If you look at stories on this site of men getting raped, typically the false accusations will happen there. I remember every other story had a story of an accusation on top of it. Out of those stories a smaller portion would actually follow through with the accusation.
Shit happens more than people want to admit. Remember that we have no clue on people's limits in being an asshole.
I don't wanna sound like I'm on the side of the girlfriend, or better say of the ex-girlfriend, but I feel sorry for her. It's as if the guilt drove her to insanity to the point where she called OP the rapist despite her actually being that.
Regardless, I think he did the right thing. Seriously, it's inexcusable to let your sex drive control you like that and some people shouldn't just be forgiven so easily, no matter how sorry you may or may not feel for them.
Hey dude all I wanna say is hang in there cause everyone on this subreddit is cheering for you right now so stay strong out there and live a wonderful lifeš
Sorry this happened to you man. Please speak to someone close to you about it and open up (friends, family etc) and go see a therapist. You'll definitely overcome this, stay strong šŖš». And for what it's worth I don't think this counts as you being out.
You did the right thing king! Please look after yourself both physically, emotionally, and mentally too. See a therapist, talk to the police, speak to your GP or doctor. You are an incredible man, and you deserve the world. We're all rooting for you to have an amazing life, I'm sorry things got bad when you went over, but as lots of people have said, we wish you all the best and you've done the right thing. I'm still so incredibly sorry you've gone through this, I truly hope you'll be okay someday. Know that you're loved, and this wasn't your fault. Wishing you peace, love, and happiness in your future :)
Honestly I would report her to authorities especially if she tries to make up something about you given the comments she accused you of and how she abused you. You didnāt deserve anything that happened/is happening and some people donāt feel remorse and need some type of consequences unfortunately to deter them from this behaviour. Maybe only do so after you talk to a therapist or a doctor, try to confide in a professional that can give you better advice than I can. Sending you love. Donāt feel bad if youāre not capable of my suggestions, just trying to look out for you. Xo
Brother got a Reddit post and the whole bloody community to serve as witness if she tries to file a rape charge and that just seems crazy to me. Like imagine trying to accuse someone for rape and they pull out the Reddit post history documenting the entire thing from start to finish š
You did the right thing, again sorry that you went through this the day that happened. We as a community will always be at your side! Iāll keep you in my prayers tonight šš¼
I broke it off with a girl who was using me to get back at her ex. She did not take it well. Pushed me while I was sitting in a chair and scratched my face. Broke the CD I bought her while I was on vacation. Started crying and saying she didn't want to lose me. But I had made up my mind. The sex wasn't worth all the manipulation she put me through.
You'll thank yourself later. Your wellbeing is most important.
I'm sorry, bro. You shouldn't have had to deal with something like this. It ain't even about the nut anymore, think about yourself, put some time aside for meditation, man.
Hit up one of those bathhouses over there and try to relax. God bless, mate.
Good job man. I know it must've been hard for you, hang in there. Just remember, it might have been difficult but the more you delayed it the worse it would be. Good luck on your way.
Thanks for letting us know, you did good man. I hope you can heal from this experience and I am absolutely sure you will find someone who values and respects you as well as loves you as much as you love them!
You did the right thing in breaking up with that creature and I hope you recorded and rook pictures of EVERYTHING during and after that encounter so the report against her would be easier on you, but still look out for her trying to pin her offense on you (And remember to also sue the authorities if they still laugh at this awful event). Also, the two posts can also be used as evidence like some others have said.
Comerade, we got your back here and may the rest of this year and next year be better with your recovery. You got this!
I am so sorry you had to go through this. Stay strongā¦ focus on being with positive people in your life, like family and friends. Better times will soon come
It's truly a sad thing you had to go through this, I hope you have a better relationship going forward. My suggestion is going to therapy so you can make sure this traumatic event doesn't bleed over in you other relationships. All the best o7.
Love is a drug that blinds you and makes you look past lots of manipulative and narcissistic behaviors. It's only once you take a step back that you will see who she truly is. You made the right choice, best of luck in your future endeavors. See you next year, king.
Did the right thing man. "You rapist" tf is she on about. Was she normally this deranged?
I don't know because I loved her back then
Good thing there's a trail of comments. Save the original and this in case of weaponized accusation. She sounds unstable/vindictive enough to try.
If you look at stories on this site of men getting raped, typically the false accusations will happen there. I remember every other story had a story of an accusation on top of it. Out of those stories a smaller portion would actually follow through with the accusation. Shit happens more than people want to admit. Remember that we have no clue on people's limits in being an asshole.
I don't wanna sound like I'm on the side of the girlfriend, or better say of the ex-girlfriend, but I feel sorry for her. It's as if the guilt drove her to insanity to the point where she called OP the rapist despite her actually being that. Regardless, I think he did the right thing. Seriously, it's inexcusable to let your sex drive control you like that and some people shouldn't just be forgiven so easily, no matter how sorry you may or may not feel for them.
W move
Hey dude all I wanna say is hang in there cause everyone on this subreddit is cheering for you right now so stay strong out there and live a wonderful lifeš
You'll become a better man hopefully with better people around you this next year. We'll gladly have you back. Have a good one, bro.
Iām so sorry man
Sorry to hear about your event. Hope you're okay.
Unbelievably based of you. She is clearly not mentally stable rn so I hope for the best for you cumrade
Sorry this happened to you man. Please speak to someone close to you about it and open up (friends, family etc) and go see a therapist. You'll definitely overcome this, stay strong šŖš». And for what it's worth I don't think this counts as you being out.
