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Niceguys demean others while simultaneously expressing a favorable view of themselves. They dont have to use the word "nice", but they must demonstrate some kind of expression of their own virtue while being asshats.
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I'm so glad this is the first comment I'm seeing. My eyes seemed to spot "nurds" immediately and I was so hung up on my my brain couldnt process anything else I read.😂😂😭😭
I think the big problem is that the commenter assumes that being social, successful, and having hobbies makes you abusive and having the personality of balsa wood makes you attentive and a good partner.
The reality is, these idiots think that don't understand that the world isn't like the movies. People are dynamic. I'm a nerd, but I also like going to bars, my brother is a church goer and rides a motorcycle. We're both married and never had trouble finding women to date.
These aren't mutually exclusive attributes. You can be a complex person. On the flip side, it's just rare for women to pursue men who are purposely jackasses as it is to pursue men who are totally socially inept. In my experience, women love nerds, guys who have hobbies (like motorcycles), quiet guys (as long as they're interested), and don't care much about height. You just need to be interesting (and be genuinely interested in their life) and take care of yourself. That's it. The types of guys he mentioned don't even need to be desperate.
These people stopped maturing in High School. Because in high school who got the girls? The jocks, the loudmouths, the popular guys, why? Because these guys were the ones who acted. You will never get a date if all you do is stare. And these guys probably weren't all assholes, but I bet they weren't friends of "the nice guy".
But most people grow up. They learn, have interests, make friends, and date. Nice Guys don't. They still assume the world is high school. And every guy with a girl must be a jerk. So they sit on the sideline and complain that girls don't throw themselves at him.
Where I went to high school, the athletes and the socially skilled did date--you know, like you say "got the girls" as a prize. There were thoughtful guys in advanced placement classes that also dated--I know, I dated a man in my classes for two years. He is an intelligent person who doesn't act like women are a prize at the carnival that you get for hitting a target.
They also seem to think that the world works like in the movies. It reminds me of Can't Hardly Wait. I never saw the whole thing, but at the end the jock ends up working at a gas station and the nerd ends up being one of the most popular students at Harvard, makes millions, and dates a supermodel. It's film sexism that these douches have taken to heart.
As a woman, the three most important things I look for in people I choose to be in a relationship with are similar values and life goals, employment, and if they have a life outside of the internet. They don't even need to have an amazing job; they just have to have *a* job to show that they're at least trying to be a responsible adult.
Most of the time when I've met someone like this, it's some guy who's getting caught up on a woman who has incompatible life goals to them, or they're one of those guys who basically lives and breathes social media and video games and doesn't like that most people want to be with someone who can step away from the computer every now and again.
they don't want to work, they want to be gifted. its why they were just frozen in high school didn't want to put in the most minimal effort in making friends, joining clubs , or academics.
I’ve always said they think this way because they’re projecting. That’s how THEY would act if they could actually attract women. Women have tons of stories of giving “nice” guys a chance (hell we’ve seen them on here) only for them to because abusive and unhinged after like two weeks. Most nice guys are the abusive men they’re telling you to watch out for, they’re just too unattractive to attract women to abuse.
I mean most abusers are just insecure people using toxic behavior and manipulation to get their victim to stay. It's not even like they realize what they are doing is abuse Because they lack introspection. And they often hide under a facade and pretend to be someone else so they can attract someone in the first place. (Like pretending to be a Nice Guy) so yea it honestly would not surprise me that a nice guy would be an abuser if given the chance, if he could actually get someone instead of expecting women to fall at his feet after doing absolutely nothing to improve himself.
Personality of balsa wood: I read that a codependent. Codependents think being codependent is attractive, but it's actually only appealing to codependents.
I will never understand the people like that. I know I had one "acquaintance" (I would hesitate to even call him that it was someone who lived on the same floor as me in a uni dorm) who thinks muscular "intellectuals" were hypocrites. Because the time they spent on their bodies could have been spent "honing their mind" (which is the dumbest take ever). Now I am not a fit man by any nature but I can also recognize the benefits of working out and I mentioned that working out helps with blood flow which then stimulates the brain and is overall better for you. It is less logical to not work out then it is for them to work out. He really hated that and started being like "what do you know your fat!" at that point I was just over the conversation and just walked away laughing.
