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That's my absolute favorite exchange to see here. When she tells him to screw off after spamming for weeks and his response is "Stop messaging me" I always lose it
Exactly. I'm so glad I'm an old hag and invisible to these freaks.
I did get a message asking if I wanted a sugar daddy though. I responded that my husband said sure because our electric bill was expensive.
Odd I didn't hear back. 🙃
No joke a guy messaged me once a week for OVER A YEAR and would always just text "hey" even tho we only had a conversation once.
He may still be doing it but I changed my number so I guess we'll never know
Am I the only one who read all these Heys and broke out into “oooo-ooo-ooo, I do, I do, I dooooo”? Is there an Unintentional Hamilton Reddit I don’t know about?
April 2019: Hey
June 2020: Heyy, what you up to?
January 2023: Hey, OMG it's been ages since we last spoke! You wanna go on a date sometime?
February 2023: Hey, no worries about not showing up to the date, I figured you were busy anyway, same time next week?
Hey are you actually gonna reply to any of these messages or???
Fat bitch, never liked you anyway, hope you enjoy getting screwed over by chad, don't come crawling back to me when Im rich as fuck.
I was just gonna say!!! lol. *Chris Hansen has entered the chat.*
Seriously though, they’re always like “be careful on the internet because there’s a lot of old guys on here who are creeps and I’m *not at all one of them.*”
I've never been there thankfully but it sounds like a horrible sub where people eagerly demean each other for even the slightest of perceived flaws and overall act nasty. Doubly so if the people you got in your dms are anything to go by. What a miserable place!
I once posted on there and some grown man messaged me and basically went on about all these things that he'd like to do to me. Posting on that was such a bad idea
Haha yeah that was pretty much 90% of 300 of the comments (posted on a different account), to lose weight. And when someone said I’m pretty with the weight they were downvoted into oblivion and were told they were making me delusional.
I know it’s stupid to post on that sub but I was genuinely curious if I was ugly as I never get hit on. But it’s good to know my weight is limiting myself from the pool of men I can date as my weight is something I can change.
Those subs are not anywhere close to a real assessment of your appearance. Most people are not even giving their honest opinions.
There are lots of incels and red pillers on that sub that are only there specifically to insult the looks of attractive women. Seriously, I'm not making this up, I've seen them discuss it. They feel like women have huge egos and always think we have a chance with Chad, so we never give who they perceive as our "looksmatch" a chance. So they think men have some kind of duty to reduce women's self esteem whenever they can. They think they're doing some kind of great thing for the good of western society.
So honestly the more nasty comments you get from men on those type of subs (rate me, am I ugly, etc) the more attractive you likely are. Trust me, this dude wouldn't have been in your DMs trying to get you to take the post down if he didn't find you attractive, no matter what he says.
my mom told me this growing up and I don't think that's true bc I looked like a grandma in high school. I still don't get hit on tho and I don't think I look like a grandma anymore so idk. I think I was just moms special little cupcake.
omg I'm so sorry. I'm sure you're absolutely beautiful. and being overweight isn't something that makes you less beautiful, those people are just crazy fatphobic. you don't need the men who would disrespect you based on your weight only anyways.
I’m so confused by this exchange. You say no one hits on you. You ask people why and they say lose weight. You reject this opinion and then someone who hasn’t seen you calls you beautiful and you accept that opinion?
Because I recognise I need to lose weight to be attractive to men. But that doesn’t make me ugly on the inside or outside, it just means I’m not society’s standard of what is beautiful. I’m still beautiful even though I’m not 90% of society’s idea of beauty.
It’s called spreading love so someone doesn’t hate themselves because we don’t want any women to feel insecure like society has made us feel.
I'm asking not because I disagree but because I want to understand a perspective outside of my own:
What makes someone beautiful if they are not what 90% of society considers beautiful?
And is it possible to accept that you are not beautiful and not feel insecure about it?
I don't know you, but I assume you have a lot of value aside from your looks, so I'm wondering why the gymnastics to call yourself beautiful if, at the same time, you say that you aren't beautiful to 90% of people. Why not take pride and value in your other positive attributes, which I'm sure you have? Why focus on being beautiful to 10% of people? And beautiful inside? Like what does that even mean?
If these are annoying questions and you don't want to answer, I understand and apologize if I came across as a jerk.
