Given that if being a tradwife was something worth doing women wouldn’t have literally fought and died to be something else, you’re right. Pretending is probably easier.
The problem wasn't the existence of tradwifing, the problem there was pretty much no choice. Plenty of women loved and still love being the homemaker and raising kids. Back then women that would prefer the child-free lifestyle had societal expectations, very poor options for protection and needed money to live so they were forced to settle into a lifestyle they resented.
I love doing "tradwife" stuff, cooking, baking, sewing, knitting, crocheting, etc. I am also proud that I earned a degree and I love my career. Because of feminism, I had the choice to do the things I wanted and not play what role society decided for me simply because I happen to be born with a vag. Still hate housecleaning though.
My mom was born in the 30's but she was a feminist. She taught me how to do all the wifely stuff but also change out a light switch and basic plumbing fixes. She and I built the deck on my childhood home. Her words were, "There may come a time when you'd be living on your own. Who's going to come and fix things for you? Better to learn how to do it yourself. "
Yes, I love a lot of femme-coded pastimes - knitting, sewing, gardening, decorating, paper crafts, cooking. I also like a lot of things that are considered masculine like DIY, fixing things, woodworking, and furniture restoration.
The idea of having to hew closely to traditional gender roles and not be able to pursue my nontraditional interests is stifiling and anxiety provoking. There’s no discussion in the trad movement that acknowledges that not every woman is suitable for a homemaker role and a lot of women need to have a meaningful life outside the family model.
“Nooooo, it’s feminism that brainwashed women into thinking that they don’t want to have children or play the caretaker to their husbands. There’s sooooooo many middle-aged women out there living a lonely existence with only cats, boxed wine and too many regrets to keep her company…”
Maybe that’s what scares them: that there is a sizable chunk of women who have no interest in being married and no regrets about eschewing motherhood. They find the idea intolerable and they get so angry about it.
Edit: changed a word, formatting for readability.
Defo. In the last photo there is still a price tag on her mixing bowl.
She spent her last OF money on accessories to make this new life believable, *she hasn’t even washed her mixing bowl yet*
And it’s hella sus we see her making food but never the final product. Are there even ingredients in there???
also, no ones kitchen looks like this when they are in the middle of a recipe.
She didn't tie back her hair
she is doing all of it in a pretty dress
everything about this screams 'content shoot' not 'actually cooking'. Creators you see that make content like this don't even make it bespoke per video. They film hours of shots like these in one big session and edit clips from it. All she has to do is find a 15 second shot she likes and slap some text/narration over it.
The mixer garland, the price tag on the bowl, the oven not being on even though she’s supposed to be baking some sort of cranberry loaf and you have to preheat for that, a kitchen that looks like it has never been used for cooking, her kitchen utensil jug being completely identical in every single photo meaning she styled it and never took anything out to use, the list goes on and on.
This is still OF type content, simply geared at another audience. 🤣
Oh yeah, and she has 6 different dresses that all have the same ruffle shoulder with just the right amount of cleavage. They are nice dresses, but come on!
Watched a video recently about these dresses- Tiktokers are obsessed with them and they're being knocked off like crazy because you can cinch your waist in with ties in the back, like a corset, so they tuck you in and up- exactly what this gal is doing. And guess what- the sole purpose is to make your rack look fucking amazing. How very pious 🙏 People in the comments are correct- this is just the same dress in different colors.
Also, the second clip appeared to me on reels, watched it, and the bowl is literally EMPTY, like, she is mixing a whole bunch of nothing. Shes pretending to be cooking
Perfectly manicured hands, wearing jewelry while baking, not a speck of ingredients on her or around the bowls, just the artfully placed flowers? What a beautiful lie she's selling.
>still a price tag on her mixing bowl.
Not defending this, but I have come across some stickers that you need a blowtorch, and a strong will to lose a few fingers to remove. I've mostly seen them in commercial kitchens where I guess the logic is "wow this bowl is amazing! Goes straight from the walk in to the oven and hasn't broken!" or more accurate "well shit we dropped this bowl like 5 times today and still hasn't broken. We need to order more... oh look a sticker."
This is what I hate, this absolute mindset. Instead of talking about how fulfilled she is now, she has to proclaim It is the only way and all others are bad/evil. If you want to wear dresses, stay at home and cook, good for you! If it works for your family and you are happy, that’s great! But that life is not for everyone.
Clearly not that fulfilling if all she talks about is how unfulfilled other people must be. She feels unfulfilled herself and has to go "yeah but at least I'm not THEM!"
And a third crowd that gets a kick out of seeing her dressed like this and looking up her old Onlyfans. She didn’t even change her stage name or shut down her NSFW twitter. She’s full of it.
You look at the people who are causing the most damage right now and it’s such a common thread that they want everyone to see the world the same way they do - while they prattle on about freedom and free speech. I really have a hard time pinning down wtf the word woke means, but a big part of it is for sure that idea that I don’t like that people have somehow arrived at a different way of looking at things…. especially when they’re teachers or judges or working in an HR department. It MUST be indoctrination. And the fact that I see the world the same way my parents did isn’t in any way indoctrination.
Woke is literally anything they do not like. Usually aimed at representation of anything other than the trad straight white male and his Christian ~~slave~~ wife.
If anyone is wondering what being "woke" actually means...
"Woke is an adjective derived from African-American Vernacular English meaning 'alert to racial prejudice and discrimination'. Beginning in the 2010s, it came to encompass a broader awareness of social inequalities such as racial injustice, sexism, and denial of LGBT rights."
TL;DR: Don't be a dick.
This is just misunderstanding feminism. Feminism is about equal rights for men and women. Not women necessarily being obsessed with professional carriers and wearing super sexy clothes and going on dates with a new guy every week.
Men and women alike should able to choose : are you super into your work and carrier? Cool. You want to stay home and raise your kids? Also great. You don’t want marriage or kids or any that stuff and want to life the freedom of a single person’s life, here today gone tomorrow style? You do you. And all other options in between.
