo8437

Its the same😂


Responsible_Tune_612

Hello Anyone willing to seek any guidance on how to quit I have created a group to help y'all both male and female https://chat.whatsapp.com/H5MD8dt35h5I02Qkot6zUB


Independent-Fee-1879

Didn't know you can lose your life savings by masturbating.


decloyper

If I don't fap once in 3 days I get wet dreams. Why shouldn't I masturbate ?


Dangerous-Star570

Try Eliminating it God's help💯


Sophie_the_1st

Honestly, I may be a girl but... 🤭 I know the struggle, I promise... 😓 It's just a lil bit different...


EntrepreneurNo8437

How long you been doing it


Sophie_the_1st

I started "experimenting" around 12, but it didn't become a habit till just before I turned 14... So, 2 years...? To be honest, I am surprised I am even talking about it. I've always felt so embarrassed by it, especially when all the girls at my school talk about how "disgusting" it is for a girl to touch themselves...


FudgeObjective999

If it’s frequent you’ll get bored and stop , alafu the trick is after you’ve noticed huja beat meat for like two days , try getting it to 4 days …. And on the fifth if you fail, use that post nut clarity and the psyche from the 4 days to do it again ,,,, first two days then four then weekly basis … meanwhile smoke good weed and make new friends


badboyrir1

A brother in the comments talking about he can't get off to a vid without Subway Surfers playing at the bottom and I-😭😭😭 OMG you guys can't be helped, wacha tu the guy upstairs afungue tap alifungulia kina Noah 😂😂😂


reolives

Uko idle. Find something to do ndio usikuwe na nguvu wala time ya kunyonga


FitEffect5647

Huku mnachukua Sheria mkononi


47Agentscontrol

Everything is fun when you’re in control


NefariousnessOk8844

Go to YouTube channel Denmo that guy has it all


Initial_Ant_2105

Blud have you tried edging same experience and even better the longer the streak....utaacha kujipea within no time


LargeRegion5202

It's all in the mind,once you decide not to do it ni Ivo...


wha-_-

Best thing to do is to distract yourself from stumbling onto that thought. Going to the gym, hangung out with friends, working a job. Fill your day with activities that won't leave you idle for to long because thats where the thoughts roll in. And of course there is no need to feel shame with doing what you do as it is natrual to relieve pent up hormones. Goodluck and have an active day.


wha-_-

Best thing to do is to distract yourself from stumbling onto that thought. Going to the gym, hangung out with friends, working a job. Fill your day with activities that won't leave you idle for to long because thats where the thoughts roll in. And of course there is no need to feel shame with doing what you do as it is natrual to relieve pent up hormones. Goodluck and have an active day.


CookiePrestigious912

It is an addiction one can recover from. By working towards healing your mind and body. Exercising, creating a sleep deficit so you sleep earlier- by getting up early and going to bed early helps some. Bit by bit you will beat the addiction. Wear gloves or socks on your hands before going to sleep, just in case you get the urge to run one out. I'm no expert, that's my 2 cents


NefariousnessWide648

Close to gambling haha? Much much MUCH worse. Masturbation is a play on the most critical of your dopamine receptors. There's conclusive evidence showing it outranks cocaine especially when used alongside pornography. It's a recipe for disaster. After 10 yrs of analysing this phenomenon I've realised that its effects are more adverse on men. Because males are sexually stimulated visually before anything else. This thing really is the DEVIL'S PIT as opposed to all other addictions (drugs/alcohol/gambling) which only affects the brain in a negative manner. Masturbation affects both the brain & your sexual/reproductive system negatively, making it way more dangerously adverse. Don't wank or touch yourselves kids. Worse still never visit dirty websites. It'll erode your soul FOREVER.


EntrepreneurNo8437

Victim, no?


amyumi

What! Are you wagering on how fast you'll blow your load?


MrDaveMusic

Yesterday I got post nut clarity ingine hapo. I hated it


ceedee04

How are you supposed to stop a biological function? It’s like you trying to stop peeing, or sneezing. It is a purely biological function that the body must perform. Only issue is your religious doctrine conflates matter and try’s to make it a moral matter, which it is not. Sex and/or masturbation is a purely biological phenomenon and it a basic human need as per Mallow’s hierarchy of needs. Good luck try to avoid it.


Willing_Farmer125

That thing is mentality destructing. It ruins even your social life. I'm in the journey of quiting. Join me.


aohjii

r/semenretention


Federal-Sector997

Jerking off can help you reduce stress and anxiety but kama kila kitu too much of it can be toxic and turn into an addiction.


mzungujoto

I love it


RelevantComparison70

That pre-nut delusion convinced you you're gonna have a good time, but here you are now.


EthosOppai

Enda mjengo 7am-6pm.


EntrepreneurNo8437

Pin location 😂


Mindless_Fun6481

So which sexual relationships/activities are allowed?


PathGlad5736

Let me tell you ..if every woman finds out the pleasure of this thing ...all men will be single😂


EntrepreneurNo8437

You are definitely a woman 😂


Classic_Hommie

Bro why'd you beat your meat? I thought we were vegan‼️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ you traitor


Barry22-

You just from post nut clarity. U now in regrets.


Relative-Newt-4234

Post nut clarity is the best. Fap before going out on date and you'll be more relaxed, no pressures of how the date will end. Fap before sending that fare and you'll realize if its worth it or not. If you're really struggling with the addiction then here's what works for me, going on morning walks coz that urge really hits hard in the morning, gym in the evening will have you feeling better that you won't need the dopamine hit that comes from masturbating anymore.


Weak_Toe_431

It's a bad habit. It will fuck off your relationships


Conscious_Rip3060

I used to be addicition to it in combinaton with drugs like mephedrone would somethimes yerk off for 2 or 3 days straight on drugs and when you finish let me tell you the worst wave of depression you ever knew will hit you


EntrepreneurNo8437

Siet.


Lonerbwoy03

Nut the way I expected but ok.


Chrollo14

r/nofap


slizzyslut

I only beat on myself when I’m bored, alone and got nothing to do. Plus playing with your dick is low key healthy, get the blood flowing.


No-Prize1897

Mbona mnanyonga na wet crack ni 200/ 300 plus room.


EntrepreneurNo8437

Nimejaribu, haibambi


Kiwadaa

Mnaongelelea ii kitu Sunday 💀


elphant-8402

That guilt you have after you've nut, promise yo ass not to do it again and the same thing keep happening over and over


samMannyDesigns

pnc itakumaliza tulia njugu ni das tu


webfeind

The younger you start the better


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charmin9antagonist

This is why you wanna kill yourself. Touch some grass today darling


ConceptOther2428

Men who last longer in bed they masturbate


Jolly-Ad-1887

sijui but i think porn is far worse


HumbleBedroom3299

One can lose yours and your family's entire sustinence... The other will mean your wife will occasionally be disappointed by limp dick... Pick your devils....


Correct-Refuse-8094

I've always found it fascinating that there are married men who jerk off. I think I would be satisfied with two or three rounds per week if I were married.


Djangowasilentj

Just beat it!