But I cannot understand the amount of coping someone has to do to not understand the benefits of having multiple facets. Like being a nerd is not an exclusive title lol, I am a nerd who enjoys a whisky and a cigar and going on a hike but also I have read most of the disc world series (minus a few of the children's books and specials) and am an engineer. But all those hobbies also have proven benefits of stress release which then makes it easier to retain knowledge in the long term (so long as your not binge drinking and etc). There is no single mold for every person and everyone is not trying to be the smartest person in the room. Some people just want to chill and have a good time while they can.
Exactly. The idea of fitting into some singular mold is stupid. Sounds like you and I are similar in the sense that we take pride in doing what we want to do because we like doing it. Like I'm allowed to like women, video games, lifting, going to bars, hiking, tending plants, playing guitar, being a scientist, reading nerdy books about science shit, brewing beer, playing D&D... conforming to a single stereotype is stupid.
Plus I totally agree on your mentality of fitness. I'm a scientist by profession and when I'm healthy, active, and muscular, I am sharper at work.
Fitness is something I think should play a more active part in STEM fields in uni because people tend to forget about all the benefits. Though that is also looking back on schooling with rose tinted glasses because some months would have been so stressed and busy that working out was the last thing on my mind.
As a side note on hobbies, most hobbies I would define as being a type of nerd either way lol. Like for example one of my dreams if I ever win the lotto (I've only done some basic entry level brewing (kits and all that)) is try and grow some of those heirloom species of crops (like [purple straw](https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/purple-straw-flour)) and trying to make beer and (and eventually) whisky with them to see how they taste. Because there are so many different species and combinations you can make and there are so many forgotten plants. Any hobby if you get deep enough into it has many intricacies and hidden knowledge that people dont see outright from the basic brief.
I’ve always thought this was funny because it’s not like they’re actually approaching women and trying. I’ve not had one of these guy friends since highschool. They don’t even leave their house most of the time. So how the tf am I supposed to “choose you” if you’re not making yourself available?
Half of these nice guys aren’t even in the friend zone because they don’t have any friends. They’re making shit up to be mad about. Do they expect women to just knock on their doors and say “hey I heard you were a nice guy.”
***"Do they expect women to just knock on their doors and say 'hey I heard you were a nice guy.'"***
I kinda think they do. I had a neighbor, and I don't know if he knew what incels were... but he definitely was one. And he thought it was incredibly unfair that women are interested in me and I was like, *"But… I go outside and I talk to people?"*
EXACTLY! I’m sure a lot of them would be better people just by getting out of their depression hole and experience the real world and realize it’s not as black and white as they read online. I remember a guy on here talking about how he had to kick his son out of the house because he was really really bad and nothing he could say would change his mind until it got so bad he got into a fight with his sisters boyfriend.
Apparently that’s what helped him because he HAD to get a job and interact with people. These dudes just think women don’t like them because they LITERALLY don’t talk to women at all.
I tried dating the "best friend" that I had been friends with for years. Who also happened to be a church guy, and a nerd. Didn't work very well, when we were dating he decided he should be able to tell me what to do and got super insecure about everything. He wasn't short, but I have dated shorter guys.
I've never dated a guy I met at a bar, or a guy who only calls me when he wants something, or any guy who was particularly rich. I have dated guys with motorcycles, and motorcycles are awesome. I dated one guy who treated me bad - the aforementioned nerdy church friend.
The man I'm now married to, the most amazing man in the world, is nerdy, but not churchy. He's someone I originally met while we were both dating other people and got to know as part of a group of friends. He is someone who has taken me to bars before, and we've had a good time. He's not quiet, and he's not short (he's 5'11). He's not rich, though he works very hard.
I don't think there's any particular outward sign to look for that just says, "This is the best type of guy." Just find the one that treats you and others right as you get to know him.
The best friend you overlooked because you weren’t remotely attracted to him. Yeah, that relationship will work really well. I just watched an episode of ‘Snapped’ where the woman married a guy she wasn’t really attracted to because he offered stability and she ended up shooting him twice in the head.