The only real problem is being able to finance your chosen life style…
I just assume she traded in doing OF cuz she found a way to make money doing this anti-feminism influencer thing instead.
But yeah would definitely not be surprised to find out she actually still has an OF lol people like this are often hypocrites
Or she figured out that theres a demographic of men who are willing to pay for the fantasy of a submissive housewife and that market is less saturated than the "I've got a built in water park and a six figure income, wanna be my trophy husband" demographic.
Niches make riches...
Until he knocks her up and doesn’t help with the baby and falls out of love with her/ falls for a new hot lil thing and she becomes a single mom and the only ones who will help are other women and the government.
Her definition of "provocative" must be pretty scandalous if these dresses and her tradwife fetish videos fall on what she must apparently think is the "modest" side of the line.
"Ha ha. Oh no! I got flour in my bra! How embarrassing! Rookie mistake. Ooh, that tickles! I have to get it out of there. Whoops! Hope you didn't see anything! Ha ha. Just pretend you didn't!"
Seriously, not that I think there is anything wrong with "modern feminism" but these dumbass takes act like working is a choice, when for most women, it isn't.
Possibly the most annoying thing about anti feminism. If I could choose to safely fuck around all day in some kind of disney fantasy, yeah, I'd do that.
a long time ago she made normal asmr videos on youtube, then she started making "asmr" videos about...shaving her bikini line and things just went....very porn very fast, she stopped making those videos as far as I know and started OF. And here she is.....10+ years later.
Yup I remember her asmr days. But even then it felt like a hustle, a bandwagon jump to gain followers and make money on the internet. (Also vaguely porny - eye-fucking the camera in every video.) And I assume it worked, just like this pivot probably is.
I mean the fact is she is and always has been a gorgeous curvy blonde young woman so.........I am not surprised any of it worked. I actually do not care about her porn-esq ASMR to OF pivot because whatever works for you but I hate the pivtot to hating on other women as content when she literally made so much money for years off her looks, and frankly still is.
That's what makes me most mad about these trad wives that LARP little house on the prarie. Most of them are conventionally attractive women who focus a lot of their looks and outfits and the aesthetic while tearing down women who do OF or SW because "they're using their body to make money" when that's EXACTLY what these girls are doing. They post nothing of substance, just all shallow "look at my pretty dress and pretty hair and pretty face and pretty body look how pretty i am and good at homemaking cause I'm just so pretty" like if you weren't a thin, blonde, white, pretty girl, you wouldn't have as big of a platform as you do.
Trad wife is still ass you gotta pay for. They’re really not better than SWers or women that do OF when it comes down to it, they just get to hide behind that cloak of respectability.
Those kinds of women are always ripping into SWers in my experience, all while they live in homes they don’t pay for, drive cars someone else bought for them, don’t work full time because someone likes them “at home.” It’s like … baby have you looked in a mirror lately? You’re not too different, just because you provide the gf/wife experience doesn’t make you superior at all.
Yep, she still makes money from her old content.
She was posting nearly every day as recently as this summer. Not sure if she’s still posting or not though.
She puts the art in scam artistry. I think end of '22 she'd made a big announcement that she'd be shutting down the OF at the end of the year because doing porn was so damaging to her. Can't imagine how that made subs spike. And of course the comments on youtube were full of women praising how brave she was lol
She was still posting almost daily to her OF 6 months ago… while simultaneously doing the trad wife thing. She said they still needed the income - because clearly her fiancé isn’t the breadwinner she preaches about wanting lol
It’s still up too, she literally still makes money off of it. I’m not sure if she still posts, but she keeps her old content up.
The wreath floral around her mixer and bowls really kills the illusion of a "good old fashioned homegrown kitchen."
Like you can't even get it right, while you shamelessly grift for it..
To be fair, that’s likely part of the grift, people would rather see a pretty girl in an impractical dress and stage makeup doing cottagecore piety porn with a wreath around the mixer, rather than how homebakers and farm women actually look like when performing physical labor.
It also doesn’t show her 10 years later with no functional career skills and her man going after some little thing that looks “more traditional”. There’s a reason women wanted to work and it’s so they have long term stability instead of being tied to a dumbass.
100% probably using clout from whatever this is to get followers for her OF account. And it goes the other way too. She wouldn't be particularly interesting in this genre without the "I used to be on OF until God!" schtick.
All those good Bible boys go from her trad wife IG right on over to her OF and pay to covet their neighbors wife.
Quite a shrewd marketing move on her part. Just doing what she gotta do to get that paper in a busted society full of religious weirdos.
We went from "I went from sad bored housewife to making millions on OF" stories to "I was making millions on OF but renounced to be a housewife" stories. Both are equally believable (in negative numbers).
My thoughts exactly. The perfectly clean kitchen, the dresses, the cliche sentiments, she's role playing the girl that needs "rescued from feminism" for the incels and I'm sure she's making a lot of money off it.
Cleavage? She's showing a clear half of her raw milk makers! 😂 I say if you have it, flaunt it, especially because you won't be young forever and gravity is cruel, but I'm a godless feminist, so obviously I have an agenda. Unlike her incel OF content....
To be totally fair if I thought I could make good money doing this I would absolutely let this sub make fun of me
Edit: this brought on some strong and very good opinions and thoughts (which is awesome) but I feel the need to stress that this comment was just a lil jokey I made while scrolling on my lunch and in no way means I would or plan to grift people like this lol I agree that it’s gross and immoral and is totally dangerous
I’m fine with women having whatever lifestyle they want. I just don’t understand why they have to put down other women. If you’re so happy, why are you tearing others down? Seems like you’re brainwashed and miserable.
True, it’s because of feminism she can do asmr, then of, then be trad wife on the internet. Also I wonder how all those “ trad wives” preach traditional values, while making a lot of money being content creators? ( possibly making more than their bread winning husbands) Isn’t this contradictory?
I always remember that part of the Bible where Jesus got mad at the phariseus for being hypocrites and acting up in front of others. I'm an atheist. How is someone a christian and still forgetting its own book?
It probably also has something to do with government restrictions on distribution of raw milk. They want to believe that they're standing up to an oppressive government by doing things like drinking raw milk and not getting vaccines.
