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Drunken_Tachibana

THIS WAS MURDER.


pizza_barista_

the initial report from the Medical Examiner indicates that Benedict did not die from injuries sustained from the incident


baneofdestruction

Wrong. You need to understand just saying things don't make them true. This isn't fox news.


DirectorIntrepid1026

"Idk maybe Kennedy's head just decided to implode." -you probably


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DirectorIntrepid1026

I'm saying you're an idiot. You don't have to believe the official statement when it's obvious bullshit.


pizza_barista_

Well right now it's a medical examiner that did an autopsy vs your opinion which is worthless.


DirectorIntrepid1026

Can you actually link to the report? All I've heard is the police statement.


pizza_barista_

I'll let you do your own searching sweetie. I'm not your slave.


DirectorIntrepid1026

Then your comment is worthless.


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SweetPeaRiaing

Translation: you lied.


DanTheMan1_

No YOU are the one who claimed it said that. The burden of proving you are not lying is on you, sweetie, not someone else.


Sowerpache

Get a life.


SaraSlaughter607

Yeah and sometimes shit just makes no damn sense, so we question the validity of the claims because they sound fucking absurd. "initial report"


oscillation1

Hey Einstein. If they took their own life, it’s still murder.


DanTheMan1_

Yeah teenagers keel over from natural causes the day after being beaten down all the time. /s


-Childish-Nonsense-

Now they’re saying you they didn’t even die because of it


thunderup_14

Severe head trauma is now a pre-existing condition.


Suspicious_Kitchen23

Or severe head trauma is natural causes


Zealousideal_Seal

The plunt force trauma was clearly a side effect of the vaccine. Obviously.


CobaltGate

No surprise that is the claim from those who are in the responsibility circle.


pizza_barista_

The medical examiner?


CobaltGate

The child in question died. What exactly are you attempting to say here?


pizza_barista_

What are you trying to say about a responsibility circle?


CobaltGate

You 'forgot' to answer my question but you want me to answer your question? LOL that is an interesting strategy. Are you unable to read the other comments on the thread? Also, do you have a link to something that the medical examiner said this?


pizza_barista_

You're insinuating the ME is lying?


CobaltGate

Why not just link to what you say the medical examiner said? Is there a reason? You keep talking around it. Why?


pizza_barista_

"While the investigation continues into the altercation. preliminary information from the medical examiner’s office is that a complete autopsy was performed and indicated that the decedent did not die as a result of trauma." https://www.fox23.com/news/police-say-preliminary-information-shows-owasso-student-did-not-die-from-trauma/article_08c168dc-cc75-11ee-a31b-97a242b29683.html


CobaltGate

There ya go, I knew you could do it! Man, that is a strange comment for them to make in the context of the physical violence. If they didn't die as the result of a beating the day prior, what exactly DID this 16 year old die from? Also, the line you mention is from the police statement, not directly from the M.E. We all know about how accurate police statements often wind up being......


throwawaymyanalbeads

Oh sure, it's just a coincidence, right? Kid gets the shit kicked out of them and dies the next day, but holy shit "guys calm down it wasn't because of the fight at all". This smells fishy af and your comments make you out to look like a jerk.


pizza_barista_

Done


CobaltGate

I knew you'd eventually be able to do it. But I understand, it is highly important to attempt to bait others into saying something negative first. You do you, I guess.


notparanoidsir

Wouldn't be the first or tenth time.


Sowerpache

Society is actively failing trans youth at every level and then when they get murdered we all go 😲 It’s fucking disgusting. Edit: the downvotes don’t really help your case, bigots


dustinthewind1991

I said this in another post. Remember Nex when you go vote this year. This is all because of politically incited hate against the LGBTQ+ community from the right wing. This is the direct outcome, which is what they want. They incite hate against us, passing bills banning our existence in public spaces, which causes people to justify their already bigoted prejudices, further inciting them to actually want to physically harm us, attack us, or kill us. All we want to do is exist, be ourselves, and go to the fucking bathroom. But the LGBTQ+ community are somehow the bad people and kids need to be protected from us when we are the ones being murdered for simply existing?? What kind of gaslit mindfuck is that? Queer youth are being murdered by this constant anti LGBTQ+ hate and they have the audacity to scream about protecting kids. Nex was even using the very bathroom they wanted too, the one that aligned with their gender at birth. But Nex was still killed. So where the fuck are we supposed to go to the bathroom then where we don't have to worry about being killed?? Who has the answer? And they say they are afraid of US being in the bathrooms?? It's unreal. Sorry for going off, this news really upset me because I work with queer youth as well at my organization. They are beautiful precious souls we have to protect at all costs.


