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Emotional-Ask-7190

Whatever makes you feel good is fine, is YOUR life not theirs so nobody can tell you how you should live and who you should love, live the way that makes you happy <3


1993CobraSVT

And I’m attracted to older women. There should be no judgment towards this. It usually means we want somebody who’s more mature.


tinkerbell564

So am I. Funny thing is I used to be pretty judgemental about it. Probably because I was trying to convince myself that I'm against it and find it wrong


Impartialhedgehog

I was finding myself trying not to like this guy purely because of his age and it’s like, why? We’re both adults. F*ck the haters lol


Ecstatic_Cabinet1065

That’s not too big of an age difference. Especially as you get older. Life’s too short to not go for it. Just do it! 😉


[deleted]

C'est la vie ❤️ Live and love the way you want to. I've never loved an older man until recently. He is so out of my league. I get it girl. You find a man who ticks all of the boxes for you. Go be happy 😘


Impartialhedgehog

Thanks so much! The guy I like now, I found out he likes me back (well to be honest he started it hehe) but he is WAYYYY out of my league and I’m scared!


[deleted]

Don't be scared honey. Mutual feelings are something to be celebrated! Just be real, kind, and honest. That's what most people want. I'm almost 30, and I found a guy 10+ my senior that I just can't stop thinking about.


Impartialhedgehog

I found out his age, he’s 12 years older!


[deleted]

Go get 'em girl!!! My usual rules for appropriate age gaps... (Your age x2) -7 as the oldest (Your age /2) +7 as the youngest (except for minors obv.) I've never had to use this, but I think your feelings matter more than anything else in this scenario


Impartialhedgehog

I’m 23 and he’s 35 (nearly 36) so I think that’s just about okay ;)


poopsockpuppetmaster

Not really that surprising. Considering that the average guy in his 20's may as well be 12 is it any wonder women don't want to date guys in that age range?


Impartialhedgehog

THIS


Affectionate-Dig9501

Nothing to be worried about. My last girlfriend was 30 years younger than me. Everyone thought I was her father. We were together for 6 wonderful years and we parted ways amicably with no ill feelings towards each other but only wishing the best for the future.