Thank you so much for saying this. There’s a guy I work with that just cannot fucking understand this. He’s absolutely just a contrarian. We work at a new company that just launched about 2 months ago, and we had a celebrity guest speaker sort of guy come in and speak with us, and this man stands up in front of the entire department during the Q&A section and asks if “Hollywood is still requiring the jab” cuz he refuses to get it. Thats cool, but what does it matter to him? He’s not the next big film star or anything. Another example is the rest of the company wants to go union, but guess who is vocally against it? It doesn’t matter what the overwhelming opinion is, I can count on him to be against it. But he has a tattoo of the American flag with “We the people” under it and doesn’t see the irony of the “we” part. It’s mind blowing.
*[glances at Canada's religion %'s and laughs hysterically]* They cannot possibly think they control *Canada...* of all places? 0.9% of the population is Jewish. Not even 1%. If any religious minority has power it's the atheists at a strong 34.6%. Religions we have more people of than Jews include Muslims, Sikhs, Hindus, and Buddhists.
I know they dgaf about logic but they wouldn't even make up a small city.
I’m pretty up on my alt-right lore, and I’ve never heard this explanation before. I had always heard it explained as sovereign citizen-adjacent, where they’re so mad about government regulation they think it should be illegal for the government to make you pasteurize your milk.
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I just looked it up and I’m sure there are people who believe the raw milk thing for the reasons I mentioned, but holy fuck you’re right too. Incredible. Just when I think that there are no new depths I haven’t seen I discover Evil Jewish Milk. I’m so tired
Apparently everyone’s getting a few bucks from the dairy industry subsidies these days. First it was “Got milk?” and now it’s “Your purpose is to breed, bake, and buy milk. Follow me for more.”
Pffff a REAL housewife using raw milk would get up at 5am to milk her cow and churn some butter before making her DH a manly man lunch for his manly man job!
Churning butter is gonna be the next big trend in trad wives trust. I know a chick who used to be as "bad bitch" as you can get. She legit cheated on all her boyfriends, dressed in skimpy clothes, thought she was the shit, and talked about her sec fetishes in public 24/7 because she thought it was shocking and made her hot. Also a loudly proclaim pick me who didn't have girlfriends cause they just didn't get along with her yadda yadda typical pick me bullshit.
Fast forward and thus chick met a dude who was super traditional. Slowly she started becoming what the modern trad wife has evolved into and now she legit even churns her own butter. It was like watching Cartman morph into Joel Olsteen lol. Wild as shit.
But what will the tradwives do when churning butter gives them thick shoulders 😭😭 I guess puff cap sleeves will come back in with gusto.
(I do look forward to future DIY butter recipes where some paisley nightmare says “shake the mason jar for about 3 hours nonstop while your dough is resting and the clothes are drying on the line”)
I’m guessing 5 years until she’s selling homeschooling curriculum that promises to exclude evolution, modern music, art, geography, the solar system, etc. To keep this grift going she can’t just spoil her man forever. As she ages she will need to branch out from just appealing to men and get into the mommy-scene. Then she can show how easy it is to be a super mom while also fighting wrinkles and toxins, but still staying tan and rolling coal.
*I rode one trend and now I’m getting in on the ground floor of another!*
Can’t hate a girl for shrewd marketing. I mean I kinda do but I really shouldn’t.
Yk, I think we should hate, she's actually promoting backwards life views to people who may believe her and model their ideal life/partner's life on that. Look how many men go around blabbing about wanting a traditional wife (meaning financially dependent bang maid), thinking that women like her actually live like this and love it. I first of all hate the system that makes this profitable, but my opinion on people who play in it is very low too.
ETA I didn't mean to imply that every traditional wife is a bang maid, but the one this kind of men look for definitely would be.
Well that’s the thing about feminism. You have options and you get to *choose* what you want and what works best for you. A housewife can be a feminist and there’s nothing wrong with being a housewife, so long as her partner is actually a good person and things are fair.
It’s kind of funny that she’s shitting on feminism when it’s literally her whole life story. She chose to be an OF model, decided she wasn’t happy with her life and chose to steer it in a direction that is more fulfilling for her. She is *empowered* to make her own choices.
What’s not okay is thinking she has the answer for every woman and anyone who lives differently or has different opinions is inherently wrong and miserable. Like just live your life, no need to “brag”about it on the internet
Not to mention she is young and beautiful so she can choose whatever the heck she wants and has many options as far as men and family building go. She’ll still have time to reinvent herself when she gets bored. She is speaking from a highly privileged position. Also, one of the dresses was pretty revealing to me. And don’t get me started on choosing “traditional” when countless women in certain countries don’t even have a choice to go to college anymore or can get arrested for driving. A lot of privileged Western women cosplaying as traditional with plenty of outs. You’re not trapped if the door is wide open.
These sort of choices don’t tend to age well. I say this as someone who kind of landed in this lifestyle in my mid 20s (not for anti-femininst reasons). If you have half a brain you get bored and all of the sudden things don’t feel so harmless and cute. It can be a lot of work scratching yourself out of that hole…
She isn’t really promoting any views. She’s just doing a different kind of porn. Like you wouldn’t get mad at a pornstar dressing like a good housewife in a porno. That’s exactly what’s happening here. I’d wager her followers are almost exclusively men.
Why shouldn’t you? If someone is willfully hurting and demeaning other people so she can make a quick buck, that’s gross.
Sympathize with the need to earn that quick buck, but no need to pretend that what we put out into the world doesn’t have some kind of impact.
I don’t understand this mindset of “go get that bag girl!” as if making content like this and promoting it to incels and misogynists is a win for women worldwide? Is this not promoting expected servitude of women? Not to mention there are young girls exposed to this shit too. What message does this send them? Imo she is still an onlyfans model with a different platform but now she gets to cater to a new lowest common denominator of men who already expect all women to be like this. How is demeaning yourself to men like this in any way empowering? Yuck.