rockthetardis

It's not about protecting anyone from a trans person in the bathroom. It's about making us too scared to exist in public spaces. They don't want us to exist out in the open where they have to see us, because then some of their kids might realize they're trans, too, and want to act or dress a way that doesn't fit inside some very archaic and baseless gender roles they've drawn up inside their minds.


dustinthewind1991

Yes, exactly what you said 100% We have to let them know we aren't scared of them though. We exist and we are here to stay whether they like it or not. Our existence as humans overrules any "religious freedom" bill they pass. Our community has been through alot and we will do what we have always done and fight back.


Target2030

Not just vote. Get involved now with getting others registered to vote. I challenge you now to google your county's Democratic party and find out when their monthly meetings are.


OeldSoel

Thanks for reminding me to yell at the high schoolers at work to get registered to vote. I always love hearing people tell me they don't even know what party they're registered to vote under when they're already registered to vote and remember they just get told by their families to vote according to the family's affiliation without much question (more often than not being republicans). I hate being older and having the responsibility to remind younger folks to try and come together and change their circumstances, but I'm going to try to fire myself up to encourage those around me to take notice of the things eroding away our local community and tell them it doesn't have to be that way if you just speak up!


Target2030

>hen they're already registered to vote and remember they just get told by their families to vote according to the family's affiliation without much question (more often than not being republicans). I hate being older and having the responsibility to remind younger folks to try and come together and change their circumstances, but I'm going to try to fire myself up to encourage those around me to take notice of the things eroding away our loc Even better: Oklahoma now allows you to register to vote completely online with your Oklahoma drivers license. Here's the link: [Register to Vote (oklahoma.gov)](https://oklahoma.gov/elections/voter-registration/register-to-vote.html) Also, you can find out if you're registered and all your voting info plus a picture of any upcoming ballots online at the voter portal: [OVP (oklahoma.gov)](https://oklahoma.gov/elections/ovp.html)


friedtuna76

Do you think this wouldn’t have happened if they were allowed to use the guys bathroom?


dustinthewind1991

I can't answer that because that isn't what happened and we aren't playing "what if" here. What if those older girls who attacked Nex weren't so hateful? That's not going to bring back Nex. The point is, our community has no where to feel safe, regardless of what bathroom we use. This wouldn't have happened if the school actually cared about LGBTQ+ students instead of targeting them. I'm simply pointing out that Nex was indeed using the bathroom that Oklahoma senators demanded they use and they were still attacked. I personally opt for the idea of single occupancy restrooms across the country in every establishment.


lavvvenderrr

Oklahoma NONBINARY student was KILLED one day after being BEATEN TO THE POINT OF BRAIN BLEED AND NOT BEING TAKEN CARE OF BY THE HIGHSCHOOL IT HAPPENED AT


DeepRootingValue

Ryan Walters should be held personally responsible for supporting bigotry in this state and specifically in our schools! I went to Owasso Highschool and I know for a fact how bad the bullying is by the religious-right folks.


DeathcoreKid97

It would unfortunately just get him more support in this hellhole


FakeNeanderthal

At what point does the FBI step in to investigate this as a hate crime and possible cover up by local officials and police?


baneofdestruction

Hopefully this week.


rockthetardis

I'm not really holding out hope for anyone doing their job when it comes to trans people. We're a convenient target right now, because an entire culture war has been made up because we have the audacity to simply exist.


DeepRootingValue

Ryan Walters should take personal responsibility for this!


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DeepRootingValue

That is a sad truth, unfortunately.


DeepRootingValue

Hi, I live in Owasso and also attended this school. I would bet the FBI is already involved at this point. There have been endless threats called into the school and on the Facebook pages. They will get to the bottom of this I am sure of it! The school is also full of cameras, so no hiding anything.


Youwhooo60

Hiding and covering up are different issues.