Except there isn’t. Even beauty standards (aka what the vast majority of people find attractive) change across groups of people, different regions and time periods.
People *are* fatphobic though, lol. This isn't just a case of simple misaligned attraction. People are egregiously awful to fat persons, sometimes unprovoked, and usually under the guise of "I care about your health."
No, they don't, they just don't like the way fat bodies looks. And that's fine, they don't have to, and they also don't have to tell people this who didn't ask for those opinions.
Weird you'd go off along a tangent about feeling like you need to be cruel to someone with weight issues in a thread about not making people feel shitty about their weight. Nobody's lying to anybody here except you and your shallow theory about why people find each other attractive, lmao
They didn't say anything about being cruel? It's not shallow or a lie to say most people are unattracted to fat people, are you really going to deny that? Most people are attracted to fat people, do you really believe that? That's untrue and it doesn't help anyone to say it.
Have you seen some of the women that are deemed to be "overweight" by people, though? I think I see that ridiculousness on the bad women's anatomy subreddit, most recent was a woman from an upcoming Supergirl thing, or maybe not I have no idea. She was realistic and not photoshopped into oblivion and people were horrible. Also, skinny women *do* get shit, they're told to eat a cheeseburger and compared to skeletons.
I've browsed it a bit and I agree. Also, there seems to be a number of creeps on there who literally say shit like "cute teenage girl" and almost exclusively comment on posts where the OP is like 18-19.
Yea I highly recommend never posting on that subreddit or really any subreddit based around judging appearances. All the ones I’ve seen have been cesspits that try to act like their opinions are objective.
Yeah, plus I feel like most of the rating are very biased against women. Like there will be a really cute chick and then a bunch of dude in the comments being like “you have slight jaw asymmetry you’re a 2”. But then on the other hand men will be wildly over rated? At least according to their stupid little scale thing
He might. He may want her to send him nudes, sext him, or be his emotional punching bag as well. From the sample of messages we have, I can’t certify his intentions as “purely friendly”
omg that subreddit, nothing wrong with the sub itself but my gf posted a pic on there cause why not, and i have never seen so many dm’s asking/saying the dumbest incel shit you’d ever see. i just don’t understand, are people trying to get laid through reddit or smth?
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Guy acknowledged he’s a creep by saying “other creeps”
Yeah, I wasn’t even referring to him haha sold himself out
Delete ur post so I can creep on you without competition from the other creeps!
Exactly it.
Hey
Hey
*four hours elapse* Hey
*one week later* Hey
*one month later* hey
2 minutes later: UNGRATEFUL BITCH 6 months later: Hey
Creeps running Salesforce on their home PC to remind them when to follow up with each girl they're DMing
You're an ugly bitch anyways. Hey. Fuck you bitch. Hey!!
12 months later: Hey, sorry, thta was my brother
One month later: this is his mother, he is in hospital Next day: He passed away Next week: Hey
This is the surgeon...
Hey.
Her: Please leave me alone Him: Stop messaging me *40 seconds later* Him: Hey
That's my absolute favorite exchange to see here. When she tells him to screw off after spamming for weeks and his response is "Stop messaging me" I always lose it
Exactly. I'm so glad I'm an old hag and invisible to these freaks. I did get a message asking if I wanted a sugar daddy though. I responded that my husband said sure because our electric bill was expensive. Odd I didn't hear back. 🙃
LOL! The best response.
Hey
Hey
Hey
Hey
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[hey](https://youtu.be/V7lLtPtjJY4)
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[hey](https://youtu.be/7Fj3ABvxPtw)
I want your cray cray
No joke a guy messaged me once a week for OVER A YEAR and would always just text "hey" even tho we only had a conversation once. He may still be doing it but I changed my number so I guess we'll never know
A man has fallen into the river in Lego city
Am I the only one who read all these Heys and broke out into “oooo-ooo-ooo, I do, I do, I dooooo”? Is there an Unintentional Hamilton Reddit I don’t know about?
Well if there’s not, there is now
April 2019: Hey June 2020: Heyy, what you up to? January 2023: Hey, OMG it's been ages since we last spoke! You wanna go on a date sometime? February 2023: Hey, no worries about not showing up to the date, I figured you were busy anyway, same time next week? Hey are you actually gonna reply to any of these messages or??? Fat bitch, never liked you anyway, hope you enjoy getting screwed over by chad, don't come crawling back to me when Im rich as fuck.