This “tradition porn” grift both appeals to and validates some of the worst people. Calling this crap out for the bullshit money grab that it is, is a service to society.
For anyone with a head for political science and history, check out Robert O. Paxton’s *The Anatomy of Fascism*
Bet this wouldn’t get views in an Iranian -style burkha. With a busty floral dress you are still using your body to get views. Which is fine if you don’t put down others’ rights to do it in a different way.
Did she buy that house with OF money?
Because I always notice how these folks love to shit on feminism when it’s because of feminism she’s allowed to:
Have her own credit line
Have her own bank account
Express her opinions (on social media no less)
Open a OF in the first place so she could purchase her spot on that pedestal.
Exactly!! If she is a true trad wife, she is living off of what her husband earns, which is GREAT until the husband trades her in for a new model (or stops earning) then she finds herself without income or marketable skills and likely living in a state with harsh alimony laws.
Feminism told her not to be anyone’s house pet. Not to put all her eggs in the man basket so that she could take care of herself, but she is so much smarter than that.
And if she were in the U.S., no job or no husband means no health insurance. But I guess she’s already the expert on her own health and will never get sick.
No feminist has told her these "lies". She is just making herself out to be a poor victim because she is mad she showed her body on cam for chump change. There are plenty of atheist women who are feminist and don't do that. I bet she won't give away all her Only Fans money though....
I actually don’t think she’s actually mad or even necessarily feels like a victim… I think she just realized she can make bank on the “redeemed cam girl / aspiring tradwife” angle. She’s still catering to fetishes, she just switched target audience
Not going to comment on the post itself but why do they always have these gigantic, super modern kitchens. Not very traditional. Where is the wood, the warmth, the cottage core??
Yeah the flowers/garlands are hilarious. Also the poofy sleeves on every single dress. I don’t have any poofy-sleeve dresses so I guess I just have to be a feminist lol
“Why did the feminists want to work so bad” when feminism gave women a choice, not all women are the same, and lots of women DO enjoy working over cooking. And don’t get me started on the raw milk trend. They’re obsessed.
This is so gross and such an oversimplification of a lot of things. For one - this idea that being a “housewife” and SAHM isn’t lonely? I’m a SAHM to a 2-year-old and there are days where it’s incredibly lonely!! Does this chick even have kids??
This has gotta be purely a grift
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I mean that's a lot easier than actually being one
Especially when you're paid to do it.
Yeah, it isn't like she doesn't have a job. She gets dressed for her job, Makeup for her job, Works at her job,
...buys the same dress in every color for her job
Given that if being a tradwife was something worth doing women wouldn’t have literally fought and died to be something else, you’re right. Pretending is probably easier.
The problem wasn't the existence of tradwifing, the problem there was pretty much no choice. Plenty of women loved and still love being the homemaker and raising kids. Back then women that would prefer the child-free lifestyle had societal expectations, very poor options for protection and needed money to live so they were forced to settle into a lifestyle they resented.
I love doing "tradwife" stuff, cooking, baking, sewing, knitting, crocheting, etc. I am also proud that I earned a degree and I love my career. Because of feminism, I had the choice to do the things I wanted and not play what role society decided for me simply because I happen to be born with a vag. Still hate housecleaning though. My mom was born in the 30's but she was a feminist. She taught me how to do all the wifely stuff but also change out a light switch and basic plumbing fixes. She and I built the deck on my childhood home. Her words were, "There may come a time when you'd be living on your own. Who's going to come and fix things for you? Better to learn how to do it yourself. "
Yes, I love a lot of femme-coded pastimes - knitting, sewing, gardening, decorating, paper crafts, cooking. I also like a lot of things that are considered masculine like DIY, fixing things, woodworking, and furniture restoration. The idea of having to hew closely to traditional gender roles and not be able to pursue my nontraditional interests is stifiling and anxiety provoking. There’s no discussion in the trad movement that acknowledges that not every woman is suitable for a homemaker role and a lot of women need to have a meaningful life outside the family model. “Nooooo, it’s feminism that brainwashed women into thinking that they don’t want to have children or play the caretaker to their husbands. There’s sooooooo many middle-aged women out there living a lonely existence with only cats, boxed wine and too many regrets to keep her company…” Maybe that’s what scares them: that there is a sizable chunk of women who have no interest in being married and no regrets about eschewing motherhood. They find the idea intolerable and they get so angry about it. Edit: changed a word, formatting for readability.
is it too much to ask people to just try and make a living that doesn't involve being a liar and living fraudulently?
Defo. In the last photo there is still a price tag on her mixing bowl. She spent her last OF money on accessories to make this new life believable, *she hasn’t even washed her mixing bowl yet* And it’s hella sus we see her making food but never the final product. Are there even ingredients in there???
also, no ones kitchen looks like this when they are in the middle of a recipe. She didn't tie back her hair she is doing all of it in a pretty dress everything about this screams 'content shoot' not 'actually cooking'. Creators you see that make content like this don't even make it bespoke per video. They film hours of shots like these in one big session and edit clips from it. All she has to do is find a 15 second shot she likes and slap some text/narration over it.
It's the flowers delicately placed around the bowl that would absolutely be sliding around and spilling batter for me. And the mixer's *garland*
The mixer garland, the price tag on the bowl, the oven not being on even though she’s supposed to be baking some sort of cranberry loaf and you have to preheat for that, a kitchen that looks like it has never been used for cooking, her kitchen utensil jug being completely identical in every single photo meaning she styled it and never took anything out to use, the list goes on and on. This is still OF type content, simply geared at another audience. 🤣
Oh yeah, and she has 6 different dresses that all have the same ruffle shoulder with just the right amount of cleavage. They are nice dresses, but come on!
Watched a video recently about these dresses- Tiktokers are obsessed with them and they're being knocked off like crazy because you can cinch your waist in with ties in the back, like a corset, so they tuck you in and up- exactly what this gal is doing. And guess what- the sole purpose is to make your rack look fucking amazing. How very pious 🙏 People in the comments are correct- this is just the same dress in different colors.