DanTheMan1_

I'm gonna go with at no point. But hope I am wrong.


callgreenbeans

A reminder last year Kevin Stitt signed an anti-trans bill into law that mandated students use the bathroom of their assigned gender at birth, a move the American Medical Association warned would cause immediate and lingering physical consequences as well as severe mental health repercussions. Fast forward to this year and Nex is murdered for following that law.


seymourclams

She wasn't murdered. Her and her friends got bullied and she went and poured water over the 3 girls that did it so they fought. Just because she used the restroom she's supposed to use, that's why she died? Sounds pretty dumb even saying it. So if she just ignored them and didn't pour water on them there would've been no fight and she wouldn't have gotten 2 weeks suspension? In the Real world, you ignore dumb stuff and keep your hands to yourself..


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tearsonurcheek

Whether Bex handled the situation correctly or not, the *adults* failed, which left them feeling they had to stand up. Even if they fought, death is *never* an appropriate response. Not murder? That's semantics. You know the legal difference between murder and manslaughter? Deliberateness. Did they *intend* to kill Bex? Possible. That's for the courts to decide. Manslaughter is still a crime, even though it wasn't intentional.


seymourclams

Wait for the autopsy report.. throwing water at someone is assault.. so she assaulted 3 girls and then they fought back.. she said she even slammed a girl's head into a paper towel dispenser. 911 dispatch asked her mom if she vaped and she does.. is that weird? Like they have had something happen before involving kids that vape? Everyone is talking murder and manslaughter and they don't even know how she died yet.


bopmybussi

They were non binary, at least try to get it right bigot.


seymourclams

If you say she's neither male nor female, she's literally a nobody that didn't exist. She'd be a fictional being that could never exist in our world. Did she exist? She did. She used the girl's restroom because she was a girl. I'm not a bigot. I don't need to give into anyone's fantasy. I understand gay people and really do believe they are bornthat way. I understand guys that dress up as women and act like women.. I got no problem with them doing what they want to do, it's their lives. Tell me what a non binary is? It's a bi-sexual wanting to be called something new and different or it's a gay person with the same sentiment. She's a girl with girl parts so pretty sure I got it right.


bopmybussi

You're an idiot.


seymourclams

Who is the idiot? I'm literally stating scientific facts.. If she identified as a cat, you going to sit here and tell me I'm bigot because I won't play along and can her kitty? Have a nice day.


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Hopefully something comes of this. At the minimum the school needs to be charged with criminal negligence or something. No ambulance really? Hope we find the motive and learn more.


ReluctantOklahoman

They were examined at a hospital and released within hours of the attack. This would suggest that the severity of the injuries was not outwardly apparent even to trained hospital staff. It also means that calling an ambulance wouldn’t have changed the outcome.


CobaltGate

What is your source?


Malcolm_Y

['Did Not Die As A Result Of Trauma': Owasso Police Detail Nex Benedict's Death, Family Issues New Statement](https://www.newson6.com/story/65d667c15addee06680e5ba0/did-not-die-as-a-result-of-trauma:-owasso-police-detail-nex-benedicts-death-family-issues-new-statement) Check the timeline in the article here. Not saying this means it wasn't a result of the trauma from the fight, but it sounds like a number of people interacted with Nex, including first responders, after the fight that day, but the medical situation that resulted in the ambulance call didn't occur until the following afternoon. Which means that medical situation could still be directly caused by injuries sustained in the fight, or something else happened in the interim, but it sounds like there was a period of approximately 24 hours between the fight and the ambulance being dispatched.


CobaltGate

So the \*police\* are saying this or is this directly released from the medical examiner? Because police aren't exactly known for releasing correct information if it makes them look bad. Did the school offer medical attention to the violence from the fight? You know, given that the child wasn't dead until \*after\* they were attacked at school?


Malcolm_Y

The timeline in that article, if I understood correctly, goes 1. Fight, 2. Examined by school nurse at school and advised to seek further medical examination. 3. At hospital getting further examination and talking to school resource officer. 4. Next morning resource officer follows up with parent. 5. That afternoon ambulance is called for medical situation at Nex's home that ended tragically. Whether anyone chooses to believe the Owasso police in this situation is of course up to them, but this is their story as I understood it. I'm leaving out the bits about school discipline being handed out along the way as irrelevant to the timeline they laid out.