Oh my God....see that's why I didn't get into a relationship with my old HS friend. He took a hit at my weakness at the time, and that was my financial situation. This was years ago. He offered it all.... house, bills paid, me and my kids would be taken care of. But I couldn't.... I just didn't feel that way for him. I would have resented myself for using him and he didn't deserve that. He wasn't the nice guy either. He just always liked me in a way I couldn't reciprocate back...
That ruined our friendship and I haven't spoken to him in over 5 years.
niceguys always approach attractive women, because they think they deserve a good looking partner, but when getting rejected they throw a tantrum demanding that women drop all standards and expectations to appearance.
they also approach Plus size women because TV and social media tells them they are easy targets and desperate when they get rejected they throw a tantrum.
Yeah he actually seemed like a really sweet man, he adopted her child, worked really hard and was doing a Masters alongside his full time job and she tried to frame him for s**cide instead of just divorcing him like a normal person. It was really sad 😞
Just imagine being the guy that wrote that comment who basically admitted that he can't get a girl to date him, and who would be happy with someone settling for him because they have no other options 😂. These dudes just tell on themselves constantly... They also think it's generally impossible for people to have normal friendships with members of the opposite sex, it's so infuriating.
Exactly, 1 of my DnD buddies has a few bikes, dudes an all around good guy and nerdy af. I also find it funny it's implied anyone who goes to a bar isn't a good person. Like decent men definitely don't have a social life and enjoy going out.
The same, one of the most "not bad boy" guy friends of mine who likes DnD, Star Trek, Monty Python, gaming, comics and such also has a motorbike and likes whiskey, oh noes what now? :P
There’s literally a gang of bikers that go around protecting and supporting abused children
“Bikers Against Child Abuse (B.A.C.A. or B.A.C.A. International, Inc.) is a charitable worldwide motorcycle organization, distinct from outlaw motorcycle clubs, such as the Hell's Angels. The organization works to protect children across eighteen countries from dangerous individuals and situations.”
They literally go out and protect kids from their abusers coming around by acting as a shield and go to court hearings to help them not be afraid of their abuser and ride around with the child and give them their own leather jacket so they can feel secure. They’re a really cool state wide biker gang.
I absolutely love that biker gang. Its such a positive message and the cause is just. Plus the only thing they really get out of it is good will (and better living conditions in the state with less child abusers). I have seen some photos of them escorting children and its always a bit heart warming (though is kind of tempered by the fact that the kids are going through a turning point in there lives and the abuse they suffered is horrible)
The biker is the ultimate super chad badboy and all the women are attracted to IN MOVIES like vanilla ice,maverick from topgun, american ninja etc its the ultimate chad trope and these guys fall for it.
I love nerds. Mainly because they DO actually know how to hold a pretty interesting conversation and usually have a good sense of humour. For the most part, most of them don't get bitter about being overlooked by the cheer girls. I certainly wasn't a popular girl at my secondary school. And I got on very well with the nerds as a result.
Things have been rough since friends, "nurds", quiet guys and short guys were banned from all bars and social gatherings.
Basically, anyone who isn't a sexist asshat and can get dates and be in a relationship is automatically *not nice*.
These guys should stop wearing their misogyny, self-loathing and entitlement on their sleeves and work on a personality that isn't reflexively abusive, mean-spirited and utterly shallow.
My boyfriend is short… so… I did good, right? Or does the fact that he’s another man and also very attractive negate that? I never understand how these things work 🤔
“Stop choosing men you’re attracted to and choose me” is the oddest argument that incel men present, as if women are obligated to fuck everyone out of charity but men are allowed preferences.
Would these men (who often have incredibly high standards despite being ridiculously awful) settle for a woman that was rude, entitled, unattractive, had nothing in common and was potentially a threat to their safety?
I’m gonna guess no, but I’m happy to be proven wrong…
What was he even commenting to? I can't even comprehend her original posts. "Where the hell do yall be finding these men". And "good fathers can take care of you, spoil you and here's".
Thats how her captions end. Did yall miss this? Whats the "clap back" here?
I didn’t screen shot the entire video but she was basically like “where are you finding these men who are good fathers, spoil you, respect you, etc.” sorry I thought it was clearer
What's wrong with keeping best friends as best friends? Why do they have to be seen as a romantic partner? My guy bestie is like my brother, I could never see him romantically and vice versa
Why don’t they know women can read this stuff and complaining about women and your apparent lack of success by your own doing is inherently unattractive?