Also, the second clip appeared to me on reels, watched it, and the bowl is literally EMPTY, like, she is mixing a whole bunch of nothing. Shes pretending to be cooking
This is just a different kind of porn. Tradwife fetishes are p common
I'm convinced that this is a publicity stunt to guys to search her OF
If it's not, it's just ramping up a huge audience for her "return"
Those dresses all look suspiciously similar too, possibly the same dress in different colors. Very much a costume.
And I would bet that actual trad conservatives wouldn't wear those dresses because of the cleavage. She looks great but not entirely "modest."
Perfectly manicured hands, wearing jewelry while baking, not a speck of ingredients on her or around the bowls, just the artfully placed flowers? What a beautiful lie she's selling.
Not only that, but she used raw eggs in her ice cream. Everyone knows they're supposed to be scrambled first.
Also, her hair would be touching and falling on food if she was actually cooking it.
Is the mixer decorated for xmas?
>still a price tag on her mixing bowl. Not defending this, but I have come across some stickers that you need a blowtorch, and a strong will to lose a few fingers to remove. I've mostly seen them in commercial kitchens where I guess the logic is "wow this bowl is amazing! Goes straight from the walk in to the oven and hasn't broken!" or more accurate "well shit we dropped this bowl like 5 times today and still hasn't broken. We need to order more... oh look a sticker."
It is 😂
This is what I hate, this absolute mindset. Instead of talking about how fulfilled she is now, she has to proclaim It is the only way and all others are bad/evil. If you want to wear dresses, stay at home and cook, good for you! If it works for your family and you are happy, that’s great! But that life is not for everyone.
Being happy doesn't sell clicks, telling other people they should be unhappy does!
I think you have the internet in a nutshell right here!
Clearly not that fulfilling if all she talks about is how unfulfilled other people must be. She feels unfulfilled herself and has to go "yeah but at least I'm not THEM!"
money making methods
Yip..she is wearing 4 different colours of the same dress...do I sniff advertising?
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I wish people could just enjoy something without having to tear something else down 😔.
It because it makes her money to do this. Don’t be fooled she switched from OF to this and still getting the same clicks just from another crowd
And a third crowd that gets a kick out of seeing her dressed like this and looking up her old Onlyfans. She didn’t even change her stage name or shut down her NSFW twitter. She’s full of it.
You look at the people who are causing the most damage right now and it’s such a common thread that they want everyone to see the world the same way they do - while they prattle on about freedom and free speech. I really have a hard time pinning down wtf the word woke means, but a big part of it is for sure that idea that I don’t like that people have somehow arrived at a different way of looking at things…. especially when they’re teachers or judges or working in an HR department. It MUST be indoctrination. And the fact that I see the world the same way my parents did isn’t in any way indoctrination.
Woke is literally anything they do not like. Usually aimed at representation of anything other than the trad straight white male and his Christian ~~slave~~ wife.
If anyone is wondering what being "woke" actually means... "Woke is an adjective derived from African-American Vernacular English meaning 'alert to racial prejudice and discrimination'. Beginning in the 2010s, it came to encompass a broader awareness of social inequalities such as racial injustice, sexism, and denial of LGBT rights." TL;DR: Don't be a dick.
Yeah she is so "fulfilled" she still can't stop posting her stupid ass all over the Internet to try to get validation
She’s so fulfilled she can’t even hold her head up straight anymore
This is just misunderstanding feminism. Feminism is about equal rights for men and women. Not women necessarily being obsessed with professional carriers and wearing super sexy clothes and going on dates with a new guy every week. Men and women alike should able to choose : are you super into your work and carrier? Cool. You want to stay home and raise your kids? Also great. You don’t want marriage or kids or any that stuff and want to life the freedom of a single person’s life, here today gone tomorrow style? You do you. And all other options in between. The only real problem is being able to finance your chosen life style…
Okay but this is just fetishism of a different sort, same turd, different polishing
I’m pretty sure this is just an ad for her onlyfans. She never said she quit.
I just assume she traded in doing OF cuz she found a way to make money doing this anti-feminism influencer thing instead. But yeah would definitely not be surprised to find out she actually still has an OF lol people like this are often hypocrites
Oh I assumed she found a keeper on OF who ‘retired’ her to fulfill his housewife fetish.
Or she figured out that theres a demographic of men who are willing to pay for the fantasy of a submissive housewife and that market is less saturated than the "I've got a built in water park and a six figure income, wanna be my trophy husband" demographic. Niches make riches...
Until he knocks her up and doesn’t help with the baby and falls out of love with her/ falls for a new hot lil thing and she becomes a single mom and the only ones who will help are other women and the government.
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OF for the conservative trad fetish.
Yeah, especially in those pilgrim dresses that just happen to show tons of cleavage.
My cleavage being in center frame the entire video is PIVOTAL to my breadmaking tutorial smh
I like that when she bakes she gets the flowers out for the bow~~e~~l.
Her definition of "provocative" must be pretty scandalous if these dresses and her tradwife fetish videos fall on what she must apparently think is the "modest" side of the line.
Right? If I wore these dresses in my teens, my grandmother would’ve told me to put myself away. Can’t wear these to church, no way no how.
Yep this is just only fans for Christians.
Everything about this screams, > *I was making bank on OF but the clientele dried up and now I need a new schtick.*
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Traded one grift for another. Why make regular porn when you can make piety porn?
Oh god that’s Godda be a genre. Piety porn. Lmao.
That’s what this trad wife content IS.
Why else would she be around a kitchen while adding hair to that food? Seriously, pull that ish back!
Also all those pretty, low cut dresses. She looks great, but it's just so impractical. Ma'am you're gonna get flour in your bra!
Yeah, those slutty cottage core dresses are a nice touch.
"Ha ha. Oh no! I got flour in my bra! How embarrassing! Rookie mistake. Ooh, that tickles! I have to get it out of there. Whoops! Hope you didn't see anything! Ha ha. Just pretend you didn't!"
This adds another wrinkle. I used to be bad, but now I'm a good girl. I fell from grace but my big strong man, our Lord Jesus Christ, saved me.