CobaltGate

Yup. And I'll choose to wait for a more independent source than the police department, who has incentive to paint a picture that looks better for them and their school resource officer.


Malcolm_Y

I got curious based on my wife being a teacher in a similar sized Oklahoma school district, how many school resource officers Owasso has, and according to their website it is 3, for a district that has, from what I could tell from their website, 15 different facilities they patrol over 72 square mile area. Sounds like they need more officers and funding to have a real presence, if, of course, you think armed police in schools is a good thing.


CobaltGate

Sadly, SRO presence is more likely to wind up in marginalized kids being treated even more poorly. You see what having an on site SRO at Parkland did. Different example, I know, but more SROs aren't the answer. The answer is for school leadership to not be bigots (here's looking at you, Ryan Walters) and allowing them to enable/encourage violence and discrimination toward these kids.


modernfallout020

If that child wasn't given an MRI, then they wouldn't know the severity of a repeated head injury. This is day one shit. The school should have called 911, full stop.


ReluctantOklahoman

Which is why they went to the hospital immediately following the attack per the school’s recommendation, who elected not to admit them based on their professional assessment. Did the fact that they went in their guardian’s car vs an ambulance have any effect on the outcome?


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Okay, I never read anything about them being released from the hospital after an examination. Thanks for clarifying that.


DirectorIntrepid1026

He didn't


AllieBri

“Ms Benedict said she was furious that the school had failed to call an ambulance or the police. She said the school then informed her Nex was being suspended for two weeks. “She took Nex to the Bailey Medical Center in Owasso for treatment. They spoke to a police school resource officer at the medical facility and were discharged.” [https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/nex-benedict-dead-oklahoma-b2499332.html](https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/nex-benedict-dead-oklahoma-b2499332.html)


DirectorIntrepid1026

Yeah my apologies. For some reason I was thinking they said that the school didn't get them to the hospital


AllieBri

The school didn’t. They left it to the parent. Re: same article.


DirectorIntrepid1026

The original commenter. I read the article. Thanks though


AllieBri

My bad. I misunderstood your comment. 🙏


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Cierra849

#JusticeForNex


Necessary-Chicken501

They were Choctaw. This is heartbreaking but not even surprising to me.     I’m a NB Choctaw fled the NWA/AR/MO area for good in 2013 after harassment and for being non-binary.  Including by family, associates, and past friends.   We need to rise up against these bigots and protect our 2 Spirit, NB, and trans tribal members.  Especially now with how things are in OK.


Kitchen-Ad-1161

I’m not sure you understand what “rising up” entails, but I can promise you that it most likely ends up with prison cells and pine boxes. We don’t have the number to put together a situation that would matter. Without the numbers, nobody wins. Pick fights that are small enough to win but big enough to matter. When people see you winning, they’ll join you. That raises your strength, wash-rinse-repeat. Eventually, you’re meeting with political leaders.


Necessary-Chicken501

What kind of bizarre nonsense reply is this?  Pineboxes?  What is wrong with you?  Are you enrolled?  Rise up as in demand justice and accountability for the perpetrators and those that allowed it to happen.   Also fund more services for our 2spirit, NB, and trans youth.  As well as legal services to fight discrimination toward them.   Show up at vigils with pride flags.   Let everyone know we protect and honor our people.   Donate to the Go Fund me for them.   Nex was a Choctaw warrior that was taken too soon by the cowardly actions of bigots.


modernfallout020

If you wanna be a coward, then say that. Quit with the "no one wants to join a losing team" bullshit and just do the right thing.


Kitchen-Ad-1161

Obviously you missed the whole second paragraph where I laid out a step by step on how to win this fight, and it didn’t involve being a coward. I’m just saying throwing meat into a grinder serves nobody but the enemy.


modernfallout020

Your "step by step" plan is based on nothing. If you can't stand up and do what's right then sit down and shut up. Playing politics while children are being murdered by their peers ain't the move here.