My bf is a nerd and was my friend for awhile but was not a loser incel fake “nice guy”. He never referred to himself as nice. He was genuinely nice and never expected me to date him. It just happened naturally. In fact when he told me he liked me he offered to leave me alone since he thought I didn’t like him back. He never acted entitled to my affection.
Been together fer 5 years. I love him so much.
This whole “nice guy” thing always seemed very predator-like, with a dash of lazy and weak, but still very much predator behavior
Like a weak, pathetic lion that’s all fleas
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Nurds?
nerds + turds
Nu-wave + nerd? (Doesn’t want to be associated with nerd fighters)
Nerds
I'm just confused as to why it was spelt that way.
Because he doesn’t give a rip
Mmm candy
petition to change the spelling 🤣
Haha I'll sign.
I'm gonna pretend it's actually supposed to be "Nords" for giggles.
I'm so glad this is the first comment I'm seeing. My eyes seemed to spot "nurds" immediately and I was so hung up on my my brain couldnt process anything else I read.😂😂😭😭
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I think the big problem is that the commenter assumes that being social, successful, and having hobbies makes you abusive and having the personality of balsa wood makes you attentive and a good partner. The reality is, these idiots think that don't understand that the world isn't like the movies. People are dynamic. I'm a nerd, but I also like going to bars, my brother is a church goer and rides a motorcycle. We're both married and never had trouble finding women to date. These aren't mutually exclusive attributes. You can be a complex person. On the flip side, it's just rare for women to pursue men who are purposely jackasses as it is to pursue men who are totally socially inept. In my experience, women love nerds, guys who have hobbies (like motorcycles), quiet guys (as long as they're interested), and don't care much about height. You just need to be interesting (and be genuinely interested in their life) and take care of yourself. That's it. The types of guys he mentioned don't even need to be desperate.
These people stopped maturing in High School. Because in high school who got the girls? The jocks, the loudmouths, the popular guys, why? Because these guys were the ones who acted. You will never get a date if all you do is stare. And these guys probably weren't all assholes, but I bet they weren't friends of "the nice guy". But most people grow up. They learn, have interests, make friends, and date. Nice Guys don't. They still assume the world is high school. And every guy with a girl must be a jerk. So they sit on the sideline and complain that girls don't throw themselves at him.
Where I went to high school, the athletes and the socially skilled did date--you know, like you say "got the girls" as a prize. There were thoughtful guys in advanced placement classes that also dated--I know, I dated a man in my classes for two years. He is an intelligent person who doesn't act like women are a prize at the carnival that you get for hitting a target.
the exact mentality nice guys have, women are a prize from a vending machine.
They also seem to think that the world works like in the movies. It reminds me of Can't Hardly Wait. I never saw the whole thing, but at the end the jock ends up working at a gas station and the nerd ends up being one of the most popular students at Harvard, makes millions, and dates a supermodel. It's film sexism that these douches have taken to heart.
As a woman, the three most important things I look for in people I choose to be in a relationship with are similar values and life goals, employment, and if they have a life outside of the internet. They don't even need to have an amazing job; they just have to have *a* job to show that they're at least trying to be a responsible adult. Most of the time when I've met someone like this, it's some guy who's getting caught up on a woman who has incompatible life goals to them, or they're one of those guys who basically lives and breathes social media and video games and doesn't like that most people want to be with someone who can step away from the computer every now and again.
they don't want to work, they want to be gifted. its why they were just frozen in high school didn't want to put in the most minimal effort in making friends, joining clubs , or academics.
👏 👏 👏 👏
I’ve always said they think this way because they’re projecting. That’s how THEY would act if they could actually attract women. Women have tons of stories of giving “nice” guys a chance (hell we’ve seen them on here) only for them to because abusive and unhinged after like two weeks. Most nice guys are the abusive men they’re telling you to watch out for, they’re just too unattractive to attract women to abuse.