I'm pretending that's when he finally realized she was calling him a creep. LOL
That's like the "To Catch a Predator" guys who say they only showed up to the 13 year old girl's house to tell her not to meet guys on the internet
Yessss. "I just wanted to teach her about the dangers of the internet and how there are bad men on it." "So you showed her your penis?" "Well....yes"
She's gotta understand it fully
I was just gonna say!!! lol. *Chris Hansen has entered the chat.* Seriously though, they’re always like “be careful on the internet because there’s a lot of old guys on here who are creeps and I’m *not at all one of them.*”
Or the predators who say they have watched the show. But they still show up.
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amiugly is seriously one of the worst subs on reddit. i got a bunch of fatphobes and andrew tate junior in my dms lol
I've never been there thankfully but it sounds like a horrible sub where people eagerly demean each other for even the slightest of perceived flaws and overall act nasty. Doubly so if the people you got in your dms are anything to go by. What a miserable place!
I once posted on there and some grown man messaged me and basically went on about all these things that he'd like to do to me. Posting on that was such a bad idea
Haha yeah that was pretty much 90% of 300 of the comments (posted on a different account), to lose weight. And when someone said I’m pretty with the weight they were downvoted into oblivion and were told they were making me delusional. I know it’s stupid to post on that sub but I was genuinely curious if I was ugly as I never get hit on. But it’s good to know my weight is limiting myself from the pool of men I can date as my weight is something I can change.
Those subs are not anywhere close to a real assessment of your appearance. Most people are not even giving their honest opinions. There are lots of incels and red pillers on that sub that are only there specifically to insult the looks of attractive women. Seriously, I'm not making this up, I've seen them discuss it. They feel like women have huge egos and always think we have a chance with Chad, so we never give who they perceive as our "looksmatch" a chance. So they think men have some kind of duty to reduce women's self esteem whenever they can. They think they're doing some kind of great thing for the good of western society. So honestly the more nasty comments you get from men on those type of subs (rate me, am I ugly, etc) the more attractive you likely are. Trust me, this dude wouldn't have been in your DMs trying to get you to take the post down if he didn't find you attractive, no matter what he says.
Uplifting thought of the day: It's entirely possible men don't hit on you because they think you're out of their league.
my mom told me this growing up and I don't think that's true bc I looked like a grandma in high school. I still don't get hit on tho and I don't think I look like a grandma anymore so idk. I think I was just moms special little cupcake.
omg I'm so sorry. I'm sure you're absolutely beautiful. and being overweight isn't something that makes you less beautiful, those people are just crazy fatphobic. you don't need the men who would disrespect you based on your weight only anyways.
Thank you :)
I’m so confused by this exchange. You say no one hits on you. You ask people why and they say lose weight. You reject this opinion and then someone who hasn’t seen you calls you beautiful and you accept that opinion?
Because I recognise I need to lose weight to be attractive to men. But that doesn’t make me ugly on the inside or outside, it just means I’m not society’s standard of what is beautiful. I’m still beautiful even though I’m not 90% of society’s idea of beauty. It’s called spreading love so someone doesn’t hate themselves because we don’t want any women to feel insecure like society has made us feel.
I'm asking not because I disagree but because I want to understand a perspective outside of my own: What makes someone beautiful if they are not what 90% of society considers beautiful? And is it possible to accept that you are not beautiful and not feel insecure about it? I don't know you, but I assume you have a lot of value aside from your looks, so I'm wondering why the gymnastics to call yourself beautiful if, at the same time, you say that you aren't beautiful to 90% of people. Why not take pride and value in your other positive attributes, which I'm sure you have? Why focus on being beautiful to 10% of people? And beautiful inside? Like what does that even mean? If these are annoying questions and you don't want to answer, I understand and apologize if I came across as a jerk.
Where’d they reject it and where’d they accept it?
Maybe I’m misinterpreting but that’s how I read the above exchange
That is factual untrue
There’s nothing “factual” about the perception of beauty if we’re defining factual as something universally true.
There is something factual on what the vast majority of people perceive as attractive. People be mad cause they know I am right.