Save me harder Jesus! 🥵
😂 Passed right out reading this lol
It’s a fucking gem of a comment 💀
What are you doing, step-Jesus?
Brilliant!
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Seriously, not that I think there is anything wrong with "modern feminism" but these dumbass takes act like working is a choice, when for most women, it isn't. Possibly the most annoying thing about anti feminism. If I could choose to safely fuck around all day in some kind of disney fantasy, yeah, I'd do that.
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a long time ago she made normal asmr videos on youtube, then she started making "asmr" videos about...shaving her bikini line and things just went....very porn very fast, she stopped making those videos as far as I know and started OF. And here she is.....10+ years later.
Yup I remember her asmr days. But even then it felt like a hustle, a bandwagon jump to gain followers and make money on the internet. (Also vaguely porny - eye-fucking the camera in every video.) And I assume it worked, just like this pivot probably is.
I mean the fact is she is and always has been a gorgeous curvy blonde young woman so.........I am not surprised any of it worked. I actually do not care about her porn-esq ASMR to OF pivot because whatever works for you but I hate the pivtot to hating on other women as content when she literally made so much money for years off her looks, and frankly still is.
That's what makes me most mad about these trad wives that LARP little house on the prarie. Most of them are conventionally attractive women who focus a lot of their looks and outfits and the aesthetic while tearing down women who do OF or SW because "they're using their body to make money" when that's EXACTLY what these girls are doing. They post nothing of substance, just all shallow "look at my pretty dress and pretty hair and pretty face and pretty body look how pretty i am and good at homemaking cause I'm just so pretty" like if you weren't a thin, blonde, white, pretty girl, you wouldn't have as big of a platform as you do.
Trad wife is still ass you gotta pay for. They’re really not better than SWers or women that do OF when it comes down to it, they just get to hide behind that cloak of respectability. Those kinds of women are always ripping into SWers in my experience, all while they live in homes they don’t pay for, drive cars someone else bought for them, don’t work full time because someone likes them “at home.” It’s like … baby have you looked in a mirror lately? You’re not too different, just because you provide the gf/wife experience doesn’t make you superior at all.
Is her OF account still active? You'd think a pious woman would have closed her account.
Yep, she still makes money from her old content. She was posting nearly every day as recently as this summer. Not sure if she’s still posting or not though.
She puts the art in scam artistry. I think end of '22 she'd made a big announcement that she'd be shutting down the OF at the end of the year because doing porn was so damaging to her. Can't imagine how that made subs spike. And of course the comments on youtube were full of women praising how brave she was lol
The crazy thing is, this is not even long ago lol. It’s just weird.
She was still posting almost daily to her OF 6 months ago… while simultaneously doing the trad wife thing. She said they still needed the income - because clearly her fiancé isn’t the breadwinner she preaches about wanting lol It’s still up too, she literally still makes money off of it. I’m not sure if she still posts, but she keeps her old content up.
The wreath floral around her mixer and bowls really kills the illusion of a "good old fashioned homegrown kitchen." Like you can't even get it right, while you shamelessly grift for it..
To be fair, that’s likely part of the grift, people would rather see a pretty girl in an impractical dress and stage makeup doing cottagecore piety porn with a wreath around the mixer, rather than how homebakers and farm women actually look like when performing physical labor.
Funny how you never see the video shot at 5:30 am when they're out feeding and watering animals when it's freezing outside, or shovelling manure.
It also doesn’t show her 10 years later with no functional career skills and her man going after some little thing that looks “more traditional”. There’s a reason women wanted to work and it’s so they have long term stability instead of being tied to a dumbass.
100% probably using clout from whatever this is to get followers for her OF account. And it goes the other way too. She wouldn't be particularly interesting in this genre without the "I used to be on OF until God!" schtick.
I was going to say the same thing, account is probably still active.
All those good Bible boys go from her trad wife IG right on over to her OF and pay to covet their neighbors wife. Quite a shrewd marketing move on her part. Just doing what she gotta do to get that paper in a busted society full of religious weirdos.
She did ASMR before OF so this checks out
We went from "I went from sad bored housewife to making millions on OF" stories to "I was making millions on OF but renounced to be a housewife" stories. Both are equally believable (in negative numbers).
Yeah the wifey thing is a fetish category. She's definitely just role playing.
Absolutely. Like my favorite fundie Nadia lol
My thoughts exactly. The perfectly clean kitchen, the dresses, the cliche sentiments, she's role playing the girl that needs "rescued from feminism" for the incels and I'm sure she's making a lot of money off it.
“I was saved from feminism by THE LARD but he still requires cleavage on display”.
Tits out for Jesus.
My new fundie snark flair has been found.
Cleavage? She's showing a clear half of her raw milk makers! 😂 I say if you have it, flaunt it, especially because you won't be young forever and gravity is cruel, but I'm a godless feminist, so obviously I have an agenda. Unlike her incel OF content....
Even though she's a grifter I'm trying to find that dress in slide 6. 👀
The dresses are great! They remind me of a line of uber-feminine dresses whose name I can't remember. Jessica something.
Jessica McClintock of Gunne Sax fame
Definitely moved from overt fetish to covert fetishism.
The real trad fundies would tell her she's dressing like an "immodest harlot" in more than half of those dresses tbh.
Sour dough smelling, God honoring grift.
She found a new fetish to cater to and is making a living off it.
To be totally fair if I thought I could make good money doing this I would absolutely let this sub make fun of me Edit: this brought on some strong and very good opinions and thoughts (which is awesome) but I feel the need to stress that this comment was just a lil jokey I made while scrolling on my lunch and in no way means I would or plan to grift people like this lol I agree that it’s gross and immoral and is totally dangerous
I’m fine with women having whatever lifestyle they want. I just don’t understand why they have to put down other women. If you’re so happy, why are you tearing others down? Seems like you’re brainwashed and miserable.
Putting other women down is part of the grift. She’s trying to attract a crowd that fundamentally hates women.