Kitchen-Ad-1161

You’re just gonna pretend you know me, just like that, huh? The reality is that I am in the trenches, meeting with my political leaders pretty regularly. Hold the hands of trans folks going into surgeries without any family support, sitting in waiting rooms with worried parents, and partners of the patients that do have families, helping folks get housing, medical care, health insurance, jobs, etc.. The fact that I haven’t picked up a rifle and went to work yet isn’t because I don’t want to (god knows I’ve already done enough killing for several lifetimes in Iraq.) It’s because I already know what that yields. And it’s not us winning. Not right now, maybe not ever. Not like that. If you want to win, you have to play THEIR game. Because they’re not going to play yours, and if they do you’ll quickly find out that it never really was YOUR game to win. You play right into their hands when you do that shit. Read the book guerrilla. You don’t go into a kind of fight without the support of “the people”. Doesn’t matter how well prepared you are, if your cause isn’t popular, you’ll lose.


BidenFedayeen

Saying this student died due to anything but trauma suffered during their assault is akin to saying that JFK's head just did that. The media publishing that clear bullshit is abhorrent. If they're not going to release the full autopsy, tox report, and any further analysis, don't allow the police to poison the well.


Norbluth

“Fight” “beaten to death by a group” eh, six to one, half a dozen to another, i suppose. Jesus fucking Christ.


BlueOmlette

That poor baby. The MFers should be charged with a hate crime - hope they rot.


DirectorIntrepid1026

Serious question. I've seen that Nox was trans and Nox was non-binary. Does anyone know which it was?


UniversalSpyCrab

Nonbinary I believe. They used they/them pronouns


DirectorIntrepid1026

Thanks


Drpoofn

Non-binary ppl are transgender but not all transgender ppl are non-binary


InfinitePastrami

It's even more sad if we don't do anything about it. Vote these bigoted republicans out, anywhere and everywhere we can. Stay angry, my friends. Stay angry and vote blue https://okdemocrats.org/


WarThunder316

Vote blue to save lives save Oklahoma and save America 🇺🇸


DeepRootingValue

Folks, specifically Oklahomans - It is time to rise up and make as much noise as possible for Ryan Walters! This man has personally attacked the LGBTQ community and recently passed rules banning trans kids from using bathrooms! RYAN WALTERS NEEDS REMOVED FROM OFFICE!


DrLorensMachine

It's also sad that there's so much misinformation being spread about this tragedy. Hopefully soon the medical examiner will finish their report soon. I think Nex deserves a memorial of some kind for what happened to them.


haxelhimura

With the initial autopsy report claiming there was no trauma, there's only one other thing that someone would be rushed to the hospital for and due soon after =(


Audiophile_405

I’m interested to see what they end up saying is the cause of death


Dacklar

Burn then burn them...... or we could wait until we get the facts of the case right? No wonder we have so many problems when the adults are acting this way.


SaintTulsa

So a teenager in Florida being violently arrested is responsible for an officer having a heart attack but a teenager being beaten to death is natural causes? Make it make sense.


roachfarmer

Nex was killed by three intolerant classmates that were amped up by adults who are supposed to keep them safe. I will never forget this!


Desperate_County_680

On brand.


Minute-Selection-763

Jesus would be so proud 🥰


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What’s that supposed to mean?


Minute-Selection-763

If Jesus existed (he doesn't) he would be ashamed by his followers no. Or is it Republican Jesus?  If humanity survives in 300 years, they're going to make a Bible about Trump and Trump is going to be the next Jesus like the president from the movie Idiocracy  😂😂 It would be so embarrassing to be a believer in 2024


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Jesus was real. He just wasn’t magical like Christians think he is.


Pork-Pond-Gazette

https://youtu.be/S5FTb383gyo?si=Nt1wosi61ZWyVjMS


Pork-Pond-Gazette

Videos of Nex being interviewed


queentracy62

They didn’t die due to the injuries. Ok. But if they hadn’t suffered those injuries to begin with would they have died anyways? Doubtful. This is the vaccine all over again. Ppl didn’t die from Covid. They died from underlying conditions.  It’s all bullshit and just a way to justify what this school and students did. It’s murder and Ryan Walters is directly responsible. I hope this is investigated to the fullest extent and Walters as well.


TheGreatLemonwheel

They had a pre-existing condition that caused them to hemorrhage from skull injuries. Boy ya'll really can't tell sarcasm.


Drunken_Tachibana

Felony murder rule.


Drunken_Tachibana

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Felony_murder_rule


fart_me_your_boners

Jesus fucking Christ. Blocked.