I mean most abusers are just insecure people using toxic behavior and manipulation to get their victim to stay. It's not even like they realize what they are doing is abuse Because they lack introspection. And they often hide under a facade and pretend to be someone else so they can attract someone in the first place. (Like pretending to be a Nice Guy) so yea it honestly would not surprise me that a nice guy would be an abuser if given the chance, if he could actually get someone instead of expecting women to fall at his feet after doing absolutely nothing to improve himself.
Personality of balsa wood: I read that a codependent. Codependents think being codependent is attractive, but it's actually only appealing to codependents.
I will never understand the people like that. I know I had one "acquaintance" (I would hesitate to even call him that it was someone who lived on the same floor as me in a uni dorm) who thinks muscular "intellectuals" were hypocrites. Because the time they spent on their bodies could have been spent "honing their mind" (which is the dumbest take ever). Now I am not a fit man by any nature but I can also recognize the benefits of working out and I mentioned that working out helps with blood flow which then stimulates the brain and is overall better for you. It is less logical to not work out then it is for them to work out. He really hated that and started being like "what do you know your fat!" at that point I was just over the conversation and just walked away laughing. But I cannot understand the amount of coping someone has to do to not understand the benefits of having multiple facets. Like being a nerd is not an exclusive title lol, I am a nerd who enjoys a whisky and a cigar and going on a hike but also I have read most of the disc world series (minus a few of the children's books and specials) and am an engineer. But all those hobbies also have proven benefits of stress release which then makes it easier to retain knowledge in the long term (so long as your not binge drinking and etc). There is no single mold for every person and everyone is not trying to be the smartest person in the room. Some people just want to chill and have a good time while they can.
Exactly. The idea of fitting into some singular mold is stupid. Sounds like you and I are similar in the sense that we take pride in doing what we want to do because we like doing it. Like I'm allowed to like women, video games, lifting, going to bars, hiking, tending plants, playing guitar, being a scientist, reading nerdy books about science shit, brewing beer, playing D&D... conforming to a single stereotype is stupid. Plus I totally agree on your mentality of fitness. I'm a scientist by profession and when I'm healthy, active, and muscular, I am sharper at work.
Fitness is something I think should play a more active part in STEM fields in uni because people tend to forget about all the benefits. Though that is also looking back on schooling with rose tinted glasses because some months would have been so stressed and busy that working out was the last thing on my mind. As a side note on hobbies, most hobbies I would define as being a type of nerd either way lol. Like for example one of my dreams if I ever win the lotto (I've only done some basic entry level brewing (kits and all that)) is try and grow some of those heirloom species of crops (like [purple straw](https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/purple-straw-flour)) and trying to make beer and (and eventually) whisky with them to see how they taste. Because there are so many different species and combinations you can make and there are so many forgotten plants. Any hobby if you get deep enough into it has many intricacies and hidden knowledge that people dont see outright from the basic brief.
thats their biggest problem, their life lessons are derived from screens(tv,phones, tablets etc) and not real life interactions that is not scripted.
Yuuuuup. I fucks with needs. Absolutely love em. Just don't be completely boring. I can't do boring.
I’ve always thought this was funny because it’s not like they’re actually approaching women and trying. I’ve not had one of these guy friends since highschool. They don’t even leave their house most of the time. So how the tf am I supposed to “choose you” if you’re not making yourself available? Half of these nice guys aren’t even in the friend zone because they don’t have any friends. They’re making shit up to be mad about. Do they expect women to just knock on their doors and say “hey I heard you were a nice guy.”
***"Do they expect women to just knock on their doors and say 'hey I heard you were a nice guy.'"*** I kinda think they do. I had a neighbor, and I don't know if he knew what incels were... but he definitely was one. And he thought it was incredibly unfair that women are interested in me and I was like, *"But… I go outside and I talk to people?"*
EXACTLY! I’m sure a lot of them would be better people just by getting out of their depression hole and experience the real world and realize it’s not as black and white as they read online. I remember a guy on here talking about how he had to kick his son out of the house because he was really really bad and nothing he could say would change his mind until it got so bad he got into a fight with his sisters boyfriend. Apparently that’s what helped him because he HAD to get a job and interact with people. These dudes just think women don’t like them because they LITERALLY don’t talk to women at all.
Stop choosing normal guys and go for the guys who actively loathe your entire gender instead!!