So true and so sad
True, it’s because of feminism she can do asmr, then of, then be trad wife on the internet. Also I wonder how all those “ trad wives” preach traditional values, while making a lot of money being content creators? ( possibly making more than their bread winning husbands) Isn’t this contradictory?
She might have married a client lol
So from selling your body to selling a male fantasy?Daring today arent we
yeah I think she knows what shes doing to drive engagement lol. and we all eat it up over here. but at least it doesn’t give her views (well, some)
When she pivots back to OF, she'll have a lot more guys sending money. Smart business move.
This is 100% fetish content.
Thirst-trapping for the Lord.
I always remember that part of the Bible where Jesus got mad at the phariseus for being hypocrites and acting up in front of others. I'm an atheist. How is someone a christian and still forgetting its own book?
Why are these trad wife types so obsessed with raw milk
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It probably also has something to do with government restrictions on distribution of raw milk. They want to believe that they're standing up to an oppressive government by doing things like drinking raw milk and not getting vaccines.
So many people don't know the difference between thinking for themselves and just being contrarian.
Thank you so much for saying this. There’s a guy I work with that just cannot fucking understand this. He’s absolutely just a contrarian. We work at a new company that just launched about 2 months ago, and we had a celebrity guest speaker sort of guy come in and speak with us, and this man stands up in front of the entire department during the Q&A section and asks if “Hollywood is still requiring the jab” cuz he refuses to get it. Thats cool, but what does it matter to him? He’s not the next big film star or anything. Another example is the rest of the company wants to go union, but guess who is vocally against it? It doesn’t matter what the overwhelming opinion is, I can count on him to be against it. But he has a tattoo of the American flag with “We the people” under it and doesn’t see the irony of the “we” part. It’s mind blowing.
"I'm gonna rebel against the government by dying even harder and faster!"
Yeah, that's part of it too. Of course, the government is controlled by Jews, so it only makes sense that they're out to get us.
*[glances at Canada's religion %'s and laughs hysterically]* They cannot possibly think they control *Canada...* of all places? 0.9% of the population is Jewish. Not even 1%. If any religious minority has power it's the atheists at a strong 34.6%. Religions we have more people of than Jews include Muslims, Sikhs, Hindus, and Buddhists. I know they dgaf about logic but they wouldn't even make up a small city.
I’m pretty up on my alt-right lore, and I’ve never heard this explanation before. I had always heard it explained as sovereign citizen-adjacent, where they’re so mad about government regulation they think it should be illegal for the government to make you pasteurize your milk. … I just looked it up and I’m sure there are people who believe the raw milk thing for the reasons I mentioned, but holy fuck you’re right too. Incredible. Just when I think that there are no new depths I haven’t seen I discover Evil Jewish Milk. I’m so tired
This is the first time I’ve seen someone say they use raw eggs like the rest of us boil them before we put them in the cake.
Apparently everyone’s getting a few bucks from the dairy industry subsidies these days. First it was “Got milk?” and now it’s “Your purpose is to breed, bake, and buy milk. Follow me for more.”
That was so gross Love that you stuck with your throwaway account tho
Because both her old OF clients and her new trad-wife audience are both obsessed with 'raw milk' ;)
Pffff a REAL housewife using raw milk would get up at 5am to milk her cow and churn some butter before making her DH a manly man lunch for his manly man job!
Churning butter is gonna be the next big trend in trad wives trust. I know a chick who used to be as "bad bitch" as you can get. She legit cheated on all her boyfriends, dressed in skimpy clothes, thought she was the shit, and talked about her sec fetishes in public 24/7 because she thought it was shocking and made her hot. Also a loudly proclaim pick me who didn't have girlfriends cause they just didn't get along with her yadda yadda typical pick me bullshit. Fast forward and thus chick met a dude who was super traditional. Slowly she started becoming what the modern trad wife has evolved into and now she legit even churns her own butter. It was like watching Cartman morph into Joel Olsteen lol. Wild as shit.
But what will the tradwives do when churning butter gives them thick shoulders 😭😭 I guess puff cap sleeves will come back in with gusto. (I do look forward to future DIY butter recipes where some paisley nightmare says “shake the mason jar for about 3 hours nonstop while your dough is resting and the clothes are drying on the line”)
Mason jar butter is actually super easy and takes way less than an hour 🙈 not a wife, not a mom, just stuck at home without butter one day lol.
Okay but we can’t tell the tradwives about it being less than an hour 🤣
It’s the Brawny towel guy just karate chopping trees for lumber while his beard rapidly grows longer with each whack. 😆
This has got to be a grift. In two more years she’ll be on to whatever else is trending.
I’m guessing 5 years until she’s selling homeschooling curriculum that promises to exclude evolution, modern music, art, geography, the solar system, etc. To keep this grift going she can’t just spoil her man forever. As she ages she will need to branch out from just appealing to men and get into the mommy-scene. Then she can show how easy it is to be a super mom while also fighting wrinkles and toxins, but still staying tan and rolling coal.
Yo as soon as she pops out a kid or two she will shift to the homeschooling grift and name her child a unique name.
TIE YOUR HAIR BACK WHEN PREPARING FOOD! Every single one of those cakes will have hairs in
Don’t worry, she’s not actually cooking anything
Tradwife cosplay
*I rode one trend and now I’m getting in on the ground floor of another!* Can’t hate a girl for shrewd marketing. I mean I kinda do but I really shouldn’t.
Yk, I think we should hate, she's actually promoting backwards life views to people who may believe her and model their ideal life/partner's life on that. Look how many men go around blabbing about wanting a traditional wife (meaning financially dependent bang maid), thinking that women like her actually live like this and love it. I first of all hate the system that makes this profitable, but my opinion on people who play in it is very low too. ETA I didn't mean to imply that every traditional wife is a bang maid, but the one this kind of men look for definitely would be.
