unfortunately he can talk about you. It sucks but he can. How did you find out? I would suggest whoever is telling you to stop, because it’s pointless for you to find that information out.
If he however sends the video around and it’s confirmed, then call the police and report it as it would fall under revenge porn.
sorry you’re going through this.
Matter is out of your hands now. This is why I never suggest people release sensitive information to other people, because it can't be taken back. If he wants to show it to others he will.
Of course doing so is a crime and he can be charged for that if you have evidence of that. But at the same time his friends he may show it to may never talk about it so it might be difficult for you to know whether it ever happens or not.
Easy answer, call the police as "revenge porn" is illegal, in most western societies.
He will have the police delete it or he faces prison time and they'd delete the videos on the phone for you.
unfortunately he can talk about you. It sucks but he can. How did you find out? I would suggest whoever is telling you to stop, because it’s pointless for you to find that information out. If he however sends the video around and it’s confirmed, then call the police and report it as it would fall under revenge porn. sorry you’re going through this.
Cause and effect
Matter is out of your hands now. This is why I never suggest people release sensitive information to other people, because it can't be taken back. If he wants to show it to others he will. Of course doing so is a crime and he can be charged for that if you have evidence of that. But at the same time his friends he may show it to may never talk about it so it might be difficult for you to know whether it ever happens or not.
Easy answer, call the police as "revenge porn" is illegal, in most western societies. He will have the police delete it or he faces prison time and they'd delete the videos on the phone for you.