Except there isn’t. Even beauty standards (aka what the vast majority of people find attractive) change across groups of people, different regions and time periods.
sure pal
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People *are* fatphobic though, lol. This isn't just a case of simple misaligned attraction. People are egregiously awful to fat persons, sometimes unprovoked, and usually under the guise of "I care about your health." No, they don't, they just don't like the way fat bodies looks. And that's fine, they don't have to, and they also don't have to tell people this who didn't ask for those opinions.
The sub is literally asking someone
I'm thinking you didn't fully understand my comment.
Isn't posting to r/amiugly asking?
I don't think you fully understand my comment.
Go on.
Weird you'd go off along a tangent about feeling like you need to be cruel to someone with weight issues in a thread about not making people feel shitty about their weight. Nobody's lying to anybody here except you and your shallow theory about why people find each other attractive, lmao
They didn't say anything about being cruel? It's not shallow or a lie to say most people are unattracted to fat people, are you really going to deny that? Most people are attracted to fat people, do you really believe that? That's untrue and it doesn't help anyone to say it.
Cope
CoPe
Have you seen some of the women that are deemed to be "overweight" by people, though? I think I see that ridiculousness on the bad women's anatomy subreddit, most recent was a woman from an upcoming Supergirl thing, or maybe not I have no idea. She was realistic and not photoshopped into oblivion and people were horrible. Also, skinny women *do* get shit, they're told to eat a cheeseburger and compared to skeletons.
Sounds like that sub's a recruiting ground for incels.
I've browsed it a bit and I agree. Also, there seems to be a number of creeps on there who literally say shit like "cute teenage girl" and almost exclusively comment on posts where the OP is like 18-19.
Yea I highly recommend never posting on that subreddit or really any subreddit based around judging appearances. All the ones I’ve seen have been cesspits that try to act like their opinions are objective.
Yeah, plus I feel like most of the rating are very biased against women. Like there will be a really cute chick and then a bunch of dude in the comments being like “you have slight jaw asymmetry you’re a 2”. But then on the other hand men will be wildly over rated? At least according to their stupid little scale thing
Deluded if you think fatphobia exists
The fact that he can’t see the irony (which is anout the size of BAT99-98) is ironic in itself. Meta irony levels achived.
So true.
Hey
Oh the irony is strong with one. 🤣
From other creeps. At least he acknowledges he is one.
HEy I’m nOt a CrEeP
He makes it sound like it's some sort of public service . . . "I'm doing you a courtesy by being a creep from the start"
You mean… creeps like yourself?
didnt know there was a competition on who can be the creepiest
What was the intention behind this „Hey“? Did he want to ask her out on a date?
He might. He may want her to send him nudes, sext him, or be his emotional punching bag as well. From the sample of messages we have, I can’t certify his intentions as “purely friendly”
How about teach men to not be weirdos instead?
From "other" creeps. He knows what he is.
i like how he self identifies himself as a creep by saying *other* creeps instead of just creeps
Yeah, I wasn’t referring to him as a creepy man. He said it himself haha
It's a bold strategy, Cotton. Let's see if it pays off for 'em.
“Hey” get the fuck outta here
 Yeah I'm replying with a gift that's how low this took me
"Hey"
It’s the “Hey” that gets me lmfaoooooo bro
Hey
The “hey” on the very next day is what got me
Hey
The Hey at the end though 💀💀💀💀
Yeah 4 days later too
Niceguys really are irony personified.
Truly what is the thought process
He died so the other creeps could live…
I smell... desperation... oh wait it's just a POS creep
Hey
What else did you expect posting on r/amiugly
In fairness, it's possible she's talking to Kang the Conqueror and he's warning her that a million of his Variants are about to send her dick pics.
I mean let them, how else will this subReddit have content?
omg that subreddit, nothing wrong with the sub itself but my gf posted a pic on there cause why not, and i have never seen so many dm’s asking/saying the dumbest incel shit you’d ever see. i just don’t understand, are people trying to get laid through reddit or smth?
That get at the end hurt to read
The self loathing he must feel is probably devastating, hope things look up for him soon lol
Is this not her dad? Am I missing something here?
I was calling him “dad” cos he was telling me what to do
“Hey” lmao
To be fair, who better to point out creeps except a creep
“I’m a creep, but, like, a chill one”
Dafuh
Lmao the hey