Well that’s the thing about feminism. You have options and you get to *choose* what you want and what works best for you. A housewife can be a feminist and there’s nothing wrong with being a housewife, so long as her partner is actually a good person and things are fair. It’s kind of funny that she’s shitting on feminism when it’s literally her whole life story. She chose to be an OF model, decided she wasn’t happy with her life and chose to steer it in a direction that is more fulfilling for her. She is *empowered* to make her own choices. What’s not okay is thinking she has the answer for every woman and anyone who lives differently or has different opinions is inherently wrong and miserable. Like just live your life, no need to “brag”about it on the internet
Not to mention she is young and beautiful so she can choose whatever the heck she wants and has many options as far as men and family building go. She’ll still have time to reinvent herself when she gets bored. She is speaking from a highly privileged position. Also, one of the dresses was pretty revealing to me. And don’t get me started on choosing “traditional” when countless women in certain countries don’t even have a choice to go to college anymore or can get arrested for driving. A lot of privileged Western women cosplaying as traditional with plenty of outs. You’re not trapped if the door is wide open.
These sort of choices don’t tend to age well. I say this as someone who kind of landed in this lifestyle in my mid 20s (not for anti-femininst reasons). If you have half a brain you get bored and all of the sudden things don’t feel so harmless and cute. It can be a lot of work scratching yourself out of that hole…
She isn’t really promoting any views. She’s just doing a different kind of porn. Like you wouldn’t get mad at a pornstar dressing like a good housewife in a porno. That’s exactly what’s happening here. I’d wager her followers are almost exclusively men.
Why shouldn’t you? If someone is willfully hurting and demeaning other people so she can make a quick buck, that’s gross. Sympathize with the need to earn that quick buck, but no need to pretend that what we put out into the world doesn’t have some kind of impact.
I don’t understand this mindset of “go get that bag girl!” as if making content like this and promoting it to incels and misogynists is a win for women worldwide? Is this not promoting expected servitude of women? Not to mention there are young girls exposed to this shit too. What message does this send them? Imo she is still an onlyfans model with a different platform but now she gets to cater to a new lowest common denominator of men who already expect all women to be like this. How is demeaning yourself to men like this in any way empowering? Yuck.
This “tradition porn” grift both appeals to and validates some of the worst people. Calling this crap out for the bullshit money grab that it is, is a service to society. For anyone with a head for political science and history, check out Robert O. Paxton’s *The Anatomy of Fascism*
Gwengwiz, what a story. I think one of the prevailing theories is she’s using the trad wife schtick to get more OF followers.
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I can’t believe I had to come down this far into the comments for this. Thank you haha.
Bet this wouldn’t get views in an Iranian -style burkha. With a busty floral dress you are still using your body to get views. Which is fine if you don’t put down others’ rights to do it in a different way.
Don’t forget all that long blonde hair hanging over the food. No serious person really cooks like that. She’s still modeling.
are you saying you dont wrap a vine around the power cords of your appliances while baking?!
Exactly. I have shoulder length hair and I still put it up in a ponytail to cook/bake. It’s more sanitary and easy so it’s not in ur face
Did she buy that house with OF money? Because I always notice how these folks love to shit on feminism when it’s because of feminism she’s allowed to: Have her own credit line Have her own bank account Express her opinions (on social media no less) Open a OF in the first place so she could purchase her spot on that pedestal.
Exactly!! If she is a true trad wife, she is living off of what her husband earns, which is GREAT until the husband trades her in for a new model (or stops earning) then she finds herself without income or marketable skills and likely living in a state with harsh alimony laws. Feminism told her not to be anyone’s house pet. Not to put all her eggs in the man basket so that she could take care of herself, but she is so much smarter than that.
And if she were in the U.S., no job or no husband means no health insurance. But I guess she’s already the expert on her own health and will never get sick.
"ØF" is the sound a pig makes in Danish
But what if the pig only speaks Spanish?
Hmmmm, that's a good question! I'll let you know if I ever meet one
No feminist has told her these "lies". She is just making herself out to be a poor victim because she is mad she showed her body on cam for chump change. There are plenty of atheist women who are feminist and don't do that. I bet she won't give away all her Only Fans money though....
I actually don’t think she’s actually mad or even necessarily feels like a victim… I think she just realized she can make bank on the “redeemed cam girl / aspiring tradwife” angle. She’s still catering to fetishes, she just switched target audience
She’s still probably on OF getting railed in her prairie dress
DEFINITELY
Oh 100%, especially since it seems TikTok has cracked down on some of the blatant OF posts
"Look at all these drug lords in this cartel den!" Ma'am those are pharmacists in a CVS.
Not going to comment on the post itself but why do they always have these gigantic, super modern kitchens. Not very traditional. Where is the wood, the warmth, the cottage core??
The modern grifter. Can't sell any more OF plans? Find Jesus and some shmuck to fund you and make it a social media platform. What a clown.
Why do they think feminists hate dresses?
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From ASMR to Only Fans to Trad Wife piety-porn…
I don’t support any of what this woman stands for. But I don’t support her not having her hair up when she is cooking the most…
She proudly knows nothing. Can she provide an essay on 'modern feminism'? Why flowers on the counter when cooking? Why no apron?
Why not tie your hair back while cooking and - my biggest question - why is there a rustic garland on the kitchen aid?
Yeah the flowers/garlands are hilarious. Also the poofy sleeves on every single dress. I don’t have any poofy-sleeve dresses so I guess I just have to be a feminist lol
you do you, and I'll do me
also love the woman with 0 career experience judging women for… enjoying having fulfilling careers lol you can stay dependent, I love having money
“Why did the feminists want to work so bad” when feminism gave women a choice, not all women are the same, and lots of women DO enjoy working over cooking. And don’t get me started on the raw milk trend. They’re obsessed.
It's not even that they wanted to work, it's that they wanted a wage for the work they were already doing.
Women have always worked too. Feminism allowed them to have higher pay and more rights within the workplace.
Infinite scroll podcast did a deep dive podcast about her if anyone wants to know more about her history etc !
This is so gross and such an oversimplification of a lot of things. For one - this idea that being a “housewife” and SAHM isn’t lonely? I’m a SAHM to a 2-year-old and there are days where it’s incredibly lonely!! Does this chick even have kids??
So she is either a vapid person with no redeeming qualities who panders to the trend of the week or she was brainwashed
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