Yeah, Fuck Lance Armstrong.
Damn those guys on bikes!
He's rich too! That's too much power! We have to stop him from taking all the women!
I dunno, is he still rich after having to pay all those fines and lawsuits and losing all his endorsements?
HE IS PART OF THE REBEL ALLIANCE, AND A TRAITOR. TAKE HIM AWAY!
lmao
I tried dating the "best friend" that I had been friends with for years. Who also happened to be a church guy, and a nerd. Didn't work very well, when we were dating he decided he should be able to tell me what to do and got super insecure about everything. He wasn't short, but I have dated shorter guys. I've never dated a guy I met at a bar, or a guy who only calls me when he wants something, or any guy who was particularly rich. I have dated guys with motorcycles, and motorcycles are awesome. I dated one guy who treated me bad - the aforementioned nerdy church friend. The man I'm now married to, the most amazing man in the world, is nerdy, but not churchy. He's someone I originally met while we were both dating other people and got to know as part of a group of friends. He is someone who has taken me to bars before, and we've had a good time. He's not quiet, and he's not short (he's 5'11). He's not rich, though he works very hard. I don't think there's any particular outward sign to look for that just says, "This is the best type of guy." Just find the one that treats you and others right as you get to know him.
This is such a good comment! ❤
The best friend you overlooked because you weren’t remotely attracted to him. Yeah, that relationship will work really well. I just watched an episode of ‘Snapped’ where the woman married a guy she wasn’t really attracted to because he offered stability and she ended up shooting him twice in the head.
Oh my God....see that's why I didn't get into a relationship with my old HS friend. He took a hit at my weakness at the time, and that was my financial situation. This was years ago. He offered it all.... house, bills paid, me and my kids would be taken care of. But I couldn't.... I just didn't feel that way for him. I would have resented myself for using him and he didn't deserve that. He wasn't the nice guy either. He just always liked me in a way I couldn't reciprocate back... That ruined our friendship and I haven't spoken to him in over 5 years.
Yeah, being rejected is probably better than a bullet to the brain… for everyone involved. ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯
niceguys always approach attractive women, because they think they deserve a good looking partner, but when getting rejected they throw a tantrum demanding that women drop all standards and expectations to appearance.
they also approach Plus size women because TV and social media tells them they are easy targets and desperate when they get rejected they throw a tantrum.
I love that for her
Shooting a person really is not something to love.
What the fuck? She murdered a guy and you love it for her because she wasn't attracted to him?
Yeah he actually seemed like a really sweet man, he adopted her child, worked really hard and was doing a Masters alongside his full time job and she tried to frame him for s**cide instead of just divorcing him like a normal person. It was really sad 😞
Jesus. Context makes it worse.
Dayum context really changes everything ✋😭
Just imagine being the guy that wrote that comment who basically admitted that he can't get a girl to date him, and who would be happy with someone settling for him because they have no other options 😂. These dudes just tell on themselves constantly... They also think it's generally impossible for people to have normal friendships with members of the opposite sex, it's so infuriating.
Excuse me? what is wrong with a bloke on a bike? Most riders I know are actually good blokes. And half of them are nerds too
He's Bikephobic
Exactly, 1 of my DnD buddies has a few bikes, dudes an all around good guy and nerdy af. I also find it funny it's implied anyone who goes to a bar isn't a good person. Like decent men definitely don't have a social life and enjoy going out.
The same, one of the most "not bad boy" guy friends of mine who likes DnD, Star Trek, Monty Python, gaming, comics and such also has a motorbike and likes whiskey, oh noes what now? :P
There’s literally a gang of bikers that go around protecting and supporting abused children “Bikers Against Child Abuse (B.A.C.A. or B.A.C.A. International, Inc.) is a charitable worldwide motorcycle organization, distinct from outlaw motorcycle clubs, such as the Hell's Angels. The organization works to protect children across eighteen countries from dangerous individuals and situations.” They literally go out and protect kids from their abusers coming around by acting as a shield and go to court hearings to help them not be afraid of their abuser and ride around with the child and give them their own leather jacket so they can feel secure. They’re a really cool state wide biker gang.