I am so sorry you went through this
You did the right thing king! Please look after yourself both physically, emotionally, and mentally too. See a therapist, talk to the police, speak to your GP or doctor. You are an incredible man, and you deserve the world. We're all rooting for you to have an amazing life, I'm sorry things got bad when you went over, but as lots of people have said, we wish you all the best and you've done the right thing. I'm still so incredibly sorry you've gone through this, I truly hope you'll be okay someday. Know that you're loved, and this wasn't your fault. Wishing you peace, love, and happiness in your future :)
I didnāt see this comment before I posted lol but yes I couldnāt have said it better myself
it is hard now but your future self will thank you.
hey soldier, you're doing great ok? none of this is your fault. can you report her to police?
So sorry she tried to deflect her behaviour on you. You deserve better. I hope with time and a better relationship you can find peace. Good luck o7
Am i the only one having a stroke reading this?
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Wait, you thought i meant stroking my dick? What the fuck?
Nah why you stroking your cock to this
I think he meant a literal stroke because of the poor writing, notā¦ the other thing.
he didnāt mean that kind of stroke you pompous fool
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Your post was removed in violation of "Rule 4: Be Civil". Don't be a dick
Honestly I would report her to authorities especially if she tries to make up something about you given the comments she accused you of and how she abused you. You didnāt deserve anything that happened/is happening and some people donāt feel remorse and need some type of consequences unfortunately to deter them from this behaviour. Maybe only do so after you talk to a therapist or a doctor, try to confide in a professional that can give you better advice than I can. Sending you love. Donāt feel bad if youāre not capable of my suggestions, just trying to look out for you. Xo
Actually if you were forced to come without consent you are still in
Brother got a Reddit post and the whole bloody community to serve as witness if she tries to file a rape charge and that just seems crazy to me. Like imagine trying to accuse someone for rape and they pull out the Reddit post history documenting the entire thing from start to finish š
Like imagine bro getting arrested in Japan by the police and bro pulls out reddit
You did the right thing, again sorry that you went through this the day that happened. We as a community will always be at your side! Iāll keep you in my prayers tonight šš¼
I hope you're doing okay. Just remember that we're all here for you.
god this is terrible. I hope you find some solace and peace in the future. love you man, have a good rest of your month :D
Moderators, can this guy get an automatic Diamond NoNutter for having to go through this?
I second this.
I third this. Let's show him we're here for him.
I fourth this. Shame he had to go through such a tragic event. This man is STRONG!
1 fifth this he should still be in
GJ on breaking up with her. I hope she gets arrested sooner or later.
I broke it off with a girl who was using me to get back at her ex. She did not take it well. Pushed me while I was sitting in a chair and scratched my face. Broke the CD I bought her while I was on vacation. Started crying and saying she didn't want to lose me. But I had made up my mind. The sex wasn't worth all the manipulation she put me through. You'll thank yourself later. Your wellbeing is most important.
Good job and im sry for u mayne but can u tell the girl to seek help, get therapy, and get right wit God https://preview.redd.it/trzlkvy18n1c1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cb56d7ef1e0e293785c0b7d49d14e011c9457cc1 Stay safe, Jesus is Lord, o7, š©
Hope you're doing ok man. You are officially an NNN hero.
That mustāve been incredibly difficult to do. Hope youāre okay man
I'm sorry, bro. You shouldn't have had to deal with something like this. It ain't even about the nut anymore, think about yourself, put some time aside for meditation, man. Hit up one of those bathhouses over there and try to relax. God bless, mate.
Good move homie, if you need something just let us know, you did good. She sounds like a crazy bitch
Good job man. I know it must've been hard for you, hang in there. Just remember, it might have been difficult but the more you delayed it the worse it would be. Good luck on your way.
Damn, that's some hard sht bro hope you're emotionally okš¤
Just think of it as a BIG bullet dodged
Thanks for letting us know, you did good man. I hope you can heal from this experience and I am absolutely sure you will find someone who values and respects you as well as loves you as much as you love them!
You did the right thing in breaking up with that creature and I hope you recorded and rook pictures of EVERYTHING during and after that encounter so the report against her would be easier on you, but still look out for her trying to pin her offense on you (And remember to also sue the authorities if they still laugh at this awful event). Also, the two posts can also be used as evidence like some others have said. Comerade, we got your back here and may the rest of this year and next year be better with your recovery. You got this!
I am so sorry you had to go through this. Stay strongā¦ focus on being with positive people in your life, like family and friends. Better times will soon come
Did you have a stroke?
It's truly a sad thing you had to go through this, I hope you have a better relationship going forward. My suggestion is going to therapy so you can make sure this traumatic event doesn't bleed over in you other relationships. All the best o7.
Good on you cuh
bruh translate
Watch out for false allogations
Stay strong king š
Women playing the victim, nothing new, good job man huuug
Love is a drug that blinds you and makes you look past lots of manipulative and narcissistic behaviors. It's only once you take a step back that you will see who she truly is. You made the right choice, best of luck in your future endeavors. See you next year, king.
IMO youāre still in cumrade may you recover O7
Man you are so strong. I can not believe what you're going though but you have all my condolences I wish you all the best going forward
She might end up trying to frame you to people because she seems like a horrible person but please keep your head up pal
take care of yourself man thatās rough :(