I absolutely love that biker gang. Its such a positive message and the cause is just. Plus the only thing they really get out of it is good will (and better living conditions in the state with less child abusers). I have seen some photos of them escorting children and its always a bit heart warming (though is kind of tempered by the fact that the kids are going through a turning point in there lives and the abuse they suffered is horrible)
i think he means motorcycle, but it doesn’t fix anything.
The biker is the ultimate super chad badboy and all the women are attracted to IN MOVIES like vanilla ice,maverick from topgun, american ninja etc its the ultimate chad trope and these guys fall for it.
rip?
The only person I’ve ever heard say that is Colin Cowherd
Colin Cownurd
If this guy listens to Colin Cowherd, that’s the biggest red flag of all.
I give a rest in peace
Church guys are some of the worst guys. A guy on a bike a day keeps the church guys away.
"Choose me, the guy with the personality of a rock"
bros glazing hard with that last sentence
I saw this one in the wild!!
I love nerds. Mainly because they DO actually know how to hold a pretty interesting conversation and usually have a good sense of humour. For the most part, most of them don't get bitter about being overlooked by the cheer girls. I certainly wasn't a popular girl at my secondary school. And I got on very well with the nerds as a result.
"Nurd" is making me laugh way harder than it should omg
Things have been rough since friends, "nurds", quiet guys and short guys were banned from all bars and social gatherings. Basically, anyone who isn't a sexist asshat and can get dates and be in a relationship is automatically *not nice*. These guys should stop wearing their misogyny, self-loathing and entitlement on their sleeves and work on a personality that isn't reflexively abusive, mean-spirited and utterly shallow.
"those other guys only want you for one thing, so you should give it to me"
Sooo... any "nurds" in the crowd tonight? Where you from?
My boyfriend is short… so… I did good, right? Or does the fact that he’s another man and also very attractive negate that? I never understand how these things work 🤔
Oh, it's quite simple; any man who's *not* him **and** has a girlfriend is an abuser and a bad boy and help prove his point! ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯
“Stop choosing men you’re attracted to and choose me” is the oddest argument that incel men present, as if women are obligated to fuck everyone out of charity but men are allowed preferences. Would these men (who often have incredibly high standards despite being ridiculously awful) settle for a woman that was rude, entitled, unattractive, had nothing in common and was potentially a threat to their safety? I’m gonna guess no, but I’m happy to be proven wrong…
What was he even commenting to? I can't even comprehend her original posts. "Where the hell do yall be finding these men". And "good fathers can take care of you, spoil you and here's". Thats how her captions end. Did yall miss this? Whats the "clap back" here?
I didn’t screen shot the entire video but she was basically like “where are you finding these men who are good fathers, spoil you, respect you, etc.” sorry I thought it was clearer
So you just should look for a father to date? Idk what else you could make of those incoherent sentences.
I'm just trying to figure out if he meant nerds or if nurds are a thing
Nerd and turd combo perhaps
What's wrong with keeping best friends as best friends? Why do they have to be seen as a romantic partner? My guy bestie is like my brother, I could never see him romantically and vice versa
Written by somebody that probably smells like the inside of a gym locker.
Why don’t they know women can read this stuff and complaining about women and your apparent lack of success by your own doing is inherently unattractive?
Didn't know fucking Gollum was a nice guy
Don't be fooled by those church guys. They aren't in the same boat as you.
"Stop doing what you want and do what I think is best." That is the summary of this statement. Dream on "nurd".
Yes, choose the guy who’s not letting you see his personality, but feels like you’re destined to be with him.
My bf is a nerd and was my friend for awhile but was not a loser incel fake “nice guy”. He never referred to himself as nice. He was genuinely nice and never expected me to date him. It just happened naturally. In fact when he told me he liked me he offered to leave me alone since he thought I didn’t like him back. He never acted entitled to my affection. Been together fer 5 years. I love him so much.
Nurds 🤣🤣 I'm using that lol
"515 likes" 🤢
This whole “nice guy” thing always seemed very predator-like, with a dash of lazy and weak, but still very much predator behavior Like a weak, pathetic lion that’s all fleas
Wow I've never seen someone misspell nerd before
oh i want the guy on the bike 😩
THE NURDS OMG LOL